"Trade" just want what they can get from a person such as: money, a place to live, etc. The best way to deal with "trade" men is to don't deal with them at all.
I'm still baffled about why people still live like this. Just be honest! I'm currently on a celibacy journey and I can't begin to tell you how many persons I turned away just off of their energy. Cheaters, liars, DL men, etc.... I may never date again. No one tells the truth and I'm over it.
Same here. I found out my husband was on the DL in 2013 after I found him dead in our home. He was murdered by one of the men he was hooking up with from Craigslist.
Yup. Classic behavior of my ex. He was down with the trade, running through multiple women just to prove to me he wasn't gay. Smh All the pieces came together. Good luck to the next female. 😂
"Some are out here afraid, some are out here insecure, and some are confused" And some just get off on the sheer deceit as well. Some enjoy the fact that they can mess around with other men and women at the same time and still get the undue respect of being a supposedly straight man while laughing behind everyone's backs and congratulating themselves on playing everybody. They like the fact that women and feminine/out gay men can't hide our vulnerability and they can wield that power over us because society has a foolish disdain for us.
Exactly! 100% of everything you said is true. The fact of the matter is closeted people like a life of trickery no matter how they try to mask it. It's one thing to keep things private and another thing to lie.
Mr.Poon, I greatly appreciate uou and your video definitely an 👁 opener. I watch N' learn so that I won't be judgemental about something I have no control over now I know what to look for when my girlfriend so called guy friends try N' push up on me way to keep on doing uou Mr.Poon may the only God bless uou Blackman. 💯🙏🏾🤝🏾✊🏾👊🏾
@@nothingbutnet6225 Women spread HIV Thru vaginal sex as well! Probably equally as much; from the beginning. When HIV first started the government made sure that it was never told to the public, fear of heterosexual ppl would panic. So they've pushed the platforms of only men can spread the disease for almost 10 years.
c rich Um Sir it’s not personal and what I’m saying is there are many ways to spread HIV but the easiest way to get it sexually is anal,, biologically proven,, I’m not a gay basher!!
i don’t know, straight guys get along with me pretty well. one time i was flirting with my homie tho and some guy got all mad at me haha. no one paying attention to him anyways. it’s always the ugly bois that be doing the most lol. 😂
Hi mr. Poon hope all is well stay safe. I want to comment on what you were saying about the trade and how they jump from being with a guy sexually and then 20 other women. And it sounds like you are describing a narcissist that's exactly how they get down and they married women and have kids 2 camouflage they're down low Behavior because they're very concerned about what other people think of them especially people in high rank depend on the job and careers they have. So when you get the time look up the behaviors of a narcissist and there you'll see your very Point brought to you live In Living Color. But thank you for the tea it was very informative
It is a difference between dl and trade...trade just want wat they can get out a person...dl is a lifestyle...trade can go years without messing with a man or they are experts at hiding it....dl men know they gay and just choose to keep it on the dl
I had a “trade” a few years ago. Meet him at the gas station. Long story short when we got back to my place, he put his ankles behind his head. I thought he would be a top but I enjoyed myself 🤷🏽♂️
so me and my partner has been together for a year and a half. were both verse (im usually verse when single, anyway). i have been the bottom for most parts in our relationship. I finally topped him once. And I asked (just in case he wanted to be a top only) what do you think about our sex? is there any thing we need to change (trying to be smooth with it) and just said "IM VERSATILE" Question: how would you partake in that? should I just go back to being a BOTTOM majority?
I respect anyone that's doing their best to speak out there's no better how long they speak that's a human being stop the hating and start loving a little more okay hello America
To them all men are gay lol but also they only want “ strait men” aka other gay men lol . They try to make it seem as if there is not strait men , and they hate me who are actually strait and always say that those men secretly want a gay man i feel bad for strait men this is so weird
🤔 One of the repercussions of COVID-19 is its impact on men's sexual health. COVID-19 infection is expected to be associated with an increased likelihood of erectile dysfunction (ED). Considering the high transmissibility of COVID-19, ED could be a concerning consequence for a large segment of the population.
I disagree about one thing. There has been cases where DL really falls for you.But if the relationship goes forward, It might be toxic.Then again maybe not.But it will stay a secret.At the most 1-2 on his side.He might let know.Only because they would help him out to remain on the DL.They can also be Clingy.
You have women who fall in that category as well. They marry men but are truly lesbian and not even bi. And correct me if I’m wrong but on the west we always used trade as a man who is either gay/bi but looks like a heterosexual. It isn’t that he’s DL but just pass or is assumed to be heterosexual because he isn’t flamboyant and/or doesn’t have feminine ways
Y’all say women hate you, but even in a conversation with you in your kind, something that has nothing to do with women. Your sitting with anger for no reason, I’m your throat, talking about sis after everything you say, when you are talking to your own community. Woman had nothing to do with anything your saying. Woman y’all need to watch out for this. These grow hair on they’re face women hate you
That’s when I realized he was reflecting because that’s exactly how DL men are w them lmfaoo literally . Gay men hate women so much why can’t they just focus on the gay life and other gay people ? They obsess over strait people and call DL men strait men when they are also gay just to feel they are “competing” w women . Never go to a gay men for advice if you’re a women hell if you’re a man either . Their minds circulate around women and how they can take the place of women , it’s literally what it’s all abt w them
If you like/want to sexually engage with a man and/or 'd - and have a penis, you're gay. Period. You might be bisexual and gay but that's still gay. Stop it with the denial and take responsibility for your sexuality. I hate how Americans think they can change the meaning of words and facts based on their emotional response to an uncomfortable fact, shame, or denial. I think it ties into the whole racism thing, too. People just don't want to admit what they're doing, have been doing, or want to do.
@Paul Lunsford You gay and bisexual. Really obvious from the outside looking in but maybe less obvious to you because of your own internal conflict. Deal with it dude because most heterosexual women don't want to emotionally invest in a man who is secretly thirsting for d, in any capacity. It's basically a ticking betrayal time bomb. Your loyalty is already divided, you just waiting for the opportunity. That's the nature of intent.
Does anybody know what he was talking about...enlighten me, was expecting some type of lesson of sorts but all I got was somebody talking in circles, dipping slipping and sliding all over the freaking place. 🤷🏽♀️🤪
My best friend boyfriend hardly talks to me, when ever I'm in the room he will ignore me, i don't portrait no feminine trait.., but what i think, the fact that I'm not with a woman, my closes friend is a girl, he even once ask me when I'm i going to have a kid. Make me wonder My other best friend boy friend only met once and he actually like talking to me
Why do you need to have your friends boyfriend notice you??? Are you her (real) friend or are you hoping to push up on her man? I'm asking for anybody who might read your comment. You come across as needing ATTENTION 🤪🤛🏽 The punch is because you're not real on your friendship game. Don't wreck Yourself.
@@skeric87uhh noo... 🤦♂️🤦♂️ what i mean.. there are other ppl who will come over and he will talk to them, even hang out with her male friends, etc.. even one of her step brother who recently came back, he started coming over and they bonded quickly .. but with me.. the most I would get is a hello and thats that. I would find myself trying to initiate a conversation but I stop doing that. Maybe I interpret the word wrong by saying take notice.. what I mean is like he undermined/ignored me. I'm basically trying to figure out why certain men like him act a certain way. Specially when they have an idea that u might be bi/gay
@@skeric87 and you right you a lil Attention Seeker cause I didn't say anything that was out the way to make anyone think so.. cause it seem like thats the only thing u notice about my comment smfh 😒 🤦
@@len1045678 He doesn't like you, He doesn't have to give you a reason, He doesn't have to validate you. Who do you think you are🙄. Guess what...there might be a lot of folks that don't like you, What are you going to keep bitching and whining about it. Seems like you're going to continue being an attention hound. I'm sure some folks you know have told you how much oxygen you suck out of the room. You're a guy bitching about being (by your own admission) "I'm needy" Good Lord always doing the most huh. If you think that shit is cute... Guess again. Idgaf What you might come back with because surely you think we have some type of connective dialogue going... I'm going to ignore your 2-year-old self. Disgustingly ignorant on purpose. 🙄🤜🏽🥴🤛🏽 10 X rapidly.
@@len1045678 Because I call on the fact that you were a whiny little boy... Doesn't take a Rhodes Scholar to see that...and that's why you probably ONLY have a handful of friends. Grow the fuck up, I'LL BET A COW'S MOTHER...A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE WAITING ON YOU TO DO THAT.
Okay so I think my baby dad is gay or bi unsure on which he likes men his fb only gay men an gay women on it so I'm like wow an during sex he do back shots but I thinks my baby dad is a trade
Sexuality is a gift from God. Church/religion uses Scripture to justify hatred, bigotry and prejudice. Unfortunately, misguided religious/church people use theology to justify ignorance.
Sir So far you haven't explained how to spot a DL man. It's 8 minutes and 6 seconds in and you started to and you stopped I don't know whether you lost your train of thought or you just confused and all over the place. Sometime before making a video right out what you want to say and don't jump around from place to place because you're sounding flipping all over the place with this video. Like I said I'm 8 minutes and 6 seconds and I'm not going to listen to the rest cuz I don't think you're going to talk about it because you lost your train of thought either you high AF, bipolar or both.
"Trade" just want what they can get from a person such as: money, a place to live, etc. The best way to deal with "trade" men is to don't deal with them at all.
@JB's SoulFull Eats Thank you I'm so sick of these guys using terminology they clearly Don't know the history of
@JB's SoulFull Eats Some gay guys told me, trade is a gay man trying to look straight. I'm so confused. 🤷🏿♀️
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@JB's SoulFull Eats awe another hater, what a shame
@@jbssoulfulleats2083 the meaning of the term has since evolved
I'm still baffled about why people still live like this. Just be honest! I'm currently on a celibacy journey and I can't begin to tell you how many persons I turned away just off of their energy. Cheaters, liars, DL men, etc.... I may never date again. No one tells the truth and I'm over it.
I haven't dated in almost 5 years. I'm good 😂
Same here. I found out my husband was on the DL in 2013 after I found him dead in our home. He was murdered by one of the men he was hooking up with from Craigslist.
There are some excellent people. Whatever your preferences are, be honest about what you want.
Emotional damage 🤯
Yup. Classic behavior of my ex. He was down with the trade, running through multiple women just to prove to me he wasn't gay. Smh All the pieces came together. Good luck to the next female. 😂
It's been 5 hours and I still don't know how to spot them. Wrap it up dude!!
🤣🤣
Thanks youuuuu sheesh
Omg, he didn't give any insight on how to spot one. Smh....... 11min and someodd seconds of my life just went down the drain
I need some insight into what DL men discuss with each other about the women they're dealing with.
Bottom line they just want to make sure you never find out
I would appreciate having insight on This as well.
Thank you for putting this out there ! You did a great job speaking on this topic ❤️
"Some are out here afraid, some are out here insecure, and some are confused"
And some just get off on the sheer deceit as well. Some enjoy the fact that they can mess around with other men and women at the same time and still get the undue respect of being a supposedly straight man while laughing behind everyone's backs and congratulating themselves on playing everybody. They like the fact that women and feminine/out gay men can't hide our vulnerability and they can wield that power over us because society has a foolish disdain for us.
Exactly! 100% of everything you said is true. The fact of the matter is closeted people like a life of trickery no matter how they try to mask it. It's one thing to keep things private and another thing to lie.
Thank you for telling your story!
I’m almost in tears they don’t want to accept the fact of what’s deep inside them so sad 😞 😢
Mr.Poon, I greatly appreciate uou and your video definitely an 👁 opener. I watch N' learn so that I won't be judgemental about something I have no control over now I know what to look for when my girlfriend so called guy friends try N' push up on me way to keep on doing uou Mr.Poon may the only God bless uou Blackman. 💯🙏🏾🤝🏾✊🏾👊🏾
Plenty of women on the DL that don't get the same backlash, why is that?
Because women on women is not spreading hiv to everyone
@@nothingbutnet6225 Women spread HIV Thru vaginal sex as well! Probably equally as much; from the beginning. When HIV first started the government made sure that it was never told to the public, fear of heterosexual ppl would panic. So they've pushed the platforms of only men can spread the disease for almost 10 years.
Jonathan Reyes THAT PART!!!!!! If you GAY BE GAY!!! Do not mislead a woman.
@@cclintrich that is true with man and woman but woman on woman is very hard to pass it. The chances are very slim
c rich Um Sir it’s not personal and what I’m saying is there are many ways to spread HIV but the easiest way to get it sexually is anal,, biologically proven,, I’m not a gay basher!!
i don’t know, straight guys get along with me pretty well. one time i was flirting with my homie tho and some guy got all mad at me haha. no one paying attention to him anyways. it’s always the ugly bois that be doing the most lol. 😂
Omg!! You still didn’t tell how to spot a trade dafuq🤔
Yes he did they swing both ways but overcompensate with hypermasculinity
I’m right here
Great video!
This video made me holler and cackle. 🤣😂🤣😆
This video was spot on
I live for this they will break your heart
Okayyyy sissss!
Great awareness thanks 🙏
Thank You For Sharing!!!!
I'm 58 years old I've been doing this my whole entire life you spoke truth young man a wonderful video
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lol wtf
Hi mr. Poon hope all is well stay safe. I want to comment on what you were saying about the trade and how they jump from being with a guy sexually and then 20 other women. And it sounds like you are describing a narcissist that's exactly how they get down and they married women and have kids 2 camouflage they're down low Behavior because they're very concerned about what other people think of them especially people in high rank depend on the job and careers they have. So when you get the time look up the behaviors of a narcissist and there you'll see your very Point brought to you live In Living Color. But thank you for the tea it was very informative
Period
On point!
Ok bye this a storytime not a know how🙄🙄🙄🙄
This vid is actually about the behaviors of a trade.
It is a difference between dl and trade...trade just want wat they can get out a person...dl is a lifestyle...trade can go years without messing with a man or they are experts at hiding it....dl men know they gay and just choose to keep it on the dl
I agree with you 110% honey cuz that is exactly how trade Acts been there done that you go honey
I’m a trade not DL
Nice video
Hello 👋 love ❤️
New family member here ‼️‼️
I need a part 2
Thanks for sharing
Subscribed!
You took wayyyyyyyyy too long to get to the point🤷
Well said
I had a “trade” a few years ago. Meet him at the gas station. Long story short when we got back to my place, he put his ankles behind his head. I thought he would be a top but I enjoyed myself 🤷🏽♂️
😀😂😂😂👍
Omg 😱
That's usually how it be the masculine acting ones be bottoms 🤣
so me and my partner has been together for a year and a half. were both verse (im usually verse when single, anyway). i have been the bottom for most parts in our relationship. I finally topped him once. And I asked (just in case he wanted to be a top only) what do you think about our sex? is there any thing we need to change (trying to be smooth with it) and just said "IM VERSATILE" Question: how would you partake in that? should I just go back to being a BOTTOM majority?
Love you, Poon!
this man speaks facts! i respect you for ur honesty!
Billy cobb think i didnt know he was downlow
They all trade.full of games and backstabbing with your firends. Be alert.poon your too cute.
Preach baby!!! I love your energy your testimony your truth!!!! Love ya love stay beautiful and blessed
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Damn! Get to the point already!
Impatient boo
If you want to learn don’t rush the teacher understand the essence of the story
Maybe "coming out" is not for everybody.
Did he ever address How you can Spot. Down Low Brother or Did I Miss it?
Never addressed it at all- just a venting story time. 😒
Be true to yourself. You don't have to prove yourself to imperfect people. They don't pay your bills, they know they want some😂
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Some people like them cucumbers pickled
Yes the real deal in these streets is Shaka in Crenshaw
Yes
I respect anyone that's doing their best to speak out there's no better how long they speak that's a human being stop the hating and start loving a little more okay hello America
So is bisexual not a thing?
To them all men are gay lol but also they only want “ strait men” aka other gay men lol . They try to make it seem as if there is not strait men , and they hate me who are actually strait and always say that those men secretly want a gay man i feel bad for strait men this is so weird
@Be REAL that wasn’t the question though. It’s a dangerous risk yes, but is bisexual a thing ?
🤔 One of the repercussions of COVID-19 is its impact on men's sexual health. COVID-19 infection is expected to be associated with an increased likelihood of erectile dysfunction (ED). Considering the high transmissibility of COVID-19, ED could be a concerning consequence for a large segment of the population.
Oo k. !
CORRECTION: FILLED WITH THE HOLY GHOST SPIRIT
I disagree about one thing. There has been cases where DL really falls for you.But if the relationship goes forward, It might be toxic.Then again maybe not.But it will stay a secret.At the most 1-2 on his side.He might let know.Only because they would help him out to remain on the DL.They can also be Clingy.
You have women who fall in that category as well. They marry men but are truly lesbian and not even bi.
And correct me if I’m wrong but on the west we always used trade as a man who is either gay/bi but looks like a heterosexual. It isn’t that he’s DL but just pass or is assumed to be heterosexual because he isn’t flamboyant and/or doesn’t have feminine ways
Y’all say women hate you, but even in a conversation with you in your kind, something that has nothing to do with women. Your sitting with anger for no reason, I’m your throat, talking about sis after everything you say, when you are talking to your own community. Woman had nothing to do with anything your saying. Woman y’all need to watch out for this. These grow hair on they’re face women hate you
“My kind” lmao
That’s when I realized he was reflecting because that’s exactly how DL men are w them lmfaoo literally . Gay men hate women so much why can’t they just focus on the gay life and other gay people ? They obsess over strait people and call DL men strait men when they are also gay just to feel they are “competing” w women . Never go to a gay men for advice if you’re a women hell if you’re a man either . Their minds circulate around women and how they can take the place of women , it’s literally what it’s all abt w them
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DL and Trade aren't really the same.. and not all DL men are gay.
If you like/want to sexually engage with a man and/or 'd - and have a penis, you're gay. Period. You might be bisexual and gay but that's still gay. Stop it with the denial and take responsibility for your sexuality. I hate how Americans think they can change the meaning of words and facts based on their emotional response to an uncomfortable fact, shame, or denial.
I think it ties into the whole racism thing, too. People just don't want to admit what they're doing, have been doing, or want to do.
If you like d u gay
@Paul Lunsford gay dudes do give the best head
@@jonathanreyes6326 BS
@Paul Lunsford You gay and bisexual. Really obvious from the outside looking in but maybe less obvious to you because of your own internal conflict. Deal with it dude because most heterosexual women don't want to emotionally invest in a man who is secretly thirsting for d, in any capacity. It's basically a ticking betrayal time bomb. Your loyalty is already divided, you just waiting for the opportunity. That's the nature of intent.
Some people need to mind their business
It's so funny how the thumbnail gives away the sexual preference of some of these men lol
Does anybody know what he was talking about...enlighten me, was expecting some type of lesson of sorts but all I got was somebody talking in circles, dipping slipping and sliding all over the freaking place. 🤷🏽♀️🤪
My best friend boyfriend hardly talks to me, when ever I'm in the room he will ignore me, i don't portrait no feminine trait.., but what i think, the fact that I'm not with a woman, my closes friend is a girl, he even once ask me when I'm i going to have a kid. Make me wonder
My other best friend boy friend only met once and he actually like talking to me
Why do you need to have your friends boyfriend notice you??? Are you her (real) friend or are you hoping to push up on her man? I'm asking for anybody who might read your comment. You come across as needing ATTENTION 🤪🤛🏽
The punch is because you're not real on your friendship game. Don't wreck Yourself.
@@skeric87uhh noo... 🤦♂️🤦♂️ what i mean.. there are other ppl who will come over and he will talk to them, even hang out with her male friends, etc.. even one of her step brother who recently came back, he started coming over and they bonded quickly .. but with me.. the most I would get is a hello and thats that. I would find myself trying to initiate a conversation but I stop doing that. Maybe I interpret the word wrong by saying take notice.. what I mean is like he undermined/ignored me. I'm basically trying to figure out why certain men like him act a certain way. Specially when they have an idea that u might be bi/gay
@@skeric87 and you right you a lil Attention Seeker cause I didn't say anything that was out the way to make anyone think so.. cause it seem like thats the only thing u notice about my comment smfh 😒 🤦
@@len1045678 He doesn't like you, He doesn't have to give you a reason, He doesn't have to validate you. Who do you think you are🙄. Guess what...there might be a lot of folks that don't like you, What are you going to keep bitching and whining about it. Seems like you're going to continue being an attention hound. I'm sure some folks you know have told you how much oxygen you suck out of the room. You're a guy bitching about being (by your own admission) "I'm needy" Good Lord always doing the most huh. If you think that shit is cute... Guess again. Idgaf What you might come back with because surely you think we have some type of connective dialogue going... I'm going to ignore your 2-year-old self. Disgustingly ignorant on purpose. 🙄🤜🏽🥴🤛🏽 10 X rapidly.
@@len1045678 Because I call on the fact that you were a whiny little boy... Doesn't take a Rhodes Scholar to see that...and that's why you probably ONLY have a handful of friends. Grow the fuck up, I'LL BET A COW'S MOTHER...A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE WAITING ON YOU TO DO THAT.
Facts!!!!!!!!!!!!
I couldn’t listen to more than three minutes of this
Lol why?
@@cjones9773 Because he was stalling like fuck.
Okay so I think my baby dad is gay or bi unsure on which he likes men his fb only gay men an gay women on it so I'm like wow an during sex he do back shots but I thinks my baby dad is a trade
Ok you talking about yourself what about how to spot a DL
he clearly told you what it is and explained it very well.....
@@its.onlymalik nobody asked you
I think he's special. OMG
Special in love thank you
Sexuality is a gift from God. Church/religion uses Scripture to justify hatred, bigotry and prejudice. Unfortunately, misguided religious/church people use theology to justify ignorance.
Why must we be bitches?
Jealous of our vaginas.. It's a trend now...
Thank you for calling me out, forgive me
Sir So far you haven't explained how to spot a DL man. It's 8 minutes and 6 seconds in and you started to and you stopped I don't know whether you lost your train of thought or you just confused and all over the place. Sometime before making a video right out what you want to say and don't jump around from place to place because you're sounding flipping all over the place with this video. Like I said I'm 8 minutes and 6 seconds and I'm not going to listen to the rest cuz I don't think you're going to talk about it because you lost your train of thought either you high AF, bipolar or both.
You are too Xtra
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Nice video