I don't have a problem with anybody being gay my thing is just be honest about it. If you know you're messing with men and women you need to let your partner know that's not fair to them. At all.
But it's not easy as it sounds. Alot of ppl will lose families, friends,jobs,homes,their life even. The world needs to jus stop acting like homosexuality is a crime and let folks be who they are
Everybody deserves to have a space where they can be themselves, but your rights end where you take away another persons choice. There are women who will still deal with you if you are with men too. Find those and don't trick a woman who is not aware of how you roll.
Correct. I am one of those women. I believe that most people are bisexual, some just act on it more than others do. I don't care if my man is bisexual as long as he prefers women the majority of the time, and is honest with me about it. I'm a bisexual woman who prefers men. Rarely am I sexually attracted to a woman to the point that I would sleep with her. And a woman could never get me off the way that a man can.
GodLoveFreedom WoW.. Your response touched me.. Cause alot ppl think like the donald trump 👦.. Some even believe that's Whats wrong with Us..They Are Wrong tho... And Soon They Will See💓... We Are Still Healing And When We ARE HEALED .. BY GOD OF COURSE.. WE WILL RISE ABOVE IT ALL👏👏😇
As a black woman, this just really burns me up; Like honestly, we as black women don't really have a chance of meeting our "prince charming" one day, because most of our men are either in prison, gay, the grave, or on the down low. It's pretty scary out here. Smh, ppl can say what they want, but it's the truth and thats what the Lord loves....the truth.
Not a 'black' thing at all. Those type of people are in VARIOUS ethnic groups. ( I haven't a clue why blacks are so quick to make everything a 'black' thing).
A lot of variation in the DL community. But for BLACK MEN they get shamed so much harder for being gay. I've seen more homophobic black men in my lifetime than any other gender or race.
I agree. I never fucked around with a woman, and have no plans to. It's immoral to deceive people you're in a relationship with, but otherwise, I understand the motive to keep your business to yourself. Black people would rather you have 5 baby mamas and be a jobless street-walker than be a productive gay man ... so it's not hard to see why the DL remains a thing.
Cuz I know there's no condoms in prison so I'm pretty sure it's a lot of HIV and AIDS up in that is sad because men take it home today wife that do try to live a straight life outside
lagail davis I’m a Social Worker that worked in a prison for 7 years. And you’re correct. There aren’t any condoms in prisons bc there’s not supposed to be any sex going on while in prison which is so not the case. And unfortunately many of them are married with children or have gf’s.
jim dandy. You are never lied. The bible is real and i am seeking the Messiah for real this is madness. Some are servicing the god of this world and do not know it. What a shame
it wouldn’t be a problem in the first place if homophobia was non existent there would be no need to be on the DL or sleep with women because of self shame
oh, please. don't put people's lives at risk because you are afraid to deal with yourself and those around you. live your life and leave innocent people out of your deceit. there is always an excuse, but no real shame in having lied to others and in a lot of cases bringing HIV to women/wasting women's time. gtfoh.
allisonivey I know right I don't have a promblem with the gays but the ones that is with a female and stepping out on her with a man hell no that is fucked up very risky and also I read that anal sex is risky of all when it comes to aids.....smh
I believe that getting raped is one of the most damaging and painful things that a young, sexually inexperienced man can go through. And that when this situation is repeated over and over the brain structure of the victim changes making him believe that the situation is enjoyable. Add that a man's prostate is a sexual organ, he may indeed begin to physically enjoy it. But I think the most important factor to consider is that prison rape isn't always a sexual act. It's about having power over another individual. There's a saying that goes "acceptance is the key to all my problems." If a person does not have the physical or mental ability to stop the assault, they end up embracing it. This results into something that is truly baffling. They become empowered by the way the more powerful men begin to treat them. They become a hot commodity, which gives them choice over who they engage with sexually. So when a "punk" embraces his situation, he goes from the bottom of the pecking order to the top. Everyone isn't capable of defending themselves. Some have to flip a switch in their head that allows them to do things that they never would have done as a means of survival. Unfortunately, for a lot of men, once that switch is triggered, it's impossible to flip it off upon being freed. The trauma has reshaped their brains. I believe that the majority of men who have sex with men in prison do so by choice. It was already in them. But I don't know how to classify the man who has been sentenced to life and eventually begin to have sex with other men. I don't think that they have always been gay. I don't think it's about sex, or even power. I think it's because they know that they will never be with a woman again, and long for companionship. I think dudes like that are victims of circumstance, and never would have considered dealing with a man had they not received a life sentence. The dudes who get locked up and begin fucking 'boys' 3 months into their sentence have always been gay. The lifer, I don't know.
Being on the Dl is not the issue, I have No problem with men that want to keep their sexuality to themselves. What bothers me is when you have a wife and kids and you are leading a double life. Do they not care they are putting their family at risk. If you are gay Just be gay , why deny it?!
@Tymori Taylor It's not men like this women need to be looking at.... These guys won't even be checking for you or on your radar. You better be looking at the ones who look totally straight. Come to my channel if you want a REAL education from not only a born seer but one who has had experiences with REAL hardcore DL males since the age of 4!
Just because you rock a do-rag and baggy clothing does not make you "DL".. I would immediately know that these men featured were gay. DL means you are TOTALLY undetectable as a man who likes men...
I’m a gay guy myself. I’m not dl nor am I obnoxious obvious flamboyant gay, but if u have a good gaydar, u can clock me pretty quick. And I have to say, there are a lot of “straight” men out there that want to sleep with me. At every job I’ve had, there’s always guys flirting with me discreetly when no one is around. I notice the looks when I’m out in the streets. I just know that sexuality is so much more fluid than people realize. I don’t think any one turns gay or straight or that gay people are out here trying to turn people gay lol. It’s just the reality.
Elektrik Buzzed Sin, unless they repent of their sin and turn from it they will allow these feelings to rule in their lives. A lot of those feelings are brought about through negative sexual experience s in a lot of people's lives, especially early childhood. You can choose especially if you know where the feelings are coming from a nd that satan is a liar! God did not make us that way.
Why is it that they are so promiscuous? It seems like the gay community has sooo much indiscriminate sex. It's disgusting what happened to self control?
Each individual's faith has an effect on the way they perceive and react to the circumstances in their relationships. But no one, in the history of humans doing what the fk they're gonna do - one way or another..has anyone ever successfully prayed the gay away.
Other than acting for a move, I doubt that you would ever see the hardest/toughest DL dudes exposing themselves on UA-cam. They are the main ones trying to hide it....
I know now, from the signs that I've seen thru my years of dating that I, without a doubt, dated some of those DL men, but I ig'ed those signs because I felt like it wasn't a competition cause it wasn't a bitch, "literally",....I know, I know, I was wrong for this, but by the grace of God, I am still HIV/AIDS free, but I no longer "ignore the writing on the wall" :-)
deboraht taylor When we young we do shit like that I have,"But now I am a older woman I have learned and I don't play that shit,It really makes me sick now days with me getting older and wiser,"It is really fucked up how married men be stepping out with a man on his wife,"And I always use to wonder how gay men contracted aids just as much as others it is because of anal sex," I read it can be caught faster doing anal sex just saying.
deboraht taylor...you were with bi-guys, down lo started off with guys who could switch hit, they had wifes or g/f's, but still liked to get down low with guys. Now they mostly id as gay.
In the last days people are going to hear the truth but not believe the truth. Lovers of themselves, we all will be Judged by God. We live in this world, but not of this world. The devil is the Prince of this world but God is King. Be not ashamed he knows what your suffering is. Run from the sin, stay prayed up 😇
Yahshadeq .Yishrael BUT women aren't in the closet. Men act as if it's a prize when women are with each other, so they are open about that--maybe not to family, but they will reveal that info. to their man. hmmm... Do you talk to a lot of people on UA-cam? Just curious.
+LosAngelesAngel Not hateful, just alot of married men double dip and not use protection and so the stigma is gay men bring HIV. Black men seem more dl because of the stigma in black community of being gay.
+LosAngelesAngel No u totally misunderstood what I said. I said "stigma" im not implying that all gay have HIV but in the black community there is a "stigma" that you get HIV from gay sex. I have a ton of gay associates that are careful. I think in general gay, straight, or bi --- you should protect yourself. Especially in the black community. HIV rates are the highest and the lack of education also plays apart.
So if a woman plays with bisexuality or lays up with another woman, is she automatically less of a woman? Black women and bisexuality goes hand in hand but the difference is that you are not shamed, belittled or put down for your bisexuality because 'straight' men think it's sexy or cute. This double standard and hypocrisy is why there are so many dl men in the black community.
@@luckyone2311 I never stated that black men are going gay or experiencing bisexuality 'dodge black women'... I simply cited the hypocrisy between black women who plays with bisexuality and black men who play with bisexuality. For the record, I am very well versed in this subject matter and the reality is that this so called 'going gay' or black men experimenting with bisexuality is not new at all. However, just as there are black men still choosing to hide what they are into on the low, others are choosing to just be upfront and honest. For the record, a great deal of homosexuality is directly tied to large percentages of black men who were either raped or turned our in prisons... The high incarceration rates is a factor that very few of us seem to make the connection with.
@@tez_foe4382 I'm a college graduate there is nothing wrong with wanting a man who wants a woman. God's order I'm sorry you are offending but i respectfully disagree with the life style I'm a follower of Jesus it's people choice to live holy or not I have my faults everyday that's why I repent. But if you choose not to it's your life and soul
Down low? There is nothing low key about this 1st guy's flamboyance. And the relationship with his "gay father"? Hmm. MmmKay. And the 2nd guy.. c'mon now!! Why are we referring to a guy that talks like ShaNayNay as someone on the down low? Everyone simultaneously ignoring the elephant in the room is not because no one realizes it's an elephant.
I would hope and pray my son would tell me he’s gay. I would never want him to feel ashamed or unloved or afraid to tell me. I’d never want him to be on the DL. I’d never want him to be ashamed of what he is. Ever. There’s too much hate in these comments.
It's sad to see and know that a lot of ppl not even just the black community feel the need to be down low just because they feel like they will not be accepted. As a lesbian myself my gay male friends are completely open with me because they are comfortable. I just helped another one of my friends start the road to finding and being who she is...it really can't be understood to those that want to judge and not understand. Suicide rates are also crazy high because of this. It's easier said than done to tell someone to be who you are when some are still trying to understand that for themselves...I really want people to educate themselves and gain a better understanding before you judge right off the bat...what I won't respect is men that are down low and aren't careful aren't honest to their partner and causes diseases and so much...I know a woman who now lives with HIV because her man couldn't be honest abt who he was...it's just sad.
If you are a man and like men then own it. Don't sleep with and lie to women, tell them the truth. And why all the promiscuity? What does that have to do with being gay?
This video highlights how mass incarceration of black males is at the core of the destruction of the black community as seen in our declining birth rates. Yes there are many black males who are predisposed to homosexuality who have never been to prison. Some experienced molestation in their formative years. Some never had a strong male presence for guidance during childhood. The tendencies towards homosexuality in the black community are complex. Those who choose to live an openly gay lifestyle should know the health risks associated with such, in particular shortened lifespan, depression, and anxiety. For those individuals who are homosexual but wish to live as heterosexuals, this is possible with intensive therapy, and yes it is hard work, but achievable. Don't buy into the myth that you cannot overcome your homosexual proclivities. Scientists have known for years that the brain can be retrained to process sexual information in many ways. The key is knowing that anything is possible.
Donald Trump is Affirmative Action for the GOP you sound so stupid how is it black womens fault ? They are victims of poor life choices and a broken system which provides no alternatives
First off there have been homosexuals from the beginning of time we are sexual beings. If we not having sex with each other then they are having sex with animals or other non humans is there some type of treatment for this as well. We just make a big deal out of this in today's time stop judging its not 😎. This is why they want to be on the dl if we was more open with each other and not judging each other life would be better for ever life😜
Clear this up for me, I thought being on the DL was when a black guy who was with a girl (either married or not) was really gay, pretending to be straight and would have a gay guy on the side. What does it have to do about paying for it or being in drag????
ANTONIO is very handsome man. 😍I came here to write something else, but when I saw this man, I forgot what to write. 🥵I hope life is going well for him, I hope he is happy.idk why but i feel sad for this handsome man.i hope he got everything he wanted in this life😢❤
Maybe my gaydar is just extremely good, so I wont be too hard on these women but I just dont see how they can't see these men were gay. They all look so sweet... it's all in not just the way they speak but in their eyes and overall body aura
JAYLOVE47 : Well society is making it hard to tell.. Straight men wear skinny jeans, pink shirt, now they pushing them to wear skirts like celebrities.. My husband os homophobia he will not put on any skinny jeans pr wear feminine colors..
Isa 5: 20 Those who call evil good and good evil are as good as dead, who turn darkness into light and light into darkness, who turn bitter into sweet and sweet into bitter. 21 Those who think they are wise are as good as dead,
It does, but we have ways to take care of that by putting them in jail for the rest of their life. Right now we are talking about Black men sleeping with other black men and like I said that's some sick, crazy shit.
Michael Shepherd I know this comment is VERY old but I'm still going to reply on it. You COMPLETELY missed the point he was trying to make. He's trying to show that there's other problems that are WAY better than a guy sleeping with other guy. What we should be worried about in the black community is the problems that CAUSES black men to go to jail (or to join gangs).
I don't care how a normal it is today, it is still disgusting nasty and unnatural. People in this world give into the devil's mind game so easily it's extremely sad
I literally, feel like throwing up; I can vomit. What a triffling gutter, life. Sorry, I just can't get with it. *In addition, ..God will also be there for any of us...alot of us just DON'T want to seek him, nor KEEP him in our lives.
I don't have a problem with anybody being gay my thing is just be honest about it. If you know you're messing with men and women you need to let your partner know that's not fair to them. At all.
Ebone Payne I agree
Ebone Payne I agree
Facts👍
I agree with Ebone too! But some of them that are gay will tell their partner!
But it's not easy as it sounds. Alot of ppl will lose families, friends,jobs,homes,their life even. The world needs to jus stop acting like homosexuality is a crime and let folks be who they are
This is really well-done,....thanks to the filmmakers and the participants for their honesty and openness.
I second that! It took lots of courage.
Butt openness?🤔
😭lord I shouldn’t be watching this because I already think most men are gay
Me too😂
Shit just pop up...so I'm watching 😂😂😂
Chelle Harris they are..lol
Chelle Harris Lolz
Chelle Harris sometimes I wonder I Really do especially the hard acting ones
I am ok with the gays,"But when you married with a family that shit don't sit well with me sorry......
At all
*Don't apologize. You are 100% right & I agree with you*
@@JessicaBeee I swear we be on the same videos lol
@Ebony Travel I think kela means the ones who are married to women with children and sleeping with men on the dl
@@deljean 😂😂😂😂 IKR
Why tf this pop up and y am I watching it
Raven Nesmith 6 months later it’s still popping up, and I’m asking myself Why am I watching this. Smh
Raven Nesmith that part lol
Maybe y'all needed to see it for a reason?
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IKR
Jean skirt killed it😂😂😂
Right I️ was like woahhh 😂😂💀💀
petty atmosphere werk!😂😂😂
that walk lol
_/\/\__________ Flatline 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yessss ghetto fish
Everybody deserves to have a space where they can be themselves, but your rights end where you take away another persons choice. There are women who will still deal with you if you are with men too. Find those and don't trick a woman who is not aware of how you roll.
RNLovely Russell that is the most excellant comment on this channel may you get what you want peace god
RNLovely Russell 👏
RNLovely Russell Right. Right and Right!
Correct. I am one of those women. I believe that most people are bisexual, some just act on it more than others do. I don't care if my man is bisexual as long as he prefers women the majority of the time, and is honest with me about it. I'm a bisexual woman who prefers men. Rarely am I sexually attracted to a woman to the point that I would sleep with her. And a woman could never get me off the way that a man can.
Aids talk right there
This shit is sad and sickening...ladies we must be extremely careful who we give our hearts and our bodies too.
Shenna Rice Sheesh! You are so right! This is so disturbing!
Shenna Rice Right
GodLoveFreedom WoW.. Your response touched me.. Cause alot ppl think like the donald trump 👦.. Some even believe that's Whats wrong with Us..They Are Wrong tho... And Soon They Will See💓... We Are Still Healing And When We ARE HEALED .. BY GOD OF COURSE.. WE WILL RISE ABOVE IT ALL👏👏😇
Donald Trump is Affirmative Action for the GOP lol b8
GodLoveFreedom very true
This is all races. Not just the black community
I can't believe no one replied to your comment !!!!!!! It's a sexual preference, nothing to do with the color of skin !
Danielle Lewis yes but it was a HUGE problem in our community. HUGE
Exactly!
@@blacksocial99 it's STILL a big problem 😒
@@melviasheppard8466 if it was a sexual preference, you would prefer one over the other!! Not both. On the down low.
We need a “where are they now” piece
As a black woman, this just really burns me up; Like honestly, we as black women don't really have a chance of meeting our "prince charming" one day, because most of our men are either in prison, gay, the grave, or on the down low. It's pretty scary out here. Smh, ppl can say what they want, but it's the truth and thats what the Lord loves....the truth.
There are down low white men as well
Michelle Griffin Uh duh!!!! They started all of this bs!
Woman too I
Not a 'black' thing at all. Those type of people are in VARIOUS ethnic groups. ( I haven't a clue why blacks are so quick to make everything a 'black' thing).
Michelle Griffin like 75% politician's
A lot of variation in the DL community. But for BLACK MEN they get shamed so much harder for being gay. I've seen more homophobic black men in my lifetime than any other gender or race.
Downlow is just a nicer word for deceiving liar, sorry
jssangel416 it's a bisexual male
jssangel416 that is a great name for it😂😂😂😂😂😂
jssangel416 sounds like your ex was gay.......hmmm
kytrina tay. ******No, more like Deceiving Liar. She's correct******
I agree. I never fucked around with a woman, and have no plans to. It's immoral to deceive people you're in a relationship with, but otherwise, I understand the motive to keep your business to yourself. Black people would rather you have 5 baby mamas and be a jobless street-walker than be a productive gay man ... so it's not hard to see why the DL remains a thing.
Sad when they go home to their wives... smh
With HIV and Hep C
And hiv /aids yuck
Makiba Uboke although the likelihood of passing hep c through sex is very very low it’s hep b is what u gotta be scared of
Them bitches get tired
@@makiba9461 Exactly smh
I came across this video on accident..and I'm glad I did. Powerful!!
Common denominator = Jail 😩🤦🏾♀️ I always look twice at men who have served long sentences 🧐🧐🧐
“Get up and cook something b****” 😂😂😂😂 omg I died laughing at that!
There is still straight Black men out there. All of us haven't fallen to this European curse
not european its jewish
European curse?
Lisa Boliaris that’s what I said 😂😂😂
MYownforever1 thank God
This gay stuff is not European. They hate it as much as we UK / French / Dutch black people do.
The confidence of the one in the jean outfit took me out😂😂😂😂😂. I am screaminnnnnggggg!!!!😂😂😂😂😂. ( Judgement free zone❤)
Its a spirit that entered when you were young and if you were born that way you can be born again in Jesus!!
God isn't real. The bible was written by man. Religion starts wars. You're welcome?
Ladybug321 that's right there is Power, Power wonder working power in the blood of the lamb
Amen 🙏
@@tyreesegilliam3291 I'll be praying for you
@@ashleighg9070 , Praying Fir Him Because he Has Different beliefs ?
How are these guys on the DL if they’re being featured on a TV documentary in front of the whole world? LOL. 😂
Exactly nothing DL about this lol
Checking out their mannerisms, nothing dl about them.
You better weeeerk Ms. Jean skirt 🤣🤣🤣
Legs are fierce
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Ok
Be you. No matter how anyone feels. This your life and you only get one. Live it to the fullest. God Bless you
To my Queen 😪😪😪 Damn Darryl that’s a whole man
Tunarrio Davidson I’m fucking limp 🤣😂😂
Lmfao
@@justinmcgillxboxreigns6591 , He Probably Was Ah 'Bitch' In Prison.
😂😂😂😩
lmao yes indeed
Cuz I know there's no condoms in prison so I'm pretty sure it's a lot of HIV and AIDS up in that is sad because men take it home today wife that do try to live a straight life outside
lagail davis I’m a Social Worker that worked in a prison for 7 years. And you’re correct. There aren’t any condoms in prisons bc there’s not supposed to be any sex going on while in prison which is so not the case. And unfortunately many of them are married with children or have gf’s.
Wait, don't they usually test inmates in prison? IDK, I could've sworn they did and sent the infected inmates to a separate facility.
Sodom and Gomorrah.This world is getting out of control
jim dandy facts
MrShawn0617 thank you. She should take her whole family along just so they don't reproduce
God isn't real. The bible was written by man. Religion starts wars. You're welcome
jim dandy. You are never lied. The bible is real and i am seeking the Messiah for real this is madness. Some are servicing the god of this world and do not know it. What a shame
Tyreese Turn Flow Gilliam keep on believing that haaa
Being DECEPTIVE about it is not downlow it's actually LOW DOWN!! "Trifling good for nothing type of brotha!"👌🏾
These testimonies woke me up to some of life's realities. Thank you for this documentary.
I understand someone want to be on the down low but it becomes a problem when they start dealing with the opposite sex or more than one partner
it wouldn’t be a problem in the first place if homophobia was non existent there would be no need to be on the DL or sleep with women because of self shame
oh, please. don't put people's lives at risk because you are afraid to deal with yourself and those around you. live your life and leave innocent people out of your deceit. there is always an excuse, but no real shame in having lied to others and in a lot of cases bringing HIV to women/wasting women's time. gtfoh.
allisonivey I know right I don't have a promblem with the gays but the ones that is with a female and stepping out on her with a man hell no that is fucked up very risky and also I read that anal sex is risky of all when it comes to aids.....smh
There r so many gay black men on d DL. It's a shame. I'm not ever having unprotected sex.
@@TheBananaBoba That’s still no excuse to lie to your partner about YOUR sexuality 💯👏🏼
Jean skirt need to sit that down...🤣🤣😂😂
I believe that getting raped is one of the most damaging and painful things that a young, sexually inexperienced man can go through. And that when this situation is repeated over and over the brain structure of the victim changes making him believe that the situation is enjoyable.
Add that a man's prostate is a sexual organ, he may indeed begin to physically enjoy it.
But I think the most important factor to consider is that prison rape isn't always a sexual act. It's about having power over another individual.
There's a saying that goes "acceptance is the key to all my problems."
If a person does not have the physical or mental ability to stop the assault, they end up embracing it.
This results into something that is truly baffling.
They become empowered by the way the more powerful men begin to treat them. They become a hot commodity, which gives them choice over who they engage with sexually.
So when a "punk" embraces his situation, he goes from the bottom of the pecking order to the top.
Everyone isn't capable of defending themselves. Some have to flip a switch in their head that allows them to do things that they never would have done as a means of survival.
Unfortunately, for a lot of men, once that switch is triggered, it's impossible to flip it off upon being freed.
The trauma has reshaped their brains.
I believe that the majority of men who have sex with men in prison do so by choice. It was already in them.
But I don't know how to classify the man who has been sentenced to life and eventually begin to have sex with other men. I don't think that they have always been gay. I don't think it's about sex, or even power. I think it's because they know that they will never be with a woman again, and long for companionship. I think dudes like that are victims of circumstance, and never would have considered dealing with a man had they not received a life sentence.
The dudes who get locked up and begin fucking 'boys' 3 months into their sentence have always been gay.
The lifer, I don't know.
What’s your ig
@T T If he's young, handsome and gay, there are places to go to get away.
Wow you're very intelligent. You explained everything so well
It's not that simple try again
Some men just want a h@le. Anyone will do.
Being on the Dl is not the issue, I have No problem with men that want to keep their sexuality to themselves. What bothers me is when you have a wife and kids and you are leading a double life. Do they not care they are putting their family at risk. If you are gay Just be gay , why deny it?!
Exactly. Men need to stop lying period 💯
This shit is scary!! OMG makes you not want a date anyone!!
Being single actually doesn’t make me feel that bad now 🤭👌🏽
I can tell a straight/ gay man by the way they walk and carry them selves.... A gay man doesnt walk they seem to float 🤔
Britt R LMAO😂😂😂😂
Britt R like a ghost?😊
Float😭
Lmfaooo I’m dying 😭😭😭
They all have trouble pronouncing 's' words
I have no clue how I got here. I’m on the crazy side of UA-cam 😂😂
Exactly
yup
Agree
Factz
You know how you got here
this is sooo scarey smh smh, saaad
+Tymori Taylor What's scary about it? This ty of stuff has been going on forever. It's just that it's been going on in the dark on the low.
john wayne gacey please, men with wives and children are Down-Low.
@Tymori Taylor It's not men like this women need to be looking at.... These guys won't even be checking for you or on your radar. You better be looking at the ones who look totally straight. Come to my channel if you want a REAL education from not only a born seer but one who has had experiences with REAL hardcore DL males since the age of 4!
Just because you rock a do-rag and baggy clothing does not make you "DL".. I would immediately know that these men featured were gay. DL means you are TOTALLY undetectable as a man who likes men...
4:38 - 5:09....... if I had those legs, I would be strutting like that too!!! 🤣🤣🤣👢
l don't consider myself intolerant, but what burns me up is when a man acts straight and then have sex unprotected sex with women.
Agreed. But what about the women who have unprotected sex and bring another futureless bastard into the world? AND THEN ANOTHER!?
Jason Patten So, you're pro-abortion than?
Is that the cat walk or the crack walk in the Jean skirt
😂😂😂😂
I’m a gay guy myself. I’m not dl nor am I obnoxious obvious flamboyant gay, but if u have a good gaydar, u can clock me pretty quick. And I have to say, there are a lot of “straight” men out there that want to sleep with me. At every job I’ve had, there’s always guys flirting with me discreetly when no one is around. I notice the looks when I’m out in the streets. I just know that sexuality is so much more fluid than people realize. I don’t think any one turns gay or straight or that gay people are out here trying to turn people gay lol. It’s just the reality.
Deandra Ben stay miserable
Elektrik Buzzed Sin, unless they repent of their sin and turn from it they will allow these feelings to rule in their lives. A lot of those feelings are brought about through negative sexual experience s in a lot of people's lives, especially early childhood. You can choose especially if you know where the feelings are coming from a nd that satan is a liar! God did not make us that way.
You’re right. So grateful to the stars, my gaydar go crazy.
3:17 everybody got a junk drawer on the kitchen lol
At 4-43 hard to stop laughin....that walk cracked me up....damn LOL still laughing.
WOW! He learned by watchin his mama and aunties every fucking day.
And where was his FATHER!?
Shit! Look him up and ask him!
mbigboyny man that walk is hella funny
That a dude? Hell no x100
Why is it that they are so promiscuous? It seems like the gay community has sooo much indiscriminate sex. It's disgusting what happened to self control?
sexual promiscuity can be anybody,straight or gay.
Same thing can said about them dirty dick straight men with all them baby mamas
1969Tisa that's real talk!!!!
THANK YOU!
misskingstonjamcutie Now that's true.
you can tell they Gay....show me that DL dude that's a real ninja...all these dudes soft listen too them
Prayer Changes Things
Prayer sure changes things. My heart goes out to the spouse's that are deceived. Also the children
Each individual's faith has an effect on the way they perceive and react to the circumstances in their relationships. But no one, in the history of humans doing what the fk they're gonna do - one way or another..has anyone ever successfully prayed the gay away.
Soft and hard have nothing to do with sexuality
yea exactly
Other than acting for a move, I doubt that you would ever see the hardest/toughest DL dudes exposing themselves on UA-cam. They are the main ones trying to hide it....
I know now, from the signs that I've seen thru my years of dating that I, without a doubt, dated some of those DL men, but I ig'ed those signs because I felt like it wasn't a competition cause it wasn't a bitch, "literally",....I know, I know, I was wrong for this, but by the grace of God, I am still HIV/AIDS free, but I no longer "ignore the writing on the wall" :-)
how is that though. What were some of the "signs" that made you notice? I as well can tell at times.
You dated bi men. Do isn't a sexuality category
deboraht taylor When we young we do shit like that I have,"But now I am a older woman I have learned and I don't play that shit,It really makes me sick now days with me getting older and wiser,"It is really fucked up how married men be stepping out with a man on his wife,"And I always use to wonder how gay men contracted aids just as much as others it is because of anal sex," I read it can be caught faster doing anal sex just saying.
deboraht taylor...you were with bi-guys, down lo started off with guys who could switch hit, they had wifes or g/f's, but still liked to get down low with guys. Now they mostly id as gay.
deboraht taylor praise god
Im done😂😂😂😂that guy in the jean outfit did it for me
I'm here after seeing a clip on Instagram. 🤷🏾♀️
king jesus is comming
bj strong your king Jesus is homosexual too.
Edward James - And He still loves you despite your disgusting way of thinking .
@@zonymontanaa amen
In the last days people are going to hear the truth but not believe the truth. Lovers of themselves, we all will be Judged by God. We live in this world, but not of this world. The devil is the Prince of this world but God is King. Be not ashamed he knows what your suffering is. Run from the sin, stay prayed up 😇
For any gay man reading this it’s 2019 can we NOT be on the DL anymore. Live your truth, if you like both be up front and honest
It’s 2021 they still DL sis
@@Fleur_2desert10 not at all lol
@@sturdylaii9357 a damn shame
It's not that simple in the hood
he is really brave, such an inspiration. God Bless him!!
There will be no blessings for him unless he repents and changes
Everyone deserves love and no one should have to hide it smh this sucks man
I've seen this before. It's still very powerful.
I feel for ALL of us black women! The DL is sooo real it ain't funny. Honestly, I doubt you'd find a straight man these days...
Now you trippin
Yahshadeq .Yishrael You think so? It's everywhere--it's all you see...
Real men are out here , but you got me on that one cuz what you're saying is true , and it's the same with the women too.
Yahshadeq .Yishrael BUT women aren't in the closet. Men act as if it's a prize when women are with each other, so they are open about that--maybe not to family, but they will reveal that info. to their man.
hmmm...
Do you talk to a lot of people on UA-cam? Just curious.
Nah, Mama said don't talk to strangers lol
If anyone is wondering why there are DL black men, then look no farther than the comments below
Exactly
+blkstele What I'm trying to figure out is why black women are so hateful towards gay black men? Do they want to date and marry a gay man?
preach
+LosAngelesAngel Not hateful, just alot of married men double dip and not use protection and so the stigma is gay men bring HIV. Black men seem more dl because of the stigma in black community of being gay.
+LosAngelesAngel No u totally misunderstood what I said. I said "stigma" im not implying that all gay have HIV but in the black community there is a "stigma" that you get HIV from gay sex. I have a ton of gay associates that are careful. I think in general gay, straight, or bi --- you should protect yourself. Especially in the black community. HIV rates are the highest and the lack of education also plays apart.
their wouldn't have to be downlow black men if the black community wasn't so homophobic
someone who finally gets it.
Someone gets it.
evilmickey100 That's bullshit.
exactly
evilmickey100 honestly.
this is sick and twisted on so many levels like Wow
+Bre Walker Would you prefer to date and marry a gay man?
You are just very insecure of your sexuality.
Bre Walker Are you afraid your just the same?
KB it takes two go tango. So don't blame the gay dudes 100%.
Yes I agree
I wonder where they are now and how they are doing
You want em ctfu
Wtf
Phillip W. they are dead because they have Aids in their sickos
Phillip W. AIDS brother
Phillip W. They probably dying of aids
Losing black men to other men daily.. .
What's going on?
Thankfully single.
Ugh!!
This is my opinion so whatever Exactly. Im so disgusted smfh. No real black men anywhere. No real men period of any race. Yuck.
As a straight black man half the black women I meet go both ways or are gay so it ain't just the black men
So if a woman plays with bisexuality or lays up with another woman, is she automatically less of a woman? Black women and bisexuality goes hand in hand but the difference is that you are not shamed, belittled or put down for your bisexuality because 'straight' men think it's sexy or cute. This double standard and hypocrisy is why there are so many dl men in the black community.
THANKFULLY SINGLE 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@luckyone2311 I never stated that black men are going gay or experiencing bisexuality 'dodge black women'... I simply cited the hypocrisy between black women who plays with bisexuality and black men who play with bisexuality. For the record, I am very well versed in this subject matter and the reality is that this so called 'going gay' or black men experimenting with bisexuality is not new at all. However, just as there are black men still choosing to hide what they are into on the low, others are choosing to just be upfront and honest. For the record, a great deal of homosexuality is directly tied to large percentages of black men who were either raped or turned our in prisons... The high incarceration rates is a factor that very few of us seem to make the connection with.
After 1.6M people watched this, I'm pretty sure everyone knows by now!
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I honestly don't know how to feel.....this hurts on so many soul levels...
yea but u can catch disease from anybody two men two women opposite sex....
No one is born gay but I do pray that those who are gay find deliverance in Christ because he’s the only way to God
Itsme Bri and u know this how?
that's why I'm waiting on the Lord to send my husband. He won't be perfect but he won't be gay either. Amen
You Will Be Single Fir A Long Time
@@tez_foe4382 I renounce your words
@@zerranewright4066 , Do U Wait For Jobs To Land U Or Do U Seek Those Jobs Out ?
@@tez_foe4382 I'm a college graduate there is nothing wrong with wanting a man who wants a woman. God's order I'm sorry you are offending but i respectfully disagree with the life style I'm a follower of Jesus it's people choice to live holy or not I have my faults everyday that's why I repent. But if you choose not to it's your life and soul
Tez_ Foe Say homie everybody don’t live in your gay ass world.🤣
I snuck n ordered this DVD as a teen😂
This is one reason why I keep my "daisy soaker" at bay ...
Down low? There is nothing low key about this 1st guy's flamboyance. And the relationship with his "gay father"? Hmm. MmmKay. And the 2nd guy.. c'mon now!! Why are we referring to a guy that talks like ShaNayNay as someone on the down low? Everyone simultaneously ignoring the elephant in the room is not because no one realizes it's an elephant.
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Yup!
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I would hope and pray my son would tell me he’s gay. I would never want him to feel ashamed or unloved or afraid to tell me. I’d never want him to be on the DL. I’d never want him to be ashamed of what he is. Ever. There’s too much hate in these comments.
4:45 Tragic.
Haat Praat 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Haat Praat 😂😂😂
Haat Praat
It's sad to see and know that a lot of ppl not even just the black community feel the need to be down low just because they feel like they will not be accepted. As a lesbian myself my gay male friends are completely open with me because they are comfortable. I just helped another one of my friends start the road to finding and being who she is...it really can't be understood to those that want to judge and not understand. Suicide rates are also crazy high because of this. It's easier said than done to tell someone to be who you are when some are still trying to understand that for themselves...I really want people to educate themselves and gain a better understanding before you judge right off the bat...what I won't respect is men that are down low and aren't careful aren't honest to their partner and causes diseases and so much...I know a woman who now lives with HIV because her man couldn't be honest abt who he was...it's just sad.
If you are a man and like men then own it. Don't sleep with and lie to women, tell them the truth.
And why all the promiscuity? What does that have to do with being gay?
This video highlights how mass incarceration of black males is at the core of the destruction of the black community as seen in our declining birth rates. Yes there are many black males who are predisposed to homosexuality who have never been to prison. Some experienced molestation in their formative years. Some never had a strong male presence for guidance during childhood. The tendencies towards homosexuality in the black community are complex.
Those who choose to live an openly gay lifestyle should know the health risks associated with such, in particular shortened lifespan, depression, and anxiety. For those individuals who are homosexual but wish to live as heterosexuals, this is possible with intensive therapy, and yes it is hard work, but achievable. Don't buy into the myth that you cannot overcome your homosexual proclivities. Scientists have known for years that the brain can be retrained to process sexual information in many ways. The key is knowing that anything is possible.
Donald Trump is Affirmative Action for the GOP you sound so stupid how is it black womens fault ? They are victims of poor life choices and a broken system which provides no alternatives
That is well said you made an excellent point you have to reprogram your brain and it is possible is done everyday you gotta want it for it to work.
Reesh D If there are no alternatives, how is it a lifestyle choice?
First off there have been homosexuals from the beginning of time we are sexual beings. If we not having sex with each other then they are having sex with animals or other non humans is there some type of treatment for this as well. We just make a big deal out of this in today's time stop judging its not 😎. This is why they want to be on the dl if we was more open with each other and not judging each other life would be better for ever life😜
Delcina Bean-Burrows therapy don't do shit but make you scared and crazy, girl bye
The fact that all these women think that they “gaydar” will save them... you can’t always tell suh... 🗣🗣KNOCK IT TF OFF!
If you pray God will.show you Everytime!!! Pray for revelation and discernment.
Homie had the scarface t tucked in the front 😂😂
hes just yearning for a daddy.
No he ain't you like what you like I know so many gay dudes who grew up with daddy in the house if you don't like girls you don't like them
#Facts
bfly1 thank
Unfinished Business yeah
A D that's just an excuse
Clear this up for me, I thought being on the DL was when a black guy who was with a girl (either married or not) was really gay, pretending to be straight and would have a gay guy on the side. What does it have to do about paying for it or being in drag????
T Dawg a DL could be any race!
Get it, Jean skirt!
:)
You got it baby.
Be safe though!
♡
This why I’m going to be single for life, between STDs and DL men, I’m too terrified to date!
ANTONIO is very handsome man. 😍I came here to write something else, but when I saw this man, I forgot what to write. 🥵I hope life is going well for him, I hope he is happy.idk why but i feel sad for this handsome man.i hope he got everything he wanted in this life😢❤
Being gay isn't the issue, lying about it is
He bonded dude out got him a car I bet lil homie topped him off after getting out of jail
Maybe my gaydar is just extremely good, so I wont be too hard on these women but I just dont see how they can't see these men were gay. They all look so sweet... it's all in not just the way they speak but in their eyes and overall body aura
JAYLOVE47 : Well society is making it hard to tell.. Straight men wear skinny jeans, pink shirt, now they pushing them to wear skirts like celebrities.. My husband os homophobia he will not put on any skinny jeans pr wear feminine colors..
I actually like this. I wish they had documented more than a few episodes.
Isa 5: 20 Those who call evil good and good evil are as good as dead, who turn darkness into light and light into darkness, who turn bitter into sweet and sweet into bitter.
21 Those who think they are wise are as good as dead,
Arthur G. Paygar. 💚😉☀amen
Amen
The sickest shit I've ever seen. Makes you sad to be a black MAN today.
It does, but we have ways to take care of that by putting them in jail for the rest of their life. Right now we are talking about Black men sleeping with other black men and like I said that's some sick, crazy shit.
Michael Shepherd I know this comment is VERY old but I'm still going to reply on it.
You COMPLETELY missed the point he was trying to make. He's trying to show that there's other problems that are WAY better than a guy sleeping with other guy. What we should be worried about in the black community is the problems that CAUSES black men to go to jail (or to join gangs).
Oh Thomas Thomas Thomas, it's them Black women again
you sound like exactly what you claim is all their fault.
Perfectly said!
I don't care how a normal it is today, it is still disgusting nasty and unnatural. People in this world give into the devil's mind game so easily it's extremely sad
TOP #1 Truth!
You can say that again!
Live life to the fullest quit worrying about who's in who's bed get somebody in your own bed
I literally, feel like throwing up; I can vomit. What a triffling gutter, life. Sorry, I just can't get with it.
*In addition, ..God will also be there for any of us...alot of us just DON'T want to seek him, nor KEEP him in our lives.
God isn't real. Get educated
@@tyreesegilliam3291 , Sadly She Wont. She Probably Beliefs, 'Anything' Outside Of The Bible , Is One Of Satan's Tool To Deter Her From Her God .
I couldn't escape this video. Kept popping up
That strut across the street tho....yasssss
he stay next door to me. i nevvvverr knew til somebody told me jusst now
Does he not know that his friends will see this video and know who he really is?! 🤦🏾♀️
My family would disown me if they knew, well the whole world knows now.
Actually enjoyable doc, kinda calmer than I expected for real.
It's like I'm watching a HORROR movie! However, I think these guys have been around for a long time. They're just getting more exposure.
wtf was was that thing with the jean skirt on
I was dying!!! Had a mean strut!!
Angle Johnson
Angle? 180 degree angle?..or did you want your name to be Angel? You don't have to lie to cover up. We, at UA-cam, are here for you.
Barbara Torres LMFAOOOOO
Barbara Torres 😂
Barbara Torres LMFAO!!!!😭😭😭
Mixing your booze with kool aid? Lol!
Erato IsYourMuse After eating cereal&milk
Poor Man's Wine Cooler
Bless your heart for coming out
Pray ask God too help you
God isn't real
@@tyreesegilliam3291 wassup
How I watch a Tariq nasheed video and this come up in recommended???