IS HE ON THE DL?

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    Miss Faye shares insights on the Down Low Man, and what you need to know about him. Black men “on the down low” have been considered prime agents of HIV transmission in the Black community.

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  • @crystalbqueen4341
    @crystalbqueen4341 Рік тому +190

    This woman is saving women thousand's of dollars in THERAPY!!!!!!!!!

    • @micheleparker3780
      @micheleparker3780 Рік тому +14

      ...if they LISTEN.

    • @selfesteem3447
      @selfesteem3447 Рік тому +14

      And venereal diseases. I knew a woman named Melissa who had AIDS and she told me that when she got AIDS her husband admitted that he had been on the down low. It talked about here in this video that it's in the black community, well Melissa and her husband were black.
      That being said, my father was a white man and he was so download he might as well have been gay. My father was a psychopath and a narcissist including a Machiavellian.

    • @B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786
      @B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786 Рік тому +7

      If people will trust that they don’t know better. This could save your life!
      Con artist!

    • @toniwilson3827
      @toniwilson3827 Рік тому +8

      Yes she is , a true blessing at that 🙏❤️🌹

    • @brendamoosa2636
      @brendamoosa2636 Рік тому +2

      She is the best, I can't imagine a day without her angelic voice, WELCOME 🎉❤, I focus more with my work and also being productive and getting notes as much as I could, she is amazing ❤️

  • @alexiusscott9880
    @alexiusscott9880 11 місяців тому +43

    This is disgusting. It makes me want to stay single forever.

  • @hemademecry
    @hemademecry 6 місяців тому +44

    My white husband is no different. What is going on in the world these days? A woman cannot believe in anyone. My heart is broken in a thousand pieces. I cant function most days. These videos have helped me a lot today.

    • @devionewilkins8903
      @devionewilkins8903 5 місяців тому

      Sexual perversion and lawlessness. People turning they’re backs on God and leaning to they’re own understanding. Which is them getting deceived by all kinds of evil (dark spirits). Just like there are DL men, so are women. What the devil cannot create, he twists.

    • @latoshaadams3828
      @latoshaadams3828 Місяць тому +5

      Right smh

  • @yvonne2965
    @yvonne2965 Рік тому +91

    Ms Fey telling all of us what our mothers should have told us about..Crazy

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 Рік тому +1

      The mothers, grandmothers were brainwashed by patriarchy. The truth was hidden and they were literally terrorized into submission.
      The patriarchy has robotized women. Robotization means you follow the will, emotions, thoughts & orders of another. It is observed in concentration camps, DV relationships, prison, slavery, etc.
      - Trauma & Recovery (Herman, 2015)

    • @kathleenking47
      @kathleenking47 Рік тому +7

      Boomer moms don't know

    • @beatricedevarenne2621
      @beatricedevarenne2621 Рік тому +3

      @@kathleenking47we here talking about those who have up 40´s here

    • @emilyhess7816
      @emilyhess7816 5 місяців тому +1

      My mother was taught to be naive and innocent ( mormons) lol

    • @emilyhess7816
      @emilyhess7816 5 місяців тому

      I've always wondered...why do males have a g spot in bumbum

  • @mahoganylove5757
    @mahoganylove5757 Рік тому +166

    Sad reality this is real and really terrible. Men should be shamed to drag women into this filth unwillingly. 😤

    • @zinedinezidane4771
      @zinedinezidane4771 Рік тому

      Just a question. Is it filth because he sleeping with other men?

    • @mahoganylove5757
      @mahoganylove5757 Рік тому +1

      Filth meaning he is keeping it a secret...never allowing the unknowing party a chance to say yah or nay. Shit do you if you want to ram or let someone else ram you in the butt...do you. 💯

    • @zinedinezidane4771
      @zinedinezidane4771 Рік тому +8

      @@mahoganylove5757 I get that lol

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 Рік тому

      They don’t care will use u up and give you deadly Aids 💔🚨👹

    • @emilyhess7816
      @emilyhess7816 5 місяців тому

      They have objectified us as props to compete with each other...they are competing for who can fool his women the best

  • @marym9585
    @marym9585 Рік тому +91

    This explains so much about my ex and our sex life. Let me say I am lucky not to have hiv! Thank you

    • @laurieclark2456
      @laurieclark2456 Рік тому +4

      He’s maybe in the internet. Looking at sex blowing your money. And guess what. It messes w there minds. Period.

    • @kathleenking47
      @kathleenking47 Рік тому

      Its also a reason, I don't like men with pierced ears..and braids
      They look like a 🚩

    • @bhilaire1bj
      @bhilaire1bj 9 місяців тому

      How did you leave without causing commotion?

  • @momosoulfulworldasmr
    @momosoulfulworldasmr 4 місяці тому +25

    I’m in a sexless marriage with a man and I just found out that he has been on gay/trans escort sites. He deceived me and had a baby with me. I am so disgusted with him. He never showed no sign until recently but the fact that he has been avoiding sex explains it ALL now. Glad I found out now than later. I’m ready to exit my way with my baby and divorce this monster.

    • @user-oh4dn5kn9m
      @user-oh4dn5kn9m Місяць тому

      Yes 👍. It's scary as hell. D.L Men never admit they are Gay. Churchy and Gay

    • @JohnSmith-rv6nf
      @JohnSmith-rv6nf Місяць тому

      Homosexuality is a form of birth control.

  • @dianesorokac2260
    @dianesorokac2260 Рік тому +186

    Be careful ladies...better 2 be single n celibate n safe!

    • @crystalm.5755
      @crystalm.5755 Рік тому +13

      Yup

    • @dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606
      @dayanahmaahzhnahyasharahla7606 Рік тому +11

      EXACTLY

    • @lavender123u
      @lavender123u Рік тому +6

      Facts. I was dealing with a guy 3 years ago.never knew he was engaged. He gave me hpv and horrible nasty uti. He admitted he has sex issues. Very sneaky. I believe he was messing with both sides.

    • @airons1895
      @airons1895 Рік тому +18

      I'm living the single life footloose and fancy free for 6 years and counting! I'm in love with me because I'm the only one I can trust! 🥰

    • @lifeyunique
      @lifeyunique Рік тому +3

      Very blessed and favored also

  • @marym9585
    @marym9585 Рік тому +35

    This is not just a black problem .White men are like this too.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 Рік тому +1

      Wïte menz taught/ra4ped men of the world thru colonization (r4ape & pillage) everywhere the British empire & American empire goes the male gay population explodes....they've subjecting men to this for hundreds of years since the Greeks & Romans.
      And the 1st place they add gayness is to spiritual, magik, occult, secret society and witchcraft. They want to hijack spirituality & use it to infect people to follow their ways & make people submit, even men.

    • @kTorres007
      @kTorres007 11 місяців тому +9

      Mexican men too. I'm Almost sure of it now

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 11 місяців тому

      All cultures are like this on every level not just black or white men. Women have to be very careful jumping in bed with a man you know nothing about. He can be very slick and persuading. But watch out and ask the Lord to give you an eye and a discerning spirit to know who you are dealing with. It is too dangerous out here because aids HIV is still out there though we don't hear about it as much these days. Yet it is still rampant. So care about yourself ladies you have value.

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 11 місяців тому

      @@kTorres007 Many men regardless of race and culture are doing these filthy things and bringing that stuff back to their wives and girlfriends. Very sad but no man whatever he is will do these things to himself because he doesn't care about himself or anyone else. DL is just what it is "down low." This applies to all men in every race.

    • @rosettajones1161
      @rosettajones1161 11 місяців тому +7

      Totally!

  • @DeBellanadi
    @DeBellanadi Рік тому +32

    There should be a federal law and prison time for this …. Deception
    And jeopardizing citizens health

    • @vickiburchfield5741
      @vickiburchfield5741 3 місяці тому

      We don't need federal law.
      We need education.
      Then people could decide what they want to do.
      If they had a law for everything somebody didn't like, everyone would be locked up.

    • @truthbetold-withdanielle
      @truthbetold-withdanielle Місяць тому +1

      Yes!! Attempted Murder

  • @elkee4730
    @elkee4730 Рік тому +44

    This is one of the reasons why the Black community is in the terrible predicament it is in. It is as if Black men have given up their manhood. I am glad to hear Ms. Faye, speak on the topic of DL men. It is terrible seeing young men wearing sagging pants but, every time a see Black men over thirty wearing their pants sagging there is no hope for them. Again Ms. Faye, you have shared with us what you have learned from living.

    • @kathleenking47
      @kathleenking47 Рік тому +5

      Look at their hair,🕷 and still piercing ears?
      Sagging pants was always a 🚩
      However I didn't see THAT until the 90s

    • @CreativePower.
      @CreativePower. Рік тому

      There are gay, dl, Trans in allllll communities. Who do you think is pushing the gay propaganda amongst the celebrities and into the blk community thru music 🤔...the gate keepers who so happen to be jews and Caucasians. They are the ones with they gay demonic swinger parties.

  • @denisenoles3159
    @denisenoles3159 Рік тому +40

    A former health provider told me she caught her husband in their house in the basement doing this dude who he always said was his close friend from way back. smh

  • @salomewilson9032
    @salomewilson9032 Рік тому +38

    Parents are too eager to leave their children with a boyfriend they've only known for a short time. Leave their children with a coach, music instructor, martial arts instructor, and neighbors. And I would look at young boys who like to babysit too
    What young boys want to babysit all the time. And your new coworker always volunteers to watch your kids. And watch out for the husband's and boyfriends of your girlfriends, too. Trust no one you don't know, cousins, brothers, or uncles.

  • @chosen1121
    @chosen1121 Рік тому +60

    This is making me feel nauseous.... Because I know it's true.

    • @igordova6246
      @igordova6246 Рік тому +4

      Day of the dark soul it will pass breathe

  • @spiritualintuitions1125
    @spiritualintuitions1125 2 місяці тому +9

    It’s not just the alcohol, it’s the drugs too that will allow evil spirits into your space.

  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 Рік тому +87

    Even more disconcerting is they have no problem wasting the other persons time and emotions and of course their resources too propping up a fraud.

    • @sharongomes7219
      @sharongomes7219 Рік тому

      My x's niece called him a fraud in front of me! He also has a "friend" in Florida that he blew me off for! Lol. DL man!

    • @florencebowden3980
      @florencebowden3980 Рік тому +1

      Narcissists

    • @florencebowden3980
      @florencebowden3980 Рік тому

      It's a nasty choice!! Gotta keep them n Prayer!!

    • @florencebowden3980
      @florencebowden3980 Рік тому +1

      TY much...Most I already know..U confirmed it!!! Thank God for descipline of the body!!!👍🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💚⚘

  • @Mari-lv1rd
    @Mari-lv1rd Рік тому +52

    Thank you Miss Faye,
    I've always had all friends of all sex, shape and color but as I've become older and been dissapointed at how perverted people are I have to be more alone. You speak as though you would have been the big sister I didn't have. Everyone I meet just wants sex; gay, bi, single, married couples. What on earth is wrong with them ?. I'll just stay alone...God loves me and a true friend gave me a prayer book for Christmas.

  • @London1111
    @London1111 Рік тому +29

    I’m staying abstinent it’s a great stress reliever

  • @survivorship4290
    @survivorship4290 Рік тому +115

    (29:15) You are certainly helping me and I'm a 48-year-old black female, divorced with three children under age of 19. I just found your Channel today. It's all a blessing. I hope you continue with this for as long as you can. 💐

    • @eugenecharrington
      @eugenecharrington Рік тому

      Like u said Faye the Black church is full of
      liars, hustlers, child molesters and cheaters,
      the best relion is no religion.

  • @sunshinehope4012
    @sunshinehope4012 Рік тому +26

    This was my experience exactly. His aura was always off. He never appeared happy, nor with me. Thank God I was wise enough to figure this out. Thanks for this confirmation Ms Faye, you are so on point.

    • @LandandHomesHawaii
      @LandandHomesHawaii Рік тому +5

      Sorry you had to go thru that. Finally caught my ex dogging another man and I swear I knew that siomething was "off" with him. He liked to pretend he was the "bottom" and I dould never figure that shyt out. When I caught him in bed with his friend, I have never been the same.

    • @Nortongroove
      @Nortongroove Рік тому +1

      You need to immediately go get a serum std panel drawn. This is beyond sin to expose an innocent partner to the dangers of this filthy behavior. I’m truly sorry you have had to endure this. He should be sued for emotional torment.

    • @vickiburchfield5741
      @vickiburchfield5741 3 місяці тому

      So many times, they were sexually abused in childhood.
      They don't need to be sued. They need help and education.

    • @vickiburchfield5741
      @vickiburchfield5741 3 місяці тому

      And yes, you need to get checked out for SDI.
      If you don't have the money for this, there are many free clinics.
      Because the health care clinics want to put a stop for spreading STIs.

  • @twinkiecrunch6344
    @twinkiecrunch6344 Рік тому +100

    Thank you Miss Faye for this wonderful channel. After 30+ found out my man was on the DL. I don't feel so alone seeing other women understand but it does still hurt a lot

    • @Designs_Decor63
      @Designs_Decor63 Рік тому +12

      Are you OK today

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 Рік тому +12

      Im sorry I live in SC Bible belt they are everywhere 💔🤬💥

    • @catherinepatton8699
      @catherinepatton8699 3 місяці тому

      Miss Faye,
      I am 88 years old lived my life doing what l know to do and many decisions l made without total information.
      You my dear are helping thousands of women.
      I listened to you, your wisdom, education your pearls of wisdom are amazing.
      I support you your channel your experience sharing your experience is amazing.
      I never got insight to my decisions, until l started to listen to you now so many questions l had have been cleared up l feel stronger, safer due to your input.
      Thank you

  • @natashalampkin366
    @natashalampkin366 5 місяців тому +7

    I was dating a guy that was Dl now my health is on the line . Please pray for me Miss Faye. This guy was so sick in the head yet I ignored the signs

    • @Rmdon444
      @Rmdon444 Місяць тому +1

      I pray you heal. Love and light to you

  • @airforce1324
    @airforce1324 6 місяців тому +10

    They’ll even pretend like their boyfriends are their cousins or relatives. And if you’re new to the family, you don’t know that’s not his blood relative.

  • @TwilaB0721
    @TwilaB0721 Рік тому +35

    I asked my man friend was he gay, he didn't say yes or no, so that leaves me to believe he is Gay!!

  • @allaboardthegravytrain5987
    @allaboardthegravytrain5987 8 місяців тому +16

    It’s weird when they profess so much love for you and one argument and it’s like they don’t remember you at all

    • @shirleyguinyard8183
      @shirleyguinyard8183 6 місяців тому +1

      This is how my Narcissist Husband treated me we could have sex one night and the next night he treats me like he never knew me he even told me that I don't deserve him he hates my guts.

    • @user-ps4ky5jk8w
      @user-ps4ky5jk8w 2 місяці тому

      @@shirleyguinyard8183this !

  • @ceraroberts2691
    @ceraroberts2691 Рік тому +120

    She is telling the truth about everything! I worked as an officer in a state prison for my career. Both men and women's facilities. The issues here are not just in the prison system. I have run into three of these guys in a vary small town in Utah. One guy was trying to get with me. Because of everything I learned in prison I called the guy out. He was dumbfounded that I knew what he was doing. I told him I'm nobody's beard! At the end of the day, he treated me way different because he knew how much power I held.
    It's still funny to me that all three of these guys run together. Birds of a feather flock together......

    • @taraarrington2285
      @taraarrington2285 Рік тому +18

      Yes. There are officers on the d.l. too they do things like stalk innocent women probably because they're jealous.

    • @deejames1st
      @deejames1st Рік тому +12

      What are the signs you notice? I’d like to know how to best avoid these types of men

    • @yolandajames7206
      @yolandajames7206 Рік тому +7

      @@taraarrington2285 wow....perfect description of what was going on here lol stalking an "innocent" woman...as they definitely were

    • @taraarrington2285
      @taraarrington2285 Рік тому +1

      @@yolandajames7206 yes. They're probably jealous being in the closet and all. Probably want your man or something.

    • @yolandajames7206
      @yolandajames7206 Рік тому +9

      @@taraarrington2285 yes... I believe they were trying to harm me because, they were secretly dealing with him & his confused self is "still in love with me" they were gang stalking me out of nowhere for no reason, even wanted me to self harm or commit suicide for no reason, behind this individual....smh people are sick in the head & ridiculous, evil as well.

  • @KCruz7
    @KCruz7 Рік тому +70

    Ma’am you are sharing pearls of wisdom. Thank you sooo sooo much ., you are an earth Angel ❤

  • @shrekanorthern2457
    @shrekanorthern2457 Рік тому +65

    She’s not lying about none of this it’s so true I’ve just got out of an relationship like this it’s so hurtful to hear 👂🏾 from someone else that all this was going on and I paid no attention 😢

    • @katiepayne797
      @katiepayne797 Рік тому +1

      I believe it hard to detect for most person, all lesbians not easy to detect either they all don't dress as a butch/ like a man, I bet 50-75% of women have been with a man that have engaged with the same sex🙄🤷🏾‍♀️😢

    • @peacelove5511
      @peacelove5511 11 місяців тому +3

      So true and the man I was with act as if he hated gay men calling them bountyboys because he was from Jamaica and said there they will kill you for that when all along he was on the DL. Most of the time the woman have to either look extremely good, have great success and just be pretty and dumb because they do need someone to throw off others. My guy would rent out rooms in his house, I started noticing the type of men he would rent too and take all type of stuff off of them. I didn’t even notice at first how excited he became around men especially very good looking me he was like a fast girl a whole different type of energy. I want even mention things he tried to request in bad an tried to lie and say he never tried these things just wanted to see what the hype was. I could go on and on but I end now. Thank you I hope people will share this and the other one you did on the D L man.

  • @astrology4u
    @astrology4u Рік тому +35

    Not only does he like a good looking woman for a great cover, the DL man will also date women outside of his race because women within his race, will and can blow his cover more easily. It’s not easy hiding for long from your own kind.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 Рік тому

      They also don't see the very pretty women as people more like dolls to show off as a status symbol (how dehumanizing for a woman) and use as a secks toy.
      That's why women with DL men get a lot of plastic surgery and look plastic.
      That's why women shouldn't envy looks on woman cause it is only used as a commodity by men to traffick or use as a Stepford Wife for a DL.

    • @glidkomer
      @glidkomer 10 місяців тому +1

      👉🎯

  • @cocoaocean
    @cocoaocean Рік тому +22

    They get more pleasure sneaking around. Its a kink. Thank you 😊 💓 It's so funny you are burning trash 🗑 🤣Thats perfect for the topic 👌 🙌🏽

  • @mymiracle79
    @mymiracle79 Рік тому +35

    You are straight no chaser. I like that.

  • @iamaleo247
    @iamaleo247 Рік тому +24

    Ms. Faye….. You are truly in your calling with these messages. You hit it on the nail EVERY ONE of your videos! I truly hope women out there are listening.
    Wisest words ever spoken. I can’t thank you enough for sharing. God bless you!🙏🏽♥️

  • @starettaelliott1679
    @starettaelliott1679 Рік тому +18

    These men don't wanna get to know you or they don't want you to know them

  • @dianesorokac2260
    @dianesorokac2260 Рік тому +42

    Threw out a covert narcissist a few years back n think he may have been on the dl...thank God I tested negative 4 all stds!!! Women better be careful about stds n stis n aids n herpes! You never know what your man is up to n don't forget about massage parlors!!!

    • @Glitter504
      @Glitter504 Рік тому +7

      The narcissist I was with I gat a feeling he was going Both ways! He wanted attention soo bad he wiil
      Take it from anyone and always wanted the back door 🚪as well!!!!

    • @kamiwellman8056
      @kamiwellman8056 Рік тому

      What's a massage parlors???

    • @bettyespy2683
      @bettyespy2683 Рік тому +1

      Ms Fay thank you for the truth AMEN!!

    • @katiepayne797
      @katiepayne797 Рік тому +1

      True those diseases can be spread by either gender, Lesbians or Straight women or men, who's bed hopping engaging with multiple people or one tainted person can set it off to plenty and it don't have to be the DL's 🤷🏾‍♀️😢

    • @katiepayne797
      @katiepayne797 Рік тому +1

      @@kamiwellman8056 People like to call massage parlors uncover prostitution rings, but every massage parlor not about illicit sex entertainment, like everybody in church is not holy🙄 once people start labeling they don't know where to stop, until somebody stick a label on them, 🙄🤷🏾‍♀️😢 do you get it, understand?

  • @timothygenaw2199
    @timothygenaw2199 Рік тому +75

    Mam, this is true. Closeted bisexual men are everywhere. I don't judge people for their nature if they are committed good people, but nobody should cheat with a male or female when they are married to a person. If someone shows other signs of being a deceitful, two faced, fake, selfish, or controlling person...then be careful. Use protection until you can leave the situation.

    • @loislane3972
      @loislane3972 Рік тому

      ​@Belltown Daisy Real.Ta!k.
      They are nothing but gay a freaking homosexual.

    • @WarrenSofine-tp7qf
      @WarrenSofine-tp7qf 28 днів тому

      Faccccctsss

  • @Naijella86
    @Naijella86 Рік тому +26

    I’m a black woman in England and I date white men exclusively and let me tell you something - the DL is a problem with them as well. The only thing I would say is a little better is that they’re a lot more open about their homosexual encounters. But for the grace of God have I not got intimately involved with two men that have previously had sex with other men. Talk about playing Russian roulette with your life; luckily for me they both told me of their previous encounters and I got rid of them before I ever even share a kiss with them.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 Рік тому +6

      Well you know the saying about English men all being gay (& their gender segregated schooling which has been coed only recently at comprehensives)....and wherever the British empire went the colonized men became massively gay too.
      I would argue the same with the American empire.
      USA = empire by denial/deception. - Immerwahr

    • @Naijella86
      @Naijella86 Рік тому +5

      @@testtest2609 I can’t imagine ever taking a partner seriously as a man that had, had sex with another man

    • @dfuk66
      @dfuk66 10 місяців тому

      The truth is white men are more open about it.... black men hide. Also white men have less diseases than these black men. Look at the stats. Keep dating white men only they are clean

    • @devionewilkins8903
      @devionewilkins8903 5 місяців тому +4

      Dude here. I’m not involving, but I’ve had my encounters with DL women. And let me tell you, that mess hurt you and humiliates you. Before I date any women, I got to know if they have any attractions towards other girls or if they had an experience. The four girls I talked to in my life: one didn’t, another hasn’t either, I don’t know about the third, and the forth one told me she used to be attracted to girls but never went further. People be thinking this crap is funny, no there are people who get hurt or killed by doing things like this. I just wish people be honest

    • @WarrenSofine-tp7qf
      @WarrenSofine-tp7qf 28 днів тому

      ​@@devionewilkins8903 Faccccctsss you are so right you are so right I personally know
      I have females invites me out with their girlfriend etc
      There they was feminine the girlfriend was a masculine Stud
      Soon as her stud girlfriend walk me to the door she turned feminine and started coming on to me and tried to make out with me I pushed it back like no no
      Etc smh

  • @KCruz7
    @KCruz7 Рік тому +40

    Thank you for being direct and transparent. Love and respect you for that . 🌺💕

  • @Justine-gp5tn
    @Justine-gp5tn 4 місяці тому +5

    Get a private investigator to check them out.

  • @monicabrown6601
    @monicabrown6601 Рік тому +41

    And you will never know them just the part they want you to see

  • @sagittariusblack2879
    @sagittariusblack2879 Рік тому +71

    Miss Faye I want to let you know something. I’ve encountered 3 DL men that eat plenty of 🐱 so sometimes even if he does do that it doesn’t mean he still doesn’t prefer another man.

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 Рік тому +1

      They are prostitutes they want food money shelter it’s disgusting 🤮

    • @sagittariusblack2879
      @sagittariusblack2879 Рік тому +14

      @@lovewhitey2027 It’s so weird! They present themselves as being financially secure and like they can do for you. Then, somehow flip the script…..like, huh?

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 Рік тому

      @@sagittariusblack2879 all con men 🚨🚨🤬

    • @selnun2707
      @selnun2707 Рік тому +3

      That is true hunty!!

  • @jenaharris1763
    @jenaharris1763 Рік тому +28

    I know this is not a very recent video but still crucial info to consider as it relates to the dl man. J.L. King is an African American author who describes it best in his books about living a secret life on the dl while married with a family until his wife caught him having sex with a man. Thanks Miss Faye for sharing the insight in this video.

  • @cocoaocean
    @cocoaocean Рік тому +22

    I had a man 35 years my senior approach me and courted me like he wanted to be my fiance, he also introduced us to the temple like that. He lived with a man and never spent the night after being in my house and wanting sex the entire time. Well at about the one and half year mark another person took over him and he no longer wanted to touch me. I always had nightmares of running and not being able to get to my destination , sweating and stressed. That was God tell me what he enjoyed doing to me , sabotage. At the end he had his roommate call me and say we broke up! So sometimes you are a cover for them. He would provoke fights and use my reaction to justify what he tells everyone else. It is spiritual warfare. Thank you again for this therapy ❤️ 🙏

  • @judithjames4890
    @judithjames4890 Рік тому +19

    Thank you Miss Faye, I just subscribed to you because, you say what I have been thinking. I have been told that I am old fashioned because I won't allow myself to be used. I stand on my own two feet. I am 64 years old and it's been hard being celibate. But, again, I needed to hear someone say don't give up your power. I feel alone because most women I know give away everything.

  • @whitneysmith5446
    @whitneysmith5446 4 місяці тому +3

    ‘It’s hurting us women and we don’t have to put up with it.’ Yes, amen, sister

  • @barbarahawkins4721
    @barbarahawkins4721 Рік тому +13

    SO TRUE!! I LOOK FOR RED FLAGS ALL THE TIME, NOW THAT I HAVE GOTTEN OLDER AND WISER! THANK YOU AGAIN!!

  • @cynthiafreeman2995
    @cynthiafreeman2995 Рік тому +26

    If you suspect it HE IS 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉

    • @marciloni12
      @marciloni12 Рік тому +7

      Yup, trust your instinct!
      Growing up in a dysfunctional family or society, we are programmed and brainwashed to ignore pain, fear and discomfort.
      Your feelings are right.

  • @aliciareneeakablueeyes1483
    @aliciareneeakablueeyes1483 Рік тому +6

    I Really appreciate your channel. I live in New Orleans where in 2023 HIV is #2 in the entire country.. I also saw a very popular Gay DJ here in New Orleans say that he hosted for the holidays on one evening 5 different Gay events and he said there were mostly HETEROSEXUAL men at each event more so than the Gay men.. Ill never forget him saying "New Orleans, Whats REALLY going on???"... Big Sigh & Smh thanks so much for this video post. Ladies Stay safe out there

  • @chandrareid8622
    @chandrareid8622 Рік тому +11

    May God judgement expose the lies that down low men like to keep hidden.

  • @brendacrawford343
    @brendacrawford343 Рік тому +7

    Had “a dl “fiancé ( a Marine)who beat me so I ran backhome to parents! Thank u thank u thank u big sis !

  • @Decgyrrl
    @Decgyrrl Рік тому +50

    My mother used to tell me, that a man is gonna be a man. And as I got older I understood exactly, what she was talking abt.
    My mother always talked to me, and I'm very grateful to her for that. In her day, no one talked them abt sex. But she didn't raise me like that. If I had a question, she was always ready to answer it. God bless her.

  • @lotusflower3154
    @lotusflower3154 Рік тому +12

    I’m 45 I divorced at 42 my husband was undercover with a coworker
    And I help him build his career and he treated me like shit after and during the divorce process

  • @RaylenePrice
    @RaylenePrice Рік тому +16

    I’m sick of that treatment they buy you a meal and think you will give them sex because they spent money on you, NOPE!!! I’m not going to be a booty call 🚫🚫🚫 - Raylene Price

  • @sandycheeks1580
    @sandycheeks1580 Рік тому +10

    🎉😢My ex husband is still DL because he’s an Arab muslim. He’s been paying for the “gym” for 9 years but never lost any weight or gained any muscle! He’s past 40 now. Not so attractive to the 20 & 30 somethings anymore. Old gays always looking for young gays. Young gays lookin for DL gays money 😅. He 🧛‍♂️fat, older, & ain’t got no 💵 now 😅. So now he’s trying to come back my way. 🙅🏽‍♀️ Heck No!!!

    • @WarrenSofine-tp7qf
      @WarrenSofine-tp7qf 28 днів тому

      We Young Ones definitely be focusing on Money from these DLs
      You do it right you build a whole lifestyle that you officially have to transition out of into a higher elevation which I'm in the process now I'm still keeping a lot of the material things like the house all of that but I'm transition in my spirit and the money coming in and just my choices and opportunities and stuff in all
      But wow you hit it on the nail
      And then people like me I like
      A lot of things of older and prefer Older
      An older man have body parts that is better for certain people regardless

  • @dcaleb149
    @dcaleb149 Рік тому +8

    A lot of men are living the DL life for the MONEY! It's scary out here. 🙏🏽

  • @Theloversconjure
    @Theloversconjure Рік тому +14

    The minute I have to question that about someone is the minute they are done dealing with me lol. No more feminine damsel in distress men. ❤

  • @akuddawahu9247
    @akuddawahu9247 Рік тому +12

    And here I was thinking your grilling something delicious 😂

  • @calicowest
    @calicowest Рік тому +20

    Also the culture of jail and prison bring males into fold of homosexuality, and lack true male relationship with their fathers.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 Рік тому

      It actually started at colonialization & slàv3ry....the gay male population explodes after colonialization by white men especially British & American white men.
      The sagging pants thing go back to slãv3ry. They also forced slav3s into incest...in fact same was done in Vietnam with America's Phoenix Program and now the war in Congo which America is behind using Rwanada as well as proxy.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 Рік тому

      Goerge Washington attended a gay S&M party in England called Hellfire club. Skull and Bones in Yale is also using gay hazing in coffins. This country was created and run by patriarchal gay white men. They use secks to trauma bond & terrorize men too... especially in the military.

    • @WarrenSofine-tp7qf
      @WarrenSofine-tp7qf 28 днів тому

      Faccccctsss

  • @Designs_Decor63
    @Designs_Decor63 Рік тому +16

    You hit the nail on the head, lust is where most relationships started, so true I speak with my daughter's about their ❤️ language.

  • @ritapeek314
    @ritapeek314 Рік тому +18

    Thank you Miss Fay for educating women about this

  • @DoingMe686
    @DoingMe686 Рік тому +11

    As real as this topic is, it makes a woman not even want to be bothered with them. If I EVER found out my husband was on the DL, that would be a total deal breaker. I have a heart disease and those meds don’t mix with my heart meds and it would be a death sentence for me.

  • @Sarah-st6vf
    @Sarah-st6vf Рік тому +37

    i love your energy, message and wisdom. so lucky to have found this channel

  • @audreyfreeman7961
    @audreyfreeman7961 Рік тому +16

    Hi Miss Faye,
    I enjoy all your videos. This is what our young women need as well as the older women. Bless You!!!

  • @KeithsTVHD1
    @KeithsTVHD1 4 місяці тому +8

    Me as a straight male, the idea of having sex with another man is disgusting to me!

    • @scuba_steve_954
      @scuba_steve_954 2 місяці тому +4

      Says the down low guy

    • @WarrenSofine-tp7qf
      @WarrenSofine-tp7qf 28 днів тому

      Lol you funny 😅😅😅😅
      You get no thumbs or likes lol😅

    • @WarrenSofine-tp7qf
      @WarrenSofine-tp7qf 28 днів тому

      ​@@scuba_steve_954Faccccctsss 😅😅😅😅 you are funny

  • @jacquelinem.2948
    @jacquelinem.2948 Рік тому +6

    Yes, dating is getting to know someone. Don’t rush. Long story short, If there’s something detrimental that you spot then you break up with him, though he may get angry. When that happens, block him. No second thoughts!

  • @pattyplaylottery
    @pattyplaylottery Рік тому +17

    Not only we be heartbroken but messes with our mind. Takes a hor minute ti get back to being normal again if we can call it that.

    • @igordova6246
      @igordova6246 Рік тому +3

      You were meant to learn the lesson

  • @mizzobjectiveone3819
    @mizzobjectiveone3819 Рік тому +8

    I used to be all about the church. I dated a preacher. He was a bodybuilder. He was a golden gloves boxer and looked like, the Rock. He was also a senior design engineer, so I thought I picked the perfect person. That is until I finally met his "buddy" Clinton, when I decided to go to the gym with him. I thought Clinton would be big, stocky, and masculine like him. Instead, Clinton was an aerobics instructor. It was over when I looked in there and saw him flitting around with the other women. He was the first and last black man, I ever dated.

  • @shirleydaniels9310
    @shirleydaniels9310 Рік тому +37

    True I knew a narcissists who was raped as a 5 year old repeatedly by clergy from 5 to 9 when he understood it was wrong but it was to late for him hes a horrible person now

    • @nmc1859
      @nmc1859 Рік тому +13

      Too much trauma at too young of an age. However, through God all things are possible ❤🙏

    • @witnessforjesus6492
      @witnessforjesus6492 Рік тому +1

      Did they go to prison?😢

  • @Assata_X_The_Writer
    @Assata_X_The_Writer Рік тому +17

    They are found in your local Parks ... in the parking lots, and in the woods. I walk my dogs in the parks daily ... and the men meet-ups are plentiful.

    • @Alex-no5eq
      @Alex-no5eq Рік тому +8

      So true. You are not naive as so other women when it comes to men desiring other men.

    • @sharongomes7219
      @sharongomes7219 Рік тому +10

      Thats true! My x told me he used to walk his dog years ago through this walking path in the grass and trees and it's a gay hook up place! I said n you kept going there to walk your dog? It all makes sense!

  • @daigle2007
    @daigle2007 Рік тому +9

    Ladies these are FACTS 💯

  • @Iamnayhall
    @Iamnayhall Рік тому +8

    I’m literally sick to my stomach my chest hurts

  • @deowil1
    @deowil1 Рік тому +30

    Of course, it's baffling to find out that lots of men (women too) are going both ways. Sadly, most families and especially in black households do not talk or explain the sexual lifestyles of people to their children. It does not hurt nor cost for parents to sit down and explain or keep their children abreast on issues about sex. As a matter of fact, all parents and/or guardians really need to be gurus that lovingly guide their offspring to take the right course on what is right or wrong in regard to sex in order to avoid years of trauma, pain, and confusion before they go thru puberty, adolescents, youth, and become adults. I don't understand why information like this is held back from children in a world that is saturated with sex.

    • @deowil1
      @deowil1 Рік тому +5

      @@panchoandthemule Have you ever heard of the series turned out? People who were straight ended up becoming gay because they were imprisoned and the gay practices were forced on them. Some people have admitted that they were molested as children which influenced their decision to be gay later on although not everyone who is gay was molested as a child, they just were influenced by something else.

    • @deowil1
      @deowil1 Рік тому

      I don't think that all gay people are pedophiles. Some gay people are extremely good parents. Some studies suggest gay people are more likely to molest children. But there are also many evil heterosexuals who molest children as well. When it comes to children, they should be protected and monitored. I wouldn't assume that only gay people molest children and overlook the heterosexual. In fact I trust no one. I am sure you agree. Have a great day too!

  • @miasgardenadventures2998
    @miasgardenadventures2998 Рік тому +55

    Recurrent BV is a strong clue.

  • @waterfalls2724
    @waterfalls2724 Рік тому +17

    I loved watching this video. Lady you are a blessing to many women out here and you are very wise and know what you're talking about. I like how you teaching the young and older women.

  • @vivianperdue4329
    @vivianperdue4329 10 місяців тому +8

    My gay friend tell me this all the time and shows me pictures of the DL MENS he sleep with ..I always tell my friend if he show me someone I know I'm calling his wife and telling ...this makes me angry just pick a side why you got to be on the DL dam 😢😢

  • @juanitasanchezramos9310
    @juanitasanchezramos9310 Рік тому +8

    A few yesrs ago a Police seargant recently retired had a heart attack at their family vacation home.. to the wifes surprise he was with his male lover.. the man died.

  • @mzgreeneyez9048
    @mzgreeneyez9048 Рік тому +7

    My ex husband left me after I helped him to fix credit, get full custody of his kids for another woman. After 15 years, I realized he did that in his first marriage.
    Now, I ve heard he is doing that in his third marriage. PLUS, gay men used to ask me if he was gay. Now I wonder

  • @rrrj7816
    @rrrj7816 Рік тому +11

    These downlow guys need women that’s why they won’t leave us the hell alone! BW need to use discernment! Less headaches and heartaches when you leave to their own devices!

  • @lindatiff43
    @lindatiff43 Рік тому +16

    Keep up the good work. This is one lady who is real and logical and knows nonsense when it comes her way. Helping these young ladies out here. Very critical detailed thought process and the little things she is saying are as important. Most of these videos don't talk about this honestly to keep from blowing their cover. Thank you! Burning trash now that is clever

  • @nmc1859
    @nmc1859 Рік тому +20

    End times. It's affecting all age groups now from what i can tell. Esp when the medical industrial complex encourages boys to change their gender in grade school.
    And how many cashiers have i come across with a full beard + a full set of acrylic nails ????? Confusing times.

    • @shea1219
      @shea1219 Рік тому +4

      Something is wrong .... I'm in Toronto, I have never seen this. I do know we have our fair share of DL men here as well. It's so weird.

    • @marciloni12
      @marciloni12 Рік тому +1

      😂😂

  • @yvettemiles2659
    @yvettemiles2659 Рік тому +6

    Hello Faye how are you, I went to
    the gym last week to cancel my
    membership. The parking lot was
    full but hardly any people in the
    gym. This must be the new bath
    house!!!

  • @karenkellock
    @karenkellock 3 місяці тому +3

    People talk about "gay" as if it's just another IDENTITY. It's actually a dirty thing and keep bringing this out cuz it's UNBELIEVABLE to us--what's happening with men behind the scenes!

    • @BNyaB
      @BNyaB Місяць тому

      👍👍👍

    • @karenkellock
      @karenkellock Місяць тому

      @@BNyaB Any man who thinks it's ok, or says "homosexuality is just a lifestyle"--ask him if HE has any "butt buddies".

  • @1honeychild
    @1honeychild Рік тому +11

    They going to hell period. Pray for discernment.

  • @sharon3108
    @sharon3108 Рік тому +14

    Words of wisdom . I am sorry for those who came to learn thats who they married. There is no life with them, only existence... and a miserable one at that most of the time :/

  • @ninav7322
    @ninav7322 Рік тому +9

    Ms Faye so Happy to have found your channel, I appreciate the sharing of your non- judgemental words of Wisdom & Truth...

  • @Ada.Tallie
    @Ada.Tallie Рік тому +12

    Ms. Fay you talking true facts.

  • @justrashanda3662
    @justrashanda3662 Рік тому +17

    Love your videos new subscriber I grew up in the lgbt community my family created Chicago house dance so to speak I’m straight but everything you said Chile 😩😂😂😂 was spot ON!

  • @janespitfire9884
    @janespitfire9884 Рік тому +8

    My Ex tricked me. I was young and not experience but it finally came out after 22 years of marriage. Actually my Ex was perverted in other things but believe he cheated on me with men and other younger females. After awhile he started hating me and ignoring me despite 2 children. I got the vibes and he let me know by the bruises on his butt and going on 2 week vacation with a gay man at his job. I was a cover up and did not realize it till years later . When I realized it I filed for divorce. He did get married again to a female older doctor who travels all the time so he is now in the perfect marriage.
    I think the bisexuals are in all races. So women accept it for mates. Luckily I never got a disease! I
    I look back on signs were there...he had no male friends and refused to get to know other couples when married, very neat and obsessed wiht home decor, and very picky about many things. Also during divorce my Ex hubby took my 2 teen kids to movie about homosexual lifestyle. I was SO upset!! Also I think my family brothers knew but just ignored me and did not say anything at all. A bisexual male is worse than a man who runs after just ladies. I just read Will Smith the actor is gay now too. It seems to be more of a lifestyle in Hollywood

    • @azrafanoos1631
      @azrafanoos1631 Рік тому +1

      How are dl men worse than the ones running after other ladies?

    • @PaulSmith-yd9ow
      @PaulSmith-yd9ow Рік тому

      ​@@azrafanoos1631I know right lol😅

  • @advancedinsight246
    @advancedinsight246 Рік тому +10

    Miss Faye, your video was very informative! I appreciate you so much!

  • @maryv.passiglia1861
    @maryv.passiglia1861 Рік тому +7

    You always help me out with the situation , thank you

  • @truthbetold4178
    @truthbetold4178 Рік тому +6

    👏👏👏... LOVE the forthright manner in which you express the truth about the situation on your absolutely beautiful property. Thank you, Miss Faye~ ❣️🙏🏾

  • @sandyflory2911
    @sandyflory2911 Рік тому +5

    Love your guidance Ms. Faye. Thank you for TRUTH👍

  • @LandandHomesHawaii
    @LandandHomesHawaii Рік тому +9

    Yes I totally felt "he didnt REALLY want to be around me" Yet he kept me on his arm and in front of his dick friends to make his dick friends jealous. Ms Faye I didnt want to SEE it. Didnt want to believe it.

  • @Designs_Decor63
    @Designs_Decor63 Рік тому +6

    Ms. Faye you are my, our kindred spirit. Thank you 😊 💓

  • @amandanbs4037
    @amandanbs4037 Рік тому +32

    Would you classify all DL men as narcissist? I would.

    • @igordova6246
      @igordova6246 Рік тому +8

      Another bingo

    • @missta1820
      @missta1820 Рік тому +10

      The DL man I was tangled up with was a Narcissist and hard drug user.

    • @London1111
      @London1111 Рік тому +12

      Yup it’s no way possible they can be happy when they gotta hide who they are

  • @LORENA-wq3vm
    @LORENA-wq3vm Рік тому +4

    You’re right!!! New subbie from Tampa Florida 🌴
    Love your channel.🌷

  • @JT-lt5gr
    @JT-lt5gr Рік тому +3

    OMG, Miss Faye! I've just noticed your fence! Jeez, mine is a 6' privacy fence. Yours must be 10'!

  • @TheCarolsarratt
    @TheCarolsarratt 4 місяці тому +2

    Some men will try out anything and it's sad

  • @suefleming
    @suefleming Рік тому +13

    I was sucked into many many bisexual parties with men and women.
    And yes it was my fault too.
    My experience with bisexual men is that there are So many of them out there.
    I would say 80 to 90% of them are tops.
    Maybe not as many bottoms but.... Bisexuality in men is very very very COMMON....

    • @devionewilkins8903
      @devionewilkins8903 5 місяців тому +2

      Makes you think back about all those “gay jokes” with your friends. Some of them seem TOO into their jokes and the tone of voice. It felt like they had some truth to what they were saying. Some of them will even go far as play around and jump on each other. One dude did it for too long and we had to stop him. I have nothing against lgbt people. But that spirit they have is very predatory and conniving.

  • @Samanta-Li
    @Samanta-Li Рік тому +7

    I Love You ! This Video Is Everything !

  • @B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786
    @B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786 Рік тому +7

    Straight talk MissFaye 🎉