My white husband is no different. What is going on in the world these days? A woman cannot believe in anyone. My heart is broken in a thousand pieces. I cant function most days. These videos have helped me a lot today.
Sexual perversion and lawlessness. People turning they’re backs on God and leaning to they’re own understanding. Which is them getting deceived by all kinds of evil (dark spirits). Just like there are DL men, so are women. What the devil cannot create, he twists.
And venereal diseases. I knew a woman named Melissa who had AIDS and she told me that when she got AIDS her husband admitted that he had been on the down low. It talked about here in this video that it's in the black community, well Melissa and her husband were black. That being said, my father was a white man and he was so download he might as well have been gay. My father was a psychopath and a narcissist including a Machiavellian.
She is the best, I can't imagine a day without her angelic voice, WELCOME 🎉❤, I focus more with my work and also being productive and getting notes as much as I could, she is amazing ❤️
The mothers, grandmothers were brainwashed by patriarchy. The truth was hidden and they were literally terrorized into submission. The patriarchy has robotized women. Robotization means you follow the will, emotions, thoughts & orders of another. It is observed in concentration camps, DV relationships, prison, slavery, etc. - Trauma & Recovery (Herman, 2015)
This is how my Narcissist Husband treated me we could have sex one night and the next night he treats me like he never knew me he even told me that I don't deserve him he hates my guts.
Filth meaning he is keeping it a secret...never allowing the unknowing party a chance to say yah or nay. Shit do you if you want to ram or let someone else ram you in the butt...do you. 💯
Wïte menz taught/ra4ped men of the world thru colonization (r4ape & pillage) everywhere the British empire & American empire goes the male gay population explodes....they've subjecting men to this for hundreds of years since the Greeks & Romans. And the 1st place they add gayness is to spiritual, magik, occult, secret society and witchcraft. They want to hijack spirituality & use it to infect people to follow their ways & make people submit, even men.
All cultures are like this on every level not just black or white men. Women have to be very careful jumping in bed with a man you know nothing about. He can be very slick and persuading. But watch out and ask the Lord to give you an eye and a discerning spirit to know who you are dealing with. It is too dangerous out here because aids HIV is still out there though we don't hear about it as much these days. Yet it is still rampant. So care about yourself ladies you have value.
@@kTorres007 Many men regardless of race and culture are doing these filthy things and bringing that stuff back to their wives and girlfriends. Very sad but no man whatever he is will do these things to himself because he doesn't care about himself or anyone else. DL is just what it is "down low." This applies to all men in every race.
Facts. I was dealing with a guy 3 years ago.never knew he was engaged. He gave me hpv and horrible nasty uti. He admitted he has sex issues. Very sneaky. I believe he was messing with both sides.
We don't need federal law. We need education. Then people could decide what they want to do. If they had a law for everything somebody didn't like, everyone would be locked up.
I’m in a sexless marriage with a man and I just found out that he has been on gay/trans escort sites. He deceived me and had a baby with me. I am so disgusted with him. He never showed no sign until recently but the fact that he has been avoiding sex explains it ALL now. Glad I found out now than later. I’m ready to exit my way with my baby and divorce this monster.
They’ll even pretend like their boyfriends are their cousins or relatives. And if you’re new to the family, you don’t know that’s not his blood relative.
This is one of the reasons why the Black community is in the terrible predicament it is in. It is as if Black men have given up their manhood. I am glad to hear Ms. Faye, speak on the topic of DL men. It is terrible seeing young men wearing sagging pants but, every time a see Black men over thirty wearing their pants sagging there is no hope for them. Again Ms. Faye, you have shared with us what you have learned from living.
There are gay, dl, Trans in allllll communities. Who do you think is pushing the gay propaganda amongst the celebrities and into the blk community thru music 🤔...the gate keepers who so happen to be jews and Caucasians. They are the ones with they gay demonic swinger parties.
A former health provider told me she caught her husband in their house in the basement doing this dude who he always said was his close friend from way back. smh
Yes I totally felt "he didnt REALLY want to be around me" Yet he kept me on his arm and in front of his dick friends to make his dick friends jealous. Ms Faye I didnt want to SEE it. Didnt want to believe it.
Thank you Miss Faye for this wonderful channel. After 30+ found out my man was on the DL. I don't feel so alone seeing other women understand but it does still hurt a lot
Miss Faye, I am 88 years old lived my life doing what l know to do and many decisions l made without total information. You my dear are helping thousands of women. I listened to you, your wisdom, education your pearls of wisdom are amazing. I support you your channel your experience sharing your experience is amazing. I never got insight to my decisions, until l started to listen to you now so many questions l had have been cleared up l feel stronger, safer due to your input. Thank you
Parents are too eager to leave their children with a boyfriend they've only known for a short time. Leave their children with a coach, music instructor, martial arts instructor, and neighbors. And I would look at young boys who like to babysit too What young boys want to babysit all the time. And your new coworker always volunteers to watch your kids. And watch out for the husband's and boyfriends of your girlfriends, too. Trust no one you don't know, cousins, brothers, or uncles.
This was my experience exactly. His aura was always off. He never appeared happy, nor with me. Thank God I was wise enough to figure this out. Thanks for this confirmation Ms Faye, you are so on point.
Sorry you had to go thru that. Finally caught my ex dogging another man and I swear I knew that siomething was "off" with him. He liked to pretend he was the "bottom" and I dould never figure that shyt out. When I caught him in bed with his friend, I have never been the same.
You need to immediately go get a serum std panel drawn. This is beyond sin to expose an innocent partner to the dangers of this filthy behavior. I’m truly sorry you have had to endure this. He should be sued for emotional torment.
And yes, you need to get checked out for SDI. If you don't have the money for this, there are many free clinics. Because the health care clinics want to put a stop for spreading STIs.
Mam, this is true. Closeted bisexual men are everywhere. I don't judge people for their nature if they are committed good people, but nobody should cheat with a male or female when they are married to a person. If someone shows other signs of being a deceitful, two faced, fake, selfish, or controlling person...then be careful. Use protection until you can leave the situation.
(29:15) You are certainly helping me and I'm a 48-year-old black female, divorced with three children under age of 19. I just found your Channel today. It's all a blessing. I hope you continue with this for as long as you can. 💐
Not only does he like a good looking woman for a great cover, the DL man will also date women outside of his race because women within his race, will and can blow his cover more easily. It’s not easy hiding for long from your own kind.
They also don't see the very pretty women as people more like dolls to show off as a status symbol (how dehumanizing for a woman) and use as a secks toy. That's why women with DL men get a lot of plastic surgery and look plastic. That's why women shouldn't envy looks on woman cause it is only used as a commodity by men to traffick or use as a Stepford Wife for a DL.
I Really appreciate your channel. I live in New Orleans where in 2023 HIV is #2 in the entire country.. I also saw a very popular Gay DJ here in New Orleans say that he hosted for the holidays on one evening 5 different Gay events and he said there were mostly HETEROSEXUAL men at each event more so than the Gay men.. Ill never forget him saying "New Orleans, Whats REALLY going on???"... Big Sigh & Smh thanks so much for this video post. Ladies Stay safe out there
She is telling the truth about everything! I worked as an officer in a state prison for my career. Both men and women's facilities. The issues here are not just in the prison system. I have run into three of these guys in a vary small town in Utah. One guy was trying to get with me. Because of everything I learned in prison I called the guy out. He was dumbfounded that I knew what he was doing. I told him I'm nobody's beard! At the end of the day, he treated me way different because he knew how much power I held. It's still funny to me that all three of these guys run together. Birds of a feather flock together......
@@taraarrington2285 yes... I believe they were trying to harm me because, they were secretly dealing with him & his confused self is "still in love with me" they were gang stalking me out of nowhere for no reason, even wanted me to self harm or commit suicide for no reason, behind this individual....smh people are sick in the head & ridiculous, evil as well.
Ms. Faye….. You are truly in your calling with these messages. You hit it on the nail EVERY ONE of your videos! I truly hope women out there are listening. Wisest words ever spoken. I can’t thank you enough for sharing. God bless you!🙏🏽♥️
She’s not lying about none of this it’s so true I’ve just got out of an relationship like this it’s so hurtful to hear 👂🏾 from someone else that all this was going on and I paid no attention 😢
I believe it hard to detect for most person, all lesbians not easy to detect either they all don't dress as a butch/ like a man, I bet 50-75% of women have been with a man that have engaged with the same sex🙄🤷🏾♀️😢
So true and the man I was with act as if he hated gay men calling them bountyboys because he was from Jamaica and said there they will kill you for that when all along he was on the DL. Most of the time the woman have to either look extremely good, have great success and just be pretty and dumb because they do need someone to throw off others. My guy would rent out rooms in his house, I started noticing the type of men he would rent too and take all type of stuff off of them. I didn’t even notice at first how excited he became around men especially very good looking me he was like a fast girl a whole different type of energy. I want even mention things he tried to request in bad an tried to lie and say he never tried these things just wanted to see what the hype was. I could go on and on but I end now. Thank you I hope people will share this and the other one you did on the D L man.
Thank you Miss Faye, I've always had all friends of all sex, shape and color but as I've become older and been dissapointed at how perverted people are I have to be more alone. You speak as though you would have been the big sister I didn't have. Everyone I meet just wants sex; gay, bi, single, married couples. What on earth is wrong with them ?. I'll just stay alone...God loves me and a true friend gave me a prayer book for Christmas.
"I applaud you, Madam, for your wisdom. You embody the traditional matriarch that has been lost in our community. You are the new 'Big Mama,' filling a void for many."
Threw out a covert narcissist a few years back n think he may have been on the dl...thank God I tested negative 4 all stds!!! Women better be careful about stds n stis n aids n herpes! You never know what your man is up to n don't forget about massage parlors!!!
The narcissist I was with I gat a feeling he was going Both ways! He wanted attention soo bad he wiil Take it from anyone and always wanted the back door 🚪as well!!!!
True those diseases can be spread by either gender, Lesbians or Straight women or men, who's bed hopping engaging with multiple people or one tainted person can set it off to plenty and it don't have to be the DL's 🤷🏾♀️😢
@@kamiwellman8056 People like to call massage parlors uncover prostitution rings, but every massage parlor not about illicit sex entertainment, like everybody in church is not holy🙄 once people start labeling they don't know where to stop, until somebody stick a label on them, 🙄🤷🏾♀️😢 do you get it, understand?
I’m a black woman in England and I date white men exclusively and let me tell you something - the DL is a problem with them as well. The only thing I would say is a little better is that they’re a lot more open about their homosexual encounters. But for the grace of God have I not got intimately involved with two men that have previously had sex with other men. Talk about playing Russian roulette with your life; luckily for me they both told me of their previous encounters and I got rid of them before I ever even share a kiss with them.
Well you know the saying about English men all being gay (& their gender segregated schooling which has been coed only recently at comprehensives)....and wherever the British empire went the colonized men became massively gay too. I would argue the same with the American empire. USA = empire by denial/deception. - Immerwahr
The truth is white men are more open about it.... black men hide. Also white men have less diseases than these black men. Look at the stats. Keep dating white men only they are clean
Dude here. I’m not involving, but I’ve had my encounters with DL women. And let me tell you, that mess hurt you and humiliates you. Before I date any women, I got to know if they have any attractions towards other girls or if they had an experience. The four girls I talked to in my life: one didn’t, another hasn’t either, I don’t know about the third, and the forth one told me she used to be attracted to girls but never went further. People be thinking this crap is funny, no there are people who get hurt or killed by doing things like this. I just wish people be honest
@@devionewilkins8903 Faccccctsss you are so right you are so right I personally know I have females invites me out with their girlfriend etc There they was feminine the girlfriend was a masculine Stud Soon as her stud girlfriend walk me to the door she turned feminine and started coming on to me and tried to make out with me I pushed it back like no no Etc smh
Thank you Miss Faye, I just subscribed to you because, you say what I have been thinking. I have been told that I am old fashioned because I won't allow myself to be used. I stand on my own two feet. I am 64 years old and it's been hard being celibate. But, again, I needed to hear someone say don't give up your power. I feel alone because most women I know give away everything.
I know this is not a very recent video but still crucial info to consider as it relates to the dl man. J.L. King is an African American author who describes it best in his books about living a secret life on the dl while married with a family until his wife caught him having sex with a man. Thanks Miss Faye for sharing the insight in this video.
Miss Faye I want to let you know something. I’ve encountered 3 DL men that eat plenty of 🐱 so sometimes even if he does do that it doesn’t mean he still doesn’t prefer another man.
@@lovewhitey2027 It’s so weird! They present themselves as being financially secure and like they can do for you. Then, somehow flip the script…..like, huh?
Yup, trust your instinct! Growing up in a dysfunctional family or society, we are programmed and brainwashed to ignore pain, fear and discomfort. Your feelings are right.
They are found in your local Parks ... in the parking lots, and in the woods. I walk my dogs in the parks daily ... and the men meet-ups are plentiful.
Thats true! My x told me he used to walk his dog years ago through this walking path in the grass and trees and it's a gay hook up place! I said n you kept going there to walk your dog? It all makes sense!
I had a man 35 years my senior approach me and courted me like he wanted to be my fiance, he also introduced us to the temple like that. He lived with a man and never spent the night after being in my house and wanting sex the entire time. Well at about the one and half year mark another person took over him and he no longer wanted to touch me. I always had nightmares of running and not being able to get to my destination , sweating and stressed. That was God tell me what he enjoyed doing to me , sabotage. At the end he had his roommate call me and say we broke up! So sometimes you are a cover for them. He would provoke fights and use my reaction to justify what he tells everyone else. It is spiritual warfare. Thank you again for this therapy ❤️ 🙏
A few yesrs ago a Police seargant recently retired had a heart attack at their family vacation home.. to the wifes surprise he was with his male lover.. the man died.
True I knew a narcissists who was raped as a 5 year old repeatedly by clergy from 5 to 9 when he understood it was wrong but it was to late for him hes a horrible person now
My mother used to tell me, that a man is gonna be a man. And as I got older I understood exactly, what she was talking abt. My mother always talked to me, and I'm very grateful to her for that. In her day, no one talked them abt sex. But she didn't raise me like that. If I had a question, she was always ready to answer it. God bless her.
I loved watching this video. Lady you are a blessing to many women out here and you are very wise and know what you're talking about. I like how you teaching the young and older women.
It actually started at colonialization & slàv3ry....the gay male population explodes after colonialization by white men especially British & American white men. The sagging pants thing go back to slãv3ry. They also forced slav3s into incest...in fact same was done in Vietnam with America's Phoenix Program and now the war in Congo which America is behind using Rwanada as well as proxy.
Goerge Washington attended a gay S&M party in England called Hellfire club. Skull and Bones in Yale is also using gay hazing in coffins. This country was created and run by patriarchal gay white men. They use secks to trauma bond & terrorize men too... especially in the military.
Keep up the good work. This is one lady who is real and logical and knows nonsense when it comes her way. Helping these young ladies out here. Very critical detailed thought process and the little things she is saying are as important. Most of these videos don't talk about this honestly to keep from blowing their cover. Thank you! Burning trash now that is clever
I’m 45 I divorced at 42 my husband was undercover with a coworker And I help him build his career and he treated me like shit after and during the divorce process
Yes, dating is getting to know someone. Don’t rush. Long story short, If there’s something detrimental that you spot then you break up with him, though he may get angry. When that happens, block him. No second thoughts!
Nothing good comes from deceiving someone. Karma is real; I knew from my choices in the past that I knew better. Why, as a man, take up time and space to hide your shame in a woman's life.
I used to be all about the church. I dated a preacher. He was a bodybuilder. He was a golden gloves boxer and looked like, the Rock. He was also a senior design engineer, so I thought I picked the perfect person. That is until I finally met his "buddy" Clinton, when I decided to go to the gym with him. I thought Clinton would be big, stocky, and masculine like him. Instead, Clinton was an aerobics instructor. It was over when I looked in there and saw him flitting around with the other women. He was the first and last black man, I ever dated.
End times. It's affecting all age groups now from what i can tell. Esp when the medical industrial complex encourages boys to change their gender in grade school. And how many cashiers have i come across with a full beard + a full set of acrylic nails ????? Confusing times.
My gay friend tell me this all the time and shows me pictures of the DL MENS he sleep with ..I always tell my friend if he show me someone I know I'm calling his wife and telling ...this makes me angry just pick a side why you got to be on the DL dam 😢😢
I’m sick of that treatment they buy you a meal and think you will give them sex because they spent money on you, NOPE!!! I’m not going to be a booty call 🚫🚫🚫 - Raylene Price
Hello Faye how are you, I went to the gym last week to cancel my membership. The parking lot was full but hardly any people in the gym. This must be the new bath house!!!
As real as this topic is, it makes a woman not even want to be bothered with them. If I EVER found out my husband was on the DL, that would be a total deal breaker. I have a heart disease and those meds don’t mix with my heart meds and it would be a death sentence for me.
I was sucked into many many bisexual parties with men and women. And yes it was my fault too. My experience with bisexual men is that there are So many of them out there. I would say 80 to 90% of them are tops. Maybe not as many bottoms but.... Bisexuality in men is very very very COMMON....
Makes you think back about all those “gay jokes” with your friends. Some of them seem TOO into their jokes and the tone of voice. It felt like they had some truth to what they were saying. Some of them will even go far as play around and jump on each other. One dude did it for too long and we had to stop him. I have nothing against lgbt people. But that spirit they have is very predatory and conniving.
Love your videos new subscriber I grew up in the lgbt community my family created Chicago house dance so to speak I’m straight but everything you said Chile 😩😂😂😂 was spot ON!
These downlow guys need women that’s why they won’t leave us the hell alone! BW need to use discernment! Less headaches and heartaches when you leave to their own devices!
Words of wisdom . I am sorry for those who came to learn thats who they married. There is no life with them, only existence... and a miserable one at that most of the time :/
Thank you Faye. You definitely clear up my understanding that DL is created. Who is affected and the history of how it came into existence and the history of D.L.. Thank You for the knowledge . You are the bond.
My ex husband left me after I helped him to fix credit, get full custody of his kids for another woman. After 15 years, I realized he did that in his first marriage. Now, I ve heard he is doing that in his third marriage. PLUS, gay men used to ask me if he was gay. Now I wonder
Excellent information. I’m in my fifties and a lot of this I had no clue about. Especially the pants hanging low below the butt. Oh Lord help us all. Thank you
I thank you so much for taking time to share these experiences with us and I believe that what you’re saying is true because people can’t talk about things like that unless they experienced it thank you cause I am now a single woman out here. Haven’t got it back into the Dayton game as of yet been married to my husband for 32 years. He passed seven years ago. I am sorry that he got sick and left me but I’m so scared to get back out here. I don’t know what to do but thank you for these sessions because they are helping me, as I stated previously you doing a great work I just don’t believe in the universe granting or helping me I believe in God and Jesus that’s all thank you though for all that you do to help women
🎉Stay widowed & drama free 💆🏽♀️❤. These men are dangerous manipulators! Surround yourself with a community of ladies who enjoy the same hobbies as you. Self preservation doll. 🙅🏽♀️💆🏽♀️
My white husband is no different. What is going on in the world these days? A woman cannot believe in anyone. My heart is broken in a thousand pieces. I cant function most days. These videos have helped me a lot today.
Sexual perversion and lawlessness. People turning they’re backs on God and leaning to they’re own understanding. Which is them getting deceived by all kinds of evil (dark spirits). Just like there are DL men, so are women. What the devil cannot create, he twists.
Right smh
I feel the same way these days.
It’s called Male Bonding.
Thank GOD we did not grow up in Sodom the real place in the BIBLE. AMEN
This is disgusting. It makes me want to stay single forever.
This woman is saving women thousand's of dollars in THERAPY!!!!!!!!!
...if they LISTEN.
And venereal diseases. I knew a woman named Melissa who had AIDS and she told me that when she got AIDS her husband admitted that he had been on the down low. It talked about here in this video that it's in the black community, well Melissa and her husband were black.
That being said, my father was a white man and he was so download he might as well have been gay. My father was a psychopath and a narcissist including a Machiavellian.
If people will trust that they don’t know better. This could save your life!
Con artist!
Yes she is , a true blessing at that 🙏❤️🌹
She is the best, I can't imagine a day without her angelic voice, WELCOME 🎉❤, I focus more with my work and also being productive and getting notes as much as I could, she is amazing ❤️
Ms Fey telling all of us what our mothers should have told us about..Crazy
The mothers, grandmothers were brainwashed by patriarchy. The truth was hidden and they were literally terrorized into submission.
The patriarchy has robotized women. Robotization means you follow the will, emotions, thoughts & orders of another. It is observed in concentration camps, DV relationships, prison, slavery, etc.
- Trauma & Recovery (Herman, 2015)
Boomer moms don't know
@@kathleenking47we here talking about those who have up 40´s here
My mother was taught to be naive and innocent ( mormons) lol
I've always wondered...why do males have a g spot in bumbum
It’s weird when they profess so much love for you and one argument and it’s like they don’t remember you at all
This is how my Narcissist Husband treated me we could have sex one night and the next night he treats me like he never knew me he even told me that I don't deserve him he hates my guts.
@@shirleyguinyard8183this !
Sad reality this is real and really terrible. Men should be shamed to drag women into this filth unwillingly. 😤
Just a question. Is it filth because he sleeping with other men?
Filth meaning he is keeping it a secret...never allowing the unknowing party a chance to say yah or nay. Shit do you if you want to ram or let someone else ram you in the butt...do you. 💯
@@mahoganylove5757 I get that lol
They don’t care will use u up and give you deadly Aids 💔🚨👹
They have objectified us as props to compete with each other...they are competing for who can fool his women the best
This is not just a black problem .White men are like this too.
Wïte menz taught/ra4ped men of the world thru colonization (r4ape & pillage) everywhere the British empire & American empire goes the male gay population explodes....they've subjecting men to this for hundreds of years since the Greeks & Romans.
And the 1st place they add gayness is to spiritual, magik, occult, secret society and witchcraft. They want to hijack spirituality & use it to infect people to follow their ways & make people submit, even men.
Mexican men too. I'm Almost sure of it now
All cultures are like this on every level not just black or white men. Women have to be very careful jumping in bed with a man you know nothing about. He can be very slick and persuading. But watch out and ask the Lord to give you an eye and a discerning spirit to know who you are dealing with. It is too dangerous out here because aids HIV is still out there though we don't hear about it as much these days. Yet it is still rampant. So care about yourself ladies you have value.
@@kTorres007 Many men regardless of race and culture are doing these filthy things and bringing that stuff back to their wives and girlfriends. Very sad but no man whatever he is will do these things to himself because he doesn't care about himself or anyone else. DL is just what it is "down low." This applies to all men in every race.
Totally!
Be careful ladies...better 2 be single n celibate n safe!
Yup
EXACTLY
Facts. I was dealing with a guy 3 years ago.never knew he was engaged. He gave me hpv and horrible nasty uti. He admitted he has sex issues. Very sneaky. I believe he was messing with both sides.
I'm living the single life footloose and fancy free for 6 years and counting! I'm in love with me because I'm the only one I can trust! 🥰
Very blessed and favored also
There should be a federal law and prison time for this …. Deception
And jeopardizing citizens health
We don't need federal law.
We need education.
Then people could decide what they want to do.
If they had a law for everything somebody didn't like, everyone would be locked up.
Yes!! Attempted Murder
This explains so much about my ex and our sex life. Let me say I am lucky not to have hiv! Thank you
He’s maybe in the internet. Looking at sex blowing your money. And guess what. It messes w there minds. Period.
Its also a reason, I don't like men with pierced ears..and braids
They look like a 🚩
How did you leave without causing commotion?
I’m in a sexless marriage with a man and I just found out that he has been on gay/trans escort sites. He deceived me and had a baby with me. I am so disgusted with him. He never showed no sign until recently but the fact that he has been avoiding sex explains it ALL now. Glad I found out now than later. I’m ready to exit my way with my baby and divorce this monster.
Yes 👍. It's scary as hell. D.L Men never admit they are Gay. Churchy and Gay
Homosexuality is a form of birth control.
@@momosoulfulworldasmr Homosexuality is a form of birth control and male bonding. Don’t take it personally.
And that is a blessing that he wasn’t having sex with you but my prayers are going out to you. I will get out.
They’ll even pretend like their boyfriends are their cousins or relatives. And if you’re new to the family, you don’t know that’s not his blood relative.
Blood relative don't stop them either!
This is one of the reasons why the Black community is in the terrible predicament it is in. It is as if Black men have given up their manhood. I am glad to hear Ms. Faye, speak on the topic of DL men. It is terrible seeing young men wearing sagging pants but, every time a see Black men over thirty wearing their pants sagging there is no hope for them. Again Ms. Faye, you have shared with us what you have learned from living.
Look at their hair,🕷 and still piercing ears?
Sagging pants was always a 🚩
However I didn't see THAT until the 90s
There are gay, dl, Trans in allllll communities. Who do you think is pushing the gay propaganda amongst the celebrities and into the blk community thru music 🤔...the gate keepers who so happen to be jews and Caucasians. They are the ones with they gay demonic swinger parties.
Even more disconcerting is they have no problem wasting the other persons time and emotions and of course their resources too propping up a fraud.
My x's niece called him a fraud in front of me! He also has a "friend" in Florida that he blew me off for! Lol. DL man!
Narcissists
It's a nasty choice!! Gotta keep them n Prayer!!
TY much...Most I already know..U confirmed it!!! Thank God for descipline of the body!!!👍🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💚⚘
This is making me feel nauseous.... Because I know it's true.
Day of the dark soul it will pass breathe
A former health provider told me she caught her husband in their house in the basement doing this dude who he always said was his close friend from way back. smh
My story! Yup. 😮
Yes I totally felt "he didnt REALLY want to be around me" Yet he kept me on his arm and in front of his dick friends to make his dick friends jealous. Ms Faye I didnt want to SEE it. Didnt want to believe it.
I asked my man friend was he gay, he didn't say yes or no, so that leaves me to believe he is Gay!!
Chile!!!! Well there's your answer!
Bingo
Thank you Miss Faye for this wonderful channel. After 30+ found out my man was on the DL. I don't feel so alone seeing other women understand but it does still hurt a lot
Are you OK today
Im sorry I live in SC Bible belt they are everywhere 💔🤬💥
Miss Faye,
I am 88 years old lived my life doing what l know to do and many decisions l made without total information.
You my dear are helping thousands of women.
I listened to you, your wisdom, education your pearls of wisdom are amazing.
I support you your channel your experience sharing your experience is amazing.
I never got insight to my decisions, until l started to listen to you now so many questions l had have been cleared up l feel stronger, safer due to your input.
Thank you
Parents are too eager to leave their children with a boyfriend they've only known for a short time. Leave their children with a coach, music instructor, martial arts instructor, and neighbors. And I would look at young boys who like to babysit too
What young boys want to babysit all the time. And your new coworker always volunteers to watch your kids. And watch out for the husband's and boyfriends of your girlfriends, too. Trust no one you don't know, cousins, brothers, or uncles.
This was my experience exactly. His aura was always off. He never appeared happy, nor with me. Thank God I was wise enough to figure this out. Thanks for this confirmation Ms Faye, you are so on point.
Sorry you had to go thru that. Finally caught my ex dogging another man and I swear I knew that siomething was "off" with him. He liked to pretend he was the "bottom" and I dould never figure that shyt out. When I caught him in bed with his friend, I have never been the same.
You need to immediately go get a serum std panel drawn. This is beyond sin to expose an innocent partner to the dangers of this filthy behavior. I’m truly sorry you have had to endure this. He should be sued for emotional torment.
So many times, they were sexually abused in childhood.
They don't need to be sued. They need help and education.
And yes, you need to get checked out for SDI.
If you don't have the money for this, there are many free clinics.
Because the health care clinics want to put a stop for spreading STIs.
Mam, this is true. Closeted bisexual men are everywhere. I don't judge people for their nature if they are committed good people, but nobody should cheat with a male or female when they are married to a person. If someone shows other signs of being a deceitful, two faced, fake, selfish, or controlling person...then be careful. Use protection until you can leave the situation.
@Belltown Daisy Real.Ta!k.
They are nothing but gay a freaking homosexual.
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(29:15) You are certainly helping me and I'm a 48-year-old black female, divorced with three children under age of 19. I just found your Channel today. It's all a blessing. I hope you continue with this for as long as you can. 💐
Like u said Faye the Black church is full of
liars, hustlers, child molesters and cheaters,
the best relion is no religion.
I’m staying abstinent it’s a great stress reliever
Not only does he like a good looking woman for a great cover, the DL man will also date women outside of his race because women within his race, will and can blow his cover more easily. It’s not easy hiding for long from your own kind.
They also don't see the very pretty women as people more like dolls to show off as a status symbol (how dehumanizing for a woman) and use as a secks toy.
That's why women with DL men get a lot of plastic surgery and look plastic.
That's why women shouldn't envy looks on woman cause it is only used as a commodity by men to traffick or use as a Stepford Wife for a DL.
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Ma’am you are sharing pearls of wisdom. Thank you sooo sooo much ., you are an earth Angel ❤
I was dating a guy that was Dl now my health is on the line . Please pray for me Miss Faye. This guy was so sick in the head yet I ignored the signs
I pray you heal. Love and light to you
I Really appreciate your channel. I live in New Orleans where in 2023 HIV is #2 in the entire country.. I also saw a very popular Gay DJ here in New Orleans say that he hosted for the holidays on one evening 5 different Gay events and he said there were mostly HETEROSEXUAL men at each event more so than the Gay men.. Ill never forget him saying "New Orleans, Whats REALLY going on???"... Big Sigh & Smh thanks so much for this video post. Ladies Stay safe out there
She is telling the truth about everything! I worked as an officer in a state prison for my career. Both men and women's facilities. The issues here are not just in the prison system. I have run into three of these guys in a vary small town in Utah. One guy was trying to get with me. Because of everything I learned in prison I called the guy out. He was dumbfounded that I knew what he was doing. I told him I'm nobody's beard! At the end of the day, he treated me way different because he knew how much power I held.
It's still funny to me that all three of these guys run together. Birds of a feather flock together......
Yes. There are officers on the d.l. too they do things like stalk innocent women probably because they're jealous.
What are the signs you notice? I’d like to know how to best avoid these types of men
@@taraarrington2285 wow....perfect description of what was going on here lol stalking an "innocent" woman...as they definitely were
@@yolandajames7206 yes. They're probably jealous being in the closet and all. Probably want your man or something.
@@taraarrington2285 yes... I believe they were trying to harm me because, they were secretly dealing with him & his confused self is "still in love with me" they were gang stalking me out of nowhere for no reason, even wanted me to self harm or commit suicide for no reason, behind this individual....smh people are sick in the head & ridiculous, evil as well.
Ms. Faye….. You are truly in your calling with these messages. You hit it on the nail EVERY ONE of your videos! I truly hope women out there are listening.
Wisest words ever spoken. I can’t thank you enough for sharing. God bless you!🙏🏽♥️
She’s not lying about none of this it’s so true I’ve just got out of an relationship like this it’s so hurtful to hear 👂🏾 from someone else that all this was going on and I paid no attention 😢
I believe it hard to detect for most person, all lesbians not easy to detect either they all don't dress as a butch/ like a man, I bet 50-75% of women have been with a man that have engaged with the same sex🙄🤷🏾♀️😢
So true and the man I was with act as if he hated gay men calling them bountyboys because he was from Jamaica and said there they will kill you for that when all along he was on the DL. Most of the time the woman have to either look extremely good, have great success and just be pretty and dumb because they do need someone to throw off others. My guy would rent out rooms in his house, I started noticing the type of men he would rent too and take all type of stuff off of them. I didn’t even notice at first how excited he became around men especially very good looking me he was like a fast girl a whole different type of energy. I want even mention things he tried to request in bad an tried to lie and say he never tried these things just wanted to see what the hype was. I could go on and on but I end now. Thank you I hope people will share this and the other one you did on the D L man.
Thank you Miss Faye,
I've always had all friends of all sex, shape and color but as I've become older and been dissapointed at how perverted people are I have to be more alone. You speak as though you would have been the big sister I didn't have. Everyone I meet just wants sex; gay, bi, single, married couples. What on earth is wrong with them ?. I'll just stay alone...God loves me and a true friend gave me a prayer book for Christmas.
"I applaud you, Madam, for your wisdom. You embody the traditional matriarch that has been lost in our community. You are the new 'Big Mama,' filling a void for many."
I love and adore you!! Knowledge is Power!!
These men don't wanna get to know you or they don't want you to know them
Get a private investigator to check them out.
Facts
Miss Faye you are the therapist l am 70 years of age and l totally agree
This is a hard talk to listen to but its very important to hear this.
And you will never know them just the part they want you to see
So true... run and never look back
Exactly 💯
Truth!
That's the hardest part of all.
They keep the shadow side hidden whilst they're presenting a completely different version of themselves to you.
It’s not just the alcohol, it’s the drugs too that will allow evil spirits into your space.
Thank you for being direct and transparent. Love and respect you for that . 🌺💕
Threw out a covert narcissist a few years back n think he may have been on the dl...thank God I tested negative 4 all stds!!! Women better be careful about stds n stis n aids n herpes! You never know what your man is up to n don't forget about massage parlors!!!
The narcissist I was with I gat a feeling he was going Both ways! He wanted attention soo bad he wiil
Take it from anyone and always wanted the back door 🚪as well!!!!
What's a massage parlors???
Ms Fay thank you for the truth AMEN!!
True those diseases can be spread by either gender, Lesbians or Straight women or men, who's bed hopping engaging with multiple people or one tainted person can set it off to plenty and it don't have to be the DL's 🤷🏾♀️😢
@@kamiwellman8056 People like to call massage parlors uncover prostitution rings, but every massage parlor not about illicit sex entertainment, like everybody in church is not holy🙄 once people start labeling they don't know where to stop, until somebody stick a label on them, 🙄🤷🏾♀️😢 do you get it, understand?
I’m a black woman in England and I date white men exclusively and let me tell you something - the DL is a problem with them as well. The only thing I would say is a little better is that they’re a lot more open about their homosexual encounters. But for the grace of God have I not got intimately involved with two men that have previously had sex with other men. Talk about playing Russian roulette with your life; luckily for me they both told me of their previous encounters and I got rid of them before I ever even share a kiss with them.
Well you know the saying about English men all being gay (& their gender segregated schooling which has been coed only recently at comprehensives)....and wherever the British empire went the colonized men became massively gay too.
I would argue the same with the American empire.
USA = empire by denial/deception. - Immerwahr
@@testtest2609 I can’t imagine ever taking a partner seriously as a man that had, had sex with another man
The truth is white men are more open about it.... black men hide. Also white men have less diseases than these black men. Look at the stats. Keep dating white men only they are clean
Dude here. I’m not involving, but I’ve had my encounters with DL women. And let me tell you, that mess hurt you and humiliates you. Before I date any women, I got to know if they have any attractions towards other girls or if they had an experience. The four girls I talked to in my life: one didn’t, another hasn’t either, I don’t know about the third, and the forth one told me she used to be attracted to girls but never went further. People be thinking this crap is funny, no there are people who get hurt or killed by doing things like this. I just wish people be honest
@@devionewilkins8903 Faccccctsss you are so right you are so right I personally know
I have females invites me out with their girlfriend etc
There they was feminine the girlfriend was a masculine Stud
Soon as her stud girlfriend walk me to the door she turned feminine and started coming on to me and tried to make out with me I pushed it back like no no
Etc smh
Thank you Miss Faye, I just subscribed to you because, you say what I have been thinking. I have been told that I am old fashioned because I won't allow myself to be used. I stand on my own two feet. I am 64 years old and it's been hard being celibate. But, again, I needed to hear someone say don't give up your power. I feel alone because most women I know give away everything.
A lot of men are living the DL life for the MONEY! It's scary out here. 🙏🏽
I know this is not a very recent video but still crucial info to consider as it relates to the dl man. J.L. King is an African American author who describes it best in his books about living a secret life on the dl while married with a family until his wife caught him having sex with a man. Thanks Miss Faye for sharing the insight in this video.
Hi Miss Faye,
I enjoy all your videos. This is what our young women need as well as the older women. Bless You!!!
The minute I have to question that about someone is the minute they are done dealing with me lol. No more feminine damsel in distress men. ❤
They get more pleasure sneaking around. Its a kink. Thank you 😊 💓 It's so funny you are burning trash 🗑 🤣Thats perfect for the topic 👌 🙌🏽
SO TRUE!! I LOOK FOR RED FLAGS ALL THE TIME, NOW THAT I HAVE GOTTEN OLDER AND WISER! THANK YOU AGAIN!!
You are straight no chaser. I like that.
Miss Faye I want to let you know something. I’ve encountered 3 DL men that eat plenty of 🐱 so sometimes even if he does do that it doesn’t mean he still doesn’t prefer another man.
They are prostitutes they want food money shelter it’s disgusting 🤮
@@lovewhitey2027 It’s so weird! They present themselves as being financially secure and like they can do for you. Then, somehow flip the script…..like, huh?
@@sagittariusblack2879 all con men 🚨🚨🤬
That is true hunty!!
If you suspect it HE IS 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🎉
Yup, trust your instinct!
Growing up in a dysfunctional family or society, we are programmed and brainwashed to ignore pain, fear and discomfort.
Your feelings are right.
Facts
Had “a dl “fiancé ( a Marine)who beat me so I ran backhome to parents! Thank u thank u thank u big sis !
May God judgement expose the lies that down low men like to keep hidden.
They are found in your local Parks ... in the parking lots, and in the woods. I walk my dogs in the parks daily ... and the men meet-ups are plentiful.
So true. You are not naive as so other women when it comes to men desiring other men.
Thats true! My x told me he used to walk his dog years ago through this walking path in the grass and trees and it's a gay hook up place! I said n you kept going there to walk your dog? It all makes sense!
I had a man 35 years my senior approach me and courted me like he wanted to be my fiance, he also introduced us to the temple like that. He lived with a man and never spent the night after being in my house and wanting sex the entire time. Well at about the one and half year mark another person took over him and he no longer wanted to touch me. I always had nightmares of running and not being able to get to my destination , sweating and stressed. That was God tell me what he enjoyed doing to me , sabotage. At the end he had his roommate call me and say we broke up! So sometimes you are a cover for them. He would provoke fights and use my reaction to justify what he tells everyone else. It is spiritual warfare. Thank you again for this therapy ❤️ 🙏
i love your energy, message and wisdom. so lucky to have found this channel
A few yesrs ago a Police seargant recently retired had a heart attack at their family vacation home.. to the wifes surprise he was with his male lover.. the man died.
WTF 😧
True I knew a narcissists who was raped as a 5 year old repeatedly by clergy from 5 to 9 when he understood it was wrong but it was to late for him hes a horrible person now
Too much trauma at too young of an age. However, through God all things are possible ❤🙏
Did they go to prison?😢
My mother used to tell me, that a man is gonna be a man. And as I got older I understood exactly, what she was talking abt.
My mother always talked to me, and I'm very grateful to her for that. In her day, no one talked them abt sex. But she didn't raise me like that. If I had a question, she was always ready to answer it. God bless her.
Amen
God bless her dear soul 🙏!!!
For men who are doing this, there is nothing manly about that.
‘It’s hurting us women and we don’t have to put up with it.’ Yes, amen, sister
You hit the nail on the head, lust is where most relationships started, so true I speak with my daughter's about their ❤️ language.
I loved watching this video. Lady you are a blessing to many women out here and you are very wise and know what you're talking about. I like how you teaching the young and older women.
Also the culture of jail and prison bring males into fold of homosexuality, and lack true male relationship with their fathers.
It actually started at colonialization & slàv3ry....the gay male population explodes after colonialization by white men especially British & American white men.
The sagging pants thing go back to slãv3ry. They also forced slav3s into incest...in fact same was done in Vietnam with America's Phoenix Program and now the war in Congo which America is behind using Rwanada as well as proxy.
Goerge Washington attended a gay S&M party in England called Hellfire club. Skull and Bones in Yale is also using gay hazing in coffins. This country was created and run by patriarchal gay white men. They use secks to trauma bond & terrorize men too... especially in the military.
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Keep up the good work. This is one lady who is real and logical and knows nonsense when it comes her way. Helping these young ladies out here. Very critical detailed thought process and the little things she is saying are as important. Most of these videos don't talk about this honestly to keep from blowing their cover. Thank you! Burning trash now that is clever
I’m 45 I divorced at 42 my husband was undercover with a coworker
And I help him build his career and he treated me like shit after and during the divorce process
Would you classify all DL men as narcissist? I would.
Another bingo
The DL man I was tangled up with was a Narcissist and hard drug user.
Yup it’s no way possible they can be happy when they gotta hide who they are
Thank you Miss Fay for educating women about this
Yes, dating is getting to know someone. Don’t rush. Long story short, If there’s something detrimental that you spot then you break up with him, though he may get angry. When that happens, block him. No second thoughts!
👏👏👏... LOVE the forthright manner in which you express the truth about the situation on your absolutely beautiful property. Thank you, Miss Faye~ ❣️🙏🏾
Nothing good comes from deceiving someone. Karma is real; I knew from my choices in the past that I knew better. Why, as a man, take up time and space to hide your shame in a woman's life.
I used to be all about the church. I dated a preacher. He was a bodybuilder. He was a golden gloves boxer and looked like, the Rock. He was also a senior design engineer, so I thought I picked the perfect person. That is until I finally met his "buddy" Clinton, when I decided to go to the gym with him. I thought Clinton would be big, stocky, and masculine like him. Instead, Clinton was an aerobics instructor. It was over when I looked in there and saw him flitting around with the other women. He was the first and last black man, I ever dated.
End times. It's affecting all age groups now from what i can tell. Esp when the medical industrial complex encourages boys to change their gender in grade school.
And how many cashiers have i come across with a full beard + a full set of acrylic nails ????? Confusing times.
Something is wrong .... I'm in Toronto, I have never seen this. I do know we have our fair share of DL men here as well. It's so weird.
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My gay friend tell me this all the time and shows me pictures of the DL MENS he sleep with ..I always tell my friend if he show me someone I know I'm calling his wife and telling ...this makes me angry just pick a side why you got to be on the DL dam 😢😢
I’m sick of that treatment they buy you a meal and think you will give them sex because they spent money on you, NOPE!!! I’m not going to be a booty call 🚫🚫🚫 - Raylene Price
Hello Faye how are you, I went to
the gym last week to cancel my
membership. The parking lot was
full but hardly any people in the
gym. This must be the new bath
house!!!
Waow
Ms Faye so Happy to have found your channel, I appreciate the sharing of your non- judgemental words of Wisdom & Truth...
As real as this topic is, it makes a woman not even want to be bothered with them. If I EVER found out my husband was on the DL, that would be a total deal breaker. I have a heart disease and those meds don’t mix with my heart meds and it would be a death sentence for me.
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Some men will try out anything and it's sad
And here I was thinking your grilling something delicious 😂
Me too lol
OMG, Miss Faye! I've just noticed your fence! Jeez, mine is a 6' privacy fence. Yours must be 10'!
I was sucked into many many bisexual parties with men and women.
And yes it was my fault too.
My experience with bisexual men is that there are So many of them out there.
I would say 80 to 90% of them are tops.
Maybe not as many bottoms but.... Bisexuality in men is very very very COMMON....
Makes you think back about all those “gay jokes” with your friends. Some of them seem TOO into their jokes and the tone of voice. It felt like they had some truth to what they were saying. Some of them will even go far as play around and jump on each other. One dude did it for too long and we had to stop him. I have nothing against lgbt people. But that spirit they have is very predatory and conniving.
Love your videos new subscriber I grew up in the lgbt community my family created Chicago house dance so to speak I’m straight but everything you said Chile 😩😂😂😂 was spot ON!
These downlow guys need women that’s why they won’t leave us the hell alone! BW need to use discernment! Less headaches and heartaches when you leave to their own devices!
Words of wisdom . I am sorry for those who came to learn thats who they married. There is no life with them, only existence... and a miserable one at that most of the time :/
Thank you Faye. You definitely clear up my understanding that DL is created. Who is affected and the history of how it came into existence and the history of D.L.. Thank You for the knowledge . You are the bond.
I’m literally sick to my stomach my chest hurts
Brand new subscriber here - love your content - you're like the best favorite aunty - keep on keeping it real!
Ms. Fay you talking true facts.
10:15
I thought it was another woman but it wasnt. This is the most humiliating time of my life.
They going to hell period. Pray for discernment.
I like your realness and honesty. Seriously
Thank you for telling truths that others won't
Straight talk MissFaye 🎉
It’s a lot gay men in the gym if you notice when ever you see two men hanging around each other all the time everyday they are gay
My ex husband left me after I helped him to fix credit, get full custody of his kids for another woman. After 15 years, I realized he did that in his first marriage.
Now, I ve heard he is doing that in his third marriage. PLUS, gay men used to ask me if he was gay. Now I wonder
Ladies these are FACTS 💯
Excellent information. I’m in my fifties and a lot of this I had no clue about. Especially the pants hanging low below the butt. Oh Lord help us all. Thank you
I thank you so much for taking time to share these experiences with us and I believe that what you’re saying is true because people can’t talk about things like that unless they experienced it thank you cause I am now a single woman out here. Haven’t got it back into the Dayton game as of yet been married to my husband for 32 years. He passed seven years ago. I am sorry that he got sick and left me but I’m so scared to get back out here. I don’t know what to do but thank you for these sessions because they are helping me, as I stated previously you doing a great work I just don’t believe in the universe granting or helping me I believe in God and Jesus that’s all thank you though for all that you do to help women
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🎉Stay widowed & drama free 💆🏽♀️❤. These men are dangerous manipulators! Surround yourself with a community of ladies who enjoy the same hobbies as you. Self preservation doll. 🙅🏽♀️💆🏽♀️