Asking guys if they would date a trans woman

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  • @Adess.Madness
    @Adess.Madness Рік тому +1031

    “Men love food so I’m gonna try the food court” 😂😂

    • @FeeFee22
      @FeeFee22 Рік тому +76

      He would know

    • @citypavement
      @citypavement Рік тому +18

      And women don't?

    • @PureBavarian
      @PureBavarian Рік тому +45

      ​@@citypavement he specified men. and with him being a man himself, he would know

    • @mshoney9301
      @mshoney9301 Рік тому +15

      @@PureBavarian cringe

    • @PureBavarian
      @PureBavarian Рік тому +24

      @@mshoney9301 cope

  • @melanieluver4eva
    @melanieluver4eva Рік тому +1485

    Respect to them honestly, people have preferences on what they want to date and that’s ok. Super glad that they were polite!

    • @rocavil8003
      @rocavil8003 Рік тому +67

      Is the bar really that low that we applaud basic manners

    • @Mana-pu7so
      @Mana-pu7so Рік тому +15

      Hate is never a 'preference' 🧚‍♂️

    • @Thanatos_4444
      @Thanatos_4444 Рік тому +108

      ​@@Mana-pu7soIt's not "hate", but ok

    • @Mana-pu7so
      @Mana-pu7so Рік тому

      @@Thanatos_4444 transphobia is hate

    • @GCT1990
      @GCT1990 Рік тому +72

      ​@@Mana-pu7sono a personal preference in what you find sexually attractive can and often does exclud qualities, traits, personality,statue, Sex and character you simply don't find attractive.
      Hate is a personal intense or passionate dislike towards someone else... Therefore, your comment is false. There's no hate here.
      Only weak mind individuals who can't handle rejection would lean on a word such as hate inorder to take away from someone's right and ability to pick who they feel to be a right fit for them. Get yourself together and stop shaming others you disagree with, because you're actually coming off as a hateful person 😁

  • @chrissyswifey
    @chrissyswifey Рік тому +2206

    FIRST-
    i’m pretty sure they had no idea you’re trans 💀

    • @Oliviaandtrina
      @Oliviaandtrina Рік тому +184

      Not one of them did, almost guaranteed 😂 that's like the most ironic part of it all.

    • @tas655
      @tas655 Рік тому +73

      Yes but she wasn’t asking for
      Her self so that irrelevant

    • @margaritakleinman5701
      @margaritakleinman5701 Рік тому +24

      ​@@Oliviaandtrina Exactly, I'm sure they had no idea. They probably would have been shocked.

    • @davvy69
      @davvy69 Рік тому +47

      ​@TAS it is relevant in how she was treated. I'm not trans but I'm p sure cis guys treat trans women they don't clock better than ones they do. All women get treated differently based on beauty standards, hot girls get treated better

    • @Tionaintown876
      @Tionaintown876 Рік тому +27

      @@davvy69 Not just women. People in general

  • @boring_elderly_millenial
    @boring_elderly_millenial Рік тому +353

    Aww, I appreciate their responses. Very respectful, they know there's no need to denigrate the trans community when stating their preferences. Gives me hope for this younger generation.

    • @Jonyblaze143
      @Jonyblaze143 Місяць тому

      It’s a dum question to ask straight people.

  • @TeganFioreHair
    @TeganFioreHair Рік тому +444

    They were all very respectful. If it’s not for you, it’s not for you. Thank you for making this video, I know it was probably very awkward and hard to do!

    • @learabee
      @learabee Рік тому +10

      I second that, takes courage ❤

    • @ginandromeda1618
      @ginandromeda1618 Рік тому +2

      Yeah, they were polite but I wonder how it would have gone if Grace had told them she was trans, I guess it wouldn't have been the same. Though I don't want her to risk her safety like that ofc

    • @raven4442
      @raven4442 Рік тому +1

      ​@@ginandromeda1618They knew, her voice is what gives it away. I've only seen this and one other, with no information in them about her being trans, it was obvious that she was because her voice has the "lower voice doing a higher voice" tone.

    • @Sam-Trader-s6i
      @Sam-Trader-s6i 10 місяців тому +2

      I'm transphopic

    • @hometheatre8074
      @hometheatre8074 9 місяців тому +1

      @@Sam-Trader-s6i same

  • @Estelleandstars
    @Estelleandstars Рік тому +186

    Kudos to them for politeness!

    • @hypermetalsonic
      @hypermetalsonic Рік тому +2

      not polite enough to lie 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Lucky-ei6yh
      @Lucky-ei6yh Рік тому +5

      @@hypermetalsonic oh grow up

    • @hypermetalsonic
      @hypermetalsonic Рік тому +1

      @@Lucky-ei6yh oh keep coping 👌

    • @hypermetalsonic
      @hypermetalsonic Рік тому

      @@Dinosaur315 for them to say yes would be a lie

    • @Dinosaur315
      @Dinosaur315 Рік тому

      @@hypermetalsonic Oh sorry I misunderstood your comment. I thought you meant that them saying no would be a lie. Apologies

  • @SteelKitty17
    @SteelKitty17 Рік тому +228

    As a lesbian only attracted to afab women I gotta respect these polite men, I act the same and usually get called transphobic😅

    • @PureBavarian
      @PureBavarian Рік тому +82

      You can omit the afab nonsense and just say woman

    • @Jonathan-nx1dw
      @Jonathan-nx1dw Рік тому +13

      Not transphobic, so long as you don't go "ew, no, I'm a lesbian tho".

    • @Jonathan-nx1dw
      @Jonathan-nx1dw Рік тому

      @@PureBavarian Bigot alert. We-oo, we-oo. Stop being a transphobic piece of garbage.

    • @SteelKitty17
      @SteelKitty17 Рік тому +42

      @@PureBavarian yes but some women (trans) have other genitalia that just isn’t my preference. That’s why I have to confirm what I’m talking about :) have a nice day

    • @PureBavarian
      @PureBavarian Рік тому +38

      @@SteelKitty17 (trans) aren't women. There's men and women, nothing more

  • @theemyraidsystem1355
    @theemyraidsystem1355 Рік тому +266

    Respect to that last one SHES not my taste😊 And girlie that was amazingly brave and wow great job!

    • @kaleybatchelor8125
      @kaleybatchelor8125 Рік тому +39

      He actually said “JUST not my cup of tea.” Whoever edited this video just put “she” in the subtitles😂

    • @theemyraidsystem1355
      @theemyraidsystem1355 Рік тому

      ​@@kaleybatchelor8125 😂😂listen again stop your hateraide drinking! Shes very very clearly said 😂😂😂😂 your pressed because she's trans!😂😂😂 it's a you problem 😂

  • @hannahp.fletcher9969
    @hannahp.fletcher9969 Рік тому +426

    "Scary". Nah. ITS OKAY TO HAVE PREFERENCES

    • @Jonathan-nx1dw
      @Jonathan-nx1dw Рік тому

      PREFERENCES TO REDUCE OTHER HUMANS TO THEIR GENITALIA

    • @SheridanM-dc1nk
      @SheridanM-dc1nk Рік тому +63

      @@Jonathan-nx1dw sexual orientation isn’t a “preference”. Stop policing sexuality. Straight means opposite sex attracted. Not attracted to the same sex who has tried to resemble the opposite sex.

    • @Adamthedickmaster
      @Adamthedickmaster Рік тому +23

      ​@@Jonathan-nx1dw I'm a straight cisgender man and I'm only interested in cis women but I respect trans people

    • @marrymemitsuri
      @marrymemitsuri Рік тому +69

      i think she was saying that it was scary going up to random ppl

    • @ft4903
      @ft4903 Рік тому +36

      I think she was saying the experience of asking people that question was scary

  • @green5219
    @green5219 Рік тому +110

    You should ask them that and then ask “do you think I’m trans?” Or something like that and see their reaction because I don’t think any of them in the video knew you were trans

    • @JIMBEAMM
      @JIMBEAMM Рік тому +19

      I bet all of em knew. Grace is one of the most famous and followed trans women in aus. Her father is a famous actor too. I reckon stealth is mostly out of the question for her.

    • @alexismerrilldragonqueen
      @alexismerrilldragonqueen Рік тому +1

      My sentiment exactly!

    • @FeeFee22
      @FeeFee22 Рік тому +1

      He looks trans.... Pretty sure they knew

    • @ElanaVital83
      @ElanaVital83 Рік тому +10

      Who cares? It was an interview, not a date

    • @dinogators8323
      @dinogators8323 Рік тому +17

      I still think they would’ve held their original answer had they known.

  • @akh5011
    @akh5011 Рік тому +51

    They were all so polite .. and honestly loved how you didn't asked too much and respected their preference.. but what tf Scared you ?

    • @LesterNygaaard
      @LesterNygaaard Рік тому +29

      Probably just interviewing random strangers with questions as personally send my anxiety through the roof. Then in her case, add the extra layer of apprehension and fear of being a trans woman and not knowing the reactions to such a line of questioning.

    • @akh5011
      @akh5011 Рік тому +3

      @@LesterNygaaard ok that's understandable

    • @annas4843
      @annas4843 Рік тому +3

      @@LesterNygaaardeaaa, not really… I think the scary part was that all answered no
      Many people ask that question on the streets and no one has ever said they were scared or not safe, trans claim not being safe even opening the fridge

    • @kittykatz4001
      @kittykatz4001 Рік тому

      @@annas4843Opening the fridge is “violence” too.

    • @annas4843
      @annas4843 Рік тому +2

      @@kittykatz4001 especially if you have Gouda cheese inside, if you have tête de moin don’t worry it will remain neutral, and if you see feta start dancing with your hands on the air…

  • @redskittle9985
    @redskittle9985 9 місяців тому +17

    Out of curiosity I asked my brother, his response was "post op or pre-op?" I asked why that mattered and he said "I don't like penises" But hes open to post op

    • @Jeffy-331
      @Jeffy-331 8 місяців тому +4

      he’s bi then

    • @hmmmmnothanks
      @hmmmmnothanks 5 місяців тому

      @@Jeffy-331who are you to tell anybody else what their sexuality is? u the gay police? kinda fruity that u care so much.

    • @VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer
      @VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Jeffy-331exactly

    • @Jeffy-331
      @Jeffy-331 3 місяці тому +4

      @@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer I mean pre op or post op it’s still a man at the end of the day, I don’t get why people make it complicated 😂🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @LilPenguin-b4x
      @LilPenguin-b4x Місяць тому +1

      @@Jeffy-331Straight because she doesn’t have a pee pee

  • @heySam514
    @heySam514 Рік тому +96

    Lmao @ "that was really scary" 😂😂
    That's exactly how I would have reacted!
    Guys seemed well-behaved, so that's good

    • @peterlong2580
      @peterlong2580 Рік тому +3

      Yeah im surprised he actually posted this video... completely destroys the narrative of the trans community

    • @newmail3685
      @newmail3685 10 місяців тому

      ​@@peterlong2580yeah, cause that's exactly how everyone reacts, everywhere right? It's not that some countries are more educated and tolerant than others.

    • @itac.2280
      @itac.2280 9 місяців тому

      what are you even talking about lol@@peterlong2580

  • @newmail3685
    @newmail3685 10 місяців тому +1

    They were polite and respectful. And they at least know what a trans woman is. Some countries are so ahead in education and human rights. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @Sam-Trader-s6i
      @Sam-Trader-s6i 10 місяців тому +1

      Try this in Islamic countries and see what happens

  • @laurapaolino212
    @laurapaolino212 Рік тому +219

    Being heterosexual means exactly that: they don't date trans. It's not scary but just another way to leave your sexuality. People should respect trans, lesbians, pan... And also heteros. ...

    • @woodie62
      @woodie62 Рік тому +6

      @laurapaolino
      Thank you for bringing that out! It was the point of my comment's question!!!

    • @plasmathespaceproto701
      @plasmathespaceproto701 Рік тому +36

      plenty of heterosexuals date trans ppl. idk what planet you're on my guy.

    • @laurapaolino212
      @laurapaolino212 Рік тому +39

      @@plasmathespaceproto701 actually, heterosexual means people date other people from the opposite biological sex. Other "combinations" have different names and there's nothing wrong with different options. That's why there are so many genders. The problem is that many people don't want to accept that still exist the basic option: XX and XY. The rest are ways to live your life, and your sexuality and it's perfectly ok

    • @hel3o167
      @hel3o167 Рік тому +9

      ​@@laurapaolino212nah

    • @SM-zr2oi
      @SM-zr2oi Рік тому +14

      I don't respect anyone for their sexuality!!But for their intellect, decency, healthy love for children and contribution to society!

  • @jiliciar.1423
    @jiliciar.1423 Рік тому +29

    😁 This was a cute idea and I'm glad you were safe and no drama got started.

  • @ReligioCritic
    @ReligioCritic Рік тому +62

    You should ask, if they would date you and if they say yes then tell them that you are a trans girl, it would be interesting to see how they react to it.

    • @Biden666
      @Biden666 Рік тому +29

      That’s messed up

    • @ReligioCritic
      @ReligioCritic Рік тому +20

      @@Biden666 Why? I'm not asking her to date them and then reveal her trans identity, I just want her to ask men if they find her attractive and if they do then she can tell them that she's trans.

    • @Lisee02
      @Lisee02 Рік тому +15

      @@ReligioCritic I see what you mean, since she’s pretty and passes to the point where if I hadn’t seen her content I’d have no idea she’s not cis, but that could be a real safety issue for her. 😊💛

    • @ReligioCritic
      @ReligioCritic Рік тому +1

      @@Lisee02 How can that be a safety issue for her?

    • @ReligioCritic
      @ReligioCritic Рік тому +5

      @@evelynspaghetti4978 What? What do you think we men are? She isn't in fkin Afghanistan, why are you guys acting if people would do something bad to her if they find out she's trans?

  • @mugurlutr9208
    @mugurlutr9208 7 місяців тому +2

    "Men love food so I'm gonna try the food court" why you calling me out like that 😭😭🤣🤣

    • @Jeffy-331
      @Jeffy-331 7 місяців тому

      That’s why he went there too 😂

  • @sobel4511
    @sobel4511 Рік тому +23

    Did you tell any of them afterward that you're trans?

  • @brianmck7363
    @brianmck7363 Рік тому +10

    I think it’s so wrong that some transgender people call men that won’t date a trans girl, transphobic!! These lads were very respectful and said they had nothing against it but it’s not for them!! A and as far as I’m concerned this should be the end of it!!! Right?!

    • @PuppygirlTrans
      @PuppygirlTrans Рік тому

      Tru

    • @frank_isxd2687
      @frank_isxd2687 Рік тому

      a Heterosexual man would not date or have sex with a trans women why? because heterosexuals dont like dicks, and heterosexual women dont like vaginas thats it.

    • @TrophyGuide101
      @TrophyGuide101 4 місяці тому +1

      All it does is remove any weight from the term transphobia. If transphobia ranges from thinking trans people are subhuman to simply having a sexual preference then it's just a spectrum ranging from horrible views to normal views. The people who believe this think they can shame people into agreeing with them when all they are doing is making it so transphobia isn't always a bad thing.

  • @ms.m7764
    @ms.m7764 Рік тому +3

    Basically they would be considered homosexuals.

  • @forgottenpaperflowers
    @forgottenpaperflowers Рік тому +37

    Yeah nothing wrong with their answers. It's not everyone's cup of tea, like asking a lesbian if she wanted to date a man. It's not what she's attracted to and there's nothing wrong with it. All personal preference and they were all straight up and respectful

    • @thedragonbrawler9311
      @thedragonbrawler9311 Рік тому +12

      I get what you're saying but that's not a fair comparison. Asking a lesbian if they'd date a transwoman is exactly like asking a straight man if they'd date a transwoman.

    • @forgottenpaperflowers
      @forgottenpaperflowers Рік тому +10

      @@thedragonbrawler9311 I said ask a man. Not a trans woman. It's just saying its not what they're attracted to and there's nothing wrong with that

    • @thedragonbrawler9311
      @thedragonbrawler9311 Рік тому +3

      @@forgottenpaperflowers you didn't say "ask a man" you specifically said it's "like asking a lesbian if she wanted to date a man".
      Are you confused by my statement?

    • @krotchlickmeugh627
      @krotchlickmeugh627 Рік тому +6

      ​@@thedragonbrawler9311no youre confused. Purposefully it seems. Which isnt surprising since you have no idea what a man or a woman is

    • @thedragonbrawler9311
      @thedragonbrawler9311 Рік тому +7

      @@krotchlickmeugh627 I'm not confused.
      Asking a straight man if they'd date a trans woman = Asking a lesbian if they'd date a trans woman.
      Asking a straight man if they'd date a man = Asking a lesbian if they'd date a man (even if you believe trans women are men, you can think of men as males who are happy being men so you don't conflate the two).
      They're the fairest comparisons you can make.

  • @KDanie
    @KDanie Місяць тому +1

    Remember guys “gender and sex are not the same”. It’s called SEXuality not GENDERuality😊

  • @amnah10000
    @amnah10000 Рік тому +40

    Good job! Why would they? They're not gay

    • @arsena5209
      @arsena5209 Рік тому

      yeah if they were gay they wouldn't date a woman

    • @PuppygirlTrans
      @PuppygirlTrans Рік тому +2

      Breaking news: dating women is gay

    • @nikemaraje5
      @nikemaraje5 Рік тому

      I don't think she's gay men's type

    • @crxde_
      @crxde_ Рік тому

      @@PuppygirlTransdating men that think they’re women is in fact gay

    • @applepie8308
      @applepie8308 Рік тому +6

      ​@@PuppygirlTranshes not a woman keep telling yourself that!

  • @marklewis7005
    @marklewis7005 Рік тому +14

    Because they're not gay.

    • @jeremylincaoco7645
      @jeremylincaoco7645 Рік тому +7

      I am gay and no we do not date transwomen I think you'll have to be bisexual to be with a trans person

    • @Jeffy-331
      @Jeffy-331 8 місяців тому

      @@jeremylincaoco7645or just gay since they’re feminine men who think they’re women

    • @mrhellcats2.069
      @mrhellcats2.069 5 місяців тому

      @@jeremylincaoco7645ye even if you slept with a trans woman you would still be gay being gay is being attracted to the same sex and sex is biological not “identity” but the female like form is not doing it for you so I get it.

    • @Worlds-Collide
      @Worlds-Collide 4 місяці тому

      @@jeremylincaoco7645not really

  • @jumpinggakflash2313
    @jumpinggakflash2313 Рік тому +2

    You are so pretty. I also love the nail polish you’re wearing in this! ❤

  • @fweddyfwintsone4491
    @fweddyfwintsone4491 8 місяців тому +8

    At the end you said "that was really scary". So, what exactly was so scary about that?

    • @hmmmmnothanks
      @hmmmmnothanks 5 місяців тому +1

      because you never know how people could react/ if they’re gonna hate crime you

  • @NTFive
    @NTFive Рік тому +68

    If a man dates to get married and have children, why the hell would he date a trans girl? 🤣

  • @domenicodiniro413
    @domenicodiniro413 Рік тому +7

    Hetrosexual exists ... Who would have thought it

  • @ivonnemontijo8461
    @ivonnemontijo8461 Рік тому +25

    I was really expecting the next question to be would you date me and if they said yes the next response would be but I’m a trans girl

  • @nunyabiznez6381
    @nunyabiznez6381 Рік тому +65

    Ironically, 7% of internet porn feature's trans girls.

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey Рік тому +1

      i’ve been seeing a lot of trans girl porn videos lately-

    • @narayanismysoul
      @narayanismysoul Рік тому +22

      Its true, they are very much interested. I hv lived it myself. Many hv dated me for years, bt in private, if asked in front of camera or anybody else, they would straight bluntly deny it and then i stopped talking to them and they kept calling then i had to block their numbers. 😠😡 They are just cowards.

    • @Sponggybobbie
      @Sponggybobbie Рік тому +8

      How do you know 🤔

    • @ShammyM.
      @ShammyM. Рік тому

      Not when its slimy and wet lol.

    • @JIMBEAMM
      @JIMBEAMM Рік тому +12

      PH released its search history for the most conservative Christian states and Bible Belt in the u.s. these are the loudest nay sayers of trans ppl. The search numbers were massive. That’s why they see trans ppl as inherently sexual. It’s the only interaction they have with them.

  • @Mana-pu7so
    @Mana-pu7so Рік тому +3

    I get why people would think that it would be 'funny' and ironical to tell them that you're a trans woman. I guess they don't realize how dangerous that could be. It's very brave to do this video and I don't need the creator to be unsafe for a 'funny' situation. The interview shows how dumb their thinking is already

  • @hafezj1
    @hafezj1 Рік тому +2

    Why scary, it’s honest and why would a guy want to date another guy who wants to be a girl. Most guys who want to date girls are looking to eventually build a family, unless you consider adopting, that’s not an option with trans person, you can imitate anything, that doesn’t make you that thing, person, animal or anything else.

  • @monytontana5184
    @monytontana5184 Рік тому +2

    I was hoping for the ol' Quagmire "Wait, pre-op or post-op?" question 😅

  • @teamjimin9524
    @teamjimin9524 Рік тому +31

    Not scary at all. They all responded politely. Way too polite even. Kudos to those gentlemen.

    • @rightinfrontofmysalad7356
      @rightinfrontofmysalad7356 Рік тому +10

      The scary thing is going up to someone asking. The the potential respond. Not these nice dudes repond. Stop looking for drama

    • @teamjimin9524
      @teamjimin9524 Рік тому +2

      @@rightinfrontofmysalad7356 who’s looking for drama?

    • @kevinwillems8720
      @kevinwillems8720 Рік тому +4

      Their baseline assumptions are scary for trans acceptance.

    • @kevinwillems8720
      @kevinwillems8720 Рік тому +1

      Also it's not a fucking preference

    • @rightinfrontofmysalad7356
      @rightinfrontofmysalad7356 Рік тому +2

      @@teamjimin9524 you did bestie. Simmer down

  • @electronics-girl
    @electronics-girl Рік тому +8

    I'm so sorry there are so many transphobes in your comments! You seem awesome! I love the little multicolored fluffy microphone thing.

    • @Adamthedickmaster
      @Adamthedickmaster Рік тому +6

      Do you think its wrong for a straight man to not want to date a trans woman?

    • @electronics-girl
      @electronics-girl Рік тому +2

      @@Adamthedickmaster No, but I don't see how that's relevant to my comment.

    • @tuckerwillexposeyou
      @tuckerwillexposeyou Рік тому +4

      Here we go with the playing the victim when people can't handle the truth. 😂😂😂

    • @Jeffy-331
      @Jeffy-331 10 місяців тому +2

      then I guess that makes you a realityphobe

    • @JustSomeKittenwithaGun
      @JustSomeKittenwithaGun 3 місяці тому +1

      ​​@@AdamthedickmasterThe men in the video were polite. The comments are hateful and rude. All you gotta say is "not for me" and move on. But no, you gotta sit there and call them men and tell them to stop being trans. That is a huge difference.

  • @fessand
    @fessand Рік тому +27

    Imagine u dating this girl and at night she says it's my turn 💀

    • @ChristianBernat-w5z
      @ChristianBernat-w5z Рік тому +11

      It would be fun, and you might learn how it feels for her.

    • @younggoat1228
      @younggoat1228 Рік тому +15

      @@ChristianBernat-w5zyo chill 💀 ain’t no way

    • @brandocalrissian3294
      @brandocalrissian3294 5 місяців тому

      ​@@ChristianBernat-w5zI learned forcibly how it feels for him and I'm good.

    • @pr0f3ssionalr0ast3r
      @pr0f3ssionalr0ast3r 4 місяці тому +1

      @@younggoat1228nah he got a point

    • @mericuty
      @mericuty 4 місяці тому +1

      She doesn't have what you think she has

  • @Funkteon
    @Funkteon 11 місяців тому +1

    Grace is almost 6 foot tall (179cm), so it would have been somewhat obvious to these guys that she's trans, as less than 5% of Australian women are that tall... But she's in Melbourne, and we Melbourne guys are decent and polite in the vast majority of cases when presented with these questions and situations... As a guy who identifies as straight, I have dated a top and bottom post-op trans girl, however, I am fully aware that guys like me who will date a trans girl make up only a tiny tiny fraction of men...

  • @lauren_739
    @lauren_739 Рік тому +44

    The second dude was so attracted to you it looked obvious so cute haha

    • @jayrose4748
      @jayrose4748 Рік тому +7

      He’d deffo hit lol

    • @amykelley666
      @amykelley666 Рік тому +15

      Yeah, just too bad he said he wouldn't date a trans woman to the trans woman he was likely attracted to XD

    • @slimthickaz.
      @slimthickaz. Рік тому +33

      ​@@jayrose4748 There's nothing to "hit"😂

    • @sagemn7376
      @sagemn7376 Рік тому +12

      @@jayrose4748 there is nothing to hit brother

    • @Silvia.Araujo
      @Silvia.Araujo Рік тому +2

      He was so attracted that he misgendered at the same time 😂 Let's just make assumptions about people

  • @Korn_Pops
    @Korn_Pops Рік тому +6

    I think that it would depend on what you mean by "date". I would certainly go to a movie or dinner out with a trans woman. But I can't see being interested in having sex with a trans woman unless she had had bottom surgery.

  • @panditah91
    @panditah91 Рік тому +23

    What gets me it's trans women not saying they are trans to men before they date.

    • @zakariakhanmd2549
      @zakariakhanmd2549 Рік тому +4

      and that is why after the men find out she is a trans they considered it as cheating and never want to see that trans again.

    • @jamescarter5002
      @jamescarter5002 Рік тому +7

      That's how you end up with broken legs or worse

    • @rogerrutherford1179
      @rogerrutherford1179 Рік тому

      Definitely going to need some therapy after that one

    • @Alice_From_
      @Alice_From_ Рік тому +1

      ​@@jamescarter5002That's how you end up in jail. 💀

    • @younggoat1228
      @younggoat1228 Рік тому

      @@Alice_From_ you would have just lied to a man about you while gender sure they would understand but if not 2 weeks in jail a and months of your legs being broke I’m okay with that

  • @beau4464
    @beau4464 Рік тому +1

    Grace your very intelligent and of interest to me, out generation gap is not reason to avoid age difference but to grow with and from one another ❤❤❤

  • @pritikamanivannan2326
    @pritikamanivannan2326 Рік тому

    I rly appreciate them and her for being respectful while having a preference

  • @chawnvezina4914
    @chawnvezina4914 10 місяців тому +3

    Strait guys are disgusted by that thought. Just saying.

    • @hmmmmnothanks
      @hmmmmnothanks 5 місяців тому

      there’s plenty of cis straight men who would date trans women, just because you wouldn’t doesn’t mean that others can’t, the world doesn’t revolve around you.

  • @madelicious17
    @madelicious17 Рік тому +3

    As a lesbian, I would date a trans girl. I have no problem with that. Still beautiful women. I love you so much. You’re gorgeous.

    • @clashersshek
      @clashersshek Рік тому +4

      Wait trans people can be gay too

    • @madelicious17
      @madelicious17 Рік тому +1

      @@clashersshek of course!!!

    • @brightstarr66
      @brightstarr66 Рік тому

      ​@@clashersshek umm the creator of this video is a Gay Man playin dress up. HE beyond delusional thinkin he's the opposite sex..... LOL

    • @SheridanM-dc1nk
      @SheridanM-dc1nk Рік тому

      Well you’re not a lesbian then!

    • @madelicious17
      @madelicious17 Рік тому

      @@MM-nl8ci lol, no. I’m a lesbian. I like girls, I like pussy and titties everything. But, I also like girls. It doesn’t matter. Of course, I like the female anatomy, but I like girls, regardless.

  • @Hamzahhh_h
    @Hamzahhh_h Рік тому +12

    all the guys were obvious I'd reply the same 😂 🏳️‍🌈 ❌️ haram haram harm

  • @everlastingpika1454
    @everlastingpika1454 Рік тому +2

    "It's just not for me"
    You know, fair enough. I can respect that.

  • @rachelpauley6843
    @rachelpauley6843 Рік тому +1

    This is how all people should respond. There’s no reason to hate something just because it isn’t for you! World would be a happier place, too!

  • @lckiki1838
    @lckiki1838 Рік тому +19

    I’m glad they were polite. One even used the right pronouns. It’s the bare minimum but I’m glad there are guys out there like that. Stay safe hon 💕

    • @sinnella1
      @sinnella1 Рік тому +5

      ​@@PureBavarian you're being awful. Don't promote violence on her.

    • @PureBavarian
      @PureBavarian Рік тому +8

      @@sinnella1 Didn't promote anything. Just inferring how things would have played out had he tried to deceive a heterosexual man

    • @sinnella1
      @sinnella1 Рік тому

      @@PureBavarian That's not deception. Her identity isn't for you. You have a fragile masculinity and you feel the need to decide what other people are just based on your attractions. I'm gay but me not being attracted a girl wouldn't mean she's not a girl. Your entitlement is pathetic.

    • @mshoney9301
      @mshoney9301 Рік тому +2

      @@PureBavarian stop projecting creep

    • @PureBavarian
      @PureBavarian Рік тому +10

      @@mshoney9301 projecting what exactly?

  • @silverkyo1051
    @silverkyo1051 Рік тому +7

    There is nothing wrong with not interested in Trans girl

  • @tjcasado
    @tjcasado Рік тому +9

    They all responded so kindly. I am proud of them and you hun, for you for keeping it all decent and non confrontational. Go Chaddy boys! Normally I find i yes so common for young guys there to speak casually and it comes off rude even if they don’t mean too.

  • @Takashii85
    @Takashii85 Рік тому +2

    You can see the social conditioning in their answers tho. They give honest answers but dont want to elaborate on the reason despite it being obvious

  • @afroditapadilla1854
    @afroditapadilla1854 Рік тому +3

    If your trans you need to tell the person your dating.

  • @ddk567t
    @ddk567t Рік тому +6

    This is normal. Nothing wrong with guys who do not want to date a trans woman. Nothing scary about this.

  • @panicblinkday
    @panicblinkday Рік тому +3

    He’s straight looking for trouble.

  • @elfenscheisse
    @elfenscheisse Рік тому +1

    you should have tried the dads, too. It would have been interesting to compare the different age-groups.

  • @sophiacalon3463
    @sophiacalon3463 Рік тому +1

    It’s not scary. Just some guys wanna be with bio women for the family. I’m bisexual but i prefer men simply for my personal goals.

  • @togenichayavok2872
    @togenichayavok2872 Рік тому +6

    WHAT DO YOU EXPECT THEM TO SAY? OF COURSE THEY ARE GOING TO DENY, but god knows what they do behind closed doors

    • @FeeFee22
      @FeeFee22 Рік тому +2

      Some people are straight.....you know only attracted to opposite sex..... Not gender. I'm a straight female and I wouldn't date a trans man even if I didn't know he was trans until he told me because I'm not attracted to females and would be instantly put off no matter how they identify.... People are allowed to choose who they sleep with... Basic rights.

    • @Adamthedickmaster
      @Adamthedickmaster Рік тому +3

      Im a straight cis man and im only interested in cis women

    • @togenichayavok2872
      @togenichayavok2872 Рік тому +2

      @@Adamthedickmaster I am not attracted to you. AT ALL. And on top of that, I simply do not disclose

    • @Adamthedickmaster
      @Adamthedickmaster Рік тому +1

      ​@togenichayavok2872 you should tell your partner that you're trans some people prefer biological men/women

    • @UterineBlackmail
      @UterineBlackmail 11 місяців тому +1

      @@Adamthedickmaster no

  • @4Ducky2Z0
    @4Ducky2Z0 11 місяців тому +2

    Why are people so scared to admit that they aren't gay and that is the reason why they wouldn't date one of these men there's nothing disrespectful about being honest about your sexuality and just simply stating that you are straight

  • @liileejade8861
    @liileejade8861 Рік тому +25

    Just because you look passing enough, doesn't mean you get to change a man's whole sexualité. You need to stop this. It's creepy.

    • @Jonathan-nx1dw
      @Jonathan-nx1dw Рік тому +3

      Dating a trans woman doesn't make a straight guy bi. That's not how this works; trans women are women. You can not want to date people who have penises, but not all trans women have penises, so it isn't fair to say you wouldn't date a trans woman at all.
      Plus, you can want to not date trans women, but you don't have to(and these men didn't, let's make that clear)say "ew no why???? I'm straight tho????" That's not fair, and in fact incredibly rude.

    • @liileejade8861
      @liileejade8861 Рік тому

      @@Jonathan-nx1dw no they aren't. And no it isn't. And you're l○st.

    • @Succs4u
      @Succs4u Рік тому +5

      Is it rude? Yes, but people have a hard time seeing a man as a woman even with the change. Its just not natural. I’m not transphobic I believe people should be who they wanna be period. I respect all. Regardless If it’s right or wrong you can’t make people feel a certain way about things that they just don’t understand

    • @Jonathan-nx1dw
      @Jonathan-nx1dw Рік тому +4

      @@Succs4u Well, then. Let me help you understand. The simple fact is, stating that you think trans people will never be their gender is not okay and it is not respectful, as you claim to be. It is very rude, actually. You shouldn't see men as women, but you shouldn't see trans women as men because they are not. Saying that being trans is unnatural is nearly exactly like saying that being cis is unnatural. It simply isn't true. If you cannot understand what I'm saying, feel free to ask good-faith questions that contribute to conversation. I'm willing to answer genuine questions so you can understand, or at least get closer to understanding.

    • @Succs4u
      @Succs4u Рік тому +14

      @@Jonathan-nx1dw there’s nothing natural about cutting off body parts and playing god to give you something you weren’t born with. I’m a woman. I get offended by the labels you wanna force on me. That’s disrespectful.
      You wanna force people to think and have a mindset like your and the world doesn’t work that way. You have to see the irony? It’s not ok to force your beliefs onto people everyone has their own journey and lessons to learn. It’s ok to think different what’s not ok is to treat people like crap doing it. Be who you want live who you want I don’t care personally. I love all people I don’t have to agree with your choices but I can still say that I love all people. Your life is your to live no one can take that away from you. What you look like on the outside doesn’t matter.

  • @Imparanlid
    @Imparanlid Рік тому +21

    Just imagine dating a girl and thinking it’s a girl then straight up telling them they were a guy all along

    • @PureBavarian
      @PureBavarian Рік тому +1

      you'd have to be pretty low IQ to not pick up on it from the get go

    • @Jonathan-nx1dw
      @Jonathan-nx1dw Рік тому

      ⁠@@PureBavarian Agreed. If you can't tell that a guy is pretending to be a girl, you're a pretty dumb person.
      But, my dear person, you seem to be confused over who is a girl and who is a guy yourself, so don't go calling yourself intelligent.

    • @SheridanM-dc1nk
      @SheridanM-dc1nk Рік тому +2

      @skylercharmaine oh don’t be ridiculous. Pass as cis. Grace doesn’t even pass and he’s one of the prettier ones.

    • @SheridanM-dc1nk
      @SheridanM-dc1nk Рік тому

      @skylercharmaine I don’t know what cis is? Of course I do. Made up nonsense, and you are a child. Learn to speak in proper English.

    • @jamescarter5002
      @jamescarter5002 Рік тому

      Wouldn't happen but if they did that's how people get killed lol

  • @user-lj2cb2pj8j
    @user-lj2cb2pj8j 10 місяців тому +2

    I absolutely would and have, trans women are women and deserve love

    • @Jeffy-331
      @Jeffy-331 9 місяців тому

      they're men, you're gay and that's cool!

    • @hmmmmnothanks
      @hmmmmnothanks 5 місяців тому +1

      period.

    • @hmmmmnothanks
      @hmmmmnothanks 5 місяців тому

      @@Jeffy-331you’re transphobic, and that isn’t cool!

    • @user-lj2cb2pj8j
      @user-lj2cb2pj8j 5 місяців тому

      @@Jeffy-331 no you're the gay

    • @Jeffy-331
      @Jeffy-331 5 місяців тому

      @@user-lj2cb2pj8j You're the one would date a man, and that's cool.

  • @YaffaKedarZion
    @YaffaKedarZion Рік тому +1

    That's because they're STRAIGHT/HETEROSEXUAL.....GET IT 🙄

    • @batlover1977
      @batlover1977 Рік тому

      I’m straight and I would totally date a trans woman. 😊❤️

  • @BurdenErnie1
    @BurdenErnie1 Рік тому +6

    Should trans women be honest with men?

  • @danhobson24
    @danhobson24 Рік тому +6

    I would date a transgirl if she’s nice and friendly

    • @nimic6137
      @nimic6137 5 місяців тому

      Yes, femboys are good people

  • @waterbottle82730
    @waterbottle82730 Рік тому +3

    Men love food ??????? You're not wrong

  • @Ninarezner
    @Ninarezner Рік тому +1

    As a queer woman currently dating a trans girl, I just came here to say: your loss dudes!!! 😂 😂 😂 more gorgeous babes for the rest of us!

    • @Aetherguy-cb9bu
      @Aetherguy-cb9bu 3 місяці тому

      Overall, I'd still think there would be less trans women than people legitimately attracted to them.
      A lot of men I know are attracted to trans women, while most trans women I've known tend towards the lesbian side, maybe straight ones tend to stealth more who knows. Either way it's still somebody's "loss". Dating market is still a competition.

  • @Spike-qh2bb
    @Spike-qh2bb Рік тому +5

    NO NO NO Never, Trans girl is a man.
    You look good though but still NO WAY.

  • @hypermetalsonic
    @hypermetalsonic Рік тому +16

    He would have had more luck at the local gay bar

    • @JordanPippenger23
      @JordanPippenger23 Рік тому +1

      I don't see a guy there

    • @hypermetalsonic
      @hypermetalsonic Рік тому +7

      @@JordanPippenger23 The one with the mic doing the fake feminine voice

    • @JordanPippenger23
      @JordanPippenger23 Рік тому +1

      @@hypermetalsonic what do you mean?

    • @hypermetalsonic
      @hypermetalsonic Рік тому

      @@JordanPippenger23 He's a man pretending to be a woman, i.e. cross dressing. He's a textbook definition of it (look it up since you seem to be slow in the head).

    • @nikemaraje5
      @nikemaraje5 Рік тому

      A gay man would never hit on a transwoman who passes lmao
      Gay men aren't into v*ginas and b00bs either

  • @hypermetalsonic
    @hypermetalsonic Рік тому +6

    Based fellas

  • @packnetadaija
    @packnetadaija Рік тому

    I appreciate all of the guys honesty, some would just say they would because they wouldn’t wanna looks some type of -ic, but they were honest and really respectful about it

  • @anthonyvigil7567
    @anthonyvigil7567 Рік тому +2

    Damn didn’t know so many Aussies were rocking the mullet business in front and party in the outback am I right

  • @davidkirk3173
    @davidkirk3173 Рік тому +4

    Here in Australia we still use common sense over political correctness

    • @PuppygirlTrans
      @PuppygirlTrans Рік тому +2

      Australia and common sense shouldn't be in the same sentence

  • @badbassnine
    @badbassnine Рік тому +8

    Um...maybe she doesnt want to just out herself to these guys on camera in this context..who knows how they may react lol i mean im trans but i thought that would be obvious.

  • @me2ontube
    @me2ontube Рік тому +6

    no straight dude would n if someone tries to fool them they are taking a HUGE risk

    • @plocus3592
      @plocus3592 Рік тому

      what

    • @me2ontube
      @me2ontube Рік тому

      @@plocus3592 what do you mean by asking "what"

    • @plocus3592
      @plocus3592 Рік тому

      what do u mean

    • @me2ontube
      @me2ontube Рік тому

      @@plocus3592 there's nothing to explain

    • @hel3o167
      @hel3o167 Рік тому

      It's not HUGE risk .
      Whether you call her a woman or man , they are better than cis woman and we know this

  • @justinsmudde2554
    @justinsmudde2554 Рік тому +2

    Excellent question! We need more people asking men this!
    Women say yes so they get approval from everyone and don't look a certain way. Ask MEN! We do NOT want that stuff

  • @ifixeditmyself1926
    @ifixeditmyself1926 3 місяці тому +1

    That's because men enjoy the natural woman. You can't replace the innate qualities of a natural woman.

  • @mangobaba1776
    @mangobaba1776 Рік тому +3

    Not everyone like to take the back door always... 🎉

  • @TreeSap-jq7xo
    @TreeSap-jq7xo Рік тому +8

    what I've learned is that none of them are gay

  • @ronb6688
    @ronb6688 6 місяців тому

    You have a great attitude in regards to there answers, you look beautiful as always ❤

  • @Fame.Flicks
    @Fame.Flicks Рік тому

    None of the guys I know would. I do appreciate this was an honest interview.

  • @kevinwillems8720
    @kevinwillems8720 Рік тому +10

    The answer to this question, if you love women, is an obvious yes.
    The real question, is would a trans girl date you?

    • @kevinwillems8720
      @kevinwillems8720 Рік тому +1

      And the answer to that question, for me, is I sure hope so.

    • @kevinwillems8720
      @kevinwillems8720 Рік тому

      @@MHS-ql7ee what about my wording.

    • @krotchlickmeugh627
      @krotchlickmeugh627 Рік тому

      That makes no fucking sense

    • @krotchlickmeugh627
      @krotchlickmeugh627 Рік тому +1

      ​@@kevinwillems8720your wording was like a mental patient wrote it

    • @kevinwillems8720
      @kevinwillems8720 Рік тому +2

      Then let me be clearer
      Trans women are women, if you date women, that doesn't exclude trans women.
      The real question is would a trans women date you?
      And I hope trans women if asked would be interested in me like that.

  • @cupcakeblush4537
    @cupcakeblush4537 Рік тому +50

    You're asking guys if they can date guys that look like girls... Ofc they're gonna say no

  • @PinkSparklerToontown
    @PinkSparklerToontown Рік тому +62

    How is it scary? Whats scary is trying to force people to be with you. How predatory!

    • @christavarghese5399
      @christavarghese5399 Рік тому +22

      She didn't force anyone though

    • @krotchlickmeugh627
      @krotchlickmeugh627 Рік тому +3

      ​@@christavarghese5399read the comments

    • @christavarghese5399
      @christavarghese5399 Рік тому +1

      @@krotchlickmeugh627 I read the comments..what about it?

    • @christavarghese5399
      @christavarghese5399 Рік тому +4

      @@GGAMB I didn't get who you're talking about. Is it about the viewers?

    • @v4mp1r3.b0n3zz
      @v4mp1r3.b0n3zz Рік тому +13

      she didn’t even force anyone to be with her are u fr rn ☠️☠️ when she said “that was scary” she meant that it was scary asking them that question cuz she was scared of them being rude and hateful and stuff, but u can clearly see that at the end she said “but they were all polite tho” which proves my points, y’all literally accuse trans ppl of EVERYTHING u can think of even when its not true js bc u don’t like the fact that they’re literally js existing even tho they’re not even doing anything to u

  • @saikatsen8037
    @saikatsen8037 Рік тому +4

    i would if she is beautiful like u

    • @justyourordinarytom6528
      @justyourordinarytom6528 Рік тому +3

      Dude its a man

    • @saikatsen8037
      @saikatsen8037 Рік тому

      @@justyourordinarytom6528 dude women r manlier down here in india, either most r with multiple casual relations or gold diggers, u will never know if she is truly in love with u. plus am 30 & i think its better with a beautiful partner than dying alone.

    • @saikatsen8037
      @saikatsen8037 Рік тому

      @@MtnPeakEnduro than be da alpha 🤣

    • @jamescarter5002
      @jamescarter5002 Рік тому

      I mean trans women are only thing a Indian guy like you will get any way you creep normal western women out😂

    • @Shreya...1
      @Shreya...1 Рік тому

      ​@@saikatsen8037wtf ? Women in india are having multiple casual relationships ? When ? Found a misogynist

  • @melissasylvest365
    @melissasylvest365 Рік тому +8

    If only men had the convictions their porn histories do. Wait. We probably dont want that either.

    • @vklnew9824
      @vklnew9824 Рік тому +9

      Maybe you shouldn't make th*t's of yourselves on the internet then, if you didn't want to be seen as a dirty website category.

    • @sinnella1
      @sinnella1 Рік тому

      ​@@vklnew9824 That's victim-blaming. Trans p*rn hurts trans people. You're blaming a group just trying to survive because society discriminates against them and only leaves a few dangerous job options, still with lots of harm.

    • @Adamthedickmaster
      @Adamthedickmaster Рік тому +2

      I'm a straight cisgender man and I'm only interested in cis women but I respect trans people

    • @andrzejdobrowolski9523
      @andrzejdobrowolski9523 Рік тому

      Why do You think those men in the video do watch porn though ?

    • @crxde_
      @crxde_ Рік тому

      Apparently like 7% of porn searches are for trans people yet no one wants them irl so they’re just a fetish

  • @BeachgirlKarli
    @BeachgirlKarli Рік тому +1

    They were so nice about it. Thanks guys. 🎉

  • @woodie62
    @woodie62 Рік тому +1

    Now here it is all of these guys were civil in their responses. They never dehumanized transgenders or spoke negatively of them at all. But yet, it was "very scary" . . . ?? Why???

  • @H_P10
    @H_P10 Рік тому +3

    I would ask after that “would you date me” then tell them I’m trans

    • @nmdreams86
      @nmdreams86 Рік тому

      They be like~
      Hell no
      Yes
      Oh sh*t no hell no

    • @Jeffy-331
      @Jeffy-331 8 місяців тому

      Your point?

  • @alicedee8106
    @alicedee8106 Рік тому +6

    Amazing how many would actually be down for it 😂😂😂 as long as I keep my mouth closed and my legs open they never seem to mind 😂😂❤❤❤

    • @narayanismysoul
      @narayanismysoul Рік тому +2

      Even if i have told them. Alot of them still continued with me . But they r cowards. They would deny it in front of the camera or in front of anybody. 😂😂😂

    • @justyourordinarytom6528
      @justyourordinarytom6528 Рік тому +1

      Jesus christ

    • @justyourordinarytom6528
      @justyourordinarytom6528 Рік тому

      ​@@narayanismysoulnot wanting to fuck a man is cowardly now?

    • @jamescarter5002
      @jamescarter5002 Рік тому

      Lol you will mind when your left dead in a ditch or in a wheelchair with broken legs 😂

    • @amycurtis535
      @amycurtis535 4 місяці тому

      @@narayanismysoul because they’re closeted gays.

  • @PureBavarian
    @PureBavarian Рік тому +3

    black pilling moment for him

    • @Sam-Trader-s6i
      @Sam-Trader-s6i 10 місяців тому

      He transitioned, because when he was a kid he was a incel

  • @rei_is_here
    @rei_is_here 11 місяців тому

    they were all super respectful tho and i actually love that🫶🏼

  • @gunsmoke8981
    @gunsmoke8981 Рік тому +9

    Once a dude, always a dude

    • @PuppygirlTrans
      @PuppygirlTrans Рік тому

      Phew too good trans girls were never dudes then

  • @dukeofpkr
    @dukeofpkr Рік тому +2

    why scary though ? just cause they wont date a trans? people have preference and its ok

  • @bk8187
    @bk8187 Рік тому +1

    Grace looks so beautiful!😊 I really wish one of those guys had asked him out on a date.

  • @Lala_monzz
    @Lala_monzz 10 місяців тому +1

    I find it weird that people in the comments are saying that they had no idea she was trans, so that’s supposed to change their mind? 😅

  • @sportycus001
    @sportycus001 Рік тому +1

    I’m a guy & I’d date a Trans woman

  • @KTKaute
    @KTKaute Рік тому +3

    I don't think they had any clue you were trans. I wish you had told them, would have loved to have seen their faces in shock 😂

    • @nmdreams86
      @nmdreams86 Рік тому

      They simply be...
      "No hell no"
      "Maybe yeah, hmm"
      "Oh shit, hell no"

    • @dreamingtree6093
      @dreamingtree6093 Рік тому

      They wouldn't be shocked. Sorry.

  • @zombiewack
    @zombiewack Рік тому +19

    Trans women are guys so if you do ….u are gay. Not that there is anything wrong with that.

    • @amisrami
      @amisrami Рік тому

      someones mad

    • @astelvan2116
      @astelvan2116 Рік тому +3

      @@amisrami mad?

    • @amisrami
      @amisrami Рік тому

      @@astelvan2116 yeah theyre mad

    • @Lanae8199
      @Lanae8199 Рік тому

      Not so. Trans women are women. If a trans woman is presenting feminine, and a man is attracted to her, then he is not gay. If a lesbian women is attracted to a trans femme, then she is not gay. Gender and sexuality are not one in the same.

    • @group555_
      @group555_ Рік тому +1

      That is factually incorrect

  • @brewcology
    @brewcology Рік тому +1

    Most men regardless of age will say...'NO!' Inc, moi.

    • @batlover1977
      @batlover1977 Рік тому

      I’m glad I’m not most men 💪