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I feel attacked. This is 100000% accurate. I just got done with this earlier this week & repeated verbatim, " Your apology means nothing to me, the damage is already done. What are you going to do to make sure this doesn't happen again?" -INTJ. 😅
Exactly 💯
And that happens again
Dude...why do you feel "attacked", though? Like...SERIOUSLY???
@@Jay-Jones …. It’s a figure of speech, my guy. Chill.
I feel you.
To quote Jordan Peele's Meegan character, "Don't be sorry; Be better ". 😂
As an INTJ, I agree completely
I process apologies as statements of intent.
You can apologize all day and not mean a word of it. You know that's a thing ppl do, right?
@@Jay-JonesThat's what he said, so why did you turn it into a question
@@Jay-Jones I think Raveneye would agree and was implying that an apology statement is only valid if/when it's followed up on. I can only guess some other personality types might further appreciate the apology for it's own sake and be less concerned with the future action.
Yes, apologies mean nothing to me. If i see change in action and change in behavior i take that as a sorry... but if you are able to let your pride down and actually apologize AND change the behaviors then its a plus for sure.
Another one is appreciation. I dont care about your appreciation. 😢 i just need you to do what need to be done.
Absolutely. Words without actions to back them up are meaningless to Te just by its very nature, lol.
"An apology without change is manipulation."
As an ENFP, i need both words and action...because most times if it's just action, the person only does their interpretation of fixing the issue (actions), and by apologizing verbally, it generates a conversation about what I feel effectively needs to be done in order to accept your apology.
The title says INTJ but they are discussing ESTJ's in the video🤷🏻♂️
Anyone with te fi function in their stack.
As an ISTJ, i can't agree more. Nailed it 👌
Thanks for the comment. ~ Joel
Spot on. I want to know what you've learnt from your failure and what you'll do differently.
As an INTJ, very agreed
That's my case as an intj as well
Totally accurate, however I know this won't reach nearly enough people to make a difference. Sharing this to get the point across is pointless because not one person looks at what I share
I am looking at it.
As a entp I had a intj visit me, and I was so pleased he did it, I was very much prove to me you care, not the words..
So is that intj shadow,te show me..by action ?
Thanks Pug. - Joel
Te isn't the shadow. it's the second function.
But in general, INTJs are suspicious of words. Words are cheap. And a lot of people don't really mean what they say. They don't reflect on their feelings and the truth of those feelings the way the INTJ does (Fi). They'll say things just to go along with everyone else, or try to calm the situation, etc. etc.
Actions, however. People don't usually take action unless they really mean it. It could still be a bluff if you're an iNTJ in a very tense and paranoid situation, but it's more likely you mean it.
@Jennifer Hanses this guy lied , it wasnt a white lie ,he didn't make sense and I questioned him alot and I just was like no your words don't make sense. So maybe unhealthy but his words did not match his actions.. and once ti gets a sniff we don't let go.
Omg all the overthinking is unbearable
I am 100% ESTJ and APOLOGIES MEAN SO MUCH. Because it's taking responsibility and ESTJ want people to take RESPONSIBILITY.
When you say responsibility it sounds like following up w/ behavior would be part of that. I think other types are just happy to have the words said to them in the moment even if the behavior doesn't change.
@@tedjohansen6535 ..oh I very much want people to admit and own up to their actions. I want them to take accountability for their actions, rather than blame it on external things or other people. I think the words "take responsibility for their actions" means this.
I detest when people sweep things under the rug. ESTJ like when issues are directly confronted and addressed (verbally or written).
This is bang on the money!!😊
💯 accurate
Or if you tell me explicitly or implicitly why you did what ticked me off so I can understand your actions
Yes that too.
Oh no its too acurate. I hate my child hood bully for the past 7 years, now she’s my classmate and she’s scared of me since I’ve tried killing her twice already
My mom yold ,im an intj.
exactly
Exactly.
Omggggg yessssss
She knows I dont hesitate to add sanitizer in her milo every day at camp. She vomited and threw up for half a year straight and i feel no guilt at all.