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As an entj I love your videos and I would love more of them as they help me see what I do and properly formalize it in a way I can articulate to others without making it graphic
@@Skimmerlit I try that every now and then but then I get carried away as the drawing becomes my new focus. And it just progressively builds ontop of itself.But I mean graphic as in a darker sense as it gets gory and explicit. Or at least is considered to be out of the norm or unethical.
I’m an ENTJ woman and I don’t meet many ENTJ men but I’m pretty surprised they’re critical and highly observant…. ESTJ’s frequently mistype as ENTJ’s and they are the kings of unsolicited advice
ENTJ males are more common than females tho, for obvious reasons, so don't go out of your way to make yourself feel special, i'm seeing too many women use mbti in an aspirational fashion, so they're the ones who tend to mistype the most and lack self-awareness. Without mentioning how they smugly claim NT-ness moreso than men in a way that they genuinely believe that NT females are more common than males, it gets tiring after a while. It's tempting to want to be typed as the most rarest type, SPECIALLY as a woman, i'm not saying that this is you necessarily but skepticism about self-typing will be a thing, hope you understand.
No way she knew he was a volunteer, as a female representative of the ENTJ crew. Devil's advocate: she's handing off the task saying 'push it forward,' but should have clearly defined her expectation was for you to "follow up" or reach out and advise on any issues to address to do so.
I didn't know anyone (esp. NTs) could miss the strategic purposes of being kind? If you even have one meaningful relationship with an NF it is going to blow up in your face. :')
After watching this, I think I'm more of an ENTJ than an ENTP, especially after recent problems arose regarding leadership in my work life. I always thought I was thoughtful enough, but some of my actions, pointed out by others, are making me realize my mistakes. Your statement that ENTJs are the least equipped to handle backstabbers is making me reflect more on myself. Can you tell me how to differentiate between ENTP and ENTJ in terms of relationships or identity? I'm still wondering if i'm an ENTP or ENTJ with issues kek. Thank you, your video with the rain background is perfect for my insomnia lol❤
Do you have a long-term vision you stick to instead of jumping between tons of possibilities? Does interacting with people help you calm down? Or does nature, exercise, crafts, and/or substances? When you’re alone, do you ever start crying or shutting down without understanding why? Do you pay close attention to people’s outfits and grooming?
@@Skimmerlit I jump around quite a lot, even right now (maybe because I depressed) i become more unorganized than my usual self) i tend to jump task to task , multitask things and procrastinate harder too( this is why i think i'm an ENTP) I think interacting with people only make me energize not calm, on the other hands yes, nature and exercise does make me more calm and tend to make me reflect on myself more. I do cry when i'm alone and i try to NEVER cry when there is people lol i found it cringe and kinda not worth it even tho i do it a couple of times because of the build up emotions . When i cry I do usually doesn't know why, but deep down I know i'm just depressed and i need to solve my issues. I pay attention to people outfit to judge them quickly based on experience but most of the times I doesn't matter cuz I just gonna be friend them lol sometimes i also doesn't give a damn Oh I also quite hard on my self when i depressed more, a Perfectionist but also a lazy bum if you may say. These contradiction really make me questions my self identity and i usually judge it as bad and good which makes me downgrade my self ( self worth issues if i assume). I'm still young and quite misguided so i try to fix my life lil by lil so at least if i fail in life can cope and say welp I try lol 😂. Oh thank you for replying I hope I can get some insight and make life easier🤍.
@@dhianprameswari3524I guess it plays a role why you are depressed. Is it because that task jumping gets pointless til the lack of a vision to conquer any field of interest in a deep way (entj) or is it more the loss of finding inspiration in all that ideas, cause you had them all before and smalltalk lets you feel unfulfilled in finding the next new thing?(entp)
Thank you so much for your insights on ENTJs. I appreciate your videos. Please I’d like to seek your opinions about me and a male ENtJ male friend. We’ve known each other from church for 5 years. We both love activities and each organizes activities and joins each other’s activities. I had been seeing him as a fun guy to hangout with. Until last Christmas and new year day, he suddenly asked me out couple times with two mutual church friends for museums and movies…. Ever since we started texting each other a loooot more than before…from an hour up to three hours…. And he kinda “report” to me what he did… on weekend with family…. It’s only been a month and half…. I can’t wrap my head around it… please I need your help! Thanks a lot!
What is it that frustrated him at 14:46? He said he 'slipped the inventative'? From what I can guess, he's frustrated he couldn't end his sentence grammatically correctly.
The infinitive form is a verb form structured as “to do,” “to go,” “to run,” etc. “Splitting the infinitive” occurs when one puts a word between “to” and the verb. “To quickly run,” “to boldly go,” etc. Splitting the infinitive is grammatically incorrect, but it’s common, and it works lyrically sometimes. I try to avoid it unless I think it sounds better.
I looked up splitting the infinitive. So there's something wrong with saying "at least be" after saying "would know to" instead of saying the verb right away? Is it a matter of being concise?
Try lemonbalm for sleep .... gonna tried that soon .... had a month of 2 hours sleep and some research bring me to that ....ain't tried it yet ....but high hopes are there.
I'm shocked by some of the leadership qualities we struggle with in this video, so I'll try to apply your advice, since I want to lead others. Things I've noticed about previous leaders I've had were mentioned in this video, and all had a variation of these same issues, especially the part where they don't do any dirty work like their employees or you recognize their upbeat attitude is all just a front. You're right about ENTJs having trouble knowing when people are about to turn on them. It happened to me a lot all throughout school and since leaving there, I've tried to be more cautious, though sometimes I tend to overthink. Anyways, very informative video as always! Love hearing these when I start my day, so keep it up! ❤
This vid makes me spiral and gaslight myself….. like I’ve been arrested for shutting down the Los Angeles 101 (with a similar hat your bitchy bro boss had) the day after the 2016 election. I don’t understand how we can both “throw ourselves into an oncoming train to protect others” yet be who ever was described at the end like a hit n run I’m questioning my whole existence and prob gonna be lobotomized
My novelette is available. Picking it up and leaving a positive review would be a tremendous help to me. Thank you.
Novelette:
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No, literally
As an entj I love your videos and I would love more of them as they help me see what I do and properly formalize it in a way I can articulate to others without making it graphic
“Hold on, it’ll make more sense if I draw it.” The classic.
@@Skimmerlit I try that every now and then but then I get carried away as the drawing becomes my new focus. And it just progressively builds ontop of itself.But I mean graphic as in a darker sense as it gets gory and explicit. Or at least is considered to be out of the norm or unethical.
@@henrique.campos more likely, Ni + Te thing.
@@Skimmerlit Every time I meet my shadow, the INTP, I always get called out in ways I never expected. What is it with you guys? Don't stop.
"Throwing shit at the wall" lmao this imagery made me chuckle
I’m an ENTJ woman and I don’t meet many ENTJ men but I’m pretty surprised they’re critical and highly observant…. ESTJ’s frequently mistype as ENTJ’s and they are the kings of unsolicited advice
ENTJ males are more common than females tho, for obvious reasons, so don't go out of your way to make yourself feel special, i'm seeing too many women use mbti in an aspirational fashion, so they're the ones who tend to mistype the most and lack self-awareness. Without mentioning how they smugly claim NT-ness moreso than men in a way that they genuinely believe that NT females are more common than males, it gets tiring after a while. It's tempting to want to be typed as the most rarest type, SPECIALLY as a woman, i'm not saying that this is you necessarily but skepticism about self-typing will be a thing, hope you understand.
No way she knew he was a volunteer, as a female representative of the ENTJ crew.
Devil's advocate: she's handing off the task saying 'push it forward,' but should have clearly defined her expectation was for you to "follow up" or reach out and advise on any issues to address to do so.
i agree with this. came here to say exactly this. she is just trying to delegate a task she doesn't want to do herself.
I didn't know anyone (esp. NTs) could miss the strategic purposes of being kind? If you even have one meaningful relationship with an NF it is going to blow up in your face. :')
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As an ENTJ im curious why a fellow INTP keeps talking about ENTJ people?
Because he just wants to
@@TamariTamari-ds6wz ah god, why didnt I know that? Thank you ah god!
He’s exploring his shadow
I love the ENTJ front they put up - Always makes me more comfortable especially with lower Fi - I always have to be fake around Fe types
After watching this, I think I'm more of an ENTJ than an ENTP, especially after recent problems arose regarding leadership in my work life. I always thought I was thoughtful enough, but some of my actions, pointed out by others, are making me realize my mistakes. Your statement that ENTJs are the least equipped to handle backstabbers is making me reflect more on myself. Can you tell me how to differentiate between ENTP and ENTJ in terms of relationships or identity? I'm still wondering if i'm an ENTP or ENTJ with issues kek. Thank you, your video with the rain background is perfect for my insomnia lol❤
Do you have a long-term vision you stick to instead of jumping between tons of possibilities?
Does interacting with people help you calm down? Or does nature, exercise, crafts, and/or substances?
When you’re alone, do you ever start crying or shutting down without understanding why?
Do you pay close attention to people’s outfits and grooming?
@@Skimmerlit I jump around quite a lot, even right now (maybe because I depressed) i become more unorganized than my usual self) i tend to jump task to task , multitask things and procrastinate harder too( this is why i think i'm an ENTP)
I think interacting with people only make me energize not calm, on the other hands yes, nature and exercise does make me more calm and tend to make me reflect on myself more.
I do cry when i'm alone and i try to NEVER cry when there is people lol i found it cringe and kinda not worth it even tho i do it a couple of times because of the build up emotions . When i cry I do usually doesn't know why, but deep down I know i'm just depressed and i need to solve my issues.
I pay attention to people outfit to judge them quickly based on experience but most of the times I doesn't matter cuz I just gonna be friend them lol sometimes i also doesn't give a damn
Oh I also quite hard on my self when i depressed more, a Perfectionist but also a lazy bum if you may say. These contradiction really make me questions my self identity and i usually judge it as bad and good which makes me downgrade my self ( self worth issues if i assume). I'm still young and quite misguided so i try to fix my life lil by lil so at least if i fail in life can cope and say welp I try lol 😂. Oh thank you for replying I hope I can get some insight and make life easier🤍.
@@dhianprameswari3524I guess it plays a role why you are depressed. Is it because that task jumping gets pointless til the lack of a vision to conquer any field of interest in a deep way (entj) or is it more the loss of finding inspiration in all that ideas, cause you had them all before and smalltalk lets you feel unfulfilled in finding the next new thing?(entp)
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Entj are really nice when closed to.... not when they want to hurt you with every little things they oversized like hell.
Thank you so much for your insights on ENTJs. I appreciate your videos.
Please I’d like to seek your opinions about me and a male ENtJ male friend.
We’ve known each other from church for 5 years. We both love activities and each organizes activities and joins each other’s activities. I had been seeing him as a fun guy to hangout with.
Until last Christmas and new year day, he suddenly asked me out couple times with two mutual church friends for museums and movies…. Ever since we started texting each other a loooot more than before…from an hour up to three hours…. And he kinda “report” to me what he did… on weekend with family….
It’s only been a month and half…. I can’t wrap my head around it… please I need your help! Thanks a lot!
What is it that frustrated him at 14:46?
He said he 'slipped the inventative'?
From what I can guess, he's frustrated he couldn't end his sentence grammatically correctly.
Do you know what an infinitive is?
No. @@Skimmerlit
The infinitive form is a verb form structured as “to do,” “to go,” “to run,” etc.
“Splitting the infinitive” occurs when one puts a word between “to” and the verb. “To quickly run,” “to boldly go,” etc. Splitting the infinitive is grammatically incorrect, but it’s common, and it works lyrically sometimes. I try to avoid it unless I think it sounds better.
I looked up splitting the infinitive.
So there's something wrong with saying "at least be" after saying "would know to" instead of saying the verb right away? Is it a matter of being concise?
@@Skimmerlit ah. Ok. makes sense. Thanks.
Is the second ENTJ just Michael Scott in a wig?
Try lemonbalm for sleep .... gonna tried that soon .... had a month of 2 hours sleep and some research bring me to that ....ain't tried it yet ....but high hopes are there.
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Excused because your brain was melted
Thank you. ❤
Thanks!
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I'm shocked by some of the leadership qualities we struggle with in this video, so I'll try to apply your advice, since I want to lead others. Things I've noticed about previous leaders I've had were mentioned in this video, and all had a variation of these same issues, especially the part where they don't do any dirty work like their employees or you recognize their upbeat attitude is all just a front.
You're right about ENTJs having trouble knowing when people are about to turn on them. It happened to me a lot all throughout school and since leaving there, I've tried to be more cautious, though sometimes I tend to overthink.
Anyways, very informative video as always! Love hearing these when I start my day, so keep it up! ❤
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This vid makes me spiral and gaslight myself….. like I’ve been arrested for shutting down the Los Angeles 101 (with a similar hat your bitchy bro boss had) the day after the 2016 election.
I don’t understand how we can both “throw ourselves into an oncoming train to protect others” yet be who ever was described at the end like a hit n run I’m questioning my whole existence and prob gonna be lobotomized
Do you think it was a type of loyalty testing or similar social experimenting kinda?
Ohhh
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