I want to see the love just pour out from the daughter for her mom. It took a while for me to realize that even when I felt like my parents were being unfair or having a different opinion about life they were doing what they did with my best interests in mind and that’s a very loving act.
I feel there might be something about the mother's attitude that is upsetting the daughter, or making her feel uncomfortable. Maybe she feels overwhelmed by her mother's display of affection or 'shiny' spirituality or something. I cannot really pinpoint it, but I feel there might be something there. Maybe I am wrong, who knows.
In a nutshell she said that she's not comfortable being open or herself around her mother because she is judgmental and preachy. This an unfortunate but common issue between mothers and daughters, including my own.
I felt this too. I wondered if her mom's charisma is genuine, and if so- why has it not translated to her daughter in a way that seems to comfort her or connect them in any way? Again, might just be a nervous teen, weird times for parent and child lol
Reminds me of my love for my son. I'm also in that tender-hearted place where he's turning 19 and taking those steps to full independence when, aside from 3 really rough years, we've been so close. I'm so happy for him. He was/is a wonderful teacher for this lady that did not know how to be a mother.
"Je t'aime beaucoup beaucoup beaucoup" 😭 I wish the daughter could have said it even once. The mom is so like my mom loving her daughter SO unconditionally, even when she falls short. Over the years I've sometimes told my mom "it's a mirage! I'm not as amazing as you believe!" But her belief in me and my brother always made us better, always made us keep going.
Yes, I agree with you. I was hoping the daughter would have said she loves her mom when she was questioned: if this were our last.... Would have been nice to hear "I love you mom, remember that"...or something along those lines. But whatev.
To the daughter: 100% Covert Narcissist mother. Good acting throughout, but totally disingnuous, unsafe, toxic, and definitely intentional about it. Never owns anything. Always wishes everything. Never acts on any of her alleged wishes. Caused daughter to dissasiciate by not being able to express her true self without judgment and shaming. Then Covert Narc mom has the audacity to shift blame and shame her (in her apology) for the disassociation she herself caused in her daughter 🙄. The hypocrisy of praising her online, then tearing her down behind closed doors. Growing under a Covert Narcissist mother definitely causes daughters to go minimal contact and no contact and strongest boundaries cuz they only want drama and fights. All this idealization of the daughter comes right before all the devaluation. I remember my CN mother praising me to others, justifying herself (rationalizing all her abuses). Its like a cult except with the cult leader being the one who brought us into the world. There is a hidden code everyone must obey which is to not tell anyone what they're really like.
Yea this video had a strange effect on me. Seeing your breakdown gives it all reason. The shifting eyes of the daughter says so much .. and what she most wants to communicate in the end is the pain of being guilt tripped by her mom 💔 what an emotional tug of war it is inside for a young girl when you are trying to be vulnerable and all you get is the message that you are selfish. How do you know it’s all intentional on the part of the mom ?
You can tell as the mother is speaking, her daughter is having a hard time listening to her (watch her eyes) - and it's no surprise, with the way her mother would turn an issue her daughter would be dealing with into self-deprecation, is a sign of a narcissistic parent. This is the closest thing I've seen that's similar to my relationship with my mother. We love each other but there is a lot of distance between us.
30 seconds in I’m already crying “I’m going to be the best mom you ever had in any lifetime” 😢❤ … I know that feeling exactly the same feeling I have waiting for the day I become a momma 🥺💔
Yeah, but every parent turns certain conversations into life lessons, especially a good one that is looking out for their child. A parent shouldn't be their child's friend 100% of the time. Also, without judging too harshly, considering it must be simply due to her age- it makes me think this girl has never lost a loved one, considering the LAST conversation she wants to have with her mother is telling her that when they argue its frustrating... Because from my perspective the biggest thing you take away from that experience is that LOVE is the only thing that matters when it comes to the last moments, last words with someone. Everything you need them to know is how deeply you love them and need them. Just a little, sad thing, but something I appreciate to have learned. You can tell that with age and maturity and honest conversations and true gratitude these two will continue this beautiful spiritual contract.
I got the message that she really needed to tell her mom how she felt about that but perhaps never new the right time. It's obviously very important to her to improve their relationship.
I didn't think of us French peeps as controlling... Blunt and rigid, probably... But maybe she's right... What a good job she does, actually listening to her child!
When she mentions having dreams of her for a year and then having her . Is so wild to me because I’ve been getting soooo many signs as well and dreams . For a while now going on two years . But I’m not even dating at all right now hahaha . Or have a boyfriend so idk how that person would even come down . Even. If they’re showing signs they wants to
Since everyone is giving their opinion 😂 these are my two cents: idk if it’s bc the daughter is very young BUT she seems very ungrateful, her mom seems very caring loving nurturing and she wants to “give her life lessons” bc that’s literally what she has to do, she’s her mom.
My perspective is that she doesn’t feel safe to be her true self emotionally or otherwise with her mother. Listening to the way the mother discussed her experience with the father you can tell she’s been thrown around and there is much yet to resolve. You can see the pain and mistrust in the daughters eyes. And the mother is guided by a strong belief system that is leaving the daughter little room to have her own perception of their relationship. The projection that the mom feels she’s known her for many lifetimes comes from the information in her spiritual teaching she has accumulated, but you can kind of tell the daughter may be a skeptic or unable to view the relationship or life the same way.
The mom tries too hard... idk how else to explain it. Its giving me coraline mom vibes... not on the surface though... deep below... i may be wrong though
#savesheikhjarrah Share this hashtag as much as you can help them they’re dying everyday and expel from their own houses by the israeli government and some of israeli people
aside the daughters soft and calm energy she‘s a stunner, so is the mom her laughter makes me smile it’s so warm
I like her calm energy
@@Music_Engineering sameee
The fact that the mom is willing to learn from her daughter and not oppressing her daughter's feelings, thoughts....
I wish my mom was like that
Same...
Did I hear that correctly.... Did she say, "I've never hated you even at my worse"!?
Now that is how you KNOW you succeeded at parenting!
You’re not even supposed to hate your family members
@@kailamoore5331 You totally can!
@@anb2526 yea, Ik, but your not supposed to.
@@kailamoore5331 There isn’t anything you’re supposed to do when it comes to family. That same thinking is what keeps people trapped in toxic homes
@@Trose.6 okay
This is so lovely. I see what she means about her mum making everything a life lesson but you can tell it’s coming from a loving and motherly place
Agreed
Great! 45 seconds in and I'm already crying! 😭😭❤
they’re so beautiful and articulate 🥺 wishing them nothing but happiness
I want to see the love just pour out from the daughter for her mom. It took a while for me to realize that even when I felt like my parents were being unfair or having a different opinion about life they were doing what they did with my best interests in mind and that’s a very loving act.
OMG!!! This is so deep and heartfelt! Everyone needs a mom like this. I do😥
I feel there might be something about the mother's attitude that is upsetting the daughter, or making her feel uncomfortable. Maybe she feels overwhelmed by her mother's display of affection or 'shiny' spirituality or something. I cannot really pinpoint it, but I feel there might be something there. Maybe I am wrong, who knows.
In a nutshell she said that she's not comfortable being open or herself around her mother because she is judgmental and preachy. This an unfortunate but common issue between mothers and daughters, including my own.
I felt this too. Honestly I feel like the kids feelings are invalidated behind clothed doors
Helicopter mom due to abuse with the boyfriend, created an overworrying and controlling parent idk
I felt this too. I wondered if her mom's charisma is genuine, and if so- why has it not translated to her daughter in a way that seems to comfort her or connect them in any way? Again, might just be a nervous teen, weird times for parent and child lol
@@mkaz8938 Exactly! That's what I wanted to say but couldn't find the words. Thx :)
Reminds me of my love for my son. I'm also in that tender-hearted place where he's turning 19 and taking those steps to full independence when, aside from 3 really rough years, we've been so close. I'm so happy for him. He was/is a wonderful teacher for this lady that did not know how to be a mother.
Thank you so much for sharing this with our community and us!
I've only watched the first minute of this video and already tearing up
Being expressive w ur love is a gift 💗💗💗 So lucky to witness this relationship ☺️
They're so uniquely beautiful from each other, and it's such a treasure.
Their love makes me so happy. I want a love like that
Mom and daughter are both beautiful
Adrianne?
Can we take a moment to applaud these thought provoking and extremely deep questions.
"Je t'aime beaucoup beaucoup beaucoup" 😭 I wish the daughter could have said it even once. The mom is so like my mom loving her daughter SO unconditionally, even when she falls short. Over the years I've sometimes told my mom "it's a mirage! I'm not as amazing as you believe!" But her belief in me and my brother always made us better, always made us keep going.
Yes, I agree with you. I was hoping the daughter would have said she loves her mom when she was questioned: if this were our last....
Would have been nice to hear "I love you mom, remember that"...or something along those lines. But whatev.
And it's often a difficult load to carry, especially when you're younger. It's funny how parent/kid relationships work.
@@r.r911 exactly
To the daughter:
100% Covert Narcissist mother. Good acting throughout, but totally disingnuous, unsafe, toxic, and definitely intentional about it.
Never owns anything. Always wishes everything. Never acts on any of her alleged wishes. Caused daughter to dissasiciate by not being able to express her true self without judgment and shaming.
Then Covert Narc mom has the audacity to shift blame and shame her (in her apology) for the disassociation she herself caused in her daughter 🙄.
The hypocrisy of praising her online, then tearing her down behind closed doors.
Growing under a Covert Narcissist mother definitely causes daughters to go minimal contact and no contact and strongest boundaries cuz they only want drama and fights.
All this idealization of the daughter comes right before all the devaluation.
I remember my CN mother praising me to others, justifying herself (rationalizing all her abuses).
Its like a cult except with the cult leader being the one who brought us into the world. There is a hidden code everyone must obey which is to not tell anyone what they're really like.
Yea this video had a strange effect on me. Seeing your breakdown gives it all reason. The shifting eyes of the daughter says so much .. and what she most wants to communicate in the end is the pain of being guilt tripped by her mom 💔 what an emotional tug of war it is inside for a young girl when you are trying to be vulnerable and all you get is the message that you are selfish. How do you know it’s all intentional on the part of the mom ?
What a beautiful mommy 💓
You can tell as the mother is speaking, her daughter is having a hard time listening to her (watch her eyes) - and it's no surprise, with the way her mother would turn an issue her daughter would be dealing with into self-deprecation, is a sign of a narcissistic parent.
This is the closest thing I've seen that's similar to my relationship with my mother. We love each other but there is a lot of distance between us.
Felt this ! it’s like i can never truly be me just parts 🥺
@@lifewithsky3541 Yea. I felt it too when the daughter said "you always turn it into a life lesson". It makes you avoid sharing.
I saw that too. Glad I'm not the only one. She seems to be putting on a perfect mom persona right now. And everything is about her.
Ding ding ding definitely spotted the NPD from mom
Nah. Yall are projecting.
Two of them are really pretty!!
This is SUCH a good mom!
30 seconds in I’m already crying “I’m going to be the best mom you ever had in any lifetime” 😢❤ … I know that feeling exactly the same feeling I have waiting for the day I become a momma 🥺💔
Yeah, but every parent turns certain conversations into life lessons, especially a good one that is looking out for their child. A parent shouldn't be their child's friend 100% of the time.
Also, without judging too harshly, considering it must be simply due to her age- it makes me think this girl has never lost a loved one, considering the LAST conversation she wants to have with her mother is telling her that when they argue its frustrating... Because from my perspective the biggest thing you take away from that experience is that LOVE is the only thing that matters when it comes to the last moments, last words with someone. Everything you need them to know is how deeply you love them and need them.
Just a little, sad thing, but something I appreciate to have learned. You can tell that with age and maturity and honest conversations and true gratitude these two will continue this beautiful spiritual contract.
I got the message that she really needed to tell her mom how she felt about that but perhaps never new the right time. It's obviously very important to her to improve their relationship.
Well said Maz
Mother and daughter are absolutely beautiful.Her daughter also reminds me of that girl from craft(Nancy)
Mothers and daughters! Such a beautiful and many times difficult relationship. ❤
These two are special ✨❤
I feel like the daughter feels trapped
I didn't think of us French peeps as controlling... Blunt and rigid, probably... But maybe she's right... What a good job she does, actually listening to her child!
When she mentions having dreams of her for a year and then having her . Is so wild to me because I’ve been getting soooo many signs as well and dreams . For a while now going on two years . But I’m not even dating at all right now hahaha . Or have a boyfriend so idk how that person would even come down . Even. If they’re showing signs they wants to
They’re both beautiful
Their love is beautiful
The birth control comment. I'm dead. I'm done. I'm buried. 💀😂
I wish I had a mom that engaged with me like this instead of focusing on herself.
I had to parent my mom from my teen years and I’m just now absorbing that
i wanna hear more about these dreams!
What a lucky daughter I wish my mother was like that, my mother hates my very existance and guit trips me because I exist ...
Wtf I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope you have better people around you!
Relatable ☠️
that‘s terrible. must be really draining
:( hope you‘ll find happiness in someone else and find peace with the situation.
Yeah It's really draining, It crushed my self esteem over the years and made me chronicaly depressed,
@@romyph thank u so much I hope so too,
Love it 🔥🔥🔥
Since everyone is giving their opinion 😂 these are my two cents: idk if it’s bc the daughter is very young BUT she seems very ungrateful, her mom seems very caring loving nurturing and she wants to “give her life lessons” bc that’s literally what she has to do, she’s her mom.
Sometimes a daughter want to just be able to tell their mom a story and not be schooled about it.🤷🏾♀️ simple
My perspective is that she doesn’t feel safe to be her true self emotionally or otherwise with her mother. Listening to the way the mother discussed her experience with the father you can tell she’s been thrown around and there is much yet to resolve. You can see the pain and mistrust in the daughters eyes. And the mother is guided by a strong belief system that is leaving the daughter little room to have her own perception of their relationship. The projection that the mom feels she’s known her for many lifetimes comes from the information in her spiritual teaching she has accumulated, but you can kind of tell the daughter may be a skeptic or unable to view the relationship or life the same way.
I wish i had a mom like this one💔
Wow she an awesome mummy she is very lucky kids 😘
Beautiful!
I feel like I'm looking in a mirror with my daughter 💞
Where can I find a mom like this?
Love u both..
The mom tries too hard... idk how else to explain it. Its giving me coraline mom vibes... not on the surface though... deep below... i may be wrong though
I agree.. She is making me uncomfortable for some reason, and the daughter wouldn't be so sad and broken for no reason
#savesheikhjarrah
Share this hashtag as much as you can help them they’re dying everyday and expel from their own houses by the israeli government and some of israeli people