How We’ve Grown From the Truth | {THE AND} Angelina & Melitza (Part 1)

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  • @joshuanaraine
    @joshuanaraine 5 років тому +249

    SHE STILL HAS THE CAT EARS! YES!

    • @rrpaar
      @rrpaar 4 роки тому +2

      the way the mom looks at her thoo its so cutee

    • @EfraimNkengurutse
      @EfraimNkengurutse 3 місяці тому

      @@rrpaar really ? no shade but i think the opposite, the way she look at her is so emotionless. she has this mask than some people do when you dont know what they are thinking

  • @frommetoyou9385
    @frommetoyou9385 5 років тому +201

    This mom is a beautiful soul. The way she's raising her daughter is beautiful. She'd be such a blessing to a worthy man. All the best to you, Angelina and Melitza!

  • @sabrina.natalie
    @sabrina.natalie 5 років тому +292

    She is such a beautiful, wholesome, and precious mom.

  • @dudewhattheheII
    @dudewhattheheII 5 років тому +133

    "Research things for yourself...no matter if you learned it in school. Yes?" YES. 👐 👐

    • @misskrbx3
      @misskrbx3 5 років тому +6

      Ruby the BEST advice, love this woman

    • @misskrbx3
      @misskrbx3 5 років тому +3

      The BEST advice, love this woman

  • @jamilyabenjamin7455
    @jamilyabenjamin7455 5 років тому +154

    I loveeeee the moms aura, her soft spoken ways and just how in tune she is to her daughter's feelings and attitude. she is definitely teaching me for when my time comes.

    • @EfraimNkengurutse
      @EfraimNkengurutse 3 місяці тому

      i dont think that she is really in tune, i find her very cold respectfully. she has this mask than some people do when you dont know what they are thinking

  • @veggiesarefruits
    @veggiesarefruits 5 років тому +154

    Co-parenting with an abusive ex is sooo hard. No matter what you do, you're the bad guy. If you try to protect your kids from them, you're "keeping them from their father". If you don't tell the kid what happened in the past, you're not being honest. If you do tell them, you're painting him out to be a monster. If he keeps flaking on them, you have to make up excuses to try and protect your kids, and you have to be there to handle their disappointment and pain. If your kid decides they don't want to see him, it's YOUR fault. It's just one of the hardest crosses to bear.

    • @parenthesisss
      @parenthesisss 4 роки тому +10

      It really is! It looks like you are speaking from experience and I just wanted to give you a random wave of love and support, stranger to stranger 🍃

    • @phantomgrrl20
      @phantomgrrl20 3 роки тому +6

      No lies there. It’s such a thin line to balance on. As the child gets older, things do get a bit easier to understand but it is very hard.

    • @veggiesarefruits
      @veggiesarefruits 3 роки тому +5

      I'm actually speaking on behalf of my sister. And my oldest nephew has grown and changed sooo much as he's gotten older and can actually see what's going on and how hard his mom works. He actually randomly told her a week ago how proud he is of her. It was such a relief that she cried.

    • @sailormoon206
      @sailormoon206 3 роки тому +1

      It can be very hard, especially when the abusive ex is the mother.

    • @YourPatheticlol
      @YourPatheticlol 3 роки тому +2

      @@sailormoon206 no especially when it's the father

  • @Enlightened08
    @Enlightened08 5 років тому +153

    I love when you have updates on previous guests. I love these two. This mom rocks!

  • @xm3512
    @xm3512 5 років тому +101

    Omg! I remember when I was 13 and JUST like this! She is just like me with the glasses and curly hair and Harry Potter shirt! Only a few years ago. I'm 19 now. Her personality has changed some but mom's is the same. If I had any unsolicited advice to give, I would say remind her that it is okay to be her because no one else's opinions matter so long as she is still a respectful and kind person. What other people have to say doesn't matter and don't let other people pressure her into changing herself, she is fine just the way she is. Whether it's how she looks or acts or what she's into, it's okay to speak up, don't let other people shrink you. Awesome mom and daughter

  • @misskhasu8537
    @misskhasu8537 5 років тому +104

    She's grown up so beautifully wow.

  • @juniormatala2116
    @juniormatala2116 5 років тому +31

    6:31 - Mom’s answer to daughter’s question: If this was our last conversation what would say to me? This was so moving. It really indicates how much of an amazing person she is.

  • @peekaboocharlie8502
    @peekaboocharlie8502 4 роки тому +11

    She’s such a good mom I’m gonna cry. My daughter is due soon and I feel so much love already and I hope that it can be like this.

  • @lizkirema3348
    @lizkirema3348 5 років тому +27

    I want this kinda bond if I ever have kid's.... Love from Kenya
    ...

  • @dab0366
    @dab0366 4 роки тому +7

    "...stand by your truth, and always live with integrity"....Absolutely, positively outstanding!! She will always be successful in all she does if she lives by those words.

  • @user_abcxyzz
    @user_abcxyzz 5 років тому +12

    Mama has good advice. Love the way she speaks to her daughter, respectfully. Makes her verry attractive tbh.

  • @jillian451
    @jillian451 4 роки тому +12

    Just like any woman, I aspire to be an amazing mom. This is so real and raw and wholesome and inspires me in a whole other level. It shows the struggles of life and parenting but still managing to be the best version of yourself for your child, and guiding them in the best directions

  • @missgunst4152
    @missgunst4152 5 років тому +25

    She is so honest with the question what did change since the last interview. Both are deeply honest, for sure.

  • @emilyylime05
    @emilyylime05 5 років тому +62

    Such a beautiful mother/daughter relationship.
    I bought the family edition of the cards in time for Christmas last year and there were so many emotions. Happy, sad, tears and laughter. I’m grateful 💕

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  5 років тому +3

      so happy to hear that!!! great you and your family enjoyed the card games! means a lot to us to hear it. :)

  • @kw2927
    @kw2927 5 років тому +7

    It's only been 2 years and wow she's not a little girl anymore, unbelievable. Her mom is so strong and sweet, such a great mom.

  • @sanelisiwelurai6031
    @sanelisiwelurai6031 5 років тому +40

    I Love these two♥ all the way from South Africa

  • @maralmatveliyeva542
    @maralmatveliyeva542 3 роки тому +8

    She’s such an incredible mother.

  • @doclove2045
    @doclove2045 3 роки тому +1

    This mom and daughter are so amazing. The mom is very beautiful. The daughter is very intelligent and beautiful also.....

  • @AverageJocelyn
    @AverageJocelyn 5 років тому +19

    You two.... gosh the love and everything ! I just feel so much love and respect for you ! You re a very good mom and you re raising a gem !

  • @Msunsungdots
    @Msunsungdots 5 років тому +35

    This is such a wonderful initiative. Keep the content coming. Favorite thing online

  • @sophie7162
    @sophie7162 5 років тому +6

    A mother daughter bond is so pure

  • @txla4878
    @txla4878 4 роки тому +3

    Mom, you’re amazing! I love the way she’s raising her daughter!! 🌟

  • @FleurDuSerenite
    @FleurDuSerenite 4 роки тому +4

    😭😭😭 she’s got one of the best mommies out there!!!

  • @delishme2
    @delishme2 5 років тому +6

    I am a mum and I have watched them all Melitza 😊 I have a young boy and I hope we have a great relationship in the future like you two. Bless you both, you have a beautiful relationship and you have done a great job Angelina, Melitza is a wonderful young woman in the making. Greetings from Australia and best of luck in the future 👩‍⚖🙏💕

  • @kangwamulenga1632
    @kangwamulenga1632 5 років тому +9

    I’ve been thinking of the right comment but I just really love you guys
    Stay true and keep your love growing
    Your relationship is really admirable

  • @chloekit4861
    @chloekit4861 5 років тому +5

    I am 34 I grew up raised by my grandparents and every topic was hush and closed off to discuss comfortably so I became rebellious and went left bc I didn’t know NOT TO & when i was caught I was reprimanded and punished and judged.... that was old school parenting. I WISH I had this dynamic growing up

  • @francessaunders3447
    @francessaunders3447 Рік тому

    I love the advice mom had for the last conversation. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @rosefuiava781
    @rosefuiava781 2 роки тому

    I love how this beautiful mama is authentic towards her daughter & speaks so beautifully.🥰

  • @aishahassan5281
    @aishahassan5281 5 років тому +8

    This mom ❤️

  • @itaylori
    @itaylori Рік тому

    They are both so sweet! Such a smart kid and strong mother!

  • @BeaCun66
    @BeaCun66 5 років тому +192

    She's a dope mom,and she's a good daughter.i hope to build that type of bond with my children when they get older. But they're two and one . but one thing i taught my son is to not hit women.his little sister hits him and never hits back. He wants to tho but he doesn't , he just says stop asia!😂

    • @chrisandrabethea5394
      @chrisandrabethea5394 5 років тому +18

      You better sit Asia down and start having the talk and understanding about hitting boys regardless of how old she is, because they're all not like her brother. I teach my daughter's that boys/men do hit back and most times much harder then them, as well as I tell my boys that if a girl hits them first give them a warning they swing again hit back. It's a good lesson to learn because girls are very aggressive these days and yell foul when hit back. Sorry but I'm not sorry🤷

    • @BeaCun66
      @BeaCun66 5 років тому +6

      @@chrisandrabethea5394 i tell her no, she just turned one its not like she understands, she can't even walk yet .all i can do is tell her no

    • @BeaCun66
      @BeaCun66 5 років тому +4

      @@chrisandrabethea5394 age is a big thing , she can't comprehend that , i teach her enough .all children go through a hitting sibling phase.she will out grow as she gets older. For now she will get told no and a pop , pop on her hand .

    • @chrisandrabethea5394
      @chrisandrabethea5394 5 років тому +2

      How are you going to teach her not to hit by hitting her, I understand that everybody raises their children different but never understood that concept. Not trying to debate or judge just wanted to put that out there about boys/men hitting back, because for whatever reason it was taught not to hit girls but girls was never taught not to hit boys and now boys/men are tired of it. Equal rights are bytch at times!!!

    • @BeaCun66
      @BeaCun66 5 років тому +2

      @@chrisandrabethea5394 that is how i was raised , its not like i pop to where she is crying .im a young myself two is at 20,it may not be the best way but im learning other ways to discipline them.so far im doing a great job.especally for a teen mom.but how would you teach them without popping them? I mean i don't whoop them all the time , i barley pop them.

  • @ansiaaa
    @ansiaaa 4 роки тому

    Melitza seems such an awesome mom and person. the way she looks into her daughter's eyes whenever she speak to her is so great and shows all her love

  • @louisianarainwater
    @louisianarainwater 3 роки тому

    They are precious...even though they have been through hard times they hold on to hope and love...she is an Awesome mom💚

  • @starchannel123
    @starchannel123 5 років тому +4

    Omg the advice to research for yourself is amazing! I've been doing that since I was 11 and it's bugs me that a lot of people don't!

  • @gugzdlamini5
    @gugzdlamini5 Рік тому

    I love how she answered, "When was the last time I disappointed you..?". She's the mom I want to be, wow!

  • @Iwish387
    @Iwish387 5 років тому +5

    Omg! My favorite people are back!! Happy new year to these amazing two souls!

  • @parenthesisss
    @parenthesisss 4 роки тому

    I really like how you navigated the difficulties of life in such a loving, caring, compassionate way. I am not sure if you will read this but no matter what other comments might say (like the comments that made you angry in other videos, speculating about your life and your parenting decisions), I am amazed how you manage to navigate the imperfections of life in the best way you can, which is so much better than a lot of people who have to face far less struggles. I wish for you both to have your kindness return to you in a soft but resounding echo. You inspire me to want to have kids of my own, letting go of the fear of life being imperfect for them. Thank you for your honesty in this, both of you. :) I hope your communication continues to develop and that you spread it around you, so that people can become more in tune with each other by listening and expressing themselves with such authenticity.

  • @pallavichakr
    @pallavichakr 5 років тому +3

    Both are so so so adorable! I wish I could meet the mother, I think she is fantastic and I want to hug both of them. Lots of love to you guys! :*

  • @boricuaqueen8707
    @boricuaqueen8707 5 років тому

    I saw your first video...I loved it and I felt it when you cried! I have 5 kids. From 14-20 yrs old. I loved how well put you worded your answers! I have an open relationship and conversations with my kids. My kids and I have a "judgement free and no mom conversation " rule. Where they can come to me and talk to me. I have to put myself in a friendship POV and unless it's something I have to direct as a mom,I will try my best to listen more rather than talk!
    I absolutely love your mind set as a mom/person. Your daughter is beautiful inside and out!

  • @jeanneolie7683
    @jeanneolie7683 4 роки тому +1

    She's so articulate to be so young. Wow I like that.

  • @katariinaserna4752
    @katariinaserna4752 5 років тому +13

    These years in a kids life are so hard. Trying to figure out who they are. I relate so much going through some of the same challenges with my own child.

  • @lloydbrooks3515
    @lloydbrooks3515 4 роки тому

    WOW You are an awesome MOM the relationship you have with your daughter is beautiful and deep your insights and advice in preparing her for life is very moving.THANK YOU.

  • @gretaumunozakayigema9764
    @gretaumunozakayigema9764 5 років тому +25

    l can't get over Nick's face introducing the video... Good looking!

  • @kevaantaya3304
    @kevaantaya3304 3 роки тому +1

    She’s such a great mother

  • @syndicate1226
    @syndicate1226 5 років тому +2

    Watching this makes me cry because i have never had a Q & A question with my mom and there so much questions to ask her but i can't its disrespectful in my culture

  • @addictedtolove1992
    @addictedtolove1992 5 років тому +3

    Such an amazing mom ❤️

  • @shay435
    @shay435 5 років тому +1

    Awwww her little girl is so beautiful and smart!

  • @ShitawaBah
    @ShitawaBah 4 роки тому

    I love your mum-daughter relationship. So raw & honest.

  • @erzahaliti2808
    @erzahaliti2808 5 років тому +2

    I wish if all the mothers was like her , she is such a beautiful mother 🥀💕😇

  • @katelynm5288
    @katelynm5288 4 роки тому +2

    WE NEED A UPDATE 2021!!!!

  • @syndicate1226
    @syndicate1226 5 років тому +2

    Anger and the grudge thing is so true,i have grudges to a ton of people and i feel awfull

  • @lolthatstough1301
    @lolthatstough1301 5 років тому +11

    I love these two ❤.

  • @MoonLightOnWater1
    @MoonLightOnWater1 2 роки тому

    I just love them❤️ And this mom is AMAZING!

  • @rachelly7779
    @rachelly7779 3 роки тому

    Oh my.......you can see the love in their eyes🥰🥰🥰

  • @ajmalahmad54
    @ajmalahmad54 5 років тому +3

    Ugh so excited, love these 2.

  • @mangolima1664
    @mangolima1664 5 років тому +97

    I still wonder what happened with her father

  • @msatutude17
    @msatutude17 5 років тому

    💜💜💜💜 how when the mother corrected her she also encourages and commended her

  • @carolinewatts2685
    @carolinewatts2685 5 років тому +3

    I honestly wish I had a relationship with my mom like this

  • @missgunst4152
    @missgunst4152 5 років тому +9

    Such a nice move when Angelina took off her mouse-ears-thing-type-of-tiara.

  • @Nobars-z1q
    @Nobars-z1q 3 роки тому +1

    They have beautiful hair!!

  • @johnwilliamscoffin
    @johnwilliamscoffin 4 роки тому +1

    Mom is pretty awesome, girl you're blessed :)

  • @cheerleaduhhlove6697
    @cheerleaduhhlove6697 4 роки тому +7

    Did anyone ever find out why her dad went to jail?

  • @katrina3693
    @katrina3693 5 років тому +1

    Love them then, love them now!

  • @ninamarie4391
    @ninamarie4391 5 років тому +1

    I love how the girl is sitting exactly like in the first video

  • @imaniphoebe3826
    @imaniphoebe3826 5 років тому +10

    Mother and daughter relationship is priceless. How can I get these cards. Am from Uganda .I love skin deep.

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  5 років тому +2

      Hi Imani, so happy to hear you enjoy our videos! You can check out our different card decks at: www.theskindeep.com/shop/ 🙌🏽

    • @Msunsungdots
      @Msunsungdots 5 років тому +1

      I am in Uganda and want these as well. it doesn't say if you ship to Africa on the site. Kindly confirm

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  5 років тому

      ​@@Msunsungdots Hi Mbabazi, yes we do! So we definitely ship to Uganda, but shipments do take a while to arrive (it is not fast shipping). Let me know if you have any other questions!

    • @Msunsungdots
      @Msunsungdots 5 років тому +1

      thank you! will order mine asap

    • @imaniphoebe3826
      @imaniphoebe3826 5 років тому +1

      @@TheSkinDeep am so happy to hear from you. I will be ordering mine.

  • @ellalagrelle4519
    @ellalagrelle4519 5 років тому +6

    Part 2 please

  • @aliciaseptember
    @aliciaseptember 5 років тому +3

    Oh. My. Adorrrrrrrrrrrrrable!!!!!!!!!!

  • @sollymadeit
    @sollymadeit 5 років тому +37

    I wish my relationship with my mom was like this but it's too fractured

  • @jlp7847
    @jlp7847 4 роки тому

    Love that last piece of advice...

  • @lorilynnjanuary1078
    @lorilynnjanuary1078 5 років тому +1

    Oh my God I love this 💜❤their relationship since she was small

  • @newlyrics1244
    @newlyrics1244 4 роки тому

    I love the mom and the daughter they are so amazing

  • @s.p.5213
    @s.p.5213 4 роки тому +3

    I've worked with children for years, taught at top 2 charter school in NYS... all the way to Special Ed kids, and owning my own daycare centers... So I've been exposed to hundreds of parents... I'm rarely impressed with a parenting style, but this lady is doing a pretty good job w/ her kid.

  • @yveqeshy
    @yveqeshy 4 роки тому

    Can only hope to have as good relationship with your child as this

  • @starchannel123
    @starchannel123 5 років тому +8

    My mom doesn't like living in the past and would ask me why I'm asking questions lol

  • @notsotypical6202
    @notsotypical6202 5 років тому +11

    Not to put pressure or anything, but maybe you should look into her having ADHD? I have it (ADD technically), and I ended up figuring it out myself because whenever I would make those comments ("I can't sit still idk why" "I just don't like it") my mom just took that as a part of my personality and helped me cope, but as I got into high school it was a lot more internal restlessness and my grades plummeted. I went from being the girl with great potential to the girl who was lazy, inattentive and the girl who didn't care when really I truly did. Once I got diagnosed and started medication, along with learning other coping mechanisms I felt SO much better and I got an IEP, my grades were finally in my control and now I'm out here wanting to graduate already so I can start working towards a Phd. it's just something to look into, if she does have it's better to find out as soon as possible before she starts developing that brain pattern of "why aren't I as good as everyone else?". I was always told about my potential, reminded of my capabilities and for that same reason, I started to blame myself for my failures. I knew I was "capable" of being good enough, but with my ADHD holding me back in ways I couldn't control made me believe I must've been broken.
    I don't doubt your capabilities as a mother, you are incredible and remind me a lot of my mother (only I wish she held stuff back a little more to be honest, told me too much too soon). I just want to give you the suggestion. Look into it, teach her about ADHD, see if she relates. You're right in that she is an incredible girl, I just don't want her to go through what I did especially since it was avoidable. I don't blame my mom, but I know that when we first discovered it she blamed herself for never taking other peoples advice to seek a doctors opinion.

  • @theemalik2735
    @theemalik2735 2 роки тому

    Shes a queen

  • @jaz978
    @jaz978 4 роки тому

    i wish I had to convo with my mom:(
    she’s lucky to have this conversation with her mom:(

  • @n-matter305
    @n-matter305 4 роки тому

    this is amazing

  • @evelisisdavis7242
    @evelisisdavis7242 3 роки тому +1

    Daughter and I !!!!

  • @honieforbes4584
    @honieforbes4584 5 років тому +4

    Im here

  • @cxntbagel
    @cxntbagel 5 років тому +1

    beautiful.

  • @imaniphoebe3826
    @imaniphoebe3826 5 років тому +18

    Can you host #Luna #and #Hollie again.

  • @kalesha9474
    @kalesha9474 4 роки тому

    imagine being able to talk to your mum like that

  • @user-qe8wo7ft3e
    @user-qe8wo7ft3e 5 років тому +48

    We going to annoy the fact that her daughter has gorgeous hair???

    • @chloekit4861
      @chloekit4861 5 років тому +7

      Mr.GlockDaKay you mean ignore?

  • @amalileversha2735
    @amalileversha2735 5 років тому

    the little girl has got such a beautiful laugh

  • @badlinkuplivestreamx599
    @badlinkuplivestreamx599 5 років тому +4

    “Are you uncomfortable?” ☺️☺️☺️

  • @leahvanderlugt6883
    @leahvanderlugt6883 5 років тому +8

    i still wonder why her dad went to jail

    • @victorianaboyd8721
      @victorianaboyd8721 5 років тому +5

      Curiosity should be pushed aside when its personal though. I do to but coming from a relationship where my dad left, it's their buisness right?

  • @jrortiz739
    @jrortiz739 5 років тому

    I love u girls bond

  • @arturojuarezgamingchannel7955
    @arturojuarezgamingchannel7955 5 років тому

    I fwlt like there qas things she didnt answer like her dad and honestly i feel her pain about it.

  • @monicagarcia8686
    @monicagarcia8686 4 роки тому +1

    Why did the father go to prison????? Any one ?!! Maybe that’s why daughter doesn’t want to speak with him anymore....

  • @n-matter305
    @n-matter305 4 роки тому

    does the and exist in Spanish?

  • @sproket168
    @sproket168 5 років тому

    Wow.

  • @b1savv99
    @b1savv99 5 місяців тому

    So what happened

  • @kaidynnevans8804
    @kaidynnevans8804 5 років тому +2

    They need fidget cubes!!!!!

  • @sylwiaszarkowska6784
    @sylwiaszarkowska6784 5 років тому

    Is this Marcela or Angelina

  • @kaidynnevans8804
    @kaidynnevans8804 5 років тому +2

    Jeez she's 14 and looks 12. I thought that she was ten in the first one and 12 in this one. I'm sorry, but she just seems really young to me. I just turned 15 and have been through some really bad crap and she just seems so innocent. I actually envy her.

  • @diamond0485
    @diamond0485 5 років тому

    10:00