7 Things Dating Couples Should Not Do | Kingsley Okonkwo
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- "I believe there are stages a relationship should follow, first friendship then dating but most times people jump into different phases of their relationship without due processes and it always ends up bad, sometimes disastrous."
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7 Mistakes.
1. Not Cultivating or
Building Friendship
2. Not having clarity or vision.
3. Not having mentors
4. Having sex before marriage .
5. Waiting to Have all the Money before you Marry.
6. Playing House
7. No premarital counselling
Thanks 🔥
GOD bless you. I wanted someone to summarise quickly
I never knew all this things...now I know,,,my God.. Thank you...
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Please sir, How can this be corrected😢
7 mistakes dating couples make.
1. Not building friendship (prov. 17:17) TPT .... If ure not touching each other, can you spend quality time together easily?
2. Not having clarity (prov. 29:18)... What are we doing? Where are we going? What's the plan? When are we planning to get married? How do we work towards it?
3. Not having mentors (prov. 31:1)MSG... have distant mentors and close mentors. Accountability is key. Let there be people that can counsel both of you.
4. Having sex
... kissing never satisfies, it brings the fire .. create boundaries... Sex before marriage affects intimacy. Sex affects the trust because the person that cheats with you will cheat on you. Sex brings disrespect. It dishonors God.
5. Waiting to have all the money before you marry.
6. Playing house. Moving in together before the time. It affects commitment. Prov. 25:17
7. Not doing pre-marital counseling. Love is never enough. Pre marital counseling ensures safety for both parties.
True, some churches don’t talk about marriage and relationship.
Which is very bad
Number one- Not building friendship proverbs 17:17
A friend loves at all times
Build your friendship
Number two- Not having clarity Proverbs 29:18
Not having vision the people perish
Number three- Not having mentors proverbs 31:1
Accountability is key
Number four- Having sex before marriage
Sex affects intimacy, respect, trust, good behaviour.
Number five- waiting to have the money before marriage
Number six- Playing house meaning moving in together, it reduces respect, motivation, anticipation, it brings challenges.Proverbs 25:17
Number seven- They don't do premarital counselling.proverbs 15:22 Doing premarital counselling greatly reduces the chance of failing.
God bless you ❤
God bless you more okay
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1. Not Building Friendship 10:57-- The love of a friend stands strong; romantic love fades. A friend loves at all times. Can you all talk
without touching each other, having sex, or discussing wedding plans?
2. Not Having Clarity 13:00-- Not having clarity of where we are going (marriage?). When are we getting married? 4 years? 5 years? 1 year? Let's start working towards it. Let's not keep checking each other out.
3. Not Having Mentors 15:22--
4. Not Staying Celibate 18:23-- For some, they keep kissing and touching completely out of their dating. "Let's just talk"
5. Waiting To Have All the Money 20:37-- You don't need a big house.
6. Playing House 24:44
7. Pre-marital Counseling 29:35
God bless you for highlighting
May God deliver us from useless friends
I am 23 now and I promise myself that no matter what happens... whether I am rich or not i must marry before the age of 28... God willing... Thank you sir for your teaching....
Please do another video telling us how to correct these mistakes. When you are already in the relationship
True
We really need this…
You stop it. And have meaningful conversations and put God first in the relationship. That's how.
I believe its practicing the opposite of these 7 mistakes.
For instance if you been having sex with your partner, bring a stop to that.
His teachings blessed my life. It helped me know what marriage is. It enabled me choose the right man.❤🙏
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Every single person has to see this message 👏👏
I feel so blessed after watching this
I have made all this mistakes oooo...Thanks you pastor for teaching me this is basically for me.thank you so much....I am now single and will work it out ..
Knowledge is truly powerful... Thank you pastor K for saying yes to Jesus, listening to you and your wife helped me allot .... you are truly a blessing.... thank you sir
I've been in a relationship and lonely before. Definitely being "married and lonely" must be worse
This is profound! Especially 3 and 7... young people don't seek knowledge anymore until they encounter problems in the marriage and most times its already too late.
Thank you , I never asked for clarity in the past but now am firm and stand with the Lord .
This video just motivated me. Now I'm certain that I'm doing the right thing 😊😊😊
Supporters don't matter if you're not prepared 💓
Listening to Pastor K is bliss! Second time this video has popped up and it's so fresh like a reminder
I like the way he says "are you here somebody"😅
Cheating is a personal decision. Some people will never cheat no matter how hard things are; others will always cheat no matter how good they have it.
This is where true beauty comes in!
Beauty isn't about having a pretty face. It's about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart, and a pretty soul.
✨ if you played your part and loved someone with all your heart
✨ if you spoke on your feelings & tried to communicate
✨ if you waited for change & none came
it’s not your loss, it’s theirs. let go, heal, & move on to someone that deserves you.
You deserve someone who you were created for and who was created for you, to understand and love you properly
In the multitude of counselor there is safety...thank you so much sir.
PK is so wise… his teachings are always a blessing
I always feel blessed listening to you Pastor K & Pastor M.
Truthfully, I'm amazed at how the world has changed so badly. It's so difficult to see a man that wants a relationship without sexual intimacy...
I've had to give up several relationships because of the so-called sexual intimacy...
It's so sad that very few ( so scarce to see) still understand and follow the standard already set by God ( Not defiling the bed).
Too many misplaced priorities in today's worlds...
God help we singles IJN
There are sooooo many men that wants to be in a relationship without sexual intimacy.
Don't have that mindset that they are scarce or else that would be my reality.
BTW, change your circles, serve, have mentors, pray and go out
I personally know so many men that are willing to wait o.
@@theadunbarin Beautiful piece! God bless you
I love your teachings
God bless you Pastor K for this message. He that hath an ear let him hear what the spirit is saying. Every word is so true 💯
Thank you sir, thou am still single ,am believe God for marriage, my first marriage broke when I was 20 years old, now am 32 I haven't heard what I learned from your teaching thank you , God give you long life and good health. Now am ready now for marriage
My first mrg broke at 28 years. I am 31 now, waitin on the Lord.
I love your teachings. These are very important keys. As singles may we do the right the things so that we can have godly and successful marriages.
I love this teaching, it will help us to bear Godly Seeds
Thank you Jesus for creating this wonderful head over us.
My ever able Counsellor sent by God
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I'm always inspired by your messages
You'll live long and Mummy too with all your family members in Jesus Mighty Name. Amen.
Thank you very much Pastor, you are an answer to a generation. ♥️
A failure is known by his goals!💓
Am always blessed whenever I listen to Pastor K
You don't date to check people out, you check people out in friendship
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I'm in a relationship and we're planning to get married
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Thanks for this teaching Pastor K.
He's so right ... Ladies we have the power !!!
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i love ur books❤️🔥🤲🏾,thank you for this video too and many more you’ve uploaded!
Great one Pastor Kay
This message is Very awesome and full of wisdom. Listening to this message for the third time. Love you PK.
Talking of point 2 - You made mentioned dating without a PLAN. My question is, how do you PLAN a relationship?
I mean how to have a Relationship Vision?
Continue learning
I'm so encouraged by the message this video just popped up at random. 😊
Beautiful piece
Wow,I am so blessed to listen to this word of God!
Thanks for these wise teaching...
God Bless You For This Message Sire!!!
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Thank you sir
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Thanks
So how can you avoid sleep in his house when is a distance relationship thank you
Shalom Pasteur, une fois de plus, je suis enrichie par ces enseignements. Merci, que Dieu vous benisse abondament
Perfect message for me
0:15. People undervalue the principle of marriage.
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Wonderful Teaching!❤
Thank you very much sir it will really go a long way God help me 🙏🙏
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This blessed me pastor k
Thank you so much sir. I am so blessed!
This has really blessed me
You don't start failing in the marriage, you start failing before the marriage
My mentor. Thank you for the teaching.
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Kinzo! Kim so!! 😂😂😂. Bless your hearts pastor K and M.
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More grace
I hear you sir
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These are all new and a direction
The exact question I have been asking for a while . Since I gave my to Christ this year.
I have been overthinking this relationship thing
Thank you so much pastor
You are now my distance mentor 😊
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Am really blessed
Thank you sir
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I must admit you're funny... 🤣
Nevertheless I love the simplicity of your messages. I glad to hear this.
Thanks for making people have stable marriages.
God bless you, sir!
God bless you for this, on the part of mentorship, I introduced her to my mentors and she did same, when she wouldn't agree that what she's doing is wrong, I would let her mentor know and when she is reprimanded, she will be angry with me for letting them know. She always wanted to put a saint picture and I don't get why
Are they truly her mentors?
Did you talk about the issue before taking it to her mentors?
Just be wary.
Wonderful Message and humourous while at it😂
Thank you sir... more anointing
I am always happy listening to ur sermons nd viewing ur posts. Thank you so much sir for your impact.🙏🏽
Please sir what is the difference between having mentors in a relationship and having a relationship counselor
This was so good! Had me cracking up too 😂
God bless you Sir for the values shared.
Pst, glad to know you're a fellow ex-commando.
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Powerful word
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Very insightful 😊
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