Qualities You Must look Out For Before Saying I Do | Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • @humphreyngobeni164
    @humphreyngobeni164 2 місяці тому +256

    1. PURPOSE 2.PERSON 3.PREPARATION 4.PRINCIPLES (LOVE and RESPECT) 5. PRIORITY 6.PARTNESHIP 7.PROJECT

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 2 місяці тому +256

    I listened to them almost every day. I have been a better man. I will be a very very great husband for the glory of God.

  • @benardokyere9551
    @benardokyere9551 2 місяці тому +76

    Married for 6 years and this presentation will be worth while for the next 30 years of our life. My wife is my project. Help me God

    • @welovenayy7200
      @welovenayy7200 2 місяці тому +2

      God bless you & your family ❤

    • @benardokyere9551
      @benardokyere9551 2 місяці тому +1

      Amen 🙏. God be gracious to your family too

  • @PerfectIgani
    @PerfectIgani 5 днів тому +3

    In a kingdom marriage we are interdependent 👏👏👏
    Well done Sir..

  • @Farm-Savvy
    @Farm-Savvy 2 місяці тому +36

    When pst. K closes his eyes when talking, he is talking to our souls. 😊

  • @wingclahmbong2745
    @wingclahmbong2745 26 днів тому +7

    "Marriage is not a reward, it is an assignment .
    Your Partner is your project you have purpose for been in their lives"
    Your husband or wife is your marking guide..
    Soo blessed with this message 😢🎉.

  • @iamkrisefobi
    @iamkrisefobi 2 місяці тому +12

    Number 4: Principles of Marriage 51:06.
    "When a marriage is working, it's not by chance, marriage has principles"

  • @ChildofGod315
    @ChildofGod315 2 місяці тому +67

    Father hear my prayers. I’m a single mother. Both of my sons are special needs, and require much from me but I know God will give me the strength and courage that I need to continue to keep going. So while I struggle to buy groceries and while I struggle to pay rent. I will keep faith. Always. Amen Praise God!

    • @queenepps6311
      @queenepps6311 2 місяці тому +4

      The Lord will see you dear... keep believing ❤

    • @rwa877
      @rwa877 2 місяці тому +2

      Amen.

    • @lizzyfresh07
      @lizzyfresh07 2 місяці тому +6

      Speak to your problem about God, don’t talk to God about your problem, He already knows. Read Mark 11:23. Stay blessed.

    • @realityidol5701
      @realityidol5701 2 місяці тому

      Can we make it work together

    • @oluwaferanmiayanwale
      @oluwaferanmiayanwale 2 місяці тому +7

      Sorry to interject, but I see this comment on almost every MOG's videos...from Apostle Iren, to Apostle Femi Lazarus, now to PK.
      And you commented on every single video(especially Apostle Iren and CCI)for atleast close to 2 months now with the same words. Copy and paste.
      Don't you have a local church you worship at and your pastor could help?
      I'm not insensitive but I highly doubt the authenticity of your claim. You are basically everywhere.

  • @NiwandindaMerious-jd2jk
    @NiwandindaMerious-jd2jk 2 місяці тому +10

    I like this guy with his wife. Only God knows. Much love from Uganda 🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪

  • @chinnyireaja7416
    @chinnyireaja7416 Місяць тому +11

    Pastor K is a blessing to this generation

  • @fayemidaniel6880
    @fayemidaniel6880 10 днів тому +3

    This man has seen both gender finish😂 God bless you Pastor K! My marraige is going to be great in Jesus name

  • @iamkrisefobi
    @iamkrisefobi 2 місяці тому +9

    Number 1: Purpose of Marriage 18:04.
    "When the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable"

  • @tugineyoimmaculate7182
    @tugineyoimmaculate7182 2 місяці тому +13

    Live from Uganda 🇺🇬

  • @olukemialatise5708
    @olukemialatise5708 2 місяці тому +10

    Marriage is mystery ( Ephesians 5vas32) & deeper than ocean 🌊. More grace Pastor K

  • @maryannenyambura2985
    @maryannenyambura2985 Місяць тому +3

    Such powerful and profound teachings.We will marry once and we will marry right.I am so blessed

  • @GloriaOluwabukunmi
    @GloriaOluwabukunmi 2 місяці тому +3

    I happy I listened to this before getting married

  • @victorsolomon2623
    @victorsolomon2623 2 місяці тому +10

    What a message! God bless you, pastor.

  • @iamkrisefobi
    @iamkrisefobi 2 місяці тому +3

    Number 3: Preparations you put into the Marriage 47:17.
    "People come to marriage with high expectations but low preparations"

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 2 місяці тому +10

    I love your teaching man of God!!!! Keep it up

  • @olaniranifeoluwa6978
    @olaniranifeoluwa6978 2 місяці тому +14

    Oh, it’s only God that will bless you for this teaching and others.
    I learnt a lot as a single lady from this teaching sir.
    May your anointing never runs dry in Jesus name sir.
    God bless you and your wife

  • @raphaelnkemakonam5430
    @raphaelnkemakonam5430 2 місяці тому +15

    This is a great podcast for all married couples and those intending to do so. I really appreciate his way of bringing out the little details we badly need to succeed. If you can please buy those books he mentioned. I have all of them and they are interesting to say the least. God bless you Pastor Kingsley.

  • @humphreyngobeni164
    @humphreyngobeni164 2 місяці тому +17

    MARRIAGE is not a REWARD, but is an ASSIGNMENT

  • @AMBROSEYEVUTSE
    @AMBROSEYEVUTSE 2 місяці тому +41

    As important as the message is, I must admit it's as funny as a comedy show 😂

  • @ihejirikaadaeze1660
    @ihejirikaadaeze1660 Місяць тому +2

    I love that word " intellectual compatibility"
    Kudos to you Sir, u really hid the point

  • @joycewatt8289
    @joycewatt8289 2 місяці тому +5

    I’ve been married 16 years now
    I’m only 15:40 in but I am cracking up
    😂 😂😅 because it’s so true …at least it has been for me…I’m doing better y’all but my husband has told me some of these same things….
    One think I’ve learned FOR SURE …Is most men VALUE peace.

  • @Fervy-bold
    @Fervy-bold 2 місяці тому +6

    I am blessed
    When ever I listen to u Sir.
    God bless you 🙏

  • @Queen8-beauty
    @Queen8-beauty 2 місяці тому +6

    How do I like this video
    A hundred fold

  • @majekodunmioluwatosin-g8i
    @majekodunmioluwatosin-g8i 2 місяці тому +6

    Married for 15 years, but this message really blessed me. More grace MOG

  • @RachaelOkoniha
    @RachaelOkoniha 2 місяці тому +4

    I love this word. Thank you so much sir

  • @essounabrahamstephen4785
    @essounabrahamstephen4785 2 місяці тому +5

    This is powerful esp on the PRINCIPLES of marriage.

  • @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451
    @zayasnaturalhairhaven3451 2 місяці тому +8

    Pastor Kay with his young uncle story😅😂😂 that always makes me laugh 😂🤣😅. This message is very profound 🔥

  • @jenniferqueen8695
    @jenniferqueen8695 2 дні тому

    Pastor k is a blessing to this generation.God bless you sir

  • @aremugbemisola8069
    @aremugbemisola8069 2 місяці тому +7

    Am glad I came across this video, have really learnt a lot thank you Ps Kingsley 🙏🏻

  • @DaberechiNwoko-pj4hv
    @DaberechiNwoko-pj4hv Місяць тому +2

    Wow... U're a blessing to our generation. God bless you richly 🙏

  • @amatsolutions5569
    @amatsolutions5569 Місяць тому +1

    I thank God this morning for the new knowledge length from you.
    This is what I always wanted. But I never have this opportunity. I am very very grateful.

  • @ZippiThompson
    @ZippiThompson 2 місяці тому +2

    the only pastor with great wisdom i`m interested in listening to in this era.

  • @Jacycute16
    @Jacycute16 2 дні тому

    Thank you pastor Kingsley Okonkwo for saying yes to God

  • @gloriakasunmu6316
    @gloriakasunmu6316 3 дні тому

    Am blessed God will continue to increase ur anointing in the name of Jesus amen 🙏

  • @Timothy-Faniyi
    @Timothy-Faniyi 2 місяці тому +3

    This is really profound. God bless you and your ministry in the name of Jesus

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 2 місяці тому +20

    My God has loose my wife hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah glory to Jesus. Satan did everything to stop it but failed.... God has joined my wife and I. We are very very successful and blessed to Jesus be the glory

  • @giftlicious2936
    @giftlicious2936 2 місяці тому +51

    May we never meet men who are with us only for what they can get...without real love in the heart 😢..

    • @Philomena-v2t
      @Philomena-v2t 2 місяці тому +3

      Amen ohh

    • @Mindful_Mm
      @Mindful_Mm 2 місяці тому +2

      Mariage in Africa is that... It benefits men mostly

    • @chidaluben
      @chidaluben 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@Mindful_MmPlease stop having such relationships

    • @chidaluben
      @chidaluben 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Mindful_Mmsuch mindsets, I mean

    • @King_Miracle
      @King_Miracle 2 місяці тому

      That's called "marriage in Africa". Not Kingdom Marriage.​@@Mindful_Mm

  • @lubinda87
    @lubinda87 2 місяці тому +2

    I was indeed blessed. Thank you Jesus for lading me to this video. Thank you Pastor K for the teaching..

  • @amercy5024
    @amercy5024 18 днів тому

    This is indeed a University of Marriage, your take all the courses prescribed in this class and you shall have a successful Marriage life.❤❤🎉 bless the Okonkwos🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

  • @otutuamajeffrey7211
    @otutuamajeffrey7211 6 днів тому

    Pst K is effortlessly funny but message was powerful and filled with wisdom

  • @EUCHARIAZERMSUUR
    @EUCHARIAZERMSUUR 2 місяці тому +4

    God bless you pastor Kingsley, I needed this message right on time

  • @AdaobiPriscilia
    @AdaobiPriscilia 2 місяці тому +4

    Thanks for the idea sir
    More grace and wisdom

  • @LovenderOkoroma
    @LovenderOkoroma 2 місяці тому +3

    You are too much sir. I am really blessed with this message. More grace sir.

  • @ChisomAkakuru
    @ChisomAkakuru Місяць тому +1

    @1:15:00, totally agree. Lord knows how much initiative is appreciated😅😅😅

  • @iamkrisefobi
    @iamkrisefobi 2 місяці тому +2

    Number 2: Person in the Marriage 35:11.
    "The success of a team is based on the qualities of the members of the team"

  • @jennehlansana5868
    @jennehlansana5868 2 місяці тому +3

    THANKS FOR THIS MAN OF GOD, I AM SO BLESSED TO LISTEN THIS.

  • @ezilovely
    @ezilovely 2 місяці тому +4

    God bless you pastor K, thank you.

  • @olasnipes7546
    @olasnipes7546 27 днів тому +1

    I love this asset ✨📌, more enlightened, more wisdom impacted in me . Thank you Jesus for your word and the disseminator.

  • @Priest244
    @Priest244 Місяць тому +1

    This is wonderful. The best I ever watched.

  • @KinlyAmbongha
    @KinlyAmbongha 2 місяці тому +4

    love this from Cameroon

  • @aohio7186
    @aohio7186 2 місяці тому +4

    Thank you very much Dr. Pst. Okonkwo 😊

  • @CodyBurroughs-v2x
    @CodyBurroughs-v2x 2 місяці тому +7

    You always make things seem so simple.

  • @mauieden2798
    @mauieden2798 Місяць тому +2

    Much love, from Canada. ❤

  • @ezembachinazor1771
    @ezembachinazor1771 Місяць тому +1

    Amen.
    God bless you Pastor K.

  • @RichloveBrown-rp1zz
    @RichloveBrown-rp1zz 2 місяці тому +2

    u are full of wisdom. keep it up

  • @clarissewehgee7796
    @clarissewehgee7796 2 місяці тому +3

    Very good and interesting teaching. Seasoned with much laughter😅😅😅. Thank you Sir and remain a blessing

  • @obenelvera4081
    @obenelvera4081 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for this message ❤❤

  • @DominicHudson-c4d
    @DominicHudson-c4d 2 місяці тому +3

    I’m definitely going to try this out, thanks for the advice!

  • @tokonigbendo496
    @tokonigbendo496 2 місяці тому +2

    So blessed by this
    God keep blessing and preserve you and all yours Pst K🙏

  • @br_josh
    @br_josh 2 місяці тому +6

    Mercy and goodness has sent this message of hope to me at this time. I will not be too busy, conceited or careless. The devil will not distract my attention or prevent me from receiving this favour. Amen. Interestingly, I can buy this book 'Nuggets For Salvation' by Joshua Daniel to get the divine message and, yet, I can recover my money and, maybe, get more if I encourage my family and friends to get the book too. If I get this book, I will edify my spirit and soul, I can earn money and I can contribute to uplifting humanity. There's no reason why I shouldn't buy this book. Why will I not want to learn more about salvation? I will not be accursed. The devil will not win against me. Even if I don't have the money today, I can, at least, register for free as an affiliate. Whichever way, I am going to be better-off. This is very much in my favour. I will now search for 'Nuggets For Salvation' by Joshua Daniel and put the devil to shame. So help me God.

  • @ritaonyinyechi494
    @ritaonyinyechi494 Місяць тому +1

    Kai, God bless you pastor K
    Im so blessed 😮

  • @joanaagamah6877
    @joanaagamah6877 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm blessed, God bless you papa K for such a powerful key🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @TeesSpace23
    @TeesSpace23 2 місяці тому +1

    We love you pastor K. We appreciate all this wisdom sir

  • @SELEKEKEMEGODSGIFT
    @SELEKEKEMEGODSGIFT 17 днів тому

    Sir I learnt a lot from this message. Thank you for accepting this call of God and staying put. Please sir, I'll love to buy all your booksss

  • @olayemiakande5849
    @olayemiakande5849 22 дні тому

    What a message! So profound & filled with so much wisdom, knowledge, & practical points. God bless you always🙏💯

  • @dominicebere9414
    @dominicebere9414 27 днів тому +1

    Great message!

  • @blessingsadoh4629
    @blessingsadoh4629 2 місяці тому +3

    Thank you sir
    God Bless you sir!

  • @SELEKEKEMEGODSGIFT
    @SELEKEKEMEGODSGIFT 17 днів тому

    Sir I love this message...it's too obvious DAT u re really blessed by God in this field

  • @lacksonmwape8376
    @lacksonmwape8376 Місяць тому +1

    This is just owesome message❤🎉

  • @mauieden2798
    @mauieden2798 Місяць тому +1

    Wow, wow, wow. So amazing! So true.

  • @Pettypetlove
    @Pettypetlove 11 днів тому

    So powerful. God bless your ministry. You are loaded sir.

  • @kateofmanycolours
    @kateofmanycolours Місяць тому +1

    Thank You, Jesus

  • @AnzoSun-dez
    @AnzoSun-dez 2 місяці тому +2

    Great words ov inspiration ps kinsley

  • @Chikakindy22
    @Chikakindy22 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you so much Sir 🙏 God bless you 🙌

  • @Ibbys_signature
    @Ibbys_signature Місяць тому +1

    I learnt and laughed all through this video😂😂😂😂

  • @LittleMissSunshine721
    @LittleMissSunshine721 2 місяці тому +5

    THIS IS SOOOO GOOD! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @victoriapaul-ameh
    @victoriapaul-ameh 21 день тому

    Pastor K. God bless you!! Omor. These words are divine

  • @rosearama2885
    @rosearama2885 2 місяці тому +8

    The national issue sweetened me🤣🤣🤣 ladies let us ask them those questions.

  • @rosemondphil-othihiwa3647
    @rosemondphil-othihiwa3647 2 місяці тому +2

    So good!!!!❤❤❤

  • @TOSAXXCOUTURE
    @TOSAXXCOUTURE 20 днів тому

    I smiled all through this sermon 😂😂😂and I learnt

  • @MelivaTamfu-bn3fm
    @MelivaTamfu-bn3fm 2 місяці тому +1

    Pastor K is a comedian abeg 😅😅😅

  • @davidsoughtout
    @davidsoughtout 2 місяці тому +8

    Fada Lawd

  • @Jamanaja237
    @Jamanaja237 День тому

    What a message 👏 🙏

  • @Jamanaja237
    @Jamanaja237 День тому

    My question Pastor K is, does God make choices for the partners we want?

  • @GoldFash
    @GoldFash 3 дні тому

    Thanks you sir

  • @joychinaza7038
    @joychinaza7038 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks so much sir. Where do I get this books you mentioned sir

  • @iamkrisefobi
    @iamkrisefobi 2 місяці тому

    Number 5: Priority of Marriage 1:15:19.
    "The priority of marriage is your spouse, therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and shall cleave to his wife"

  • @oikonomos1284
    @oikonomos1284 2 місяці тому

    This is so impactful

  • @ahanotujovy1688
    @ahanotujovy1688 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much Pastor K.
    Ur teachings were so insightful.
    But Pastor, I have a question
    Which is as a young lady can you marry a man you r older than ( with 2 or 1 year) but the man is God-fearing & hardworking
    Does our chronological age has something to do?

  • @frankanaz2919
    @frankanaz2919 2 місяці тому

    I've been blessed sir. Thank you ❤

  • @johannandilokelwahaufiku3768
    @johannandilokelwahaufiku3768 2 місяці тому +7

    But sometimes we as women dont want children's, all we need is a man to go with me in destiny PASTOR .

    • @semeionsho
      @semeionsho 2 місяці тому +5

      And that is fine, such a woman needs to be with a man who is of the same opinion and interest

  • @MarolineChiafie-v2j
    @MarolineChiafie-v2j Місяць тому

    This got me laughing out loud. God bless u sa🎉

  • @Trexdin
    @Trexdin 9 днів тому

    Some men go philosophical too when passing through marital isssues

  • @rosearama2885
    @rosearama2885 2 місяці тому +3

    How much are the books?

  • @BishopPossible
    @BishopPossible 2 місяці тому +5

    How can i get your books to buy.

  • @ifunanyapromise8206
    @ifunanyapromise8206 Місяць тому +1

    God bless you PK.