I used to think kissing was okay because that was the way I expressed my love until I realized I was a canal man and I was a natural man and until God began to work in me, Now I have decided not to kiss or allow anyone touch me because my body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. So Lord your girl is sorry
I had a strong conviction not to do this while in relationship and here is another confirmation. Thank you Sir for saying it how it is and not going through the corners.😊
Pastor K, the way you explained this ehn, infact you blew my mind. I have had a hard time explaining to some Christians why kissing before marriage is out of the question ❤❤❤.
Hmmm, I grew up in Church, I attended single programs, but for the first time in my life I have heard true message every single Christian needs to hear, the discipleship going on in many churches is not promoting Holiness, Purity and consecration among the single Christians, until I started spending time in God's word the messages from the pulpit really clouded my sense of judgement. Thank you Jesus for such messages in this times and seasons, God bless you Man of God. The Holy Spirit convicted me of so many things from the past when I started spending time in His word(The Bible) this message is indeed a confirmation. Sanctification is really necessary in our journey, but how many ministries are taking new converts through this process, every new believer deserves to know the whole truth of God's word and grow from there.....Hmmm God have mercy
Thank you for this. I know a couple who merely hugged after the exchange of vows. They preferred that any contact that might lead to arousal be private.
Then you should insist on keeping God first! Even if that means politely and firmly excusing yourself from these relationships. Your own husband should not come before God further more for a man who is not EVEN your husband. Sexual satisfaction is for a HUSBAND not a boyfriend or EVEN a fiancé. We as women need to stop letting these kinds of ungodly thinking men deplete our moral and spiritual bank and stand up firmly for what we know about God and the way HE would like us to live.
God bless you abundantly Sir. I thought I was been too over spiritual for not permiting all sorts of physical touch like kissing, cuddling.The guy I was in a relationship with, broke up with me because of this particular subject matter. God bless your ministry Sir.
Thank you very much Pastor K for addressing this. We are called to a holy life in everything we do. The purpose and motive for any action should reveal and glorify Jesus 🙏
When I had this question myself, I kept imagining Jesus Christ and the example he led. Like did we ever hear that Jesus kissed someone somewhere because he liked them...?? No!! And that was the basis for my judgement. We need to be completely Holy!!! That is what is required of us
Can an unmarried person kiss an unmarried person kiss in your church 😂. No biko ohh Some kind of hug self most times is uncomfortable in church not to talk of kissing Daddy don't mind them they know the right answer in their heart😂😂😂
Hmm, interesting 🤔. I've been doing my personal research on this topic and I have heard similar answers from many ministers of God, that kissing outside marriage is sinful. But I have one question to ask: if kissing is biblically wrong outside the marital framework, why then does the Scriptures admonish Christians to greet one another with an ‘holy kiss’ (Romans 16:16; 1 Corinthians 16:20; 2 Corinthians 13:12; 1 Thessalonians 5:26; 1 Peter 5:14)? Note that the word ‘kiss’ appears about 46 times in the entire Bible 📖 and not one reference to it was sexual or lustful. Please can someone help me out? Remain blessed in Jesus' name 🙏. #TrueTalkMatters #EvangelistGlobal
Amen, I will be kissing. I think there's kissing and then making out. Kissing could be a peck and a brief greeting. On the other hand, making out is where the petting comes in which I do believe that's a boundary crossed. Boundaries are important. Some couples kiss and some decide to not kiss. Some kissed and then decide to no longer kiss.
Even if 6.9 BILLION PEOPLE fornicate out of 7 BILLION PEOPLE ON EARTH will that make it CORRECT?? When the church gives a law it's a standard if many people are doing what's wrong it doesn't make it right or It doesn't mean it's approved by God, yes through the mercies of God that can be tolerated but still not approved Not everyone will necessarily cheat or stop loving thier spouse even if they have sex before marriage but does that make fornication right for such a couple?? Right or wrong is not defined by majority Majority might do wrong and be pardoned by God's mercy but you that knowledge or awareness will be treated differently So watch out & peacefully spread the message in patience that they might change!!, Some people always think life being holy is boring so the prefer to sin and make God forgive them but trust me this is because of prematurity in the Christian faith, when they grow they will realize that holy living is far more satisfying both spiritually and emotionally than intentional living in sin and asking forgiveness almost like provoking God
@@dipolasoju8912 Nigerians love making something that is simple to appear complicated. The original question you asked exposes your limitations to the basic knowledge of marital background
Yes it is. You don't start just like that right. You get in the mood, get aroused and eventually help your body get ready for the s*x. That's why girls get w*t and guys hard.. God made our bodies so, but not for the purpose of extra-marital adventures. So it's a prep process to intercourse.
So.. if you are not ready to marry someone you love and care aboit for lets say 3 years, you have to be completely celibate? What if after Marriage the spouse doesnt want to be too sexual committed and now theres a problem. Now its going to end up being a sexless marriage fown the lone and somebody is going to cheat! Now divorce is ugly and why soo many of us whove been through it dont want to go through it anymore, but we are sick and tired of being lonely and still looking for that specific someone and the dating scene even at churches is lame or non existent.. im very frustrated. I want to do the right thing, but it seems like damned if you do and damned if you dont.
In conclusion, if you want to live a HOLY LIFE, do it. If not, then go and live with the Unbelievers. It's not just about what we do but the SPIRIT in which we do it. Thank you, PK 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I used to think kissing was okay because that was the way I expressed my love until I realized I was a canal man and I was a natural man and until God began to work in me, Now I have decided not to kiss or allow anyone touch me because my body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. So Lord your girl is sorry
So profound. Kissing is to arouse and not to satisfy. Why start a fire, if you don't want to burn.
so deep!
Pastor Kay said "Your thinking needs to be sanctified", Amen! 😂
Kissing is made to arouse not satisfy. Thank you PK
I had a strong conviction not to do this while in relationship and here is another confirmation. Thank you Sir for saying it how it is and not going through the corners.😊
Pastor K, the way you explained this ehn, infact you blew my mind. I have had a hard time explaining to some Christians why kissing before marriage is out of the question ❤❤❤.
I prayed to Jesus to show me the answer, and he did!! This clears up so much.
Thank you for addressing this topic without mincing words sir.
It’s the seriousness and funny but true examples for me😂😂
Hmmm, I grew up in Church, I attended single programs, but for the first time in my life I have heard true message every single Christian needs to hear, the discipleship going on in many churches is not promoting Holiness, Purity and consecration among the single Christians, until I started spending time in God's word the messages from the pulpit really clouded my sense of judgement. Thank you Jesus for such messages in this times and seasons, God bless you Man of God. The Holy Spirit convicted me of so many things from the past when I started spending time in His word(The Bible) this message is indeed a confirmation. Sanctification is really necessary in our journey, but how many ministries are taking new converts through this process, every new believer deserves to know the whole truth of God's word and grow from there.....Hmmm God have mercy
What you said about kissing arouses not satisfies, that really impacted me.
Pastor Kingsley is too nice…I came here because I thought Pastor Mildred will answer the question 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love Pastor K's energy on this
I learned so much from this video
Christianity is really a journey. Thank you Pastor K
This is very good. Kissing is the beginning of arousal. So you’ll be starting a fire you can’t put out. Thank you!
AMEN PASTOR SOMEONE HAD TO SAY IT “TWO SINGLE UNMARRIED PEOPLE SHOULD NOT BE KISSING” !!!!!!!
Thank you for this. I know a couple who merely hugged after the exchange of vows. They preferred that any contact that might lead to arousal be private.
😂😂😂the way Pastor K answered this. Thank you sir.
Wow 😳 I'm so cleared on this
Wow! This response is so accurate, and pungent. Really proud of u on this sir
I'm changed for good in act and thinking
You are a blessing to us
Thank you, sir. This video explains the topic really well.
God bless you, sir.
Wow I 💯agree with this!thank you sir what a blessing to this generation 🙏
Clear, simple and precise🔥🔥🔥 May God bless you Pastor
God please I'm really sorry,i don't know that kissing is a sin,am deeply sorry 😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏 have mercy on me
We know these things. They have never changed but our guys do not agree in our relationships, they insist on being satisfied sexually
Then you should insist on keeping God first! Even if that means politely and firmly excusing yourself from these relationships. Your own husband should not come before God further more for a man who is not EVEN your husband.
Sexual satisfaction is for a HUSBAND not a boyfriend or EVEN a fiancé.
We as women need to stop letting these kinds of ungodly thinking men deplete our moral and spiritual bank and stand up firmly for what we know about God and the way HE would like us to live.
@@love19895 Amen sis!!
On the contrary...
We're searching for the sisters who won't call us weaklings or other names because we don't want to touch them before marriage!
@@kennethchukwukammadu4005 If a woman does that it’s a quick and easy way for you to weed out the ones that are not for you.
You also want it my dear. Stop pretending 😂😂
God bless you abundantly Sir. I thought I was been too over spiritual for not permiting all sorts of physical touch like kissing, cuddling.The guy I was in a relationship with, broke up with me because of this particular subject matter. God bless your ministry Sir.
Thank you very much Pastor K for addressing this. We are called to a holy life in everything we do. The purpose and motive for any action should reveal and glorify Jesus 🙏
Subscribed. You are really the first person I've seen that answered this question directly. You left no doubts in your answer. God bless you sir.
God richly bless you man of God. You have said the truth. God bless you
When I had this question myself, I kept imagining Jesus Christ and the example he led. Like did we ever hear that Jesus kissed someone somewhere because he liked them...?? No!! And that was the basis for my judgement. We need to be completely Holy!!! That is what is required of us
This is so clear -Thank you so much Sir!
God bless you sir, you are doing your part, more grace
This is the best answer so far😂😂😂. Thank you Pastor
Pastor K, always driving home the point. God bless you Sir❤
Can an unmarried person kiss an unmarried person kiss in your church 😂. No biko ohh
Some kind of hug self most times is uncomfortable in church not to talk of kissing
Daddy don't mind them they know the right answer in their heart😂😂😂
Hmmn!!
Yes Pastey.
Thank you so much for this.❤
Hmm, interesting 🤔. I've been doing my personal research on this topic and I have heard similar answers from many ministers of God, that kissing outside marriage is sinful. But I have one question to ask: if kissing is biblically wrong outside the marital framework, why then does the Scriptures admonish Christians to greet one another with an ‘holy kiss’ (Romans 16:16; 1 Corinthians 16:20; 2 Corinthians 13:12; 1 Thessalonians 5:26; 1 Peter 5:14)? Note that the word ‘kiss’ appears about 46 times in the entire Bible 📖 and not one reference to it was sexual or lustful. Please can someone help me out? Remain blessed in Jesus' name 🙏.
#TrueTalkMatters
#EvangelistGlobal
The question may also have been sent by someone who may be trying to ctest the pastor's views and spiritual values
Finally an answer to my hidden question, I kept asking the holyspirit if kissing was bad, and im certain he was the one that brought me here.
Thanks for saying the pure truth Sir
I'm blessed
Thank you sir and ma
Thank you for this confirmation!!🙌🏽🙌🏽
God bless you pastor K!
Truth always hits hard…. Thank u sir❤️
Louder sir 👏 🙌 🙏 👌
Amazing and well detailed answers you gave there.
Thank you, sir.
Pst K just gained a follower 😍😍🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😍😍
God bless you Sir for this! 📌📌❤️
Thanks so much and highly appreciated
Thank you so much for such wisdom sir!!!
Thank you sir for this clarity ❤
God bless you PK! Very important!🔥🔥🔥
I love this!!!!
Thank youuuuu so much sir!!!
May God bless you forever sir.
Thank you very much Sir!
Thank you Pastor
Thank you this has helped me thank u
Loved this
Bro cooked
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Thank you Sir!
Thank you sir❤
Be blessed Sir
Thanks Pastor I'm really blessed ❤
well said sir. God bless you
Thanks
God bless you sir.
Thank you sir for this
Lesson learnt...thank you
Thank you
AMEN AND AMEN🙏🏻
Amen, I will be kissing. I think there's kissing and then making out. Kissing could be a peck and a brief greeting. On the other hand, making out is where the petting comes in which I do believe that's a boundary crossed. Boundaries are important. Some couples kiss and some decide to not kiss. Some kissed and then decide to no longer kiss.
The spirit of the law. Oh yeah
Mercy Lord 😢
What then should be done after falling for the lust. Break the relationship or what???
Well said Sir
Well addressed , wowwww!
God bless you sir. More grace
Dear God please I'm sorry😢😢😢😭😭
Lovvvveeeee iiiiittttttt! May God help us!
Wow 🔥 🔥 🔥 of HIS Truth
#TruthAtAllCost
Thank you. Bad question.
I see some people kissing in their pre-wedding photos and engagement photos, and I am what on earth????
If they're traditionally married, what's wrong with them kissing?
Even if 6.9 BILLION PEOPLE fornicate out of 7 BILLION PEOPLE ON EARTH will that make it CORRECT??
When the church gives a law it's a standard if many people are doing what's wrong it doesn't make it right or It doesn't mean it's approved by God, yes through the mercies of God that can be tolerated but still not approved
Not everyone will necessarily cheat or stop loving thier spouse even if they have sex before marriage but does that make fornication right for such a couple??
Right or wrong is not defined by majority
Majority might do wrong and be pardoned by God's mercy but you that knowledge or awareness will be treated differently
So watch out & peacefully spread the message in patience that they might change!!,
Some people always think life being holy is boring so the prefer to sin and make God forgive them but trust me this is because of prematurity in the Christian faith, when they grow they will realize that holy living is far more satisfying both spiritually and emotionally than intentional living in sin and asking forgiveness almost like provoking God
You are dense for saying this
@@dipolasoju8912 Nigerians love making something that is simple to appear complicated. The original question you asked exposes your limitations to the basic knowledge of marital background
Yes sir
Hmmm
How about kissing on the forehead? And kissing the hand? Not on the lips.
You will soon land on the lips, it's just a matter of time.. Take heed.
@@NisoDays 😂😂
i didn't know cuddling is part of sexual outercourse, is it?
Yes it is. You don't start just like that right. You get in the mood, get aroused and eventually help your body get ready for the s*x. That's why girls get w*t and guys hard.. God made our bodies so, but not for the purpose of extra-marital adventures. So it's a prep process to intercourse.
Arouse
It leads to that next step
Why entertain it before marriage?
So.. if you are not ready to marry someone you love and care aboit for lets say 3 years, you have to be completely celibate? What if after Marriage the spouse doesnt want to be too sexual committed and now theres a problem. Now its going to end up being a sexless marriage fown the lone and somebody is going to cheat! Now divorce is ugly and why soo many of us whove been through it dont want to go through it anymore, but we are sick and tired of being lonely and still looking for that specific someone and the dating scene even at churches is lame or non existent.. im very frustrated. I want to do the right thing, but it seems like damned if you do and damned if you dont.
Kissing is made to arouse not satisfy.
Amen 🙏
We are called to live a holy life.
I agrée
God forgive me 😢.
Hugging nko?
Harris Donald Hall Linda Miller Laura
Hmmm🙃🙂
Amen
This 🙌
Someone pleaseeee share this with the American church 😭😭
I love the message but not sure I want to practice that😂😂😂😂. We don't have sex but cuddling and kissing not sure I will stop. Nice teachings though
A question please,can two individuals who aren't joint in holy matrimony in church but have done traditional and cort wedding allowed to have sex?
A marriage is a marriage please. If it's officiated and is signed in court it's a marriage. But everyone can or want to get married in a church
Amennn
In conclusion, if you want to live a HOLY LIFE, do it. If not, then go and live with the Unbelievers.
It's not just about what we do but the SPIRIT in which we do it.
Thank you, PK 🎉🎉🎉🎉