How To Know If You Should Marry Him/Her | mildred kingsley-okonkwo
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Something I'd like to add to this video is that before getting married, prepare more for the life you will live after the wedding day, and not prepare for the wedding day only.
Learn how to cook properly, do proper cleanup, pray ps 139:23-24 which says; "Search me oh God and know my heart, try me and know my anxious thoughts and see if there be any wicked way in me and lead me in the way everlasting.
When you do this, you'll find out a lot of things about yourself that you didn't even know you had.
God help us.
Dear God, I'm tired of heartbreaks n falling for the wrong person. This 2024 pls give me a good man. Amen
Amen
Amen
Dear good lord, enough is enough.
May this year be mine for real marriage
Amen
Amen. My prayer too
God I'm tired of having a back and forth relationship. I decree and declare stability. I shall be married, from Ms to Mrs, from single to married in Jesus name 🙌🙏.
Amen 🙏
I've dating a guy for 2 years and he asked to marry me and I asked for one year to get ready for myself and to finish my college year etc…but at the end, he just moved and is about to engage to another girl one thing I'm confused about he was a nice guy and I was in love with him but I did know why God removed him from me. I'm hurt right now but one thing I hope is that God will give a better one ❤ Thanks a lot for this video I just Learned a lot from it 🙏
It is not about who you marry, it is about what God wants to do with your destiny.
Lord, bypass my emotions, do what is best for me and place me in your perfect will for my marriage!
Amen
Amen
Amen
Lord by pass my emotion, do what is best for me and place me in your perfect will for my marriage
Romans 12:1
Amen🙏
“If you are in a relationship and you are worse than when you were alone you can’t take it to marriage” (it must make you better because two are better than one)
Hmmm you're speaking to me directly ooo I was doing perfectly fine, when I met this guy since then, everything has gone wrong I am down hmmm
@@joyceasante6391 May God reveal the path you should take next and protect you from all harm
@@joyceasante6391 well I can give a suggestion that has helped many along their way..
One thing having a strong relationship with the holy spirit does is that it can allow him to tell you things to come.
So I would suggest you don't just quit marriage altogether.
Some mistakes are the path to life.
In it God will have something to teach you in life that will give your life more meaning than if your life was just comfy. God's way is that he can bring out of the bitter something sweet and out of nothing produce a bounty it's the God you serve. Get down and find out why he brought you along this path...
Vessels are the usually finer when broken and then Mended again.
Very true 🙏🏽🙌🏼
@@joyceasante6391 I hope you have listened to the message. Your answer is also in this video, the plain truth.
Nice teaching. Have noticed one thing about who God always want us to marry. Our partner is not always our spec but God's purpose
Really
The Quality of people in Marriage determines the Outcome of the marriage.❤
If you want a kingdom marriage ,you have to do with kingdom principles
which are those principles please share
Make sure that it is worship to God.
Make sure that it is working.
Make sure that it is worth it.
Oh my God, this is the same word God gave me in my 3 days dry fasting, for my previous relationship 2months back😳 John 4:16 onwards I just froze where I was kneeling. God is powerful
Pastor Kingsley must be nodding his head and saying thank you Jesus for this wonderful woman u have given to me ❤❤❤ I just love the couple thank u ma for this wisdom 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Lesson learnt " It takes two good eggs 🥚 🥚 to make a good omelette." Thanks Woman of God.🙂🙂
“Bypass my emotions and do what is best for me!” Very difficult but important prayer 🙏.
Wow this is confirmation for me I have a man who I prayed for n I know he is from God for me but I nearly left him cause of looking at him outwardly, he is a good man n I thank God for him now
@@brendadickson9583 yyy
@@ojegbebesidone194 why what please?
@@ojegbebesidone194 by the way the man left so he obviously was not from God, but am glad he left than wasted my time.
I was emotionally down I just lost 4yrs relationship due to some certain reasons I was thinking I m finished but when I listened to this preaching I knew I made the right decision thanks a lot mam
This is so aspiring! I almost married the wrong man due to my desperation and emotion. But God was so against it that every fiber started fighting against me. I eventually let go after prayers and fasting . It was not easy breathren.
But it's worth it. Praise God!!
I can relate dear
Lord bypass my emotions and do what’s best for me in Jesus name Amen 🙏.
Amen
My God. Amen
Amen
Amen
Amen
Pastor Mildred is very Beautiful❤❤. I love this woman of God
I tell you. Anytime I watch her I just can't get enough of her beauty plus brains.. Plus her way of passing the messages!! Gosh!! She's invested in God totally.
Pastor u speak the truth ,let God bless you and continue opening ladies mind who force marrige without knowing the benefit of it to their life.and it is not sin to change the direction where u notes ur in a wrong way.
After listening to this, I definitely know I've not met the man God wants for me yet! Thank you Pastor Mildred 🙏
Exactly how I felt while watching... had to just share her the link to watch and let's conclude how our breakup will be 😅
@@okedijioluwatosin6895 lmao 🤣 😂 I was not even in any relationship but I had guys asking me out. After watching this video my discernment was clearer 🤣 its a no go area! God no go shame us🤣🤣🤣
Lol... @ChefinTech may God see us through that stage
@@okedijioluwatosin6895 Amen 🙏
@@basilikitchen Exactly. This message just cancelled out some guy that are on my case 🤣
God communicates and shows us all signs of a wrong partner
LORD BYPASS MY EMOTIONS AND DO WHATS BEST FOR MY PURPOSE AND DESTINY IN YOU!!🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️ In Jesus Name!!
LORD BYPASS MY EMOTIONS AND DO WHAT'S BEST FOR ME 🙏🙏🙏
That's a dangerous prayer, i hope you mean it 😂
@@oats4454hush
Marriage doesn't change anybody. It only amplifies what is only in existence.
I'm officially making you my mentor, pastor Mildred Kingsley
Wow!! I feel like liking this video over and over again. God is so intentional about us. We were born for a purpose and God knows that we carry great destinies so He makes sure to give us that man that will bring that purpose and compel us to fulfil destiny. God deals with us in so many ways till we surrender to Him totally and listen.
I have come to observe that God never jokes with us especially if our destinies concern saving lives.
GOD SHOW MERCY UNTO US
True
Amen
Amen. Lord your will be done.....🙏
Definitely!!!
Wow.wow.wow.wow.wow
Probably one of the BEST sermons I've ever heard on marriage - and I've spent yrsssssssss listening to marriage sermons lol. Never heard of this lady before but she randomly popped up on my timeline. What you said about "if God can tell me who not to marry God can confirm who to marry" hit meeeeeeeeee. Because God recently told me no on my last relationship. I'm believing He will confirm the Yes when that time comes (hopefully soon 🙏🏾). I am trusting him. All three points in yhis video were 👌🏾
I have just turned 34 and this message has come to me EXACTLY when I needed it. Wow. God's timing is perfect. Bless you and thank you, pastor lady xx
Hi,my name is Grace..would love to be your friend
I'll await your response
Hi hi
I’m watching this at the perfect time. Thank you Pastor Mildred, this has solidified the decision i just made. I was calling on God this morning because my emotions were trying to overwhelm me but as I was doing morning prayer this morning your message was the next recommendation and I thank God that I watched it.
Today was my 1st day listening and watching Her videos ...i wasn't actually coming to youtube for them but holy spirit made me sit the whole day in her videos .....i hv been asking myslf alot about relationships in my singleness ....m Blessed ❤
Watching you from the USA 🇺🇸
Your teaching has change my perception about marriage. Thank you.
Hi ! Ester ... praise the Lord.... I'm Elijah and I'm in of your help from there...if possible we can exchange the contact. Thank you!
Great dear friend
Me too....Nice to meet you Amara!!!
Order our steps Lord, to make the right choices and never live in regrets 🙏🏻
Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen 🙏
Amen 🙏
Amen
#drcosmanspellcaster are,,🥰🥰🥰 you heart broken and you still want to fix your relationship ✓
:🥰🥰🥰I read your name and felt a Stronenergy around you and thought you wanted a general life reading to know more about your life .....
If u are in a relationship that causes u to reduce your divinity, gather courage and work out, I hear you ma🙌🙌
This message is more than i can imagine,, honestly speaking she's really right,my experience 3months ago i have to let go cuz it's wasn't working,so many signs coming after i prayed about it,, infact the guy believe in God more than i am buh God still show me he was never for me, with a clear vision,God is good,#prayers is just D key to see brighter things 💯✅🙏
Thank you Pastor. I can attest to everything you just said. If your partner cannot be part of your destiny, there's no need to marry them.
This is literally my experience concerning my last relationship, I was honestly hoping and praying that somehow we would work out and I just prayed to God in that moment of uncertainty, the Lord ministered to me with this exact scripture, and it hit me hard. I still didn’t believe because the heart wanted something, but on hearing this. It’s just a confirmation on what God said to me that indeed, that guy is not for me (husband)
can relate
Lord bypass my emotions and do what's best for me, this word healed my heart. Thank you Jesus for this word
God knows how confised i am about my rship....i pray to ask God's intervention
I love such women of God, so inspiring
"WORTH HEARING"
"When you say I do, you gonna do".
God bless you Pastor M.
Oh Heavenly Father please bypass my emotions and do your will to make me know he comes from you.
Woman of God your message was really really great, I mean, I wish I had heard such a message before I made the decision I made back then. I'm in a broken marriage now, because I didn't get such a powerful advice 🤦🤦But God's name be praised, because he allowed me watch this particular sermon...may God use you even more.
If the guy/the lady is making you disobey God in that relationship, now that you're not yet married ,gather your courage and wake away. If it not making you a better Christian, gather your courage and walk away.
Yes ooo
Well said
The three Ws; Worship, Working, Worth it!
This just appeared randomly to me, glad I clicked it. Thank you Lord for the affirmation 🙏
Same here and my story n here's have hot some similarities
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Amen in the mighty Name of Jesus I am also single man
Wow😮👐, to see if your relationship qualifies for marriage, make sure it is:
1. Bringing God worship
2.Working
3.Worth it
Thank you ABBA FATHER for this message which has come to me at the right time 🙏🙏🙏
That's right. If you marry wrong it can change your whole destiny
Am a muslim,but I like ur preaching
I watched this video a while ago and today I came back because I needed to hear you say this again for reference am at a point where I need to make a decision and yiu don't know how this is helpful. Lord bypass my emotions and let your will be done🙏🏾
The joy I get rewatching these videos. Holy Spirit, thank you 🙏🏿. God bless you Pastor Mildred 🤗🥁.
She's definitely been listening to Dr Myles Munroe's teaching on marriage 💑. Awesome teaching 👏🏿
Oh noooo. She has received revelations from God directly.
The omelette part
@@mankaabright7474Hush. That's Myles Munroe.
Words from Myles Munroe
Lord bypass my emotions and do what is the best for me in Jesus mighty name
Mega Amen 🙏🏼
This message is so beautiful,informative,eye opening, evaluating for us singles. God bless
This teaching is light ✨ to my soul 👏👏👏 Thank you pastor and Mrs K, for this revelations about dating and marriage 🙏🙏🙏
I can't get enough of you Pastor Mildred!
God bless you ma'am.
Phew! A whole WORD!!! God bless you woman of God. This has just opened my eyes and at the right time too.
It’s not even really about who you marry it’s about what I want to do with your destiny. Wow, very deep 😢 I thank God I chanced on this message 🙏🏻
Dear Lord, bypass my emotions and give me what is best for me
Its the quality of people in marriage that determines the outcome
Jesus be glorified by your anointed honourable vessel.. powerful Word and teaching. I pray all harken to this and apply it .. those with ear have heard..and cannot say God isn't for you . Blessings galore Ps Mildred 🙏
I wanted to recommend this video to my girlfriend in Nigeria but then thought twice because I'm a doctor in the UK 😭
Please do if it will help her
You might be sharpening her insights
Looooool
😂😂😂
Meaning
@@ifeyinwamuoghalu4167 Meaning I won't be recommending this video to her so she does not have a change of mind. Watch the video fully first
My lovely Mama❤️ May God bless you for submitting to God so we can receive this wisdom coming out from your mouth.
Beautiful Prayer " Daddy bypass my emotions and do what's best for me"
God really pulled me over to this message. i needed this so desperately. thank you Jesus for your message. it waa loud and clear. Thank you Pastor
Bypass my emotions and do what is best for me IJMN. Amen what a statement!
God bless you pastor, every mistake i made before my marriage i pray God to order the steps of my children.
Exactly what I needed..... been confused about the man am currently dating now, it's obvious that it wasn't meant to be. As hurting as it is, it's the truth.
Gather courage and wake away
Am confused myself as am planning my marriage, am scared of something happening now. I wish I could hear the spirit speak to me like it does pastor
@@vevinebrown4379 let talk about it in ldeal girl Africa
The word of God! That’s soooo true! God speaks to me through the Bible very clearly also.
Thank God for this message, the Lord spoke to me this year that I organise my self for marriage but I was in cross roads. But from today I know what to do in Jesus name.
God bless you so much
Am grateful just found this early this year as I could cut off and wait for the Will of God
May our generation catch these truths in the mighty name of JESUS. Help us Lord
Amen!!
Lord by pass my emotions and do what's best for me.. This has opened my eyes🙌God bless you Ma
I just saw this video now and it's really Inspiring, especially where she said that the first step is making you a better Christian..
Wow worth listening to,,,,
Lord lead me to the right path of my destiny,may my emotions not lead me to a path that can not make me better...
Amen 🙏🏼 thank you for this BLESSED message I wish I had heard this when I was a teenager 🌹✝️❤️🙏🏼
Your my role model ma'am, i tap on your anointing cup,may God use me and be of purpose in my generation. I love u n papa your a blessing to so many teens. May God bless you
First time listening to a sermon. .. I was missing this truth. This has really helped... Thank you
Heavenly father help me make my relationship and marriage a place of worship and where you will have your free will and move
Thank you so much Pst M, You Are Light,and this Light has birthed Life in me... I bigly Love you and look forward to listening to you always! You have it on a 360° level! More Grace ma'am 🙌🙌🙇🙇
I am in a relationship with a guy he respect me so much that's why I love him .
I love this preaching of this woman it touches me. A lot thank you ma, God bless you
Tonight. God has given me this woman as a gift. And I will cherish you forever mama Mildred okonkwo
Wow
First time litsening to you & have fallen deep inlove with you mama!!!
I needed to hear this 🙌🙌🙌🙌
My relationship is a worship to God
It is working
It is worth it
Thank you God, waiting for your right time to tie the knot
Thank you so much Lord 😍💜🙏
I trust in you.
Waaawooo
It's been a pleasure learning from this sermon.
It's given me the Discernment I needed.
Thank you very much
Wow, It's been a joy and pleasure for me as well. I have never heard marriage spoken in this way before and yes it has opened my eyes of understanding in such a way that It's never been open before concerning how a marriage should be. Thank you Lord for this message on marriage and Thank you Woman of God for allowing God to use you as a support to your king in a public service. 🙏🏽💖🎶
I ended my relationship today,thank you .I have just been having questions but now i have the answers.
All shall be well ❤️🩹
The central focus is Relationship with God. How do you know the right person without hearing from your Father. Make yourself a Son/Daughter (Sheep) by giving your life to Christ, walk with Him (the Shepherd) and know how he speaks to you (the Sheep). Then hearing Him when it is time for marriage becomes a smooth sailing journey.
Thank you Ma @mildred Kingsley-Okonknwo for this thought-provoking message.
Let them go and let God be God in your life...God bless you Mama❤
Pastor Mildred is on point & a comedian 😂 if you want your clothes washed get a washing machine.
Got the points: 1. Worship 2. Working 3. Worth It
When I first watch this video I see myself in you .indeed wen God want to speak to u he pass tro his word.. this is where I see myself in u God bless you Ma.
Heavenly Father bypasses my emotions and does what's best for me. I pray in Jesus' name, amen
Lord , bypass my emotions and do what’s best for me🙏🏼
As always, you nailed it.thank God for you and pst.K. you impact this generation positively despite the adulterations everywhere.God bless you
Lord bypass my emotions and do what is best for me .Amen!.
Wow! Powerful message. Marriage should make you better than what you were before marriage
Lord bypass my emotions and do what's best for me🙏
Above all theirs a reason why we've come across this sermon🙏🙏
What a powerful service.🙏May God continue to use you
Kindness is important..Meanness doesn't make you more of a man.
Thank you for sharing this. It’s time to put these principles into everyday life. Everyday is a learning experience to do better.
Abba, please bypass my emotions and plans and do what's best for me.
This video is EVERGREEN and TIMELESS. God bless you pastor Mildred.
Wow!
Exactly what I needed thank you my Lord for leading me here🙏