@@edouardmercure3203 moral is cultural and situational. Women don't care unless they are educated too. They are also moral with other women but they don't consider men.
This is very similar to snowflakes on Twitter, they don't care about logic and real arguments, they will just force people to meet their demands because they're ̷s̷e̷n̷s̷i̷t̷i̷v̷e̷ butthurt.
It makes so much sense. No wonder my mom and dad never divorced. My dad is the calmest guy you could ever meet and my mom is a cycle. My dad always laughed and than didn't care if she was mad or not. My dad always had the same emotion. Whenever my mom was trying to pick a fight my dad always ignored her and walked away than said yes your right. Lol
If she's a healthy woman she will explain to you what's in her mind, but if she didn't that means she's not a good communicator, walk away and never look back
Good comment ! Every woman got something similar in terms of emotions, but some of theme are , as you said , healthy, and possible to live with. The others uhmmm n o t , so "why don't you walk away" ? ( F.Ferdinand song ;-) )But, on the other side, If you love her, got strong karmic bonds with her, not that easy...good luck guys.
Explaining things will only happen if they feel listened to. When they are asked questions about “why they are mad” or “if you did something wrong” it is clear that you weren’t listening back when she did explain it. And now of course she’s upset with you because you show that you don’t care when you do that. Instead of asking her about it, think back and what she told you and if you can’t find it, you weren’t really listening.
Always keep in mind.......don’t focus too much attention on her.If her emotion is negative ,give her some space and she will tell you what’s bothering her later.
@@xdxd525 she ignores you, you ignore her. But ignore her doing your things and being happy, not being sad and angry. You can't pretend to not be sad and angry, you need to feel happy and confident for real. So if you are not able to feel it for real, you have some work to do on yourself.
Or she is so toxic that the best you can do is to dump here and find a women how does not act like a little child. They are out there but sadly not in Western society!
I used to do this to my ex girlfriend, by the end of the relationship she said i dind't care about her, and i guess she was right, a month later from the breakup she called me crying to be back with her, i just ignored her.
@@spyrosoikonomidis894We recently had a small fight with my girl and she decided to leave me on read. Now she's giving me the silent treatment. It's been 2 days, almost called her to apologize for a wrong that I didn't even do just to get things right. But I decided to come here first and reprogram myself. Now I know calling her would've been a big mistake
Dude I wish there was a way to thank you in person for how much you have made me grow as a man from being immature to being a man with an unshakeable frame. Thank you and may you continue getting the strength to make these videos. You give me advice my father never did. Thank you
This goes deeper than just women right now. There’s no reason to dealing with ANYBODY’s emotional demeanor. Allow them to fail with their emotional demons.
After several relationships I can confirm that this is true , but also unnecessary, go out with them have fun with them but that's it , if you find that very rare woman with values and reason lucky you, but must of them are expendable and not worth it. Peace is something I will never trade again for the drama a relationship can and will give you.
Yeah, if she wants to talk about it she will otherwise, just let her be, but if you do wanna cheer her up, then take her out or do something she likes, otherwise just acknowledged her and is there for her then go on with your day
Man are logical Women are emotional Don't try to fix things in logical way Use emotions to solve things basically just don't force her to do what you want, yes you're in the right path and everything you're trying to say is right but women don't work like that if they feel that you're forcing things she will pull away but one condition if she do the same thing over and over you need to tell her that you have limits And pulling away from her will be a good thing but guys be a patient with women sometimes they're just testing you and seeing how you react
Hmmm...better to just keep your normal emotional state. Be happy, don't let it affect you. They will come to you. If you mirror their tantrum emotions, she is controlling your mood (weakness).
This was how my last serious relationship ended - she invited me over for drinks, but when I got there she was possessed by a demon. Everything was a problem. I tried to shrug it off and change the subject, but she kept pushing and before long I was tearing my hair out trying to ‘fix’ her feelings with logic and reason. Things went from bad to worse and I eventually stormed out. When I saw her a week later, she was as cold as ice, and told me it was over. Fortunately for me, I was wise enough to accept her decision calmly and walk away without making a scene, but even though that was a bad relationship - the breakup could still have been avoided. All I needed to do was get up and calmly walk out once it was clear she wanted to fight - sending her the message that it was her problem and I would not tolerate disrespect. Had I done that, she would probably have called me back a few days later and apologized, but instead, I demonstrated how much power she had over me and how concerned I was (despite her atrocious behavior) with saving an obviously doomed relationship. This was the nail in the coffin and this was why she suddenly went so cold at the end - she saw that I was not the stoic unshakable man I was when we met, but rather someone who had softened and devolved into an overly sensitive and anxious boy in need of reassurance. The female mind has absolutely no sympathy for this. But hey - you live, you learn, and I have used that painful experience to improve myself since then. This kind of thing does not happen to me anymore, at least not on this level, because they all know I will get up and walk if they push it.
Dude this is what kills me of all my relationship failures in 20 years I've had 10. Being a guy with a few BPD tendencies, and ADD. That stoic unshakeable guy is there when we meet. Hook up, get into something more cozier etc. Its even there sometimes when the pull away starts because I know these things from other men and my own experience. But where I screw it up is sometimes meaning what I say and saying what I mean. The very thing that attracts them to me is the very thing that winds up repulsing them. Every single one of them has said I'm very easy to talk to and that's very attractive that I'm so cool and mature. They go from eating out of the palm of my hand to withdrawn and turned off. Its got to be some of my behaviors that are inconsistent.
i'm always doing this to my girl and she came back to me with more attraction i followed every videos of chris session and all of them worked perfectly I'm very thankful to this man who helped me during those tough times ❤️Thank you very much Chris love you man
"Left, slamming the door behind her." When that happened, he should have packed her stuff, take it out and change the door lock. If this wouldn't teach her a lesson and she wouldn't come apologising and begging for forgiveness, dump her a$$. No good will come out of trying to build a relationship with a woman that has no respect for you.
A woman is an institution. A man needs to gain the mastery of emotional stability and flexibility. You must be flexible before you can be with a woman. They have unbelievable mood swings. A woman can wake up in the morning and become so moody just like that. Even Bible said without wisdom you cannot dwell with them.
REAL TALK, back in the day I used to use the reasoning and logic thing, NEVER GOT anywhere. Now, I just leave them alone, and THEN she in term at some point starts to chase me.
I go thru this weekly!!! Went to bed laughing with each other and kissing on a sweet loving woman while saying goodnight and cuddling. Woke up to a cold, distant person that basically ignored me and gave me the cold shoulder when I said goodbye when she left for work. Its driving me insane!!!!
I learned about mirroring a woman's emotions back in 2018 but it's taken me so long to perfect it. Now, as counterintuitive as it may be, I mirror her emotions. It's a struggle to stay perfectly disciplined but I'm trying to perfect it.
This video was exactly like my relationship in the sense that it was 99.9% problem only 0.01% solution... All the effort was put into this elaborate and even animated, unsolvable problem. We all knew very well the problem. Same with the relationship. We realized the issue yet somehow we put nothing notable into fixing it. Then by the time it'stoo late we try not to see that we put in maybe 0.01% on the solution and the problems were only so big because we focus so much on the negatives that we seem to forget how much we've all overcame. As humans or as individuals or as a couple... We've been pulling miracles out of nothing since thousands (some believe MILLIONS) of years!!! I'm sad, but I'll be ok. Covid couldn't even kill me(this time atleast)😅 6 months and she'll be the last thing on your mind, I promise. Life goes on. Hard to believe it sometimes but it dose. Who ever needs to read this, just stay though. 💪 It's totally in your DNA ! Besides, you really don't got very much choice otherwise.. 😅✌️
Bought the book,I would have been dumb founded if I didn't find your UA-cam channel ❤..now learning the ways of being so mysterious and what I needed to play woman as they played us man..I'm now a problem to their games 😂. Its always fun to be on the winning team
Just found out about your channel love the messages, you helped me became a better person and coachlee helped me forget about my past. Best two coaches to learn from.
I'd like to know also. The guy in the animation just looks at his phone and leaves, if he had mirrored her he'd have gotten pissed off and argued with her, like I normally do lol. I think he means just don't show any emotion, don't get angry and don't act all worried by trying to fix her bad mood... Just make the best out of a bad situation and let her sort her own stink out. It's like dealing with a child, unfortunately. I think this is why a lot of men turn to alcohol. Wife is being a bitch, fuck it I'll have a few beers until she calms down!
If she is pulling away like the woman in the last animation did, you mirror her and you also pull away. If she's ignoring you, you do the same and ignore her back. Personally I prefer option 1, but it takes practice to achieve.
Very helpful, Thank you. No Woman on the planet is worth letting yourself be pushed down and abused by. Thank you for reminding me of this valuable information
When my ex would get grumpy, I'd just remain indifferent, then try to get a little smile out of her before we parted ways. I knew I just had to ride it out and she would be back to normal next time I saw her.
@@Mr13alin So far the book is very good. Very informative. It covers a lot of information from personal appearance all the way to the process of interacting with the opposite sex. Highly recommended:)
Well to some extent it's natural. To some other extents it's a great tutorial on how to deal with a problematic person. Just walk away or prepare to be mistreated.
The women described in this video is toxic and with women like this I do agree that you should walk away but if she's healthy then ignoring her will make you the unhealthy one.
I appreciate how you are helping men in their life's. But please make a video in which you define the pulling away and the time when she really needs her man to back her up. Sometimes in a relationship or marriage men can't differentiate that "she is pulling away or she is in a trouble and she needs your help but she wants you to notice it, in this situation if a man pulls away when she really needs him but he failed to differentiate. It's mostly the end of everything.
When she goes into pulling away its already to late. She already thought about it for a long time. If she wants to leave, let her go, her loss. Go find someone who values your time.
If she acts like a child, treat her like a child; However, I would like to believe that this behavior which is so typical of women does not apply to all women.
Having dinner under candle light, what I MEANT to say, " you look really great under this light" What came out of my mouth, "you're really hot with the lights off....." I worked HARD after that, but pulled it off 👍
Funny thing is I'm the kinda guy that can really woo certain kinds of women with my words to get them really attracted to me eating out of the palm od my hand, and just a few days later say something totally the wrong way and piss them off kill all that great amount of attraction i built up and have them say "dueces" lol. I hate having BPD and ADD as a dude..lol
Here's the thing guys, especially in a relationship or if youve been consistently dating for awhile, its okay to ask if everything is okay. But if she says she's fine you can either leave it and give her space or you can tell her to let you know if something's up, then you give her space. Basically, there's nothing wrong with asking but, dont push it if ahe says she's fine
Hallo Chris, thanks for this amazing, short and concise video...Few sentences from it should be printed with capital letters and placed on bus stops, metro etc ;-) Listen to this bloke, He knows what He talks bout : maybe bit cold approach, but very...analytical ( As we man are like this ) ;-) Good luck to all.
Hello young men Uncle John here, women are without the ability to reason. They're only concern is "How will this benefit me". If you don't know this, I you'll learn it the hard way. Drop the mic..........
Don't try to be her therapist, and even if you are a licensed therapist, it's unethical and illegal to practice therapy with someone who you have a close and intimate relationship. Stay on your path and purpose and allow her to sort herself out.
This happened a couple of months ago, we went out for the day and everything was cool until she started being quiet and clearly upset about something. I stupidly tried to get it out of her and was met with a bunch of crap that made no sense, it had nothing to do with 'us' though or so she said. I tried to let her get on with it but it completely ruined my day and I couldn't help being annoyed with her. Later on, she was fine and acted like she didn't fuck the entire day up then got mad at me because I was in a mood with her! When she tries to pull this shit again, how else could I deal with it?
You tell her that's what she'll get everytime she does that to you. If she doesn't like it or doesn't change it she can leave. Show her that you're willing to walk away, even if you have to fake it. Give her uncertainty.
Don't let her control your emotions. Remain calm at all times. If she tries to stir the situation, walk away. Tell her these 3 things: 1) You have zero tolerance for such actions. 2) She can only see you again once she learns what she did was wrong. 3) If she doesn't come to her sense, you will walk out of her life forever. To do this you must have options, so always be talking to and seeing multiple women at once.
I mean I completely agree on this and everything, but I'm learning CCW's content as well, and in his book it tells when a woman you are in a relationship with is upset, you have to be able to communicate properly, maybe defuse her with humor and try to get the woman to open up etc.. I'm curious as to know which situation is best suited for this method or corey's method.
Hi Chris. In no contact for 6 months now from my BPD ex that ghosted and discarded me out of nowhere. Would you happen to know more about the topic of dealing with someone with BPD?
If she hasn't contacted you back in those months you should definitely just move on. BPD people can just instantly lose feelings for someone for the dumbest shit (because then they categorize you as a bad person) and I would not take it personal. It's definitely easier said than done but you need to move on; most importantly realize it's not your fault and it's just something BPD people cant help but do.
You should Hope that you never See her again. Easy to say for a stranger, I know. But women are crazy. You want a crazy human plus mental illness? Our brain loves the things we know. And our brain don't decides for luck. Just for ressources and reproduction.
I don't even recognize it when they do lol. I can recognize non verbals but that doesn't mean I can decode them. I assume what ever she is going through is her problems and I focus on mine.
Something I have noticed about women is that they operate based on network(psychologically). At times they will have network and at times they won't have. What I have noticed is that whenever a woman is out of network,just let her be till she gets her network back. Whenever she gets her network back, she will be the one to come to you herself and by that time you won't need to stress yourself any longer. It's kind of funny though but that's just the way it is
“A woman doesnt care if shes right or wrong, she only cares how she feels” BIG FACTS
Doesn't it make women... less moral beings?
@@edouardmercure3203 moral is cultural and situational.
Women don't care unless they are educated too. They are also moral with other women but they don't consider men.
This is very similar to snowflakes on Twitter, they don't care about logic and real arguments, they will just force people to meet their demands because they're ̷s̷e̷n̷s̷i̷t̷i̷v̷e̷ butthurt.
Emotional creatures
i agree totally!!!👍
It makes so much sense. No wonder my mom and dad never divorced. My dad is the calmest guy you could ever meet and my mom is a cycle. My dad always laughed and than didn't care if she was mad or not. My dad always had the same emotion. Whenever my mom was trying to pick a fight my dad always ignored her and walked away than said yes your right. Lol
If she's a healthy woman she will explain to you what's in her mind, but if she didn't that means she's not a good communicator, walk away and never look back
Good comment ! Every woman got something similar in terms of emotions, but some of theme are , as you said , healthy, and possible to live with. The others uhmmm n o t , so "why don't you walk away" ? ( F.Ferdinand song ;-) )But, on the other side, If you love her, got strong karmic bonds with her, not that easy...good luck guys.
Basically, this channels for dealing with hopeless woman..
Good point but we all want to smash
Explaining things will only happen if they feel listened to. When they are asked questions about “why they are mad” or “if you did something wrong” it is clear that you weren’t listening back when she did explain it. And now of course she’s upset with you because you show that you don’t care when you do that.
Instead of asking her about it, think back and what she told you and if you can’t find it, you weren’t really listening.
I agree with you. Good women practice open communication. Because if you know what's going on, you would know how to act and adjust to the situation.
She pulls the 'silent treatment'... Don't say a word. Walk away and leave her in her silence. and just keep walking. Never let her manipulate you.
Moral of the story is: never simp! Easy as that 👋🏾
Simp?
yeah.. stop simping guys..take the red pill.
What simp word means?
@@Svetovidijak A man who foolishly overvalued and defers to a woman, putting her on a pedestal.
@@Svetovidijak the man in the Video acted like he cared. THAT is simping because it’s dishonest.
Always keep in mind.......don’t focus too much attention on her.If her emotion is negative ,give her some space and she will tell you what’s bothering her later.
1. Don't try to fix it
2. Mirror the emotion and diffuse her -ve energy
How to mirror? What does it mean in practice?
@@xdxd525 she ignores you, you ignore her. But ignore her doing your things and being happy, not being sad and angry. You can't pretend to not be sad and angry, you need to feel happy and confident for real. So if you are not able to feel it for real, you have some work to do on yourself.
Or she is so toxic that the best you can do is to dump here and find a women how does not act like a little child. They are out there but sadly not in Western society!
So if my woman is mad I’m supposed mirror her and act mad 🤦🏾 you don’t fight fire with fire
make one mistake with women and the back up guy appears like magic
🤣
Yep,almost all of them have some guy they are talking to on the side
@@jessiehughes9432 you mean some guy talking to THEM. All they have to do is decide to reply.
Smooth Desire Chad and Tyrone got lucky.
This why i have 6 girls on rotation, hell i put a girl on rotation even if i don't like her, just for moments like this.
I used to do this to my ex girlfriend, by the end of the relationship she said i dind't care about her, and i guess she was right, a month later from the breakup she called me crying to be back with her, i just ignored her.
You deserve someone that is good for your mental health bro
Guiding Light
Bro. That next guy will be a simp shoulder to cry on for her as she complains about him
Same story, same words..
In no contact after 20 days..
I don't know if I want her back..
@@spyrosoikonomidis894We recently had a small fight with my girl and she decided to leave me on read. Now she's giving me the silent treatment. It's been 2 days, almost called her to apologize for a wrong that I didn't even do just to get things right. But I decided to come here first and reprogram myself. Now I know calling her would've been a big mistake
Only YOU can make YOURSELF happy. That happiness comes from within.
Dude I wish there was a way to thank you in person for how much you have made me grow as a man from being immature to being a man with an unshakeable frame. Thank you and may you continue getting the strength to make these videos. You give me advice my father never did. Thank you
This goes deeper than just women right now.
There’s no reason to dealing with ANYBODY’s emotional demeanor. Allow them to fail with their emotional demons.
You're the most helpful guy in the internet.
After several relationships I can confirm that this is true , but also unnecessary, go out with them have fun with them but that's it , if you find that very rare woman with values and reason lucky you, but must of them are expendable and not worth it.
Peace is something I will never trade again for the drama a relationship can and will give you.
Username checks out lol
Your name says it bruh 😂😂 very wise
Yeah, if she wants to talk about it she will otherwise, just let her be, but if you do wanna cheer her up, then take her out or do something she likes, otherwise just acknowledged her and is there for her then go on with your day
Wise, balanced comment. Cheers, good luck :-)
@@Hhhh22222-w No. She had to grow up and learn to control her emotions.
Man are logical
Women are emotional
Don't try to fix things in logical way
Use emotions to solve things basically just don't force her to do what you want, yes you're in the right path and everything you're trying to say is right but women don't work like that if they feel that you're forcing things she will pull away but one condition if she do the same thing over and over you need to tell her that you have limits
And pulling away from her will be a good thing but guys be a patient with women sometimes they're just testing you and seeing how you react
facts! moral of the story: do nothing when your girl pulls away. they always come back.
keeping that patience becomes so hard sometimes!
Exactly just go on with your day without getting angry or frustrated, you'll can do it 👍
Just mirror what she does. I haven’t heard from my lady since the weekend. If she doesn’t reach out I’m not reaching out either.
shit same situation man... :( saturday for me
@And Violate you thought wrong.
Hmmm...better to just keep your normal emotional state. Be happy, don't let it affect you. They will come to you. If you mirror their tantrum emotions, she is controlling your mood (weakness).
Same here. She goes on to continue about her life being online and all and I'm just chilling back
Update?
Don't focus so much on her that you forget about you.
" A woman should be a compliment to a man's life, NOT the focus" By Richard Cooper. I lived by this words everyday.
Everything else has to stop when 'Developp Attraction' uploads a new video !!!!
I know right!
Damn right, Luffy. Even finding One Piece .
Thought I was the only one like that
Lol that's so true
This was how my last serious relationship ended - she invited me over for drinks, but when I got there she was possessed by a demon. Everything was a problem. I tried to shrug it off and change the subject, but she kept pushing and before long I was tearing my hair out trying to ‘fix’ her feelings with logic and reason. Things went from bad to worse and I eventually stormed out. When I saw her a week later, she was as cold as ice, and told me it was over.
Fortunately for me, I was wise enough to accept her decision calmly and walk away without making a scene, but even though that was a bad relationship - the breakup could still have been avoided.
All I needed to do was get up and calmly walk out once it was clear she wanted to fight - sending her the message that it was her problem and I would not tolerate disrespect. Had I done that, she would probably have called me back a few days later and apologized, but instead, I demonstrated how much power she had over me and how concerned I was (despite her atrocious behavior) with saving an obviously doomed relationship.
This was the nail in the coffin and this was why she suddenly went so cold at the end - she saw that I was not the stoic unshakable man I was when we met, but rather someone who had softened and devolved into an overly sensitive and anxious boy in need of reassurance.
The female mind has absolutely no sympathy for this.
But hey - you live, you learn, and I have used that painful experience to improve myself since then. This kind of thing does not happen to me anymore, at least not on this level, because they all know I will get up and walk if they push it.
Dude this is what kills me of all my relationship failures in 20 years I've had 10. Being a guy with a few BPD tendencies, and ADD. That stoic unshakeable guy is there when we meet. Hook up, get into something more cozier etc. Its even there sometimes when the pull away starts because I know these things from other men and my own experience. But where I screw it up is sometimes meaning what I say and saying what I mean. The very thing that attracts them to me is the very thing that winds up repulsing them. Every single one of them has said I'm very easy to talk to and that's very attractive that I'm so cool and mature. They go from eating out of the palm of my hand to withdrawn and turned off. Its got to be some of my behaviors that are inconsistent.
Same happened with me. I panicked.
Probably the best channel on understanding female psychology and the female mind
i'm always doing this to my girl and she came back to me with more attraction i followed every videos of chris session and all of them worked perfectly I'm very thankful to this man who helped me during those tough times ❤️Thank you very much Chris love you man
Really?
Yeah Chris is the man.
@@bruh4196 yes
"Left, slamming the door behind her." When that happened, he should have packed her stuff, take it out and change the door lock. If this wouldn't teach her a lesson and she wouldn't come apologising and begging for forgiveness, dump her a$$. No good will come out of trying to build a relationship with a woman that has no respect for you.
True.
My god bro, this is exactly what I needed today. Thank you.
Fantastic information and insight-----had I known this long
ago it would have saved me a lot of grief and frustration.
Love the way You explain all these things about women in such short time-In which others take forever..!! 👍
I feel relaxed when i watch your amazing videos.
@2:42 The beginning of the end. It's when she pulls away from you that she starts looking for a better alternative elsewhere.
A woman is an institution. A man needs to gain the mastery of emotional stability and flexibility. You must be flexible before you can be with a woman. They have unbelievable mood swings. A woman can wake up in the morning and become so moody just like that. Even Bible said without wisdom you cannot dwell with them.
Only the immature ones how slept a lot with other man.
This is rad bro....
The “ I love you’s” and hugs are meaningless to her. So frustrating!
Love is...
Not what you say.
Love is
What you do.
It's not meaningless but if you spouting it constantly it is, you use those words and actions when it's needed
@@kellylough1569 Rrrright...glad to be a man in this life, anyway , haha.
each time i get a notification from this channel im amazed ....simple clear and efficient...thanks a lot
I told a brick wall it was being too stiff and it collapsed.
True story.
REAL TALK, back in the day I used to use the reasoning and logic thing, NEVER GOT anywhere. Now, I just leave them alone, and THEN she in term at some point starts to chase me.
Yes Yes Yes a new Develop Attraction Video! Liked it before I even watched it
Thank you brother. A woman was upset with me, I didn't even care I mirrored her emotions . The art of being in bothered.
I go thru this weekly!!!
Went to bed laughing with each other and kissing on a sweet loving woman while saying goodnight and cuddling. Woke up to a cold, distant person that basically ignored me and gave me the cold shoulder when I said goodbye when she left for work. Its driving me insane!!!!
I enjoy these, the animations brings everything to life. So fun to watch, keep them coming 👍🏾
Protect this man at all cost
I learned about mirroring a woman's emotions back in 2018 but it's taken me so long to perfect it. Now, as counterintuitive as it may be, I mirror her emotions. It's a struggle to stay perfectly disciplined but I'm trying to perfect it.
Always remember women want to complain and if you solve her problem she will be mad she cant complain about it anymore.
100% truth, learned through experience
Awesome perspective. Best video on UA-cam from my subscriptions this month.
This is the number 1 lesson for dealing with women in the long term
Chris u saved my life. I will be forever grateful. Tanx from Ghana west Africa.
This video was exactly like my relationship in the sense that it was 99.9% problem only 0.01% solution...
All the effort was put into this elaborate and even animated, unsolvable problem.
We all knew very well the problem. Same with the relationship. We realized the issue yet somehow we put nothing notable into fixing it. Then by the time it'stoo late we try not to see that we put in maybe 0.01% on the solution and the problems were only so big because we focus so much on the negatives that we seem to forget how much we've all overcame. As humans or as individuals or as a couple... We've been pulling miracles out of nothing since thousands (some believe MILLIONS) of years!!! I'm sad, but I'll be ok. Covid couldn't even kill me(this time atleast)😅
6 months and she'll be the last thing on your mind, I promise. Life goes on. Hard to believe it sometimes but it dose.
Who ever needs to read this, just stay though. 💪 It's totally in your DNA ! Besides, you really don't got very much choice otherwise.. 😅✌️
Bought the book,I would have been dumb founded if I didn't find your UA-cam channel ❤..now learning the ways of being so mysterious and what I needed to play woman as they played us man..I'm now a problem to their games 😂. Its always fun to be on the winning team
update?
Just found out about your channel love the messages, you helped me became a better person and coachlee helped me forget about my past. Best two coaches to learn from.
Everything this guy says about relationships is right!!! It happened to me and to some people I now
I swear this stuff makes me anxious.
This dude has the most quality content🔥
I love this video. Thanks admin for teaching me something new.
I told a wall it looked sad and it replied "women keep hitting me"!
1 Ignore her Negative emotions 2 Mirror her to diffuse Negativity..
Awesome 😎
Mirror emotions and diffuse negative energy could you give example of how to do that?
I'd like to know also. The guy in the animation just looks at his phone and leaves, if he had mirrored her he'd have gotten pissed off and argued with her, like I normally do lol. I think he means just don't show any emotion, don't get angry and don't act all worried by trying to fix her bad mood... Just make the best out of a bad situation and let her sort her own stink out. It's like dealing with a child, unfortunately. I think this is why a lot of men turn to alcohol. Wife is being a bitch, fuck it I'll have a few beers until she calms down!
@@MMA-CLIPS2 walk away and ignore her.
@@MMA-CLIPS2 ha ha ha that was great
Read Atomic Attraction mate, It's all in there!
If she is pulling away like the woman in the last animation did, you mirror her and you also pull away.
If she's ignoring you, you do the same and ignore her back.
Personally I prefer option 1, but it takes practice to achieve.
Moral Of The Story: Women Desire The “Unattainable” Let That Sink In That’s All You Need To Know✅
You still have to pursue at some stage though.
Fuzzy Dunlop the unattainable is one stage but you’re also correct
Almost everyone desires the unnatainable.
Кристиан Тошев yup
@@NiceOne1706 at the beginning, yes. You initiate the spark. After you got it in, you let her take over the pursuit.
Dr. Emmet Brown’s big question has been answered. Just ignore them when they are like that.
moral : being single is much better than being some one like her
Very helpful, Thank you. No Woman on the planet is worth letting yourself be pushed down and abused by. Thank you for reminding me of this valuable information
When my ex would get grumpy, I'd just remain indifferent, then try to get a little smile out of her before we parted ways. I knew I just had to ride it out and she would be back to normal next time I saw her.
Reading your book. Love it so far. Great content as usual Chris. I learned a lot =)
I've been thinking about ordering it. Is it about all these videos or there is more?
@@Mr13alin Relatively a little more information. But in an organized form.
@@Mr13alin So far the book is very good. Very informative. It covers a lot of information from personal appearance all the way to the process of interacting with the opposite sex. Highly recommended:)
Lots of love from India 🙂😊 chris
Well to some extent it's natural. To some other extents it's a great tutorial on how to deal with a problematic person. Just walk away or prepare to be mistreated.
The women described in this video is toxic and with women like this I do agree that you should walk away but if she's healthy then ignoring her will make you the unhealthy one.
Why would you ignore her if she’s healthy
I appreciate how you are helping men in their life's. But please make a video in which you define the pulling away and the time when she really needs her man to back her up. Sometimes in a relationship or marriage men can't differentiate that "she is pulling away or she is in a trouble and she needs your help but she wants you to notice it, in this situation if a man pulls away when she really needs him but he failed to differentiate. It's mostly the end of everything.
When she goes into pulling away its already to late. She already thought about it for a long time. If she wants to leave, let her go, her loss. Go find someone who values your time.
@@appeljuicesurf 💚👊👊
That's something you should know just from being with her tho
@@Hhhh22222-w No. Women have to say it clearly.
@@__a6290 well they just don't do it.
Video came at a good time
If she acts like a child, treat her like a child; However, I would like to believe that this behavior which is so typical of women does not apply to all women.
They are EMOTIONAL animals. Chill and be happy regardless!
Having dinner under candle light, what I MEANT to say, " you look really great under this light"
What came out of my mouth, "you're really hot with the lights off....."
I worked HARD after that, but pulled it off 👍
Funny thing is I'm the kinda guy that can really woo certain kinds of women with my words to get them really attracted to me eating out of the palm od my hand, and just a few days later say something totally the wrong way and piss them off kill all that great amount of attraction i built up and have them say "dueces" lol. I hate having BPD and ADD as a dude..lol
She behaved like that and i left never looked back. I hooked up another girl and we are going strong. If she flakes leave!.
The best description of the situation
Thank you!!!!!!
Here's the thing guys, especially in a relationship or if youve been consistently dating for awhile, its okay to ask if everything is okay. But if she says she's fine you can either leave it and give her space or you can tell her to let you know if something's up, then you give her space.
Basically, there's nothing wrong with asking but, dont push it if ahe says she's fine
You really know what you are talking about.... You are good
Best video so far on the web,wow.
“Change her mood, not her mind”
so basically we men need to make her think that we're about to dump her when we're not?
lol😅
Basically: Do nothing
you can’t anyway
Exactly
Your Best Ever Video Till Now.
Thanks
Hallo Chris, thanks for this amazing, short and concise video...Few sentences from it should be printed with capital letters and placed on bus stops, metro etc ;-) Listen to this bloke, He knows what He talks bout : maybe bit cold approach, but very...analytical ( As we man are like this ) ;-) Good luck to all.
Hello young men Uncle John here, women are without the ability to reason. They're only concern is "How will this benefit me". If you don't know this, I you'll learn it the hard way.
Drop the mic..........
Wow, like a mic drop in the end there. Thank you
Remember Bus , Train and girl all comes after every 15 mins 👍
Don't try to be her therapist, and even if you are a licensed therapist, it's unethical and illegal to practice therapy with someone who you have a close and intimate relationship. Stay on your path and purpose and allow her to sort herself out.
if only i had watched this video 2 years ago, if only...
Great content
I support this knowledge
This happened a couple of months ago, we went out for the day and everything was cool until she started being quiet and clearly upset about something. I stupidly tried to get it out of her and was met with a bunch of crap that made no sense, it had nothing to do with 'us' though or so she said. I tried to let her get on with it but it completely ruined my day and I couldn't help being annoyed with her. Later on, she was fine and acted like she didn't fuck the entire day up then got mad at me because I was in a mood with her!
When she tries to pull this shit again, how else could I deal with it?
You tell her that's what she'll get everytime she does that to you.
If she doesn't like it or doesn't change it she can leave.
Show her that you're willing to walk away, even if you have to fake it.
Give her uncertainty.
Be alpha and tell her you dont tolerate bllsht behaviour
Don't let her control your emotions. Remain calm at all times. If she tries to stir the situation, walk away. Tell her these 3 things:
1) You have zero tolerance for such actions.
2) She can only see you again once she learns what she did was wrong.
3) If she doesn't come to her sense, you will walk out of her life forever.
To do this you must have options, so always be talking to and seeing multiple women at once.
Bro you are a great coach love you
You better lock that door after she left like that lmao. Let her have her silent treatment in the hallway for a while
I mean I completely agree on this and everything, but I'm learning CCW's content as well, and in his book it tells when a woman you are in a relationship with is upset, you have to be able to communicate properly, maybe defuse her with humor and try to get the woman to open up etc.. I'm curious as to know which situation is best suited for this method or corey's method.
Yes, you start initially with neutralizing the situation with humor. If its not helping, you follow this method!
Communication worked in my case. But if it didn't, I would pull away subtly and happily and wait for her attraction to build up.
It's like dealing with kids: "right or wrong doesn't matter...only how she feels". Smdh
Hi Chris. In no contact for 6 months now from my BPD ex that ghosted and discarded me out of nowhere. Would you happen to know more about the topic of dealing with someone with BPD?
I second this. Would love a video on this subject.
How to deal with a woman with BPD? Simple - don't.
If she hasn't contacted you back in those months you should definitely just move on. BPD people can just instantly lose feelings for someone for the dumbest shit (because then they categorize you as a bad person) and I would not take it personal. It's definitely easier said than done but you need to move on; most importantly realize it's not your fault and it's just something BPD people cant help but do.
You should Hope that you never See her again.
Easy to say for a stranger, I know. But women are crazy.
You want a crazy human plus mental illness?
Our brain loves the things we know. And our brain don't decides for luck.
Just for ressources and reproduction.
I really thought I could have helped her but in the past she always said that I was too good for her 😕
Remember women think with their hearts
Women prefer to be right than to be in love.
100% correct.
I don't even recognize it when they do lol. I can recognize non verbals but that doesn't mean I can decode them. I assume what ever she is going through is her problems and I focus on mine.
Something I have noticed about women is that they operate based on network(psychologically). At times they will have network and at times they won't have. What I have noticed is that whenever a woman is out of network,just let her be till she gets her network back. Whenever she gets her network back, she will be the one to come to you herself and by that time you won't need to stress yourself any longer. It's kind of funny though but that's just the way it is
I will download all the videos, in case one day the chanel disapears ❤😅