Do you really want a tradwife?
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- Опубліковано 14 бер 2023
- You’re going to have to think long and hard about your physical health and weight if you’re looking for a traditional house wife type of woman 😅
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Most guys.. like 90% of them don’t make enough damn money that the wife doesn’t have to work yet they want a trad wife.
They gotta work harder or smarter then 🤷♂️
The economy is the problem
Facts, and then they get midlife crises and leave them for younger women.
It don't take that much money for a woman to stay home
@@David_Talks. 1.5 mln full-time jobs are out, 1.8 mln part-time jobs are in. gl with that
Oh the horror!😂 As a traditional wife myself I find it hard to keep myself from making desserts and things I know my husband loves since he's trying to watch his waistline.
Right it just comes naturally
You ladies are definitely the dream!! Thank u for being who u are. Y’all deserve nothing but the world. Who u are on the inside is what makes life worth it. This gives me hope. 🫡🤝
Oh girl! Same!!!!
I have a lemon tree that vomits lemons from new years to Easter and I’m making lemonade and lemon bars practically daily. In the summer, I have a key lime tree that fruits like crazy so I greet Mr Joyful at the door w a soda water and lime (occasionally a gin and tonic) and make key lime pies like it’s the end of the world.
And we travel to WA in the summer and the kids all pick berries and I make syrups and muffins and everything. The kids and I make homemade ice cream for the syrups too.
And cooking. Oh I looooove cooking. I do cook healthy but they are soooooo good and on cheat day… 🤤
God bless you and your family!
I’m having the same issue with my husband. He has been doing so well with loosing weight but I love to bake. I found a work around. I make mini triple berry pies sweetened with honey instead of sugar. You cut the crust with a round cookie cutter and put them in a muffin pan. Then add the berry/honey filling. Bake on 350 for 20 minutes. They are so good and are a healthier option than cookies.
You know what sucks.. when you want to be a trad wife, you tried to be a trad wife, and the dude used all the good you were giving him to be better for someone else..
Shit destroyed that part of me. And it seems the more men I meet the greater this wound is reinforced. Most of them want a mom not a wife.
Ah mamma 🙏 I have many videos trying to get men to stand up and be a man. Sadly our society has largely tried to destroy what made good men good…
But I can tell you if you keep that feminine mindset and wanting, you can find a man who will cherish it and cherish you.
@@David_Talks. I agree it isn't toxic masculinity harming the world it's a toxic lack of integral masculinity.
The same is happening with feminism.. becoming toxic because we are removing the feminine from it.
LMAO at you.
@@mmason9836 yeah I know.
We can't go back to the traditional society and gender roles because of 1) economy and 2) selfish men. In the past, a man couldn't just leave his wife. It would be a scandal and he would be ostracised. Also, most men were religious, they had some ethos instilled in them. Nowadays, he could leave a woman penniless with no consequences. That's why, while it might be tempting to become a housewife, it's very VERY risky. Most modern men are cheating assholes, never doubt it. You might get a good man but it's like winning a lottery. And no, it's not like "you just have to choose well" because people can change, especially with midlife crisis and no one can predict how a person will turn out in a few years.
Why can't people celebrate a traditional housewife without putting down "modern women" who have careers. I know plenty of working women who love to cook and bake. Some of them actually work in the culinary industry. Wives can spoil their husbands and families regardless if they work or not.
The term ‘modern woman’ is entirely an attitude and mindset thing pushed by radical 4th wave feminism to get women to turn away from the one thing men actually want from them which is their femininity, their caring nurturing and supportive soul… no man wants a masculine, aggressive manlike woman… 🤦♂️
@@David_Talks. Truth!
@@David_Talks.no it isn’t lol you people made up this idea of “modern woman”. We just refer to ourselves as people.
That’s the difference between a traditional housewife and a stay at home mom, without the ideology that men are the head of the household and that they should be subservient to them and the “modern women” has got it all wrong and ruined it for women like them they’re just a stay at mom
@@David_Talks.stop generalizing men ....I can show a million of them who prefer the opposite
I was a tradwife and also have been a working wife/mom. As a tradwife, I was criticized more than when I was a working wife. When I worked, he didnt have leverage over me to say "I'm not doing the dishes/laundry, I worked all day!" So we knew to both pull the weight of housework and kids. I prefer to work because some men don't respect trad wives, they get more entitled
Agreed!
And roles should be reversed sometimes too.
His wife is out shopping while you're at work. And I doubt he's the kind of man to make her feel bad about it. Sounds like she chose well.
@@coppersulphate002exactly. I feel like if being a traditional wife is so great why don't we ever see husbands in that role? If a woman has an ability to go make a lot of money in a job she loves why can't the man stay home and do all that s*** you never f****** see that because at the end of the day, men don't respect the stay-at-home wife role.
@noprogressionisregression6854 My children's father is a stay at home dad and lovely. To be fair I still do all the cooking but... I was a stay at home mom for 8 years while he worked with a college degree and pulled in 24k a year for a family of four. I work from home as an author/micro influencer and I make 70k+.
All the men here says that they want a Trad Wife, my man had one and he's so unhappy 🤷🏻♀️ i clean & i cook every day , bake, take care of the kids , make myself pretty for him, hair, make up, nice dresses and nails - and he say that i ruined his life and he want to leave - to be alone 🤷🏻♀️ he miss his single life. You always want, what you dont have 🤷🏻♀️😒 sorry if my english is bad, i'm from Germany
He’s a chump and you sound wonderful and deserve better, I’m sorry you had to go through that 🙏
Then your husband is not a good man. That’s a shame. I’m sorry. It’s not your fault. ❤
@carolinewieland1392 - How were things between you in the bedroom?
This may seem like a harsh question, but trust me when I tell you that once things go bad in the bedroom, the relationship is over.
I’m so sorry this happened to you! You seem like a great wife. Sounds like the problem is not you but him.
@@SpclOps20loss of bedroom activity means something was already wrong for a while. But you are right, it is a harbinger either way.
I love making my husband surprise cookies! The smile on his face lights me up! It's the best 🤩
It’s the best! Haha thanks for watching 😃
I agree! I love baking little treats for my family and watching their faces light up with joy ❤
Same!
As a man, you go. Treat your husband well so long as he does the same for you
It’s great, just not for the ol’ waistline
My wife and I both work, and then we both come home and cook meals together. Our teenaged children are also good cooks. I consider this to be a family UNIT; which is the kind of family that a certain group of men despise because everything is not centered around them. I don't regret the fact that I can bake my own damn cookies if I want to; even after a hard day at work.
I feel sorry for this guy if he got lost in the wilderness, because who's gonna bake his cookies? 🤔🤷
Or if something happened to his wife? He'd starve (unless his mommy is still alive) in a filthy house. I wonder if he wipes his own ass or does he need a woman for that, too?
Your family picks up your slack. Sad.
@@katemiller7874where exactly is he slacking?
@@katemiller7874the vast majority of women don’t want to stay at home, clean house and bake cookies. There’s a reason why the Suffregette movement was so strong. Okay for you, and no disrespect… but there are those of us who want the family to work as a unit, to share responsibilities at home.
I think this short was a joke? But I agree with you. My little cousin who became a cop, he was obsessed with cooking as a little kid and would insist on it all the time. Now he’s married with a kid. And he’s a cop. I don’t know why cooking food is associated with being emasculating. It’s weird. I mean, Gordon Ramsey?
😂😂. Good for her. She’s going to need to make him happy to keep him. I’m not a trad wife. I saw my mother left destitute after divorce. It really left an impression on me. I am married (27 years) but I’m not a trad wife. I have my own money, my own 401(k), my own emergency fund and I work full time. Husbands are great and all, but a man is not a financial plan.I also tell our daughters that. My husband said women need to get their own pie instead of taking a mans. 😏. So that’s what I did. I track my net worth separately from his. Should anything happen, I will be just fine 😎. I recommend the book the Fiscal Feminist- A financial wake up call for women. 👍🏽
@DianaParisi-qb2bmyou are confusing most women with yourself.
@DianaParisi-qb2bm "most of the ladies you know" =/= "most women"
I think you are one of the rare mentally sound women left on internet. I mean internet is really eating up mind of people like termites eating wood. After internet came people are becoming extremists with their ideology in parabolic rates. I don't know why is it so hard to understand that just because you have a backup plan does not means that you hate other people. These are two completely different things.
I hope internet does not mess with your mind in future.
That's what I caution against for women who think the trad wife lifestyle is so great. Make sure you have your own money because a dude can easily replace us but once we reach a certain age. It is harder for women to do that because we are seen as "hitting the wall" and are no longer seen as viable partners.
Amen!
I am a house wife, I know lots of women who work and bake cookies ❤ i do not like the division that is happening between working women and house wives or between mothers and childfree. These times are difficult and we need more unity. Lets encourage each other and support one another!!! We dont need to put others down to lift ourselves up. Just enjoy your cookies sir😂 the whole video was cute until the end, that dig at working women wasnt kind!
😂 the jab at the end is the entire point of the video 😂
*both* of my parents cooked, cleaned, and took care of us kids while the other worked. i always roll my eyes when i see these "men have to be this, and women have to always be that" videos.
Trad wives for the win 😌
Until he gets bored...
@@sarahrobertson634 sarah did you know that around 70-80 percent of break ups or divorces occur because the woman gets bored? Its like 20 percent of divorces are vaused by men and we can say most of those divorces were due to toxic relationships so yeah. When the woman is college educated this number rises to 90 percent
@@muro2904 Guys cheat when they're bored, but they don't get divorced. Which is a shame, cuz divorce is awesome.
@@sarahrobertson634 divorce is awesome for women because women have no skills on making money or having assets so the government rewards them with the mans assets. Thats why most men either dont get married or sign prenups which keeps women broke. Many men also started to not get married and just keep the relationship unofficial. Also, most men don’t have the option to cheat simply because women wont want them.
@@MetalMelee Sure, big guy.
My hubby tells me I cook to much 😂I would have never thought I would hear that
Good for you… and him! 😅
Best of all, when you dump her for a younger model, she won’t have any money of her own to hire a lawyer while she raises your kids for you
Actually she’s terminally ill so I don’t think that’s going to be much of a real worry for her….
@@David_Talks.that's great. Now you get to get a new model when she's gone and you get to keep all your things instead of losing half in a divorce. You're a lucky man.
@@David_Talks.being terminally ill would be my only reason to become a trad wife so I can share my time and love for the time I had left. Otherwise Its a big no for me, there has to be a bigger purpose for our existence than taking care for my husband and kids.
@@David_Talks.
Terminally ill and baking cookies for your baldheaded ass. Joy!
@@mmason9836 What a horrible, cruel thing to say.
What does "being modern" have to do with letting someone be hungry? My boyfriend and me are rather modern I would say... but I still cook most of the time while he cleans the dishes. Makes sense because we're both learning hard jobs and share the bills and all. So we can both do the household chores. I still cook every day and none of us is hungry at the end of the day. And no, I would never want to be a traditional housewife. I couldn't be happy with that.
Experiencing similar problems, danger is real man.
😂😂😂
i love being a working woman, i get to eat my cookies myself 😊
@david_lifelovemarriage Why be so unnecessary rude ?
@@Edelweiss635How was that rude?
@@AlexandraZeBecause the dude is married and still wants to shove himself into random people’s marriages
Keep eating them yourself. More power to you💪
Oh yeah an no one dirties your home or bed
Always clean organized and fresh 🥰
I'm not a #tradwife but more of a traditional aunt. I live with my sister and her kids. Since she works, I do the cooking, cleaning, and helping her kids with schoolwork and homework. I've also picked up a hobby of baking and making desserts. I'm learning more about the #tradwife lifestyle this way.
I think that's great
My SIL and niece are about to temporarily live w us and I’m sooooo excited! The last few years, we traveled to stay w her for about a month every summer but she’s moving here!!!! She loves my cooking and baking and I can’t wait to spoil them rotten!!!
You will be a pro when your future hubby shows up! You will kick all the competition out of the water with your skills! 😊
As an older brother by 13 years ill tell you this, soak up every minute of this time for when you may have your own kids it helps so much. Ive been changing consistently diapers since i was 13 and now when i have mine i can be prepared for the headache that is an infant and the joy that is a child
@@zanderdev57
My brother and sister were teens when I was born and lived in a different state. When my brother started having kids, I was a teenager and would go spend about a week every summer at his house taking care of those kids. They are now in their 20s and we are so close even though we are geographically. My favorite memories include those precious babies 🥰
Plot twist: as a tradwife for 20+ years, I make delicious desserts for him so I can watch him work out to work off the calories. 😉💪🏾❤️
As a fellow gym bro I know how that goes 😂 can’t have a heavy bag 🥊 session without an audience either 😅 but I can promise ya, he loves it!
As long as you "workout" with him, it is a great plan.
Noiceeee
Absolutely, we eat lot of good food but help keep each other in shape too. It's only fair to do if I make all this good food and he takes me on great trips or dinner dates where we eat amazing food , that we help each other out by burning off all those calories and keep us in great shape.
Pro tip
Thank you ❤😂
You don’t need a tradwife to make you cookies 😂 It’s called being loving and giving for the sake of giving to someone you live.
Stop pretending tradwife is the only salvation 😂 I have lived both lives and both were fulfilling to me because I was with men who loved me and were good to me, which I gave back the love and support.
Nothing to do with tradwifes or not
No ma'am. We like tradwives only. You wouldn't understand 😂
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 Lol
Tell me why I wouldn’t understand…
I can’t wait for your answer 🤔
Assuming is not smart. So coming from someone who’s less smart than me, I can live with that very easily ☝️😌
In fact, I don’t need aknowledgement from others to know my value as a human. Being a grandmother and having experienced both ends, got me everything I need to know for me to give an honest and true point of view on a matter that I know AND experienced 😉
Don’t tell me your opinion if you don’t have life experience, don’t lose my time debating stuff I know you don’t honey bunny
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 You can have an opinion when you have more than 5 years being aloud to use the internet son 🤣
@@thelegacyofgaming2928there are very twisted ways trad wives can also systematically break a person down, take him money, and kiss him a sweet goodbye😂
And they’re 10X more vengeful than a modern wife.
Modern wife has a job to go to next morning and has less time to fuss over your stupid shit.
Read wife has time to make ELABORATE plans to destroy to top to bottom
So everything that looks like a rose isn’t a rose😂
I loved being a trad wife, homemaker. The day he complained and called me a cooking fool because i didnt sit around on the couch, but ate all my homemade healthy food, broke my heart 💔 . He died of covid. Bye! Still cook and clean and sew and garden...happy and free
Bet your living your best life now that he's gone.
Best thing women can ultimately do when the man dies is ban together with other women (communally) and raise kids in peace without getting financially trapped or stressed out unnecessarily!
They never tell the truth to young women and that is the financial security is only “temporary.” There is no true safety net to being a TRAD Wife! Meanwhile the man gets a housekeeper, a breeder to pass on his egotistical “legacy,” a sex worker, a chef, a therapist, and a mommy ALL in one package. Why would he ever want to get rid of that?
^Primary reasons as to why it is women who file for divorce and men zone out and don’t!
“Cookies the size of my damn head” had me in stitches. Those cookies look well nice though.
I would fuck those cookies up and still hit the gym for a hour and a half, your blessed my dude
😂 hahaha that’s what I do too! Plate of cookies and hit the weights!
You're just dirty bulking nothing bad about that
@@Wishmaster787 What's dirty bulking?
So you and your mother have been close your whole life. How sweet.
Haha I love this :) my husband jokes that the worst part about having a traditional housewife is that he’s getting lazy… he never has to cook, clean, do laundry, tidy, run errands, keep track of paperwork for scheduling or shop, and *gasp* he’s forgetting how to do those things! The humanity! Lol
He is welcome to pop to the gym or go for a run?
That's what a workshop is for! Repairing things around the house, building things, fixing or adding to the house. 😊 I might be a girl but I grew up mostly around my grandfather and he has a ton of big machine tools in his basement and a ton of other things that he uses for projects. I'm terrified to use them myself though, lmao. I'll stick to being in the kitchen for my fiancé and kids. He works and provides for us and though my chronic health conditions limit me greatly, I do what I can to support us at home in my own ways. 💜
My fiancé actually hasn't cooked in quite a long time that he's lost his touch but when we first got together I was 16 and he was 20. I moved in shortly after we got together because of my rough home life so I knew how to do nothing at all. Well, this man literally taught me how to cook, clean, and everything I know now mostly. Mothers are supposed to teach these things to their daughters but my mother surely didn't. She chose to teach them to her sons who still live with people that care for them. My fiancé and I have both had hard times getting our footing in life but everything has been together and I couldn't be more grateful. Especially given how many times he's saved my life (literally I have Epilepsy and my seizures have almost killed me in my sleep multiple times)
@@meganelizabeth772 Have you tried keto or carnivore diet to treat your epilepsy?
I know several people who had great success with it. Also several people who cured their cancer with carnivore diet. I myself had ulcerative colitis and cured it with the carnivore diet.
I love meat but if you don't want to go to that extreme, try keto and avoid any artificial sweeteners, coffee, seed oils and other processed foods that our ancestors didn't eat.
@@sunnybadgr5073 I can't do Keto diets due to my gastrointestinal issues having flare ups from fats, grease, and acid. And sadly, even if if I was able to, diet wouldn't help my seizures. I've even been on 4 different seizure medications, 3 of which at the same time. I've been told I need to go to the Epilepsy Monitoring Unit for further testing so I can be evaluated for which surgeries I might qualify for if I choose to have one in the future since I'd have to be put on a waiting list.
@meganelizabeth772 Keto has actually been proven to help epilepsy. And I have GI issues as well but I did keto for 1.5 years. If you stay away from saturated fats and greasy foods, and go for lean ground turkey/chicken and fish, I find it doesn't hurt my stomach. Also, don't buy into the MCT oil stuff. All it is is saturated fat. Learned that the hard way after my cholesterol spiked and I had to get off of keto. But I'm going to try again, since it helped so much. It helped me feel better, lose weight (I lost 60lbs), and I didn't feel like I was in a fog all the time.
She wants to fatten you up so you won’t leave.😊
Haha she really likes the muscles though 😅
@@renovatio7616 hey, so long as he’s fat AND happy right? 😂
@@David_Talks.yeah you can be fat and happy but not your wife! You can look like shit and your wife has to make you happy but god forbid it's the other way around! Women have to be obedient and quiet for their husbands! They don't exist for anything else!
Ha ha ha nice one 😉
Your wife is a darling 🍪
She’s definitely one of the best for sure!
Hahaha men love when we care for them ❤❤❤
💯💯💯
Hes caring for you with all the bills he has to pay.
@@knuclestheechidna5406 He'd have to pay them anyways, all he's really paying for is tampons and them fancy shampoos women be using lol
@@divineroadrunner Bills are much higher with a woman in the house. If you paid bills you'd understand what I mean 😂
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 It's not that much different than any other guest, but I also live in Georgia where the cost of living is extremely low.
If she's cooking she'll use a bit more electricity, just don't go gas unless you live by yourself.
Cooking and baking is what all adults should be able to do. Why do people act like cooking and baking doesn't need to happen
He acts like cookies are complicated to make. All she did was cut Pillsbury dough and bake it.
Eat now workout later!😂👍
I never had dessert growing up. But my traditional wife surprises me all the time with some. It really is a special act of love.
It’s great being a trad marriage.
For a man, sure. Everyone would love a free servant.
@@missAlice1990 my wife works a full time job. I own my own company and cook all the meals when we don’t eat out.
Go ahead and assume some more, I do enjoy the ignorance of it.
If your wife works a full time job and you cook, that is not a traditional marriage
@@TheRonin248 so, does your wife wish to be in a trad marriage as much as you do?
I guarantee your wife doesn’t think that.
First of all. One doesnt need to be a traditional housewife to keep their husbands well fed. If someone is a modern woman it doesn't mean she keeps her man hungry.
My guy is an amazing cook himself. Doesnt make him any less of a man.
Hes never looked for a traditional whatever.
But I've learnt to cook and feed from him. We both cook, we both earn.
Those cookies look dope. But the logic part, really doesnt make sense.
Traditional women are the best kind though.
Modern women can stay with the woke betas and keep asking where have all the good men gone 😂
@@David_Talks.so men who like to cook are betas now? Interesting
everybody should know how to cook and clean. it’s basic survival skills. istg some of these men just want their mom as a wife it’s kind of pathetic 😐
@@David_Talks. woke betas... ? What kind of online speech is that.
Those cookies aren't from scratch. They're Pillsbury dough. All she did was cut and bake. Still processed crap food. Guy's an idiot. She's out spending his money laughing at how stupid he is.
This is why you must work twice at hard at the gym to compensate more to be able to eat her cooking regularly! Trad problems require trad solutions.
So true. My husband had to get me to stop because I was making a different dessert/pastry every other week.😂
I had a similar problem, haha 😄 I love baking, and my husband does want me to bake and cook whatever I want, but it got to a certain point where he wouldn't eat much of it because we had been having wayyyy too much sugar lol
Looks like you have a great woman. God bless you guys
Thank you very much! You too brother God bless 🙏
You guys sound like you want a kid, not a woman. The traits I'll name that you want in a trad wife can be applied to describe a 9 year old girl: quiet, submissive, jobless, obedient, uneducated. Not many grown women are like this unless they've been brainwashed or they choose this life. Nothing wrong with being a traditional wife, but there is something wrong with making it your entire personality and bashing feminism.
Wow, I must be a super hero, I love my hubby and I have a job (so sorry for that) and I manage to bake some cookies too ...😂😂😂😂 ... and I am a modern woman, magical. Oh, and my hubby is smart enough to cook something for himself if I can't, he must be a super hero too.
Nothing magical or super about a ‘modern woman’… let’s at least be honest here lady… 😂
@@David_Talks. ...ok, was just wondering why you're hyping a quick batch of cookies as the holy grail, sounded like something spectacular, so I thought I could be part of the magic ... but well as a modern woman mine are surely poisoned to harm my poor submissive husband ... 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@cornflakegirl4811I thought it was funny that he was so impressed by Pillsbury dough cookies. She's home all day and the best she can bake is cookies?
@@David_Talks.Goodness gracious, I’ve never lost respect to someone faster. Be a man and get out of other people’s business. You’re already married, focus on your marriage
@@David_Talks. cope a little bit harder bro
I think pursuing an education is awesome tho, but i want to love on my hubby more
Definitely, my wife went to college, she chooses to stay home and do the more traditional thing 😃
What does education have to do with marriage? This is coming from a med school student btw...
you can do both!
I got a college education and even went to grad school. I prefer the trad wife life more. I feel more free and independent than I did in the corporate world.
@@micahmiller5923what happens when ya'll break up?
“Some kind of modern woman” 😂. Like you could pull one
Girl you Jealous? I Can’t pull what I don’t want sorry…
But ya it’s real hard pulling modern women when I’m making videos in a 4,200sq ft home or by my pool or in my vineyard, you got me there…
but there are lots of vids of modern women in here begging for a man to make em a housewife I do know that, but they couldn’t land a guy like me…
We like em soft, submissive and feminine.
@@David_Talks.No one’s jealous of your indentured servant. I feel genuinely sorry for her…I’ll pray for her, bless her heart!
@@David_Talks.soft submissive and feminine sounds like your search history. Watch out wife
@@David_Talks. I like my men submissive and masculine. Why are you trying to act like your kink is some natural thing? I don't make up a lot of bullshit so I can spank dudes, I just find a dude who likes being spanked. And just because I have a vagina does NOT make me submissive. Being submissive is NOT feminine. It is just a kink preference.
Based on the condition of your home, she is not a tradwife. Also, you men out here that want a tradwife, you better not be in debt and you better be making at least $100,000. If not, you get what you get. Before you brokies get mad, you say the same stuff about women but in regard to their age, looks, and weight. Meanwhile, you are 3 like this guy.
@@David_Talks. your house looks clean to me. I’d give anything to have a house like this…I am a girl who lives with a stepmother who lets our house get trashed and doesn’t clean... She’s a..what’s the word? Hoarder?..and she has 3 kids who are the reason for the mess…and I try my best to clean up but it doesn’t do any good because they just destroy all my progress within a day…Yesterday, I spent 6 hours, and 5 trash bags later, it still is bad….I’d love to be able to find a husband who lets me stay in a nice clean house all day. Being autistic, this house really bothers me and I stay in my room all day because of it. Is this a cry for help? Yes, yes it is. Someone please take me in. 😂❤
@@honeyyybeee569 we have kids so it can get messy in a hurry 😂 but thanks for sharing. Even though it sounds like you’re in a tough spot now, get out there and even more, try saying hi to a guy you like, I promise he will take it from there 😃 🙏
@@David_Talks. sayin hi to anyone scares me but maybe he will say hi first 😆🤍
@@honeyyybeee569 gotta put yourself out there. Hit a gym or even just walk around downtown. 🙏
I profusely and humbly apologize that the condition of my 4,200sq’ home with children was not up to your standard. I shall try in the future to make sure it’s made to the finest standard for you. 😂
cringe....
I am so happy when I bake something my husband and our children love. Giving is the miracle.
Lol, as a traditional homemaker myself, this is true . Sorry to say, but my husband said the same thing the other day. He works out in great shape, but all my cooking is struggle for his weight. (I stay in shape and same size I've always been ,but feel those 3/5 pounds that come and go from all the good meals and baking and great dinner dates we go out on ) Also another problem he and others may have with trad wife is, with all the cleaning and laundry done you may have to ask where things are when not laid where you left it. Sorry guys, but it does get better . 😉
It’s a good problem to have! 🙏 bless you homemaking mammas
Im not a tradwife and I love cooking and baking for people & will for many years to come. Want to know who taught me to cook? MY DAD. This video is ridiculous.
Yep, my boyfriend knows how to cook and his dad is the one who taught him. Cooking and cleaning are basic life skills and shouldn’t be assigned to one gender over another.
Eh, I’d say the double income has more benefits.
For some maybe, for others the time she gets to spend with the kids and the difference between what he earns and she can bring just isn’t worth her having to unless she wants to for her own personal reasons like socializing or getting out a bit… 🤷♂️ different strokes for different folks
Whats taditional about baking cookies?
If ya know ya know
@@David_Talks. I don't, I bake pretty regularly. I guess as a "modern wife" I just respect my partners dietary wishes and support his goals? While your wife maybe wants you to fail?
I LOVE being a #TradWife! 💕
Of course! Why wouldn't you?
@@knuclestheechidna5406 SAD LIBERAL LMAO
@@jiwanlal7149 You call everybody who disagree with you a "liberal".
you mad fr@@jiwanlal7149
Queen
Until you get tired of each other
I pick B, modern womyn I cook my own food for us both and we both pay the bills.
Best of luck with that one
I feel for you man. Coming home to a loving wife, clean home, cooked food and delicious cookies must be rough.
As an working wife I love to cook and a clean house. I also like the thought of making my own money. When I dont have a husband anymore I can take care of my kids and myself and dont have to run to my parents or another man.
Isn’t planning for an eventual divorce kind of like saying you don’t really think you’re the ones for each other? 🙏
@@David_Talks. A man is not a financial plan. Having your kids eating dependent on a man being attracted to you is being a bad mother and putting your future in utter jeopardy.
@@David_Talks.not divorce.
What if he drops dead the next second?
@@lakshmikrithika2521 death? Men die? Divorce is the ONLY option, if you’re an alpha like this guy
Because women definitely don’t want to be surprised with home-baked cookies 😊
Lol my husband has the same problem but it’s brownies lol. I can’t help it! He’s the best husband and father, so I like to spoil him.
I now understand why my mom agreed to be a housewife. She is very serious about it. Now I get it? She gets to chill at home, watch TV, and cook for us. Mom isn't the materialistic type, she just asks for budget for food and meds, mostly.
mom sounds like a stepford wife
As a traditional wife It's hard not to make my husband fat. Add in the fact that we are southern, hubby hasn't had a 6 pack in years.
“Strong modern feminists” love treating their men 🍪💗🍪
They treat their man because he’s a good honest man who loves to treat her in return. It’s simple really.
No, you guys just want a servant. A housewife cares for the home and the kids, but they are not your personal servants. If you want a housewife, then man up and accept responsibility for the family. Be a leader and a head of the family. Be a God fearing man who loves his wife as Christ loves the Church. Be ready to sacrifice for her even to the point of death. Help her and nourish her. Show her your love with absolute fidelity to your wedding vows. Look at no other women the same way that you look at your wife. Never ever consume porn. If you are an addict, get professional help with it immediately. A man is the bread winner, but he is also first to take responsibility for all things related to the care of the family. If the wife is feeling poorly, your first responsibility is to carry the entire load of caring for her and making sure that you keep the house clean and a nutritious meal on the table. You are her helper in times of need. Remember that she is your equal even if she has a different role in the family. She deserves your attention, love and care always.
So don't look for a "tradwife" if you aren't willing to shoulder all of the responsibility that goes with being a traditional husband and father.
I buy my cookies and my wife do what she wants tô do.. thanks
That’s cool, but store bought cookies suck 😂
@@melissanicole3657 As a woman, I feel like I am doing something wrong if my man is looking at store bought treats. My man looking at treats in a store always makes me want to make it for him myself.
Also this guy isnt policing that other guys choices, hes just pointing out that homemade food is pretty much always better.
@@Xxx-dh3bghe is policing others. He's saying men who cook are betas and what not
One isn't better than the other. I've been a working wife and I've been stay at home. I took care of my family either way. My mental health took a hit staying home, so I went back to work and everyone is happier. And we have lots more money lol
I guess I just don't get why we have act like staying at home is better than working. Do what works for you and your family. I really think it's funny that this guy thinks making a meal for himself is hard. 😂
He's impressed with Pillsbury dough cookies he's kind of simple.
Why do you think modern heterosexual women would just leave their men hungry? Or does the idea of equally splitting household chores so repugnant to you that you'd rather find a woman who's naive and malleable who will be financially dependent on you, ensuring her perpetual compliance? The one with the gold males the rules, right, "king?"
Most would say that a good relationship is one of mutuality where each part contributes toward the whole.
A real man though, has no problem providing for his woman so she can Choose to do whatever she wishes to contribute to the family.
And when a woman has that love, care, safety and support she usually falls into her femininity 🙏
Because Dev most modern heterosexual woman can’t cook let alone bake.. they spend more time taking pictures for other men to see and buy than, treating their husband to delicious treats like this. Have a good day and don’t trash talk this man and his lovely wife :)
@@Chlonewt94 This isn’t true. Stop using hurtful stereotypes to massage your ego and fit your narrative that aren’t even true. Over 68% of women in the U.S. above 18 know how to cook and still cook at home especially if they have children and a husband. “Most” isn’t even accurate.
@@David_Talks. How do you objectively know that this is true? What does “fall within her femininity” mean? Female stereotypes? How do you express this, even qualitatively?
@@jasmineellebrown4514 I agree with you
So you have money to take care of a grown woman, but you can't just buy yourself food and cookies? 🤨
You probably shouldn’t watch my newest vid 🍫 🍓
Yeah, that’s amazing. Try making the modern woman cook for you.😂
I lucked out. But there’s a bunch of good girls out there still. And the best part is as a man you have the ability to bring them to where they can be more than willing to bring that side out in them when in a relationship. Check out some of my other vids.
Right you will starve for sure
@@David_Talks.Oh, yeah. Being a trad wife would be my dream, so long as I didn't have to worry about money. I've only been working for like 3 months and I'm already ready to be a stay-at-home wife and do all the cooking and cleaning and just take care of whoever my husband will be.
@@lizzieandmocha1131 He would be taking care of you. Since hes paying all the bills.
@knuclestheechidna5406 ...Are you kidding? Yes, he'd be taking care of me, but I'd also be taking care of him by feeding him and cleaning and making sure all he has to do when he comes home from a long day at work is eat and have his every need met, and if we have kids, spend time with them. You can take care of someone in different ways, that's the point. I take care of his needs, he takes care of mine.
😄😄 most married women in general(whether stay at home or working) still take good care of their homes and family. It shouldn't be an either or...one group isn't better than the other.
You better be lining her personal bank account like you are yours and encouraging her to have some kind of education, support her by taking care of the kids so she can further her education. Cause this working for free and depending on you only works until you die in an accident or leave her for a younger woman. Prayers
A husband and wife should only have joint accounts, that’s the whole point of building a family, one unit together. My account is her account…
@@David_Talks. but I thought it was your house and your vineyards and your obsession with women being submissive while being happily married…
Dude, I just don't like making food and even when it's made for me I don't want to eat a lot of it, this'd be an epic win, if there were that many cookies when I get home, I'd expect guests.
Or she just loves baking.
Funny! I was never a SAHM but cooked meals from scratch every night and had homemade cookies and treats for my husband & kids. What's that got to do with being a housewife?
I’m a trad wife but my husband loves to cook! I do mostly during the week but on weekends he loves it, he’s the meat master! He also never has problem making dinner if I’m not feeling up to it or out with friends/family. He is just super type A and was just raised to be capable like that and when he was single building his business he prioritized home cooked meals for his health/budget. I still love to cook for us though.
My future husband better prepare because I'm not gonna let my baking skills waste away haha!!😅💖
I’m sure he will very much appreciate them and you 🙏
My husband complains that I feed him too much... I think I'm just doing my job 😅 keep the thotties away 🤣
Fr though, those cookies look sooo good 😍
They were so good! Haha bet your hubby loves the cookin too!
@@David_Talks. yes sir! Can't wait to see more content 🤗
Good wife I say 🎉❤
It's not a job, that's why he makes money and you don't.
He could leave you at any time
@@francescabuonanno2333 Your cats might leave you.
i make my husband cookies with his vanilla protein powder for his work outs. 😅 he loves em.
There is nothing wrong with being a Trad wife but for the woman it is RISKY business If u don’t have an education to fall back on when he leaves u for another woman. Not to mention the income 2 can bring to the marriage that REALLY helps when it comes time for retirement. I’m a 63 yr old woman and I stayed home a couple years when my kids were young but went back to work and now that I’m getting close to retirement age I’m SOOO glad I was a working woman. I’ve never felt that my kids missed out on anything, just the opposite, they learned that the world doesn’t revolve around them.
🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 TRADITIONAL WOMEN ARE AMAZING!! 💯💯🎉🎉🎉
As a trad wife myself…this made me smile
Shit he is onto us
What happens if you get hurt? Sick? If you leave her? If she has to work at some point, how is she going to find a job with a long gap on her resume? Does she have healthcare? If yes, is it enough to cover for something horrible, like breast cancer? Let's say that you are still together and happy until your old age, is a single pension going to be enough for both of you? You probably don't know how many elderly live in poverty for exactly this reason. Cookies cannot get you anywhere when sh1t hits the fan.
You see I have a real career and other income streams so if I get hurt/sick I have oodles of insurance and if I die she becomes a millionaire with a permanent DOD pension as well… 🤷♂️ as for leaving each other, if that’s in your mind at all why get married at all?
Cookies are the symptom of her appreciation of our relationship type(traditional). In other words you completely missed the point… 🙏
@David_Talks. which is all fine and I am happy for you. But most people are not well off. I have my parents as an example, they struggle with one pension.
That is so my wife. She loves to bake, and she bakes all the time. But she knows I'm on a strict low carb diet. I feel bad that she goes through so much effort, but I don't eat it. Fortunately, our kids are happy to help eat what she bakes.
I’m the modern version of a tradwife 😂
I love it haha nice house too btw
Thank you very much and thanks for watching 😃
Lol! My hubby doesn't let me bake (holidays only). He says too hard to stay in shape ;D
Ah mamma I hear that one 😅
In Canada you need two incomes to support a family, its just economics. We should normalize the woman staying home for 1-5 years until kids start school and then helping women return to the workforce
I'm a working wife and mother and the food I make with my husband at the end of a working day is as good as any cookies I could have made on my own at home during the day if I was a trad-wife. Both life paths are valid.
Women - if you're reading this, it is absolutely fine if you want to be a trad-wife but PLEASE make sure you have some form of financial safety net and ideally some form of transferable skills/qualifications just in case things go wrong. If you don't, you could find yourselves starting from scratch at the age of 30, 40 or more if you split/he dies/gets fired etc. My mother was trapped with an abusive man because she had no financial autonomy.
In the west 99% of alimony goes to women…
She is trying to kill you with all that sugar 😂
I'm female and I absolutely love it when women nurture their loved ones and environment. Those cookies look so yummy! Well done to your wife haha 👌
Sound like an awesome feminine woman 👏
Yes, I love being a woman. The supportive and nurturing role is so underrated. Doing things for your loved ones and the place you call home is so fulfilling. Women can be so good at helping others destress.
I do not understand some women that whine about a woman's roles. 1: It's not that hard to do things for others if you aren't selfish. 2: None of it is really difficult labor, it just takes time.
I am filled with such happy feelings when I help my fiance relax after a long day, insisting that he let me handle domestic duties so that he can chill. I have never felt used, I've always felt like I was an important other half to the relationship. Telling my love to sit back after work and read a book while I do his laundry >>>>>
@@Xxx-dh3bg I think you said the most important thing for us to remember about doing anything for our partner really… “I always felt like I was an important other half of the relationship”
This right here is the key to everything! When we truly appreciate our partner for who they are it is reciprocated and we build each other up to where none of it is ‘work’ it’s just helping our life we’ve built with each other. Thank you 🙏
My wife and I both work 4 days a week. It lets us both have a day off for running errands, cleaning the house, mowing the yard, etc, and also work and contribute to the household finances and contribute to society in some small way. No feeling unappreciated, no cabin fever, no getting overwhelmed with work, etc.
Some men who insist on traditional women are absolutely terrified of how far we've come. Thankfully, I'm raising my son to appreciate others for who they are and not for what they can do for you. It's 2024: just accept the fact that you no longer call the shots and maybe you'll stop being frightened into creating whiny content. Instead of working out your abs, try working some sense into your brain.
Those are store bought from Whole Foods. I just bought some over the weekend.
You’re funny. Nearest Whole Foods is 2hrs away
I really don't like that people think modern(working) women don't cook or clean. It's annoyingly untrue.
The ‘modern woman’ thing is all an attitude/personality/worldview thing and yes most men view it as negative and unattractive… sry y’all bought onto a lie by the feminists.. 😞
I agree, he could have made his point without putting feminists down. Not necessary at all
@@David_Talks. Feminism told us to value ourselves and not to give up everything for a man. I'm sure that most men don't like that attitude, just like slave owners didn't like black people becoming free.
@@missAlice1990 real
He's right, he can make his own damn cookies and food. My mom was a stay at home after she had me and my "father" didn't appreciate a damn thing. He was ungrateful and the only parenting he did was hitting us with a switch for no reason other than we existed or he was drunk. I bet when he sees her he won't even thank her.
This made me laugh! I baked a fresh batch of cookies yesterday for my partner and I just love seeing him eat and enjoy anything I've made. After everything he does for us I just couldnt imagine being any other way.
Watching your man enjoy the food you make him is so underrated! Men really appreciate the food and are so happy to be thought of and we get to watch our own labor pay off and make them happy!
My fiance will skip breakfast to head off to work, and as much as I like sleep, I love getting up earlier than him to cook him food to wake up to. It starts the morning off right for us both and I am able to make sure he has plenty of fuel for the day.
Traditional people try to enjoy their lifestyle without putting down other people challenge(impossible)
The way to a man's heart is thru his stomach and the way to his wallet is thru his pants
😂😂😂 Good Wifey!! I usually have baked goods laying out..
I would love to be a tradwife if there was enough money for both of us with just him working. And my husband will also love to be the "tradwife" if I could provide for both of us 😂. But the economy is bad, so we both work, clean and cook, we are very happy either way.
She's simply trying her best; you have to appreciate her and let her know the kind of diets you prefer.
R/woooosh
I’d die happy if I could ever find a trad wife
I hope the best for ya! For now, focus on yourself, gaining good skills and good habits and good friends. You do this and wait a while, you are bound to find a good woman. Healthy people attract other healthy people!
She's out there somewhere :)
I get the joke, I do. But tradwives also know how to cook more foods, including food that's going to be healthier (and less expensive) than ordering out or buying convenient groceries. IME with mine of 16 years, it can easily help you stay in shape.
Thats a different point of view 😊 very valuable 😊 every each of us is very unique with what we "think" we need xx
Thanks for watching 🙏
or you could just not be incompetent & learn to cook
How dare she ! .....😂
Gotta keep em from being able to cheat😂
99% of guys married to trad wives cheat so her worries aren't unfounded.
You get to the heart of man through his stomach ❤
Maybe they are not for you.