Jordan Peterson ~ What Stops People From Progressing In Life
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- Jordan Peterson ~ What Stops People From Progressing In Life
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"In order to move forward, you need to leave something behind."
Yeah
A footprint or such.
A footprint or such.
@Al Garnier The only thing you left behind was a disassembleable comment.
@@rihardsbarkans4519 dude,you don't have to be so literal
Jordan Peterson if you ever see this, please know it was my 14 year old son who I discovered you by (son is 16 now) and man this video may have just saved my life. Thank you.
¡Huuuy!!!
¡Congratulations for you and your son!!
keep going sir!
'Monique' is a woman's Name.
Until you discipline yourself, you'll need something to control you...
Like drugs? Cuz that's how Peterson does it!
Yeah I was gonna say - is it discipline if you force yourself to do something unpleasant or bad for you without fail? I mean thats still discipline right?
@@frootkreem2579 virtue taken to far is dangers as much as the seven sins. besides i have always thought discipline as the ability to see something though. so killing your self takes massive amounts of self control to push though ever though to protect your self at all cost. some say its taking the easy way out but thats so disrespectful
@@alwaysonyourtail2563 how can being incredibly lawful and moral be the same as stealing and murder? But I agree that suicide is not weak as is often claimed
@@prophetsnake oh fuck u)
“Don’t judge me!” is usually shouted the loudest by the people most lacking in judgement. It’s usually exactly what they need, which is ironic.
One Must judge so the Person understands the purpose of it and so it actually helps him or her in Finding meaning and purpose. If there's No understanding it might be counterproductive
I admire how he talks and gestures with the hands.
Hahahaha soon as I opened the video I hear chaos... Lol classic peterson. Love him tho.
That's exactly what I was thinking, I love JP but he definitely has his common themes!
Without chaos there is no order.
😂😂Same
I'm of the impression he either had the insight and knowledge or inside info.
Yeah I hear “chaos!” And I was like “oh, roll credits then”
Wake up, dinner, work 12 hour night shift, run home, cold shower, bed. Repeat x14. Trying to forego short term gratification to improve in the long run.
Good luck with your persuits, be careful not to burn out.
@@koros6005 lesson cannot be learned without pain.
Lucas Rudd your current existence is working at the diner. For your sake, make it as enjoyable as you can, make improvements, tweaks, get to know regulars, improve yourself and others as u can.
@@wordsunheard2383 im in a mining camp in the center of west Australia, my crew are like a big family. We are all in it together. Today i came very close to indulging in a midnight snack..but it felt great on my run back to camp to know i stuck to my plan and didnt give in to the temptation!
Keep on brother.
Every time I see an old clip of Jordan Petersen I'm struck by how much younger and healthier he looks now. What a transformation! Same for his daughter Mikhaila, too.
Well, duh!!
I think he looks healthier here
I looked younger 12 years ago too. Don't be so shocked
Poor guy has been sick most of 2020. I think he got Covid too.
@@libbybecker1741 He is back now.
In the case of progressing in your life, the thing you worry about letting go are the ppl around you, who are holding you back.... You could be in the middle of inventing a time machine and someone you know will ask, "What are you doing?" "I'm building the first ever time machine and I'm almost finished" "You'll never be able to build a time machine!" That's an exaggerated example but it's like that with anything. You could be painting a picture, designing a dress, making a new cheese, anything and guaranteed someone who's supposedly your friend, partner in life or someone who's close to you, will bring the negative. That's why a lot of ppl go away to quiet places, where they don't have the negative noises around them... It's why scientists and inventors are always so solitary. You can't be creative surrounded by the noise of others negativity.
Mariska Barsi haha sorry that’s your own fault if you are so controlling or manipulative. i’m always deeply suspicious of people who make and get rid of friends.
"The only way humans have ever figured out of getting somewhere is to leave something behind." - TARS, Interstellar
This man is brilliant.
Is this what psychology classes are like? I was an engineering major and the professor just spends the whole class writing equations on the board to prove how you get from one equation to other. This is so much more enlightening.
I’m in engineering right now and I feel the issue that most STEM majors have is it becomes so... mechanized. It’s no longer intellectually engaging and intriguing anymore and it just becomes issue after issue to solve through applicable math and science. I’m sure that becomes similar to muscle memory at some point yet the mind never feels as stimulated like lectures like Doctor Peterman’s.
I’m doing chores and this is exactly what I needed.
Nah, just pop a few pills, like Jordan Peterson does.
@@prophetsnake lol correct, guys a fraud and phoney!
It was sad he had to use pills no doubt. But did he ever say do what i do? He honestly says he’s trying to work these things out. Some of the things JP says are from ageless theme’s like Moses and law. Maybe he failed at handling his own family situation but there’s still lots of insightful stuff. He’s not a hero and no one basicly is.
I’m smoking crack and I listen to Jordan Peterson and Alan Watts
I don't think that you have any insight whatsoever into your capacity for good until you have some well-developed insight into your capacity for evil.
Jordan B. Peterson
He just explained in 7 minutes, what I’ve known my whole adult life.
"I'm gonna take out my little bow and arrow, with my poison...and I'm gonna nail you with it." - Jordan Peterson
I attended U of T and skipped most of the classes I paid for. Now I'm spending more time watching Jordan's U of T lectures for free xD
I love how he reframes the seemingly obvious. I've learned so much from Jordan Peterson. I hope he is well coming out of his own addiction issues. It would be amazing to hear journal entries, week by week struggles, idea struggles. Chemicals work that's why we take them, but what he identifies and grows beyond will be interesting.
Much love and get well. Dudes a Canadian treasure
His comprehension and then the manner of imparting his knowledge to others is wonderful....
I want to move forward, I must let go, I will be rewarded.
when not going to school anymore and we work we are doing de same thing over and over again without getting a chance to grow for most companys growth is just a illusion they gave you.
Meet the new boss. Same as the old boss.
Sometimes...not always..just like people..depends on the company..im not a company man..but most of my friends have done well at theirs..popular to be negative in our country these days...careful with that.
@Rick Lane you fool
@Rick Lane What do you find toxic about JP's advice? I understand the man is not perfect, but barring those of divine origin, there are no perfect role models.
Rick Lane because you disagree you searched/found this video to make your point. Point made, BUT, you had to have searched for it or subscribed/watched similar videos in one way or the other to see it. Think you have JPS and they/it/he/she/them don’t know it
I wouldn't use the analogy of leaping off a cliff into shark infested waters to describe leaving an abusive relationship, but leaping off a tall burning building into the net held by competent firemen. The first scenario speaks of defeat, while the second speaks of victory, bc in and of itself it is a personal victory to overcome / leave an abusive situation.
I need the rest of this lecture! 🙏❤️
He said it so clearly- if you don’t judge you are not thinking.
Think about it -you can judge a book by its cover. If you took me to Barnes and Noble I could identify the theme and content of probably 98% of the books in the bookstore; based on the front cover alone. Throw in the back cover and I would venture to say I could up to 99%. Give me the inside jacket flaps and I can get it to 100.
You have to be discerning. You need to keep an open mind, but not so open that your brains fall out.
@Carol Dodd Stewart...an excellent answer...the SJW mantra is "do not judge!"...and of course their blatant hypocrisy is epic!
Pure wisdom
Thank you dear Peterson
thanks for videos, they are all good!
I needed this! So relatable.
He's so brilliant...
Just the quotes from the video on the comment section below are already all I need to start my day.
I like what he said about "not judging" - of course we have to judge!
(But when we judge other people we should keep it to ourselves perhaps?)
Love your work..
Yes. Every time you want to move forward, you must let go of something. Truth
As a family that survived the FLDS Cult, I can say the transformation was painful. The things Jordan is saying here ring true. To change from worm to butterfly one has to go through an intentional and conscious mental rebirth. For me, I had to dig down to the bedrock of everything I believed to be true and check the virtue of every idea. It takes time and is painful, but I did not have to leave the whole structure, I just had to rebuild parts that were on a sandy foundation. My wife had to do similar. The children adjusted well, and our life is much happier now. We have liberty to think and say what we find to be true. We have liberty to LOVE! The FLDS Cult was a hate cult like the current Democrat party. All they know how to do is divide, hurt, tear down, and consume. They do not have to power to build up, inspire, or improve life.
I did the same. Its terrifying letting go of everything you know and entering a world where you dont know all the answers, but it must be done if you want to become your own person with your own values and beliefs.
Congratulations. None of that must have been easy. Hope your family is doing well.
Congrats!
> like the current Democrat party.
Read from this my perspective as a non-american, situated in Europe: Your entire nation is in political turmoil. You need to stop looking at American news, and start looking at news about America from around the world. The view of America is vastly different than the information projected to you from within your nation. You still have tons of deprogramming to do. Stop watching Fox. Stop watching Breitbart. Stop watching CNN. Seek out sources that are more invested in democratic progress rather than individual people or parties. Make sure that they are not politically affiliated with anything going on in the US.
Same here leaving Christadelphians.
Wow ..., Jordan Peterson is so helpful
We never lose anything without gaining something.....We never gain something without losing something.
I love your videos Professor Peterson. Just wanted to let you know. Thanks so much and please take good care of yourself!
Ehh, jp will never see this channel.
Pats head
Health and strength to you and your family Jordan !🙏💕🙏
How lucky am I to watch this at the right moment.
some true gem right here
1 min. into the video and all you said is correct.🙂
Hahaha...here is JP version of long away ago....hahaha
And as usual...is a simple clever talking stories...
Good man...You make a great positive impact on me...
You need chaos before you can have order .....Bill Harris ...Thresholds of the Mind.......he explains it so perfectly .....
the CHAOSSSS😂😂😂😂
Jordan You are positively improving so many lives.... Thank You.
Batu isn't a tribe but a civilization . Bushman of Kalaari are nomade tribe that lives between angola anda Namibia. The portuguese protect them and used as the most dangerous paramilitary group because they could resist one week without eating on the bush . The group name was "os flechas"
I literally got my answer in the first second.
@Rick Lane did you know how alan watts died? He was a great philosopher that were loved by millions, but in the end he decided to booze til he dropped dead. Why do you think people do it? Think you are perfect? What have you got to gain in committing defamatory acts? Let me ask you a question. If you read a book and found useful information that changed your life/relationship/business, in a good way, but then later you found out the author did things you would consider reprehensible, would you then, conclude that the information you got was useless... Well then? Obviously not. I have nothing more to say. Just stop doing bullshit like this one, it's such a disgrace.
@@anatoligorianski3395 This is such an important concept.
Es un maestro...
The major HERO of our time.
yeah...this statement caught me as well...I think building your self up w knowledge,Wisdom,Understanding....God warns of sharing this....sometimes...it is just meant for you!!!
I'd love to hear someone like Jon Young from Vermont University respond to the idea that the Kalahari Bushmen have no mechanism in their egalitarian society for resolving conflict. I'm not sure but I imagine that if you found culturally intact groups, they would have that knowledge. The ones who have experienced partial cultural reverence as a result of colonisation may have lost that knowledge and turn to bantu tribes to resolve disputes. I'm not so quick to assume that they have survived for what, 200,000 years and had no mechanism for dispute resolution. Seems a lot more likely that they did and have recently lost that knowledge.
It's possible.
Exactly.
The compilations of summarized concepts from each aspect he factors into a hypothesis would be quite impressive, be it not his desire
What?
People get tempted to return to an abusive spouse if kids are involved out of desire to protect the kids but otherwise I don't see why. Actually I would leave a guy easily for much less than criminal physical abuse. I leave cheats and might be their friend but not girlfriend. Maybe people lack self confidence or don't want to be alone or just get used to it. For me I was raised with self respect not to put up with abuse some people sure like to dish it out and not taste it themselves either. Another reason could be how they were raised if they were used to that in childhood they might seek out the familiar or try to repeat a pattern for a different outcome. Why people are abusive is a bigger question I think because they certainly hold people back.
let go is rly hard for me
golden words
oh this video end on a very important issue, where is the next part of this video, pls
Lol as a person of Bantu descent I feel so superior rn 😂
Why should I? I mean, why should I help anyone/community when I've been robbed so much in every regard?
Don’t do it for them. Do it for yourself. Even if it benefits the community too, it will likely benefit you too. And if not, move to a new setting.
A big failure of the legal system in our country is that it doesn't absolve anybody of the responsibility for revenge. Rather it warns the aggrieved that they are a perpetrator against the state if they seek what is just.
Even I'm not watching Jordan's video even I know I should😭
What stops? Comfort zones
Life it's self
It’s hard for a women to leave out of an abusive relationship if she has children. Children end up spending part of the week with their abusive husbands and they endure having no mother protection. The courts arrange such. So it’s often a choice of self sacrifice to protect their children. Yes, it’s not the solution but it does have such benefits
Now this is a clear choice from the womans side. Either she fully knew whom she actually picked for a partner(I.e the scoundrel), or she had no idea(blissful ignorance). In either scenario she failed to pick a suitable mate and now has to deal with the consequences. Not to mention, most women are often over-motherly, and end up creating a soft bitch for a child. The fathers role is completely different, I do however understand and get where you are coming from, & the type of man you're trying to describe.
But that goes both ways, especially in our current zeitgeist where the government bends over backwards to make women happy( in order to collect their vote), where the masculine role is demolished. We live in a matriarchy where the courts take the womans lead all the fucking time with the MINOR exception for perhaps 1/20(where shes actually psychotic).
Goes both ways, if a dude has children with a borderline psycho bitch who ends up fucking all his friends, divorces him & takes all his money along with the children. He is himself to blame for not having foreseen it, n in our current spirit of time, THIS HAPPENS ALL THE FUCKING TIME.
Yeah fuck. Realized im writing to a little girl, smdh. Good on you for watching JPB at such a young age, but there is more to it than it seems. Given youre a woman you'll quite naturally take the stance of which narrative fits you the best, of course. But NEVER forget, both roles are essential and play their crucial part in the construction of a child. Without the other, the child will have defects, n is basically being set up for failure.
This concept is beautifully explored in the Cecil Day-Lewis poem 'Walking Away': "... what God alone could perfectly show: how selfhood begins with a walking away. And love is proved in the letting go." Do yourself a favour and check out the whole poem.
Principled, Judicial judgement.
ua-cam.com/video/r_ShAseOvNE/v-deo.html
The full version, also in the bio
this video inspired me go make this agianst my brother i could use some help and we aill help you
🔥❤🙏
other then money and security being alone is the biggest reason
Relationships,one of the most difficult things,we ALL FACE!👫
Yup. Calculus is obviously hard, but once you get it, you’ve got it and can use it.
Relationships (of any kind), however, you’ll always have to adapt with and maintain in order to make them work.
@@RaisonDetre96 People change!🙏
Is there a continuation of this clip from JP?
@@andrewmaginnes5382 thanks
Juditial judgment settles disputes. Hopefully for good
Wheres the rest of this video?
True! That was I stayed. And people judge you mercilessly. Monetary reasoning. It is a treacherous way to live! I couldn’t sacrifice my daughter. I wanted better for her. If America took to a new way of making sure they’re were better ways to help the struggling working mother, just enough to get them out of the danger of said marriage from the abuser!
@Rick Lane oh shut up.
Watching UA-cam videos stops people from progressing In life.
When you want to move forward, you have to let go of something from the past..... In Chaos people look for new moral principles.... new beliefs, new religion,... Judging things/actions among people in a society (= discern) .... Egalitarian society has no hierachy, which can be a problem when problesm arise....
Peterson is just Brilliant. Everything he says strikes to soul and every day i look where i least want to and try not to make it worse. Starting it badly tho
Chaos is evil.
The moment one thinks they "know" something.
Money and the uncertainty of more of it.
Racism, unfairness, jealousy, killing with impunity, satanism, being ignored, no support, realizing that no one will help, being censored, injury, sickness, a lot of things can stop progression and progression will stop in life because everything deteriorates
Abused people do not take into account how they contributed to their own abuse. That is why it happens again.
Very good reflection.
Where you are born has a huge bearing on you potential in life.
Obstacles Dr. Peterson. I haven’t cleaned up my room, so it’s full of obstacles.
Rule #1 Make your bed.
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4:30 - Bantu is a large language family in Africa, not a tribe. Something like Slavic people in Eastern Europe.
From South Africa. It is a tribe. But the word Bantu is not politically corect after Apartheid. We term it as rascist. A word coined by the Afrikaners. Take care. Love from South Africa 🇿🇦
@@niesa4795 are you white or black? Why is there AIDS epidemic in South Africa?
What is "progressing in life"?
Whatever you define as such, I guess.
Depends on your goals. What's something you want out of life? What will you have to let go of in order to acquire it? Define the first, determine the second, and there's your "progress".
I'd say, according to JP it's continually making order out of voluntarily invited (or not) chaos to become more and more capable human being. As a consequence rising in the social hierarchy and having the sense of meaning. It doesn't sound generic or trivial to me at all like you point out in other comments.
@@easymedia91 Hopefully it works that way, seems like it is an idealistic model of hierarchy, but I might be mistaken.
@@DamianSzajnowski I wasnt ilustrating a hierarchy model, but I think it's fair to say that being capable translates to more success in life.
This is profound stuff. Anyone knows how to find the full lecture?
Its in the description.
is that a damn Aston Martin laptop? lol
I have no real way of progressing in life. I have nothing to progress towards.
I feel the same way. I know I hate to hear this but just keep going. Jordan Peterson says to focus on just improving what is already around you, so that is what I try to work on, even if I feel I have no real goals. Hope you are doing ok.
@@tiellochridge Thanks.
Also people plotting on your downfall in a conspiratorial manner* which I’m sorry to say.....See Jesus, See Judas, See Caesar, See Brutus, See success is like suicide- Jay- Z men see your personal progression and you cannot control their jealousy, and they may act on it one day
As divorcee this all rings so true.
FEAR
Autoimmune diseases keeps me from progressing. What must I do.
What I aspire to do to cope with mine;
Eat clean, practise yoga, learn to breathe & focus on mindfulness/visualisation techniques. I procrastinate with the last two health hacks; the intention is there; we just have to get some momentum happening! X
So when the person getting abused is weak how you described there isn’t something they can do? There isn’t some community or system that helps with temporary recourses or just help out of the situation in general? I always wonder shy she didn’t leave and this gave a little bit of a perspective but she had an option or two. Life would be great without having him in our life and I’m torn between blaming my mom or the boyfriend both are just... 😔
I have even tried putting myself in her shoes and really trying to understand her thought process and prospective and cant come to a conclusion. Long story short he killed my mom even tho she’s alive and actually killed an unborn child.
Not a finished thought :(
It disappoints me too. I was making up the possible ending in my head, thinking c'mon JP, tell me, am I right? :D
Video started off like he was explaining Astrophysics
Corona stops progression
Not an accurate title at all, but JP is always good
Has the standard and only partially correct video title.