Vinh you are amazing. I have just had my Cambridge physics interview and I used all the tips I could find from you. It went great, I tried to use all my body language and spoke with volume and adopted a curious mindset. No umms, no ahhs, and I asked the interviewers for time to think and collect my thoughts. I felt so confident when I left, thanks to you! ;)
7:38 We call it the rule of Qooloo Qawlan Sadeeda, from Al- Quran [33:70] meaning, "Say what is right/true. (Say it directly)" Or "Say words of appropriate justice".
Thank you vihn. For someone who speaks Mauritian Creol, English and French. Your lessons are a great plus to me because I sometimes comes out aggressive or angry. I got no control over my voice even if I am not angry. Thank yoh very much
Vihn! when you told about your second method "learn to walk away gracefully". Immediately I thought about the verse of the Quran (25:63) "When the Ignorant addresses them they walk away gracefully or peacefully". I was absolutely fascinated and stunned by this. It's so amazing that you were able to pick on that!
I have been watching your videos a lot lately and I have been applying little-by-little your advice whenever I host an event in our school. And boy did it made me more confident when talking around with people. Even when I am talking to those that are above me such as teachers, admin staff, even with the top management of our school - I feel more calm compared to before. You're doing great! Your videos are life-changing and I am a testament of that.
Amazing!! No words to describe your kindness, i have seen many people being good in something but not sharing or helping but it's only u descring the science and the psychology behind the tricks and method, which help one to use it properly. Thanx man being fan of you from India🇮🇳
This feels like it should not be free because damn the amount of information you just provided in such a short time is incredible Vinh! - You are truly inspiring and I aim to learn from you everyday, thank you so much in helping me across my communication journey.
I understood. Step one: deaccelerate the argument by matching their energy. If it's work then ok or not then try to be clam during conversation. If nothing works, that's mean you don't know them well Step two: make a statement and leave 🙂 And for stranger don't waste your time or their. 🙃 Well I didn't mean to match the bad energy 😂❤
The part about asking people directly if they wanted you to tone-match or not made me laugh as that’s something I might do hahaha! It’s also worth noting, that if you grew up around unstable adults -you might have a great sense of how to de-escalate conflict in this way, but that doesn’t necessarily translate into being a good communicator 😞
Takeaways: 1. Matching and mirroring 2. Evaluate the context of the interaction 3. Have situational awareness 4. We need to know the other person the best we can 5. Only way to know how to communicate best with a person is trial and error 6. LEAVE to escalate the situation
Heyo Vinh! I love your deep connection to thought. Here's a thought for you... Have you ever had a conversation without thinking about the fact youre having a conversation?
Thank you, again, Vinh! 🤍 And I truly appreciate what you're giving back to the community...and in your free classes / webinars 😎 Thank you, wish you the best!
Question for everyone at the forty eight second mark, am I the only one that accidentally picks up accents from people?Because i've lived all over the place and then they think that i'm making fun of them.And the reality is now, if I just hang out with you and talk to you for more than four hours, i'm probably going to pick up your accent. Sometimes people get angry, but then I have to explain it like no I grew up in south Florida. All my friends were Hispanic. So when I was 4I had a Hispanic accent. But then eventually I moved to an area where there was a little bunch of European people, and so hang out with them all the time, I eventually picked up a British accent. And so on and so forth.
I do that too. I try to be aware of it so I don't just automatically switch, but it does happen. I think it's an unconscious way to connect to the other person. I grew up in New York so I get it lol.
I have 1 question, is there something an autistic person can do to get better at recognizing what is fueling the other person in that kind of situations? Because sometimes people are talking to me and I'm thinking they are being sarcastic but they are actually talking the truth and I try to respond as everything they said was a sarcasm and as you can imagine it doesn't go well
Aside from learning by observing people and studying body language. Just ask them? Explain you suck at recognizing tone. If done too often it can tire people out to explain themselves over and over. Choose your battles.
Soo good. But what, if I am this lady wishing her husband would come at dinner table after having promised "five minutes" (haha). Without going to ask again and once again and getting a pissed reaction? hmmmmm
Hi Vinh, I really appreciate your lessons but lately you are speaking too fast. I think it is not as clear as used to be.; how about thinking about it. thanks
Stop making so many ads. I keep having to block them but so many show up. I like your magic stuff but I'm unfortunately at the point where I'm getting tired of seeing your face.
Vinh you are amazing. I have just had my Cambridge physics interview and I used all the tips I could find from you. It went great, I tried to use all my body language and spoke with volume and adopted a curious mindset. No umms, no ahhs, and I asked the interviewers for time to think and collect my thoughts.
I felt so confident when I left, thanks to you! ;)
Let us know when u get the result :)
7:38
We call it the rule of Qooloo Qawlan Sadeeda, from Al- Quran [33:70] meaning,
"Say what is right/true. (Say it directly)"
Or
"Say words of appropriate justice".
I can't tell if that was a voice changer or you're just that good
I guess his wife recorded this for him and he just mimicked her talking
Thank you vihn. For someone who speaks Mauritian Creol, English and French. Your lessons are a great plus to me because I sometimes comes out aggressive or angry. I got no control over my voice even if I am not angry. Thank yoh very much
NO ONE....Literally NO ONE can teach "how to communicate effectively" better than you, Vinh!!! Love your content. Keep it up!
No
Vihn! when you told about your second method "learn to walk away gracefully". Immediately I thought about the verse of the Quran (25:63) "When the Ignorant addresses them they walk away gracefully or peacefully". I was absolutely fascinated and stunned by this. It's so amazing that you were able to pick on that!
Alhamdulilah ❤
I have been watching your videos a lot lately and I have been applying little-by-little your advice whenever I host an event in our school. And boy did it made me more confident when talking around with people. Even when I am talking to those that are above me such as teachers, admin staff, even with the top management of our school - I feel more calm compared to before. You're doing great! Your videos are life-changing and I am a testament of that.
Amazing!!
No words to describe your kindness, i have seen many people being good in something but not sharing or helping but it's only u descring the science and the psychology behind the tricks and method, which help one to use it properly. Thanx man being fan of you from India🇮🇳
You can't help an angry person, that's ego. Anger searches for other hosts to control and destroy.
This feels like it should not be free because damn the amount of information you just provided in such a short time is incredible Vinh! - You are truly inspiring and I aim to learn from you everyday, thank you so much in helping me across my communication journey.
Do more on talking/ debate or sharing work ideas without sounding winey, defensive, or bitchy.
Thank you. Your advice is priceless!!!
This hits home. Thank you Vinh!!
I understood.
Step one: deaccelerate the argument by matching their energy.
If it's work then ok or not then try to be clam during conversation.
If nothing works, that's mean you don't know them well
Step two: make a statement and leave 🙂
And for stranger don't waste your time or their. 🙃
Well I didn't mean to match the bad energy 😂❤
I play dnd, your content makes me a better DM
Heal with your words and transform
đúng rồi Vinh ơi
The part about asking people directly if they wanted you to tone-match or not made me laugh as that’s something I might do hahaha!
It’s also worth noting, that if you grew up around unstable adults -you might have a great sense of how to de-escalate conflict in this way, but that doesn’t necessarily translate into being a good communicator 😞
Takeaways:
1. Matching and mirroring
2. Evaluate the context of the interaction
3. Have situational awareness
4. We need to know the other person the best we can
5. Only way to know how to communicate best with a person is trial and error
6. LEAVE to escalate the situation
Great video
I got an ad for you while opening this video lmao
You're just amazing
Thanks fam! 😊
What if just over the phone like Customer Service rep and a Customer complaining
Heyo Vinh! I love your deep connection to thought. Here's a thought for you... Have you ever had a conversation without thinking about the fact youre having a conversation?
Sir how to overcome stage fear
Oh man truly knowledgeable, vin can you help me with one thing I am asking H this for months now how to overcome the problem of lisp
Learning and growing ॐ....
Thrusday 12 Decmber 2024 raat ke 10:17
Thank you, again, Vinh! 🤍 And I truly appreciate what you're giving back to the community...and in your free classes / webinars 😎 Thank you, wish you the best!
If you prefaced it with... "Honey... I hear you..." And then went about it you'd avoid a lot of hassle
Your partner is very understanding
I am a student sir. So I want to know how to make public communication and how to overcome the stage fear
Yeah, you can't mirror vocal attributes you can only match.
Hi
I'm a high school student. Can your course help me?
Vinh sir, I am 15 years old, may I join your 12thjan,2025 communication class of 2 hours
awesome
Just don’t copy them when in an argument communication, I found out the hard way.
Question for everyone at the forty eight second mark, am I the only one that accidentally picks up accents from people?Because i've lived all over the place and then they think that i'm making fun of them.And the reality is now, if I just hang out with you and talk to you for more than four hours, i'm probably going to pick up your accent. Sometimes people get angry, but then I have to explain it like no I grew up in south Florida. All my friends were Hispanic. So when I was 4I had a Hispanic accent. But then eventually I moved to an area where there was a little bunch of European people, and so hang out with them all the time, I eventually picked up a British accent. And so on and so forth.
I do that too. I try to be aware of it so I don't just automatically switch, but it does happen. I think it's an unconscious way to connect to the other person. I grew up in New York so I get it lol.
I'm 53 seconds late
uuu so quick
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I have 1 question, is there something an autistic person can do to get better at recognizing what is fueling the other person in that kind of situations? Because sometimes people are talking to me and I'm thinking they are being sarcastic but they are actually talking the truth and I try to respond as everything they said was a sarcasm and as you can imagine it doesn't go well
Aside from learning by observing people and studying body language. Just ask them? Explain you suck at recognizing tone. If done too often it can tire people out to explain themselves over and over. Choose your battles.
i luvs yiu mans. yous ares the bestest of the bestest of the speakerers thats why im watches you mans
Soo good. But what, if I am this lady wishing her husband would come at dinner table after having promised "five minutes" (haha). Without going to ask again and once again and getting a pissed reaction? hmmmmm
Who can want taking with me in English
I thought it’s important to listen more and talk less 😊
Hi Vinh, I really appreciate your lessons but lately you are speaking too fast. I think it is not as clear as used to be.; how about thinking about it. thanks
Bro, you are at work trying to dodge your wife. Tell her the truth. You’re just a good liar bro. 😂😂😂
Stop making so many ads. I keep having to block them but so many show up. I like your magic stuff but I'm unfortunately at the point where I'm getting tired of seeing your face.
Use ad block
Yes. Thank you.
Being flexible-!!!