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Dating A Former-Player! (dating lesson)
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- Опубліковано 15 січ 2020
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Be blessed!!! “You can not drown me because I taught myself how to swim” PERIOD!!
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Love, Nikki yes and amen!
Indeed 100%
Facts blame my paw je gave me power 2 kno bettr
I just listened to this again & you said something extremely powerful that I’m going to remember.
**If you don’t know what his heart feels & how he views the past him, that still maybe the present him.**
Listen this is key. I'm glad he articulated it so I know. Before giving someone a second chance this question needs answers
Tracy G yes definitely! I’m learning so much from Mr. Tony Gaskins.
Gail Love It shouldn’t be complicated but it’s reality.
Marisha Lewis I felt that!🙌🏼
Barbara.....this is Shirley 😂
Nikki Britt 😂😂😂😂
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Amen!! Yes I was one who learned the hard way for 5 years! Now I've been currently single for two years. Because of my relationship with God I now understand your videos more and understand what I did wrong. Honestly I ignored God left God and now I'm more clear minded and and in process of rebuilding my relationship with God and working within myself.
People struggle from walking away from their investments👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 A word!!!!! Soulties!!!!!
Not me as I have had my Silverado repoed..I love 2 rebuild .I'm no push over I take my do over I'm out..he really didnt think I was spineless
When TG said his wife jumped out the boat..I said "you hear me?" in my TG voice🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️...these videos are my daily lunch...🤣🤣🤣
Sherrell West 😂😂 right! Too funny lady!
« When you settle with that person, that is a reflection of you » That’s right Tony. You have been saying that in your other videos and I started doing that self reflection and healing for myself. God Bless you 🙏🏽 Be Blessed.
"you were looking at your preferences instead of having real standards, that's the problem"
Tony, I could jump through this screen and slap you this video was so good! No disrespect lol, but you said some THANGS!!!!! So much truth! That’s why I mess with you cousin Tone ✊🏾
Thanks for your watching it and for being a member of the #BlessedTribe
And with NO baby powder as he says n other videos! Haha
POINT PLANK PERIAAAD!!! (In my Tony voice) lol
THIS WAS GOOD! I had to tell a younger lady I met that was falling for this older mans tricks even though she didn’t even want to be doing the things she was doing with him. I told her she had more power than she thought.
“You cannot drown me because I taught myself how to swim!” Ha! You better get it Sheri Gaskins ; these examples be cracking me up !
Tony, this was MY LIFE, without the phone call. 22 years, 5 children and no job. I left, focusing on my children and myself while going to school double majoring in nursing and psychology 🙌🏾🙌🏾. I'm building my own table, the chairs and teaching myself how to swim ✌🏽. Be blessed ✌🏽.
She went from twerk'n to tweet'n 🤣 Mr. Gaskins you out here changing lives. God bless you.🙏
WE NEED A PART TWO ON THIS TOPIC!!!!!!!!
You know I had another 40 minutes in me but UA-cam messing with my videos so I cut it short
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Amen! Amen! Amen!
Thank you Tony!!!
"Standards vs. Preferences"
Standards will keep you on your game and focused.
Preferences will have you all caught up in your wants and not necessarily your needs.
If you don't have standards you will fall for anything and anyone and miss all the "Red Flags" in a relationship!
Which one are you operating from, STANDARDS or PREFERENCES?🤔
Be Blessed!🙏❤🦋
I'm hitting the like button before this even starts playing because I read this morning that Lori Harvey was dating Future and I was like 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️. When will these ladies learn? And where is Steve Harvey who tried to advise all of us on dating?
Heather Flowers lol the problem is she dated pdiddy his son justin trey songz AND future in the past year. Not cute but future is a playa lol hes terrible and hes grown as hell
I can't read Harvey's mind, but I can imagine that as a father he's concerned and sees where this relationship may end up. However, he understands that she's an adult who has to make her own decisions and learn from them.
Heather Flowers
Maybe she’s disregarding her father advice just like these women on here refuses to listen to Tony!!! 😳😳😳
@@ceecee9771 🤣😂
A relationship or marriage that is based totally on money will soon crash. A relationship should be based on genuine love.
Very true
It's hard out here for good women and good men. The use to be players that I have encountered want women to believe they are redeemed, but at the same time demonstrates the life of a "PLAYER". He definitely has no hesitations of letting a woman know that women are always available. I was married for 27 years and when my husband passed away I felt so lost in this world out here trying to join the social scenes again, getting my feet wet, and running into every man you have described in your videos. I literally deleted my message account because of the overwhelmed DM'S . I am very disturbed and surprised about this BRAND NEW world of dating since I have been out of the seen for 28 years. I am moving slowly, but at the same time desire companionship. I am not looking for a man, but when I am approached know what I want and have very high standards. I will admit I have made my first mistake and now I feel somewhat reluctant to date anyone anytime soon, so I have taken a break to take care of ME for 21days. I watch you videos daily, read books, go to the gym, meditate, and deactivated my social media accounts. I FEEL GOOD and in hopes my man will find me! I am not sure at my age the "PLAYER TYPE/FORMER PLAYER" will be able to run too many games on me, but my eyes are wide open and my mind is reserved and committed to making choices with condition. I want to thank you Mr. Gaskins for your dedication to your works and helping women like me and others understand the mind of a man. I have been an advocate for you since I began listening because you are an inspiration. Have a wonderful day and be blessed!
Be blessed! This is so true. I was in that type of relationship and was married for 18 years. I got that call and that was all I needed. Now I am healthy and whole, to God be the glory! Dating for me is a while different game, it don’t take long for me to say this is not going to work. I see the red flags and that is all I need to move on. 👏❤️🙏🏾
Hey y'all don't forget to hit the "LIKE" button 😍.
Great video Brother Tony 👍👍. This should be a POWERPOINT!!!
Thank You Tony!!! That’s why I’m not having No Kids until I am happily married and in Love. Unconditionally🤞🏽🙏🏽 Be Blessed
This message is definitely for me. I got a man talking to me right now who is 17 years my senior and he did recently share with me that he was a player back in his past!
Be blessed! “Who you are dating is a reflection of you “ Ouch, that statement alone will make me think twice about who I date and spend my time with
You are such a wise and honest for sharing what you know about what you were as a younger man... unfortunately these players have no age limits I am 58 and still coming across these old players. Thank you for your wisdom.
Be Blessed!! Great example the red flags are there and it's up to us women to pay attention. Don't Settle!! Thanks again Brother Tony another great message.
You are describing my ex and my last relationship. I wasnt into currency or status, I was desperate to believe in his representative because I had been hurt in the past. I am so angry with myself, I was so dumb. Im going to do the work this time to improve myself first. Thank you for your informative videos.
Mr. Gaskins, I enjoy your videos; they either teach me or confirm what the Holy Spirit has revealed. I check for your updates daily. I hope you continue to let the spirit lead you regardless of the video length. Be blessed.
Lord willing, I’ll be here daily!
So I watched Tyler Perry's new Netflix movie...A Fall from Grace.. And all I kept saying throughout the movie was " she didn't watch Tony Gaskins videos!" 😌😌😌
DAM STRAIGHT!~ Narcissists abound! I figured this out, Round 3 and you relay this spot on! I jumped exactly 365th day to the one year mark, No explanation! You brilliant!
"ROCK YOU TO SLEEP" Yuppers! I used to say, "Where you come up with these lines." He drop them like Confetti!
Part 2 us please‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ Don’t cut your time!
I think Laurie is playing at a different level..Future getting ready to get his feelings hurt.
*Lori
Idk about that. She’s very young. You have to think that he’s more experienced with life & relationships.
@@marishalewis484 I don't think she's taking him serious AT ALL. She likes the media attention.
Tracy G i think so too. A lot of these IG models are not really expecting to get married. They playing the same game as the men. She is eating this media attention up. It’s getting her exposure, brand deals, vacations, which al equals more money and lavish highlights. She not looking to get married
Marisha Lewis you must not know who her mom is lol sis is up on game. She BEEN up on game.
Tony, I appreciate your long videos! Soaking in all the knowledge! 🙌🏾
I know some women complain that your vids are too long hahahaa. I don't mind. They all are very helpful and free! I have them on in the background while I work. They are funny, too. Real life. Thank you Tony. Blessings!
He said holy water splashed around the house lmaooooo omg. You are HILARIOUS
Be blessed! You’ve sowed into my life and I worked for a short time as a coach and it’s my calling. Am going to take your training. Be sure that you have changed my life because I’m a 48 year old woman who was never really in the dating scene until 2019. Steep learning curve! I wish that I could have found you at the beginning but just thankful that I have now. Thank you for telling it like it is. I needed to hear that. Yes I am an old fashioned old soul and was like a lamb going to the slaughter but thank Jesus that I had enough wisdom to not fall for the game. I thank Jesus for you! Appreciate you.
It's like you see into our lives personally and at just the right time. Awakened! Thank you, Tony. Be blessed!!!
Ahhhhhh, thank youuuuu! I can not thank you enough. This right here...that's my lesson for life! Thank you for breaking it down in just 19 minutes. We need these lessons by Tony to be taught as subject in school. So that it reaches all these children before they even start to date. Thank you!
I wish this video was longer. I like longer videos. We really need more on this subject Tony. Part 2 coming soon I hope. Be Blessed 🙌🏾
Not Lisa Jo. 🤣🤣 I was slick waiting on you to say Shirley. Some may get it.
Yes! This Was my last relationship to the T minus the bare foot and pregnant. I’m still trying to heal, however, I learned a lot of lessons in that relationship
Dropping Gems 💎 so mad this is only 19mins 😩
Morning blessed tribe! Sip this tea 🍵👀 Be blessed💫
Cher H Good Morning Bestie ❤️
@@Glamrocs hey bestie! 👋🏾😊❤
Don’t shorten your videos, these are great. Thankyou ❤️❤️❤️
Future(Wilburn) has 6 children with 6 different women. He is 36 yrs old, and I feel he is not changing nor plans to change, why would he? His life and lifestyle are basically a click on Google, yet women get involved with him, even knowing he is continually in court about child support. Lori Harvey is a beautiful woman but a victim of circumstance; her mother had history of being involved with men with money, sometimes ill gotten, and really just being a TROPHY/ SHOW PIECE. Money does not equate intellect. I hope the next time Ms Lori is an in article it is about HER!!! Establishing her modeling career more, feeding the hungry, whatever gives her more self worth than to be an accessory on some boy arm!!! And this applies to us all, I speak on Lori cause I have been a Lori!!!! Relationships are good, but loving yourself is the GREATEST!!!! You realize your worth, and not dollars/cents, and than you find inner peace and happiness. Thanks, be blessed good message.
Bro Tony former player to a changed man or a parttime lover lol it all boils down to where he or she is in there mindset and heart A former player can get convicted and converted and lead and live life and showing and giving TRUE LOVE we were all an EX to something and someone Thank GOD for DELIVERANCE🙌
Thank you Tony! I’m still watching and I appreciate your ministry! Be blessed!!
WHAT IF YOU DONT KNOW THAT HE WAS A DOG FROM HIS PAST AND YOU DECIDE TO LOVE HIM BEYOND HIS PAST?
JUMPED OUT THA BOAT!!
Straight truth.... Been there, done it too much times smh... Glad to see my growth and strength in not dealing with my last relationship, I FINALLY GOT TO A PLACE OF DROPPING IT AND NOT LOOKING BACK
***MOVE FORWARD LADIES*** GOD HAS BETTER!!!!
Young and naive, they will lull you to sleep like a baby...smh lawd help us.
((He didn't even say put "Be blessed" in the comments on this video.)) Lol
Still Another great one!!!
& PLEASE disregard WHOMEVER maybe complaining about video length. Every time I come to the cessation of your videos, I'm left wanting more information. Loving you & your family ❤ & THANK YOU!
He said it at 17:51 minutes
@@Glamrocs He sure DID! I stand corrected
Tony why do you have to cut the length of your videos? I love the fact that you take the time to go into depth about the topics you talk about. They are so helpful. I hope you're not cutting them short because of others people complaining and that instead, its a UA-cam thing. Keep blessing us Tony. Speak as the good Lord gives you the Word. Be blessed!!
Thank you!!
I like this celebrity dating lesson. I learned a lot. Be blessed man of God
Be blessed
TG, there's nothing to apologize for. You are sharing great information.
God bless you
I love the long videos, I love how the Lord uses you!!! #be-blessed
I thought the same thing, the technical difficulties ain’t nothing but the devil.. the truth hurts! Keep fueling us with this soul food, Tony 🙌🏾.
Be Blessed and Thank you for your help and support in this matter.🤩🙏👍🎉🎊😁😀.
Tony I PROMISE YOU THAT YOU TOOK THE WORDS RIGHT OUT MY MOUTH!! THE DEVIL HATES THAT LIVES ARE BEING TRANSITIONED!!!! *singing* The devil thought he haaaad meeee!!!! (In my Curtis on House of Pain voice) BE BLESSED!!!! Great job Tony!!
Thanks Tony, these type of people will only waste your precious and valuable time. Be Blessed!
I'm jumping out the boat too!!!!!
Janice R Handy me too & not thinking twice about it.
@@marishalewis484 And I can't even swim!!
Janice R Handy Girl 😂 I can’t either 😂 but If I have to doggy paddle or die trying-I’m jumping.
@@marishalewis484 I know!!🤣🤣🤣
Be blessed . Thank you so much for the love! GOD bless you..
So much facts here👏🏽👏🏽preach 🗣
⚠️⚠️ *This Video is on Another Level of TRUTH that we needed to hear! Thank you Tony! Can you do a Video on HOW to figure out what he’s doing to Change his past dogish behaviors, Other than Asking him Outright. A guy may be Reading, Praying, meditating, going to church, not going to the club, not getting drunk or smoking etc. But how do we know it’s ENOUGH to get him to Change his pays.* ⚠️⚠️
Be Blessed.!!! Thank you Tony! Keep letting God use you man of God.!!!! 🙏
She's already starting out trashy!! What's wrong with my young and older sista's these days?
Lol I wouldn't call her trashy. She's 23, has access to A LOT of wealth and a luxurious lifestyle, ended an engagement at a Young age, she's beautiful and sees she has more options than that one guy. She's also a new face to these savages..it seem to me she's in a phase. She's partying, having fun, dating etc without responsibility. This what these socialites do. She's not in college but this how a lot of college girls do it. Unless they're more mature and responsible than the avg
Tracy G she sees she has more options but she would have did better with the best option. She is just going to get dogged but I agree she has all rights to live her best young life but I know if I could do it again I’d avoid the trials!
@@9188jenni All her riches will not save her soul when God comes to get her.
Dont follow the people in the world!
@@HK80sbabii right. Shes living her best life and even if she calls future her bf....i don't think her hearts invested, he's a toy. She don't want the best option for LIFE right now. She want someone to have fun with.
17:10 yep, 👏👏un-huh, 👏👏👏speak sir,👏👏 that's right. You got him 👺sweating and scared. We know our battle is not with flesh and blood. Our prayers are as a sweet savory to the Lord's nostrils. Your sermonettes are powerful also. I'm empowered after every video. Be blessed Tony, God is omniscient and omnipresent. 🙌🙏
OMG! I am so happy you spoke on this situation! My heart breaks every time I hear about this topic. I was one of the people who @ you several times or mentioned you name in the comments on this subject. Ms. Lori is really being busy and I pray for her healing, strength and self respect. Thank you Mr. Tony Gaskins! Be Blessed! 🙋🏾♀️🥰🌹
You rock 🎸 🎸 🎸 It's the truth!! Excellent teaching. Thank you Tony Gaskin!! Exactly!! Keep it MOVING.
Tony you are so on point with your message I love that and you're a great speaker
Be Blessed. So true
I haven’t started watching yet and I’m already anxious. I learned about this couple on Instagram and had so many questions! Excited to hear your feedback Tony!
Be Blessed, thanks Tony! God bless you and your family for impacting us.
Be blessed. Exactly. It’s important to look at character in an individual.
Be blessed! "healthy families will reconstract the earth" wow.
Ohhhhhhh....the TITLE changed!!! I was about to say this video sounds familiar 🤣🤣🤣I heard it earlier. Thanks TonyG!
Falling for the representative of a man will most certainly rock you to sleep, knock you off your square and break your heart.🎯 Check your standards & and watch their true character! 🙌🏽
Demetria Calvin nothing but facts you stated.
Demetria Calvin riiiiight people need to start waiting for people subconscious program to show up...what’s in them will show up all we have to do is wait
Jacobie Bell true. We have to give things time & be observant. We can’t let the representative fool us.
@@zealbell7817 I agree!!! Like Tony says and what we already know, keeping your legs closed will help bring the truth to the light even quicker. 🙌🏽
@@marishalewis484 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙂
Thank you so much. You have truely open my eye's.. I use to always say I wish I had a true man with a heart for God to talk to ,God blessed me to find your videos..
Be Blessed! And thank you for these videos.. I'm learning so much.. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
woo hoo, another video! Work break!
Appreciate this message Tony! Be blessed!!!
Be blessed 🙏 keep up the positive work, you are really healing me move up to the next level.
These men start cheating within a year later. It takes them no time. The woman is the one who always stay. 3-5 women later we decide we will leave. It’s so sad 😞 I’m going to say a prayer for every woman who is going through this and been through this. I pray for healing . be blessed.
Be blessed. Thank you for the advice.
Thank you for the shorter videos. Allows me to watch the same video multiple times and absorb the information subliminally while prepping for work, school, or gym.
Be blessed Tony! As always giving us that wisdom!
Brother Tony. You need your own platform. Have you considered an app? Be Blessed.❤
I think he said he has one or is getting one for cheap just to start out with for now
This is an on time word. 🙌🏽
Hey Tony! I really enjoy your videos. I've been trying to find the video on women being the weaker vessel.
Sassalee Bentley it is the balance of a relationship video. He renamed it.
He changed the name of that video from Feminine balance to Balancing Power in Relationships. (Or something along these lines lol. I noticed he changed the name of the next video after that one as well. You can tell I'm on it 🤣.)
No lies were told in this video! Not a one!
I'm here for ALL the videos ❣️
Be Blessed 🙏🏾
Be blessed!!! 🙌🏼
You're right -> Older men and their game -> they real smooth 🤔
I have too many guards though
GREAT LESSON
Be BLESSED 🤗
Great lesson! You spoke nothing but truth in this video. Be blessed! Thank you!
Thank you for this message I learned two things ❤️🙏🏿 be blessed
Be blessed
Be Blessed!! Great video Tony!! Shorter videos?! Say what nah?! Lol..I guess I understand but keep bring that knowledge!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥
be blessed!!!
ALL so true. THANK YOU. Be blessed!
You a true prophet
Often I hear we should marry who aligns, matches and mirrors our purpose define what the alignment would like
I have a younger man that is looking to get serious with me he IS successful loving kind and very good to me but he's 14 years younger? Trying to think outside of the box outside of my age group
Mr. Gaskins, you are always on point and the devil don’t like for people to know the truth I thought about that the first time your videos started glitching but truth be told still you are on point. Be blessed!!! Praying for you.