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How to tell if a guy is playing games by asking 3 questions! Part 2
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How to tell if a guy is playing games by asking 3 questions! Part 2
3 questions will help you tell if a guy is playing games! You must ask before you catch feelings for a guy or start to expect anything out of him. You need to ask these questions to figure out if a guy likes you seriously or is playing games. Women always ask me what they should be asking the new guy in their life. The point usually being to get him to open up. The problem is women are trying to get a man to open up before you qualify him. There are many things you should be asking a man that have little to do with getting to know him. Questions meant to reveal intent and the purpose he’s pursuing you. Find out what a man wants before you start liking him or giving him your attention. Women are afraid to irrigate men or make men uncomfortable by asking too many questions. Stop this. You can only scare away men who aren’t serious with questions. I have outlined 10 questions you should ask a guy before catching feelings. I talk about the first three in this video.
How to vet a guy
How to tell if he’s playing games
This is part 2 of a 3 video series. If you missed the first video go back and watch. Part 3 is now up as well.
To get one on one coaching with me go to www.girltalkwithguys.com
I appreciate the hard work you did in putting this together for the ladies...to help them navigate this dating scene good, so they can avoid wasting time with the losers, users and abusers. 👍
I love how he says , " avoidance of deep subject matters often mean he's looking for a casual time "
Very true.
Kev is giving the rule book! Also ladies,
put your mind in a “space of friendship and getting to know him “ off rip. Mistakes I made in the past was being to overly focused on making him my man instead of taking the time to see if i really like his a$$ enough to be with him. Friendship will also cut off that desperate needy energy. ❤
that's a solid advice, i already do this
Yes preach
I had a man like this. Said all the right things, said he'll never let me go and couldn't believe I'd been let go by other men. 7 months later he let me walk away. Always remember that words are pretty adornments but they're not solid ground.
I'm so glad I'm married now. I went through it with so many of these guys claiming they wanted a relationship then they'd invite me for drinks or to their place.
I remember I met a guy. I had only been single for about 7 months so I wasn't in a rush to jump and try to be in another relationship. I just wanted to get to know someone, chill, hang out, etc. I met a guy and thought we might go out and have a good time. But when the day came, all he did was invite me to his house.
@@ladylady7848 Girrrrrl I had sooooo many guys that talked relationship when we met who did that.
This is crap advice wow. I've been proposed to twice, each a 10 yr relationship that ended with integrity, just grew apart as we each grew in our own ways through the yrs. To ask these particular questions is absolutely ridiculous and completely uncomfortable for most men. Just go have flippin fun and notice if there's red flags in active living and experiences. Conversations and questions will come up naturally..this is just stupid. You can tell very quickly without this interview type crap wether someone's into you or not, they will show you and prove to you naturally, and you will have no doubt.if there is doubt, that's not your guy pfft. Simple. Poorest advice of all the many dating guru's I've watched. Who the hell wants to be hammered with questions like this. Let it happen, use your head, watch, feel. You'll know.. without shooting all this uncomfortable B.S. right off the bat🙄
@@jestubhelp7355 Some of us don't want to go out and "have fun." We are looking for men with intention to love. Also it sounds like you're for the streets.
@@analyticalchick3064 😂😂😂😂
FIRE. 🔥🔥🔥 Outstanding video! “Just because you don’t like his answer, doesn’t mean he’s a terrible guy... but he WILL be terrible FOR YOU.”
I asked these questions today and after I got the answer I threw a block party. 😮. He hadn’t loved in a long time and didn’t believe in titles. Boy bye. 😂
A block party 🥳😭😂
If he doesn’t that’s your answer. Don’t move forward blindly
Some of the best content on UA-cam! Helps us cut through the BS and avoid players. So glad Kev followed his calling…helping so many out there.
Ladies, If you haven't been paying attention...Kev is teaching you how to vet men. Like he said, the answers are cool...but you should be observing more of his reaction to the questions, how he answers it, etc.
This what we keep telling yall...to Properly vet men. I get that yall fall in love with what yall hear...we fall in love with what we see. But its become Too Easy to tell a woman EXACTLY WHAT THEY WANNA HEAR...Just To Get In Their Pants. So if yall don't like the result, then why not change the equation. Feel me? Its that simple.
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There’s no way to properly “vet” men, the FBI can’t predict behavior.. why do you think that you can? Depending on the circumstances, a person can change completely.
@@Jasmine-et4zm 🤦♂️
@@Jasmine-et4zm actually the FBI has units that does nothing but predict behavior. They did a whole TV series on it. Secondly the military also has these units. In reality behavior is very predictable, habits are just that and often ingrained with each passing year UNLESS that person engages in a painstaking effort to change themselves because they want to improve themselves. It will not happen caused he met you and might like you. Lol. I have 4 grown sons and a husband, I had a front row seat to how men think and the patterns that emerge. Kev Hicks knows what he is talking about and has the best dating advice on the internet, sis. Trust. 💯
@@DrMargoLomaxD FBI has some units of measurement to determine personality traits … but to assume they can predict future behavior… they can’t, no one can. I have been subscribed to Kev for a while and yes some of his methods work. However, the whole “this is how you vet” is a reach by far. I have 4 sons as well, and I have been married I don’t know how my antidotal experience is valid but there it is. I wish y’all all the best💕
Kev, you are the best relationship coach /counselor EVER!
I agree
Seriously I took my notebook out and I don’t even have a notebook. I had to take some notes on these last 2 videos
Wow 😯
Gold advice
@@vbrown7530 you weren't the only one. I felt like I should have paid for those last 2 videos.
I keep saying this! KEV THE BEST!
Does anybody else like the video before you even watch because you know it’s Kev Hicks and you know it’s going to be good!!😅🙌❤️
I appreciate you😊
Kev........ you are right. I had a guy who couldn't answer a straight question. It was always the run around. I knew then he wasn't serious about a relationship. He just wanted sex.
You should have said ....."dude kill yosef" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 ✌
Lol I had a guy looking very nervous. I said, "Sir, I'm not trying to trick you it's just simple questions. He said, "Yeah, but you're asking the same questions in different ways. 😒 goodbye
Kev gives great advice to many . Best of luck cause it's so easy to become jaded .
Dear Kev Hick,
I love that YOU are giving me
the education about DATING properly .
Thank YOU very much 😁
How can I attract MEN who are my type,
because I noticed the only men I have had attracting are men who are NOT my Taste ?
Sincerely yours
Christina
You’re underrated, my friend.
This video should be viral. It’s literally a playbook for us woman to go by every single time . These questions are spot on 💯. Thanks bro ❤
4. How long does it take him to love a woman?
5. How long are you willing to wait for sex for the right woman?
6. Would you be comfortable willing to wait until we love each other to have sex?
Good questions Kev. They are very telling to and about men! You can learn so much by his words and actions. It’s like that lion behind you. Be careful and mindful of yourself as prey. Proverbs 17:12: “They are like a lion hungry for prey, like a fierce lion crouching in cover.” Women, be smart and strong enough to know that men prey on the weaknesses of women. Don’t fall prey too easily.
These questions aren’t HAVE to’s, they’re want to’s. Consider these questions, if they are important to you, and add to them your own.
Don’t think of asking these questions as demystifying love. They are setting up the foundation for love to grow in a healthy manner and trajectory. There is so much more to a relationship than romantic feelings, chance and “finding the right person”. Those 3 aspects are a big part of a relationship, but so is asking the good questions that are important to you in order for you to have a better gauge on what those aspects mean to you at the beginning of and inside of a relationship. These might take some self reflection in order to even ask these questions in a healthy, self righteous way, on your end; but to find the “right person”, it has been said, you need to become the right person. So, considering these questions and what they mean to you, are a good place to start, even before you think about asking them on a date to a man.
Excellent video. Dropping gems 💎 I mean this is like the gold standard of advice. Nice job kev 💪 👏🏾
Kev, I observed that if their is weak communication or one sided, then that could mean that he will never respond to ANY of these questions. I have found myself and eventually realized that I was doing all the talking, I mean telling everything and HE shared nothing. That is a read flag. I call it talking to yourself. Lol.
Great video. I'm gonna share this w/my nieces.
I hope you'll do a series on poly relationships. It's the new "in" thing. They talk about compersion, how monogamy is unnatural and close minded, etc.
The "crappy childhood fairy" talked about it in one her videos named "romantic manipulators".
You might want to give it a look.
“Poly” is nasty af…people do “poly” when they don’t value themselves…pizza for everyone!! 😂😂🙄 how tf is monogamy “unnatural” when there are monogamous animals in nature? I hate “poly” people I swear 😂😂😂😂😂
#6 is the perfect question!
Yessss keep this topic rolllling 🔥
Outstanding information & Extremely helpful, thank you Mr. Hick.
This is so good!!!! Thank you for helping us ladies out.
Kev giving out the FACTS ✌🏻
I really like #6/ another great video
Dang Kev...He's going to think he's in an inquisition or deposition with ANOTHER 3 questions...That being said, I love the previous "title" question and the wait for sex questions. Talk about some tap dancing on those...about to be Fred Astaire reincarnated. 😅
These are different questions for a different time
@kev these are immensely useful. Thank you. please share what behavior to observe in a man during the dating phase after I am satisfied with the answers he gives to these questions
kev, watching all 3 videos tonight and so far it's on point! thank goodness my discernment got me in a good space so far. plus some trial and error over the past 2 yrs. I'm excited but nervous about the 3rd video. lol I don't have any positive male figures in my family or life and I really appreciate you and what you share.
Thank you!
This was SO good!!
I'm two months with this guy but I'm still not sure about him due to long term relationship. Yes he is good and gentle but I still observing. Just wanna know him deeper.
I don't think he will tell me but good strategy
What about the guy that says he loves you and is in love with you but all his friends in his friends list is what he calls “EYE CANDY” and he’s still “single” on all social media platforms 🤔… I have my thoughts about this but would love to hear yours Kev🙏🏾💜
He probably loves you, but into dealing with multiple women.
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Actions,, actions, actions. He can say he loves you, but do things to show me.
@@jayc5756 Facts.
No way. That is so disrespectful. And, by experience, men who are like that want you to think “he’s not hiding it. He’s being honest with me.” That’s so you think they don’t lie. And they do. I thought I was in good relationships, but the man I’m with now, would never be “friendly” with a woman in front of me and then say he’s just outgoing. What a man will do in front of your face is just a fraction of what he will do behind your back. And a ton of men will just say whatever you want to hear.
Sooooo REAL!!!!
Favorite bro I’m back lol you will not be disappointed
I appreciate the video Kevin
Kev u done help me a lot
Seriously! Why are a lot of men like this? I know they are visual..Why are some of them not serious when it comes to a relationship? Are they trying to validate their manhood? Addicted to sex? Want to feel a sense of importance to their peers by using game to hurt women for sex? What is it?
I don't want to offend you
but female liberation
it was a scam to begin with.
The thing is in the old days
if a man wanted to have sex he had to get married.
He had to give commitment in order to get that
In the sixties when women started sleeping with whoever they wanted and the use of birth control
then men did not have to work as hard to get a woman.
All in the name of female liberation
And in all in all it was a scam to get you out of your underwear
Sorry 🤷♀️
Girl...aff!
For men 'relationships' are a short way to get sex and validation in a semi-permanent fashion.
That's it! They don't care, they just care if their shallow desires are being met.
We have our nature you have yours, you need to feel safe, we need to conquer. You want a man that can provide we want a woman that looks good to us. Don't get mad at the lightning because it comes with thunder, it's the nature of man, it's not malicious. Most men are dishonest cause that's what it takes to get the cookie, you can't just ask a woman for a cookie, she will curse you out.
Thanks Kev. You’re the best. ❤
Thank you so much 💜
Gold!
What’s understood don’t have to be explain . We both grown- question #3
Not everyone is going to fall in love with all potential suitors with the same timeline.
There my lion 🦁 😍
All y’all in sexual relationships thinking it’s a real relationship More baby mamas to come
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😂😂😂 stay off yo BACK 🙏
@@alizehustle9385 they ain’t ready for this conversation‼️
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What do you think about a man who is dating multiple women and possibly sleeping with one but i just met him? I know that dating may involve talking to multiple people but I can only focus on one person at a time. When should that person stop talking to the other women?
Yuck 😝....be careful....that speak to his character
I’d immediately lose interest. I’m not interested in loose men.
@@beefaye6861 im confused because I cant ask him to only get to know me. I did stop talking to him. A lot of people say that its okay to talk to different people while dating.
You need to be discussing the expectations of what you each want for your situation. Make sure he actually wants to be in a relationship
@@beefaye6861 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
It takes me like a year to love 🤣🤣 and my boyfriend lowkey was willing to wait a long time to have sex
Hey. Kev & family
I met a man a restaurant
We talked then we gave hugs! Then he touch me
Run
can I ask these questions even if we're already having sex though?
The ones that don’t have much to do with sex
I love your courage to ask that question! You were not alone. ❤😅
These men ask for sex 3.5 seconds after the first date. 😮💨
Greattttt video Kev!!! 💯💯💯🫶🏽😊 Extremely helpful!!! 💯