You seriously are so brave. I have watched Shaytards for 8 years. You are evolving and changing into who you are meant to be. So happy for you. You are a special soul. Your messages are a gift!
What your saying is true for anxiety and panic attacks. Instead of trying to stop them, you let the panic flow through, you acknowledge it and you go with it and then it will pass. Thanks for this Katilette. I love your enthusiasm. <3
I love how willing you are to share your interpretations of things that you have read/realised. I always saw you as a wonderful person, and getting to see this side of your mind only reinforces that. You're such a bright light!
Ok. I like this Colette so much more than the studio Colette. You look so passionate and happy and SILLY!!! I love the silliness that is Katilette! Please stay this down to earth, beautiful person. So proud to see you like this again.
Yassss girl!! Needed to hear this. Can’t wait to see your next videos on healthy ways to do this and not getting frustrated and overwhelmed with everyone else and everything! The struggle is R.E.A.L right now. -K
I learned that when someone says "you're being dramatic or too sensitive" its because they are so afraid of (feelings) that they dismiss your feelings.
Colette, PLEASE write a Self help book or something along those lines. I would buy it in a heart beat. Your words and advice are so true and meaningful and i think it could really help people <3
Thank you so so much for this video. This has given me a huge wave of realization and I am now going to take your advice and feel every emotion and know that it's okay! I babysit a 2 years old and I am going to now let him feel whatever he's feeling, I'm going to let him cry and make sure he knows it's okay. This was a seriously life changing pep talk and I hope every single person who watches this follows what you're saying. I love these types of videos and you are so great with advice!
Looking forward to seeing future videos on this topic. I struggle with pushing away feelings. It sucks because I never know which version of me is going to wake up in the morning. The depressed me or the happy me. I want to be the happy me ALL the time but some days my past just gets to me.
I've learned this, too! It makes sense. I was talking to a friend about feeling in terms of grief, and she used the example of grief (or it works for fear and other feelings that are difficult) being water. So, stand in the water, the puddle, the pond, the lake; but don't let yourself drown in it. Feel the feelings and acknowledge everything they are and represent, but don't let them take over and control you. That concrete example helped me understand the abstract idea.
I'm loving your videos. They're so raw and real and relatable. You've always been amazing and awesome, but now you feel so much more relatable to me. Your videos make me feel better and just listening to you is like hanging with a good friend.
I think this is something I really needed to hear right now. I also suppress how I'm feeling based on how others might see me if I think I'm "feeling" too much, if that makes any sense. I've been working on it lately so this video had great timing! Thanks so much for taking some time to talk about that dreaded f word.
Yes, girl, YES! I was always told growing up that crying was for babies and that I was "over emotional" BUT I just felt a lot of feelings at once! Feelings aren't the bad guy! Love to hear your thoughts on this topic! Thank you for sharing your understanding and wisdom with us. Look forward to every video of yours, your energy is contagious!
Everything you've said is so true! I struggled with a new diagnosis with a disease a couple of years ago, and also dealing with the chronic disease. So much emotions have came to me the past years and I've just let myself feel those emotions. It was TOUGH, but I feel like letting myself feel those emotions have helped me become a lot more stronger than I was before. Now, I can see that I am MORE capable than I think I am. You are truly inspiring Colette!
I absolutely love your videos. I’ve watched you guys since 2009, and always enjoyed your videos. Yours have always been so fun though! Thanks for stepping out of your comfort zone and conquering some of your fears! You’re such an awesome spirit 💜
I haven't even realised that this is what I probably have to do in order to feel truly happy again and enjoy all little moments in life that are worth to appreciate and feel joyful about. I did the same thing, I was trying to suppress the feelings of failure for some of my actions in the past were not correct in my eyes and according to what I believe and stand for. Thank you Collette for talking about it! ❤
I love this! I went through a long couple of months telling myself that I’m not allowed to feel a certain way. I thought that by denying the feelings I was in control but in fact it was quite the opposite. Once I finally allowed myself to accept what I was feeling, I began to regain control and power in my own life.
You seriously are so brave. I have watched Shaytards for 8 years. You are evolving and changing into who you are meant to be. So happy for you. You are a special soul. Your messages are a gift!
What your saying is true for anxiety and panic attacks. Instead of trying to stop them, you let the panic flow through, you acknowledge it and you go with it and then it will pass. Thanks for this Katilette. I love your enthusiasm. <3
I love how willing you are to share your interpretations of things that you have read/realised. I always saw you as a wonderful person, and getting to see this side of your mind only reinforces that. You're such a bright light!
Ok. I like this Colette so much more than the studio Colette. You look so passionate and happy and SILLY!!! I love the silliness that is Katilette! Please stay this down to earth, beautiful person. So proud to see you like this again.
What you feel, you can heal. What you resist, persists.
Yassss girl!! Needed to hear this. Can’t wait to see your next videos on healthy ways to do this and not getting frustrated and overwhelmed with everyone else and everything! The struggle is R.E.A.L right now. -K
I learned that when someone says "you're being dramatic or too sensitive" its because they are so afraid of (feelings) that they dismiss your feelings.
Whoa! I needed to hear this more than I realized. Please do another video about it. I don’t care if it’s 30 minutes long....I will watch every second.
Your words speak volumes Collette!
Colette, PLEASE write a Self help book or something along those lines. I would buy it in a heart beat. Your words and advice are so true and meaningful and i think it could really help people <3
Thank you so so much for this video. This has given me a huge wave of realization and I am now going to take your advice and feel every emotion and know that it's okay! I babysit a 2 years old and I am going to now let him feel whatever he's feeling, I'm going to let him cry and make sure he knows it's okay. This was a seriously life changing pep talk and I hope every single person who watches this follows what you're saying. I love these types of videos and you are so great with advice!
Looking forward to seeing future videos on this topic. I struggle with pushing away feelings. It sucks because I never know which version of me is going to wake up in the morning. The depressed me or the happy me. I want to be the happy me ALL the time but some days my past just gets to me.
I've learned this, too! It makes sense. I was talking to a friend about feeling in terms of grief, and she used the example of grief (or it works for fear and other feelings that are difficult) being water. So, stand in the water, the puddle, the pond, the lake; but don't let yourself drown in it. Feel the feelings and acknowledge everything they are and represent, but don't let them take over and control you. That concrete example helped me understand the abstract idea.
I'm loving your videos. They're so raw and real and relatable. You've always been amazing and awesome, but now you feel so much more relatable to me. Your videos make me feel better and just listening to you is like hanging with a good friend.
I think this is something I really needed to hear right now. I also suppress how I'm feeling based on how others might see me if I think I'm "feeling" too much, if that makes any sense. I've been working on it lately so this video had great timing! Thanks so much for taking some time to talk about that dreaded f word.
Yes, girl, YES! I was always told growing up that crying was for babies and that I was "over emotional" BUT I just felt a lot of feelings at once! Feelings aren't the bad guy! Love to hear your thoughts on this topic! Thank you for sharing your understanding and wisdom with us. Look forward to every video of yours, your energy is contagious!
Everything you've said is so true! I struggled with a new diagnosis with a disease a couple of years ago, and also dealing with the chronic disease. So much emotions have came to me the past years and I've just let myself feel those emotions. It was TOUGH, but I feel like letting myself feel those emotions have helped me become a lot more stronger than I was before. Now, I can see that I am MORE capable than I think I am. You are truly inspiring Colette!
I absolutely love your videos. I’ve watched you guys since 2009, and always enjoyed your videos. Yours have always been so fun though! Thanks for stepping out of your comfort zone and conquering some of your fears! You’re such an awesome spirit 💜
I haven't even realised that this is what I probably have to do in order to feel truly happy again and enjoy all little moments in life that are worth to appreciate and feel joyful about. I did the same thing, I was trying to suppress the feelings of failure for some of my actions in the past were not correct in my eyes and according to what I believe and stand for. Thank you Collette for talking about it! ❤
I love this! I went through a long couple of months telling myself that I’m not allowed to feel a certain way. I thought that by denying the feelings I was in control but in fact it was quite the opposite. Once I finally allowed myself to accept what I was feeling, I began to regain control and power in my own life.