10 Ways to Make A Narcissist Respect You

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  • How do you make a narcissist respect you?
    You should be aware of one simple fact - narcissists don’t really respect anyone, especially in a functional sense. They can have respect for someone if it is potentially beneficial for them, but it is difficult to expect honest and authentic respect from someone who is neither honest nor authentic. What a narcissist can do is respect a person’s power, privilege, money, physical appearance, prestigious occupation, social status, unavailability - in other words, they can “respect” everything they want for themselves, except the person who possesses those things.
    Even that “respect” for superficialities other people possess is laced with envy, which is also one of the core characteristics of the narcissistic personality. In some instances, it is important that you make a narcissist “respect” you, because you might work with them, have children with them, or something similar, so you are unable to just walk away. There is still no magical cure for narcissism, so employing different strategies to make them at least pretend to respect you might sometimes be necessary.
    In today's video we show you how to command respect from a narcissist so you can take control of the relationship.
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  • @samalvarado3957
    @samalvarado3957 2 роки тому +164

    Narcissist is a fancy word for someone who is demon possessed, when you deal with them, your dealing with satan himself. Don't give them the time of day and get away from them and stay away from them forever.

    • @biancapeace2185
      @biancapeace2185 Рік тому +7

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @shkrsimpson44
      @shkrsimpson44 9 місяців тому +17

      This is a fact.

    • @GreatOldOne9866
      @GreatOldOne9866 8 місяців тому +6

      @@biancapeace2185laughing at facts I see.

    • @astroskwerl
      @astroskwerl 7 місяців тому

      i audibly groaned at your comment holy shit shutup

    • @godschildyes
      @godschildyes 7 місяців тому +14

      Spot On 100%! Don't every play any games with them! It's extremely unwise and a waste of your precious time!

  • @corinnaw3420
    @corinnaw3420 2 роки тому +724

    I prefer the permanent solution. Permanent no contact works the best.

    • @andreamelless2822
      @andreamelless2822 2 роки тому +33

      Yes NO CONTACT is best. 8 days for me, I feel free now. I didn't realize how much his pathetic life was flooding into my quiet n peaceful life. ✌🇨🇦

    • @angiejohnsson877
      @angiejohnsson877 2 роки тому +7

      I agree 100% cant even look at this low life

    • @angiejohnsson877
      @angiejohnsson877 2 роки тому +17

      @@andreamelless2822 I feel the same never gonna contact him again and let such low life ruin my peacuful life

    • @godblissfulfun
      @godblissfulfun 2 роки тому +10

      It's absolutely wise to go completely no contact unless you have no other choice but to get something done from them💯 and even in that case, be very careful💯❤

    • @suusje9383
      @suusje9383 2 роки тому +5

      Amen ❣️

  • @mbirbaamuasi
    @mbirbaamuasi 2 роки тому +243

    How about just walk away and let them know they don't deserve to be in your presence? A narcissist's respect is worth nothing.

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому +1

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help**

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️❤️*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

    • @carawe6836
      @carawe6836 2 роки тому +6

      so true

  • @hanford65
    @hanford65 Рік тому +35

    Don't defend yourself against a narcissist. Attack is the only option. Be ruthless. Know their weaknesses. Attack!

    • @user-wj7lp7ok1l
      @user-wj7lp7ok1l 22 дні тому

      Everytime they accuse you of something it’s usually a confession

  • @benreid7567
    @benreid7567 2 роки тому +515

    These people are garbage. Not worth your time and trouble. Disengage yourself from them and never look back. They will do anything to hurt you in any way they can.

    • @Icecantstoploving
      @Icecantstoploving 2 роки тому +23

      You hit it right on the nail! 🎯 My ex had all of the characteristics of a narcissist but I didn't really understand the true meaning of one. Boy was I in for a rude awakening! I have been narcissist free for 4 years now and I will never look back!

    • @benreid7567
      @benreid7567 2 роки тому +7

      @@Icecantstoploving Thanks Mate hope all is good in your life now.

    • @benreid7567
      @benreid7567 2 роки тому +6

      Over 100 likes. Thanks for your support.

    • @benreid7567
      @benreid7567 2 роки тому +11

      @Pluviophile Drops These people are actually cunning manipulative selfish abusive greedy people with such an overwhelming sense of entitlements that they will do anything to get it regardless of the cost to anyone. They cheat lie steal abuse bully and generally mistreat people and manipulate others to make you into the bad person. The reason they do this is to provide supply to their master to prove to them that they are worthy of their so called love. Usually a parent older sibling or friend.
      Yet the same people are the ones to sow strife and discord in their students apprentices lives to give them a sense of achievement to show off to their friends how clever and successful they are while all the time destroying the lives of their student protoge and their partner. Absolute garbage people.

    • @benreid7567
      @benreid7567 2 роки тому +1

      @pamanudavy sounds crazy I hope you are in a better place now.

  • @liberte...
    @liberte... 2 роки тому +407

    1. Cultivate your self esteem
    2. Let the narcissist know that u can easily leave n replace them
    3. Don't engage with them on a deeper level, engage only when they r being nice to u.
    4. Grey rock technique...go no contact r treat them lk they don't exist
    5. Calmly end the conversation if its gng no where
    6. Present urself as a high value person
    7. Don't walk on eggshells around them...if there is danger of physical violence, call for help 1st
    8. Set clear boundaries
    9. Make them work hard to earn their presence around u
    10. Play hard to get

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому +1

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too......*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help.....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again....*

    • @liberte...
      @liberte... 2 роки тому +4

      @@janetmally3377 lol..i dont think i ll need the contact number..cz i m never getting back wid someone who cd leave me for another woman..if he can do it once n u had to ask for help to get him back..dude, u r a doormat n he can very well do it agn. If that is how he treated u, that is how he sees u. Trust me,the moment he sees smthing fresh n better, he ll want to ditch u agn. He clearly came back jus to play u agn. The thing is he cheated on the other girl too to get back to u. I would love my solitude over wanting a cheater to return. I know i might be triggering u. I hope u dont get hurt agn sis😘 plz tc of urself, cz i dont believe that guy can. Lots of love. If u r truly happy, then i hope u stay happy. Tc❣

    • @sylviaking8866
      @sylviaking8866 2 роки тому +46

      Screw all that. Get away from them and go no contact. These vile people are not worth your time of day. They are totally destructive and will take you down with them.

  • @Chrysalis990
    @Chrysalis990 2 роки тому +472

    Narcissist's respect is not real healthy respect. If you need a narcissist to respect you, you still have healing to do. Trying to gain a narcissists respect is complete supply to them.

    • @bluebirdwing6021
      @bluebirdwing6021 2 роки тому +7

      Amen!!!!!!!!!

    • @elcee7800
      @elcee7800 2 роки тому +6

      And if a narcissist “respects” an empath (which just doesn’t happen) the empath would have to reciprocate the respect. Like putting same ends of magnets together, impossible.

    • @nitakalisingh9445
      @nitakalisingh9445 2 роки тому +11

      RESPECT A NARCISSIST????
      THIS CAN NOT!!
      YOU CAN BETTER WALK AWAY FROM THEM!!
      YOU CANT CHANGE THEM!!

    • @Chrysalis990
      @Chrysalis990 2 роки тому +8

      @@N8TVTripper I walk away. I don't waste my time playing games but I will expose them if they go to far.

    • @alinaa641
      @alinaa641 2 роки тому +16

      Yeah, but what if, like the video says, you happen to work with them or you're in an environment you can't really walk away. It's useful to know a few tips in order to keep things smooth and protect yourself. This isn't about respect per se, it's about protecting yourself

  • @christanom7484
    @christanom7484 2 роки тому +40

    Not worth the trouble.. just run.

  • @vintagebabyseventythree6244
    @vintagebabyseventythree6244 2 роки тому +270

    Why would you want the respect of somebody who doesn’t deserve yours?

    • @loverofthelostnarc
      @loverofthelostnarc 2 роки тому +7

      True they don't deserve respect at all.

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help**

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️❤️*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @farfetched9296
    @farfetched9296 2 роки тому +113

    Best way to deal with a narc is to be unavailable always say no and again be unavailable sooner or later they'll get bored and fly away on their broom to someone else

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help**

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️❤️*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @issaaliyla4890
    @issaaliyla4890 2 роки тому +333

    I really don’t care for narcissists, and I’m not finna “act” conceited or very confident just for them to “temporarily” respect me. 🤨 they can move tf out my way, miserably.

    • @joemann7971
      @joemann7971 2 роки тому +46

      You basically have to be a narcissist for them to respect you. I've noticed many narcissists like other narcissists. It's pretty sick.

    • @brandongietzen898
      @brandongietzen898 2 роки тому +6

      The point of the video is not temporary respect it is to have the knowledge to control any situation you may find yourself in... so by acting like you are above participating in psychological warfare with other people you're only making yourself weaker! good morning no more power 🧐🤏

    • @issaaliyla4890
      @issaaliyla4890 2 роки тому +7

      @@brandongietzen898 I understood the assignment, and to be 100% clear. It is about making them temporarily respect you, imo. And you must’ve not understood what I said. I said I’m NOT finna “ACT” conceited or confident just for me to have control of a situation when I’ll just happily leave.👌🏾🚪

    • @Dynamic_heart
      @Dynamic_heart 2 роки тому +5

      I Agree. You nailed it. 💫

    • @lindamaddox828
      @lindamaddox828 2 роки тому +10

      @@joemann7971
      Narcissists deserve each other. Water does seeks its own level.

  • @buildingshousesinteriordes8980
    @buildingshousesinteriordes8980 2 роки тому +195

    It is a waste of time trying to make a narcissist respect you. A person is only supply, a game, to use, abuse and manipulate is the way the narcissist think. Their temporary fake kindness is not worth putting yourself through their manipulation, games and abuse. They will hurt you worse than before. Go no contact.

    • @nancykesy3272
      @nancykesy3272 Рік тому +1

      Amen!

    • @lesleybrown1583
      @lesleybrown1583 Рік тому +1

      TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @jomonart2140
      @jomonart2140 Рік тому +1

      to really rub a narc the wrong way, go grey stone first, and when they play coy and innocent, then strip away all vestiges of human contact so they may stare into the vast chasm of their own emptiness

    • @achu148
      @achu148 Рік тому

      If it's parents it's useful

    • @jayangli
      @jayangli Рік тому +2

      You can’t make a narcissistic person change..

  • @scottiebones
    @scottiebones 2 роки тому +28

    I've dated one for years, they will emotionally abuse you and push your sanity to its limits. They are emotional black holes that will suck you dry, educate yourself to avoid these types, as they will ruin your life.

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому +1

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @starseed8809
    @starseed8809 2 роки тому +31

    Don't encourage to put up with narcs. They don't change. It's best to run 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too.....*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help......*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

    • @buildingshousesinteriordes8980
      @buildingshousesinteriordes8980 Рік тому

      Correct they don't change. They become worse. Encouraging someone to put up with a narc is only setting the person up to be hurt, manipulated, being supply and abused by the narc. They careless how they make a person feel. The best way to deal with a narc is to leave them alone, No Contact!

  • @Agnet_Faze
    @Agnet_Faze 2 роки тому +183

    The only thing I find appropriate to do with narcissists is stay away from them and don't get involved into their drama and manipulation...I wouldn't even want to hang out with them at all because staying around them itself is too draining...

    • @hard2start427
      @hard2start427 2 роки тому +11

      they always gossiping (talking shit) on someone

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @chrissimpson6701
    @chrissimpson6701 2 роки тому +48

    Parents and Sister: Hardcore, cold, narcissitic. I'm done.

    • @miriamhavard7621
      @miriamhavard7621 2 роки тому +1

      💗

    • @trexkumar3339
      @trexkumar3339 2 роки тому +3

      yes i can relate ! chronic.

    • @dpistoltube
      @dpistoltube 2 роки тому

      My hubby, Mil and the brother ...

    • @barbaramarshall5271
      @barbaramarshall5271 2 роки тому +1

      Oh I feel you, my mum is a narc and is literally off with the fairies, squirrels and nuts. It's no contact for my kids and I as well, she seriously needs help.

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

  • @christinas5990
    @christinas5990 2 роки тому +278

    Just don't react emotionally when they are trying to trigger you,so they can control you and remove yourself away from them as soon as possible. You don't need their respect, they have to understand that they have problem.

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too.....*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help......*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

    • @gargoyliangaming6556
      @gargoyliangaming6556 2 роки тому

      @Christina Boom 💥 💥 💥

    • @RT-nv4pn
      @RT-nv4pn Рік тому

      @@malenasteeve825 spam

  • @garycordle5295
    @garycordle5295 2 роки тому +5

    I could careless about their respect, remember this hurt people hurt people observe not absorb, respect yourself and walk away and go no contact 👍

  • @carlos.cr.7139
    @carlos.cr.7139 2 роки тому +31

    My most draining experience in the workplace has been with a narcissist. I watch these videos in hope to handle myself in the most emotionally intelligent manner in case I run into someone like that again.

  • @michaelbelcher2041
    @michaelbelcher2041 Рік тому +14

    I believe there is no solution. I don’t want a relationship where I have to act one way(not who I am, or want to be)to get respect from a person. I love this person, and I think she loves me in her way. It’s sad, because it could have been a special relationship. After 11 years of trying, I’m starting to realize this. 😔

    • @craigy691
      @craigy691 8 місяців тому

      12 years I had mate with a young child she’s discarded me so I’ve walked away moved out put house up for sale files for divorce and went no contact she’s been doing this to me for years and I’ve had enough I deserve better and will get better

  • @MrDaft909punk
    @MrDaft909punk 2 роки тому +117

    Basically narcissist are grown children....
    Who always had their way or couldn't get there way as a child, only to see the advantage as an adult....hmmmmm interesting

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @mihaelaclaudiap..2
    @mihaelaclaudiap..2 2 роки тому +178

    Narcissistic personality disorder is named for Narcissus, from Greek mythology, who fell in love with his own reflection. Freud used the term to describe persons who were self-absorbed, and psychoanalysts have focused on the narcissist's need to bolster his or her self-esteem through grandiose fantasy, exaggerated ambition, exhibitionism, and feelings of entitlement.

    • @pnutbuttababi24
      @pnutbuttababi24 2 роки тому +13

      They thought they were the best because their ego has always been feed with bs and when they finally loom in the mirror they see the disgusting person they are. They then have to build themselves up again with all that same bs because that's all they know. They're stuck in a their own dirty cycles. They try to suck up and throw out everything they can. Dirty nasty hurricanes.

    • @lindamaddox828
      @lindamaddox828 2 роки тому +7

      Mihaela:
      Another prominent psychoanalyst said the flip side of grandiosity is inferiority. Want to send a narc packing in a hurry?
      Find their weak spots and make just a few casual comments about them. They have serious hang-ups that they try very hard to conceal. Keep quiet, listen closely, you'll discover their achilles 👠heel They'll reveal everything you need to know about themselves without even realizing it.

    • @Missy_561
      @Missy_561 2 роки тому +1

      Didn't know that learned something new

    • @alayla3281
      @alayla3281 2 роки тому

      i think this person i've been with has lied about being a heroe solider and his medals. He tells everyone the same stories I think they are all lies and could even been illegal

    • @alayla3281
      @alayla3281 2 роки тому +1

      @@lindamaddox828 how about that he can't really have real sex (only with himself). or that his medals from the military are probably fake?

  • @SamanthaBellerson
    @SamanthaBellerson 2 роки тому +88

    Why in the world would you want the respect of a narcissist? That idea is amazingly bad for mental health. Respect yourself and forget what others think!

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

    • @grae7571
      @grae7571 Рік тому +1

      So very true. Thanks for the comment!

  • @divineaffinities991
    @divineaffinities991 2 роки тому +57

    Physically present mentally absent is the best way to deal with narcissists.... Mentally disconnected though physically present! In-depth info👍👍

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too***

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help***

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️ ❤️*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again

    • @Ksyed7124
      @Ksyed7124 2 роки тому

      My narc sister broke my relationship by texting some bad words to my gf from my mobile as me and she blocked me

  • @ammy4890
    @ammy4890 2 роки тому +64

    Going no contact is the only solution. Imagine dealing with a narc person and also psychopath. May God help us

    • @tcbcmoto4895
      @tcbcmoto4895 2 роки тому +1

      Very true God bless us all 🙏

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому +1

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too......*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help.....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again....*

    • @victoriavictoria3941
      @victoriavictoria3941 2 роки тому +1

      Psychopaths are already narcissists....

  • @christinethornhill
    @christinethornhill 2 роки тому +18

    Beware of the unexpected and overwhelming amounts of very intense praise, compliments and too much affection shown by an otherwise ‘new’ friend’ …. They will eventually rip out your heart and possibly also drag your reputation down in front of others, should you expose them as narcissists, once you’ve realised the truth. It’s Hell .

    • @automatonlabs7841
      @automatonlabs7841 Рік тому +4

      Had that happened to me, now I am putting pieces of my life back together...

    • @christinethornhill
      @christinethornhill Рік тому +1

      @@automatonlabs7841
      I wish you well, dear friend. Be strong ! 😊

    • @automatonlabs7841
      @automatonlabs7841 Рік тому +1

      @@christinethornhill Oh, thank you for support. I wish the best to you too

  • @truthh8597
    @truthh8597 2 роки тому +26

    Their respect is just not respect. Frankly I’m on some level terrified of their ‘respect’. They will ‘respect’ you when they envy you.. and then their jealousy monster will come out to make you miserable. They’ll try to take and steal everything you earned not so they can have it but so they can just sadistically smirk at your misery because how dare you outdo them or have something they can’t possess.

    • @MarketingByMike
      @MarketingByMike 2 роки тому

      I had an incident with in law were they kicked my wifes dog and i confronted them. They claimed its there hkuse and can come outside anytime he wants. I said yea but not kick dog. He tried and claim the house again and i was like no thats animal abuse and against the law. He got quite and had the deer in the head lights look. He was like i can come out whenever he wants. I was like whatever and walked away. He mumbled something andvi raced to the door and my momentum pushed me forward and feel on him. We were going to fight when wife broke it up. He tried to play the victim and told him dont come near by dogs. He gave the whole family the silent treatment for 4 months.

  • @misamisa2677
    @misamisa2677 2 роки тому +56

    Forget about anyone owing you an apology because even those are false many times by anyone!!!
    Move on take strength to show your true nature of self empowerment for yourself!!!
    loosing means winning many many times in toxic anything

  • @minella4105
    @minella4105 2 роки тому +57

    For me number one worked in reverse. I had high self esteem when we met, it was torn down over time. Trying to reverse the damage done and find my value again. No matter what I've done, said, or didn't do or say, it was never enough. We don't speak often now, and its normally only when he wants something. I steer it back to our son and leave it there, cutting down on the bull shit.

    • @ts7814
      @ts7814 2 роки тому

      Please do not give him more than he can handle. No one needs to deal with this stuff

    • @missmonkeymind708
      @missmonkeymind708 2 роки тому +5

      that's what they do, that is their goal, steal your energy/ confidence/ self worth and trust in yourself from you

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️*

  • @kingsoren2010
    @kingsoren2010 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you, it's been almost 2 years since I left from my ex-Nar. This video is exactly how he is. A week ago, he called, when I said hello, he hung up on me and didn't call back. I think he was testing to see if I still had his number, or hadn't blocked him. Well, I have blocked and deleted his number. Life is too precious to let anyone control you and make you miserable.

  • @HardyBunster
    @HardyBunster Рік тому +11

    I want a narcissist to hate me. Then I know I’m doing something right. I love it when I make them lose it. Once a narcissist always a narcissist, they can’t be trusted no matter how they fake their behaviours.

  • @errickflesch5565
    @errickflesch5565 2 роки тому +27

    I would love to tell my 85 year old mother (In a kind non bitter or resentful way) the "truth" about her narcissism, and how it had deeply affected everyone around her......hurting and destroying peoples lives. But I can't. She will never see "it" or admit or even be receptive and open minded.

    • @lisadiconti
      @lisadiconti 2 роки тому +6

      Yes. Don't do it. She won't own up to it, and you'll be disappointed.

    • @impreciousnhissight
      @impreciousnhissight 2 роки тому +3

      Someone showed me a clip of "Butters" in South Park finallt standing up to his bully grandmother. Can't really say it was funny but sadly, a good demo on how to let even elderly people you're not taking their stuff anymore

  • @kanta32100
    @kanta32100 2 роки тому +87

    Narcissists just want to win, let them. Everything is competition for them, even a conversation. Just agree with them and they will leave you alone.

    • @vacheriedevacherie1959
      @vacheriedevacherie1959 2 роки тому

      Someone can be stubborn without being a narcissist, careful who you target as such.

    • @sanasial8456
      @sanasial8456 2 роки тому +3

      I married to a narcissist who made my life hell , after almost 2 years I have divorced, I have a son of 9 months old n he took my son with him , he constantly betrayed me n I was a fool who thought he will change with the passage of time , he got married again right after the 2nd day of divorce n was having an affair with that girl n I was unawared of all this shit ! He drained everything out of my leaving me behind with question why I was not enough for him? I did everything to make him happy I always sacrificed my self respect infront of him n I just regret now y i did so much for him who was not worth of even my hate !

    • @sunrise7244
      @sunrise7244 2 роки тому +9

      “Stubborn” that is a nice way to enable narcissistic behavior and allow verbal and emotional abuse. Enablers be careful of the words like stubborn to justify unacceptable abusive invalidating and manipulative behavior. Different words but they all cause the same damage on their victims. Praying for more narcissist awareness and law protection for the victims. 🙏🏻

    • @vacheriedevacherie1959
      @vacheriedevacherie1959 2 роки тому +1

      @@sunrise7244 not all stubborn people are narcissists, get over yourself.

    • @victoriavictoria3941
      @victoriavictoria3941 2 роки тому +1

      Hahahaaaaa you don t know them!

  • @unased21
    @unased21 2 роки тому +22

    one OF the best video on NPD I came to realize that they are everywhere and somehow whether you like it or not they will impulsively enter your private space just to get what they want.

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too***

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help***

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️❤️*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again**

  • @tigalbaby
    @tigalbaby 2 роки тому +26

    Here’s the problem as I see it . The narcissist knows your vulnerabilities , sensitivities , and emotional weaknesses because if he / she lives with you , your guard is usually not up most of the time. Slowly she begins to manipulate your weaknesses to get her way . After a while you begin to think that being abused is a most normal state. You begin to think that your job on earth is to serve the needs of others and you feel guilty for looking after your own needs. When you realize that you have been conned , the narcissist makes you think it’s your own fault….. you did all those things on your own … I had little to do with your choices she reasons. To leave a narcissist requires a great deal of introspection and wrenching soul searching . But it can be done . I have lived with one for 35 years . Yes that’s right ! and I have finally summoned the courage to file for divorce. Soon I will be free. You have one life and it belongs to you . Don’t let the manipulator steal your most precious possession .

    • @hugoarroyo6485
      @hugoarroyo6485 Рік тому +1

      Damn I feel trapped for 22 years with a narc. I m probably gonna end up doing what tou did

    • @craigy691
      @craigy691 8 місяців тому +1

      12 years with one and she’s turned round and discarded me saying she’s been living a lie and doesn’t love me anymore while we where just watching a film and come back from a holiday I feel
      Sorry for our child but I’ve moved out and gone no contact using a 3rd person to communicate over our child run and don’t look back

  • @carolmaz8675
    @carolmaz8675 2 роки тому +15

    Dating or marrying a narcissist is like buying a house with shit foundations sooner or later it will crumble . It’s a certainty not a possibility ..

  • @wintermatherne2524
    @wintermatherne2524 2 роки тому +12

    I don't need their respect, but sometimes its fun to experiment on them as they are so predictable and easy to manipulate.

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @misty9376
    @misty9376 2 роки тому +31

    They will never respect anyone! Doesn't matter what you do!

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help**

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️❤️*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @judithparker4608
    @judithparker4608 Рік тому +1

    The Higher The Target The More Covert The Abuse !!!!

  • @swallenjafari5974
    @swallenjafari5974 2 роки тому +6

    That’s why I’m single.
    That’s why I save my money since I was 14
    I rather to DIE IN THE STREETS instead of being with another narcissist. I don’t care if I LOVE them or even they are my best friends and family.
    F them.
    Keep yourself safe.

  • @jaDOREbella23
    @jaDOREbella23 2 роки тому +34

    they don’t respect themselves how can they respect anyone else

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @lilqt3281
    @lilqt3281 2 роки тому +33

    Seems like a lot of hard work. Just leave them, they aren’t worthy of you time!

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too......*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help.....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️ ❤️*

  • @nancyleddy5449
    @nancyleddy5449 2 роки тому +17

    I’m getting stronger and stronger and I want to thank you

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too......*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help.....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again.....*

  • @amitdrive
    @amitdrive Рік тому +2

    I don't want a narcissist to respect me, I want that person to be afraid of me, afraid of the consequences that will happen if they cross the line, and daring them to cross it

  • @reneesoli5345
    @reneesoli5345 2 роки тому +67

    Why bother with them at all? They aren't that fun.

    • @bridgetmenham6686
      @bridgetmenham6686 2 роки тому +4

      Yes they are boring cause thier using you to have your friends on thier side Using you for parties A sofa to sleep on A hot meal A shower for them to look all nice for another conquest and they put people down or you down in front of others They cause drama .and it all gets very boring on the end cause when thier being nice they are only mirrorisng you ..The list goes on .Thier just empty souls and Where's the fun in that???

    • @rodrigodasilva9176
      @rodrigodasilva9176 2 роки тому +2

      They are not fun at all.

    • @rayankhan2576
      @rayankhan2576 2 роки тому

      all they do is use people 🥲

    • @pickles9440
      @pickles9440 2 роки тому

      Pathetic they are, really.

    • @henahree6646
      @henahree6646 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

  • @Marchelette
    @Marchelette 2 роки тому +8

    I like 👍🏾 the video especially the last part on “how much their respect ✊🏿 is worth to you?” These people are trash 🗑. I’ve dealt with narcissist and these people are evil 👿 to me. I believe they are little demons walking on earth 🌍. My goal is to not engage with them or set very strict boundaries around them.

  • @rockyk9316
    @rockyk9316 2 роки тому +41

    I wish I knew before who I live with. I thought it is repairable; apparently it's not. Supported husband throughout his carrier, raising children and trying to build mine. We blind when we love

    • @henahree6646
      @henahree6646 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

    • @henahree6646
      @henahree6646 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help**

    • @henahree6646
      @henahree6646 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️❤️*

    • @henahree6646
      @henahree6646 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @solxochitl5533
    @solxochitl5533 2 роки тому +23

    I can't wait to do this when I go back home to my Narc husband... The tables are gonna turn now ... That's my house I'm Queen of my castle , I'm getting it back and it's gonna Urrk the hell out of him

    • @alasancham7483
      @alasancham7483 2 роки тому +5

      You need to get out as soon as possible, for your own sanity

    • @joycemorales6037
      @joycemorales6037 2 роки тому

      I can refer you to the great and powerful spiritualist who helped me got my Ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can also help you and bless you abundantly with spiritual powers❤

    • @joycemorales6037
      @joycemorales6037 2 роки тому

      Whatapp him,,

    • @joycemorales6037
      @joycemorales6037 2 роки тому

      +1, 478, 241, 0387.,

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

  • @ingenuity168
    @ingenuity168 2 роки тому +19

    Leave if you can, if not, don't give them love, sympathy or kindness.

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too.....*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help......*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️ ❤️*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

    • @buildingshousesinteriordes8980
      @buildingshousesinteriordes8980 Рік тому

      I agree leave and have no contact. Giving them love, sympathy or kindness is only giving them another chance to hurt, manipulate, use and abuse a person. They have no love, sympathy or kindness to give in return, they do not care about anyone only control and manipulation.

  • @ranissujatha7270
    @ranissujatha7270 2 роки тому +3

    I agree 💯 %. No need to try anything. Walk away from them! Not worth the trouble.

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too......*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help.....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️ ❤️*

    • @buildingshousesinteriordes8980
      @buildingshousesinteriordes8980 Рік тому

      No contact with them is the best way to deal with a narcissist, They careless about respect, kindness and love. They care about manipulation, control, lies, and abuse.

  • @bettesmith9852
    @bettesmith9852 2 роки тому +21

    Great accurate video! Be a narcissist yourself--it works on the average narcissist!

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @candyINdecay
    @candyINdecay 2 роки тому +1

    Evendo your not insecure. It's only more feel for them to hurt you. Just stay away from them. Evendo they can be fun for you.

  • @yahawadayathisrael2725
    @yahawadayathisrael2725 2 роки тому +13

    Too much work for someone who inevitably TURNS on you...... they can't control their spirit

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @maxthereof
    @maxthereof 2 роки тому +4

    This is the most clear, informative, practical, and straightforward video about narcissists that I have seen and I've seen a lot because of my ex wife/baby momma I'm constantly competing with.

  • @oliverabrajanovska9610
    @oliverabrajanovska9610 2 роки тому +105

    It’s not worth the time, the energy, the thoughts or what ever. Because they can’t change and they’ll loose the respect anyway - sooner or later. And the “game” can start over and over again.
    Don’t let be a doormat to them and surround you only with other people who appreciate and respect you and like being close to you and enjoy your company 😁

    • @geegeecook5063
      @geegeecook5063 2 роки тому +5

      Absolutely agree with you...

    • @aaroncorley6343
      @aaroncorley6343 2 роки тому +3

      Right on

    • @edibeedee
      @edibeedee 2 роки тому +6

      I agree with you on everything except it's not that they can't change, they don't want to change. They know exactly what they are doing and they choose not to change. My narc brother told me flat out that he wasn't going to change!

    • @brownskin5373
      @brownskin5373 2 роки тому

      @@edibeedee i totally agree with you ✅

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

  • @jaguarrspirit1461
    @jaguarrspirit1461 2 роки тому +3

    This is so so accurate. I have a couple of decades worth of experience with this type of individual.

  • @Michael_RareZebra
    @Michael_RareZebra 2 роки тому +2

    Pro tip.....avoiding them is best.

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help**

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️❤️*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again**

  • @traumacatmama
    @traumacatmama Рік тому +2

    These are All really good except the one where I need to speak an entire sentence about how I’m not gonna accept all those things… if he doesn’t like what I’m saying he will speak over me loudly to yelling until he silenced me completely but I have recently been learning grey rock and this worked instantly and was so satisfying!!! Not trying to stay just trying to get through each day as I desperately search for a way out…

  • @johngarcia2374
    @johngarcia2374 2 роки тому +43

    So basically avoid them haha. This sounds like playing a game that's sort of a waste of time.

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too.....*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help......*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️ ❤️*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @happycat0411
    @happycat0411 2 роки тому +18

    When the narcissist breaks the law (under any circumstance whatsoever) get the local police involved. Why? This way the narcissist knows you mean business and their name is now in the police files permanently.

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help**

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again**

  • @AF-uc2bd
    @AF-uc2bd 2 роки тому +14

    No chance someone who doesn't truly respect himself cannot respect others. All the respect or love you have towards yourself they see as the tricks and you as just wanting to be hard to get. They believe they are so amazing that no one can resist them.

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help**

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @Crystal_G_1989
    @Crystal_G_1989 Рік тому +1

    This is true Narcissist are hesitate or afraid to attack people with high self-esteem, they rather like to attacl people with low-self esteem because they want to control that people and it feels good to them they enjoy people seeing slowly loses their self-esteem, I observed this coz Narcissism is present in our family dynamics and i can easily spot them in my workplace... The most important to do is not to loss your self-esteem...

  • @miaestelle3042
    @miaestelle3042 2 роки тому +31

    My mother is like this. She seeks attention to go on about herself. When I need to say something she’s busy on Facebook facing me with her back. I literally asked her “did your mother show her back to you when you tried to make a conversation with her?” It was like a slap on the face for her. So if a narcissist is acting disrespectful the best thing to do is sharply point it out at that moment. Trust me they’ll be embarrassed. Be sarcastic. If they turn up with a phone when you try to talk just say “oh mr/miss celebrity do I need to make an appointment to talk to you?” Say something to slam their ego because they have respect for nobody. Even the ones that don’t know you “respect” you in a manner that ain’t real, it’s more for a show to get your attention. They don’t even respect themselves, how can you expect respect from someone who doesn’t respect themselves? Honestly don’t even try.

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

    • @LaBelleJouJou
      @LaBelleJouJou 2 роки тому +2

      I’ve noticed that narcissists will compete with your kindness to get attention when in a group

  • @sallyclay1974
    @sallyclay1974 Рік тому +4

    The way to get along with a narcissist , is to not lean on that person, be independent, dont be clingy, have your own money, dont pester that person, for things U have to take care of , and don't whine about your problems

  • @lncarnold
    @lncarnold 2 роки тому +3

    I now realize that there are more narcissist in my life than I thought. A relative that never lets me talk about why I called in the first place, then turns it around to them. Thinks the details of their day is more important than why I may be upset about mine…I called first….wow.

  • @6anonymous9.
    @6anonymous9. 2 роки тому +26

    You dont deal with a narcissist. Simple as that. All of these tactics in video is useless as it underestimate people who practice manipulation tactics since they are young, and without any empathy, these manipulation tactics is much more lethal, especially on people who have more empathy.

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too.....*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help......*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️ ❤️*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @judynyarangi6996
    @judynyarangi6996 2 роки тому +1

    Narcists and respect are great enemies.... Be aware

  • @SB-ln2dj
    @SB-ln2dj 2 роки тому +9

    This is excellent advice for anyone in a close relationship with a narcissist.

  • @uncleclaw171
    @uncleclaw171 2 роки тому +117

    Yeah, a narc's "respect" isnt even worth the effort, unless you're stuck in a situation like being the child of a narc - in which case you leave when 18 or pursue EMANCIPATION earlier. If you're the spouse of a narc and have kids, yes its difficult, but you CAN leave and the relationship will likely end in a bad way anyway -- better it ends on YOUR terms and timing.

    • @elcee7800
      @elcee7800 2 роки тому +17

      I pity people who have children and stuck with a thing like this in their lives. All I can say is enhance the positives and eliminate the negatives. Gradually, little by little, quietly and anonymously build up your new little kingdom.
      The Lord be with you.

    • @uncleclaw171
      @uncleclaw171 2 роки тому +8

      @Saluma סאלומה - perhaps so... but doing it on your own timing, and therefore being prepared (having a plan ahead of time, a new place set up, etc) is better than being caught off guard.

    • @uncleclaw171
      @uncleclaw171 2 роки тому +8

      @Fred the Fish with that attitude you will definitely have your self-fulfilling prophesy.
      Ever hear of room-mates? I had a similar situation and there was also a deep recession when I was 18. Except I was kicked out of the house, blamed for something that never even happened.
      I stayed on a friend's sofa at first (for several weeks)... meanwhile ran ads in newspapers for freelance work -- painting and wallpaper, yard work, odd jobs, later worked at a variety store stocking shelves, worked as a gopher in construction, etc. Eventually took a commission-only sales job -- turned out out i was good at it and made money to get my own place. The world isnt going to come knocking on your door kiddo. You got to be a go-getter.

    • @coreyanderson1457
      @coreyanderson1457 2 роки тому +5

      Just be careful. Make good decisions and don't tell anyone, except someone who will NOT tell the narc.

    • @henahree6646
      @henahree6646 2 роки тому +1

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

  • @vivianherrera6003
    @vivianherrera6003 2 роки тому +2

    I’ve dealt with this behavior @ home fo too long. Breaking patterns is difficult when so close from home but it’s not impossible.

  • @crabbycreates2943
    @crabbycreates2943 Рік тому +1

    Wow! Interesting stuff. I'm 73 and I think I must have encountered thousands of narcissists through the years. Maybe I'm one myself sometimes. All I've learned is that it's best to show others that I'm willing and able to fight back if necessary.

  • @kennethkunz2449
    @kennethkunz2449 2 роки тому +3

    This was really, really, really well-thought-out and presented - thank you!

  • @ladybird8375
    @ladybird8375 2 роки тому +3

    Toxic people are very exhausting. Best thing to do is to focus on your own life and interests and mentally block them out and ignore them.

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @rmcd823
    @rmcd823 2 роки тому +2

    1. Cultivate your self-esteem
    2. Let the narc know that you can easily leave and replace them. Create opportunities for you
    3. Don’t engage with them in a deeper level. Limit your emotions and your available time with them. Limited engagement
    4. The grey rock technique. Remove yourself if you are gaslighted
    5. If you are not listened to, calmly end the conversation
    6. Present yourself as a higher status person. The respect won’t last and they may envy you
    7. Don’t walk on eggshells. Make disclaimers. They resent people that walk on eggshells around them
    8. Set clear boundaries so they won’t control or manipulate you
    9. Make the work hard to be in your presence. Make them see you have plenty of supply
    10. Play hard to get. They are interested in people they don’t have or can’t have

  • @loverofthelostnarc
    @loverofthelostnarc 2 роки тому +7

    First of all thanks a lot. Of all the other UA-cam videos I have seen on narcissism, this one has hit the bullseye, you have explained everything in one go and I have subscribed your channel.

    • @PsychologyElement
      @PsychologyElement  2 роки тому

      We're happy to hear that. Thank you so much for subscribing.

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help**

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️❤️*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again**

  • @rosenmukumbu7278
    @rosenmukumbu7278 2 роки тому +19

    This is so accurate and it aptly describes the person in my life right now.
    🎸Am walking, am walking, am walking 🎤🎸

    • @charlottemuller2233
      @charlottemuller2233 2 роки тому +3

      Amen…the evil will fall away!

    • @rosenmukumbu7278
      @rosenmukumbu7278 2 роки тому +5

      @@charlottemuller2233 as soon as I took that step, it started falling away...and then the love bombing came and I didn't fall for that little act by them

    • @notperfect2440
      @notperfect2440 2 роки тому

      Run! Don't walk!

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @malenasteeve825
      @malenasteeve825 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

  • @charlottemuller2233
    @charlottemuller2233 2 роки тому +7

    They have no filter!! There dead inside.Just want attention all the time!!

  • @vuyisekaluphuzi8249
    @vuyisekaluphuzi8249 2 роки тому +2

    Makes sense for the guys who fall for the worst people and fall out of love with people they feel are "too nice".
    Makes sense why my boyfriend whom I'm trying to get rid of. Seemed to admire me because I checked out when he went on his moments of grandiosity. He'd literally ask me to pay attention to what he was saying. And when he spoke no sense and seemed to want to drive a conversation to his own direction I'd just stop engaging or walked away. Had no times for it. Still do not. I just ignored him. Got no reaction from me with his lies and tricks. Even when he told an obvious lie I'd just say ok and go with the flow. Maybe he found me exciting because I have my own tendencies of being emotionally unavailable to people that feel wrong to me. He felt wrong.

  • @jack42011
    @jack42011 2 роки тому +2

    Wow!
    Knocked for a loop.
    Describes the last 22 years of my life.
    Didn’t recognize the narcissist
    Married her
    3 weeks ago, 23 yrs later free at last
    She acted normal the first year…

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help**

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again**

    • @jack42011
      @jack42011 2 роки тому +1

      Why would you want to be with someone who did that to you???
      Grow up

  • @SassyyjuicyMaria
    @SassyyjuicyMaria 2 роки тому +10

    And why would anyone want to do that????
    To begin with, they don't really respect anyone
    you can try setting boundaries but they'll likely
    trample over them. Consequences is the only
    thing that works. Be ruthless in making them
    deal with the consequences of their actions.
    But the best approach is to go full No Contact

    • @a.n2675
      @a.n2675 2 роки тому

      Hmm if you have children with one..?!

  • @johncarlrubiales8078
    @johncarlrubiales8078 2 роки тому +10

    Whatever it is..just run

  • @ianmillar1139
    @ianmillar1139 Рік тому +2

    Walk away from a narcissist. You don't want to try and win their respect because it will be fake.

  • @cfemery12w
    @cfemery12w 2 роки тому +54

    Wanna make a narcisstic person respect you.
    First: Leave. And never look back.
    This video is nothing but how to stay linked to the chains of suffering.
    Your choice should never be to engage in a battle they live their life for.

    • @cfemery12w
      @cfemery12w 2 роки тому

      I struggle myself.

    • @kimmann4210
      @kimmann4210 2 роки тому +2

      Yes!!!

    • @cfemery12w
      @cfemery12w 2 роки тому

      @@kimmann4210 ??

    • @LaciRae
      @LaciRae 2 роки тому +2

      sometimes you have to. like if you two have a kid together.

    • @automatonlabs7841
      @automatonlabs7841 Рік тому +1

      But, when you have children with them, its impossible to have permanent no contact, without doing harm to chilren

  • @janetstonerook4552
    @janetstonerook4552 2 роки тому +3

    Telling a narcissist anything about respecting you is a total waste of time!
    Why bother? Go gray rock and no contact ....forever!!!

  • @Guardia.168
    @Guardia.168 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks God and you a lot i am hurt and painful so much for the long time by the family members and other relationships that comes from the bad narcissistic personality. If only I have learnt this lessons much earlier. 🙏

  • @prijevodib2139
    @prijevodib2139 Рік тому

    Living in constant competition. Poor narcissists, they are in for a lot of pain.

  • @user-gn2qp4zl5q
    @user-gn2qp4zl5q 2 роки тому

    the most perfect video I've ever watched about how to treat with narcissists!
    thanks alot

  • @mheiseus
    @mheiseus 2 роки тому +3

    Respect you, they don’t respect anyone ever.

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too**

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help**

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️❤️*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again**

  • @whatsup_viral
    @whatsup_viral 2 роки тому +13

    Cut the relationship at any cost...otherwise u will get poisened.

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too......*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help.....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️ ❤️*

    • @whatsup_viral
      @whatsup_viral 2 роки тому

      @@janetmally3377 what makes u think i hav issue.

  • @fishandmustardchills6464
    @fishandmustardchills6464 2 роки тому +1

    Need to hear this way every day

  • @cazqab
    @cazqab Рік тому

    One of the best advice videos I have come across, because some of us don’t have the choice of no contact. Thank you so very much ❤

  • @suhasaify
    @suhasaify 2 роки тому +3

    I watched thousands of videos to get rid of a shitty human being - finally I stopped talking chatting engaging and texting - things went better - I am happy person now and I also started engaging myself with other people - world is full of good people too - just because of one single person that’s not the end of the world ----

  • @mitchadams5353
    @mitchadams5353 2 роки тому +3

    Thinking about this in more of the work scenario. Calling out that behavior instantly. Every. Single. Time.
    Will avoid having conversations that are not on record of some kind.
    They are not loyal, they are not respectable, they have no dignity, they really should not be in any sort of leadership position.

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too......*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help.....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️ ❤️*

  • @zacharydavis4398
    @zacharydavis4398 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for spending in g the time yo create and share this content awareness/perspective

  • @kevinhanley6462
    @kevinhanley6462 2 роки тому +1

    So, it's like talking to a naughty child and set boundaries! There were some funny parts to this video.

  • @GOK_333
    @GOK_333 2 роки тому +11

    THEY WILL NEVER RESPECT YOU OR ANYONE, THEY WILL TOY WITH YOU FOREVER AS LONG AS YOU STAY AND CONTINUE TO GIVE IN AND SUPPLY THEM. RUN.

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️*

    • @hellarylady9965
      @hellarylady9965 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again*

  • @swallenjafari5974
    @swallenjafari5974 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks for this video.
    It had so many good points and New Lessons for me
    👍🏾🌹

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman*
      *I was helped by Dr favour He can also help you too......*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *You can save his contact and message him on whatspp for help.....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *±15626005682⏯⏯⏯⏯*
      *I can't believe am with my love again....*

    • @janetmally3377
      @janetmally3377 2 роки тому

      *✝15626005682⏯❤️ ❤️*

  • @yourdad8224
    @yourdad8224 Рік тому +2

    I'm living with a narcissist, it's honestly very draining. It's my own blood and i cannot escape since I'm just 14 and they are my own sibling, it's been horrible. I constantly feel disrespected even when I've completely abandoned them. Also they're very abusive (physical abuse) I recently spoke up about the abuse and made clear that they have no right to physically abuse me Or any other people and this made them lose their mind but in the end they had to stop it cause they knew it'll no longer be tolerated by me. But I'm sure they still can get physical any time and I know I'm not safe, yea like I'm walking on eggshells, I've been walking on eggshells throughout my whole life. So I try my very best to completely abandon them but we've to cross paths since we live in the same house, it's really horrific.

  • @angana3955
    @angana3955 Рік тому +1

    No need to earn respect from a narcissist. Better to leave right at the moment when you realise that that person is a narcissist. You will get peace.

  • @rajaknowles2287
    @rajaknowles2287 2 роки тому +5

    Overcome evil with good.
    Cause you are not exactly perfect yourself