FERTILITY COACH Q&A / miscarriage, IVF & fertility
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- Опубліковано 26 січ 2023
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03:15 what options do you have to get pregnant if you’re a lesbian couple?
04:24 how many rounds of IVF or IUI do you usually need to get pregnant?
04:54 how old do you have to be for age to be a reason you don’t get pregnant?
05:01 why do we become less fertile as we age?
06:39 after an embryo transfer - which factors are a part of whether or not it sticks?
07:14 since Julie got pregnant with my egg, was it my fault she had a miscarriage?
07:59 can stress have an effect on fertility?
09:22 how can you work on your stress level throughout an IVF process?
09:41 why does a miscarriage happen?
10:11 is an IVF pregnancy more likely to end in a miscarriage than a normal one?
10:41 is there anything you can do to make your pregnancy end in a miscarriage?
10:59 why does some women end up having a miscarriage after working out?
12:29 when you get pregnant again after a miscarriage, is it normal to be worried?
13:55 can i go to the gym during pregnancy?
julie instagram: julievlorentzen
cam instagram: camillalor
mari instagram: fertilitetscoachen_
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People watching this after she had the baby❤
You done it girl❤❤
Never give up
Best feeling ever
I had a D and C to remove my baby yesterday since the medication did absolutely nothing. I should have been 11 weeks but baby was 6 weeks 3 days. We were on the same time line as each other and I felt I wasn’t alone. Then when I lost mine after you, I still didn’t feel alone. I just want to say thank you for being so open, I’ve needed a friend.
I am so sorry for the loss of your baby. ❤️
@@paulaoakley8136 thank you
I went through the same thing, I thought I was 13 weeks and also needed a D and C. It’s crap piled on crap isn’t it. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It does get better I promise ❤️
So much love to you. It's so hard. I had to do the same with one of my pregnancies.
__*Would you like to research the Scientific Miracles of the Qur'an?*__
Your fertility coach seemed like she had a really good grasp of psychology as well as fertility and pregnancy and I’m SO GLAD she was able to reassure you both about everything that’s happening and that WILL happen ❤
I wish all pregnant people could get advice like hers ✨️(edit: and people who are wanting to pregnant obvs)
Seems like she sees easy cash
@@ronaldreaganrimjobs9327 this is stupid. Do you say that about doctors? She’s spent time to become an expert in what she does. What’s the point of commenting something so full of hate
@@ronaldreaganrimjobs9327 you’ve made a lot of hateful comments on this channel. It’s a self reflection. You are a miserably sad person and need to take it out on others.
Thank you for taking us on your fertility journey and for such an informative video.
thank you for watching❤
__*Would you like to research the Scientific Miracles of the Qur'an?*__
@@julieandcamilla __*Would you like to research the Scientific Miracles of the Qur'an?*__
@fatihdemirbilek54 I'm not Muslim but I can do some research on the bible instead of "lgbtq" dumbshit propaganda
Beautiful video! I especially liked how she pointed out it’s about balance and to stay away from extremes. Being pregnant doesn’t mean you should suddenly completely change the way you live, if you keep on working out the way you did before that’s perfectly safe, if you keep eating g the way you did before that’s also perfectly safe. But if you suddenly completely stop working out or completely change your diet, that might be risky !
The studies I've read about working out during pregnancy all find excersize to be important but, to the level your body feels comfortable. Trust your body and how it feels. Olympic athletes can continue high levels of training, people that normally run can continue running throughout pregnancy. It is not the time to start a new high intensity sport that your body isn't already used to. My favourite sport during late term pregnancy was definitley swimming. It feels wonderful to have the weight lifted for a little while.
Who’s here after the rainbow baby
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I LOVE that you spoke in Norwegian instead of English with your coach - it is so cool! Just a warning... if you ever do come to America, you shouldn't expect valet parking haha. We do usually have large parking lots, but finding street parking near where you're going can still be a pain. Oh well 🤷♀
You are gonna be so good mums and your so brave going through all you've gone through I know you'll complete your dream of becoming mums!❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🌈
Yeah im so shure youll acheve your dreams💛
"mums"? "BRAVE"?!
I hope you stay strong on this challenging journey! You have so much support and compassionate people cheering you on 💜✨🌈
we love you all so much❤
@@julieandcamilla i love you too babes
my ex-boyfriend always used to talk about how much he loved going to Trondheim, and now I can see why
also, that little high five after camilla got the second shot was so wholesome and intimate that it made my heart melt
Brilliant conversation. I tried 4 years (with donor sperm) and had 5 miscarriages before having my miracle rainbow baby. He is turning 16 soon. I learned that I have a rare adrenal disorder. There is nothing quite like speaking to the right specialist. I was scared of losing the pregnancy nearly to the end. And he was late, too. But it all worked out. Sending love and best wishes your way. ♡
My husband and I went through IVF in 2015 and had twins in 2016. Even just 7 years ago this was taboo to say we did IVF, I’m so happy you can share in your experience. Here’s some sticky dust ✨✨
But you used your husband...these two on the other hand are a big Ole fail
@@ronaldreaganrimjobs9327 Not everyone conceive on the first try. I have watched a few couples who failed on the first and second try. Go look up this couple name Living Rosa they had a hard time conceiving a few times. Today they have 4 beautiful children.
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We don't have valet everywhere, unfortunately, however I'm so excited for you both, Camilla is so brave, Julie thank you for allowing us to be apart of your journey, I know you will be the best moms, and we're manifesting your rainbow baby, all love 💜
This beautiful and warm video should be watched by as many people as possible, young or old, men or women. I am in my late 30s and OH, how many wrong, terrifying, horrible things was I told by "well meaning" friends and family about pregnancy all throughout my life. Enough to feel guilty and a failure for a lifetime. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with the world, you're doing something immensely important. I wish you both all the best and can't wait to follow along as you make your dreams come true together.
Julie read your comment and said you way too kind
It is in their ig
@@mineajalava I missed that! Thanks for letting me know! :)
@@machouchacha np:)
I love that you’re making a few longer vlogs ❤ I love your channel and would love to see a longer video of your AMAZINGLY GORGEOUS house renovations! And of course your fertility journey, I struggled for 2 years to get pregnant with our rainbow baby(we’re 21 almost 22 weeks with our rainbow baby boy now) whatever you do DONT GIVE UP ❤❤❤ Everything happens for a reason, life has a plan for you and when the time is right your beautiful family will grow just keep positive and remember that your body is amazing no matter what happens. Don’t ever think it’s something you did wrong, don’t tell yourself it was your fault or your body’s fault because it’s not. And most importantly don’t listen to those horrible people in the comments of the last few videos saying it was because they’re wrong and they’re just being hateful. ❤ keep your beautiful heads up and your gorgeous eyes on the prize
I really thank you for sharing. I lost my first 2 pregnancies in the first trimester, and it was devastating. But I've made so many connections with such inspiring women by talking about it.
Thank you so much for sharing this difficult process with us. My girlfriend and I are thinking about how we might have a family one day and this is so comforting to see and hear. I love you for normalizing lesbian IVF
So proud of you Cam! You’ve come such a long way with your needle fear since this started! And so glad that you’re more at peace now, Jules!👏🙏❤️
Thank you so much for sharing this. I am currently going through a miscarriage at 12 weeks, seeing you share your journey has helped me not feel so alone and isolated during this time but has also inspired me to keep going on my journey to motherhood. You have helped more than you can realise. I just know that one day we will have our rainbow babies 🌈
you guys are truly amazing and so resilient! you’re going to get your rainbow baby! 🌈🥰 you guys are such an inspiration and truly kind and genuine people!
Thank you for making such an informative video. It’s amazing how much misinformation is spread out there and the sheer amount of information missed in our education systems. You are both doing a fab job and we all love you guys and are grateful for the journey you’re sharing with us ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This was so informative and important. Your fertility coach seems like she knows a lot and I’m really glad that your time with her helped to ease your nerves about everything. I wish you two the best of luck for future pregnancies!
I’m so glad we get to come with on this journey thank you for bringing us along can’t wait to see what’s down the path on this pain staking journey.💖
Thank you for making and posting this. It helped me gain peace with my loss. You guys are helping so many women! Take care
This is so so good! It's so nice to have a professional tell you that you are okay and what your feeling is normal. Also, to clear up that things weren't your fault. 💞💞✨️🥰
Julie i’m so happy to see you so excited! i’m so excited for rainbow baby and i’m glad to see you both are feeling better
I am so glad I found your channel. You are an absolutely beautiful couple inside and out. I too suffered a miscarriage. I was 4 1/2 months along. I didn't think I would survive. Luckily 9 years later our miracle rainbow baby came along. The one thing you can never do is give up hope! I'm sending you love and prayers. I can't wait to see your family grow. ❤️
I can’t explain the comfort you guys bring me! I can’t really explain it we are on such different paths in life but when I watch you guys I feel like I’m checking up on old friends or something! I’m pretty sure I’m older than y’all but you give such caring mom vibes I almost wish y’all could be my moms or something!
Hi all! I’m a medical student in France, and learning Norwegian after having lived there for a year, so this video was SO SO SO interesting, and I would some more like this (in Norwegian) all throughout your IVF journey! It lights up my days 🥰🥰
It's so wonderful for us all to feel a part of your journey. Thank you and please keep going 💕🌈
Really interesting to hear this from a fertility coach. I wish my wife and I had had good guidance like this when ttc. The clinics tend to do the hard sell whereas this information is actually informative and useful. Thanks for sharing xx
very proud of you both for going through this process and also sharing so much good information to help others! good luck with your rainbow baby ❤❤
I am so impressed with you both. I very much appreciate the authenticity of your posts as you go through this. I will be celebrating with you just like I cried with you. Best of all things for you and you coming family.
This was so fascinating to watch! Even though pregnancy is not in my near future, I enjoy educating myself about the process and appreciate your vulnerability. Thank you!💜
As I know you’re new to making vlogs, I would like to recommend having the questions on the screen up for longer, so viewers have enough time to read them. I found myself having to rewind a few times to read the full question.
I'm so happy you were able to talk to her and ask your questions and so grateful your shared that with us! 🖤 I'll keep my fingers crossed for you and the french fries close!!
Yay! I love all your videos but the vlogs feel like such a treat!!
I am so glad I found this channel.When I found it,you were renovating the house.So I haven't been here for too long.You're the cutest couple on the internet.You'll be such good moms!
I am soo excited for u guys!!
I have been following u guys for almost a year now and i feel soo emotionally attached to u all ❤️❤️❤️
Absolutely adore the longer videos you post!
Yayyy thank you for giving us such an authentic transparent video on something you know we’re so interested in! I adore you and Camilla. So beautiful and wholesome, your rainbow baby is on their way to you 🌈❤️
Thank you so much for taking us on this journey with you, I can't wait to see the video when you're taking about how the birth went!!!
FIRST ONE HERE!!! I think we all agree that they are literally the best and hope they get pregnant you’ll be the best moms ever❤❤❤
this is being such an informative video!! thanks for making this 💕 wishing you the best with your rainbow baby 🌈🍼
You're doing amazing! I really loved that she told both of you that it wasn't your fault, because I could see how you would both blame yourselves from others comments. This was very informative, and I loved seeing Camilla's hand movements along with the doctor. 😄
Thank you SO much for filming your q&a. This answered a lot of questions for me who is TTC after 2 miscarriages. Thank you and praying for you both too. 🌈
you guys are going to be such amazing parents! stay strong and i know that you’ll get your rainbow baby ❤
You guys are such an inspiration!!! ❤ I know you will get your dream and it’s only a matter of time!! ❤😊🎉
I’m pregnant after a miscarriage and watch this video on repeat. It’s so comforting and reassuring. Thankyou for sharing your journey xx
The snow is so beautiful on the drive! It didn’t even look real, it was so prefect. Thank you for this vlog and sharing your journey.
Thank you for being so open and gracious with helping yourselves and others learn so many amazing things. You are such beautiful women, inside and out.
Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Your smile at the end was so infectious and made me smile too. You got this ladies ❤
this was SO INFORMATIVE!! and supportive!! its so nice to know how this process works, especially for wlw couples
I'm so sorry this happened but I'm so glad you two were blessed again with a new little boy just 9 Months after this video ❤️
This was so helpful. Incredibly informative. I’m glad she let you share!!
Oh my god ladies! Thank you so much for such an informative video! Me and my hubby are currently going through IUI and your video answered lots of my questions and doubts! Thank you for this! Hope you can soon receive the great news, I am very thankful that you are talking about this all! I am learning a lot on the go :) wishing everybody who is ttc all the luck!! ❤ I feel positive news coming in all our ways! ❤
FIRST!!! ❤ SENDING LOVE TO YOU BOTH!!
i love this slightly more intimate format! thank you for sharing your journey with us, and thank you so so much for exposing your relationship to the internet. as a lesbian, it makes me so happy to see sapphic love expressed so easily.
I've actually learned so much from watching you both. How to deal with heartache, grief and how to try and look to the future instead of dwelling on the past. Beautiful people you both are. And I know this, your little baby is going to be so blessed to be brought up by you both, its going to be so loved and know what's important in life. Can't wait to start eating mcdonalds fries again 😂🙌❤️
Really informative Q&A--I especially loved the way she explained balance.
you guys are such an inspiration ! Keep going!
Sending you love🤍👼🥹
It's been a journey but I'm so excited to see that Beebe! I'm so happy for both! It was difficult, but you did it! Cheers! Welcome to earth little bebbe, you have such lovely parents.
I finally got to watch this. Thank you Julie and Camilla for doing this for us ❤️
You will be amazing moms and I am really excited to follow you along on your journey!! ❤🫶🫶
I wish you the best luck on you rainbow baby!!! ❤🌈
Wow. Thank you for taking us with you to this appt.! It was incredibly informative. I hope it gives you and Cam some peace of mind. Now...on to some baby making!! I just know your rainbow baby is preparing for their beautiful entry into your lives! Ps.. Our son is a rainbow baby as well. I lost 3 and was 40yrs old. before finally giving birth to our beautiful boy. Don't ever give up. You've got this. You're gonna be amazing moms!!
It'll definitely happen this time. Keep being confident and it will go well. I believe you'll have your deserved rainbow baby 💓
I can’t wait to see you ladies as Mom’s! I know that baby will be so loved, lucky & wanted.
Sending love and light to you both!! This video is so important!!!! Thanks for being willing to share
*lol the surprise about valet parking made me chuckle. Personally I never want to pay the extra money to do it but it is quite common
Really enjoyed the q&a even though I don't have any plans to go through IVF! Wishing you all the best and hope your logical brain that knows it's not your fault can be louder if the insecurities ever creep back in ❤
Wonderful video, thank you so much for making this! You guys mean the absolute world to me! Hope to see more UA-cam videos from you in the future!❤️
It was verry interesting to find out more about this process, i didnt know anything abt it before i found your channel, now i feel a little more educated on the subject. I hope you have a lovely day
Sending so much love from northern California ❤ thank you for sharing your journey with us all. And thank your professional for explaining it all not only to you but on camera for us all. I lost my first pregnancy well into my second trimester and had to have a d&c and then had 2 successful pregnancies. Those babies are almost adults now lol. Sending u all the best- a Californian Norwegian American ❤❤❤
Lots of Love to you both. So happy to be following you on this amazing journey
What a beautiful and interesting experience!!!!! Love you girlssss❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this. I have never gotten that much information from a doctor, the world just isn’t there yet with helpful & meaningful information. Im grateful for you sharing your journey and i wish you all the happiness in the world and that you get your wonderful dream home that provides you guys the comfortable space you need to make your beautiful family happen! 😆that was a lot to write, i hope the message made sense
Thank you so much for sharing this with us! It was so interesting to hear the q&a with your fertillitycoach!
I know, one day soon, you gonna have your beautiful little rainbowbaby❤️
Lots of love to both of you from your ”neighbor” in Sweden🇳🇴🇸🇪
Yay so happy yall are making UA-cam videos and such! I wish you all nothing but the best on your baby/mommy journey, marriage and overall life babes!
Yes, here in America we have valet parking almost everywhere. Mainly in the big cities. I live in Houston Texas and a large majority of restaurants, hotels, apartments, and venues offer valet parking 😊
In smaller or more typical cities, you don't get valet parking but at a hotel or very nice restaurant lol
Thank you for sharing everything you have! Best of luck moving forward. I know you'll get your rainbow baby!! 🌈
She explained everything so well and understandable. I wish you the very best☺️
The second one hurt so much
Did it? It's much bigger, it sucks. You're very brave ❤️
Thank you (evidently a happier tone) ❤️
The wya y'all support and take care of one another is beautiful. Love ya 💖
I just love how you guys are always like "Thank you" and "I love you" all the time, so frickin nice to each other it is so adorable it makes my heart fill with love yk? Those who write down hatedul comments about you, they're jealous as f*ck. They just know they're never gonna be loved like you, they're never gonna be in such loving, caring, beautiful relationship and they focus this anger at you. But I'm sure you're inspiring lots and lots of people with your love, keep it up ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
You guys are such a strong beautiful couple, Im so hopeful for your journey! im excited to see where it takes you guys!!
This video was so helpful! Thank you for creating this kind of content around w/w relationships, and queer families. The stuff about fertility and age was reassuring especially for me personally. Just fyi, if you happened to do another similar style vid, I couldn’t read fast enough for the length of the question screens 😂 if they were just like 1-2 seconds longer I wouldn’t have to keep skipping back to read them. That might just be me though? 🤷🏼♀️ Sending positive and hopeful wishes your way for your pregnancy and family journey!
thank you for doing this! it was interesting to watch, I got a lot of new information and I am glad it helped you with you thoughts, and if one of you happens to go through a miscarriage in the future (which I hope won't happen🤞🏻), you can get through it a little easier by looking back to this. I love following your story, thank you Julie
I love u guys sm, you’re gonna be amazing moms, I’m confident u’ll have ur rainbow baby very very soon 🫶
Snälla ladda upp någon mer video när ni orkar ❤️ Tjoho vad ni är bra. Kärlek från Sverige.
Well we don’t have valet everywhere but it is found in quite a few places! I love how you guys manage to stay so positive and happy, you guys are an inspiration, and coming from a rainbow baby, I hope you have your rainbow baby🌈
This was very eye opening and informative. Im glad that you both feel so much better as well. Hopefully now people will stop being ignorant and hateful when telling you what to do with your body and pregnancy. Im sorry you deal with that; I know it comes with the platform but, the true supporters will not treat you as such. Much love 💜😘
Thank you ladies ❤ I recently had a miscarriage and lord knows I needed to hear all of this to! Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤
Yayayay!!! Been waiting for this video ❤
This was so educational! Loved it
That was an amazing video, I learned so much! I'm definitely not planning on kids but I tell you I love learning about the female body and this was amazing. If its okay, I pray that you have a both give birth to healthy children and that all goes well for you both from here on out. Hugs!
This video is very educational and important for the world! Thank you, girls, for spreading the knowledge!
I love your long videos so much 💙
This was so informative. Thank you for putting this together 🥰
Oh wow I'm early, love you guys 💗💗💗
Congratulations 🎉 on the pregnancy I'm so happy for the two of you !!
It is so interesting to see the subtle difference in approach to IVF in Norway v here in the US. For me at least, my protocol has been WAY more invasive upfront. It's been tedious, but I am keeping my fingers crossed that my clinic is doing everything for the right reasons for my personal situation and will just be patient going into my fet cycle balancing all of the 5+ different medications I'll need to remember to take through different delivery routes at different times of the day. Hopefully it will be easier once I'm in it than it looks on paper 😓.
Thank you for this vídeo! I've been seriously thinking about freezing my eggs. I'm almost 35 and single. Could you do two videos? One on steps of egg retrieval, the doctors to find, what they look for, the medication, the steps and How you felt through each steps (both due to the medication and feelings fears in general) and the second more or less the same about IVF? I'd really appreciate it, women need more content like yours