MAD respect to you as mothers for not 1) showing your sons face 2) understanding he can’t give informed consent and 3) not sharing his birthday and not planning on sharing his personal life
I’m a 55-year old lesbian and I’ve never given birth but I still literally started crying when she said you were at 7 centimeters! THANK GOD! No WONDER it was so painful! You were going so fast!! You mothers are so amazing and beautiful to me! The two of you are SUCH role models. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤
As a soon to be first time mom, I am so so so appreciative hearing about Camila’s role. Every birthing partner should be like Camilla. It’s mind blowing how amazing she is!
I SO appreciate both of you guarding his privacy!! No birth date, no face, no name. Amazing!!! You are the ONLY family channel I will follow because of this!
1000000% same. Family channels that put their kids on display and direct them to do certain shit for views is just disgusting to me. As soon as I saw a video saying they weren't showing his face or any identifying information I just had such huge respect for them and knew I was going to keep up with their story😊
The thing I find is that, when someone shows their babies personal information, or face or anything, I don’t like it but it always makes me curious about it all when they don’t show anything about them! No hate to anyone though! Stay strong mamas! ❤❤
*Update: baby girl was born at exactly 41 weeks, she’s healthy, beautiful, and perfect in every single way possible 🥹🩷 Thank you all so much for the well wishes, we are doing so well and hubby and I are over the moon in love with our princess ✨👨👩👧💕 Not sure if you ladies will see this, but I suffered a miscarriage last September with my first baby, around the same time that Julie shared she’d also lost her embaby. This February, I found out I was pregnant with my rainbow baby, around the same time as Julie! And now, I’m sitting here, 38 weeks pregnant, watching your successful birth story, patiently waiting for my baby girl to arrive. I feel so connected to your story, because we share so many of the same losses and triumphs. Congratulations, you beautiful ladies, I wish you all the best on this new journey, and I can’t wait to experience this joy any day now ❤❤❤❤
Our daughter just turned 14. the birth was in a hospital, but both my wife and I had the luxury of giving birth in a family room, which may be surprising in Poland - but 14 years ago, LGBT couples, contrary to appearances, had it easier than now. the birth lasted 4 hours. from the beginning to the end. From 1 cm to 8 cm dilated it took less than 30 minutes. Currently, my little one is 178 cm tall and is a beautiful teenager. I have been keeping my fingers crossed for you from the very beginning and I am glad that the boy is happy in the world. Regards.
@@missaesthetics.9330 When I was choosing the donor, I focused on his curly hair (I have straight, curly hair was my dream :D) I somehow missed the fact that he is 198 cm tall. Our little one has curly hair :D (which she hate) and is really tall.
Gratulacje :3 Zaskoczyłaś mnie tym, że kiedyś pary LGBT miały dogodniejsze warunki :v, nie spodziewałam się tego, gdybyś chciała, mogłabyś to wyjaśnić..? Jestem osobą LGBT, i obawiam się trochę o przyszłość..
Same! But I am very happy for every couple who wants kids and gets to welcome them, especially if they have a good experience along the way. ❤ If there‘s one thing the world needs it’s more love of any kind!
Im a girl (16). I feel I always hear bad experiences about pregnant women and their birthing process. When I do it makes me scared about if I even do want kids but seeing yall. It’s amazing! Yall dont make it sound like a end all or something to be scared of. Good luck to them and that baby boy. Hope the lad does amazing things for our world.
I had my baby four months ago and pregnancy was tough but giving birth was incredibly empowering. People look at me like I'm crazy when I say the pushing phase was fun. It was awesome being cheered on by my partner, mum, and midwives, and knowing I was so close to meeting my baby. My experience was very positive and I'm thankful because I only heard horror stories about birth when I was pregnant
I had a water birth at home (Canada) and it was an amazing experience too. I loved it and I hope to have home births with all my children. It was fantastic. My midwives were amazing. You can absolutely have a positive birth!
It's definitely worth searching for positive birth stories because they're out there! Unfortunately the negative ones get more attention, but that doesn't make them the majority!
I just love how Camilla is looking at Julie the whole time when Julie is talking. I know giving birth is really hard and painful, but your birth story is so beautiful and hopeful.
I'm a closeted lesbian, and watching you guys gives me so much hope for the future. What I'm watching rn is literally one of my biggest dreams. I do live in a homophobic country and it is heavily discouraged all around me but watching you two makes me so happy❤ thank you. I'm so incredibly happy for you
Oh my lady I feel so sorry to hear that your country is not safe for you to express yourself openly. But the future belongs to you so don’t allow the current state of things to keep you from being in love with other women or whoever and feel love while loving we have so much left to do. Best wishes ❤
I'm sorry you're in that environment where you don't feel safe coming out. I hope some day you can safely be who you are. Maybe you can move to a more tolerant & accepting country some day? Much love from Canada ❤
It’s 2023 the “in the closet” thing is purely a “I can’t be myself for some reason so it’s easier to have no self esteem or worth”. Honestly I think you should debate on assisted suicide because you really have no backbone to be a person and we have enough of those. Just please consider falling asleep and not waking up ❤
This seems like the nicest birth story of all time. You two are so supportive of each other. I feel like so often we have to see men being incompetent next to their amazing partner, but Camilla is showing what all those stupid dudes exactly how they SHOULD be supporting their partners. Julie, make sure you’re taking care of your mental health in this time. There’s so much going on, but take care of your mental well being. You’re amazing! You’re a freaking superhero.
Not all men are incompetent. My husband was the one doing all the research and attending birth classes with me. Our doula guided him so that he could be the support person I needed. My birth went the entire other direction. A home birth turned unplanned c section. For all 46 hours of it, my husband was there. Even at the worst when we had to make the decision to do a c section. He cried with me and assured me that everything would be ok and that I was strong. He did skin to skin with our son in the OR because I was unable to. He made sure the surgical team & nurses could accommodate as much of my birth plan as possible. He was present for all the routine things they did for our son. He made sure to keep being my cheerleader.
@@Myhusbandrenamedmyhandle I’m really glad that your partner was supportive and helped you through the process. I think I’m a little jaded because a friend of mine is a L&D nurse, and she has all these horror stories of men falling asleep, complaining, or playing on their phones while their partner is in active labor. Of course there are men that are supportive for their partners, and I’m so happy you have one of them! I was just happy to see that Julie was being supported well too, and it seemed like a big contrast to the stories I had been hearing from my friend and from Tik Tok and stuff. The point is, I’m glad to see couples that are supportive of on another. ❤
@@JubarRexabsolutely I'm happy that their birth went so well also! My husband just happens to be the few who is supportive. There was one moment where I just couldn't breast feed our son because it was so painful. I cried so hard I woke him up. He came out, and I gave him our crying son saying I can't do this. He let me cry while he made sure our son was fed and put back to sleep. Then he came over, held me and said we'll figure this out. The lactation consultant he got recommended was a god send! Had he not made the calls he did, I would've 100% just given up. But he kept trying and staying strong for both of us. He's the most squeamish man ever but he took it like a champ. Changed the meconium diapers and everything .
@@Myhusbandrenamedmyhandle that’s literally so sweet. I’m so happy that you have a supportive partner! That’s such a beautiful story too. He sounds like he’s a really good guy, and you sound like you’re very strong. I don’t think I would ever be able to handle all that, even with the support of a loving partner. Good job to both of you!
@@JubarRexthank you! I really appreciate it. He still lets me know everyday that I'm doing a good job even through I have no idea what I'm doing. Our son is a strong and healthy 8 month old now who loves to throw around tomato sauce cans like they're footballs 😂😂
you guys have transformed birth into something that’s not scary any more. I even thought pregnancy is horrible, and while I don’t want to go through it ever, the topic of birthing and stuff has definitely become so positive in my mind now
Yes! I always wanted my own children but was always scared because all I heard of birth as a child was that it was frickn painfull. I wish we would learn things like that at school
As I young girl I never wanted children I ended up finding out I was pregnant at 16 everyone tried to convince me that I should have an abortion yet I refused because from the second I found out I just knew I was supposed to be this baby's mum so I kept him I had the worst pregnancy ever I was sick all the way through even 7 days after my son was 5 weeks prem and had to have an emergency c section after 4 long weeks of slow labour and honestly it was still the bestest thing I have ever done on this planet my little man is almost 9 and its been on amazing journey and I'm so glad I was even given the chance to have a baby and I would do it all again if I could! My advise to everyone that like I don't really want children, take that risk and I promise its soooo worth it, its scary raising a child is so scary yet its honestly the best thing ever and will fill your heart more than a job or money
Every experience is different. Coming from someone that had a traumatic experience with labor I can tell you first hand it can be difficult whether you’re at a hospital or whatever. I know plenty of women who have children and EVERY woman has had different experiences
As somebody who went through a traumatic birth 9 months ago, where me and my son nearly didn't make it out alive, I am so very happy to hear that you had the magical birth that every pregnant woman could ever wish for for. This was one of the most beautiful birth stories I've heard, and even though I would have wished for a story like this for myself, I get no less happy hearing that there are still moments like these
Babe. I'm not pregnant yet, my husband and I are gonna start trying next year, but I always had this idea set in my brain that I would ask for a cesarean because I thought I would not handle a vaginal birth. But with this story, for some reason, I suddenly feel like I can absolutely do it. Thank you for sharing this with us. ❤❤❤
Let me tell you hunny, I've had 4 c.sections and every single one of them was a long recovery and it bloody hurts. And with those you stay in hospital for 2/4 days A natural labour is a few hours in the hospital and your home. Let's not forget the saggy skin after each c.section. Plus The hospital won't let you have natural labour after your first c.section because there's more of a chance your tummy could rupture from the inside due to having layers of skin being cut the first time round. These are just factors that you would need to consider. Xx
У меня 3 кесарево сечения. Потому что я не хотела естественных родов. Я не хотела эти вагинальные разрывы. У меня аккуратный шов который абсолютно не виден. Я довольна и не жалею. Восстанавливалась очень хорошо. Всё индивидуально, у кого то роды тяжелые у кого то кесарево. Что суждено то и будет. Слушайте своё сердце❤🤗
@@lacelegends9102That’s not really true anymore (or at least not for my home country Germany). Nowadays you definitly can have a vaginal birth after you had a c-section before.
I love how Juile listen to her body. I was in labor for along time at the hospital. At one point they said we are goingto do a c-section. My daughter was not taking the hint it was time to move out. I was dialating. But she was not coming down. She was not giving up her warm waterbed without a fight. I told the doctor turn off ALL the medication right now. And I will get her down! He thought I was crazy so did the nurses. But he did agree to give me 1 hour. And then they would be rushing me back if it didnt work. Ur mind go into this bubble during labor, no on else matters, just baby and u. One soul, becoming Two. It was a happy ending! Baby learned that mama don't play before she took her first breath.❤ 🎉Congratulations on your little one! I pray for you to have the most wonderful beautiful birth that you can imagine. 🎉
1000000% recommend anything but a hospital birth (unless you have worries or fears about your health or baby’s health ofc) I’ve had 2 hospital births. My first one, was a c section and wasn’t very bad since I was asleep. Second was a VBAC and the hospital staff was so fuckin terrible. They didn’t listen to ANYTHING I said or ANYTHING I wanted. On like day 3 of my stay after I had my son, they started to be so rude to me.
@@CiinaBunniiHonestly depends on your country. I am in the Netherlands and the ambulances are so close that it doesn't matter since the time you wait till the child doctor is awake is around the same time you wait till the ambulance is there. My sister had a "bad birth" at home, there was an ambulance downstairs because they were already warned. When the baby arrived and was pale (it took her long to deliver after she was allowed to push) there came two/three other ambulances and an ambulance helicopter. But since there already was an ambulance, they just put him on the pump and was fine within a small period of time, they took him to the hospital to let the children doctor check him and he could go home after that.
It feels like just yesterday when you first announced you were pregnant. I've been super invested in your guys' story, despite never wanting to give birth. Seeing a queer couple have such a positive birth experience and being able to have this experience is really healing when there is so much stigma around LGBTQ+ people and having children. I'm so proud of both of you, and so so so happy for you! Congratulations Julie and Camilla! 💜
I am a semi closeted lesbian and watching you and Camilla through all of this has given me so much hope for my future. It is my absolute greatest dream to have my own family and home like you guys do and I am beyond happy for you guys 💕
don't let this world dictate your life! be proud of who you are n who you love! iam not lesbian, but have a few friends who are n have had it very difficult....there's nothing written or no law that says you cannot love someone of the same sex...please don't let this world keep you locked in that closet...sending you hugs n prayers, I hope one day you can be free of what keeps you from being yourself...wishing you safe n happy holidays💜💜🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
This was such a beautiful story, I’ve never heard a positive birth story before and this has reduced a significant amount of my fear of pregnancy and birth in general. I would love a video where you guys talk about everything you had to do in preparation for labor because I feel like that contributed a lot to how positive an experience it was for you. I just would love to know.
Absolutely. I really hope they don't give in to the pressure. THEY chose to share their life and story online. HE can't make that decision and it's HIS decision to make ❤
Yeah! I was really excited, but I’m more excited that there are more influencers concerned with their child’s privacy! I’m just so excited and happy for them!!
26:50 at this point of the video where julie said "but i don't want him to leave, i want him to stay forever." that geniunely got to me and i started crying. I just don't understand how people can feel anything but this level of adoration for their child, and hearing her say that just warmed my heart so much. They're already such great mothers and baby boy is so lucky to have them
@@Barec76 not all people who give birth are women!! But i do understand what you're saying. I guess what i was referring to was parents not loving their children, treating them poorly or being indifferent to them. What i meant is why bring children into this world if you aren't going to love them and care for them? I was referring to people who have children but not out of love for them but because they want something in return
@@ttrblmkr That is a narrow viewpoint. If you're American, look into reproductive rights. Thankfully, I'm not. But many people don't have kids and think...I'm gonna abuse them. There's generational trauma, mental illness, and so much more. I'd even wager that many abusive parents live their kids.
The change in Julie is unbelievable. Julie looks so calm, serene even, over the top confident in herself and her abilities to be a great Mother! Thank you for sharing your journey with us it was fun, sad, you had us rooting for you all along the way, and everything in between. I officially welcome to the club, the club that only Mothers can join, where everything you've ever wanted for yourself has now flown out the window and from that day forward you will give this tiny human everything because HE now comes first. The extra bonus once you've joined the club... only Mothers know REAL love, a love you could never explain to someone who hasn't had a child, this goes for you too Camilla ❤
I am child free by choice but I LOVE listening and seeing your whole journey and this video was just so heart warming! I hope I can one day help my friends give birth and make them look back at it and be as grateful that I was there like you are with Camilla. You are such great parents and little one is so lucky!
I remember when I had my home birth. I was in labor for three hours. I stood in the hall, felt my son drop into my pelvis, and looked at my midwife and said “he’s moving down”. She just smiled and replied “amazing. Let’s have a baby,” and it was go time. Crawled up on my couch and pushed him out on all fours like a bear, a primal animal. It was great! Edit: didn’t expect so many likes. That was five years ago, and my son is now a little boy, a full child. It’s wild looking back at that moment as my child plays Roblox while my husband and I watch tv. If it weren’t for the economy, I’d have another baby, and hopefully be able to do it at home again.
Also, I did NOT expect to have a precipitous labor, and oh my god it was so dang painful. The contractions were so strong and powerful out of nowhere it was like I couldn’t adjust to the pain and before I knew it, I was pushing. Sometimes, a fast labor isn’t better- it can be jarring. Luckily I had a very open mind going into the experience. The recovery was fast. I did not require stitches. I was very active and on my feet and driving very soon afterwards, which was cool. I will say it was weird to suddenly have a baby in the house. Like, one second I was pregnant then the next I had my baby in my arms, and that night was a trip lol. My husband and I were both elated and lost 😂 I worked out heavily my entire pregnancy. Weight lifting, jogging, and cross country hiking. Swimming. I think it helped. Breastfeeding sucked lol it was harder than birth.
"amazing. let's have a baby" made me tear up right now. what an incredible thing to say. it feels so encouraging. i hope it felt like that in the moment as well!
i'm still a kid (13) and my sister is 3 and my mum actually had a similar home birth to you, i remember little 9 year old me sitting in my room literally watching youtube to distract myself. we still have the couch my sister was born in. 🩷
I cried so hard when I realized just how happy Julie is with herself, and how proud Camilla is of her beautiful, powerful wife. Of course, Julie is proud of her beautiful, powerful wife, too, but she didn’t just deliver a baby unmediated!! So proud ❤🥹
I feel like you do such a good job of showing mother hood with protecting the privacy of your son, moms still need a sense of community. I’m not a parent but from what I see it’s really hard. Capturing how hard it is but still respecting your child’s privacy is a difficult balance , you guys do it so beautifully . All family vloggers should take note.
I am a labor and delivery nurse in a hospital in the US. Hearing your home birth story brings tears to my eyes because I am SO SO happy that you had an empowering birthing experience so full of love! I loved what you said about the oxytocin boost you felt once you got in the pool from feeling safe and loved by Camilla. I try to create that same kind of environment for my patients when they are in the hospital. Congratulations to both of you!! 🥰🥰
I had my baby in a hospital in the US (just 4 months ago) and I had a fantastic birth experience, even though nothing went as planned and we ended up having to opt for a c-section. But the nurses and doctors I had were so absolutely sweet and amazing that I have the entire experience as a positive memory. So thank you and all other L&D nurses for all you do.
I just gave birth in a US hospital 6 months ago. It was terrible. Pressured into so much I didn't want just for hospital convience. It was so actually a hospital I was working at at the time. I thought my co workers would look out for me. But me being a coworker meant they didn't need to try so hard and that they could overstep and do whatever they want to me and not keep me informed. After this experience I almost quit nursing and obviously had to leave this job.
@@katherinehinz1037I’m so sorry for your experience. Nurses are the most stressed occupation and we see the real world impacts of this on their physical and mental health. But it saddens me very much to know you didn’t feel cared for by your fellow nurses during your birthing experience. I hope your baby is healthy and that you’re finding a better place more suited to your calling. We need good nurses and good nurses need to feel honored.
I’m only 22 and I’m really single, but now I don’t feel as scared to have children. Yes, I know it’s going to be painful and tough, but the pure love you have on both your faces for little Fry must make it all worth it. Sending love and good wishes from England ❤️
@@Emily-zr8elI had both my children in my early 20's and we are trying for another one and we are way older now. I think having children in your early 20's/20's is better because you have way more energy and literally can keep up with them. Just my own personal opinion from my personal experience.
@@marysawyer6692its not that easy to birth children young if you don't have a partner 😐 I want to have children with someone who loves me and the kids, I won't do it alone in my early 20s
As a straight girl that does not want to have children, this was the most beautiful video I have seen ❤ the love of you both and the harmony. Such an amazing couple
This is the first positive/strong birth story I've ever heard. People make it out to be such a nightmare. I don't want kids but my heart swells with joy for you guys!
I'm 32 and really scared of ever being pregnant and giving birth, but my husband and I really want children. You really eased by anxiety A LOT. Thank you for that 🥰
My toxic trait is thinking that if I got pregnant and gave birth it would go as well as Julie's birth 😂 like nah something would go wrong for me for sure with my luck
I am not someone who wants or plans to have kids, and I could never understand why people would want them. But with this video, I think I sort of get it. I feel like there truly is still some good and kindness left in the world when you guys talk. I hearing how you overcome difficulty together makes me feel less scared of things that I must do. Thank you for sharing this part of your life, and I hope both of you and your baby remain healthy and happy.
@@Rod732why do you have to ruin people’s comments with something nasty like that? Obviously you don’t listen, if they don’t even share the birth day or even show his face in this video, what makes you think they would exploit him? Not all “influencers” are the same, Julie and Cam are the farthest from corruption
camilla and julie- i’ve been following your journey and social media for two years. words can’t describe how much your videos have helped me through hard times. especially knowing how happy you two are. it’s really inspiring. it’s given me hope for my future as an 18 year old lesbian. thank you for giving me hope in my future. thank you so much for sharing your ivf, pregnancy, and birthing story with us. you guys will be amazing parents. even when you think you’re not doing enough, i assure you, you are. hearing how camilla felt like a bad birthing partner made me sad. especially since she did a lot more than some birthing partners. you both did so so amazing. i hope one day i have the same. thank you for giving me hope.
I haven’t finished watching yet but it brought me such joy and relief when she talked about letting go of what other people thought and just doing whatever felt natural. I’ve given birth twice and it’s such a relief to give into that “animalistic” part of yourself and let your body lead. Most of the time, your body knows what to do and it doesn’t care about social convention or awkwardness, so just let it do it’s thing ❤️
“It was like a song.” You two are so connected. That was amazing. What a beautiful experience. I am so happy for you both! Welcome to the world, little one.
This was the perfect mix of realness and positivity that anyone preparing to give birth should see. Done it twice myself and resonated so much with much said. Everyone definitely needs to remember that there’s a spectrum of experiences and baby can be born early, late, labour can be quick or slow. It’ll never go quite as you planned but it will go as it was meant to. Congratulations to the beautiful parents and what a lucky little boy.
It’s so relieving that your birth experience was positive, especially after everything you two went through to get here. The heart ache was hard but now baby boy is here and now the joy begins!! Take all the time and rest you need, being new parents is so hard!
i’ve been following you two for over a year now, and i’m just so glad that the yt algorithm gave me the opportunity to follow along on your journey both of you are absolutely incredible women and we’re all so happy and proud of you for getting through everything and coming out the other side so strong!!! congratulations both to you and to your beautiful baby!!!
As a disabled lesbian who wants to be a mama one day, it gives me such joy and peace to hear you guys talk frankly and positively about this experience. It makes me feel like the future I want for myself is possible. Thank you for your commitment to keeping your son safe and his privacy intact. ❤️
I have two children, and I can’t stop weeping. Just knowing how powerful, and magical, both giving birth, and the newborn stage is, and watching two women experience that? I just couldn’t be happier for the both of you and the little fry. Congrats. Proud of all of you! ❤️
It's so beautiful. I truly felt like I knew the meaning of life when I gave birth to my son, and feel so happy for anyone else who shares that experience.
1. MOTHERHOOD LOOKS SO GOOD ON BOTH OF YOU!! 2. This video felt so short I didn't even realize it was almost forty minutes. 3. I'd love to see more of these long videos it was so relaxing
the fact that julie and camilla have the bravery to speak about life,updates on life,and baby boy ! Can we tell them thank you and the fact that now they have a baby is incredible so lets thank them!❤
I’m SO glad you had such an amazing birth! Hearing you talk about how powerful you felt heals my midwife soul, it made me so emotional 😭 women are incredible and powerful, it’s such a surreal thing to behold! Sending you all so much love ❤❤
I’m 21 and I’ve been following you from the very first IVF injections. It’s been a long journey and I’ve learned so much about birth and pregnancy. My degree is teaching so it helps and it’s just so wonderful to listen to your sincere thoughts. Thank you mommas! You’re doing everything right ♥️
Right?! This is crazy for me too. They are like my favorite people in the world❤ Like besides a small part of my family.. but very small part and not direct fam
This is the first time ive watched a birthing story but i really appreciate that we got both the perspective of the person giving birth and the supporter's perspective. Thanks for sharing photos and this story you guys. It is such a bittersweet, intimate story
So I grew up assisting in home births with my hippy mom. And I want to say that it's a testimate to your exercise and lifting regimes that you had such an healthy birth. I am so proud of you for keeping with your own convictions and deciding to listen to your own body throughout! What a wonderful example for others ❤
i’ve never been so invested in a couple😭you two are so amazing and im so grateful to have been able to follow your journey for two years! you’re gonna be wonderful mothers💖💖🫶(also remember to take your breaks from social media when you have to)
@@sherlock8799 i was wondering the same thing, i hope it doesn't sound intruding. It is a great idea so both can experience it and get breaks during feeding times but if the don't go tha path it is understandable and fine.
😂 Im trying so hard to listen to this amazing birthing story with such compassion and elation. But, Camilla is high as sht over there on just pure emotion and giddiness, that she is making me laugh!! That is absolute joy from the heart! Congrats mommys!! You two deserve this so much! That baby will know one day that he was so loved by the masses before he even opened his eyes in this world 🩵
You ladies are radiant with the joy of motherhood. That baby is going to grow up so loved, protected, and cherished. Thank you for sharing your stories and keeping your baby's privacy sacred.
idk why but "its like we were singing together" made me want to bawl. Thats what this beautiful baby is, a song you get to compose together and he's going to be a whole symphony. Insanely gorgeous family all around 😭💖
Your love story, wedding, birth story is amazing 🥹 I don’t want kids, but I really appreciate couples going through birth together and seeing such supportive parents makes me believe that this world is still something to hold for, ur amazing human beings and I can’t even believe love like yours exists 🥰🥹 Protect this family all costs, sending love from Ukraine and incredibly happy for u guys 🩵
I have always known that giving birth wasn’t for me but you guys and Eva’s photos have made this whole process feel so powerful and feminine and beautiful and I love that Julie got to give birth how she wanted and experience it all. Thank you for sharing this amazing feat with us!
As a fellow IVF baby with a LGBTIQA+ family myself and gay parents (Another story) i am so happy for you two and thank you for being so transparents with everything and not holding back with any stuff you believe might be say icky for sum. You 2 will be amazing parents and Little Fry will be so lucky to have to amazing, caring, fun and energetic parents. Congratulations for the both of you. You deserve the world.❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍👩👩👦👩❤👩♥🌈🏳🌈 LIKE YOU PUBLISHED THIS LIKE 45MINS AGO AND YOUR AT 100,000 VEIWS
Baby boy is so lucky to have two amazing and supportive mothers! Coming from a teen bisexual with only semi-supportive parents… I’m so happy for you guys. I’m not sure if I want kids because I don’t want to continue the cycle of emotional abuse (Asian parents gang) but I can tell how much you two love each other and that gives me hope maybe I’ll find a loving partner who I’ll be able to break the cycle with. Love you guys 🏳🌈💖
I'm so glad you guys had a positive, successful birth! I must admit that I was worried when you guys said your house wouldn't be finished in time but I knew everything would be okay but to hear you talk about it so positively is such a relief. Congratulations!
It's so funny. I'm a queer women who is childfree by choice, but i love seeing people who so whole heartedly want to have their kids that these kind of videos just speak to me. I just adore you two and the love that radiates from you. That little dude is going to be the most loved kid, as will his siblings.
I share your thoughts! I’m childfree by choice but it fills me with happiness hearing about a pregnancy announcement or listening to someone share their experiences - knowing they’re happy in their next chapter is enough for me 🥰 I have my own personal reasons as to why I don’t plan for children, so I’m more than happy to be a supporter and well wisher in the lives of others who do 🫶🏻 I’m really happy to see so many comments like this where I can relate among the mixture of other responses. Cam and Julie have a lovely community 🥹💞
I've said it before, that little boy doesn't even know how lucky he is. He was created from pure love and cherished before they knew him. You can see it in how they look at each other. I'm so happy for you both. You are going to be the most amazing parents.
im really glad you guys are keeping baby boys name, face, and personal info off the internet. you see all of the families out on social media showing all of the info (which is totally fine) right when the baby is born and i feel like that doesnt give them privacy at all. i had always hoped that i would find people who would keep their baby's privacy. super super proud of you both x
I’ve been following you since 2020 and been following this whole journey and I am so so indescribably happy for you two. Those pictures are stunning and so full of emotion. I started crying when you showed the one after Camilla jumped in the pool and you all just held each other. Just the raw emotion in it is breathtaking. I’m glad you got those to hold the moment forever. All the luck and health in the world to you and the little one
As a young queer woman, this is all my dreams come true. I got the privilege of stumbling across one of your videos right as you were trying for a baby, and watching both of you experience this pregnancy together and lift each other up is one of the best things I have ever seen! I'm not going to lie, when you talked about meeting your baby, and the surrealness of that experience, I started to cry. This is something I so deeply want for myself, and you make it feel possible. I am so proud of you, and all the work you have done to love each other through the whole thing. I'm so excited that this is just the beginning of your parenting journey! Thank you for being such great role models to the LGBTQIA+ community, new moms, and everyone in between! (P.S. I love the work you have done on your house)!
THANK YOU for your comment about no break happening between contractions. My little one is 2 now but i will NEVER forget not having a break with contractions at a certain point. You are the only other person I've heard say it. Also thank you so much for protecting your little man from the internet. Please do not ever feel tempted to show his face or start exploiting him for content. These kids are too precious and must be protected at all costs. Hope you're both doing okay, be easy on yourselves!
Yay!!! I'm so happy for y'all. And this being on trending!!! Y'all are beyond killing it. And I LOVE LOVE LOVE that you're not sharing his face or birthday etc. So many parents do think about that child and then wanting privacy later in life and having videos of everything in your life. You guys are THE BEST and we are all so happy and proud of you. ❤❤❤❤
I remember the “I don’t want him to leave” feeling!! It’s the smallness!! How small they are and how gentle they are! I’m so proud of you Julie and Camilla! I’m so proud of you girls!! I can’t explain the excitement I got when you all announced the birth
Positive birth story! Yes here for it! So many negative ones online. I know it’s important to be prepared but as a women that’s giving birth in December it’s important to keep anxiety at bay and not consume so much negative content, wonderful news! ❤
Birth is wonderful, us women are strong. Try not to worry and please ignore the horror stories. You will be fine, you'll be great. Good luck, sending love from a Mother of five 💘
This was so inspiring. It’s so important to be open minded and I don’t know any girlxgirl couples in my circle and it’s so nice to know what a wonderful relationship can be like. In addition, I love both of your outlooks on pregnancy and life, I feel like Julie is very positive and strong and Camilla too but she also read a lot about pregnancy to be as prepared as possible. I love how you both just let yourself feel whatever it is that you are feeling. It’s so refreshing.
Thank you for sharing this joy. I'm a midwife's daughter and have always loved birth stories. I've been watching your short form content for the last year or so. Wow what a journey. So insanely happy for you guys. Also my sister in law went through IVF and watching your story first helped me be a better support system for her ❤
As a doula for almost 10 years now it's so inspirational to hear your story. Witnessing people notice the nuances of labor - the I wish I had knowns - and how that sets you up for your entire mothering journey. 😊😊 Thank you for sharing. Sending you both healing and loving light
I’m 35 weeks pregnant and having my own homebirth in the next couple of weeks. Watching this made me feel empowered and like I can do this! Thank you for sharing and I’m so happy for you guys ❤
You'll do amazing. I've done it. Best advice I could give is don't expect it just be quiet and calm and that roaring and sound and shouting can be an amazing tool that really helps. Also know when you feel you can't do it, you're nearly there and going to meet baby. Wishing you an amazing birth ❤
that is so exciting! I can only wish you all the best and I am sure, that you will have the most intense moment of your life 😊❤️ A lot of strength and love from germany 🥰
Congratulations!! I am so happy and proud to see you guys have a family of your own. I’ve been here through the bad and good and it gives me hope that one day I can have something like that! You guys deserve every good thing you get. Faint wait for more videos with the best moms ever!! ❤
So happy for you three! 💞🙏🏽 My son and DIL had their first child at home, my most perfect granddaughter, a little over a year ago. So glad they had someone take a video! My DIL is already a super woman, even more so going through her home birth. But seeing my son be so emotional and hands-on throughout the process was such an incredible gift! He was born to be this little girl’s papa. 🥰
Honestly i got emotional thinking about all these strong women bringing this baby into the world and thinking ahout how for thousands and thousands of years strong women have came together to do this. This is exactly the way we've done this for so long. It seemed so natural and amazing. I didnt know i would feel this way. It feels so powerful.
I adore you both and felt so connected to Julie throughout the pregnancy as I had hyperemesis with my pregnancy and also had a homebirth. The way both Cam and Julie spoke about the whole experience changes so much after they learned Julie was seven centimeters, Julie’s entire essence changes as though she came into her power as a woman and it absolutely lights Cam’s whole self up! I am so in love with this family! Also, my first birth was 28 hours, my second birth was 23 hours, and my third birth was 45 minutes so when Julie spoke about not preparing for a short birth I felt that in. my. soul. Great job, both of you, and congratulations!
wholesome, i've been following your path for about a year and a half now and i'm so happy i get to experience this canon event of your lifes with you both. Welcome to the world Rainbow baby, may life shine the brightest for you, your mums and the siblings you might have in the future. ily
I never heard a more beautiful birth story, and I've had 2 of my own sons. I think you're partner plays a big role in the type of experience you have through labor and delivery, and unfortunately i married a POS and didn't realize how horrible my marriage was until after i had my sons. I'm so proud and excited for you both. Congratulations❤
@@goldenhourxthere’s too many family channels posting their children’s faces online. children, nevermind newborns, are unable to give informed consent to be posted online. i do wish it was normalized to not post kid’s faces and lives online.
@@goldenhourxbecause pretty much every couple online gets pregnant, has the baby and then turn them into profit mules 🤷🏻♀️ it's disgusting and fucked up. Being happy that a couple had a kid and DIDNT immediately turn their baby into a side Hussle isn't weird. It helps spread the idea that children are people too and shouldn't be forced to be online before they are old enough to understand what that means.
@@goldenhourxI agrée lol it’s weird to Thank a parent for this. If they want to show their babies face they can if they don’t want to they don’t have to. Imagine how weird the world would be if you never saw the face of a baby or even a picture of a baby again unless you knew the parents.
MAD respect to you as mothers for not
1) showing your sons face
2) understanding he can’t give informed consent
and 3) not sharing his birthday and not planning on sharing his personal life
literally bro
Same here
right? i was scared they were going to but it's great they're keeping little Fry's life on the private side
@@lavishgoblin omg love ur pfp
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Can we just please talk about the way that Camilla looks at Julie? It’s just so filled with love and you can see how proud she looks at her😍😍
Yes the video just started and it was the first thing I noticed!😍
Right! It’s so pure what they have 🥹 so happy everything turned out well ❤
I noticed that too. ❤
It's like she has the post baby "I love Julie" glow.
Agreed the love just beaming out of her eye's
I’m a 55-year old lesbian and I’ve never given birth but I still literally started crying when she said you were at 7 centimeters! THANK GOD! No WONDER it was so painful! You were going so fast!! You mothers are so amazing and beautiful to me! The two of you are SUCH role models. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤
As a soon to be first time mom, I am so so so appreciative hearing about Camila’s role. Every birthing partner should be like Camilla. It’s mind blowing how amazing she is!
I SO appreciate both of you guarding his privacy!! No birth date, no face, no name. Amazing!!! You are the ONLY family channel I will follow because of this!
1000000% same. Family channels that put their kids on display and direct them to do certain shit for views is just disgusting to me. As soon as I saw a video saying they weren't showing his face or any identifying information I just had such huge respect for them and knew I was going to keep up with their story😊
The thing I find is that, when someone shows their babies personal information, or face or anything, I don’t like it but it always makes me curious about it all
when they don’t show anything about them! No hate to anyone though! Stay strong mamas! ❤❤
It’s just crazy they are so private and smart w the kid but also put pics and floor plans of their house out
the information about their house is public in norway so it doesn’t REALLY matter
I agree definitely but I would love to know the name tho ❤
*Update: baby girl was born at exactly 41 weeks, she’s healthy, beautiful, and perfect in every single way possible 🥹🩷 Thank you all so much for the well wishes, we are doing so well and hubby and I are over the moon in love with our princess ✨👨👩👧💕
Not sure if you ladies will see this, but I suffered a miscarriage last September with my first baby, around the same time that Julie shared she’d also lost her embaby. This February, I found out I was pregnant with my rainbow baby, around the same time as Julie! And now, I’m sitting here, 38 weeks pregnant, watching your successful birth story, patiently waiting for my baby girl to arrive. I feel so connected to your story, because we share so many of the same losses and triumphs. Congratulations, you beautiful ladies, I wish you all the best on this new journey, and I can’t wait to experience this joy any day now ❤❤❤❤
Wishing you the best and a good birth🩷
Wishing you to have a wonderful birth and it goes exactly however you want it to!
Sending love- you can do it!
Thank you both so much 🥺🩷
Wow that’s amazing! Wish you a great birth and a happy healthy baby, congratulations!🥰❤️
I hope you come back to this post soon to tell us you've given birth & that everything is wonderful for you. :-)
The fact that Cam & Julie have 1.45m subscribers on YT and this video alone has 1.4m views in just 4 days shows the tremendous love for them ❤
Month later:
1.58M subs
1.9M views
Our daughter just turned 14. the birth was in a hospital, but both my wife and I had the luxury of giving birth in a family room, which may be surprising in Poland - but 14 years ago, LGBT couples, contrary to appearances, had it easier than now. the birth lasted 4 hours. from the beginning to the end. From 1 cm to 8 cm dilated it took less than 30 minutes. Currently, my little one is 178 cm tall and is a beautiful teenager. I have been keeping my fingers crossed for you from the very beginning and I am glad that the boy is happy in the world. Regards.
gratulacje! nie myślałam że spotkam tu kogoś z polski🫶
Damnnnn your kid is taller then me and im 17
@@zosiapiotrowicz3986 :) myślę że nas tu sporo :) pozdrowienia - i wiesz, może wróci lepsze...
@@missaesthetics.9330 When I was choosing the donor, I focused on his curly hair (I have straight, curly hair was my dream :D) I somehow missed the fact that he is 198 cm tall. Our little one has curly hair :D (which she hate) and is really tall.
Gratulacje :3 Zaskoczyłaś mnie tym, że kiedyś pary LGBT miały dogodniejsze warunki :v, nie spodziewałam się tego, gdybyś chciała, mogłabyś to wyjaśnić..? Jestem osobą LGBT, i obawiam się trochę o przyszłość..
so glad you had a positive experience 😌💞
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UA-cam being kinda late... But you sure have a point, I'm so glad as well!
Hi UA-cam
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Even UA-cam is here. Just shows how amazing this pair is ❤❤
I never ever want to have kids but I’ll watch this whole thing
Congrats mamas
Same but hearing their story is so beautiful
Same 😁 No interest in doing it myself, but I've been so invested and emotional throughout their whole experience ❤️
same
Same lol. But I loved this video
Same! But I am very happy for every couple who wants kids and gets to welcome them, especially if they have a good experience along the way. ❤
If there‘s one thing the world needs it’s more love of any kind!
Im a girl (16). I feel I always hear bad experiences about pregnant women and their birthing process. When I do it makes me scared about if I even do want kids but seeing yall. It’s amazing! Yall dont make it sound like a end all or something to be scared of. Good luck to them and that baby boy. Hope the lad does amazing things for our world.
I had my baby four months ago and pregnancy was tough but giving birth was incredibly empowering. People look at me like I'm crazy when I say the pushing phase was fun. It was awesome being cheered on by my partner, mum, and midwives, and knowing I was so close to meeting my baby. My experience was very positive and I'm thankful because I only heard horror stories about birth when I was pregnant
There are some beautiful water birth videos on this site 👍
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I had a water birth at home (Canada) and it was an amazing experience too. I loved it and I hope to have home births with all my children. It was fantastic. My midwives were amazing. You can absolutely have a positive birth!
It's definitely worth searching for positive birth stories because they're out there! Unfortunately the negative ones get more attention, but that doesn't make them the majority!
I just love how Camilla is looking at Julie the whole time when Julie is talking. I know giving birth is really hard and painful, but your birth story is so beautiful and hopeful.
I'm a closeted lesbian, and watching you guys gives me so much hope for the future. What I'm watching rn is literally one of my biggest dreams. I do live in a homophobic country and it is heavily discouraged all around me but watching you two makes me so happy❤ thank you. I'm so incredibly happy for you
Oh my lady I feel so sorry to hear that your country is not safe for you to express yourself openly. But the future belongs to you so don’t allow the current state of things to keep you from being in love with other women or whoever and feel love while loving we have so much left to do. Best wishes ❤
I'm sorry you're in that environment where you don't feel safe coming out. I hope some day you can safely be who you are. Maybe you can move to a more tolerant & accepting country some day? Much love from Canada ❤
It’s 2023 the “in the closet” thing is purely a “I can’t be myself for some reason so it’s easier to have no self esteem or worth”. Honestly I think you should debate on assisted suicide because you really have no backbone to be a person and we have enough of those. Just please consider falling asleep and not waking up ❤
Take care and don't loose hope, you're going to find a way to live like yourself and the wait is gonna be worth it ! 🎉 The community is everywhere !
So sad about your situation. Muslim country, I presume😢
This video radiates so much love.
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This seems like the nicest birth story of all time. You two are so supportive of each other. I feel like so often we have to see men being incompetent next to their amazing partner, but Camilla is showing what all those stupid dudes exactly how they SHOULD be supporting their partners. Julie, make sure you’re taking care of your mental health in this time. There’s so much going on, but take care of your mental well being. You’re amazing! You’re a freaking superhero.
Not all men are incompetent. My husband was the one doing all the research and attending birth classes with me. Our doula guided him so that he could be the support person I needed.
My birth went the entire other direction. A home birth turned unplanned c section. For all 46 hours of it, my husband was there. Even at the worst when we had to make the decision to do a c section. He cried with me and assured me that everything would be ok and that I was strong.
He did skin to skin with our son in the OR because I was unable to. He made sure the surgical team & nurses could accommodate as much of my birth plan as possible. He was present for all the routine things they did for our son. He made sure to keep being my cheerleader.
@@Myhusbandrenamedmyhandle I’m really glad that your partner was supportive and helped you through the process. I think I’m a little jaded because a friend of mine is a L&D nurse, and she has all these horror stories of men falling asleep, complaining, or playing on their phones while their partner is in active labor. Of course there are men that are supportive for their partners, and I’m so happy you have one of them! I was just happy to see that Julie was being supported well too, and it seemed like a big contrast to the stories I had been hearing from my friend and from Tik Tok and stuff. The point is, I’m glad to see couples that are supportive of on another. ❤
@@JubarRexabsolutely I'm happy that their birth went so well also!
My husband just happens to be the few who is supportive. There was one moment where I just couldn't breast feed our son because it was so painful. I cried so hard I woke him up. He came out, and I gave him our crying son saying I can't do this. He let me cry while he made sure our son was fed and put back to sleep. Then he came over, held me and said we'll figure this out. The lactation consultant he got recommended was a god send! Had he not made the calls he did, I would've 100% just given up. But he kept trying and staying strong for both of us. He's the most squeamish man ever but he took it like a champ. Changed the meconium diapers and everything .
@@Myhusbandrenamedmyhandle that’s literally so sweet. I’m so happy that you have a supportive partner! That’s such a beautiful story too. He sounds like he’s a really good guy, and you sound like you’re very strong. I don’t think I would ever be able to handle all that, even with the support of a loving partner. Good job to both of you!
@@JubarRexthank you! I really appreciate it. He still lets me know everyday that I'm doing a good job even through I have no idea what I'm doing. Our son is a strong and healthy 8 month old now who loves to throw around tomato sauce cans like they're footballs 😂😂
21:07 the way Camilla gently runs her fingers through the baby’s hair❤️ you guys are going to be amazing mums.
you guys have transformed birth into something that’s not scary any more. I even thought pregnancy is horrible, and while I don’t want to go through it ever, the topic of birthing and stuff has definitely become so positive in my mind now
Pregnancy and birth is amazing! It’s a choice to be miserable or not you just have to be smart and do good research and home births are way better.
Yes! I always wanted my own children but was always scared because all I heard of birth as a child was that it was frickn painfull. I wish we would learn things like that at school
@keilahkopriva6746 Its sooo insensitive to say it's a choice to be miserable! Not everything can be in your control, things can go wrong...
As I young girl I never wanted children I ended up finding out I was pregnant at 16 everyone tried to convince me that I should have an abortion yet I refused because from the second I found out I just knew I was supposed to be this baby's mum so I kept him I had the worst pregnancy ever I was sick all the way through even 7 days after my son was 5 weeks prem and had to have an emergency c section after 4 long weeks of slow labour and honestly it was still the bestest thing I have ever done on this planet my little man is almost 9 and its been on amazing journey and I'm so glad I was even given the chance to have a baby and I would do it all again if I could! My advise to everyone that like I don't really want children, take that risk and I promise its soooo worth it, its scary raising a child is so scary yet its honestly the best thing ever and will fill your heart more than a job or money
Every experience is different. Coming from someone that had a traumatic experience with labor I can tell you first hand it can be difficult whether you’re at a hospital or whatever. I know plenty of women who have children and EVERY woman has had different experiences
Honestly got shivers when Julie said "I am not scared to give birth again", so happy for you both
As somebody who went through a traumatic birth 9 months ago, where me and my son nearly didn't make it out alive, I am so very happy to hear that you had the magical birth that every pregnant woman could ever wish for for. This was one of the most beautiful birth stories I've heard, and even though I would have wished for a story like this for myself, I get no less happy hearing that there are still moments like these
Babe. I'm not pregnant yet, my husband and I are gonna start trying next year, but I always had this idea set in my brain that I would ask for a cesarean because I thought I would not handle a vaginal birth. But with this story, for some reason, I suddenly feel like I can absolutely do it. Thank you for sharing this with us. ❤❤❤
Let me tell you hunny, I've had 4 c.sections and every single one of them was a long recovery and it bloody hurts. And with those you stay in hospital for 2/4 days A natural labour is a few hours in the hospital and your home.
Let's not forget the saggy skin after each c.section.
Plus
The hospital won't let you have natural labour after your first c.section because there's more of a chance your tummy could rupture from the inside due to having layers of skin being cut the first time round.
These are just factors that you would need to consider.
Xx
You can! ❤
У меня 3 кесарево сечения. Потому что я не хотела естественных родов. Я не хотела эти вагинальные разрывы. У меня аккуратный шов который абсолютно не виден. Я довольна и не жалею. Восстанавливалась очень хорошо. Всё индивидуально, у кого то роды тяжелые у кого то кесарево. Что суждено то и будет. Слушайте своё сердце❤🤗
Watch Legaci birth. She's incredible ❤
@@lacelegends9102That’s not really true anymore (or at least not for my home country Germany). Nowadays you definitly can have a vaginal birth after you had a c-section before.
I'm 28 and for the first time I'm not scared of giving birth. Thank you for this story:)
Omg yes, it was so nice and loving, made me feel the same
I love how Juile listen to her body. I was in labor for along time at the hospital. At one point they said we are goingto do a c-section. My daughter was not taking the hint it was time to move out. I was dialating. But she was not coming down. She was not giving up her warm waterbed without a fight. I told the doctor turn off ALL the medication right now. And I will get her down! He thought I was crazy so did the nurses. But he did agree to give me 1 hour. And then they would be rushing me back if it didnt work. Ur mind go into this bubble during labor, no on else matters, just baby and u. One soul, becoming Two.
It was a happy ending! Baby learned that mama don't play before she took her first breath.❤
🎉Congratulations on your little one! I pray for you to have the most wonderful beautiful birth that you can imagine. 🎉
You’ll have you’re own experience in you’re own way enjoy 😁
1000000% recommend anything but a hospital birth (unless you have worries or fears about your health or baby’s health ofc)
I’ve had 2 hospital births. My first one, was a c section and wasn’t very bad since I was asleep. Second was a VBAC and the hospital staff was so fuckin terrible. They didn’t listen to ANYTHING I said or ANYTHING I wanted. On like day 3 of my stay after I had my son, they started to be so rude to me.
@@CiinaBunniiHonestly depends on your country. I am in the Netherlands and the ambulances are so close that it doesn't matter since the time you wait till the child doctor is awake is around the same time you wait till the ambulance is there. My sister had a "bad birth" at home, there was an ambulance downstairs because they were already warned. When the baby arrived and was pale (it took her long to deliver after she was allowed to push) there came two/three other ambulances and an ambulance helicopter. But since there already was an ambulance, they just put him on the pump and was fine within a small period of time, they took him to the hospital to let the children doctor check him and he could go home after that.
It feels like just yesterday when you first announced you were pregnant. I've been super invested in your guys' story, despite never wanting to give birth. Seeing a queer couple have such a positive birth experience and being able to have this experience is really healing when there is so much stigma around LGBTQ+ people and having children. I'm so proud of both of you, and so so so happy for you! Congratulations Julie and Camilla! 💜
no there isnt. its sadly become normal
@@kdt789 It Is a happy and good thing that this LESBIAN couple could give birth and safely, shut your ass up
@@kdt789 sadly?
@@kdt789?
@kdt789 such a weird comment
I am a semi closeted lesbian and watching you and Camilla through all of this has given me so much hope for my future. It is my absolute greatest dream to have my own family and home like you guys do and I am beyond happy for you guys 💕
It will happen for you, please don't give up!!💛🍀💗💚💞💜💕💙🍀💙💕💜💞💚💗🍀💛
don't let this world dictate your life! be proud of who you are n who you love! iam not lesbian, but have a few friends who are n have had it very difficult....there's nothing written or no law that says you cannot love someone of the same sex...please don't let this world keep you locked in that closet...sending you hugs n prayers, I hope one day you can be free of what keeps you from being yourself...wishing you safe n happy holidays💜💜🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
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@@camtranquoc3745pee pee poo poo
Same ! I didn't think I could have kids with my future wife till I saw a couple in person with the most cheerful baby boy I've ever seen
This was such a beautiful story, I’ve never heard a positive birth story before and this has reduced a significant amount of my fear of pregnancy and birth in general. I would love a video where you guys talk about everything you had to do in preparation for labor because I feel like that contributed a lot to how positive an experience it was for you. I just would love to know.
There are so many more positive stories out there! Look for more home birth stories and it’ll blow you away
As much as I’m sure everyone wants to see he’s precious face, I really appreciate you guarding his privacy! Congratulations!! ❤❤
I have to second this! It’s refreshing to see people who are popular on social media protect the privacy of their children.
Yes!! As much as babies are absolutely adorable, I'm so glad they're protecting his privacy.
Absolutely. I really hope they don't give in to the pressure. THEY chose to share their life and story online. HE can't make that decision and it's HIS decision to make ❤
Yeah! I was really excited, but I’m more excited that there are more influencers concerned with their child’s privacy! I’m just so excited and happy for them!!
@@Jag... I don’t think they will. They’ve already expressed that they won’t be sharing him online ❤️
26:50 at this point of the video where julie said "but i don't want him to leave, i want him to stay forever." that geniunely got to me and i started crying. I just don't understand how people can feel anything but this level of adoration for their child, and hearing her say that just warmed my heart so much. They're already such great mothers and baby boy is so lucky to have them
Many women don't feel that instant bond and that's ok. It's normal too.
@@Barec76 not all people who give birth are women!! But i do understand what you're saying. I guess what i was referring to was parents not loving their children, treating them poorly or being indifferent to them. What i meant is why bring children into this world if you aren't going to love them and care for them? I was referring to people who have children but not out of love for them but because they want something in return
@@ttrblmkr That is a narrow viewpoint. If you're American, look into reproductive rights. Thankfully, I'm not. But many people don't have kids and think...I'm gonna abuse them. There's generational trauma, mental illness, and so much more. I'd even wager that many abusive parents live their kids.
The change in Julie is unbelievable. Julie looks so calm, serene even, over the top confident in herself and her abilities to be a great Mother! Thank you for sharing your journey with us it was fun, sad, you had us rooting for you all along the way, and everything in between. I officially welcome to the club, the club that only Mothers can join, where everything you've ever wanted for yourself has now flown out the window and from that day forward you will give this tiny human everything because HE now comes first. The extra bonus once you've joined the club... only Mothers know REAL love, a love you could never explain to someone who hasn't had a child, this goes for you too Camilla ❤
I am child free by choice but I LOVE listening and seeing your whole journey and this video was just so heart warming! I hope I can one day help my friends give birth and make them look back at it and be as grateful that I was there like you are with Camilla. You are such great parents and little one is so lucky!
me too! i won’t ever have children but ngl this made me question that a bit haha
I remember when I had my home birth. I was in labor for three hours. I stood in the hall, felt my son drop into my pelvis, and looked at my midwife and said “he’s moving down”. She just smiled and replied “amazing. Let’s have a baby,” and it was go time. Crawled up on my couch and pushed him out on all fours like a bear, a primal animal. It was great!
Edit: didn’t expect so many likes. That was five years ago, and my son is now a little boy, a full child. It’s wild looking back at that moment as my child plays Roblox while my husband and I watch tv. If it weren’t for the economy, I’d have another baby, and hopefully be able to do it at home again.
Also, I did NOT expect to have a precipitous labor, and oh my god it was so dang painful. The contractions were so strong and powerful out of nowhere it was like I couldn’t adjust to the pain and before I knew it, I was pushing. Sometimes, a fast labor isn’t better- it can be jarring. Luckily I had a very open mind going into the experience.
The recovery was fast. I did not require stitches. I was very active and on my feet and driving very soon afterwards, which was cool. I will say it was weird to suddenly have a baby in the house. Like, one second I was pregnant then the next I had my baby in my arms, and that night was a trip lol. My husband and I were both elated and lost 😂
I worked out heavily my entire pregnancy. Weight lifting, jogging, and cross country hiking. Swimming. I think it helped.
Breastfeeding sucked lol it was harder than birth.
"amazing. let's have a baby" made me tear up right now. what an incredible thing to say. it feels so encouraging. i hope it felt like that in the moment as well!
@@milya1926it was. At that point, I was in pain, but confident. We all knew he was coming. We all felt at peace and safe.
i'm still a kid (13) and my sister is 3 and my mum actually had a similar home birth to you, i remember little 9 year old me sitting in my room literally watching youtube to distract myself. we still have the couch my sister was born in. 🩷
@@linnn3athat’s so beautiful. I swear couches are magical lol.
I cried so hard when I realized just how happy Julie is with herself, and how proud Camilla is of her beautiful, powerful wife. Of course, Julie is proud of her beautiful, powerful wife, too, but she didn’t just deliver a baby unmediated!! So proud ❤🥹
I’ve never seen a birthing video like this. It was beautiful and raw and wonderful! And seeing them fall more in love with each other is powerful!
I feel like you do such a good job of showing mother hood with protecting the privacy of your son, moms still need a sense of community. I’m not a parent but from what I see it’s really hard. Capturing how hard it is but still respecting your child’s privacy is a difficult balance , you guys do it so beautifully . All family vloggers should take note.
I am a labor and delivery nurse in a hospital in the US. Hearing your home birth story brings tears to my eyes because I am SO SO happy that you had an empowering birthing experience so full of love! I loved what you said about the oxytocin boost you felt once you got in the pool from feeling safe and loved by Camilla. I try to create that same kind of environment for my patients when they are in the hospital. Congratulations to both of you!! 🥰🥰
Was it hard to get to your field?🥹
I had my baby in a hospital in the US (just 4 months ago) and I had a fantastic birth experience, even though nothing went as planned and we ended up having to opt for a c-section. But the nurses and doctors I had were so absolutely sweet and amazing that I have the entire experience as a positive memory. So thank you and all other L&D nurses for all you do.
Student midwife here (🇬🇧) and I second this!! Absolutely beautiful 🥰
I just gave birth in a US hospital 6 months ago. It was terrible. Pressured into so much I didn't want just for hospital convience. It was so actually a hospital I was working at at the time. I thought my co workers would look out for me. But me being a coworker meant they didn't need to try so hard and that they could overstep and do whatever they want to me and not keep me informed. After this experience I almost quit nursing and obviously had to leave this job.
@@katherinehinz1037I’m so sorry for your experience. Nurses are the most stressed occupation and we see the real world impacts of this on their physical and mental health. But it saddens me very much to know you didn’t feel cared for by your fellow nurses during your birthing experience. I hope your baby is healthy and that you’re finding a better place more suited to your calling. We need good nurses and good nurses need to feel honored.
I’m only 22 and I’m really single, but now I don’t feel as scared to have children. Yes, I know it’s going to be painful and tough, but the pure love you have on both your faces for little Fry must make it all worth it. Sending love and good wishes from England ❤️
I'd if you meant it positively or negatively, but 20s are for being really single and having fun! (But it's good you feel empowered by this 🥰)
@@Emily-zr8elI had both my children in my early 20's and we are trying for another one and we are way older now. I think having children in your early 20's/20's is better because you have way more energy and literally can keep up with them. Just my own personal opinion from my personal experience.
@@Emily-zr8elI personally believe it is good to have children early, you will be fit to play with themmm
@@marysawyer6692its not that easy to birth children young if you don't have a partner 😐 I want to have children with someone who loves me and the kids, I won't do it alone in my early 20s
@@learrrrrrr and that is your choice. I was giving my personal experience. Everyone is different.
The way they look at each other radiates so much love, it's so incredibly sweet to see❤️
My partner and I have absolutely no plans of ever becoming parents, but I was absolutely glued to the screen watching this. Sending love to you both ❤
As a straight girl that does not want to have children, this was the most beautiful video I have seen ❤ the love of you both and the harmony. Such an amazing couple
Camilla feeling the impulse to clean the house to the point in which she spackled the closet is so cute tbh, I can't explain why.
The nesting hit her hard😊
This is the first positive/strong birth story I've ever heard. People make it out to be such a nightmare. I don't want kids but my heart swells with joy for you guys!
The way Julie looks at Camila as she speaks🥲💕❤️❤️❤️ I’m happy you guys are finally parents!! You both deserve this
I'm 32 and really scared of ever being pregnant and giving birth, but my husband and I really want children. You really eased by anxiety A LOT. Thank you for that 🥰
of course there’s bad things about it but with it come as many beautiful things, birth can be so amazing, and if it’s bad remember it is temporary
My toxic trait is thinking that if I got pregnant and gave birth it would go as well as Julie's birth 😂 like nah something would go wrong for me for sure with my luck
Aah I was petrified too but it's awesome 👌
ngl that amazing poop sounds kinda bomb…
Everyone is different, and unless your medical chart and lifestyle is exactly the same as hers, it won't be the same for you.
I am not someone who wants or plans to have kids, and I could never understand why people would want them. But with this video, I think I sort of get it. I feel like there truly is still some good and kindness left in the world when you guys talk. I hearing how you overcome difficulty together makes me feel less scared of things that I must do. Thank you for sharing this part of your life, and I hope both of you and your baby remain healthy and happy.
Same here
hopefully they wont exploit the baby ffs
@@Rod732why do you have to ruin people’s comments with something nasty like that? Obviously you don’t listen, if they don’t even share the birth day or even show his face in this video, what makes you think they would exploit him? Not all “influencers” are the same, Julie and Cam are the farthest from corruption
@@hg_24thank you
@@hg_24 I said "hopefully"what's wrong with you. And i doubt - money blind people.
camilla and julie- i’ve been following your journey and social media for two years. words can’t describe how much your videos have helped me through hard times. especially knowing how happy you two are. it’s really inspiring. it’s given me hope for my future as an 18 year old lesbian. thank you for giving me hope in my future. thank you so much for sharing your ivf, pregnancy, and birthing story with us. you guys will be amazing parents. even when you think you’re not doing enough, i assure you, you are. hearing how camilla felt like a bad birthing partner made me sad. especially since she did a lot more than some birthing partners. you both did so so amazing. i hope one day i have the same. thank you for giving me hope.
I haven’t finished watching yet but it brought me such joy and relief when she talked about letting go of what other people thought and just doing whatever felt natural. I’ve given birth twice and it’s such a relief to give into that “animalistic” part of yourself and let your body lead. Most of the time, your body knows what to do and it doesn’t care about social convention or awkwardness, so just let it do it’s thing ❤️
“It was like a song.” You two are so connected. That was amazing. What a beautiful experience. I am so happy for you both! Welcome to the world, little one.
This was the perfect mix of realness and positivity that anyone preparing to give birth should see. Done it twice myself and resonated so much with much said. Everyone definitely needs to remember that there’s a spectrum of experiences and baby can be born early, late, labour can be quick or slow. It’ll never go quite as you planned but it will go as it was meant to. Congratulations to the beautiful parents and what a lucky little boy.
It’s so relieving that your birth experience was positive, especially after everything you two went through to get here. The heart ache was hard but now baby boy is here and now the joy begins!! Take all the time and rest you need, being new parents is so hard!
i’ve been following you two for over a year now, and i’m just so glad that the yt algorithm gave me the opportunity to follow along on your journey
both of you are absolutely incredible women and we’re all so happy and proud of you for getting through everything and coming out the other side so strong!!! congratulations both to you and to your beautiful baby!!!
I’m so proud of you all!!
Same!!!!!
me too! they are so strong 💪
@@Flora568 Yes!!!!!! Welcome to the world, little man!!!!!!
As a disabled lesbian who wants to be a mama one day, it gives me such joy and peace to hear you guys talk frankly and positively about this experience. It makes me feel like the future I want for myself is possible. Thank you for your commitment to keeping your son safe and his privacy intact. ❤️
made me cry. anyone would be hella lucky to have you as their mothers. you're amazing.
words literally cannot explain how happy i am for your little family, that must’ve been so powerful and incredible 🤍 congratulations!!!
I have two children, and I can’t stop weeping. Just knowing how powerful, and magical, both giving birth, and the newborn stage is, and watching two women experience that? I just couldn’t be happier for the both of you and the little fry. Congrats. Proud of all of you! ❤️
It's so beautiful. I truly felt like I knew the meaning of life when I gave birth to my son, and feel so happy for anyone else who shares that experience.
I think it’s sweet how ppl feel like that but my birth was terrible and the newborn stage is nowhere magical 😂😂
1. MOTHERHOOD LOOKS SO GOOD ON BOTH OF YOU!! 2. This video felt so short I didn't even realize it was almost forty minutes. 3. I'd love to see more of these long videos it was so relaxing
the fact that julie and camilla have the bravery to speak about life,updates on life,and baby boy ! Can we tell them thank you and the fact that now they have a baby is incredible so lets thank them!❤
I’m SO glad you had such an amazing birth! Hearing you talk about how powerful you felt heals my midwife soul, it made me so emotional 😭 women are incredible and powerful, it’s such a surreal thing to behold! Sending you all so much love ❤❤
I’m 21 and I’ve been following you from the very first IVF injections. It’s been a long journey and I’ve learned so much about birth and pregnancy. My degree is teaching so it helps and it’s just so wonderful to listen to your sincere thoughts. Thank you mommas! You’re doing everything right ♥️
I never felt so happy for a couple on Social media.❤️
Right?! This is crazy for me too. They are like my favorite people in the world❤
Like besides a small part of my family.. but very small part and not direct fam
Same!! I’m rooting for them so hard
the photography is genuinely so beautiful the photos in this video genuinely bring so much emotion and beauty
This is the first time ive watched a birthing story but i really appreciate that we got both the perspective of the person giving birth and the supporter's perspective. Thanks for sharing photos and this story you guys. It is such a bittersweet, intimate story
So I grew up assisting in home births with my hippy mom. And I want to say that it's a testimate to your exercise and lifting regimes that you had such an healthy birth. I am so proud of you for keeping with your own convictions and deciding to listen to your own body throughout! What a wonderful example for others ❤
i’ve never been so invested in a couple😭you two are so amazing and im so grateful to have been able to follow your journey for two years! you’re gonna be wonderful mothers💖💖🫶(also remember to take your breaks from social media when you have to)
you are way too kind!! thank you❤️
@julieandcamilla Are you both going to breastfeed baby?
@@sherlock8799 i was wondering the same thing, i hope it doesn't sound intruding. It is a great idea so both can experience it and get breaks during feeding times but if the don't go tha path it is understandable and fine.
@@sherlock8799Camilla isn't. I think it was Instagram they said she wouldn't be
😂 Im trying so hard to listen to this amazing birthing story with such compassion and elation. But, Camilla is high as sht over there on just pure emotion and giddiness, that she is making me laugh!! That is absolute joy from the heart! Congrats mommys!! You two deserve this so much! That baby will know one day that he was so loved by the masses before he even opened his eyes in this world 🩵
Being relaxed makes birth MUCH quicker. I'm so glad you two had each other and everyone involved and everything that you needed ❤
You ladies are radiant with the joy of motherhood. That baby is going to grow up so loved, protected, and cherished. Thank you for sharing your stories and keeping your baby's privacy sacred.
okay just wanted to let you know, the use of the word "sacred" in that sentence is so powerful. I absolutely love it, wholeheartedly
idk why but "its like we were singing together" made me want to bawl. Thats what this beautiful baby is, a song you get to compose together and he's going to be a whole symphony. Insanely gorgeous family all around 😭💖
Yes! When they said this it just radiated so much love. It made me want to cry my little heart out.
Everything about your story has me crying, the pictures, the way cam loves you. It’s beautiful! Congratulations on your bundle of joy ❤❤
Your love story, wedding, birth story is amazing 🥹 I don’t want kids, but I really appreciate couples going through birth together and seeing such supportive parents makes me believe that this world is still something to hold for, ur amazing human beings and I can’t even believe love like yours exists 🥰🥹
Protect this family all costs, sending love from Ukraine and incredibly happy for u guys 🩵
I have always known that giving birth wasn’t for me but you guys and Eva’s photos have made this whole process feel so powerful and feminine and beautiful and I love that Julie got to give birth how she wanted and experience it all. Thank you for sharing this amazing feat with us!
As a fellow IVF baby with a LGBTIQA+ family myself and gay parents (Another story) i am so happy for you two and thank you for being so transparents with everything and not holding back with any stuff you believe might be say icky for sum. You 2 will be amazing parents and Little Fry will be so lucky to have to amazing, caring, fun and energetic parents. Congratulations for the both of you. You deserve the world.❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍👩👩👦👩❤👩♥🌈🏳🌈 LIKE YOU PUBLISHED THIS LIKE 45MINS AGO AND YOUR AT 100,000 VEIWS
Baby boy is so lucky to have two amazing and supportive mothers! Coming from a teen bisexual with only semi-supportive parents… I’m so happy for you guys. I’m not sure if I want kids because I don’t want to continue the cycle of emotional abuse (Asian parents gang) but I can tell how much you two love each other and that gives me hope maybe I’ll find a loving partner who I’ll be able to break the cycle with. Love you guys 🏳🌈💖
I'm so glad you guys had a positive, successful birth! I must admit that I was worried when you guys said your house wouldn't be finished in time but I knew everything would be okay but to hear you talk about it so positively is such a relief. Congratulations!
It's so funny. I'm a queer women who is childfree by choice, but i love seeing people who so whole heartedly want to have their kids that these kind of videos just speak to me.
I just adore you two and the love that radiates from you. That little dude is going to be the most loved kid, as will his siblings.
I share your thoughts! I’m childfree by choice but it fills me with happiness hearing about a pregnancy announcement or listening to someone share their experiences - knowing they’re happy in their next chapter is enough for me 🥰
I have my own personal reasons as to why I don’t plan for children, so I’m more than happy to be a supporter and well wisher in the lives of others who do 🫶🏻
I’m really happy to see so many comments like this where I can relate among the mixture of other responses. Cam and Julie have a lovely community 🥹💞
I've said it before, that little boy doesn't even know how lucky he is. He was created from pure love and cherished before they knew him. You can see it in how they look at each other. I'm so happy for you both. You are going to be the most amazing parents.
im really glad you guys are keeping baby boys name, face, and personal info off the internet. you see all of the families out on social media showing all of the info (which is totally fine) right when the baby is born and i feel like that doesnt give them privacy at all. i had always hoped that i would find people who would keep their baby's privacy. super super proud of you both x
I'm 37, have had 3 kids and watched tons of birthing videos. I still cry every single time, it is just the most beautiful thing ever❤
The pride in Camillas eyes when Julie talked about pushing... wow I hope to experience a love like this. What a beautiful family 💕
I’ve been following you since 2020 and been following this whole journey and I am so so indescribably happy for you two. Those pictures are stunning and so full of emotion. I started crying when you showed the one after Camilla jumped in the pool and you all just held each other. Just the raw emotion in it is breathtaking. I’m glad you got those to hold the moment forever. All the luck and health in the world to you and the little one
CONGRATULATIONS IM SO PROUD OF YOU GUYS! AND WELCOME TO THE WORLD LITTLE FRY🫶🫶🫶
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As a young queer woman, this is all my dreams come true. I got the privilege of stumbling across one of your videos right as you were trying for a baby, and watching both of you experience this pregnancy together and lift each other up is one of the best things I have ever seen! I'm not going to lie, when you talked about meeting your baby, and the surrealness of that experience, I started to cry. This is something I so deeply want for myself, and you make it feel possible. I am so proud of you, and all the work you have done to love each other through the whole thing. I'm so excited that this is just the beginning of your parenting journey! Thank you for being such great role models to the LGBTQIA+ community, new moms, and everyone in between! (P.S. I love the work you have done on your house)!
I don’t think most of the alphabet are relevant here lol
@@alexandragrace8164 Are you referring to LGBTQIA+? And are you saying that the people who do identify in those categories are irrelevant?
THANK YOU for your comment about no break happening between contractions. My little one is 2 now but i will NEVER forget not having a break with contractions at a certain point. You are the only other person I've heard say it.
Also thank you so much for protecting your little man from the internet. Please do not ever feel tempted to show his face or start exploiting him for content. These kids are too precious and must be protected at all costs.
Hope you're both doing okay, be easy on yourselves!
Yay!!! I'm so happy for y'all. And this being on trending!!! Y'all are beyond killing it. And I LOVE LOVE LOVE that you're not sharing his face or birthday etc. So many parents do think about that child and then wanting privacy later in life and having videos of everything in your life. You guys are THE BEST and we are all so happy and proud of you. ❤❤❤❤
I remember the “I don’t want him to leave” feeling!! It’s the smallness!! How small they are and how gentle they are! I’m so proud of you Julie and Camilla! I’m so proud of you girls!! I can’t explain the excitement I got when you all announced the birth
Positive birth story! Yes here for it! So many negative ones online. I know it’s important to be prepared but as a women that’s giving birth in December it’s important to keep anxiety at bay and not consume so much negative content, wonderful news! ❤
Birth is wonderful, us women are strong. Try not to worry and please ignore the horror stories. You will be fine, you'll be great. Good luck, sending love from a Mother of five 💘
You'll do great❤
it’ll all go all right, just keep remembering how exciting it’ll be to have a little one of your own!! wishing the best for you and baby
Thank you everyone. I really appreciate it ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This was so inspiring. It’s so important to be open minded and I don’t know any girlxgirl couples in my circle and it’s so nice to know what a wonderful relationship can be like. In addition, I love both of your outlooks on pregnancy and life, I feel like Julie is very positive and strong and Camilla too but she also read a lot about pregnancy to be as prepared as possible. I love how you both just let yourself feel whatever it is that you are feeling. It’s so refreshing.
Thank you for sharing this joy. I'm a midwife's daughter and have always loved birth stories. I've been watching your short form content for the last year or so. Wow what a journey. So insanely happy for you guys. Also my sister in law went through IVF and watching your story first helped me be a better support system for her ❤
As a doula for almost 10 years now it's so inspirational to hear your story. Witnessing people notice the nuances of labor - the I wish I had knowns - and how that sets you up for your entire mothering journey. 😊😊 Thank you for sharing. Sending you both healing and loving light
I feel like this is what anyone giving birth wants - a supportive partner and a sense of control over the experience. Congrats to the new moms
I’m literally in tears watching this, you guys have done an amazing job and being so empowered . ❤❤❤
CONGRATULATIONS! definitely helps to not be so afraid of birth, thank you for painting a realistic and empowering picture
Every time I stop believing in true love, you two remind it exists. Congratulations. He’s a lucky kid to have you two as parents
I’m 35 weeks pregnant and having my own homebirth in the next couple of weeks. Watching this made me feel empowered and like I can do this! Thank you for sharing and I’m so happy for you guys ❤
Wishing you the best and for everything to go perfect ❤
Wishing you and the baby all the best!! Hope everything goes well!!
You'll do amazing. I've done it. Best advice I could give is don't expect it just be quiet and calm and that roaring and sound and shouting can be an amazing tool that really helps. Also know when you feel you can't do it, you're nearly there and going to meet baby. Wishing you an amazing birth ❤
I plan to as well, half way there!
I’m nervous and excited..
wishing you the best experience!
that is so exciting! I can only wish you all the best and I am sure, that you will have the most intense moment of your life 😊❤️ A lot of strength and love from germany 🥰
Congratulations!! I am so happy and proud to see you guys have a family of your own. I’ve been here through the bad and good and it gives me hope that one day I can have something like that! You guys deserve every good thing you get. Faint wait for more videos with the best moms ever!! ❤
So happy for you three! 💞🙏🏽
My son and DIL had their first child at home, my most perfect granddaughter, a little over a year ago. So glad they had someone take a video! My DIL is already a super woman, even more so going through her home birth. But seeing my son be so emotional and hands-on throughout the process was such an incredible gift! He was born to be this little girl’s papa. 🥰
Honestly i got emotional thinking about all these strong women bringing this baby into the world and thinking ahout how for thousands and thousands of years strong women have came together to do this. This is exactly the way we've done this for so long. It seemed so natural and amazing. I didnt know i would feel this way. It feels so powerful.
I felt the same!
I adore you both and felt so connected to Julie throughout the pregnancy as I had hyperemesis with my pregnancy and also had a homebirth. The way both Cam and Julie spoke about the whole experience changes so much after they learned Julie was seven centimeters, Julie’s entire essence changes as though she came into her power as a woman and it absolutely lights Cam’s whole self up! I am so in love with this family!
Also, my first birth was 28 hours, my second birth was 23 hours, and my third birth was 45 minutes so when Julie spoke about not preparing for a short birth I felt that in. my. soul.
Great job, both of you, and congratulations!
wholesome, i've been following your path for about a year and a half now and i'm so happy i get to experience this canon event of your lifes with you both.
Welcome to the world Rainbow baby, may life shine the brightest for you, your mums and the siblings you might have in the future.
ily
I never heard a more beautiful birth story, and I've had 2 of my own sons. I think you're partner plays a big role in the type of experience you have through labor and delivery, and unfortunately i married a POS and didn't realize how horrible my marriage was until after i had my sons. I'm so proud and excited for you both. Congratulations❤
Thank you so much for respecting this baby's privacy. You guys are amazing :)
Why are you thanking the child's parents for that? That's just so odd lol
@@goldenhourxthere’s too many family channels posting their children’s faces online. children, nevermind newborns, are unable to give informed consent to be posted online. i do wish it was normalized to not post kid’s faces and lives online.
@@goldenhourxbecause pretty much every couple online gets pregnant, has the baby and then turn them into profit mules 🤷🏻♀️ it's disgusting and fucked up. Being happy that a couple had a kid and DIDNT immediately turn their baby into a side Hussle isn't weird. It helps spread the idea that children are people too and shouldn't be forced to be online before they are old enough to understand what that means.
@@goldenhourxI agrée lol it’s weird to Thank a parent for this. If they want to show their babies face they can if they don’t want to they don’t have to. Imagine how weird the world would be if you never saw the face of a baby or even a picture of a baby again unless you knew the parents.
I legit cried hearing this so happy you both have become mothers together and experienced this together 💗🩵 so pure and loving