Absolutely! What goes around often comes around, and it’s true that their actions can lead to their own downfall and those who hurt others usually face consequences in the end. Thanks for sharing your insight!
They have many beginnings of relationships as at the beginning nobody knows who they are, no boundaries are set, people are on their best behaviour and don’t say no to the other person. They jump ship once the beginning stage is over as it’s easier to start fresh than maintain a healthy relationship
You’ve made an excellent point! Narcissists often thrive in the initial stages of relationships when everything feels new and exciting. Once the facade fades and real commitment is needed, they tend to move on rather than put in the effort to maintain a healthy connection. Setting boundaries early is crucial for protecting ourselves. Thank you for sharing your insight!
I don't know what made me do it as I had never before, but I put my boundaries and total deal breakers in writing before the wedding - when we were engaged. He knew Exactly what he was getting into with me. It worked. He knew my strengths/weaknesses & expectations UP FRONT! It wasn't perfect, but we managed the rest! It really was helpful, I think. Highly recommend parents of young people facilitate expressing their values in writing. God is good.
That’s so true. their lack of care can be shocking and painful to realize. It’s important to recognize that their indifference is a reflection of their own issues, not a reflection of your worth. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
I'm so glad to hear that you were able to walk away! It takes a lot of strength to leave a toxic situation, and it’s wonderful that you’re feeling grateful and empowered. Keep focusing on your healing and happiness. Thank you for sharing your journey!
Stay single. I’m divorced and forever free from 21 years with a Dr. who’s a grandiose narcissist and manipulator. You absolutely do not know what evil lies within the perverse soul of another human.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It takes a lot of courage to walk away from a long relationship like that, and prioritizing your freedom and well-being is so important. Recognizing the darkness in others can be tough, but staying true to yourself and your values is key. Wishing you continued strength and happiness on your journey!
16 yrs and finally breaking free. I wouldn’t wish this feeling on anyone. We are stronger than they are because we don’t have to manipulate ppl into “loving” us!❤
After three months and one day of no contact, my narcissist ex decided to hoover me with a random text saying "just to let you know, I didn't cheat on you"; I take that as him knowing he did cheat but denying it supports his narrative. I didn't respond to his text. Thirty minutes later, he tried to call me and since his number is blocked, it went to voicemail and he didn't leave a message, but instead tried to call me again. I refuse to give him any more of my attention, yet knowing he was trying to manipulate me with those calls and texts, I was bothered all week by his actions.
It sounds like you've been through a lot, and it's great to hear that you're staying strong and refusing to engage. His attempts to manipulate can be frustrating, but your decision to maintain no contact is a powerful step toward healing. Remember to prioritize your peace and well-being. You're doing the right thing!
It can be frustrating to see how unaware narcissists often are of their impact on others. Their lack of self-awareness can make it challenging to have meaningful conversations. Thank you for your comment!
When I was married my narc x would call my food s*** on a shingle, criticize it in front of guests, crap like that. Then after I dumped him he thought he could get me back by calling me up and telling me he missed my food😅 (noticed he didn't say I miss you) ☠️I got so quiet He knew I was saying f you.
That’s such a relatable experience! It’s amazing how they can flip the script after being so critical. It sounds like you’ve found your strength in standing up for yourself, and it’s great that you recognized his manipulation. Your journey towards empowerment is inspiring. Thank you for sharing!
Absolutely! The idea that they will ultimately face the consequences of their actions is a powerful reminder. Their behavior will catch up with them in time. Wishing you strength as you move forward!
I hear you! It’s empowering to let go and move on from toxic relationships. Sometimes the best decision is to leave them behind for good. Wishing you strength and peace on your journey!
Her fake persona/mask is honestly the sweetest more gentle loving woman Ive ever met. When shes trying to discard me shes the nastiest demon possessed person ive ever seen. My friends and family dont/cant see what I see. They give me shit and tell me I cant call someone a narc. Its fine. Im alone... but she never broke my spirit and Im feeling freeer already
It’s great to hear that you’re finding your freedom! Narcissists can be incredibly deceptive, and it’s tough when others don’t see their true colors. Your resilience is inspiring, and prioritizing your own well-being is so important!
These types act especially kind to you when in front of others. I always interpreted it as a strong sign of love. Until I learned that it is a typical narcissistic act so that people will never blame them for any problems or breakup.
My ex is like this and , I know what he is and how he is he can never get me back ever again I'm good because God is sending me someone else who will treat me right and he wio value me and he wii know my worth i can hardly wait to meet the one God have for me now❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊
It’s inspiring to hear how strong you are and how you’re focusing on the positive! Recognizing your worth and believing that someone better is on the way is so important. I’m excited for you and can’t wait for the amazing things ahead in your journey! ❤️🎉
Narcissists don't build they destroy! They lack the emotional faculties to sustain a healthy relationship which is why they can't connect be vulnerable or open up. They hate being alone because it triggers them to reflect on their insecurities and weaknesses and this is why they need someone to project their insecurities onto! As a society I think it is time we stop blaming women for getting entangled in a unhealthy relationship it makes me annoyed! It's the Narcissistic men who fake their personality the whole entire time! It's not her fault he chose to be a bad partner or a bad father to his children. You can't control what people do! Narcissistic men don't like strong women because it requires them to be a real man. I don't care if you don't like me because I know you can't handle a strong woman like me. You are not worthy of my attention. I told the truth.
You’ve made some powerful points! Narcissists often thrive on destruction and manipulation, and it’s crucial to recognize the impact they have on their partners. Blaming those who get caught in unhealthy relationships only perpetuates the cycle. Strong women deserve partners who can match their strength and vulnerability. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and standing up for the truth!
Ummmm maybe you need to just date women you are obviously traumatized, anyone who is traumatized doesn’t need to go be advice . Narcissistic people are just that narcissistic…… 🤷🏿♂️ doesn’t matter the gender . Get therapy it’ll help!
You’re absolutely right. Apologies are important, and it’s frustrating when they don’t come. It’s essential to stand firm and not allow yourself to be treated poorly. Prioritizing your own well-being is key. Thank you for sharing your feelings!
🔴The Narcissist Cuts You Off But It's Driving Them Crazy! 👇🏼
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They reap what they sow 💯
Absolutely! What goes around often comes around, and it’s true that their actions can lead to their own downfall and those who hurt others usually face consequences in the end. Thanks for sharing your insight!
They have many beginnings of relationships as at the beginning nobody knows who they are, no boundaries are set, people are on their best behaviour and don’t say no to the other person. They jump ship once the beginning stage is over as it’s easier to start fresh than maintain a healthy relationship
You’ve made an excellent point! Narcissists often thrive in the initial stages of relationships when everything feels new and exciting. Once the facade fades and real commitment is needed, they tend to move on rather than put in the effort to maintain a healthy connection. Setting boundaries early is crucial for protecting ourselves. Thank you for sharing your insight!
I don't know what made me do it as I had never before, but I put my boundaries and total deal breakers in writing before the wedding - when we were engaged. He knew Exactly what he was getting into with me. It worked. He knew my strengths/weaknesses & expectations UP FRONT! It wasn't perfect, but we managed the rest! It really was helpful, I think. Highly recommend parents of young people facilitate expressing their values in writing. God is good.
When they don't care they dont care. 😮
They never cared.
That’s so true. their lack of care can be shocking and painful to realize. It’s important to recognize that their indifference is a reflection of their own issues, not a reflection of your worth. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
U R SO RIGHT I JUST WALKED AWAY FROM A NARCISSIST CANCER MAN ‼️.I THANK GOD ‼️🤗💯👍
I'm so glad to hear that you were able to walk away! It takes a lot of strength to leave a toxic situation, and it’s wonderful that you’re feeling grateful and empowered. Keep focusing on your healing and happiness. Thank you for sharing your journey!
Stay single. I’m divorced and forever free from 21 years with a Dr. who’s a grandiose narcissist and manipulator. You absolutely do not know what evil lies within the perverse soul of another human.
This is factual. Don't let them destroy who u are.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It takes a lot of courage to walk away from a long relationship like that, and prioritizing your freedom and well-being is so important. Recognizing the darkness in others can be tough, but staying true to yourself and your values is key. Wishing you continued strength and happiness on your journey!
They are possessed by demons, but they invite them in.
16 yrs and finally breaking free. I wouldn’t wish this feeling on anyone. We are stronger than they are because we don’t have to manipulate ppl into “loving” us!❤
After three months and one day of no contact, my narcissist ex decided to hoover me with a random text saying "just to let you know, I didn't cheat on you"; I take that as him knowing he did cheat but denying it supports his narrative. I didn't respond to his text. Thirty minutes later, he tried to call me and since his number is blocked, it went to voicemail and he didn't leave a message, but instead tried to call me again. I refuse to give him any more of my attention, yet knowing he was trying to manipulate me with those calls and texts, I was bothered all week by his actions.
It sounds like you've been through a lot, and it's great to hear that you're staying strong and refusing to engage. His attempts to manipulate can be frustrating, but your decision to maintain no contact is a powerful step toward healing. Remember to prioritize your peace and well-being. You're doing the right thing!
They don't realize anything
It can be frustrating to see how unaware narcissists often are of their impact on others. Their lack of self-awareness can make it challenging to have meaningful conversations. Thank you for your comment!
When I was married my narc x would call my food s*** on a shingle, criticize it in front of guests, crap like that. Then after I dumped him he thought he could get me back by calling me up and telling me he missed my food😅 (noticed he didn't say I miss you) ☠️I got so quiet He knew I was saying f you.
That’s such a relatable experience! It’s amazing how they can flip the script after being so critical. It sounds like you’ve found your strength in standing up for yourself, and it’s great that you recognized his manipulation. Your journey towards empowerment is inspiring. Thank you for sharing!
Hi, cheers from Brazil!
Hello! Cheers to you in Brazil! Thank you for watching and joining the conversation!
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They reap what they sow
Absolutely! The idea that they will ultimately face the consequences of their actions is a powerful reminder. Their behavior will catch up with them in time. Wishing you strength as you move forward!
Thank you,, You have yet to miss..
Thank ypu
Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad to hear that you find the content helpful.
That Narcissist Can dive in the Bottom of the Ocean and Stay there
Its over for Good Narc
I hear you! It’s empowering to let go and move on from toxic relationships. Sometimes the best decision is to leave them behind for good. Wishing you strength and peace on your journey!
Her fake persona/mask is honestly the sweetest more gentle loving woman Ive ever met. When shes trying to discard me shes the nastiest demon possessed person ive ever seen. My friends and family dont/cant see what I see. They give me shit and tell me I cant call someone a narc. Its fine. Im alone... but she never broke my spirit and Im feeling freeer already
It’s great to hear that you’re finding your freedom! Narcissists can be incredibly deceptive, and it’s tough when others don’t see their true colors. Your resilience is inspiring, and prioritizing your own well-being is so important!
These types act especially kind to you when in front of others. I always interpreted it as a strong sign of love. Until I learned that it is a typical narcissistic act so that people will never blame them for any problems or breakup.
My ex is like this and , I know what he is and how he is he can never get me back ever again I'm good because God is sending me someone else who will treat me right and he wio value me and he wii know my worth i can hardly wait to meet the one God have for me now❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊
It’s inspiring to hear how strong you are and how you’re focusing on the positive! Recognizing your worth and believing that someone better is on the way is so important. I’m excited for you and can’t wait for the amazing things ahead in your journey! ❤️🎉
Narcissists don't build they destroy! They lack the emotional faculties to sustain a healthy relationship which is why they can't connect be vulnerable or open up. They hate being alone because it triggers them to reflect on their insecurities and weaknesses and this is why they need someone to project their insecurities onto! As a society I think it is time we stop blaming women for getting entangled in a unhealthy relationship it makes me annoyed! It's the Narcissistic men who fake their personality the whole entire time! It's not her fault he chose to be a bad partner or a bad father to his children. You can't control what people do! Narcissistic men don't like strong women because it requires them to be a real man. I don't care if you don't like me because I know you can't handle a strong woman like me. You are not worthy of my attention. I told the truth.
Regardless of gender-narcissists are cut from the same cloth…
You’ve made some powerful points! Narcissists often thrive on destruction and manipulation, and it’s crucial to recognize the impact they have on their partners. Blaming those who get caught in unhealthy relationships only perpetuates the cycle. Strong women deserve partners who can match their strength and vulnerability. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and standing up for the truth!
Ummmm maybe you need to just date women you are obviously traumatized, anyone who is traumatized doesn’t need to go be advice . Narcissistic people are just that narcissistic…… 🤷🏿♂️ doesn’t matter the gender . Get therapy it’ll help!
Well said!
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Thank you for the love! It means a lot to have your support. Wishing you all the best! ❤️
Then they should have apologized be a use it's way too late .I'm.nit going to get around forever ..
To be kicked around
You’re absolutely right. Apologies are important, and it’s frustrating when they don’t come. It’s essential to stand firm and not allow yourself to be treated poorly. Prioritizing your own well-being is key. Thank you for sharing your feelings!