5 Ways Men Can Get More Women on Dating Apps

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  • @EntrepreneursInCars
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    • @1032ramos
      @1032ramos 4 роки тому

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    • @BillClinton228
      @BillClinton228 4 роки тому

      1) The average ratio of men to women on dating apps is 12.3 to 1. This means that women have more choices than you (no matter how you look), so they will be insanely picky... there's another 100 000 males with a "V shape", there's no reason for you to stand out unless you have some other striking features and if you are a handsome man with a chizzled jawline women will be all over you whether you are in shape or not.
      2) The insane amount of fake/bot profiles on these apps to compensate for the lack of real people.
      3) The insane amount of females who use the apps for an ego boost and have no interest in dating (or sleeping with anyone).
      4) An OkCupid study shows that women find 82% of men on these apps unattractive. Yes, not even average, just straight up unattractive. That means that no matter what style or "V" shape you have the majority of women WILL find you unattractive.
      5) Not to mention the catfish.
      Dating apps are for suckers, only about 6% of men on dating apps have success with women and that means by sheer statistics alone you probably wont be part of that majority. You will have much more success meeting people in public and not listening to Pick Up Artists like this guy who are just trying to sell you garbage.

    • @thisgphone
      @thisgphone 4 роки тому

      Unfourtunatly the link does not work. Would you repost the correct link Rich? Thank you

  • @irishdrive
    @irishdrive 4 роки тому +212

    "Women go to extreme lengths to make themselves look attractive" Chris Rock said it best - you ain't meeting her, you meetin her representative

    • @kes1582
      @kes1582 4 роки тому +7

      Great line!!

    • @laleau92
      @laleau92 4 роки тому +1

      @irishdrive that’s hilarious. Could you send a video?

  • @JohnnyLuambo
    @JohnnyLuambo 4 роки тому +323

    Teaching men how to get a decent meal in a garbage heap

  • @57ashdot
    @57ashdot 4 роки тому +29

    Just a quick point on V-taper; very easy way to make the angle look more dramatic is having huge lats. Pull ups, every single day, lads. Most important exercise there is besides squats.

  • @almarzacci8857
    @almarzacci8857 3 роки тому +35

    The problem with making your photos from a 6 to a 9 is once they meet you they just say Wow I just got Catfished.

    • @SS-ly2bn
      @SS-ly2bn 3 роки тому +4

      The fifty plus set in men are posting photos that are at least ten years old, too.

    • @TheP0lix
      @TheP0lix 3 роки тому +2

      it's real, the photo can improve a little too much your image, but, if you are working out, improving your style, and taking care of yourself overall, you shouldn't look that different from the photo tbh

    • @dud3stuff
      @dud3stuff 2 роки тому

      Selling is done in person. You first have to sell the meeting. Figure it out.

  • @wanderingdoc5075
    @wanderingdoc5075 4 роки тому +52

    "your mom lied to you bro"
    💯 on point!

  • @Da219StarWarsGuy
    @Da219StarWarsGuy 4 роки тому +99

    You're so right about having to make Bank. I looked at Tinder here in the Chicago area and the most common "personality trait" I saw women list is that they love to travel. It's not even funny how much it's listed.

    • @MrHav1k
      @MrHav1k 4 роки тому +18

      Is bankrolling their travel worth it to you? I'm starting to have a real problem with this "just get rich" advice. It technically works, but is it really worth it?

    • @StanfordtheArtist
      @StanfordtheArtist 4 роки тому +24

      That’s a global problem, not just in Chicago. I’ve been reading a lot about those traits we men “must have”, and it seems that women from diffrent countries including mine(I’m from Rotterdam, Netherlands) have the travel bug in their profile. Ai “you must take me to exotic places”. F*ck that.

    • @dalair
      @dalair 3 роки тому +3

      I see it as, nothing is good enough for her and she can't settle down.

    • @Da219StarWarsGuy
      @Da219StarWarsGuy 3 роки тому +2

      @@MrHav1k naw, it isn't. I'm not trying to have a girl make herself look good on social media at my expense.

    • @Da219StarWarsGuy
      @Da219StarWarsGuy 3 роки тому +5

      @@StanfordtheArtist I think social media is driving them to travel. They see pics of all these places other women post and want to do it themselves no matter if they rack up thousands upon thousands in debt. Whatever it takes to get the likes for them.

  • @lestat9012
    @lestat9012 4 роки тому +58

    Dating apps a joke. Coworker of mine was married with young kids and was on POF posting pics of herself from 10 years ago of course never mentioning she was married or grossly overweight and had personality disorder

    • @therealjulez7886
      @therealjulez7886 3 роки тому

      there's a enuff dumpster fires like that on dating apps. i once met a chick who had 3 kids all with diff fathers.. her last kid she met the father on tinder, i got out of there quick.

  • @naturetrails8217
    @naturetrails8217 4 роки тому +40

    “Do the work”

  • @patluvsvettes
    @patluvsvettes 4 роки тому +97

    If you aren't getting choosing signals from women IRL, then you definitely won't on these dating apps! Don't waste your time and energy. Work on yourself and meet women in the real world.

    • @PildoraRojaReviews
      @PildoraRojaReviews 4 роки тому +8

      Definitely... Real life is the best way to pick up woman, they can't use filters & photoshop in the real world, saves lots of time.

    • @DIVISIONINCISION
      @DIVISIONINCISION 4 роки тому

      @@PildoraRojaReviews Not that simple, baby Machos. Some of us have careers and don't have that kind of time to peruse the landscape. I'm going to bet you don't have education or a lucrative career. Those of us who do, don't have time to play around like you do.

    • @kazamastylebatsurealmofbea6269
      @kazamastylebatsurealmofbea6269 4 роки тому +1

      You sound bluepilled asf. I get ignored by women in real life as well and working on yourself doesn't mean shit if your unattractive

  • @byteresistor
    @byteresistor 4 роки тому +98

    Even if you're a decently good'ish looking guy, don't bother with these apps. You'll have better luck in real life.

    • @Ferien7
      @Ferien7 4 роки тому +6

      Oh yeah? How? Real life is no better unless you’re a 20% guy. Women are not pursuing average and below average men, even in person. Real life does not make things easier.

    • @jimmyp8438
      @jimmyp8438 4 роки тому +32

      @@Ferien7 The difference is with dating apps, low value women's egos are inflated because they are getting matched on and complimented left, right and center by guys better looking than them. They don't get anywhere near that much validation even in bars/clubs. Even if you are a decent looking guy on these dating apps, you will have tons of fat and/or ugly women swipe no on you, implying they can "do better" than you. This is hilarious because in real life, bars and clubs for example, they will never have the chance to do that to you because a decent looking guy will not even approach these girls never mind even notice them and these girls certainly aren't gonna go up to you and say "I'm too good for you". All I'm trying to say is dating apps is ruining the psychology of too many women these days and it's probably best if guys steer clear of dating apps and focus on real life experiences.

    • @ruleaus7664
      @ruleaus7664 4 роки тому +2

      I think I’m decent looking, but my introversion makes it extremely hard to meet women. So, apps may be a better tool for me. Well, they haven’t proven to be yet, but that’s probably because my photos aren’t good.

    • @Albus_Rex
      @Albus_Rex 4 роки тому +2

      @@wausjackbauer128 This. I won't say where I work, but it's Gov and I'm outside a lot. So I work an active job that's pretty important, and Im in situations where I interact with plenty of people. So even meeting women on the street I'm still treated like a worthless cur because I'm not chad . Can't lift weights to get taller I'm afraid.

    • @BohemianAndy
      @BohemianAndy 4 роки тому

      WAusJackBauer - Then date women who also don’t drink and don’t like bars and clubs. They exist

  • @whiterex06
    @whiterex06 4 роки тому +24

    Dating apps got me fat and crazies... being myself and being social would get me 7 to 10s easily. My close friend who using the apps would always get frustrated.

    • @keremcagin1228
      @keremcagin1228 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah, just go engaged in community activities, go to clubs, go to bars, meet people at your work and all will be fine!

  • @pizzaqueen9590
    @pizzaqueen9590 Рік тому +2

    "Nothing changes if nothing changes"- love it and so true 🙌

  • @chalsfo
    @chalsfo 4 роки тому +56

    Simping is sin

    • @bigjohn8407
      @bigjohn8407 4 роки тому +5

      It's one of the worst sins.

  • @gsd8754
    @gsd8754 4 роки тому +24

    The problem is that online dating is becoming more and more prominent and the "covid era" is not helping. I'm definitely investing in better pics in the near future

    • @HARRIS2820
      @HARRIS2820 4 роки тому +7

      The covid era is destroying the game. It's also a new excuse the brouds use to not meet up with you.

  • @davidbailey6173
    @davidbailey6173 4 роки тому

    I like the change in your tone, you are definitely evolving. Keep up the work, Thanks Rich

  • @canadianbrotv1303
    @canadianbrotv1303 4 роки тому +22

    I am getting results, but what I am noticing is they are looking for a texting, ego boost buddy... If your online set up a meet up immediately withing a week span. Do not become a texting buddy. I get better options with day game, I noticed the women I game in reality I get over time...

    • @andywatson8225
      @andywatson8225 4 роки тому +2

      That was my experience as well (texting buddy). Soon as I asked to exchange numbers and meetup she stopped texting. These women just want to sit on the computer and get lots of texting buddies to give them validation (non-sexual attention).

    • @mason5r
      @mason5r 3 роки тому

      @@andywatson8225 exactly this is the sad State of Affairs of the modern day feminist women these girls weren't even sevens or sixes and all they said was hey and before I had a chance to say hey back they unmatch and I'm like what do you get out of that ego boost and I'll never understand it because in the end they're the one that loses because not many Chads are going to chat them up online and I doubt they'll meet up with them and I'm genuinely curious if they're in denial or they know that they are just there for attention validation and if so that's never going to make them happy in the long room so you can my head. This is what I hate about being an American is the women don't know their place like they should bow down to a guy like me with 10 out of 10 looks but they treat me like s*** and unmatch me and I realize you'll never do better and ever since then I deleted dating apps

    • @saltysaty8686
      @saltysaty8686 3 роки тому

      I found this very true when I was doing online dating. Some very very immature women looking for ego posts or just friends.

    • @mason5r
      @mason5r 3 роки тому +1

      @@saltysaty8686 but for these egotistical stock of women what are they have to gain by this validation boost I guess these do women like secretly hate their looks or they don't like men because a confident high-value High self-esteem women would be attracted to a man they they want something they're not going to play games it's almost like they get more excitement from manipulating men in feeding their ego but what guy wants that kind of girl and yet these girls seem to be happy in that materialistic self-absorbed state

  • @blacksnk
    @blacksnk 4 роки тому +11

    The photography part is SO spot on. I hired a professional photographer for a Saturday and I was GETTING initial email from women. Money well spent.

  • @thebusinesshour1733
    @thebusinesshour1733 4 роки тому +1

    Excellent! As always Richard!

  • @connorbeaton8375
    @connorbeaton8375 3 роки тому +2

    Rich ; recently found your videos. I’ve been balding since 16 and I shaved it all off about half a year ago (I’m 19 and in college now). I look great, feel great, and started working out, and want to continue to do so as long as I live.

  • @facelessandnameless
    @facelessandnameless 4 роки тому +111

    The real solution is for men to get off dating apps altogether!

    • @mpenn80
      @mpenn80 3 роки тому +8

      Why? I’ve banged so many women off of these apps. It’s too easy man

    • @goeagles171
      @goeagles171 3 роки тому

      @@mpenn80 LMAO!

  • @mazze84
    @mazze84 4 роки тому

    Love your vids dude!
    You mentioned openers and game? Could you make a vid on your take on that?
    Keep up the great work.
    Peace

  • @lukep757
    @lukep757 2 роки тому

    Very helpful. Was hoping for a video like this.

  • @robc7011
    @robc7011 4 роки тому +4

    Love your shirt Rich! 😄😎💪🏻 I’m new to your channel and I love your content!

  • @CalvinJamesJr
    @CalvinJamesJr 4 роки тому +6

    Preach brother, I believe they would be a lot better if the get “The Player’s Guide”

  • @jleverette666
    @jleverette666 4 роки тому

    Youre videos are an inspiration video Rich!

  • @westsideisdabest7825
    @westsideisdabest7825 3 роки тому +3

    Dating apps are the worst. I've deleted them all and genuinely have had more success just approaching women when I'm out with friends. Have a 10 minute chat, get their number, arrange to meet. Always going to have a stronger impact.

  • @Supermedico6
    @Supermedico6 4 роки тому

    Great video sir thanks for this content.

  • @KristonMahr
    @KristonMahr 4 роки тому

    I'm calibrating to what my potential is, which is far off. It's does take focus and concentration, working not slouching. Good talk!

  • @electrocola9765
    @electrocola9765 4 роки тому

    reasonable points as usual Coop

  • @prepordietryin9119
    @prepordietryin9119 4 роки тому

    Great video!!!

  • @ApexMindset1
    @ApexMindset1 4 роки тому +6

    This video is a home run here Rich!

  • @kes1582
    @kes1582 4 роки тому

    I so enjoy your videos, Richard. More men need to see them. You make such great sense. I'm about to start dating a Canadian (I'm an Aussie)

  • @ericweber7707
    @ericweber7707 4 роки тому +8

    100% truth juice. I’m still trying get the career /making more money situation. This virus situation has made it harder.

    • @DIVISIONINCISION
      @DIVISIONINCISION 4 роки тому

      If you ever get your financial situation, career, house, cars, resources set you will stop caring about women.

  • @teapartyjoe
    @teapartyjoe 4 роки тому +1

    Really good vid. I thought this would be crap but its good!

  • @riquerod8594
    @riquerod8594 3 роки тому

    Lol, I love your honesty, you inspire Rich, ty

  • @artavishawkins6100
    @artavishawkins6100 4 роки тому +20

    It’s amazing how i used to think that I couldn’t fix a lot of the things wrong with me but since ive been watching your videos along with Donovan Sharpe, AMS, Oshay and others I realize anything is possible. I will be 27 in 3 days and im feeling like im about to start the best years of my life. Thank you Richard Cooper

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 4 роки тому +5

      You’re still 10+ years away from the best years of your life, dude.

    • @artavishawkins6100
      @artavishawkins6100 4 роки тому +3

      VoiceOfTheSoul says who?

    • @StanfordtheArtist
      @StanfordtheArtist 4 роки тому +1

      Artavis Hawkins VoiceOfTheSoul is right. I’m 52 now, and from my 33th till my 50th I had “the time of my life”😉

    • @HarryXHemispheres
      @HarryXHemispheres 4 роки тому

      Every year has straight up gotten better and better, I think that boils down to mindset though. I know people who just settle for what their life is at 23 and are now 30, doing the same thing. Nothing to show for it. Just make use of your time productively and I really don't think you can "prime out."

  • @billywatson4810
    @billywatson4810 4 роки тому +6

    Awesome vid Rich!
    Hey, which Dating Apps have
    filters?(I don't want single mothers to contact me)

  • @fifasf3379
    @fifasf3379 3 роки тому

    The dorky selfie 😂😂😂👏🏻👏🏻

  • @christophermirkovich7290
    @christophermirkovich7290 4 роки тому +3

    4 minutes in and great content

  • @Louis21237
    @Louis21237 4 роки тому

    Great advice

  • @robertr6482
    @robertr6482 4 роки тому +19

    Just like all things in life - online dating requires work. As men, we need to do the work if we want to get good results in any facet of life. Online dating is no exception. Work on yourself, your body, your style, your grooming, and then put it all together with some good professional photos to market yourself on these apps.
    I'm getting some professional shots done today. Let's see what happens. I spent a decent amount of time being unsuccessful online because of grainy quality club/bar pics with my bros. Time to change that.
    Sure, it's "wEiRd" to get a photo shoot done for online dating - some of my close buddies have already made a fuss about it. But fuck em. Going against the grain (average bottom 80% of Men today) will yield positive results.
    Great vid Rich.

    • @kriss0214
      @kriss0214 4 роки тому

      DC Hits Diff Good luck, let us know how you do 👍

    • @blacksnk
      @blacksnk 4 роки тому

      It works! When I did online dating, I got professional shots done and it made a world of difference. I had women writing me first and almost every woman I wrote answered back.

    • @Noor-hd5nf
      @Noor-hd5nf 4 роки тому

      Dude if you're good looking you don't need no professional photos lol

    • @robertr6482
      @robertr6482 4 роки тому

      @@Noor-hd5nf Ehh yes and no. I've done pretty decent in person. Been told I'm good looking once I've piped. I'm no Chad though.

    • @MajesticFerret
      @MajesticFerret 4 роки тому

      @@Noor-hd5nf yeah you do of you want to get the best results. Taking a modelesque pic of your abs makes you look like a model. Taking a pic of your abs in a bathroom mirror makes you look low value and broke.
      It's all about being congruent with money and status.

  • @alfiejasim8361
    @alfiejasim8361 4 роки тому

    great video coach .....

  • @miketripodo2879
    @miketripodo2879 3 роки тому +1

    +1 on the Bubs TPB reference!

  • @carlmarch9591
    @carlmarch9591 4 роки тому

    Great video rich god bless from the UK

  • @nicolash.9222
    @nicolash.9222 3 роки тому

    3:50 Does somebody know the name of the app Rich was talking about ? I'm curious. Thanks

  • @freeman37
    @freeman37 4 роки тому

    I don't use dating apps no more, but that style book might come in handy

  • @ScottWebb27
    @ScottWebb27 3 роки тому

    It's the money department. Covid has rocked me too. Trying to figure out how to make it rain but at 40. Too late? LOL

  • @chrisclayton584
    @chrisclayton584 4 роки тому +1

    I have to admit...this is a great fuckin video. Straight forward steps. The measurements of the body and examples of what your talking about. Even the app to grade your pics. None of that, well idk, I'm not you, I don't live your life BS. Your telling me HOW to improve. A workable pathway to improve. Big thumbs up!

  • @ruleaus7664
    @ruleaus7664 4 роки тому +6

    I haven’t had any success on dating apps, and I think I’m decent looking as a tall, fit guy. It must be my poor photos, which I took of myself wearing unstylish clothes in my home with poor lighting. At the time, I thought showing myself in a better light would be putting on a facade. For example, I don’t get out much, and I don’t have any friends. Why portray my life differently when she will find out anyway?

    • @saltysaty8686
      @saltysaty8686 3 роки тому

      Then you need to get out and get a fiend circle. You're going to get screwed over in the long run if you don't have friends to talk through stuff with. Anyone can get gas lit if them have no friends beforehand. And friends have friends. Friends have some friends that are 7-9s... and they know if they are good ideas to date or bad ideas to date...

  • @prana5570
    @prana5570 4 роки тому

    What’s the name of the app called I can’t find it ?

  • @raineoffyre
    @raineoffyre 4 роки тому +2

    I thought the "golden ratio" was calculated via your waist and shoulder circumference? Or is it both?

  • @boloignatius3683
    @boloignatius3683 4 роки тому

    Rich, I recently wrote a book on dating in today's climate, with a sizable emphasis on utilizing apps. How could I get a hold of you for a possible review of it?

  • @Lordbloodwolf7
    @Lordbloodwolf7 4 роки тому

    I am on board with the money idea you mentioned around the end of the video! Would love to know how to limit a woman’s access to money if i ever get into a relationship

  • @unique5087
    @unique5087 3 роки тому

    Truth bombs. Love it

  • @russellbird7543
    @russellbird7543 4 роки тому +14

    Still sounds like a lot of effort for a P&D. I point blank refuse to look like a narcissist for women's benefit. Much happier just living my life, if a woman clocks me filling up my Maserati while she's filling up her financed shitbox and asks for my number so be it 😅. A lot of these 'Top 20%' men on these dating apps still live with their parents. They may have the looks but most don't have or make bank.

    • @facelessandnameless
      @facelessandnameless 4 роки тому

      👌

    • @MrHav1k
      @MrHav1k 4 роки тому +3

      So you have to slave away at your job or business just to compensate and make up for what the guy living in his parent's basement gets for free??? So who is winning here exactly? I think we need to question the notion that simply getting a bunch of money in order to compensate for sub-Chad level looks naturally is some kind of desirable outcome. The business world is the most brutal there is. How is all of that worth it for access to a wet gash between some girl's legs?

    • @russellbird7543
      @russellbird7543 4 роки тому +1

      @@MrHav1k while I'm probably a 7/10 looks (I don't get Tinder matches), I'm more concerned about competing with social media than Chad/Tyrone. It's a game I point blank refuse to play, yet it's the only language women seem to understand these days. Working on my health and wealth is far easier than building a social media profile/social proof/selfies/bragging/ narcisism etc. My life is littered with things that would tickle a woman's hypergamy but I don't plaster it all over my FB as it's not in my nature. Ultimately I want to be the judge not the woman. Maybe in 2021 I can do a little experiment, become a social media whore and see how many jumps I get 😅

    • @metaphysicalfractionals4509
      @metaphysicalfractionals4509 4 роки тому

      @@russellbird7543 if you are bald, you can't be a 7/10

    • @BrooklynBaby-1
      @BrooklynBaby-1 3 роки тому

      @@russellbird7543 Problem #1: You still have FB.

  • @gwd1095
    @gwd1095 4 роки тому

    Thanks Richard

  • @EvilMandark13
    @EvilMandark13 4 роки тому +4

    I have no problem getting matches with beautiful women on tinder, my issue is I have trouble translating the matches into dates. Can you make a video about the game aspect of online dating?

    • @JohnBeezy3
      @JohnBeezy3 2 роки тому

      Unfortunately matching doesn’t mean anything. I have gotten many numbers or matches at speed dating only for them to never respond. Sometimes matching is simply an ego boost for them.

  • @legoguyver7459
    @legoguyver7459 4 роки тому +2

    Dating apps also affect attraction in person as well since she feels she can always do better since the "supply" is the WORLD!

    • @jimmyp8438
      @jimmyp8438 4 роки тому

      Bingo! In the end it works against women because sooner or later they have to realize that they don't have as many options as they think they do thanks to dating apps.

  • @pumpupthevolume4775
    @pumpupthevolume4775 4 роки тому +31

    Dating apps suck. They are far more favorable to women to the point that they are a waste of time for guys. Women love to use them to boost their self-confidence and find texting buddies. They are very picky, get 100:1 response ratio compared to what men get on the apps (not scientific stat, but it's close to the reality). They'll drag out the back and forth forever and often it will just fizzle out without a real meeting. They're a huge time sink with little gain and the people that own/run them know that it's a joke on the guys.
    And anyway, the women on them are not going to look like they look like on the app and since looks are the number one criteria for guys, you're going to be disappointed most of the time.

    • @DIVISIONINCISION
      @DIVISIONINCISION 4 роки тому +1

      Act like Christian Slater would in this situation. Give it a couple of text echanges before getting down to meeting. If she stalls, you cut her off. That ensures you don't waste time. Remember what staying within your frame means.

  • @wanderlustofvk7029
    @wanderlustofvk7029 3 роки тому

    Could anyone tell me a little about cold approach?
    Thanks

  • @cichlidfeak
    @cichlidfeak 4 роки тому

    No bs video......Thumps up!

  • @VoiceOfThe
    @VoiceOfThe 4 роки тому

    Nice t-shirt!

  • @deepdiver849
    @deepdiver849 4 роки тому +1

    Is there any chat room like yahoo chat anymore ? I missed that as we could browse according to interest with choose whether we want to chat up with male/female .
    It would be awesome to connect on an intellectual level once the physical level is ticked .
    I think this method is way better than dating apps.
    I hope some company revives this concept.

  • @lynkozz
    @lynkozz 4 роки тому

    Aye you got a typo on the sponsor link brutha

  • @clarke7703
    @clarke7703 Рік тому

    “Which I shall now proceed to explain to you” - Rich “Daddy Rich” Cooper

  • @BuyBBStonk
    @BuyBBStonk 4 роки тому +5

    If online dating never existed, would the people who did meet online still find a partner in person? If so, would they be better off having met their partner in person compared to online?

    • @kaya051285
      @kaya051285 4 роки тому

      I'm glad online dating exists
      Without it I don't know where I would find women in pretty reserved and work in a male dominated world so there isn't much interaction with women
      Online allows ability to date lots of women yes many won't be to your taste but date 50-100 women and you'll find an amazing one (or two 😸) for you

  • @melenico4512
    @melenico4512 3 роки тому

    I have used black and white photo effects to good use. I have olive skin but it has worked well. Richard is right looks do matter I workout a decent amount. Remember women trade up if they think you are an 8 or 9 they are around a 6. She will only want you from a looks perspective if she thinks you are better looking than her not the other way around.

  • @panserspikes6011
    @panserspikes6011 4 роки тому +5

    The advice is indeed legit and should be taken seriously by any dude! (the Number 4..well).
    Now: for any dude to waste ones time on "dating apps" is for most part just pure madness. Why any man want to boost the superficial egos of histrionic women is beyond me.
    Im generalizing here: but Im under the impression that the beautiful and Healthy (both physicly and mentally) women dont sit at dating apps.
    No wonder relationships is so fucked these days: when social media and dating apps is so rampant

  • @dylandavis29
    @dylandavis29 4 роки тому +11

    Any man in a dating app is a desperate fool wasting his time

  • @benlevitz6472
    @benlevitz6472 4 роки тому

    The key with the dating apps is the algorithm. If you can give the algorithm what it wants in the right way at the right time you’ll get the max amount of matches.

  • @Heritagepostfarms
    @Heritagepostfarms 3 роки тому +3

    Im a solid 7 and usually get around 25 matches on tinder in a month. I switched it to guys just to see what would happen. Within 1 hour I had 200 likes.

  • @kenboon1478
    @kenboon1478 4 роки тому +7

    Only Two ways to get women on dating Apps , one is to be good looking/ handsome and two be financially superior to the other guys on the App .

    • @dalair
      @dalair 3 роки тому

      ken boon I'm only half of that lol

    • @mason5r
      @mason5r 3 роки тому

      Bulshit I'm 10 out of 10 looks-wise and I get straight of disrespected on online dating apps ugly girls are actually meaner to me cuz and I know this they don't admit to it that don't ever do better than me and they instantly know that part I understand as you would think they would be grateful but they're not to be talking to me because they have that f****** Western stuck-up feminist mentality and in the end match me but I guarantee you they'll still be in the dating apps years later and not found anybody I wonder why because they play stupid games I don't understand how getting ego attention benefits then they lose in the long run but I don't want to deal with those kind of women anyway

  • @david92558
    @david92558 2 роки тому

    What a facts...Only the truth here !!!

  • @12Messenger
    @12Messenger 4 роки тому +2

    I just copy and paste the same message and send it to 30 women and usually 6-7 respond so my odds are 38%

  • @glenncuthbertson964
    @glenncuthbertson964 2 роки тому +2

    I think internet dating ruined my marriage, although I do acknowledge there were problems in the relationship prior to me leaving a 20 plus year relationship. Unfortunately, I felt bogged down by the burden of responsibility of a long term marriage and escaped to searching for women on online dating sites, (just curious). Then secretly started "going on dates" which eventually ended the marriage, and broke the kids hearts.

  • @xbmw2002x
    @xbmw2002x 3 роки тому

    Haha I have the same couch, and the chair that pairs with that table.

  • @chadcadsonvii5258
    @chadcadsonvii5258 3 роки тому

    I love Bubbles!

  • @gainesdominique
    @gainesdominique 4 роки тому +2

    Go to the book stores. Women who reads books MIGHT be better.
    You go to the book store and walk up to a woman saying " I don't read often can you recommend some books?"
    BOOM
    Easy conversation...

  • @kenneth24castle
    @kenneth24castle 4 роки тому

    Pure 🔥 I hope my channel can one day provide as much depth as your big bro. Thanks for the information

  • @31devious
    @31devious 4 роки тому

    Most of your points, equal your shirt - DO THE WORK -
    Simply hard, hardly simple. something to commit to though, it is defiantly a choice and most definitely a Y in the road

  • @Anonymous-md2qp
    @Anonymous-md2qp 4 роки тому +2

    Can a man ever truly become a 10 out of 10? I’m sure there is always room for improvement.

  • @-HiddenInPlainSight-
    @-HiddenInPlainSight- 3 роки тому

    Thanks

  • @MrHav1k
    @MrHav1k 4 роки тому +2

    Nothing new here at all, but it's a decent reminder if you still believe for some reason women are worth all the work you need to put in in order to attract them. Dating apps are looks based first and foremost and the number one thing that's rarely discussed in these communities is that many aspects of your looks (race, height, facial structure, bone structure, eye color, etc) put a hard cap on your SMV. Do the best you can obviously, but if someone better equipped than you puts in the work too, you wind up in the same place you started because women ALWAYS choose the top 20%. At best you'll only be able to out-compete the 6s and 7s who didn't do the work. That's just how it is. If you can accept that and still want to play this game, you'll have the proper mindset for it.

    • @DIVISIONINCISION
      @DIVISIONINCISION 4 роки тому +1

      Be realistic about whether the juice is worth the squeeze. Most times it isn't.

  • @swthomas1911
    @swthomas1911 4 роки тому +2

    Agree with all your points. Biggest one, if you’re not handsome, delete these apps. Stick to day-gaming where you have a better chance at getting past your looks with women.

    • @mason5r
      @mason5r 3 роки тому

      Actually that's a bunch of bulshit I find that it's worth for a better-looking guy through 10 out of 10 does not allowed to attend attend models on these sites and because I'm an introvert and Shy Guy and I don't want to talk to girls in real life cuz I think I'm better than them and want them to approach me I find an ugly girls online or more mean to me cuz he there they won't tell me this they can't do better than me or they're jealous that I'm better-looking because they'll match and unmatch immediately any girl that's interested in you won't do that so I find dating apps are horrible for all men because of the type of Americanized woman but they're actually worse for better looking than this is been my experience

  • @boardmike82
    @boardmike82 4 роки тому +2

    When I had CEO of my own company as my job title I got 5x more matches then I do now. Women are drawn to resources

  • @PokerDavid84
    @PokerDavid84 4 роки тому

    @entrepreneur in cars : nice app advice. Overall got great reviews off a selfie 8.5...😂😂😂 awesome ego builder...a couple of Karen's gave me 0's to knock my score down 7.8...😂😂😂 one didn't like the background of your pic...😂😂😂

  • @tarmancrothers1220
    @tarmancrothers1220 4 роки тому +2

    Dating apps are for suckers... Don't put up with shit from others, kick ass at everything you do, get a motorcycle, realize its your fuckn world, flirt with every woman you see or meet, & say and do whatever the hell you want..... this is what works for me and I have more women than I can handle

  • @tubenachos
    @tubenachos 4 роки тому

    DO THE WORK. Amen 🙏

  • @funlovenboy
    @funlovenboy 4 роки тому +3

    I use to be so good at getting girls online but noticed I could only keep their interest for a week or two and was curious of what I was doing wrong. Then I went on a date with a girl who had over 2000 likes on tinder! She said she was on for a month and this chick was nothing to write home about. Now I’m trying to meet chicks in the wild.

    • @MrHav1k
      @MrHav1k 4 роки тому +8

      Here's the thing. Even if you meet them offline "in the wild," they're still using Tinder to see if you really are the best they can get and to trade up.

  • @jbella11
    @jbella11 4 роки тому +8

    There's something about professional or thoughtful photos that says, "I put effort into dating" that makes higher-value women more likely to swipe right when they otherwise wouldn't. Someone who puts effort in will also be drawn to effort.
    Women also make assumptions about what we think you are like as a person based on your photos.

    • @jbella11
      @jbella11 4 роки тому

      @SUCKRPUNCHED Unless you've seen who I swipe on, you can't say who or what I swipe for. You are, in fact, incorrect. I avoid selfies and body-shots

    • @a.c.slater573
      @a.c.slater573 2 роки тому

      Bye Felicia

    • @kevin15776
      @kevin15776 Рік тому

      My guess is women see professional photos as "he has money to blow on dating sites so he can probably blow some on me too".

  • @Albus_Rex
    @Albus_Rex 4 роки тому +1

    How do you improve height?

    • @kaya051285
      @kaya051285 4 роки тому

      Boots or taller shoes can make 1-2 inch difference
      Or simply sit at the right place at the bar or wherever you go
      One time I went to a bar and one side was benches the other side was a chair
      I sat on the beach side which was maybe six inches shorter than the chair and the lady ended up a little taller than me
      I got some drinks and made us change places and then I towered over her and all was right in the world :)
      If you have a girl who is a little taller than you or about the same height you can choose the location well and just sit on the taller chair/bench/whatever

  • @ericlarousse1149
    @ericlarousse1149 4 роки тому

    Holy shit, that's alot of work to get them to swipe!

  • @lauradove
    @lauradove 2 роки тому

    This is all soooo true

  • @DavidSmith-fw3if
    @DavidSmith-fw3if 3 роки тому

    You meant to say Top 10% for that income, the Top 20% is lower than that in Canada.

  • @RiderRed
    @RiderRed 3 роки тому

    This is great advice, I would add for guys who cant get a good or great paying job right away, clean your damn apartment or house while you workout and do better, on the off chance you meet a "test women" in your path you can have some things that signal right away you have your shit together, also clean up your credit. I say test women cause there is always one that will come around to 'test" your resolve, especially when you physically improve Here are some other cheap easy and "quickish" ways to get more status and network quickly
    1. Start a blog and update regularly with good photos and good word play.
    2. Become the actual photographer and when there are events go to those events and mini blog on Instagram and Facebook.
    3. Take up Archery, take pics good pics, even better when your in shape. Sleeveless shirts with the bow drawn...It works
    4. Animals anything with animals is almost instant with women, I took a pic with a damn goat once and 3 chicks Dm'd on bumble based on that pic. They where 7 out of 10's no kids, in shape Hung out with all three still in casual contact with 2, Current Entanglement with that 3rd lol, Above all do it for you but there is nothing wrong with wanting to meet more women within that mindset. Do the work! Stats: I'm bald. black male 5'9 13% body fat, stocky football build 40, own my own painting company.

  • @christopherroberts2423
    @christopherroberts2423 4 роки тому +1

    This shit is GOLD!!

  • @joshe6066
    @joshe6066 4 роки тому

    Rich's chest has a mind of its own

  • @captrodgers4273
    @captrodgers4273 3 роки тому

    idk....i peeked on one and it was all used trash with unreasonable expectations lists and then they started to limit who you can talk to by age.....like they literally will not let you see anyone profile 10 years older or younger

  • @alexmannen1991
    @alexmannen1991 3 роки тому

    >just learn game bro
    >now focus 100% on looks