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  • Опубліковано 17 кві 2018
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    In this video presentation, Richard Cooper shares 10 key strategies that any man can benefit from when it comes to women and life.
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  • @21s
    @21s  6 років тому +79

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    • @Winst0nOBoogie
      @Winst0nOBoogie 6 років тому +3

      I got the same burns... same reason.

    • @drwombat
      @drwombat 6 років тому +1

      Did you post this due to the popularity of the single mother bit that was demo'd on WSHH? that seemed to be very popular among the users there

    • @jugular911
      @jugular911 5 років тому

      Great talk, although I think he was a bit of a dickhead to last person who asked a question.

    • @campsitez2355
      @campsitez2355 4 роки тому

      21:07 now there's some quality leadership advice lol.... wtf

    • @hbbstn
      @hbbstn 4 роки тому

      Is this university just for straight guys?

  • @marccas10
    @marccas10 5 років тому +1417

    The TED talk you will never see. 🤣

    • @ElevateResumeDesign
      @ElevateResumeDesign 5 років тому +28

      On God that’s the truth

    • @econdude3811
      @econdude3811 5 років тому +16

      This guy is definitely good

    • @memoryrinehart
      @memoryrinehart 5 років тому +5

      This talk is of course good for everyone not just men, but I've no use for any profanity.

    • @t5396
      @t5396 5 років тому +37

      @@memoryrinehart bitch

    • @destinysvoid4712
      @destinysvoid4712 5 років тому +37

      Memory Rinehart don’t be a pussy.

  • @124madcow
    @124madcow 5 років тому +1473

    Hearing this at 21 is a God send

    • @stijnjonkers4861
      @stijnjonkers4861 5 років тому +50

      How about 16

    • @bsackmcgee6587
      @bsackmcgee6587 5 років тому +42

      Try 30.

    • @DrsJacksonn
      @DrsJacksonn 5 років тому +49

      25 here. Feels just right in time.

    • @Aldo7899
      @Aldo7899 5 років тому +22

      The biggest thing you will learn as you get older, and there is no shortcut here, is to learn from other people’s mistakes. And I mean truly learn, once you get tired of learning from your own.
      You have to make a lot of them first though. It can’t be helped.

    • @theforeignpatriot6992
      @theforeignpatriot6992 5 років тому +28

      124macow. I am over 40 and I can tell you one thing only. Take this man's advise.

  • @mohamedrafrafi5486
    @mohamedrafrafi5486 5 років тому +1023

    Behind every great man there is no women.

    • @sulaymannjie8883
      @sulaymannjie8883 4 роки тому +16

      Thanks so much! That is the best advice I get since I am born

    • @0113Naruto
      @0113Naruto 4 роки тому +14

      Or multiple women

    • @KyranSparda
      @KyranSparda 4 роки тому +56

      The women only comes AFTER you've become great. :)

    • @lezel4swarts
      @lezel4swarts 4 роки тому +11

      Well i dont see alot of jeff bezos.
      But alot of unsuccessful MGTOW

    • @whitemailprivilege2830
      @whitemailprivilege2830 4 роки тому

      KyranSparda LoL 😆

  • @peace-yv4qd
    @peace-yv4qd 6 років тому +1205

    I'm 72 and this fellow is right about singles sites. Even women in roughly my age group think that they are still as attractive as they were when they were young. And the long list of demands they make are incredibly unrealistic.

    • @jlogan2228
      @jlogan2228 6 років тому +149

      peace2014 my favorite is the ones who are single moms with shitty tattoos and overweight talking about NO HOOKUPS NOT LOOKING FOR SEX! Its like sweetheart....thats about all you have to offer is an easy lay so youre about to take away your one bargaining chip

    • @SONORSQ2guy
      @SONORSQ2guy 6 років тому +42

      peace2014
      These women end up alone in a room full of cats! 😹

    • @basilmweramakokha9557
      @basilmweramakokha9557 5 років тому +2

      Subsonscious what does SMV stand for?

    • @theredninja2817
      @theredninja2817 5 років тому +8

      peace2014 yes you're absolutely correct and so is he I've been to singles clubs for women are much older cougar clubs they call it and they always always think that they're way better than what they really are and they have these crazy List of Demands like insane denial and they all still get with the same kind of crappy guy they got with when they were young kids in their late teens early 20s

    • @Zoza15
      @Zoza15 5 років тому +4

      That is crazy bro!!..
      Seriously! XD

  • @kirikouwepeutihmecemonami4219
    @kirikouwepeutihmecemonami4219 5 років тому +333

    Atreus : I’m sorry...
    Kratos : Don’t be sorry. Be better ...

    • @11cacoo
      @11cacoo 4 роки тому +5

      @jw 041 When you fuck up
      BOY!!!

    • @MrNayo305
      @MrNayo305 3 роки тому +2

      That's right. Love God of War!

  • @MD-nt9nv
    @MD-nt9nv 3 роки тому +100

    1) Wounds - Allow Wounds to Become Your Work (2:05)
    2) Ownership - Take 100% Ownership for Your Life (9:10)
    3) Intuition - Listen to Your Intuition (11:57)
    4) Happiness - True Happiness In Men Can Only Come from Red Pill Awareness (15:05)
    5) Beliefs - Constantly Update Your Belief System (16:42)
    6) Influence - Circle of Influence Matters (18:32)
    7) Fucks - You Only Have So Many Fucks to Give, So Manage Them Wisely (21:12)
    8) Vet - Learn How to Vet Women Better (23:27)
    9) Care - Make Self Care a Lifestyle Choice, It Matters (30:53)
    10) Nature - Accept Female Nature (31:37)

  • @washingtonconsultants1041
    @washingtonconsultants1041 4 роки тому +322

    "She was never really yours, it was just your turn"- thats cold but true

    • @davidowunna
      @davidowunna 3 роки тому +13

      This statement pedestalizes women. Better way to put it is, You’re not hers, it’s just her turn.

    • @joys8634
      @joys8634 2 роки тому

      @@davidowunna the dating market says otherwise

  • @justkeepitoriginal
    @justkeepitoriginal 5 років тому +402

    Basically
    Lose weight
    Get buff
    Say NO

    • @manuelkiatoko
      @manuelkiatoko 4 роки тому +15

      Stack up*

    • @MrRainbowSprinkles
      @MrRainbowSprinkles 4 роки тому +15

      Looks, money, status, and say no

    • @RETIRE2024
      @RETIRE2024 4 роки тому +4

      Awesome

    • @hbbstn
      @hbbstn 4 роки тому +10

      To be fair, he didn’t say you have to be tall and have a decent size dick. But I agree he's looking to make money on this like any other speakers. He's got to pay alimony.

    • @4dd4m4d
      @4dd4m4d 3 роки тому +7

      @@hbbstn well im sorry but im 1.85 with a 20cm dick... but born poor as fuck and choose to do a job that I like instead of one taht will make girls happy... none of the girls cared about me being taller than average or bigger than average... but the fact that I was born in the bottom of the society and decided not to spend my time in this world doing something that I hate is the only think they seem to care about!!!

  • @ahmedzaafar9051
    @ahmedzaafar9051 3 роки тому +98

    You can feel the pain and regret in his voice, especially when he talks about his ex wife. This mans a true saint and a very soft spoken genuine human being! God Bless

  • @raritica8409
    @raritica8409 5 років тому +114

    21 here. And full of insecurities. I will grow from this. I'm not a weakling. Thanks, something I definitely didn't know I needed this morning..

    • @breatheeasily4013
      @breatheeasily4013 3 роки тому +6

      We all start somewhere. I started at 15 at my weakest and the results is immaculate.

    • @masonnair
      @masonnair 3 роки тому +2

      Keep you head up, keep growing. God's got your back!

    • @EvasGamingASMR
      @EvasGamingASMR 3 роки тому +1

      pick up heavy stuff and put it down lol. But really, i know several people's depression nad insecurities cured by putting on a little muscle and getting them endorphins flowing.

    • @matibenjamin1407
      @matibenjamin1407 2 роки тому

      How are you doing brah?

  • @bretislav9247
    @bretislav9247 3 роки тому +68

    Hearing this at my 22 is really the greatest thing that happened me on UA-cam.

    • @recklessgameplay9988
      @recklessgameplay9988 2 роки тому

      Same!

    • @kaizze8777
      @kaizze8777 Рік тому

      I'm 36 now and all I have to say is YES. I learned to do business at 17 and learned PUA stuff at 18. Sales at 20 so yes it's a MAJOR leg up. Made my first 7 figures at 30 so I expect YOU and your generation to do better 👍👍😎😎😎😎🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @cjthetallpoet
      @cjthetallpoet 10 місяців тому

      @@kaizze8777 do you think learning another language would be beneficial? I’m trying to learn German and American Sign Language while I’m at college

  • @stevelynn4402
    @stevelynn4402 5 років тому +133

    Truth bombs left and right. Bombarding men right where it’s needed. As a paralyzed vet, I finally understood attitude is everything! Attitude determines Altitude! And I’ve gone no where but Up!! PEAAAACE!!!!!! ✌🏼😎

    • @mattirwin6089
      @mattirwin6089 3 роки тому +7

      Thanks for your service brother!

    • @demo3456
      @demo3456 3 роки тому +5

      hey man it's a year since you wrote this and I hope you are doing better then well. Thank you for doing what this country doesn't deserve.

    • @bradgarlinghomes2596
      @bradgarlinghomes2596 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you for your service sir.

  • @flamingjob2
    @flamingjob2 6 років тому +299

    probably best video on life advice for men

  • @larcm3
    @larcm3 4 роки тому +77

    I'm in my 30s now. But I wish I heard this when I was 20.

    • @AbletonLiveTechs
      @AbletonLiveTechs 3 роки тому +4

      divorced? im 29 and after red pill ill never see women the same

    • @nergal2931
      @nergal2931 3 роки тому +4

      I am 29 and i feel like im just old enough to digest the red pill. I dont think i could have at 20.

    • @nergal2931
      @nergal2931 3 роки тому

      @Thanos awesome dude, keep pushing, stay focused, dont give up, with so much time, you can achieve whatever you want.

    • @Danimal77
      @Danimal77 Рік тому

      I'm 44 and knew about this since I was 26.

    • @hardno123
      @hardno123 2 місяці тому

      like wise

  • @ENIGMAXII2112
    @ENIGMAXII2112 5 років тому +63

    WHOOAAAWWWWW!!!!!!!!
    This is one of the best 49 minutes I have invested in...
    ALL MEN should see this...

    • @goa141no6
      @goa141no6 5 років тому +1

      Try Coach Red Pill, he can really expand in the subject.

  • @mrdee734
    @mrdee734 5 років тому +222

    LESSON HERE:
    1. Get fit. Man, anyone can do it, even if you're 200kg. You can reach the fit level.
    2. Never marry.
    3. Be feasible: set goals you can do.
    4. Improve your friends and be happy.
    5. Veto the women when you feel like.

    • @formula112967
      @formula112967 3 роки тому +13

      great list...can I add a #2b to go with your #2?....DON'T GET ANY WOMEN PREGNANT FOR ANY REASON!

    • @TheHealthLife
      @TheHealthLife 3 роки тому +2

      unless you have physical problems..then you can't.

    • @karencourt5684
      @karencourt5684 3 роки тому

      Its more like the women dont need to get married.way to much work

    • @darylfoster7944
      @darylfoster7944 2 роки тому

      @@formula112967 so the human race ends?

    • @formula112967
      @formula112967 2 роки тому

      @@darylfoster7944 so be it.... I recommend that ALL men don't marry or have children until the Captain-save-a-ho man-hating laws change. I was the half that always did the right thing in my marriage, but the divorce was initiated by her, and she was unfaithful, and the courts treated her like the victim because she was born with a vagina, and treated me like a criminal. Any man that has been through the system will agree with me....it's not equal and not fair.

  • @CorruptionDee
    @CorruptionDee 6 років тому +235

    I've been following Richard Cooper for about a year and a half. Truly inspiring. His opinions are based on facts, logic, and experience. Being raised by a single mom was detrimental to my evolution of becoming a man. I would have killed to have had a Richard Cooper in my life 20 years ago. It would have saved me from a metric fuckton of bad decisions, heartache ,and regrets. Having 2 sons and being 37 now, I look forward to sharing my knowledge and experience with my sons to Red Pill them at an early age.

    • @edhog
      @edhog 4 роки тому +2

      Dee Jimenez lucky kids you got mate, keep on crushing it brother. All the love at you and your family.

    • @threethrushes
      @threethrushes 4 роки тому +4

      Similar story here. A religious, uneducated, single mother raised a simp.
      Taken me 30+ years to become a man. What a colossal waste of time.
      Glad you got two sons to raise as men. At 43 I am unmarried, although if I met the right woman...

    • @TokyoTaisu
      @TokyoTaisu 3 роки тому +4

      Same here Dee, with a ultra beta dad. Same outcome. Also have a son now, sometimes I sing Rollo Tommassi to him I want that name to be stuck in his head for later in case something happens to me. If they ever start deleting or censoring the internet there will always be a backchannel where he will be able to find what his dad was singing to him. And from there find the other gems like Richard.

    • @barackthecomposer6642
      @barackthecomposer6642 3 роки тому +1

      @@TokyoTaisu
      And Coach Greg Adams

    • @clauaome25
      @clauaome25 9 місяців тому

      you are 42 now you are still young

  • @David-zm3iq
    @David-zm3iq 6 років тому +480

    Jesus this guy is a saint

  • @GenericInternetter
    @GenericInternetter 6 років тому +601

    I wish I had seen this talk 10 or 20 years ago!

    • @kazisla1312
      @kazisla1312 5 років тому +7

      I'm glad this is not too late for me. I'm assuming you went through a divorce?

    • @blackdragonstory1122
      @blackdragonstory1122 5 років тому +17

      I might have been a totally different person now if I had heard shit like this 10-15 years ago.
      Instead I am a lonely fuck that is watching redpill vids.

    • @bronxlords
      @bronxlords 5 років тому +4

      So do I, I am trapped in a marriage. After talking to a lawyer, he told me I won't I won't have enough to wipe my ass. Also my father left me when I was 5 years old. It fucked up my life. I just can't do it. I know how it feels,oh How I wish I knew about this 15 years ago.

    • @gerryvandepol8666
      @gerryvandepol8666 4 роки тому +4

      @@bronxlords....grow a pair and get out...you will better your money situation....we all have the same amount of time...limited time but unlimited money out there....

    • @zyilund
      @zyilund 4 роки тому +4

      Me too!! Even 5 years ago would be really helpful!

  • @ateam388
    @ateam388 5 років тому +30

    You had discipline. You get confidence by learning and experience. Disciple is the doing, confidence is the reward.stop doing and watch confidence go. Start doing and watch confidence grow.

  • @DarkSitari
    @DarkSitari 6 років тому +568

    Dropping that red pill on an audience of blue pillers

    • @mattguzda1427
      @mattguzda1427 6 років тому +3

      DarkSitari so you can't have any distinctions it's only 1 way or the other. I'm glad you're around to tell everyone

    • @mwloos1
      @mwloos1 5 років тому +19

      Beyond Reflect Depends on your age.. I know he gave the fluffy “you can start now at any age”, but if you’re young it’s inspiring but if you’re 40 and just learned this or read rational male it is very anxiety producing

    • @mwloos1
      @mwloos1 5 років тому +22

      And expensive to change from blue pill to red pill especially if you’ve been kissing you’re wife’s ass for 12 years and are living the life she wanted driving the mini van... yeah I’m bitter 😂

    • @headlesnorseman701
      @headlesnorseman701 5 років тому +20

      The red pill is dangerous to guys who aren’t ready for it

    • @youssoufcameroon2565
      @youssoufcameroon2565 5 років тому +2

      😂😂😂 they took the red pil for the first time , thats why they were so quiet.

  • @ElliottNest39
    @ElliottNest39 3 роки тому +15

    “... the people you refuse to spend time with...” Excellent point, I had never thought of it that way.

  • @jplifesong
    @jplifesong 5 років тому +56

    He made a ton of great points. Didn’t agree with every single thing he said, but for the most part, was nodding my head the whole time. Especially the part about dating women with kids. I know this firsthand. The truth bomb that “you will never be a priority” is so spot on.

    • @MOMO-m0m0
      @MOMO-m0m0 2 роки тому

      @Billy B oh lord

    • @petitechinoise581
      @petitechinoise581 Рік тому

      well, yes. You'd also want to be you mom's priority, and not some dude she's dating.

    • @MikeG82
      @MikeG82 Рік тому +2

      @@petitechinoise581 yes and that is why you choose to date the woman without kids, we are not obligated to do what is best for some other guys kid

  • @PrinceRevolver
    @PrinceRevolver 6 років тому +198

    Improve everyday.

  • @sspitfire777
    @sspitfire777 4 роки тому +41

    "why do my eyes hurt "... is a line from the Matrix

  • @nikan4now
    @nikan4now 6 років тому +447

    Awesome talk. No BS.

    • @bettywhite2694
      @bettywhite2694 6 років тому

      DowskiVision MagicalOracle You replied to a bunch of people with this comment. What’s your agenda?

    • @bettywhite2694
      @bettywhite2694 6 років тому

      You're boring

    • @mrcocoloco7200
      @mrcocoloco7200 3 роки тому +2

      @@bettywhite2694 What?

    • @bettywhite2694
      @bettywhite2694 3 роки тому

      @@mrcocoloco7200 the person I was talking to deleted their comments.
      It’s pretty obvious if you have any reading comprehension at all

    • @hermanman8235
      @hermanman8235 3 роки тому

      That's the way it SHOULD BE.no sugar coating what-so-ever

  • @Andy-Andeee
    @Andy-Andeee 3 роки тому +9

    Everyone is looking for the "one" without becoming such in the 1st place.
    Let that sink in

  • @wavelengthdesigns
    @wavelengthdesigns 4 роки тому +92

    The whole segment on single mothers is accurate. A track record of poor relationship decisions will not change for you!

    • @jasoncornell1579
      @jasoncornell1579 4 роки тому +3

      Why should she change for u u aren't a priority

    • @karencourt5684
      @karencourt5684 3 роки тому +4

      Hello.i was. And am an. Older mom.i lost my parents at 15 .lost my husband when my daughter was 6 months old. Lost family to covid.but the truth is.im still ok.its not women or men that screw things up.its both.so just remember.act human

    • @MrTitancougar
      @MrTitancougar 2 роки тому +1

      @@karencourt5684 I am sorry for your losses. I think what people are referring to are less situations like yours, and more voluntary separations from their partners for reasons that rarely justify the separation.

    • @KD400_
      @KD400_ Рік тому

      ​​@@karencourt5684 ur literally on here writing garbage. Ur experience doesn't matter its irrelevant. 80% of divorces r initiated by women lol

  • @slimmorden5771
    @slimmorden5771 5 років тому +106

    In Ontario women fought for the right to go topless--in one day they discovered men liked it---they immediately covered up forever.

    • @josephzsoka874
      @josephzsoka874 4 роки тому +30

      I lived in Toronto when the feminists demonstrated and protested to allow women to go topless... the gov't simps caved and changed the by-law to allow women to go topless...but nothing changed. The feminists ONLY wanted to prove they could change the law. Waste of time and energy for no reason. Just another childish shit test.

    • @josephzsoka874
      @josephzsoka874 4 роки тому +2

      I lived in Toronto when the feminists demonstrated and protested to allow women to go topless... the gov't simps caved and changed the by-law to allow women to go topless...but nothing changed. The feminists ONLY wanted to prove they could change the law. Waste of time and energy for no reason. Just another childish shit test.

    • @josephzsoka874
      @josephzsoka874 4 роки тому

      I lived in Toronto when the feminists demonstrated and protested to allow women to go topless... the gov't simps caved and changed the by-law to allow women to go topless...but nothing changed. The feminists ONLY wanted to prove they could change the law. Waste of time and energy for no reason. Just another childish shit test.

    • @SuicideBoy83
      @SuicideBoy83 4 роки тому +1

      I think it’s has a slogan called “slutwalk” or something like that. It’s funny that people want to be a beast until it’s time to become one ☝️.

    • @ouimetco
      @ouimetco 3 роки тому

      I remember that. And often wondered where they all went jajajaa

  • @hanoworld3
    @hanoworld3 2 роки тому +21

    Even if I’m a woman, I’m watching this to appreciate what my dad has accomplished for us and especially for my brothers. I also wanted to learn more what a right man should be so he is the role model of my future kids and raise them to be strong in life.

    • @Sexy_sachin
      @Sexy_sachin 2 роки тому

      Marry richerd kooper

    • @vs_pvt2221
      @vs_pvt2221 2 роки тому

      @@Sexy_sachin lo karlo baat

    • @Sexy_sachin
      @Sexy_sachin 2 роки тому

      @@vs_pvt2221 pandit bulwao tum main richard ko lata hun

    • @KD400_
      @KD400_ Рік тому

      That's great however try not to take everything literally here. Remember this content is still for men

  • @citizenblue
    @citizenblue Рік тому +2

    I'm 41, wish I'd heard this 25 years ago...now I'm the rock, the provider, and the one no one gives a shit about until I stop providing. Know what the worst part about being dependable is? Everyone depends on you, leaving no time for yourself.

  • @eugenepashch5213
    @eugenepashch5213 6 років тому +131

    This should be shown to all the high schoolers before they take off into the real world.

    • @blitheixgaming1289
      @blitheixgaming1289 4 роки тому

      Exactly. Sadly im slightly late.

    • @daredevil2724
      @daredevil2724 4 роки тому +6

      Good thing im here at 16

    • @tomlindsay7861
      @tomlindsay7861 3 роки тому +4

      Haha facts bro, sadly school literally teaches the blue pill

    • @Danimal77
      @Danimal77 Рік тому

      They wouldn't be able to appreciate the wisdom. They are far too young and immature at that age.

  • @GenericInternetter
    @GenericInternetter 6 років тому +76

    25 thousand views? Deserves 25 million!

    • @Funny-ed5jl
      @Funny-ed5jl 5 років тому

      Generic Internetter 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @startingtech3900
      @startingtech3900 2 роки тому

      almost @ 3/4 of million views now

  • @bryanharrison3889
    @bryanharrison3889 2 роки тому +7

    I love Richard Cooper, and side note, I've been an entertainer, performer, etc my whole adult life and I'm 48. Let me for a moment tip a hat in testament to this gentleman. He gets on stage and explains that he's nervous to talk in front of the crowd. He goes on to say that he's managed to get quite the following with his videos, and now he's standing in front of about 100 people giving that presentation and he said he was quite nervous as a result. Here's the meaty stuff, here's what many people picked up on, but I'm sure many more completely missed. He wasn't nervous, this man was absolutely PETRIFIED to be on that stage when he first got on stage. He walks up, fairly good posture, but you can see plenty of tension in his neck and he's fighting the urge to slump forward. When he talks in the beginning part of the video you can literally hear his voice fluttering from sheer terror. This is a very subtle thing to pick up on, but us entertainers are all-too familiar with these signs. His voice is fluttering, and he's really, REALLY fighting his body language at first to not come off as a petrified, terrified even, person who's not got much experience with public speaking. HOWEVER. These signs as I said, they're subtle... a testament to his resolve, focus, and dedication to his craft. I can hear the sheer terror in this man's voice. Also, within the opening minutes of this presentation, you can hear him give this "sigh of fright" which is also fluttering due to how much tension he's feeling at the moment. People do these almost "defeated" sounding sighs when they are extremely nervous or terrified, in this case, of a situation that they know they can't back out of to help try to relieve some of the stress. This is a completely involuntary response.... its a natural body reaction to extreme fear. But guess what... most people watching this probably didn't notice any of this, and here's WHY: because at his CORE, he's confident, he's got a track record of success, and he believes in himself. Because of this, he's able to keep the voice flutter to a minimum, he's able to project that natural confidence in spite of his terror, AND, he's "man enough", or, better put "human enough" to up front, with no reservation or embarrassment LET THE CROWD KNOW THAT HE IS NERVOUS AND UNCOMFORTABLE. This type of transparency in a situation like this is a HUGE sign that the person is genuine and comfortable in his or her own skin. As terrified as he was, he didn't want to be dishonest with the crowd and pretend he wasn't nervous. As you can see, as the minutes go by, he rapidly gets more and more comfortable, his body language opens up, his voice stabilizes, and he starts to naturally project a louder, more relaxed and focused vocal tone, and by the end he's as comfortable as a human being CAN be under a bunch of spotlights and par cans. And all of this was because he believes what he's saying and he practices what he preaches. His type of mentality is that mentality that can be thrown into uncomfortable situations and get right to work while most others are scrambling around mindlessly. HIS ABILITY TO CALMLY(READ: not flat-out panicking) carve out his place on that stage, in unfamiliar territory, while being terrified, while staying on task, and managing to keep basic control of his functions, such as, his voice being under his control although it was fluttering a little, his body language trying to convey the terror and his willpower over-riding that body language and establishing a more assertive stance, and his ability to let those subconscious sighs of fear out without many, if anybody in the crowd noticing is top notch. After seeing this video, I'd be confident that this man could do anything he set his mind to and IF in the rare event he DID fail, he wouldn't be bruised by it and would be comfortable admitting his mistakes and learning from it. Aside from this, the information in this video is absolute gold. HIS presentation and how he handled the terror of being on stage with grace and poise is a testament to the fact that he's speaking fact.

  • @kylethekanadian2790
    @kylethekanadian2790 6 років тому +124

    Very powerful presentation, made me jump out of my chair and release a war cry!

  • @Ryanrhodes1
    @Ryanrhodes1 5 років тому +47

    I’m glad I’m learning all this at 20 years old

    • @albertgunter640
      @albertgunter640 3 роки тому

      Never stop...really....NEVER STOP!

    • @Ryanrhodes1
      @Ryanrhodes1 3 роки тому

      @Sagar Parajuli I’m 22 now bro

    • @Ryanrhodes1
      @Ryanrhodes1 3 роки тому

      @Sagar Parajuli I had fell off but just started getting back on track . Bro just learn the red pill and move on from it . Stay around the right type of people who will motivate you to be selfish and put your ambitions first . Also work on yourself and fix negative qualities within yourself so you won’t end up being a needy person . Go to therapy . Work out . Drink lots of water . Read . Smile . Women are going to discard of you if you’re not their best option and this is why it’s so important to love yourself . Don’t improve your life for women . Improve your life doing things conducive to your happiness . I’ve failed so much within these 3 years .

    • @Ryanrhodes1
      @Ryanrhodes1 3 роки тому

      @Sagar Parajuli nah I didn’t read those . It’s a waste of time . Be a serious man . Whatever you want from women say it on the get go . It’s better to be rejected for being real than to be accepted for being fake .

    • @Danimal77
      @Danimal77 Рік тому

      Learning it and APPLYING it are 2 different things son.

  • @mutechannel13
    @mutechannel13 4 роки тому +10

    Wow!!! I thought I was the only man that thought like this lol. Most of the women I dated had kids. I kept given them the benefit of the doubt. It was the most draining thing to do. I learned my lessons just by watching life around me. I Didnt want to grow up as a miserable man so I set certain rules for myself and i was stern. Women made me feel like a monster because of the way I think. This is all true... They hate me so much now thou... but I'm cool. I'm baby mama free, got money in the bank, No kids, No Worries and No stress. I feel like I'm the shit now 😁!

  • @motivationandtravelchannel4575
    @motivationandtravelchannel4575 6 років тому +27

    This guy really is amazing I have watched about 50 of his videos and he so resonated with me. I don't think I ever gave him a thumbs down EVER.

  • @bohdanravchuk7500
    @bohdanravchuk7500 4 роки тому +14

    Well I'm 16 now and this is priceless

  • @LEilrahc
    @LEilrahc 3 роки тому +3

    hearing this at 20 is a slapped of reality

  • @janjoson3843
    @janjoson3843 3 роки тому +4

    Same here, was a stutterer. Took half my life to fix myself. I am 43 this month, I am a single dad with 2 boys. I finally figured me out. thanks for the vids, keep it up!!!!

  • @clarkfluegel6875
    @clarkfluegel6875 6 років тому +19

    Couple minutes in and I love this dude!! I'm so incredibly happy and grateful to keep finding men like this to help me overcome myself.

  • @mikecrawford4966
    @mikecrawford4966 6 років тому +102

    With video's like this online today it's only a matter of time when more men wake up to reality about women.

    • @CheyChonTV
      @CheyChonTV 5 років тому +8

      It's happening.

    • @blitheixgaming1289
      @blitheixgaming1289 4 роки тому +2

      I'm 19 and im already aware of it

    • @Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard
      @Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard 4 роки тому +1

      @@blitheixgaming1289 another 19 year old red pilled brother? Nice! Godspeed

    • @blitheixgaming1289
      @blitheixgaming1289 4 роки тому

      @@Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard im more blackpilled but ok

    • @Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard
      @Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard 4 роки тому

      @@blitheixgaming1289 Not black Pill for me. I'm 6'3 and handsome. Red Pill help me optimize my success with women so I'm against Black Pill.

  • @NianioNostimos
    @NianioNostimos 5 років тому +31

    Did he say his mom’s Greek?
    So he’s not “just” Canadian, but half British, half Greek.
    Hmmm, he’s more cultured than I thought. Good for you
    Mr. Cooperopoulos! 😉

  • @karna5998
    @karna5998 4 роки тому +17

    I like how he gives deep valuable information while staying laid back

  • @David-no7zi
    @David-no7zi 6 років тому +164

    So pumped to see this available. Richard is a great speaker and role model for young men. This is gonna be good.

    • @TheWinterShadow
      @TheWinterShadow 5 років тому +9

      He is a role model for all men...not just young men.

  • @Deathcomes4usall
    @Deathcomes4usall 2 роки тому +5

    I know I’m late to the party in terms of how long this has been on UA-cam but I love the no nonsense approach in this talk. He doesn’t pad the talk with stuff that doesn’t need to be said and he doesn’t beat around the bush and gets straight to the point and make himself crystal clear. Perfect

  • @sephondranzer
    @sephondranzer 10 місяців тому +1

    Hearing this at 33 sucks pretty hard, but better late than never. Don’t let the game play you ✌🏼

  • @fusion772
    @fusion772 5 років тому +3

    He speaks so straight and to the point, I love the concision of it. A video worth watching and re-watching

  • @Dudewhoswinning
    @Dudewhoswinning 6 років тому +46

    I just stumbled on a shorter clip. SO GLAD I FOUND THIS. Ill have to watch the whole thing now. Always great to be refreshed on the red pill and see like minded men

  • @stevensantora2976
    @stevensantora2976 Рік тому +2

    1. Allow your Wounds to become your work. Scars are stronger than what tries to kill you.
    2. Take 100% ownership over your life. Nobody cars, the only should care about is you. Pain + Reflection=Growth. Don't lose in life, learn. You don't get to play victim as an adult.
    3. Listen to your intuition. Good decisions come from experience and experience comes from bad decisions.
    4. Update your belief system
    5. Circle of Influence Matters (5 people)
    6. You only have so many *** to give, choose wisely
    7. Learn how to vet women better: Avoid LTR"s w/ daddy issues, single moms, controlling/jealous, broke, dangerous personalities, playing captain save a woe, drug and alcohol abuse
    8. Don't date a single mom; emotionally unavailable, her kids work against you, 100% payment w/no ROI, you will not be a priority, questionable judgement skills, distorted self image, thinks the world revolves around her and her kids
    9. Make self care a lifestyle choice, it matters
    10. Accept female nature
    Men are designed to scatter seeds
    Women "" to seek provision and safety

  • @deaddropsd1972
    @deaddropsd1972 4 роки тому +61

    “Marriage is a young man’s disaster and an old man’s comfort “. Starship Troopers the book 📚

  • @benforrest8590
    @benforrest8590 5 років тому +51

    Richard is so nervous in the beginning; quivering voice, hand in pocket, shrinking body language. We're all human after all. Good to him powering through though.

    • @wecx2375
      @wecx2375 3 роки тому

      I get this though, I am the boss everywhere in my life but public speaking is still tough for me also.

    • @ayoubelabbassi7496
      @ayoubelabbassi7496 3 роки тому +2

      Watch his newest episode in here, man changed

  • @jayrock3035
    @jayrock3035 6 років тому +96

    Good shit Rich and Thanks 21 for the full length...

  • @davidboyle1790
    @davidboyle1790 3 роки тому

    Richard Cooper is a BOSS!No BS,No fluff,just Truth!👍🏻

  • @gurkarngill2381
    @gurkarngill2381 3 роки тому

    You can hear the nervousness in his voice but doing well with his words while being in this state. Impressed.

  • @westboundNinja1
    @westboundNinja1 5 років тому +49

    The whole single mother experiment is finally being challenged. Thank goodness it's so important to be a good father and teach your children logic vs emotions and responsibility. Take a good father out of the shit hits the fan.
    I hope this type of thinking spreads because there's so many more men who think it's just some frat for bitter men.. Until it happens to them
    We need to stick together better and build together. Keep our families together (if not with a nut job)
    Never stop learning and growing.

    • @karencourt5684
      @karencourt5684 3 роки тому

      Wake up with this macho crap.what makes u think .men r beter.without women there would be no world

    • @westboundNinja1
      @westboundNinja1 3 роки тому +3

      @@karencourt5684 I literally said build together stick together and keep families together how in the world is this macho. Men and women need each other that's what we were built for but understanding how to be a man first is paramount. How did you take this and turn it negative?

    • @igorlang884
      @igorlang884 3 роки тому +2

      Brother that's exactly it the experiment has failed ... look at our society it's SAD

  • @tcrown3333
    @tcrown3333 5 років тому +19

    For a guy with stage fright, this was an excellently delivered talk!!!

    • @andyng5321
      @andyng5321 9 місяців тому

      you mean Richard has stage fright or you?

  • @hapyangl82
    @hapyangl82 5 років тому +18

    I love the point you made about dating a single mom and the potential risks to your daughter. You sound like an amazing dad! God bless!

  • @theodiouslewis9559
    @theodiouslewis9559 6 років тому +9

    I think this video just changed my life no bs I saw a small clip on Facebook had to look it up it hit spot on so many issues I had in life that I just couldn't understand he broke it down to me like I was 6 years old. Needed this information 20 years ago.... Oh well he's 43 I'm 38 so just means I have work to do. Thank you for sharing

  • @diannashuster5594
    @diannashuster5594 3 роки тому +15

    I have so much respect for this man. Even though his videos are directed towards a male audience I find lots of wisdom I can apply towards my own life.

    • @KD400_
      @KD400_ Рік тому

      Lol like what. Ur job should be to consume female content I'm sure theres a female richard cooper on UA-cam. Be a better feminine woman so u can attract a good man

  • @rulivingyou1347
    @rulivingyou1347 5 років тому +11

    Luckily, my twenties and early thirties were such a nightmare ai figured most of this stuff out on my own, still learning and growing, on the journey.
    If you are stuck, trying to get somewhere and don't know how, listen to this man and more importantly practice it through mental repetition and actualization. This is how you create you own reality.
    And just don't give a F.

  • @walkerskii
    @walkerskii 4 роки тому +15

    Admitting you're nervous immediately connected you with me and I'm sure the rest of your audience, it showed you're not trying to prove you're a real man, you just are one!

    • @Danimal77
      @Danimal77 Рік тому

      In his later speeches, he was no longer nervous. He's gotten a lot more confident over the years.

  • @sigma7746
    @sigma7746 5 років тому +11

    All men need to listen to this guy. A modern day philosopher. I always said no one owes you anything to my pals growing up. Women have a hard time understanding this one thing. If they did this world would be a better place. I believe that if entitlement would disappear, everything would restore itself...

    • @karencourt5684
      @karencourt5684 3 роки тому

      I think if men listened to women.then balance would be restpred.wake up men arnt gods.

  • @undergroundxv
    @undergroundxv 3 роки тому +2

    I’m 19 years old and I’m glad I came across this video❤️

  • @Flitalidapouet
    @Flitalidapouet 4 роки тому +1

    Richard YOU CHANGED MY LIFE for the better. THANK YOU BROTHER

  • @destinysvoid4712
    @destinysvoid4712 5 років тому +4

    Straight talk is the best talk. Thanks for sharing such a great and important message!

  • @finally7664
    @finally7664 3 роки тому +3

    One of my favorite person from Canada 🇨🇦 I love your presentation sir Richard Cooper

  • @gregrichey840
    @gregrichey840 2 роки тому +1

    I got divorced 5 years ago.
    I was divorced in my mind 10 years before I actually got divorced. I was worried about the alimony I would have to pay and put it off for 10 years.
    The money was an obstacle between me and my happiness.
    I should have gotten the divorce as soon as I thought about it.
    I did not listen to my intuition
    The whole thing was soul draining and 5 years after the divorce I am just now feeling like I am getting back into my natural form.
    What a waste of precious time. Hind sight is 20-20.
    I needed to hear Rich Cooper decades ago.

  • @2cool4school4ever
    @2cool4school4ever 3 роки тому +2

    Inspirational. Tells it as it is. The man’s a legend.

  • @vincevdam
    @vincevdam 6 років тому +4

    Thanks Mr.Cooper! I'm so glad I discovered this video today. You made some really great points.

  • @NATO_9870
    @NATO_9870 6 років тому +66

    One of the best motivational speakers I’ve come across thanks

  • @rotntv
    @rotntv 2 роки тому +1

    "It's ok to let them go" I needed to hear this so long ago. Most men need to realize this.

  • @selfmade7061
    @selfmade7061 2 роки тому +1

    One of the best videos of Rich Cooper I have seen thus far. I needed this. Thanks!

  • @Hitman-tk6en
    @Hitman-tk6en 6 років тому +15

    Man I love Richard he’s help me a lot

  • @Bauks
    @Bauks 5 років тому +43

    I caught a unicorn once..... But he's right...

  • @swill1020
    @swill1020 5 років тому +2

    Richard, thank you sir.

  • @ayoubmerzak1733
    @ayoubmerzak1733 5 років тому +1

    If there's one video on UA-cam that every guy MUST watch then it should be without a single doubt THIS VIDEO. Thank youu!!

  • @shanecle
    @shanecle 5 років тому +9

    One of the best presentations I have seen. Great content

  • @TheKniperlight
    @TheKniperlight 6 років тому +9

    Awesome talk. You’re a great mentor Richard. Thanks.

  • @ipreferfreedom162
    @ipreferfreedom162 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks Richard, I have watched quite a lot of your Entrepreneurs in Cars videos but this is the first time I have ever heard you speak publicly like this. I thought your speech was excellent & very clear & I learned a lot. Thank you for your book recommendations, I will try & find the time to read at least some of them. Thank you for sharing this speech Richard. Peace.

  • @julesfrance1908
    @julesfrance1908 2 роки тому +2

    And it's completely ok to be a 49 year old woman loving this content 👏👏👏

  • @drwombat
    @drwombat 6 років тому +5

    Thanks for sharing this

  • @hectorpalacios1035
    @hectorpalacios1035 4 роки тому +5

    One of the most inspiring videos I've ever seen

  • @captainbligh3894
    @captainbligh3894 2 роки тому +1

    Richard, you are a marvellous chap. We can all learn from you.

  • @DaddyDRock
    @DaddyDRock 5 років тому +2

    Best work I've seen Richard!

  • @colincams1220
    @colincams1220 5 років тому +8

    Thanks man. Really enjoyed watching this and has helped get through a troubled time in my life (30 year marraige ending) Onwards and upwards.

  • @SamFreedom
    @SamFreedom 4 роки тому +12

    I've been doing this since i was in my late teens... watched older brothers and sisters make mistakes, have horrible divorces, etc. So i never got married, never had kids and happy banged single moms because I understood the game described in this video and always left them first.

  • @sidhartha7118
    @sidhartha7118 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you Richard Cooper🙏💯

  • @mattmiller6715
    @mattmiller6715 5 років тому +2

    Thanks Richard for educating us Young...And Old Men about these things. I've learned so much from your videos and it's awesome.. It's just life man I was in the blue for a long time and when you finally understand and come over to the red it's obvious.. You Just start to get it. Much love brother!

  • @lilo2469
    @lilo2469 5 років тому +3

    This is Great Medicine to resonate between the Earlobes , Richard is BOSS!

  • @user-xr6ln7lq7b
    @user-xr6ln7lq7b 3 роки тому +6

    great presentation !!!!!!!!!!

  • @TechOutAdam
    @TechOutAdam 2 роки тому

    Lesson #3 Listen to Your Intuition was huge. Especially when he described in being very expensive to ignore when it becomes a shout.

  • @1966johnnywayne
    @1966johnnywayne 3 роки тому

    Cool and confident. Richard is a great example to young and old alike.

  • @RuairiPetrovic
    @RuairiPetrovic 5 років тому +9

    Alexander Grace and yourself are my new top watched UA-camrs, the value of your content cannot be underestimated. Could you recommend anymore top tier red pill channels? Nice one, brother.

  • @maxd2215
    @maxd2215 5 років тому +14

    Truly inspiring. Listen to this guys. Many red pill truth bombs dropped here.

  • @phyllisbunnell7848
    @phyllisbunnell7848 6 років тому +2

    Thanks for these videos.
    I enjoyed watching and learning.

  • @lostinthesauce8345
    @lostinthesauce8345 5 років тому +2

    Delicious wisdom. Thank you for giving me hope.

  • @gillan5
    @gillan5 3 роки тому +3

    Listen to your intuition- great advice. Lot of mistakes in my live go back to not used intuition.As a German I like that he is driving german cars.