How Do I Find Better Women?
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- Ever asked, where are the quality women? Or, how do I find a better woman? We take a request on that topic in this video
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Entrepreneurs in Cars after the age of 25 its nearly impossible to find a good woman. The choices basically revolve around dealing with immaturity and growing together or complete jaded shit bags in denial.
One major take away. Woman that are older have honed in their "game" of projection and can jail your mind if you're not sharp enough to deal with her bull shit. Tread lightly guys...
Entrepreneurs in Cars Great video yet again. But why would you be concerned about a guy "checking out"? What I got from it was that he is enjoying hobbies /selfdeveloping.
Entrepreneurs in Cars Nowhere
I'm only 20 but I would suggest that he should retire and travel the world and he could potentially find a new business to grow in another country
So glad I found this channel the advice helps alot
Quote from my father. "You will never lose women chasing money. But, you will always lose money chasing women."
That's the one I was trying to remember
Smart Man.
I wish he had been my father.........
So true!
I believe that is from Biggie though
He who cares the least has the most power.
Replace "He who" with "whomever"
Whomever loves the most has the less power
He who doesn't care at all gets to keep pounding it. Sad but true. Fn weird
Truth!
The way I explained it to my daughter in high school: I took her to a teeter totter and asked her, if you want to in control what do you do on this teeter totter? She said you back away from him and keep HIM up in the air. Smart girl.
Guys, woman are just not worth it. Focus on yourself: gym, eat healthy, dress well, travel if you can, sleep well, and meditate.
Somewhere out there, there is a woman worthy of your affection. When you feel disenchanted with people just remember that you are a good person so there must be other good people out there.
@@sabrina.h2737 someone out there WILL WIN THE POWERBALL. Just remember that someone will win the lottery, mega bucks.
locomoco2012 Yes they do.
@@sabrina.h2737 I don't understand you "yes they do"
locomoco2012 Someone always wins the lottery. I don't know you so I don't know what happened to put you off women and I don't need to know as that's your personal story. I just want you to know that not all women are bad. Not everyone wins the lottery but those who don't even try to well they are guaranteed to lose.
"The indoctrination we call schools" never were a more true statement ever said. Love you Rich keep up the good fight brotha.
What about the worst indoctrination of them all.....organized religion?
spindalis79 But these days that’s not even the worst issue. Schools, universities, and the media are worse because of the impact they’re having on society.
THEY DOOPED ME ON HISTORY THSE IGNORANT F***S!!! I'm still mad about that one...
@@spindalis79 We’re presently dealing with one crisis at a time, but you make a good point.
@@spindalis79 thats not a problem anymore. The schools are the worst
Wow. Are guys today just low on the EI scale?? Because from the comment feed and this video, it's like guys are in hook up culture somehow expecting to find gold in a sewer . . . I mean, this is ridiculous. Anyways - bars, bumble, and your local gym won't find you a good partner. I would recommend instead volunteering at a local non profit or ministry. I've heard shelters for dogs is great place too. Go to places where intrinsic love for people is necessary to the job. Promise there will be some gold there.
Exactly. Part of why I started going to church again haha.
That would just be too sensible now wouldn’t it? Haha these guys hate the game but the beta dudes looking for some ‘secret’ to attracting women are the ones that created the game to try to cheat the system and get something amazing without even trying
Thank you for offering some sense to these people.
Damn, never thought of that. Ill keep that in mind
I do dating coaching and I often talk about this.
Both men and women are broken by society and fast moving culture (dating apps, social media) to have more than just superficial things in common (sex) then do things you’re naturally interested in and passion projects. Ministry is great, so is volunteer work and small groups.
Love is all over.
Good women should not be treated like garbage and good men should be valued too.
This men against women and women against men is simply misunderstanding or fishing in the wrong pools.
"They call the American Dream, because you have to be asleep to believe it."
Seek enlightenment
George Carlin, gone too soon.
nope
Thanks George!
front seat at the freakshow is america? na george, try sweden
One of my friends who was a notorious serious dater used to go to bookstores to find right women. They are young, takes care of themselves and are intelligent. Then he would use her interests in particular categories of books to make conversations and they would lead to make emotional and intellectual connection to make them comfortable enough to discuss these on dates.
Well, at least book stores worked better for your friend. One day my wife and I were at a Barnes and Noble looking at a shelf full of new releases. She was standing next to me, so I reached over to pat her on the butt, in an affectionate way. Little did I know that my wife had moved down the row a ways, and ANOTHER woman had just stepped into my wife's place. I noticed it just in mid 'reach', but I was so startled I jumped back in surprise.
@@nickmitsialis Lol. I was at Barnes and Noble with my wife. We were in different aisles. As a joke, I snuck-up on her and grabbed her ass. She didn't have much of a reaction. She just turned, looked at me and said, "You scared me because I thought it was a stranger that grabbed me". I thought she was going to slap me or have a shocked look or something, but my wife is the mild-mannered type, so I guess that's why she reacted that way.......lol!
@@mclcorp18 Great! I nearly threw out my back, I jumped back so forcefully.
I agree with everything you said in this video. He needs to find motivation outside of female validation, which is really challenging, especially if that's been the driving factor for most of his life's success. Although he understands how women operate, he still needs to reframe his mind to see excellence as improving his own life, rather than attaining the best mate.
Justin Dorsheimer Even for the sexually unsuccessful, it's still very true that a lot of people are brainwashed by the media, peer group, "hottest" girls (or even average girls in his area),etc. to think that "If you're not getting laid, then you aren't worth the gum that sticks to your shoes". This drives 90% of this issue, not to mention InCel (TM) frustration. A good way to find motivation outside of female validation is to hit "rewind" in his memory - recalling a time BEFORE he got interested in girls (usually pre-5th grade). Think about what his biggest hobbies and interests in, that he read or watched without worrying about whether girls (or the "cool guys") liked it. Then pursue that interest deeply and passionately! It's amazing how much bullshit that clears from your mind so quickly. Then, he can read a lot about critical thinking skills, logical fallacies, etc. It worked for me, at least.
Not trying to ruin your red pill parade here but to me this sounds like man vs nature rather than man vs woman. You can't just throw millions of years of evolution aboard just because you deluded yourself into thinking that media and peer groups "brainwashed" you the wrong way. In the end it all comes down to what truly makes you happy. And nature has made women to be the gatekeeper to happiness... simply to trick us into procreation. That is the truth pill and it needs no color.
caspa7 Partially nature, yes. However, the media (especially) intensifies an already-existing tendency, going so far as to judge a person's worth by how much sex they get - or more specificially judge them of low worth if they get little to no sex. As for nature, humans transcend other animals (however imperfectly) in controlling their urges. We have more free will precisely because we can contemplate / think outside the natural box about such matters. If monks and voluntary celebates can make the choice, then most other men can as well with proper information.
Thelonestar Pelican If you believe that monks are celibate for life, you are the one that swallowed the pill. Do some serious reading and research and you'll find that even monks recognize the nature aspect of humanity.
Ryan Willett Of course a good number of monks aren't that way. Whether they got sex before their vows, broke their vows, or dropped out, that's beside the point. The point is that we have more free will to reign in our urges and concentrate on non-sexual things that make us happy (hobbies, interests, etc). To assume otherwise is to assume we have no more control over themselves than do wild animals. Throwing yourself into hobbies and interests you're passionate about definitely helps take the mind off sex.
Loved his layout. Loved your calm demeanor and rational advice. Good video.
Nice to see you are
I hope he watches your videos Mr.Grace, I would like him to give sincere and constructive feed back on your videos too.
I love the content you create and how you lay it out too.
gay.
I was the same way, I started a business and grew it until I had more than enough to retire at 35 so I did. I am worth over 7 figures with over a 6 figure income. I met my wife right out of high school. She was a virgin with no tattoos and no debt so we hit it off and got married. We are still married to this day 40 years later. Looking back now at 61 I wish I wouldn't have retired so young. I still have more than enough coming in to live on and prosper but there is only so much hunting, fishing, sking, backpacking, white water rafting, golf and camping I could do. After a few years I got very board with everything. Even fun things became like a job. Now I wish I had just slowed down but kept moving up the ladder but still take time to enjoy myself and do things. I am planning on buying a 5th wheel and touring the country for a year or 2 while I still can, because I don't think I will be able to do it much longer seeing the state of the USA is in right now. Now I wish I hadn't put all my eggs in the USA basket and would have bought passive income in other country's like Canada and Israel. My advice is slow down but keep moving,. Take the time to savor what you have but don't loose the drive completely. If I were single at 35 I would have looked in a church or for very nerdy collage freshmen who was a a hidden gem. My wife was a nerdy girl back in the day, they love to experiment and love to please you. Our honey moon lasted 25 years lol. We still had troubles and problems but we worked threw them.
@RS1 reading his perspective makes me question being financially free. seems like there's no longer a challenge once you've got way too much money stacked up.
@Ricardo Gonzalez well we'll never know unless we experience it
This was an inspiring post. Thank you. I've been working hard for 17 years, with the plan of retiring young; I'm close, but I've realized I love my work and want to keep going. Slow down, but keep moving, that really clicks with me right now. Thank you.
@@connormcchicken5915...
There are always challenges available for anyone who craves them.
The OP's statement that retiring too early turned into a regret, encapsulates a fallacy. There is literally nothing in this world that prohibits you from changing your mind about retiring.
At whatever point the OP began to feel that way, he could have started a new business... and, since he was already financially secure, he could have done so COMPLETELY on his own terms, and with whatever "purpose" he desired.
He could have mentored others who he believed "have what it takes", helping them to create successful businesses of their own... for whatever level of "return" was agreeable, etc.
He could have turned some of his hobbies into businesses, just for the joy of "creating", and seeing them grow.
The truth is...
Only boring people get bored, lol.
Sounds like you need to start something new that you aren't used to. Join club sports, start dancing, learn magic tricks. Something where you are at the complete bottom. That outta put some joy back into ya
Hotter the girl, the crazier they are
Look up hot-crazy matrix, makes soooo much sense
You're right. Just got to find one that has way more plusses than the big minus from the crazy.
Mad in the head? ...mad in the bed😜
not true. average insecure girls can be just as crazy. if not more.
@@gentlebabarian and the ugly chicks can be psycho... I mean murder psycho😂😂😂
I'm glad I already know and understood this very quickly: Becoming a better version of yourself is for no one else but you. Otherwise, it's defeats the purpose since the whole goal is to pull back all the attention and energy you give to the world and refocus all of it on yourself so you can come back out with bang!
I recently met a woman that instantly gave me the creepy gold digging vibes. I found her to be rather annoying and when she asked me why I've never been married I told her I never met a woman that was loyal.
Right. You never MET one. So what does that Tell you about yourself and the kind of women you attract and commit to? 🤔 Perhaps some internal work on your part necessairy here.😁👌
What did she reply?
Matthew Baumann 😂
Never found a man that was loyal so it goes both ways lol
@@shooklizard9039 But that doesn't matter as marriage has little to no risk while having high reward to women, the opposite is true for men.
The question any man should ask themselves, “Where do I find myself?”
Never, “Where do I find a woman?”
Before watching, in my experience, focus on yourself and building yourself up(financially/emotionally/physically). It's usually when you aren't looking you find someone
Don't give up on love. There are women who are worth it. All you need is one. I found mine and I want you guys to be as happy as I am because you fucking deserve it.
Any update?
My thought exactly @residentevilfreakk55
@@residentevilfreakk55a lot can happen in 5 years. I’ll be waiting for his update.
@@residentevilfreakk55 It's been 5 years, I'd bet my left nut she's left him by now
Look for modesty dressed attractive women, without too much makeup, jewelry, etc. Not a sure bet, but a good indicator. I can relate to this story. It’s not your fault that most women are subpar.
I've got one of these. Wondering if the other shoe will ever drop. Not yet.
Basically a women thats not trapped in the Matrix by the social engineer's. Although you still need to keep your guard. Women are masters at appearing what they're not.
Bryan Charles But woman can get attached with kids and family. If the man is strong and holds up to testing, it will be okay. Not great, but okay.
Relationships are hard!
Gabriel R., Great advice
It’s almost as if the religious people were right all along and we’re just rediscovering it. It’s not a coincidence, it’s exactly what’s happening.
Libraries, coffeeshops, malls, the gym, spiritual retreats, the beach, through friends/family, on vacation, your office building, expos, workshops, any type of class, etc.
And thats the right answer. They are everywhere outside your room.
Side note, all the successful men, and wealthy men I have dated, were usually too stressed out and treated me more like an object & were not emotionally available as I required. Success doesn't result in love, at least not in my experiences.
A woman that likes you for your money doesn’t matter but to a girl money is everything. Success is good for both male and female but the mutual feeling have to be on both ends or not won’t work
R.R.R. I believe she was trying to make a point that the “prestigious” men she’s been with were too invested
in themselves to pay any attention to her. Everyone wants love an attention and that’s part of a relationship. Woman can be satisfied. Woman can be pleased. It’s possible. Maybe you just haven’t learned how.
Maybe try some men not as successful or wealthy, beautiful younger women are a dime a dozen for them.
Your probably mainly attracted to them due to their wealth or success and that's OK.
Remember unless they inherited the money or success they are very focused on creating success and money, working long hours investing much of themselves to achieve those goals and may have little left for anything else other than flings or playthings.
@AwakenFinland right
@@r.r.r.4844 I see you are choosing dates that will validate your higher intelligence over women ... maybe think about selecting women who will overpass it instead of feeding your ego by purposeful choice of particular women...then maybe you start talking instead of just nodding...
Richard I'm 55 and never married. I always thought women would get a healthy dose of reality at this age. They seem more delusional now than when I was younger. I pump iron do hot yoga and dance salsa as my hobbies. All I seem to run I to are women who are looking for a safe place to land after a lifetime of bad decisions. Not looking to get married but sometimes companionship would be nice. Any suggestions
Move to SE Asia and get a 30-35 year old who isn't damaged. Live there with her, treat her well, and enjoy your life.
I'm pretty certain my grandfather was subconsciously happier when my grandmother past away. She never let him go overseas back to our country with nor without her. Ever since her passing he's been every year for 3 months at a time....
If it's companionship you want, get a dog.
55 also-divorced- I would keep dancing and look for a young woman
Advice? Pump and dump. For companionship better keep a pet rock.
Where to find nicer venomous snakes.
Buy it online
🤣🤣💯👀
Joseph Madera in snake milking laboratory...when They are milked :)
@@hanlam6993 great idea if the snakes are being milked then they will be happy and not want to bite me.
Balkan countries
53 years old and I've discovered, without exception, the worse you treat them, the harder they try to please you!
Only if they are messed up.
This is so fucking true bro!!!!!!!!!
@@reginasemenenko148 It seems that girls who have "Daddy Issues" are the best in bed. (Not that I would know. Hence, I only date women without issues - but then sex is ALWAYS so objectively boring and mundane. An over-rated, underwhelming social construct). Like... are men supposed to like sex!?!? wtf!?!
@@Bluzian74 too funny. I always liked the word, "no".
goes both ways.
the meaner you are to a guy. he will never go away.
the nicer you are to a guy, he will ghost you.
Don't find women, be great at important stuff and let them find you BUT be careful because you might not get what you see. Hypergamy
That doesn't work for everyone. I consider myself an upper 5% guy, but I encounter close to zero women at all, much less attractive, available ones, in my career and hobbies. Therefore, I HAVE to make women a priority in their own right if I don't want to be some kind of incel.
blurglide if you consider yourself a 5%...i am guessing you consider yourself wealthy and good looking...i am wondering why you would want to prioritize women? I am just throwing this out there...why not just make them a hobby? I am saying not make them out to be more than they are...i don't mean that in a negative way either.
Not true at all women will never just come to your life just because you are succesfull you still need to put in the effort.
I have found that since I have become fairly successful, that women find me. I don't know how, but they do. It's kind of like when you are in a relationship, chicks come out to the woodwork in pursuit of you, but if you're a single guy, they run. Again, I don't know why, but they have a sense or a network, or maybe it's just a calm and inner peace a successful man exudes.
Because if I just wait to encounter them, it'll be a loooonnnnggg wait and mostly lower quality women. I like getting laid at a minimum, and hope to find one who adds a lot of value to my life, so I make finding women a priority.
he wants to hate them. He worries that if he finds one he really likes he will be vulnerable to falling for them and getting screwed. That's how I feel right now anyhoe..
Same
Most of western women nowadays do not know how to choose good men
They don't have to, they have government support.
Loool any man who calls himself good is usually the opposite your actions should support your words
@@shooklizard9039 never realized how true that was
they just choose the same rich hot alphas that 1272671 other women also have chosen
"Skiing with friends, eating good food, lifting weights ... driving my Corvette with the top off, spending time at the cottage ..."
Am I alone or did anyone else start thinking this sounds less like reality, and more like what a 16-year-old kid thinks successful men in their 30s do?
I was actually a little surprised that he didn't include something about riding a vintage motorcycle that he restored himself, or wintering in the Canary Islands.
This is my life and I'm 46 + no problems + everything is easy when womens tag along and are NOT the center of the attention. So, your probably alone or in love with problems. Btw ..... if you don't like cars, what are yo doing here? It's called entrepreneurs IN CARS lol :P Have a nice one. P.S.: He his taking care of his daughter too.
I'm in my 30s, have a house, go dirt biking and mountain biking with my friends, take the boat to the beach, cruise around in my classic modified trans am, enjoy my job... 16 year old me had the right dreams!
Not sure why it doesnt sound like a legit possibility.
@@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2 You seem to have a tendency to fabricate things. Did I write anything about not liking cars?
I egree.Sounds like a clishee
i mean all this is possible during the weekends lol
I'm confused. He expected to be loved because he earns a lot of money. That's like a woman who expects to be loved because she's very beautiful.
Both are then very surprised to attract a lot of people who "love" them but only for shallow reasons. Women try to exploit him financially and to show off ("Look at me, what a great mate I have! I'm so much more valuable now! Please society, give me validation!"). Men try to exploit her sexually and to show off ("Look at me, what a great armpiece I have! I'm so much more valuable now! Please society, give me validation!").
Truth is, being very beautiful or super rich doesn't guarantee you TRUE love, someone who loves you for YOU! Wealth and beauty only increase the amount of people who "love" you for THAT. But those who love you for you will be there BEFORE you attain those things. Get yourself a woman who's willing to build with you, SUCH a woman is worth to keep once you've attained riches!
If, however, you want a certain woman for her looks, and you know she only wants you if you have lots of money, you can't blame her for being shallow when you are shallow yourself.
@Army of Gog LOL, you need a hug?
@Army of Gog dude I live in Morocco . Western women are batter then Morocco
@Army of Gog women are the same all over. The show that they put on is just different.
Facts.
awesome
"Motivation is often the result of action, not the cause of it" I've been where this guy is on many occasions. This is the time where your daily routine kicks in and you just do what needs to be done. Then we see the results of our efforts and motivation returns. If you dont have a daily routine, make one. If you've strayed from it, return to it. The motivation is there waiting for you to catch up.
I started dance school (lindyhop) about a year ago. There are so many girls at each lesson and at the socials/parties (always more than guys) - it’s not even fair. It’s like fishing with dynamite. Girls love dancing, and what makes it even easier, you don’t have to make conversation at first glance.
2nd that. saw it myself at a swing dancing club. very few men under 40 but 10x more thirsty women.
I can relate to this video. After getting burned, I can see how similar all women are. You find a girl that you have everything in common with, you think she'll never leave you and *poof*, she flakes out like every other girl. It's easy to become unmotivated. Getting out of the rut can be hard.
Matthew Baumann helo Mathew how are you doing i would like to be a friend hope you don’t mind texting me on 3235069268
Why is it so many men believe women will never leave?
It seems like both parties a lot of the time think that having "secured" a wife through a wedding, that having "won the prize" the work of sustaining that relationship is essentially over with.
Marriage is a marathon. The wedding was the starting gun going off.
Since most women don't self-reflect men should already know themselves/their psyches inside and out.
Because she doesn't just test for your loyalty, she's showing you how insecure she really is.
That's what all the questioning is about.
And if she is still deeply insecure after dating/courtship, engagement, and a wedding no one/man can really afford to lose his "sh*t' in a battle for control/leadership of the marital relationship.
Thank you Richard for the amazing content you make.
You are a red pill guru.
GOD DAMN! I hate how accurate you are. I picked my dating life, multiple girls, hottest gfs, and then BAM I lost all motivations, EXACTLY like this guy! Then came your first point: puporse vs chosing validation..., it hurt but you've nailed it. Thank you!
Like clock work
What a strange world we live in when finding a partner is reduced to acronyms and pheromone gels.
As an attending physician. I have dated many other female doctors. Especially during my residency and the days when I first began as an attending physician in internal medicine. I can tell you that even the quality women are no better because most doctors are narcissistic and perfectionistic. Which usually leads to competing with one another and that can cause rifts in a relationship.
So what kinda of man would a female doctor marry or date.
Treat yourself and others with respect and youl attract the same. Problem solved.
Could not be said better
lovepeacebliss
please go and interact with women... you ll understand
Not true, sorry. Being delusional is not healthy optimism.
That does not always solve the problem.
It'll nice if it was true all the time but some people just don't care about anyone but themselves.
So I figured that I would share my experience here. About 2 years ago I lost my wife in a botched surgery. We met in our late/mid 20s, had a nice romance the first few years, got married and were living happily until tragedy struck. Now I'm in my early 40's and have experienced everything that you and your viewers have echoed. The one thing that I do want to point out is that there feels to be quite a bit of frustration and hatred towards women, not from you but more from your commenters. I think the key here is not to not be angry towards women that exhibit these behaviors, but instead to recognize them. After meeting one woman that I thought was perfect and being severely disappointed, I have learned to not get emotionally involved and to just treat these women as FWB. I haven't given up on the possibility of finding another "Love", but I am not pressing the issue with these low value girls. I guess what I'm saying is that Love does exist and it is possible, but as a wealthy, healthy and confident man I can recognize these problem women quicker and I don't let myself get emotionally attached to them.
@@aaronelliottyt yeah sure. So I live in LA which is not a great place to find a loving wife, but I've still been dating. I've noticed a trend, that a lot of women really are at odds with the "modern woman" narrative. In conversation I call them out on the hypocrisy of it all and they actually seem to respond well. The best green flags I have seen are. They have long term back to back relationships and aren't too concerned with what you can do for them. Of course they want to know that you're not a bum... But they don't over emphasis. If they are calling you and interested in things you do, while making an effort to do little things for you, these are all good signs.
So, just treat women as bodies to use? Nice.
Sorry about your late wife. You are correct............the information in these videos is for information so men can see the pitfalls of modern dating.
I really don't think relationships are for everyone. We have this idea that were all supposed to be in one or perusing one. All you have to do is watch the old Jerry Springer show to realize it doesn't take anyone special to be in a relationship, marriage, or have kids. Some people play the lottery, and they win... I have met what I believe are a handful of healthy married couples. I'm not saying they are perfect or that they didn't have seasons of distress... but they KNEW how to work their stuff out to keep the relationship going. Many people can not do that.
In this day and age we are still working with certain outdated ideas. Sure, I think family should be sacred and we should protect the concept and ideals of family... but so much is working against that. Unless you stumble across someone who wants to fight beside you for those kinds of standards, it is best to go your own way.
I think it will be several generations before we get to see a return of - perhaps- traditional family values. But were all wading through the shit... and that shit has been flowing in from all angles. Women are tired of men, and men are tired of women. What you see a lot of is people acting desperately or compulsively on biological desires and you know who gets hurt? The kids... the next generation has to inherit the degeneracy and malice of their biological parents.
Perhaps men and women going into their own corners is whats needed for a while.
AM MJ very wise
Very wise response AM MJ. However my only question is if someone wants to have companionship and perhaps a family with a suitable woman by a certain age so that you can enjoy your children before you get too old...what do you do? Agreed that finding a suitable, sane and great relationship is not easy to find (and requires work) but in the mean time time is passing.
Well said and things won't go back to being traditional unless we get rid of all this technology if you think about it before all this technology everyone was more social and more friendly and nowadays all these dating websites in social media makes it easier to cheat and harder to be social in person...
Lol..a lot of those Jerry springer episodes are filled with actors to create a make believe story..
@@ahmedhashmi3584 true in reality tho ngl it happens
I'm confused about men complaining about hypergamy. You dont want a woman to have her own career but also dont like that they marry up in economic status?
No one ever said we wanted women to be broke. We want women to reciprocate. Without reciprocation, there’s no balance, & without balance comes problems.
@@KenchiOMO well look at nature and find me a species where the females settle for beta males.
I think I am beginning to understand why it is that most men would prefer to date relatively young, "green broke" women in their mid- to late twenties.
It's much easier to help shape and mold younger wife's character and to teach her how to avoid making many of the youthful mistakes we made when we were younger men.
Teaching her everything I learned about the way things really work rather than how we are told they work ensures both her safety and the safety of the family I/you(?) help to create and support to adulthood.
And security is a major concern for most women so(if I were you) I wouldn't underestimate the power of ensuring her security in all/as many areas as you can.
This guy does sound depressed to me. He said he isn't, but the fact that he's giving up on things and having no motivation to do things doesn't sound good. Looking for outside influence to make you happy leads to unhappiness from my experience. You've got to love the shit out of yourself and being by yourself. Puts you in a great position with women too.
The more you talk about Women the more you care. Best MGTow's barely pronouce that word and enjoy other things in life, lets him waste his talking about Women till he became old.
@@user-pz7wq6ix4s approaching definitely gets you dates but without a strong masculine mindset guys will always struggle with women. Loving doing your own thing stops neediness and makes walking away easier if things don't workout.
Yes it does put you in a good position with women being on your purpose although It's a constant energy drain having to watch your women like she is a child. At any moment the matrix programming from the social engineer's can come out of her and flip your whole reality upside down.
Let me guess,, your a women. One of the ones he advises us to stay away from. Yup. Smh.
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I haven't dated in 9 years and I'm now 32 . I was young got engaged my fiance got pregnant and shit went down hill.. She was cheating etc. After being stripped of everything including being a victim of identity fraud I lost everything. Lay off after lay off and my cars motor killing itself I have been struggling. Plus the child support is crushing my earnings. I got laid off again 2 weeks before Xmas. Here where I live jobs aren't plentiful and they range from 9 to 11 dollars an hour it's all bullshit. Anyways I'm broke and trust me with no money and 9 years of struggling women don't fuck with me now. When I met my ex I had my own place 2 sports cars etc. I was bodybuilding at the time weighing in at 240lbs. Now I'm broke and 141lbs due to no money and depression. Moral of the short story It's all about the money.. with no money your dog food.
Just watched this video, love your content as always. The reason for this comment is that IMHO travelling, the more exotic the better, would help this guy a LOT. Just my 2 cents. It will help to regain inspiration, but also with finding more attractive woman, as they also travel. All the best, keep it up guys!
That is like finding a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow with a little Leprechaun standing there during a solar eclipse on New Years Eve.
you find better women when you find a woman who respects and loves her FATHER!
Better as in obedience
Thats why some girls are like sneaks , because they dont have fathers . They dont respect a respectful man . Leave them alone .
"Plenty of whales" has me dying. Lmao
That thumbnail of the bikini-clad, tongue-dangling woman is an ideal of the "quality woman?" LOL.
Forget about marriage...
Always compete with yourself. Be a better man than you were yesterday and compete with the better man that you will be tomorrow.
Tell that to women too.
@@virajkadam1684 I do, they usually get pissy.
Female entitlement: Bear in mind the role of the advertising industry. The operators behind this industry have spent decades grooming women to believe that they deserve more. One advertisement became famous for telling women bluntly, '..because you deserve it...' This industry started its early work experimenting with the theories of Freud and psychotherapy. They quickly concluded that vanity is an advertisers dream because vain people spend more. So if the degree of spending is a measure of the vanity, then women are at least 4 times more self absorbed and entitled than men.
Down to a science.
Is that the L'Oreal ad? We have that annoying TV advert in the UK and it always makes my skin crawl. I'm not male though. You can almost see many females who absorb the advert will have canary feathers hanging out of their mouths. "Because you're worth it..." what a blanket statement to broadcast.
Yep, you got it. How many Women's shampoo hair commercials have you seen. Its like being Brainwashed.
Yep, way too many.. along with all the other female products. You hardly ever see the equivalent ads for men though but men need the same things too, like soap, shampoo etc. The expensive perfume ads at Xmas are too much as well. I don't know, I've never been swayed by ads really.
twilight tortoise ...It's not a thoughtless catch phrase though. It was dreamed up as a direct response to the need for justification. This need seems obscure now. But in the post war era money and jobs were scarce. So convincing women that it was ok to spend hard earned money on personal indulgences became a priority of the advertising industry. At first the links were tenuous. Such as with the maker of an instant cake mix who was advised by psychologists to include instructions on the packet to add an egg to the mix so that the 'house-wife' of those times could say that she 'baked' a cake. Later it became possible to tell women that it was ok to buy beauty products used by celebrities because 'they deserved it.' Advertisers used the same techniques on men, but they were less effective.
Thank you Rich another brilliant video with so much helpful info for me for this point in my life. Cheers mate
Most relationships are for learning. Very few are for the long term good of both people.
Put God first in your life. Everything else will unfold naturally in your life. ENJOY LIFE BROTHERS
Facts
I’m 21 I haven’t been in a serious relationship because I haven’t found anyone worth dating, I don’t have a problem flirting or getting medium class women, but I haven’t met anyone that I’ve actually considered seriously pursuing. I’ve been focusing on myself, developing my career and hobbies, and now I’m starting to grind out college. Being active Military I’m waiting out my contract so I go down the career paths I want, but until then I feel like the part in my life is lacking is a women at least in my life more consistently that I can get along with intellectually. I don’t like to waste my time with female friends because they simple don’t exist. If anyone has any thoughts or anything I’d be happy for the discourse.
Know that women think they’re of higher value than men think of themselves, so don’t let this put you down (if you’re not happy with the selection), instead raise your own value mentally and reach higher (release the wales). Hope that makes sense!
This guy spoke out of my heart, brilliant video and the message.
"The other advantage of becoming a member of my private community is ... you don't have to pay me as much to be your friend."
I agree about coming from within,nothing like a relationship were you have to tell someone how to love you..
Better women...Like the lost city of Atlantis.
Hearing him discuss his choice of women, fat, ugly, dumb, broke. What I found with guys inexperienced with dating, will come up with all these reasons like "I'll go for lower value girls, learn how to get good with women. For when I find THE ONE". Instead of deciding it's top quality girls or nothing. Many guys have issues with talking to 10s, so they go for lower girls because it's easier to talk/open/date compared to top quality ones.
Funny thing is most girls, regardless of their hotness, still act the same. My sister, who I love dearly, took me on her date when I was 13. The poor sucker guy paid for his meal, my meal and the my sisters. On the drive home my sister laughed about how he was an idiot.
I learned never to be that sucker.
O yes, there's still fundamental things they believe for sure, like being taken out for the evening. This I think is learned through tv shows, media, movies, especially chick flicks. He's going to court her, and do all that. That's her frame, a guys frame should be mutual meeting spot. Show up late or super if you don't want to buy her drink.
This is what happens when you leave out higher spiritual attributes and morality, qualities that look past alpha physical parameters. In a flesh and physical only expectations, everyone will lose eventually and no relationship will be long term. People expect to much of perspective mates. No one is allowed to be less than perfect and you can’t make mistakes, change or grow old or you’ll be considered unworthy and tossed aside.
This is men and women alike.
Amen
What a brilliant letter that guy wrote and exactly what I went through. It made me realise that I did not need material things anymore because I had no reason to impress. The result has been that I have not need to make so much money and as a result have become very laid back; even lazy. I also feel under no pressure and I used to thrive on pressure and deadlines. Now I worry because this has been going on for 10 years.
Look for Asian girls or eastern european. Usually good mothers and wives.
My heart goes out to men and women. Marketing and social media has everyone chasing rainbows and detached from what matters most.
Where? In an alternative universe where unicorns are real.
You can lose money chasing woman, but you will never lose woman chasing money....Love the mindset EIC
He has all the money he’ll ever need
Accept that, if he wants to find a lady, he just needs to go after younger women. Quality women are taken by the time they hit 28. Hell, I think I'd say that they're taken by the time they're 25.
If he just wants to stick with ladies closer to his age, then he's probably going to have to turn them into what he wants.... which never works out well.
And yes... there is no "ONE". Find someone that is looking to create a quality life, then he needs to build a LIFE, not just find someone to come along for the ride. Too many people find someone and expect them to be what they want with no work. That's as stupid as thinking that you're going to be the perfect person for someone else without any work on the relationship and building a life with them.
I agree he needs to build an amazing life first. As you said, "Too many people find someone and expect them to be what they want with no work." This resonates with me with exes and others, it is not my job to be entertainment, cleaner, and motivational speaker. If you have no motivation, sit on butt, get high, watch tv, and put in 10% effort you don't just automatically deserve another person. (I think some women do it too) Critical self-reflection is important. Younger people have less life so they can change more. Your speaking some truths!
I think a lot off the really decent women are more or less off the market aged 21. They're instantly snapped up and tend to invest for a long-term relationship with a good quality guy instead of putting it about.
Just like there is flawed thinking that the Rich got that way by stealing. Or the Rich just got lucky. Or you have a good job, because you are Lucky! Come on, too many weak and jealous people.
Same goes for the men. Why isn't he taken?
Except for the first paragraph I agree 100%
Actually I like this guy he keeps it real 100!! Information to absorb! Thanks man!
I have a tip Richard: the first thing you should find out about a woman is if she had a father around growing up. I don’t mean like custodial rights but that the father was actually (and still is) with the mother. If she did then most likely than not she’ll be a good woman
Theres fault in that logic. Offspring are not their parents and though values may be passed on, using those values and morals are not a gaurantee to be held.
Don't you mean "if she didn't"? A woman with daddy issues is bad news.
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There are definitely no guarantees in life. But, finding a potential partner who comes from a solid, HEALTHY family can certainly improve the odds.
Still, in this day and age... everyone (male or female) would do well by VERY CAREFULLY "vetting" anyone they consider as a potential partner, BEFORE getting IN, to the point where getting OUT becomes a problem.
Easier said than done, I know.
@@sayckeone...
"Daddy issues" generally stem from the lack of a healthy relationship between a father and daughter... (abandoned by father/abused by father/having to watch father abuse mother or siblings) are a few examples (and I'm sure there are many others).
Coming from an "unbroken" home is a good "starting point". But, you have to "dig deeper" to determine if the relationships within that family were healthy.
@@bobinthewest8559 wise words. Literally told my current of 2 years to get out after going from church to wicca, and catching her on snapchat unwilling to show me what she's doing. My house. Good lord!
Bro. Just pay for a professional when you get any urges, and the rest of your time, enjoy your freedom. It's cheaper financially, and emotionally.
This can get you on the registered sex offender list in Canada.
Why don’t you move from where you’re miserable and women are mediocre? It’s only going to get worse.
Great video as always mate.
Excellent advice. Also what Richard suggested to me in a private message.
It's simple guys. Set short, mid and long term life goals that are challenging but achieving. Do everything you do for you and you'll find the woman that has the same mindset that will naturally support your goals as they're in-line with hers and vice versa. Drop your standards and settle with lazy women and you'll lose the game.
I love being super fit physically and challenging my physical capabilities. I'm 38, an ex-soldier and a solid earner, I work just as hard with health and travel, most men I know dont have the work a living life ethic I do. I'm up no later than 5am and getting after it.
I met my wife at our local running club, she's a beast and a 3 hr marathon runner at the age of 40. We've been together for 10 yrs, got our childish and lazy years out of the way before meeting. She earns in-line with me and the plan is to both be super comfortably retired at 50. We've got a ton of solo and joint aspirational achievements we want to nail both in travel and fitness. They wealth side of things has pretty much been taken care of.
Why the heck are so many men settling down with fat tv watching drones if you're offering more?!?
Loser men settle with loser women and then wonder they both end up miserable, separated and generally the man's money becomes depleted.
Do not Chase women let them chase you. Put yourself in proximity 2 high quality women wine bars nice restaurants etc and then ignore them. Your life will turn in to a bang fest
@Stewart McKay What an advice😂😂😂 and did you get your women by positioning yourself in a bar or restaurant then ignoring people around ?!
Yes absolutely , they are gathering there in Jewish wine bar , for a high value Chinese man
Take time to get to know who you are and then go after what you want...don’t be afraid to be alone for a little while
The mistake that this community is making is putting 90% of their attention on women.
Look for girls who like outdoor activities (hiking, canoeing, cycling, camping) and are involved with caring professions. They seem to be the most down to earth and nice people. Women in high end professions may push you, but they can be very hard work in the end.
Being a INTJ, I don't like interacting with people, I don't find many women very interesting. I've done the whole dating site thing, since I don't do the whole interaction thing very well. Found a lot of damaged, unintelligent, single mothers, overweight women on dating sites.
I have recently stopped spinning plates and decided to focus on myself. Finding higher value women is difficult for me, not sure why.
So for now I'll just continue my education so I can change careers, hit the gym and see what happens.
I'm determined to get to the point where women chase me, not the other way around. Maybe I can get to that point, only time will tell.
women will not chase you unless you are very facially attractive, which you would know by the time you are in high school, because it doesn't change. I've been chased by exactly 3 women in my life and they all turned out to be very mentally unstable to varying degrees. That didn't stop me from dating them for years because I was an idiot until just last year, when I took the red pill.
I was chased in my early 20s but I was in a high position of power at work... So hypergamy at its best. Still being in a position of a different kind of power I don't tell women what I do immediately so I can weed them out.
Oh yeah I forgot about that part. Money and power work if they know you have it. I'm in the lead position at work now in my 30's, but I work almost exclusively with men so it doesn't really make a lot a difference. The few girls I work around do show interest but now that I know why, I'm less interested in them. Funny thing that is.
Lether I have a rule of not dating coworkers now, caused problems in the past, if things don't go well, you still have to see them at work. My current job causes me more problems from attracting women seeking protection/security. I've found these types to be damaged in some way. Not a solid foundation for a relationship.
Doctor Detroit I'm not sure if I've ever seen a above average woman in a collective sense. I've seen average looking with damage or and a over inflated sense of self worth. I've seen very attractive women with the same terrible qualities which brings them down to below average. So what can we call average?
I hear "focus on building wealth and good women will find you" a lot. I am an overthinker and I try to plan my future. I just worry about that unknown factor and not knowing
Talk to more women. Approach women in restaurants who might be there ghosted by their bfs. Just look for more places where women might go to hangout.
These videos are so helpful, I mean, it kinda teaches me how to be a good woman to my sweetheart and to even the people around me
But what kinda bothers me, my sweetheart has a fetish with big women and found out 5 years ago, he fattened me up on purpose and doesn't want me to be fit again, but likes it when I challenge him to go on walks and some yoga with me
Yea I'm a little big and expecting, but I'm not lazy considering Brent treats like I'm handicapped when I can put on my own shoes and don't need help doing our laundry
Sounds like this guy has very high standards, which is alright, but if they are so high, I'd say this guy should hangout at golf courses that has a bar lounge, now those women expect high standards on men, so maybe he might need a different hangout spot and should offer the kind of women he is looking for
Sometimes a person needs to change up their surroundings a bit in order to get the change you expect or want out of your life
Keep doing these videos Richard, really appreciate the time you put in your UA-cam videos
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Then he could end up with the waitress, cleaner, etc in the golfclub! First need to work up his own self-esteem! Or these tiger women in golfclubs will tear him apart as they are so full of themselves and then his self-confindence will go to freezing point! Unless he works on his attitude and game and approach these golfgirls (paid fee by daddy or sugardaddy, anyway "a daddy") as being friends in natural assertive way! And look what signals she drops on him, the guy.
WTF??
2 Dewild yea I have to agree, those women are basically like tigers lol, it's just from the sound of that guy Richard is talking about, seems like he is into high maintenance women...maybe?..I don't know the guy lol, but yes I agree with Richard that there are lazy women, except they can also come in all sizes too, I know some petite kawaii women who are more lazy than lesbian fashionista plus size women, but the majority of the women that guy could be looking for, comes with a right attitude which I agree with you, he needs to get confidence and work on himself first
And yea most definitely, he is gonna have to be extra careful around those kind of women too, cause I'm guessing he is not looking for a hot one night stand from a hot chick, who probably belongs to a sugar daddy, but more of a relationship and in that stance, he is gonna need some game to keep that type of woman intrigued and rely on him that she doesn't need to depend on a sugar daddy, let alone anyone in order to be happy, but also teach her to depend on herself too when it starts to become a relationship
With the right mindset and attitude, she will notice a good thing with him and won't throw him out either like yesterday mornings trash, but it takes a lot of energy to keep up with them too
I know cause I have a few friends online that are like that, but honestly, those women just want happiness and a good man too, without dominance ruining of what they have together
The TWO things that are very important....take GREAT care of yourself and ENGAGE IN PASSIONS THAT ENHANCE YOUR SELF ESTEEM AND MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD. JUST DO THAT.
It’s funny how we all go thru the same route when it comes to be red pilled 😂😂
Thanks for relating.
I really like the way this dude wrote his letter, it was well brake down and of course the way you deliver this video was awesome too Richard thanks for the context 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Thats a great thumbnail
The first mistake was thinking there are trustworthy women. Second mistake was trying to improve your game rather than opting out. The best thing the caller can do is grow his business and ignore women. Always be too busy and when you do have free time, only hang around for 3-4 hours tops. Always give the impression that you are on the fence and looking for the exit, women like that. Keeping her last in your life keeps you first in hers...
What I've found through divorce is that God provides companionship. He provides a way to completely relax the thoughts that drive people towards another disaster. If you don't care about a higher power, then you're on your own. I've found great peace inn this.
Another way to look at it is to not believe in a higher power, and take pride in the fact that you can deal with your problems without a crutch to lean on.
God bless
This is the best channel I have come across. Thank you UA-cam Algorithm and thank you Richard.
How can i stop myself from needing external validation?!
Read and watch mgtow horror stories from people consistently. That'll snap you out of it.
Glad to hear the mention of hunting. I understand that it's not for everyone, but it gives existential confirmation for some of us.
First mistake this guy made was thinking his job & status would land him a quality woman!
Theres is nothing like " the one" thats a disney trend. You should be the one, not the girls, so be the best you can be and chase your goals, dreams, or something else that makes you a better one.
43 here. Once dated a 32 year old, when I was 31. Other than that, oldest women I dated was 28. 0 interest in cougars.
You are the cougar now
I once had a girl I picked up at an LA nightclub who told me "you're not gonna find a good girl at a club." Her and her friend came home with me and my buddy to his house in downtown. Club was so damn loud I didn't hear her name when she introduced herself. I kept calling her by whatever name I thought I heard!😆 Her friend asked my friend "why does he keep calling her that?" She spent the whole night getting called some other girls name!😂 I don't remember how much I drank that night!🤣
Answer: Become a better man.
If I was this dude, I would move to Chiang Mai, Thailand, and live like a king.
I got abortion ads before the video. Wtf lol
So don't look
Can't say better.. since it means Women in America are good.. and others are Better than good.. The criteria for women for men are *1. Very good looks. 2. financially able to support all their wants*
Date females from another countries . My girlfriend is Filipina. We respect each other and it works for me.
Very good video and to be a entrepreneur is a love whice you can take it as high as you want -- it is a baby. Having many streams of income is wise. To have a bad employee can destroy a business very fast or a bad women can do the same damage or take the business from you. Wisdom has to be front and center and you bring that to the table. Thank you so much
I say date as many girls as you have time for. I'm 57 now, never married, just finished being a sole parent. Girls always come and go. As you loose the dead weight, you find new ones. I have up to four girls on the line at any one time. Eventually the right one will come along.
Thank you Richard for your videos. What you share here is priceless. All the best!