How Should I Pursue Women?

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    Hello Richard,
    I've been following your channel for a while now. I love your honesty, and your empiricism. I'm 26 going on 27 this year in December, and graduated from engineering school less than a year ago.
    I consider myself a late bloomer. I've struggled with self-esteem and confidence issues for as long as I can remember, I've only recently made breakthroughs with the help of a wonderful therapist. I used to think I wasn't a man because I wasn't having sex with lots of beautiful women, it seemed like everyone else was. Sometimes I feel like I've fallen too far behind.
    Should it be a priority to start pursuing women? perhaps like a pickup artist? What do you think about porn, prostitution, and strip clubs? Are these healthy environments for men? Thank you.
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  • @EntrepreneursInCars
    @EntrepreneursInCars  7 років тому +141

    Thanks for watching, leave a comment below for this subscriber, what do you think or PUA, porn, prostitution and strippers?

    • @WinterWolf_A
      @WinterWolf_A 7 років тому +12

      Corey Wayne is also a great life coach to check out, his view on women, the way they act and why they act that way is 100% spot on, definitely worth checking out, helped me out a lot. Love the videos btw, keep up the awesome work :)

    • @islalikoma
      @islalikoma 6 років тому +29

      For men; money is a means towards sex. For women; sex is a means towards money.

    • @TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels
      @TheGalacticEmperorOfLabels 6 років тому +4

      Nothing to say specifically about this video, Richard. Just thanks for all of them.

    • @junyang2109
      @junyang2109 6 років тому +1

      In his shity glass, he talks shit. He thinks he knows how to give his shit out. Disgusting

    • @russiandrivers9986
      @russiandrivers9986 6 років тому +3

      jun yang Really? Tell me more.

  • @cameronbarton7648
    @cameronbarton7648 5 років тому +1237

    Who knew Triple H could give such great advice?

  • @qntainmnt
    @qntainmnt 4 роки тому +481

    here's one thing every man should know: EVERYONE gets rejected.

  • @seventy18
    @seventy18 5 років тому +706

    All High School Boys should be taken on field trips to Family Court.
    So men know just what kind of monster they are pursuing.
    Fact.

    • @kenlandon7803
      @kenlandon7803 5 років тому +19

      Great Point!

    • @Phsoco
      @Phsoco 5 років тому +56

      Given that majority of the teachers are woman, they won't let that happen.

    • @jnordne2
      @jnordne2 5 років тому +22

      @@Phsoco And judges. I was just screwed by one a couple of months ago. And not in the good way!

    • @churamani1992
      @churamani1992 4 роки тому

      @@jnordne2 I get ya

    • @avi9211
      @avi9211 4 роки тому

      That's a brilliant idea!

  • @xlieon
    @xlieon 6 років тому +156

    "Fuck all this nonsense pua, strip clubs, porn, whatever" immediately grabbed my gym bag and went out the door. Thanks for the motivation.

  • @clint_tt1664
    @clint_tt1664 6 років тому +884

    How should I pursue women?
    Answer: Don't!
    Mind your business, work on achieving your goals and act indifferent towards women. By doing that women will pursue you instead.

    • @thelongtrader4642
      @thelongtrader4642 5 років тому +37

      100% spot on

    • @DrStench13
      @DrStench13 5 років тому +84

      What about approaching? How is a woman going to pursue if she doesnt know about you?

    • @Shanedog76
      @Shanedog76 5 років тому +36

      or they'll just assume your ether married or with someone witch has been my case for many years now when I've been Single after my divorce in 2005 its now 2018 Women are hooked to there phone's like its a drug and more forecast on that then anything else so I don't want anything to do with them at the same time I desperately want a Women in my life??? but there ruined due to the Digital Age Facebook!? so I'm trying to save money for a prostitute? I'm very much an introvert happy being alone

    • @sakurakou2009
      @sakurakou2009 5 років тому +30

      All men say that then once they find girl they lile all those thoughts get thrown out window

    • @sakurakou2009
      @sakurakou2009 5 років тому +5

      @Shake hir maybe they creepy personality wise , sometimes being rich can't compensate for weird personalities

  • @ucdavis4pt0gpa
    @ucdavis4pt0gpa 5 років тому +187

    One word: don't

  • @Liamfr34k
    @Liamfr34k 5 років тому +87

    HHH spiting the truth, is this his promo for wrestle mania?

  • @rodneyblackwell7477
    @rodneyblackwell7477 6 років тому +61

    I didn't have sex before 30.. when you get to 60 you look back and realise it didn't matter.

    • @kappakd
      @kappakd 5 років тому +17

      Does anything matter then? 🤔🤔

    • @Bluzian74
      @Bluzian74 2 роки тому +3

      @@kappakd No, nothing does. Never did. It's all in your mind. Nothing exists outside of it either. It's all a social construct. (even sex is a social construct!) Perhaps the wind isn't a social construct.

    • @jurassicthunder
      @jurassicthunder 6 місяців тому

      ​@@Bluzian74not everything is a social construct 😂 but yeah there's no objective meaning of life.

    • @Bluzian74
      @Bluzian74 6 місяців тому

      @@jurassicthunder uh... go on... zero? What did you want it to be?

  • @RS-nt6wu
    @RS-nt6wu 6 років тому +329

    Be confident, not cocky. Be funny, not crude. Be charming, not a creep or desperate. Know some timeless things, such as a good wine, some Sinatra, something educated and interesting to say.

    • @lindarobinson4068
      @lindarobinson4068 5 років тому +14

      Get a life lol

    • @jayfreeman3004
      @jayfreeman3004 4 роки тому +6

      This is good advice

    • @ocvegasproperty
      @ocvegasproperty 4 роки тому +15

      Be a badass for yourself first and they will line up.

    • @Jayyy667
      @Jayyy667 4 роки тому +9

      You say this to distract them, while you dose their wine with some Cosby spice.

    • @acharich
      @acharich 4 роки тому

      😎

  • @brettpalmer8245
    @brettpalmer8245 5 років тому +46

    “How should I pursue women?”
    Don’t.

  • @a.f.s.3004
    @a.f.s.3004 5 років тому +237

    Screw that...get in the gym.....tweak your style....and start slaying women! True story.. back when I was a young man in my teens,,,there were women I knew who were actually insulted that I was interested in them. They held me in such low regard that it made them angry that a guy like me wanted to be with them! Imagine the blow to a mans ego? I was smitten with these gals,,,and they were disgusted that I was interested in them! It was rough....Did i fold? No....I reacted! A year later after hitting the gym,,,changing my style a bit,,,,these same women were jocking me! Until you realize your full potential....don’t give up! Every man looks better jacked and lean. Put in the work and the ladies will come! No pun intended! ;0)

    • @GeorgE-yo5yc
      @GeorgE-yo5yc 5 років тому +30

      A chicken-muscled dude can pull girls if only he is confident enough. It's all about confidence. So many people are wrong thinking muscles or money will automatically get them lots of women. It is the confidence of having money or fit body that counts. And it is a good idea to improve yourself in other areas, intellectually and so on, just pumping iron for hours on end is not enough.

    • @kappakd
      @kappakd 5 років тому +23

      @@GeorgE-yo5yc you know that gaining muscle can easily increase your confidence

    • @breakingthemasks
      @breakingthemasks 4 роки тому +18

      This.
      God damn... I'm fed up with life and I'm ready to change.
      I'm going to hit the gym, and make 2020 the year that girls panties drop when I take my shirt off..fuck those bitches, they can crawl to me.
      Wish me luck brothers.

    • @Whitetiger187
      @Whitetiger187 4 роки тому

      Gym memberships are expensive though

    • @jnordne2
      @jnordne2 4 роки тому +3

      @@Whitetiger187 Planet Fitness is like $10/mo...

  • @JaxStravig
    @JaxStravig 7 років тому +49

    Wish you would have been around when I was in my 20's. In my 30's and finishing up a divorce, still very glad to have found you. Thanks for all you do Rich!

  • @mariorudinsky409
    @mariorudinsky409 7 років тому +84

    This comment Is for the subscriber who left the question. But quickly for you Rich, You might get a laugh, when I was 18 after studying this stuff for two years in my last years of high school a grade nine (14-year-old) was super interested in me, I took her on one date, just out to coffee and drove her home... and even though I was still a virgin and the date went really well, I turned her down because I would've felt like a sleaze. Guess who I saw today at the gym for the first time in 8 years who became a fitness model? I'm now 26 she's 22, and we had a great conversation. (I'll probably ask her out next time I see her and since I just started going to a new gym 3 times a week that will likely be soon) True story... Fucking Karma I guess.
    Back to the subscriber. I studied A LOT of PUA stuff, quick back-story I actually had two best friends in high school that were getting laid and I wasn't (and I was sure they were). I knew there was something wrong with me. One of those best friends, I still remember this to this day was asked by one of the hottest girls in the School (who he had virtually no interaction with up to this point), "what are you doing for lunch today?" he swiftly replied "going out with you"... This is when I realized that there was something wrong with my frame of mind, specifically my emotional fixation of my fear of failure, fear of rejection which manifested very obviously through my verbal of communication, the subtlety's of my body, and more importantly how I perceived myself. I perceived that one rejection would be the end of me.
    This is when I started to get into PUA stuff. Specifically, David Deangelo's Mastery program which is a different style of PUA entirely. He did bring in speakers such as Mystery, Tyler Durden, Denver Clay and a few others. But his running joke was that all the techniques come at the end. Instead, David preferred to talk about books like 'The Way of The Superior Man' (David Deita) Carl Jung's shadow and projection exercise, The Myers-Brig personality type indicator, how to not be a victim, and more or less all the aspects of internal game, he even took it so far as discussing some of Ken Wilber's philosophy of becoming 'The Void'. All he wanted to talk about is how to become a real man.
    What this has all taught me is not to need love. Even though on a biological level we all want it.I believe that myself comes first, and 90% of the problems I have can be solved on my own (that's why as I man try to take to initiative to solve them, I refuse to accept the ideology that external forces define me). Take that personal responsibility to do so. If you want some guidance on how to make yourself a Sun that planets gravitate around. (this is what he teaches, become a Sun, shed light onto others because you are so fulfilled in yourself that you desire to). Look into David DeAngelo mastery.
    I hope this helps you man, and Rich (you're a great dude, you may have actually may have been reading my quote that I said to you, "you're like a dad I never had" That's because my father has only been married once, and he does expect the same from me. I appreciate you're telling of the stories that made you, you. I don't expect certainty in my life and I open to the possibility my first marriage will end badly. I'm trying to prevent that the best that I can, but I appreciate ur insight man.
    I also believe I want to share this insight to others. To make them better.

    • @EntrepreneursInCars
      @EntrepreneursInCars  7 років тому +19

      Thx brother

    • @Mohan-cq5ld
      @Mohan-cq5ld 6 років тому +6

      This comment has changed my perspective forever

    • @kylelincoln181
      @kylelincoln181 6 років тому +2

      The matrix

    • @delishme2
      @delishme2 6 років тому +7

      Beautifully penned. Well done you. "I refuse to be defined by external influences ", or words to that effect is key to men defining masculinity for themselves. Well done for having the courage to do so. Honestly this is the best comment I have read in weeks. You will find a great woman, and as long as you continue to take responsibility for yourself, if you chose well you will likely be happy as well, of that I am sure 👏👏

    • @tommyc4641
      @tommyc4641 4 роки тому +2

      Thank you for taking the time to write this. I’m in my 30s and feel like I’m late to the game dealing with these issues, but I’m making progress for sure. Convinced this is the right way to go.

  • @johnfromakron4695
    @johnfromakron4695 5 років тому +39

    I like your honesty. That's what people need truth unsugar coated.

  • @XxBloodSteamxX
    @XxBloodSteamxX 5 років тому +45

    I lost my virginity at 21. It's annoying to deal with the whole virgin thing but it didn't change anything at all except now I'm not so self conscious

    • @Bluzian74
      @Bluzian74 2 роки тому +5

      I lost mine at 27. Im now 47. After having sex lots of times with lots of women, I still don't know what the fuss is about. It's the biggest mystery I live with. Why would anyone cheat or commit adultery? Why the fuck would Mormons or Muslims want more than one wife!!?? Isn't having one bad enough!?!? Jesus.

    • @Dragonk116
      @Dragonk116 2 роки тому +3

      I'm 29 and still a virgin... 😭

    • @Josh-fp2qn
      @Josh-fp2qn Рік тому

      @@Dragonk116 Do you know why? Are you too shy for a woman to want you?

  • @Sig320
    @Sig320 3 роки тому +6

    I went to a strip club once when I was 19 and all it did was give me blue balls. I don’t understand why men pay a woman to get them turned on and then not finish the job.

    • @Bluzian74
      @Bluzian74 2 роки тому

      Absolutely. It does nothing for me either. The music is terrible. The girls are lazy and not that attractive. They put no effort into it and the drinks and entrance fee is expensive too.

  • @darkfishy87
    @darkfishy87 6 років тому +40

    It seems like it's always cold where you live

  • @TheMentalblockrock
    @TheMentalblockrock 7 років тому +235

    Don't pursue women, get women to pursue YOU!! I've found when the woman contacts ME first on a dating site means a much better success rate of getting my leg over.

    • @twiz8789
      @twiz8789 6 років тому +11

      Dating site??? Really? REALLY!?!....dude....

    • @Shanedog76
      @Shanedog76 6 років тому +4

      getting my leg over? what's that meaning? 'getting my leg over'?

    • @mationplays1500
      @mationplays1500 6 років тому +43

      The women that contact me first are mostly not attractive

    • @Shanedog76
      @Shanedog76 5 років тому +4

      but Date site's cost money? money I don't have to be spending on Women

    • @RedPlaystationController
      @RedPlaystationController 5 років тому +5

      That only works if you're tall and white.

  • @bobkeeler5964
    @bobkeeler5964 5 років тому +15

    I've been divorced once and also ended a relationship with my young girlfriend that lived with me for almost 5yrs... I am terrified of getting involved (trapped) with a woman at this point in my life because it is so easy for me to get "stuck" with a girl that I don't really want to be with but cant bring myself to follow through and get rid of her because I don't want to hurt her. I am satisfied living alone with my 2 big dogs and minding my own business and staying out of trouble. I have no interest in a female right now and I hope that lasts for a long long time. There nothing worse than being in a relationship that you wish you could get out of...I'm finally out of mine and I feel like I have found my self again.

  • @JohnSmith-zo6ir
    @JohnSmith-zo6ir 2 роки тому +8

    Strip clubs, porn etc has never done anything positive for me. Even a prostitute leaves me cold. Its too transactional. The best sex I've ever had, where I can go all night, is with a woman who I am emotionally connected to and we share similar values, have intelligent conversations, laugh, poke fun at each other and flirt with each other all day. Its the soft gestures, hand holding, acts of caring, kindness and appreciation that turns me on. Sex is just a natural outcome of all the small things throughout the day. I prefer to call it "making love" as opposed to "having sex".

    • @Bluzian74
      @Bluzian74 2 роки тому +1

      Absolutely 210% brother. Im with you man. You must also be Demi-Sapio sexual like myself. (Although porn is pretty amazing). Strippers and hookers are vacuous holes. Nothing of value. Sex ought to be free (like porn). I still believe kissing and foreplay, is far more exciting that sex can ever be. I find sex to be extremely BORING as hell. I wish I knew what all the fuss was about. It's a shame girls aren't into foreplay and second-base/heavy petting stuff. I think "outer-course" is kinkier! lol Cheers man. Namaste.

  • @mehGyver
    @mehGyver 5 років тому +3

    I have to wonder if the 40s+ crowd doesn't have addiction to porn because the internet wasn't a source during their teen years. I see these millennials with serious porn addictions (and all of the physical and mental issues that go with it), where they have to jump on the NOFAP bandwagon to break the addiction. Just a thought.

  • @Solaris501
    @Solaris501 5 років тому +10

    Strip clubs: biggest waste of money ever.

  • @WaTahBasTard
    @WaTahBasTard 3 роки тому +4

    Don't even bother.

  • @Thegravyipass
    @Thegravyipass 4 роки тому +74

    “Double down on improving yourself.” -Entrepeneurs in Cars

  • @flextechvip
    @flextechvip 3 роки тому +8

    About the late bloomer, I literally just dropped a 39 year old women that told me she was a virgin until she was 37.😂 She must have watched and taken your videos about focusing a women's past to the max!!!

  • @user-fd7yr2ov2l
    @user-fd7yr2ov2l 6 років тому +63

    I've been watching a few of your videos, and it's sad that I (along with many other men, I assume) don't get this kind of advice from our actual fathers, but rather from guys on the internet or radio like you or Tom Leykis.

    • @H4I2I2EE
      @H4I2I2EE 2 роки тому

      Yeah, I discovered this youtube channel just today and it made me think of Tom Leykis.

    • @Bluzian74
      @Bluzian74 2 роки тому

      @@H4I2I2EE Who the fuck is Tom Leykis? I just discovered this channel a week ago. I'm plowing through each video religiously! LOL

    • @H4I2I2EE
      @H4I2I2EE 2 роки тому +1

      @@Bluzian74 When I lived in Anaheim California I used to listen to him on the radio. He had a talk radio show where he gave advice on dating. Look him up you can probably hear clips of him. I wouldn't be surprised if this guy knows about him.

    • @djzrobzombie2813
      @djzrobzombie2813 Рік тому

      Wow someone who knows tom leykis the professor of poon 😂😂😂

    • @djzrobzombie2813
      @djzrobzombie2813 Рік тому

      ​@@Bluzian74 tom leykis is the dad you never had in your life !

  • @ultimatecodmw2
    @ultimatecodmw2 6 років тому +22

    Weirdly enough, RSD has been shifting toward development of positive male behaviors recently. This video was great btw

    • @caveman354
      @caveman354 2 роки тому

      Because RSD found out that majority of all the men that joins their boot camp and course have internal problems that reflect their external problems. They found out that men don’t struggle as much with game as opposed to what is in the inside, which is confidence, attitude, mindset, etc.

  • @mackelly4581
    @mackelly4581 5 років тому +8

    When it comes to porn, there are only two types of people. People who have watched porn and liars.

  • @godstomper
    @godstomper 5 років тому +3

    Do not pursue women. Ever. If they want you they will come to you. You just need to know those choosing signals and go for it

  • @radiotop6
    @radiotop6 5 років тому +15

    *goldberg* that you??

  • @TheMultiGunMan
    @TheMultiGunMan 5 років тому +13

    Wow! I'm SO glad I came across your videos. SUBSCRIBED!

  • @enzopierrot8828
    @enzopierrot8828 7 років тому +10

    Thanks a lot Richard, great job, I'm watching your youtube channel from France (work on my English in the same time haha).
    Peace Bro !

  • @barelyfunctionalfamily3532
    @barelyfunctionalfamily3532 5 років тому +7

    Dynamite in kids hands...that is perfect. Ive dated beautiful woman after woman, and each and every time im left devastated when it ends because i made them the center of my world. But now that i am my center, the beautiful women are still there but when things go south i go grocery shopping and grab another date. I love this channel and its teaching me the thimgs i never learned from the pua community about chasing excellence. Thank you sir. Keep making the universe a better place.

  • @davidmuth4571
    @davidmuth4571 6 років тому +15

    Sex, cooking and cleaning, income. Pick two.

  • @robertwillis4662
    @robertwillis4662 6 років тому +7

    Wishing I had mentorship in my 20s. I'm 53 now and have applied myself to various goals with success but I never fully dealt with underlying issues...only enough to keep moving...So yes I agree with the advice to spend your 20s focussing on sorting yourself out. Nice vid.

  • @joppekim
    @joppekim 5 років тому +38

    I'm 24 still virgin. I got the looks but I am not looking.
    Waiting for someone that I feel are deserving, so don't be so impatient.

    • @thealienelite
      @thealienelite 4 роки тому +2

      Without experience you won't be able to keep them, though.

    • @mrhernandez8256
      @mrhernandez8256 4 роки тому +7

      @@thealienelite we don't want to keep them.

    • @joppekim
      @joppekim 4 роки тому

      @H D true haha. Probably one day

    • @rrwa7052
      @rrwa7052 4 роки тому

      I only take advice from others I would trade places with. You are someone I absolutely would not want to trade places with. I suggest you wake up, zip it, and learn the game.

    • @jorgeguzman9592
      @jorgeguzman9592 4 роки тому

      Joppe I’m 21 smashed about 6 girls so far and I’ll keep going don’t catch feelings

  • @ab-re7uo
    @ab-re7uo 5 років тому +7

    Dude, Just letting you know that your advice is being heard here in central america and I see them as pure gold. Thanks!

  • @joshuapaul1982
    @joshuapaul1982 7 років тому +5

    Great vid man. Couldn't agree more with everything you said. I'm a big guy, and never had a shortage of women. Just gotta deal with your shit and put foot to ass.

  • @iDateAdviceiDateAdvice
    @iDateAdviceiDateAdvice 6 років тому +61

    Here is the thing, I get his point...but...Most men do not get a woman's signal that she is interested because a lot of times it's too subtle for a guy.

    • @kojack635
      @kojack635 6 років тому +40

      saganist I dunno, she could be friendly

    • @vinnievector
      @vinnievector 6 років тому +3

      Guys look for tips and cues she likes you. This can be hair flicking or eye contact a smile or she wants to dance if you are at a club . But most of all you must show confidence in the situation your in . This takes practice. You need to be able to hold a conversation . You need to show status or fake it

    • @christmasisawesome9348
      @christmasisawesome9348 5 років тому +3

      @saganist Yeah dude she could just be polite and try not to come off too strong.

    • @DrStench13
      @DrStench13 5 років тому +6

      @@vinnievector "if you are at the club" well, there's our first problem.

    • @RedPlaystationController
      @RedPlaystationController 5 років тому

      They shouldn't even have the right to say no. Not that long ago the bitch didn't have a choice, if it was a "no" then she was raped

  • @SportsBoss999
    @SportsBoss999 3 роки тому +1

    Glad the subject of prostitution came up. First of all, it should be legalized. There's no reason for a man not to use a prostitute to lose his virginity. Better to be with a pro than fumbling around with a chick that may not knw what she's doing either - especially if you're young. But there is one drawback to having sex with a hooker - it is not a substitute for intimate relationships. The sex, although it fulfills a need for sexual gratification, is not ultimately satisfying. There's no connection, no love, no future. I've had sex with prostitutes - both the streetwalker and the brothel "employee" - because I can't get laid by regular women. I'm not ashamed of using a hooker for sex, but not being able to get sex without paying for it, adds to my self-esteem issues. I long for companionship with a women and the sex part is the least of my concerns. The world revolves around love, and when you don't have it or can't get it, it is very very depressing.

  • @1Danube
    @1Danube 5 років тому +8

    You Rule! Always Dress Nice

  • @TONNAGE75
    @TONNAGE75 3 роки тому +1

    Best way to pursue a woman is, not pursue a woman.
    “It's all about the game, and how you play it.
    All about control, and if you can take it.
    All about your debt, and if you can pay it.
    It's all about pain, and who's gonna make it.”
    The Game - Motörhead which is HHH theme song which you look like. Perfect.

  • @AndeAndrea
    @AndeAndrea 6 років тому +48

    All PUA does is attract poor quality party girls (for the most part); any beautiful intelligent high quality woman will see right thru it.

    • @OnderHassan
      @OnderHassan 6 років тому +31

      Ande A. Wrong. Ive picked up professionals, lawyers, models, good girls etc. When the lights are off, you’re all the same.

    • @Dbulkss
      @Dbulkss 6 років тому

      Do you even go out? Lol

    • @ultimatecodmw2
      @ultimatecodmw2 6 років тому

      That's a very broad sweeping comment..

    • @GuidedbyCrows
      @GuidedbyCrows 6 років тому +1

      A woman like that knows men so she forgives much and will still cooperate with whoever she is attracted to.

    • @thomasmarcel7181
      @thomasmarcel7181 5 років тому

      Lol not true

  • @tanyacampbell2105
    @tanyacampbell2105 5 років тому +1

    You can solve every ones problem that quickly? UGH!!!! 1. stop only dating the prettiest women only. 2. stop acting like a crazy jealous person. 3. stop getting with women that the first question out of their mouth? is how much money do you make? 4. single moms who are not doing nothing with their life? and I mean nothing? don't give them the time of day. Then maybe they will get off their bums? and get a job. 5. stop thinking all women are the same? and trying to pick them up using the same method. 6. If a woman's kids are rude to you? and she doesn't correct them? RUN!!!!! 7. Stop assuming you know all there is to know about women. We don't know all about you, so you cant possibly know all about every woman. 8. You have got to stop going into a relationship already thinking all this negative influence. 9. stop thinking every woman should make 6 figures? or she isn't worthy. Money is the root to all evil. 10. Be respectful!!!!!!!! If she doesn't show respect back? dump her then, and there. One more thing! porn has been proven to ruin, and break up good marriages. So you in your car giving the advice you did? YOUR WRONG!!!

  • @yuriyork8094
    @yuriyork8094 7 років тому +7

    It is so amazing to listen to conclusions you've reached because they are the same conclusions I came too. Pertaining to porn prostitution, strip joints and becoming your best and highest self.

  • @aurinator
    @aurinator 3 роки тому +1

    What the hell Rich... You don't PURSUE women, you pursue Excellence, then women will pursue YOU.

  • @lilo2469
    @lilo2469 5 років тому +5

    Rich your a cool dude , wise , smart and Masculine!

  • @vr8944
    @vr8944 3 роки тому +1

    I really hope Rich see this... Guy from Colombia, have learned more from this channel and Rollo Tomassi than I can tell. But... Just saw a video of a girl talking trash about Cooper. I know now that this guy is opening our eyes... Haha

  • @groveavenue
    @groveavenue 5 років тому +8

    "There is nothing more honest than prostitution". Point to note. :)

    • @hiveminder941
      @hiveminder941 5 років тому

      Yeah, learned from sexual service providers.- they are woman after all without the virtue signalling.

    • @Bluzian74
      @Bluzian74 2 роки тому

      Yet it is the most dishonest function. There's nothing real or remotely legitimate about it. If only prostitutes fucked for free, or "pro bono", THEN it would be an honest profession. Until women stop charging men for sex, we will never be equal, and they will never be respected. Who the hell pays a girl to fuck? And why?

  • @23ofSeptember
    @23ofSeptember 3 роки тому +4

    I think a lot of guys would have trouble NOT pursuing women in their 20s because the whole club and bar scene is focused on men in that age group. I know that when I was at university, the thing to do was go to the clubs or bars on weekends because you know you're not going to have time or money for that kind of thing once you finish school because you're going to be working and trying to save money. Its almost as if guys need to get partying and pussy out of their system. Also, when a guy is in his 20s, thirty seems reeeeally old. He can't possibly imagine waiting until his 30s to pursue women or date them long term. If he hasn't had a long term relationship in his teens or 20s, then he will feel inadequate in his 30s. Even then, he is probably just getting out of debt, starting to go bald and thats just too long to wait. Some guys can do it, but most men spend their entire 20s trying to get into a relationship. I've seen so many men (including myself) get into the WRONG long term relationship in our 30s because we didn't get enough experience in our teens or 20s. That said, I think young men are screwed either way. If they wait, they are inexperienced, if they don't wait, then they get screwed and end up having kids in their 20s. I guess all they can do is use their best judgement and watch this channel.

    • @00_UU
      @00_UU 2 роки тому

      Bars and clubs are the biggest scam for men. I actually have a friend who is a bar owner. He constantly invites young hot girls and give them free drinks just to lure men to stick around and buy expensive drinks. I recently learned that this is a job: hot girls are hired to sit at the bar looking pretty just talking to men all night. Girls get to keep half of what the guy spends on drinks. Bartenders know the girls that are working, so they pour very little or no alcohol into their drinks. Girls are pretty much salesmen faking their interest in you. I absolutely hate clubs and bars now, huge waste of time and money.

    • @23ofSeptember
      @23ofSeptember 2 роки тому

      @@00_UU I had a few good nights at the club in my 20s. Maybe half a dozen hookups. I think I had whiskey dick half the time though. Probably only 1 really good one. Did her in the morning too. Probably a hundred wasted nights though. Probably spent at least 10k over the years. Was never into buying girls drinks though, just myself. Huge waste of money, but what else you gunna do? I actually met a lot of great girls in the triathlon club, but I was always looking for something else. Many regrets about my 20s and even 30s. I'm 43 now. Wow, time flies.

  • @Crambull
    @Crambull 5 років тому +1

    I do whole-heartedly disagree on your opinion on porn. There's well too many guys addicted to watching porn these days. I know first hand how this shit can fuck with your mind over time with prolonged, excessive exposure.

  • @delphi-moochymaker62
    @delphi-moochymaker62 7 років тому +5

    Hi brothers and sisters. Another great video Richard, thanks. Just a general comment. I just finished watching the movie "The Red Pill". Definitely a must watch for fans of this channel particularly, and for everyone in general. I won't do you the injustice of trying to summarize the movie in a few words, however suffice to say they do a deep dive into men's rights and position in our modern society. They touch on MGTOW briefly, and MRA's and feminism in depth. A real eye opener, even for someone cognizant of the need for men's issues to be recognized in our society. I can't recommend it highly enough. Cheers.

    • @EntrepreneursInCars
      @EntrepreneursInCars  7 років тому +6

      I'm going to try to get Paul Elam on a Skype call, saw the movie the other day, its worth buying a copy.

  • @Prod117
    @Prod117 7 років тому +1

    First fuck up... Dont persue women. Invest on yourself and you'll have them pursuing you.

  • @blueeyedbull67
    @blueeyedbull67 3 роки тому +1

    Aside from being seedy and nasty, strip clubs are the worst. It's like forcing a fat kid to pay to have a chocolate cake waved in his face but can't have a taste. Better to hang out with the boys watching or, even better, playing, some sports. Or when the feeling hits, rub one out for free at home.

  • @vk-shortvideos
    @vk-shortvideos 6 років тому +8

    get rich...then wait....

    • @adambernhardt4983
      @adambernhardt4983 5 років тому

      For a gold digger

    • @00_UU
      @00_UU 2 роки тому

      @@adambernhardt4983 they are all gold diggers. Don't need to marry them, just enjoy life.

  • @jondaiten
    @jondaiten 5 років тому +2

    I lost my virginity at age 30 and that doesn't bother me at all. if i would've done it earlier i could've been a father of an unwanted child right now. Now i have a career, im healthy and discovered that sex won't bring you happiness it's just a good short time that comes and goes.

    • @bescuit
      @bescuit 4 роки тому

      Facts men are raised to have an unhealthy love of sex

    • @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz
      @SHIVAMYadav-pw5uz 2 роки тому

      Thanks a lot to validate me. Because I m turning 29.but never touched a girl ever.

  • @rfpeace
    @rfpeace 7 років тому +3

    I suppose the nut shell idea is to get ok with being rejected? Or more specifically don't mistake your own worth and identity with the possibility of rejection/failure, ect.. Just because I can't dunk, or close that one deal, or what ever doesn't mean shit with respects to my worth as a human being and all of our infinite potential!
    BTW I like hookers too and if I'm in Bangkok the gogo bars are a very efficient means to satisfy any sexual needs. I'm not a big fan of porn nor strip clubs in the West for the same reasons, you can't really relieve yourself as you can in other countries that are less uptight about prostitution. Nothing worse than getting all fired up and then left abandoned :)

  • @fproszek
    @fproszek 3 роки тому +1

    Have money, be willing to spend it on them, have medical insurance, a car, a house, dance and don't smell like vomit.

  • @user-he2ke9qn1h
    @user-he2ke9qn1h 5 років тому +4

    You and Kevin O Leary -Founding Fathers of Canadian RedPill

  • @JeffreyGillespie
    @JeffreyGillespie 3 роки тому +1

    You shouldn't pursue women, you should pursue excellence until they notice and pursue you.

  • @franekwrobel1449
    @franekwrobel1449 3 роки тому +3

    Answer to title question: You shouldn’t :D

  • @romanvladimirovichpetrikov4947
    @romanvladimirovichpetrikov4947 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you very much for the useful video! I am sure that any strip clubs are a huge waste of time!

    • @00_UU
      @00_UU 2 роки тому

      Waste of time and money. They are always the same, always boring, always expensive and vvomen always look dirty.

  • @CharlieChecksIn
    @CharlieChecksIn 5 років тому +3

    You look like the Chicago Bears head coach, Matt Nagy. Look him up! Do you see it?

  • @theorangecreamcompany1937
    @theorangecreamcompany1937 4 роки тому +2

    Although I disagree with your view on porn, prostitution and masturbation, I do throughly enjoy your content and have learnt a lot, so thank you

  • @jonathankeenan5758
    @jonathankeenan5758 7 років тому +5

    I'm really diggin these red pill videos!

  • @brettpalmer8245
    @brettpalmer8245 4 роки тому +1

    Men, you already have 99 problems, don’t let pursuing a bitch be one.

  • @jarno_art
    @jarno_art 5 років тому +4

    Man i really love your vibes man.. you really got that fatherly feel to it since i also lost my dad at a young age and am in need of some male guidance !

    • @jarno_art
      @jarno_art 5 років тому

      I don't agree with the advice in this one tho.. if you want to date and have sex with alot or high quality women learning pickup or game is essential.. also it teaches you how to be the best version of yourself and develop your inner confidence and social skills etc..

    • @jarno_art
      @jarno_art 5 років тому

      Personally i can only take very small steps in doing pua or connecting with people because of inner issues i'm still working on so i'm using hookers to still satisfy my high sexdrive and not go insane which i almost got from almost not getting laid for 2/5 years

  • @swoli1
    @swoli1 3 роки тому +1

    This guy shuld try semen retention/nofap it helps a ton with confidence and women attraction.

  • @bigalcervantes5118
    @bigalcervantes5118 5 років тому +3

    Man I dig you channel. Thank you for your advice. I'm in a dead end relationship now, wish I bumped into your channel 3 yrs ago.

  • @adrianagainwsp7437
    @adrianagainwsp7437 3 роки тому +1

    Triple H .....😆 🤣 😂 I fucken laughed so hard. Good job brother with that joke.

  • @tonyoliver2330
    @tonyoliver2330 7 років тому +36

    -IMO porn is only healthy if consumed in healthy doses (i.e. once or twice a week) and does not become a detraction from pursuing women.
    -I stopped going to strip clubs because it is just paying for a show, literally.
    -On prostitution, I wouldn't only because of the risk of contracting something

    • @fjnbvbhkhhh8368
      @fjnbvbhkhhh8368 6 років тому +11

      Tony Oliver Porn isn't healthy one bit bro😂

    • @ElvenMans
      @ElvenMans 5 років тому

      @@Psalm_23 Like that's all porn has to offer lol. Where is the study that shows this dopamine thing tho, i smell bullshit.

    • @samiawadalla1498
      @samiawadalla1498 5 років тому +1

      Girls love that shit. You obviously aren't introducing it correctly

    • @jakehunter3434
      @jakehunter3434 5 років тому

      @@Psalm_23 actually yes some women do like having their hair pulled.

    • @00_UU
      @00_UU 2 роки тому +2

      Why would anyone smart even "pursue" vvomen? Actually pursuing vvomen takes so much time, effort and energy that p0rn comes out to be a much better, cheaper, faster, safer alternative.

  • @kapeeshmenzies6971
    @kapeeshmenzies6971 4 роки тому +2

    Women are like rainbows , you can't chase em , they're for everyone on the planet , just enjoy your time with them when they're in your sky .

  • @codytriguy
    @codytriguy 5 років тому +3

    Your awesome for addressing this for this young man. I ordered The Truth by Neil Straus. Thanks for all you do.

  • @Payne..
    @Payne.. 4 роки тому +1

    The best way to approach women is to not approach them just get on with improving you're life and they will notice

  • @antoniothornton1142
    @antoniothornton1142 5 років тому +4

    I LOVE you so much. Thank you.

  • @Amctothemoon
    @Amctothemoon 3 роки тому +2

    I want this guy to be my best mate lol .. talks more sense than any one I’ve heard

  • @MrHav1k
    @MrHav1k 7 років тому +4

    Glad you did this video. I used to be in this same camp.

  • @TheFossil76
    @TheFossil76 4 роки тому +2

    Prostitution is the second oldest occupation in the world. Hunter/gatherer was the first one. One had to pay with something. ;)

  • @TiyeeglowTV
    @TiyeeglowTV 5 років тому +3

    I love this Brother

  • @Simplicity165
    @Simplicity165 6 років тому +2

    Obi Wan in Cars..

  • @urmanascrewed
    @urmanascrewed 6 років тому +10

    PUA is pretty complicated and takes a lot of practice. You won't get laid immediately from it. Personal doubts and insecurities arise as well that have to be dealt with.

    • @nordicpride9708
      @nordicpride9708 2 роки тому

      The fact is you don’t need it. I’ve read the GAME, bunch of nerds who trick women essentially. Great book no doubt with some good lessons… the fact is nothing replaces confidence, a good physique and being good looking. Not everyone can do it. Life isn’t fair

  • @OctogonOxygen024816
    @OctogonOxygen024816 4 роки тому +2

    I got mommy issues lol gotta fix my mind
    I got confidence issues lol gotta fix my body
    I got financial issues lol gotta fix my soul

  • @eliasnyc1
    @eliasnyc1 6 років тому +3

    A true pick up artist does not let himself go and get into a relationship and fall in love.

  • @kellsAC1
    @kellsAC1 3 роки тому +1

    I love most of what Rich says but he's telling you that porn, strip clubs, and prostitution is okay...make sure to use your own moral compass

  • @walkstall8390
    @walkstall8390 4 роки тому +4

    Dude, don't hide behind sunglasses, a hoodie and a beard, then preach on how to pursue women...

  • @Aeneas137
    @Aeneas137 2 роки тому +1

    prostitution is a good subject for a show in itself because basically it's illegal in the US because women don't want it around it competes with them they're not able to get away with physical blackmail and other bullshit with men when the man could threaten her back so as a libertarian I hope someday that a lot of these things are taken off the books

    • @00_UU
      @00_UU 2 роки тому

      Legal in Canada, also kind of legal in Nevada, but extremely overpriced. I would travel to Europe for it.

  • @RedPlaystationController
    @RedPlaystationController 5 років тому +6

    This guy forgets he's a 6 foot plus viking and women come to him easy.

  • @DC-bd7sx
    @DC-bd7sx 5 років тому +1

    Important: Prostitutes and strippers are problematic people. If you want to be the best version of yourself, you need to avoid problematic people.

  • @bobsaget8282
    @bobsaget8282 4 роки тому +6

    semen retention, my Kings, semen retention !!!!

    • @johnnybaxter1953
      @johnnybaxter1953 2 роки тому

      There's no science behind that. It's all placebo

    • @bobsaget8282
      @bobsaget8282 2 роки тому

      @@johnnybaxter1953 you need a study???😂😂😂 Dont take my word Try it. Personally invested all the energy i spent on women and getting them on my bed and having sex and all the other habits tht come with that, into myself and my well being

    • @johnnybaxter1953
      @johnnybaxter1953 2 роки тому

      @@bobsaget8282 yea that’s great and I’m happy for you but it was just your mindset that changed, not anything physical

  • @PreciseVids
    @PreciseVids 7 років тому +2

    Found you from that chat with Peter Beattie, love the channel. Btw, I have a red pill way of thinking also. I question everything & some of the stuff could be considered "conspiratorial". I'm 19 & I've never had a GF yet because I went to a cyberschool online @ home (atleast thats my excuse).

  • @nathanamodeo
    @nathanamodeo 7 років тому +3

    Great video rich!

  • @AllPro777
    @AllPro777 6 років тому +2

    *How Should I Pursue Women?*
    _Don't_ pursue women.

  • @Bronxguyanese
    @Bronxguyanese 7 років тому +7

    Not for nothing. Try to pay for escorts if you must.

    • @lenny7773
      @lenny7773 2 роки тому

      I'd rather kill myself, for real

  • @uncleboogie101
    @uncleboogie101 6 років тому +4

    Thank you! For the past 4 years I have been working on creating a better version of myself. I was married for 30 years to the same woman and realized that I had fallen off my center and she had become panic/anxiety ridden. All this seemed to happen after the birth of my son. Consequentially, she began taking Prozac to help her. Well yeah it helped her to become sexually numb ie.. no orgasm!! We have since divorced and now at 60 I am curious as to whether women in this age group need a different approach? I may answer my own question here but I believe all women need that wonder/imagination/curiosity/INTEREST!!! So far the older women I have met seem tired, worn out and could take or leave sex!!! They hit the wall, BAM!!! I am working out, changing my psychology so I can rule the world!!! Well my world!! Peace out!!

  • @prisonmike3605
    @prisonmike3605 3 роки тому +2

    It’s all about the game and how you play it.

  • @csten9784
    @csten9784 6 років тому +3

    Uh dont teach men to do anything you wouldn't teach your daughter to do. The double standard these days is way up js

  • @stevenbass732
    @stevenbass732 3 роки тому +1

    How do you pursue women? Don't.

  • @longlakeshore
    @longlakeshore 6 років тому +3

    Pursue women? Don't. Be yourself. Have your life. Let them come to you.

  • @VicDamoneJr82
    @VicDamoneJr82 4 роки тому +2

    Ever since I started fasting I have not gotten sick ever 1 meal a day and tea and coffee throughout the day