How Surrendering To Female Nature Frees Men

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  • @scottbernard8824
    @scottbernard8824 4 роки тому +353

    "Never try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other." -- Al Bundy

    • @jimmylopez8430
      @jimmylopez8430 3 роки тому +2

      Wow bundy

    • @migueljonz3901
      @migueljonz3901 3 роки тому +2

      I was listening to him back in the 90's, during and after my divorce. Damn glad I actually remembered what he was saying. Never married again!

    • @craigbixler1154
      @craigbixler1154 3 роки тому

      Perfect analogy

    • @imadoofus1248
      @imadoofus1248 3 роки тому +2

      That show was the best.

    • @77Creation
      @77Creation 2 роки тому +2

      Facts 🔥

  • @BoffinGrusky
    @BoffinGrusky 4 роки тому +1742

    I'm in my sixties now. Married in the 1980's, divorced in the 1990's, one child, and dated regularly until a few years ago. I've observed the lives of many friends, acquaintances, and family members. Based on what I've learned over the course of four decades, this is my advice to any man: 1) If you are a man who wants children, most likely, this means marriage. You need to dedicate the time, effort, and money upfront, in order to protect yourself from the risks posed by family courts. You should prepare yourself mentally upfront, for the high probability of divorce, and everything that will entail. 2) If you are a man who doesn't want children, you should never consider marriage. Depending on circumstances, cohabitation might be an option, but again, due care should be taken to protect yourself from the legal system. 3) Understand yourself. That may sound simple and obvious, but most men I've talked to, don't. Men often act out of habit, or social pressures, with little or no thought given to what truly brings contentment to their life. "Men love to complicate their lives and justify why they do it."

    • @coffeyjjj
      @coffeyjjj 4 роки тому +31

      Bingo.

    • @GnosticCushite
      @GnosticCushite 4 роки тому +73

      Incorrect assessment. If you are not interested in marriage, co-habitation with women should NEVER be an option.

    • @BoffinGrusky
      @BoffinGrusky 4 роки тому +34

      @Gaurav Very good. Women are forever changing, but not in any fashion you can predict or control.

    • @BoffinGrusky
      @BoffinGrusky 4 роки тому +37

      @@GnosticCushite I'm not recommending it, but I recognize that some men are gluttons for punishment.

    • @timheidel5849
      @timheidel5849 4 роки тому +8

      great advice.

  • @ianjohne
    @ianjohne 4 роки тому +807

    "All Women will keep you around as long as you are useful" - Entrepreneurs in Cars. Thank you so much brother.

    • @aba-jl6vc
      @aba-jl6vc 4 роки тому +7

      Thus 'coaching' isn't about building 'alphas' or building Men into the 'best versions' of themselves but about building Men into shears and axes.

    • @jaymcd8577
      @jaymcd8577 4 роки тому +7

      but know also, she'll one day out've the blue spin on her heels and change the goal posts of what that use actually is..speaking form experience..so be on your guard, and she'll get a pass for that BS, cause y'know...feelings, time of the month, victim, blah blah blah

    • @spongemon1
      @spongemon1 4 роки тому +7

      This has no exceptions - even to women family members.

    • @SovereignStatesman
      @SovereignStatesman 4 роки тому +1

      Ian Estrada: Briffault's Law

    • @emreduygun
      @emreduygun 3 роки тому

      @@spongemon1 true

  • @eb8713
    @eb8713 4 роки тому +1085

    Bin together for 11 years, married 3 with 2 kids. Was diagnosed with chronic leukemia and lost my job because of that. 2 monts later found out she was cheating. HUGE eye opener!!! I filed for devorce the same week. No regrets!

    • @Tamar-sz8ox
      @Tamar-sz8ox 4 роки тому +126

      EB 87 : I hope you’re ok and have access to good healthcare . Hang in there .

    • @jaylee6769
      @jaylee6769 4 роки тому +50

      You did the right thing. Many men will cave and grovel to keep her

    • @americanscarelines2757
      @americanscarelines2757 4 роки тому +100

      What a fkn bch.

    • @mannyuribe8780
      @mannyuribe8780 4 роки тому +38

      Get better man you can beat this thing eat good and you will! Your better off without that person she wasn't a cheer leader in your corner. Find one that has your back your gonna be alright buddy stay strong!💪

    • @Caveman125
      @Caveman125 4 роки тому +35

      This is why I will not get married. Society has changed everything and accepting there "Nature" just gives in to the idea more that they can be as frugal as they want without consequence. Everyone else can play this silly game but I'm out.

  • @BLIVBEATS
    @BLIVBEATS 4 роки тому +957

    Rich LITERALLY looks like a red pill

  • @retrogamer82
    @retrogamer82 4 роки тому +981

    You wanna see how loyal she is? Lose your job or get sick and you’ll see what happens. My ex wife cheated on me while I was recovering from back surgery in 2014, no loyalty at all 😠

    • @BeardAxeMcAxeBeard
      @BeardAxeMcAxeBeard 4 роки тому +150

      Disgusting. You can rationalize that behavior away as evolutionarily beneficial but at the end of the day, that behavior makes her a bad person who doesn't deserve any respect.

    • @grahamashton624
      @grahamashton624 4 роки тому +20

      @Lord Moggy a women dumped me when i lost my job we wasn't even living together just girl and boy friend 😒

    • @rogerthornhill1491
      @rogerthornhill1491 4 роки тому +34

      retrogamer82 Same. Cancer diagnosis 10 years ago. More than half the men in the ward, it was marriage over. A few completely recovered and were then ‘told’. That was a nice touch don’t you think. They are harder and more ruthless than you can imagine. Well maybe you can imagine? now?

    • @carlosarias2011
      @carlosarias2011 4 роки тому +55

      Chris Rock said it best in bigger and blacker... she won't leave you right away when you loose your job, but the Countdown has begun!

    • @shinyguy1
      @shinyguy1 4 роки тому +20

      denise baber wring way more women leave their man when he becomes sick than vice versa. Men are way more loyal:

  • @matth3002
    @matth3002 4 роки тому +807

    Wait, a woman can take half your stuff after living with you for 5 years? That'd be like me staying at a hotel, for free, for years and then taking half the stuff in the room. No wonder women value themselves so highly.

    • @scotttracy9333
      @scotttracy9333 4 роки тому +112

      I've heard of women who rent a room in a man's house. Then after a few years claim they were cohabitating and wanted 50% of his assets. Crazy !!

    • @rogerthornhill1491
      @rogerthornhill1491 4 роки тому +60

      Matt H No mate you’ve miss calculated. You get HALF the hotel! Ken A

    • @krisangel7080
      @krisangel7080 4 роки тому +11

      But she wants half the town.

    • @brutalieri
      @brutalieri 4 роки тому +8

      Or pull off a Hillary and steal the friggin furniture :D

    • @baderlade
      @baderlade 4 роки тому +12

      Just 2 years in Australia

  • @sticks5614
    @sticks5614 4 роки тому +350

    "women do not love you, they love what you can do for them". Remember that line and never, never forget it or you'll just end up as another tick on the "losing side" in the statistics.

    • @michaelangst6078
      @michaelangst6078 4 роки тому +4

      I disagree, they can just go in and out of love way faster than the average man because they have a lot of choices

    • @SovereignStatesman
      @SovereignStatesman 4 роки тому +7

      And what you've done for them LATELY.

    • @CellGames2006
      @CellGames2006 3 роки тому +4

      So basically, you are able to quantify and regulate the amount of "love" you give, and optimize the way you keep your women around, rather than it being some arbitrary Disney magic... that's good news.

    • @3dthenotme877
      @3dthenotme877 3 роки тому +7

      Woman don’t have love to give. They receive love. By themselves, they only know fake love, the “go along to get along” kinda love. Men have to show them Love. Love is from God, so are Men. Woman comes from Man.

    • @andyng5321
      @andyng5321 Рік тому +1

      if this is the case then why should we still love women?

  • @tatewrigley8026
    @tatewrigley8026 4 роки тому +172

    This is the most painful thing Ive had to process, my whole idea of love and companionship is based on lies.

    • @ruirodrigues3596
      @ruirodrigues3596 4 роки тому +8

      No m8 its not based on lies. I rly don't understand how you think a person will love you unconditionally just because you fuck her. Only 4 people in my life love me unconditionally. My mother, my father , my brother and my best friend who is like a brother to me . NO women will love you unconditionally, but speaking the truth no men would love a women unconditionally . You have a girlfriend, long term relationship. She gets sloppy, does not contribuite to house hold, does not takes care of herself or the kids if thats the case. You will loose interest. We are exactly the same. Men are women are the same. They express and feel different. But the majority want the same thing. A good trustworthy partner, with his or her shit together and with the same values and similar goals in life.

    • @taym2720
      @taym2720 4 роки тому +4

      @@ruirodrigues3596 There is a way. Find an orphan girl who has nothing to fall back on and you are everything to her. She has no way out, no finances, no education, no job, no shelter, nothing. A state in which she is constantly worried about her future with you, the moment she feels confident is the moment it will start to go downhill.

    • @ruirodrigues3596
      @ruirodrigues3596 4 роки тому

      @@taym2720 so true brother

    • @anonnona6940
      @anonnona6940 3 роки тому +15

      Yes it is. Don't let anyone gas light you. It is based on lies. Everything else is cope. Navigate through it and have a good time.

    • @AAMichael888
      @AAMichael888 3 роки тому +3

      I leaned this the hard way too ... and now learning to accept what is ...

  • @checkmateforever
    @checkmateforever 4 роки тому +236

    A few months ago I got slapped right in the face by ‘female nature’. My ex that I supported financially during her desperate times for 7 1/2 yrs was cheating on me during our time together and then just one day demoted me to her ‘friend zone’. She insulted me when I no longer played along with that crap. Now with a high dosage of red pills and being single, I can see and feel I’m becoming a better man in every area of my life.

    • @deej628
      @deej628 4 роки тому +12

      Keep on keepin on brother

    • @Polemicist_
      @Polemicist_ 4 роки тому +4

      Man, I am so sorry you had to go through that. But be careful not think every woman is like your ex. Defaming all women because you dated one, horrible woman is not fair. Again, super sorry you had to go through that but I hope you can figure it out.

    • @Josecito777
      @Josecito777 4 роки тому +1

      Good for you man, stay strong, you're not alone

    • @GoonRider19
      @GoonRider19 4 роки тому +3

      Jordan Fletcher AWALT

    • @Polemicist_
      @Polemicist_ 4 роки тому +2

      No, @@GoonRider19, find a faithful woman with unwaivering moral conviction rooted in the Bible and she'll be a literal God send in your life.

  • @latt.qcd9221
    @latt.qcd9221 4 роки тому +1272

    There's only one woman who will ever love a man unconditionally: his mother.

    • @VikingMan44
      @VikingMan44 4 роки тому +100

      Sisters and close cousins are often pretty good at it too.

    • @loringjohnson7797
      @loringjohnson7797 4 роки тому +305

      In some cases not even her.

    • @jamestan4659
      @jamestan4659 4 роки тому +98

      @@loringjohnson7797 my mom Only pay attention when i give some benefit

    • @rosbifle413
      @rosbifle413 4 роки тому +91

      My mother molested me when I was a kid. I live overseas, last year my Dad died of brain cancer and she didn't even tell me he was sick. Don't assume all mothers are saintly.

    • @Leptyzz
      @Leptyzz 4 роки тому +47

      Jack the Lad that’s terrible dude, sorry to hear. My mother was very good to me even though she overcuddled/cucked me and turned me into a beta male. Still was/is good though

  • @M-yk2le
    @M-yk2le 4 роки тому +589

    If you play with fire, expect to get burned. Simple

    • @AmbuBadger
      @AmbuBadger 4 роки тому +31

      The problem is that some guys get married thinking they can control that fire... It can warm your heart just as easily as it can burn down half of all you own!

    • @mr77617
      @mr77617 4 роки тому +48

      Rich looked literally burned

    • @jc918a-32
      @jc918a-32 4 роки тому +2

      haha

    • @Bushey4545
      @Bushey4545 4 роки тому +1

      @@mr77617 fair skin, I'm lucky I tan relatively fast but he's probably really pale in the winter and red in the summer if in the sun too long

    • @malikaibadalamente4219
      @malikaibadalamente4219 4 роки тому

      That’s why I stand by water

  • @JusticeForSome
    @JusticeForSome 4 роки тому +145

    My ex makes alot of money...she only cares about HER money. My money paid the bills and she hid hers away. She doesn't give a crap about her children only her money and how she can control people with it. I did a 24 year sentence with her and now I'm FREE. I love my life now.

    • @carlos31302
      @carlos31302 3 роки тому +15

      I was in a 11 year lock down myself until she divorced me. Now I live alone with my dog and cat and my daughter stays with me whenever she wants to. Life is good and I love myself more than ever.

    • @tommcfadden5232
      @tommcfadden5232 3 роки тому +6

      Congratulations on being paroled after being condemned to a life sentence.

    • @fishin4bogey
      @fishin4bogey 3 роки тому +2

      This happened to an old friend of mine. He had his own business, and paid all the bills. She paid for groceries. Years together, she was stacking her cash. When they finally got divorced, she was sitting on 6 figures in cash, and investment accounts. Her lawyer made sure he got none of it.

    • @mowtivatedmechanic1172
      @mowtivatedmechanic1172 2 роки тому +2

      I think a lot of us have a Similiar story about ex XXs stacking cash on the side.

  • @wez123123123
    @wez123123123 4 роки тому +398

    Don’t let them move in and don’t have kids, 90% problems solved.

    • @waterproof4403
      @waterproof4403 4 роки тому +1

      ^

    • @markoperanovic23
      @markoperanovic23 4 роки тому +25

      So this is what the western man has come to? Don't have kids? Who is supposed to live after us then? Who will continue our bloodline?

    • @jmlkhan5153
      @jmlkhan5153 4 роки тому +11

      Marko Peranović the pure blood has been diluted with the peasantry too far to rescue, at this point. It must be enough that we can pass on our aspirations, morals and ideals to the younger generation. I have no sons or brothers, so now all men are my sons and brothers, and i hope that in living my best life for myself, i can inspire them to do the same.
      We all have the potential to be god.

    • @liberator328
      @liberator328 4 роки тому +6

      True. But what if you want kids one day? Gotta be able to play with the fire. In my opinion, there's little else in life that's more purposeful than having children.

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 4 роки тому +3

      @@markoperanovic23
      Don’t get this biological imperative to continue my legacy. Should I? All my life I’ve known I never want kids.

  • @oneronin6186
    @oneronin6186 4 роки тому +489

    I had a prenup, would not get married until she signed. 7 Years later that was one of my best investments. Still cost me to get out but the damage was mitigated. Unfortunately in today's environment I would not trust a prenup in a court room as more and more are getting tossed by the judges. There is a "thing" in family room courts called "judicial discretion" and it can do a fair amount of damage to the unsuspecting man; facts, reason and logic essentially are shown the door.

    • @EntrepreneursInCars
      @EntrepreneursInCars  4 роки тому +112

      They need renewing if used.

    • @oneronin6186
      @oneronin6186 4 роки тому +92

      @@-whackd Yes One, a daughter (my only kid). Started as a 50/50 shared parenting situation, as time progressed the daughter was with me more to a point she just lived with me full time, but still saw her mother. The daughter just finished university with a degree (Top of Class), fully employed making good money and is a real stand up young lady. Who knew a toxic male (me) could do such a good job raising a kid ; -).

    • @steveolie985
      @steveolie985 4 роки тому +5

      @Kalle Karlsson where can I find info on this? My step-dad was able to outmanuver my mom by doing thst. Saved his ass.

    • @m4565912
      @m4565912 4 роки тому +11

      I had a prenut "ITS NOT WORTH THE PAPER ITS WRITTEN ON AND MINE WAS A LEGAL CONTRACT" the man will get fucked if you are married

    • @LiftOffLife
      @LiftOffLife 4 роки тому +20

      If you have a penis you are guilty before you even walk through the door of a "family" Kangaroo court.

  • @peten409
    @peten409 4 роки тому +289

    People get stuck on the No's when they should get stuck on the Yes's. Find the 5% forget the 95%.

    • @rickmossop3733
      @rickmossop3733 4 роки тому +25

      They are seldom single.

    • @kaptinbarfbeerd1317
      @kaptinbarfbeerd1317 4 роки тому +9

      ​@@rickmossop3733 Who cares, that won't stop her if she digs you

    • @rickmossop3733
      @rickmossop3733 4 роки тому +24

      @@kaptinbarfbeerd1317 Well, then she isn't a 5%er.

    • @AmbuBadger
      @AmbuBadger 4 роки тому +13

      @@kaptinbarfbeerd1317 Definitely true. Once you've had a girl break rules for you that she sets for other guys, you'll never settle for anything transactional again. It's a positive feedback loop though, it motivates me to keep getting better.

    • @hannibalmassinissa5763
      @hannibalmassinissa5763 4 роки тому

      @@AmbuBadger man, are you a control engineer, hehe

  • @bellevueforestry8745
    @bellevueforestry8745 Рік тому +10

    I’m 46 now.
    I’ve done a lot and have been with many women. Married and divorced. No children.
    Work and constant learning and exercise bring me purpose.
    I love the female form and will always crave it by instinct.
    However, logic keeps them just in my periphery these days.
    Working on making more money and saying that exactly what I want and how I feel.
    Couldn’t be happier.
    Cheers Rich.
    Keep slammin those gears.

  • @jerryfinn7237
    @jerryfinn7237 4 роки тому +298

    So I’m in my second marriage, and turning 60 next month. I have over thirty years invested in married life and have literally nothing to show for my dedication to two women. My current marriage can only be described as a disaster.
    It’s has to be true that unless you put in all the right work, ( and I mean WORK) correctly and consistently, this “love of your life” truly will not “love you”, or be loyal to you, and will eventually have nothing but contempt for you as time rolls on.
    I’m close to filing and loosing (once again) half of everything I have worked to achieve. Life is not fair, I wish I would have known way back in the mid 80’s what I’ve finally come to understand now.

    • @matcabliii
      @matcabliii 4 роки тому +32

      Stay strong.

    • @rogerthornhill1491
      @rogerthornhill1491 4 роки тому +13

      Jerry Finn Do you live near any large cliffs or large deep bodies of water?

    • @jerryfinn7237
      @jerryfinn7237 4 роки тому +19

      Mark Swinney, gee, don’t know whether to thank you for the direction or call you an ass hole. Hmmmm

    • @Extinction0815
      @Extinction0815 4 роки тому +9

      @@jerryfinn7237 With regard to Mark Swinney, I would recommend the second. Otherwise, you have to take responsibility for your decisions. Better to lose half of that than to live a life with the wrong person at your side.

    • @jerryfinn7237
      @jerryfinn7237 4 роки тому +22

      denise baber , well there’s the rub. To her credit, she keeps a clean house, she’ll do laundry, but she no longer cooks for any one but herself only. No sex in months. The last three times I’ve tried to warm up to her as it were, she denied the exchange and then went into a very weird psycho rage that I can only describe as bizarre. I makes over $150k per year, she stays home.
      Equity..... hardly. I’m a fit, handsome man, hard worker, fair minded, loyal to a fault. Life is not fair, and loyal women are next to nonexistent. ☹️

  • @willjames618
    @willjames618 4 роки тому +280

    Us men have a hard time transitioning from our mother (the nurturing feminine energy) to the women who we “date”.
    We expect women to “love” us and to be there the same way our mothers has been there for us during our child hood.
    Psychologically it makes since, after all of “our” mothers are the only women “the feminine
    energy ” we’ve really known since birth.
    Unfortunately for the bad news, no other women can ever take your mothers place (some may show similar nurturing displays at times). Infact why would you want a women to take your mother’s place. It’s our inner “boy” who wants the nurturing so bad that we look for it desperately in women.
    We have to acknowledge and accept for that phase is over.
    The only nurturing we can get is through the bonding we have with other men who understand this.
    WillJ-

    • @MarkRyanNZ
      @MarkRyanNZ 4 роки тому +10

      Damnn, that's some strong philosophical thought right there.

    • @raymonddersch4195
      @raymonddersch4195 4 роки тому +20

      That is one of the most profound statements regarding the emotional desires men seek in a relationship with women I've ever read.

    • @jmlkhan5153
      @jmlkhan5153 4 роки тому +10

      I wish i knew how to reconnect with my father. We arent estranged or anything, i just kind of want to start over from a foundation of what i now know.

    • @alanparsonsfan
      @alanparsonsfan 4 роки тому +2

      At the same time insightful and useful.

    • @Peterbilt359
      @Peterbilt359 4 роки тому +7

      Your mom must have made you milk n cookies. Mine was a drunk I would steal money from her when she would pass out so I could eat. She would hangout in casinos and drag me along, security would toss me out and I would wander Fremont st when it was a street telling the perverts to get lost. She was married 7 times lived with few more. Died at 62 I never shed a tear. I've never been divorced, I except my wife for who she is and expect little.

  • @colinsimon777
    @colinsimon777 4 роки тому +270

    Would be great if you interviewed a divorce attorney with examples of prenups being thrown out or something like that.

    • @EntrepreneursInCars
      @EntrepreneursInCars  4 роки тому +73

      Sure, tell one to email me

    • @armageddon8237
      @armageddon8237 4 роки тому +1

      Is this the Colin I know?

    • @joshspiker
      @joshspiker 4 роки тому +8

      Adam Sacks is a good one. He used to be a regular on Tom Leykis' show, when he still had his radio program. I'm not sure if he's still practicing now.

    • @trevorvaughan8100
      @trevorvaughan8100 2 роки тому +5

      i dated a divorce lawyer and she used to tell me all the time while laughing how there wasn't a prenup she couldn't crack or at least make the guys life a living hell till he was tapped out,

    • @brent4073
      @brent4073 2 роки тому

      @@trevorvaughan8100 Yeah, at this point in my life, 33, I would honestly just take a prenup saying if the woman wants a divorce because she is unhappy, I get custody of kids and stay in the house, the wife has to leave and no child support/alimony and she can come visit whenever she is happy again. Like that seems like it would be fair for guys nowadays.

  • @sallybluesky4936
    @sallybluesky4936 4 роки тому +205

    As a woman it’s very Interesting to watch these kinds of videos. I realized relationships and marriage is something western countries struggle with tremendously. Where I’m from in Africa, happy marriages/ relationships last a long time in large numbers. It’s the same thing in Asia as well. Feminism isn’t big in those places and that says a lot. I personally think modern feminism is one big reason (especially in the US). Women are with this idea of being so “empowered “ that they don’t need a man. They’re usually with a man for what he can bring or how he can benefit her. They’re also with the idea that a man is supposed to make the woman happy and she rarely does the same in return. Women being supportive doesn’t mean they make the man happy, we all have true friends who support us so a partner doing it doesn’t make it that special in my opinion. Another important thing is how women are always trying to change men in general for who they want him to become. Men have fallen for that and I don’t know why they never ask how is a woman changing for him in return. Plenty of western men marry somewhere else and are much happier and don’t regret their decisions. With that being said, where I’m from, we love, respect, and cherish our men for who they are and vice versa. I think western people are so privileged that they take basic givens for granted.

    • @off6848
      @off6848 4 роки тому +13

      If what you’re saying is true it brings a tear to my eye

    • @sallybluesky4936
      @sallybluesky4936 4 роки тому +1

      OLE4NDER___ hopefully not sad tears?

    • @jcstang8952
      @jcstang8952 4 роки тому +14

      You forgot about propaganda. Women as a demographic didn't start the pro-female propaganda machine, men did. This propaganda is a weapon being used on women and our countries and it's working. Our women also agreed with the propaganda and showed us the true nature of our Western women. It's a disaster.

    • @sallybluesky4936
      @sallybluesky4936 4 роки тому +5

      The Seeker I feel that it’s getting even more rare by the day because women are also appreciating the submissive beta/male feminist more. Apparently the traditional masculine type is referred to as “toxic masculinity”. I believe this is an alarming issue as well. Society will crumble if men succumb to this. Well more than they already have.

    • @sallybluesky4936
      @sallybluesky4936 4 роки тому +3

      Jc Stang you make a very good point. I am happy that men are fighting against it and are spreading the truth (i.e this account). Like I told the previous commentator, I believe this issue is a lot more alarming today.

  • @robhulson
    @robhulson 4 роки тому +123

    “An excellent woman who can find? She is far more precious than jewels.”
    -Proverbs 31:10

    • @sam_parallax
      @sam_parallax 4 роки тому +39

      I love how the more I go on the internet the more I see quotes from the bible that do make a lot of sense, there's so much hidden truth in it, it's beautiful

    • @alecburris4225
      @alecburris4225 4 роки тому +31

      I deviated far from Christianity for a while, having been raised Christian. But now I'm slowly making my way back a little bit because the Bible spits strait fax

    • @AgentMorgan2010
      @AgentMorgan2010 4 роки тому +1

      I don't get it.

    • @Caveman125
      @Caveman125 4 роки тому

      This is true and there arn’t many jewels left in the world so that’s why there all made out of Zirconium. Good luck picking through all the fake ones to find the real one and on the way of finding the real one try not to lose your soul and your integrity because those Zirconium’s are causing higher suicide rates.
      My mums friend lost their son to a Zirconium. May there souls Rest In Peace because taking the easy way out is taking a short cut to hell.
      The more we accept there “Nature” the worst it gets. We are already seeing the Chad effects. 1 guy and 6 girls or 1 guy and 1 robot.
      There are no winners here stating from the Bible
      Genesis 2:24
      Good luck to those willing to “accept” there nature.

    • @WWIIKittyhawk
      @WWIIKittyhawk 4 роки тому +6

      That’s why there rare. There are few woman who love God.

  • @JG67679
    @JG67679 Рік тому +6

    “One in five women are diagnosed with borderline personality disorder”. “Diagnosed”. That means a lot more of them have it but are undiagnosed! Proceed with caution.

  • @Toxic_Male_Minimalist
    @Toxic_Male_Minimalist 4 роки тому +347

    Back in my blue-pilled days I used to get upset and depressed when I would get rejected/dumped.
    Now, it’s kinda funny. I’ll still go on a date every once in a while and hook up but once she decides to leave i just say “ok cool” - life on easy mode now.

    • @briant7652
      @briant7652 4 роки тому +14

      Same

    • @Josecito777
      @Josecito777 4 роки тому +15

      I have a question, aren't you interested in a relationship anymore?
      I guess I'm going out of the blue pill zone. It's sad for me, I'm starting to look women as assets, life brought me here, I didn't

    • @bumzilla8586
      @bumzilla8586 4 роки тому +2

      Haha me to its a win win situation ..

    • @jmlkhan5153
      @jmlkhan5153 4 роки тому +11

      Jose of course i am interested in a relationship. I am gawain, and i want to marry a pure and lovely lady who deserves my strength and attention.
      I also want to travel on a spaceship to distant worlds, but i dont get to do that, either. I got born in the wrong time period for it.
      It has taken me 37 years to adjust, and the process was not enjoyable. But i am a better man now for understanding what is what.

    • @jmlkhan5153
      @jmlkhan5153 4 роки тому +6

      Arcyamen you took the pill before you found the videos.
      The videos are you swallowing a few times.
      Yea, its a big, uncomfortable pill. You gotta work it down.

  • @adamy3834
    @adamy3834 4 роки тому +59

    Once you surrender, you will know a new FREEDOM. One of the best messages I have heard in a long time. Put yourself up on a pedestal not a female. This is critical train wreck prevention right here! I took a personal oath to NEVER combine finances, marry, or live with a female unless its a weekend get away. Always always have an exit plan that is better than the plan with her. Great Video Rich!

    • @adamy3834
      @adamy3834 3 роки тому

      @Jonah Harrison You surrender your control over them. It does not exist.

    • @mowtivatedmechanic1172
      @mowtivatedmechanic1172 2 роки тому

      Ahhhh I’m keeping that last sentence. That’s GOLD!!!!

  • @VwapTrader
    @VwapTrader 4 роки тому +91

    This is the 3rd time within 18 months I’ve re-subscribed to you.
    Note, I’ve never un-subscribed. Fishy.

    • @EntrepreneursInCars
      @EntrepreneursInCars  4 роки тому +48

      Typical of UA-cam...

    • @abhishakebansal
      @abhishakebansal 4 роки тому +5

      Me too man! I woke up this morning and thought may be I un-subscribed but thinking deeply why would I do that when I like his content.

    • @DesertVox
      @DesertVox 3 роки тому +2

      YT is a compromised platform, on top of the internet itself.

  • @bartski6468
    @bartski6468 4 роки тому +35

    Chase your excellence today, don't wait till tomorrow

  • @samualwhittemore228
    @samualwhittemore228 4 роки тому +111

    I once read a book entitled "Don't Shoot the Dog"(first published in the mid-eighties).
    The premise: Don't shoot the dog when it craps in the house -- because it's a dog and YOU are it's master. It's your job to guide it (based on it's nature) down the path that suits you. Same with women(people).
    FYI- This book was written by a female dolphin trainer, Karen Pryor. It was written to help folks with roommates, siblings, spouses, etc..

    • @peterk2494
      @peterk2494 4 роки тому +25

      I once read a book called "The Origin of Species" by Charles Darwin.
      I also read his personal diaries wherein he weighed the pros and cons of wether to get a dog or to get a wife.
      In the end of his analysis he concluded that getting a dog was the better option.

    • @omoyeni7696
      @omoyeni7696 4 роки тому

      I just downloaded the book, thanks for the recommendation

    • @BoffinGrusky
      @BoffinGrusky 4 роки тому +14

      You might think this is BS, but it is absolute truth; The last woman I dated SHOT the family dog!! The scary thing was, I dated her for 3 years, and she never showed any signs of being psycho!

    • @joshspiker
      @joshspiker 4 роки тому +3

      @New Start Now Correct. That only works IF they allow you to coach and train them. They have to be naturally submissive, respect your authority, follow instructions, and be trainable for any of that to work. Unfortunately, a lot of them today are not.

    • @23DanielVincent
      @23DanielVincent 4 роки тому

      Now see, this is why I read the comments section. Thank you for the info sir, and I will be getting that book!

  • @enriquezacur7252
    @enriquezacur7252 4 роки тому +25

    The dad I never had. Thanks Rich.

  • @kos2932
    @kos2932 4 роки тому +60

    Men need to understand the dangers of false allegations. A woman will be GIVEN your house (called Exclusive possession of the matrimonial home) and sole custody based on ONE allegation. No proof needed.

    • @ArisenMind
      @ArisenMind 4 роки тому +2

      That's not absolutely true. It happens and sometimes it doesn't happen. No need to fear monger. You can just state the statistics and actual false allegation data. Red pill is about accepting reality as Rich said not trying to interpret it to fit a narrative.

    • @morganclare4704
      @morganclare4704 3 роки тому +1

      The joy of FEMINAZIS! cheers

    • @joshuamerlin9905
      @joshuamerlin9905 3 роки тому +2

      This is completely true. It’s called “Domestic Violence Injunction”. It’s as simple as a woman going to her local courthouse, filing out a single piece of paper, and the judge will grant her 100% control of the home, kids, assets, and it’s like that until the Man can prove himself innocent of charges in a rushed initial hearing 2-4 weeks later.

    • @co7769
      @co7769 3 роки тому

      @@joshuamerlin9905 is that in the USA? I thought it was all about innocent until proven guilty not the other way around.

    • @joshuamerlin9905
      @joshuamerlin9905 3 роки тому +1

      @@co7769 unfortunately it is in the USA, all in the name of “protecting women” but women abuse it, all the time, every day.

  • @matthelm344
    @matthelm344 4 роки тому +119

    Looks,$,Status it doesn't matter.Every man gets cheated on.

    • @firedrum71
      @firedrum71 4 роки тому +41

      *Has the potential to get cheated on

    • @matthelm344
      @matthelm344 4 роки тому +2

      Great Point.

    • @johnjohnes698
      @johnjohnes698 4 роки тому +20

      true; but also you can't be cheated if you don't commit.

    • @Maxhanon
      @Maxhanon 4 роки тому +14

      Reference to Will Smith?

    • @wanderingdoc5075
      @wanderingdoc5075 4 роки тому +5

      I have 5 plates.. three long termers who are fiercely loyal to me. They are free to cheat but choose not to. They spoil me with sex, trips, $500/night hotels, and designer clothes instead. Need to set a the right dominant and hyper-masculine frame every on.
      "All men get cheated on" is a false statement. Not all of us do. YOU always get cheated on. Take some responsibility son.

  • @johnathanshiggs7083
    @johnathanshiggs7083 4 роки тому +49

    I'm currently chasing excellence, the best choice I've made. I also taught my teenage son the same. He's currently in the honor society and going into the air force to be an engineer.

    • @fibonaccisrazor
      @fibonaccisrazor 4 роки тому +3

      Nice! One of the best things we can do is to teach our children so that they can learn from our mistakes.

    • @michaelangst6078
      @michaelangst6078 4 роки тому +1

      At some point you make enough money and have tons of free time and want a sexy ass loyal woman though... I make 10k plus a month doing very little work currently... Buying the best tv and playing videogames can only handle depression and lonelyness so much....

    • @johnathanshiggs7083
      @johnathanshiggs7083 4 роки тому +2

      @@michaelangst6078
      If u get lonely, buy a dog or goldfish. Lol
      Let a woman be a compliment to your life, not the focus. Remember, you're the prize.😁

    • @mowtivatedmechanic1172
      @mowtivatedmechanic1172 2 роки тому

      @@michaelangst6078 agh!!! I feel ya man. Not exactly at your numbers but definitely got the freedom. I propose a long held belief (inside and outside the manosphere). If it flies floats or fux rent it

  • @TM-tw1py
    @TM-tw1py 4 роки тому +26

    I find this to be among the most insightful Rich videos. Kind of like women realizing that providing awesome sex to men is a big part of what makes them happy.

  • @wendallparker8420
    @wendallparker8420 4 роки тому +19

    I’ve had no choice but to focus on myself and my goals for survival purposes. And what a blessing in disguise that has been. I can’t believe men don’t realize their own value. It’s mind boggling. We have the power to create, and the power to do great things. For me, it’s not red pill or blue pill, it’s our birthright to be our best selves. If a man is always chasing women, he is throwing away that birthright.

  • @sachachanyan
    @sachachanyan 4 роки тому +52

    The secret to a healthy tan as opposed to becoming red like a lobster is moving around and not just lying there. Eg. Playing games at the beach, moving around on a sailboat. You tan much faster, smoother and safer. Trust me, I grew up in Greece....

    • @jmlkhan5153
      @jmlkhan5153 4 роки тому +2

      SunAndSteel i live in the desert and every year i like to just one and done it. Go out on the lake in my boat, bake until im beet red, suffer and peel for 3 days, then just go about my summer happily ever after. Ill never die of skin cancer, not me, no way sir.

    • @sachachanyan
      @sachachanyan 4 роки тому

      jamie kendall Hope not!!!

  • @agibsonallan
    @agibsonallan 4 роки тому +283

    I have unconditional love and total loyalty it makes me very happy his name is Buster and he has four paws, I disappoint many but i never disappoint buster.

    • @chrisn.3869
      @chrisn.3869 4 роки тому +8

      Just don't forget to feed him...

    • @jasonchappell2977
      @jasonchappell2977 4 роки тому +2

      Part of life is learning how to get along with females, if you believe in God or the afterlife you will still have to deal with them there as well. This is my opinion, I would love to hear your take on it. Cheers

    • @randont
      @randont 3 роки тому +1

      The mans version of a cat lady?
      I’m fine being married to a ride or die smoking hot wife of 20 years.
      The one thing rich misses is God. Would love to see him incorporate that truth.

    • @heed9726
      @heed9726 3 роки тому +1

      @@randont you're right. Ride or Dies do exist. life has to make that kind of love happen though. It's not common.

    • @bobinthewest8559
      @bobinthewest8559 3 роки тому

      @@jasonchappell2977...
      The whole question of "afterlife", depends on which superstition you subscribe to.
      For instance, most that believe in reincarnation, believe that the "soul" is asexual, and that you will experience lives as each gender.
      In that case, neither yourself nor any soul with a connection to you, would be either "male" or "female" in the afterlife.
      If you believe in that sort of thing.

  • @rocmiraclepallares7504
    @rocmiraclepallares7504 4 роки тому +46

    Right now I ve been an involuntary celibate for almost 2 years, 18 and a half now, but I ve gained a lot of confidence the last months plus I am leaner than I ever have been, I think this summer is going to be key for my manliness

    • @rocmiraclepallares7504
      @rocmiraclepallares7504 4 роки тому

      @T M that is what I am ambitous for

    • @Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard
      @Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard 4 роки тому

      @@rocmiraclepallares7504 Hey, brother, I'm 19, from Madrid, Spain. Where you from? I recommend you read Lane Goodwin's blog. That and this channel will help you tremendously.

    • @rocmiraclepallares7504
      @rocmiraclepallares7504 4 роки тому

      @@Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard Im from Tarragona, I'll have a look at that, thank you for your advice

    • @JaimeWarlock
      @JaimeWarlock 4 роки тому +1

      Time for a trip to Asia.

    • @jc918a-32
      @jc918a-32 4 роки тому +1

      Lift weights

  • @glennhughes9594
    @glennhughes9594 4 роки тому +172

    I run a plumbing business and I am around a lot of women. Some are single moms and make passes at me. I am married and my wife’s friend is a single mom with three girls and lately she has been very flirtatious with me and comes over looking damn good I won’t lie. I don’t need a mess like that right now. But I can tell she is monkey branching and is looking to upgrade. She ask me a lot of questions about my business and how it is going. I know she would be a lot of fun but I am getting to a point in life where I don’t have to overly bust my ass and I like it. So I am resisting the temptation.

    • @BorrachosInterdimensionales
      @BorrachosInterdimensionales 4 роки тому +58

      Fail to resist the temptation and you will pay harshly. Keep strong!

    • @markscheurich2779
      @markscheurich2779 4 роки тому +49

      @@BorrachosInterdimensionales it must be the Plumber's crack

    • @Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard
      @Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard 4 роки тому +2

      From a legal standpoint, what could she do to you? I understand your moral motivations to not cheat, but in case you did it, nothing would happen, right?

    • @naomi6212
      @naomi6212 4 роки тому +31

      Tell her you are happily married. Don't cheat. It simply not worth it. On any level.

    • @deej628
      @deej628 4 роки тому +27

      Naomi 62 coming from a woman 😂

  • @mw66683
    @mw66683 4 роки тому +98

    When the "desire for the female form" strikes, simply rubbing one can be an ideal remedy. Often times, a little post nut clarity becomes necessary to avert unnecessary risks.

  • @charlesrogers8420
    @charlesrogers8420 4 роки тому +38

    I can’t disagree with your analysis on female nature. I’ve learned to curb my thirst and pursue my hobbies and professional goals. The biggest part of my growth is to no longer seek or require female validation and/or attention.

    • @JoesBrandonomics
      @JoesBrandonomics 3 роки тому +1

      Keep up the great work mate I'm in a similar boat.

  • @fan-i-am
    @fan-i-am 4 роки тому +112

    Conversation I had with an unhappily married woman-
    "I'm not too picky. I just know what girls are like."
    "Oh really? Then how come you're still single?"
    "Because I know what girls are like!"

    • @dappa311
      @dappa311 4 роки тому +6

      Laughing Out Loud

    • @BOG0690
      @BOG0690 4 роки тому +7

      Checkmate

  • @Navinor
    @Navinor 4 роки тому +64

    Weil in my younger years i was angry at women and their nature. Today i am older and wiser. I look at this like the same way i look at the nature of bees. A bee will sting you if you behave a certain way. It will sting you not because the bee is evil. Just because it is its nature. The same with women. Living with the red pill rage as a wake up call for a certain is time is healthy. Living with the rage for the rest of your life will burn you out. It became easier for me the older i got.

    • @Navinor
      @Navinor 4 роки тому +4

      @Templar well it does not matter. When men does not learn to cope with the red pill rage, they will go insane at some point. Or they will go insane from a nagging woman

  • @charlesmorello5641
    @charlesmorello5641 4 роки тому +94

    I can only imagine the pain and sufference that those scars brought you... but damn you look like a Spartan warrior!!!! Kudos to your look!!

    • @charlesmorello5641
      @charlesmorello5641 4 роки тому

      @Lord Moggy you are lucky if you reseamble N Cage... Just lose Weight... No Need for anything else!

    • @edwardlopez9061
      @edwardlopez9061 4 роки тому

      the spartans were super gay. they believed having butt sex with each other would strengthen the unit and increase morale.

    • @josephalbatross5961
      @josephalbatross5961 4 роки тому

      @@edwardlopez9061 So that's the secret to their strength, gotcha :)

    • @charlesmorello5641
      @charlesmorello5641 4 роки тому +1

      @@edwardlopez9061 I think you are refferring to the "Sacred Band of Thebes" made of male lovers who would fight untill death for each other.

    • @Rubenz343
      @Rubenz343 4 роки тому +2

      @@edwardlopez9061 They had sandals on, so it wasn't gay.

  • @AFreshStartTV
    @AFreshStartTV 4 роки тому

    There's a lot of value in this topic, most guys take it personal but don't realize you can't change their nature, so go with the flow !

  • @tristan.eilenburg
    @tristan.eilenburg 4 роки тому +27

    Thanks for that truth bomb.. Just went through a financial short term crisis.. got devalued and discarded like never before.. after moving around and travelling and putting in efforts to make the relationship work and getting back on track with the finances, she dumped me with the I need space quote.. after a few hot cold fights..we went on a date again and there she told me, what she expects that my income has to be.... my responsibility was not seeing the red flags in the first place.. but yes, even if you ignore some flags, as soon as there is a struggle, they are gone. They are never yours, it's just your turn...

    • @Nicoleessellier
      @Nicoleessellier 4 роки тому

      Women having greater financial independence (or at least for many the illusion of such) perhaps enables them to show their nature more than in previous generations. Increase in divorce creates financial resources for some women and the need to find a Captain Save-a Garden Tool for others. One of the most important lessons in life, in every area, is to know when you are in a relationship and when you are in a transaction. The Red Pill makes us realize that it is always the latter and rarely the former, but if we accept reality, then maybe we can find a workable combination of both,

  • @ThePhysics1234
    @ThePhysics1234 Рік тому +2

    So the other day a friend of mine got a heart attack from stress of divorce. This shit just got a matter of survival.

  • @cbxxb4841
    @cbxxb4841 4 роки тому +19

    Great topic. In addition to the surrender, there is a real sense of loss when you come to accept reality here.

    • @Sam-t7b4w
      @Sam-t7b4w 4 роки тому +3

      Definitely. There is a grieving process before acceptance happens

    • @peripheralparadox4218
      @peripheralparadox4218 3 роки тому

      Yep. It’s like leaving all your luggage behind. You are lighter and more free, but you had to let something go.

  • @ColdApproachMaster
    @ColdApproachMaster 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm almost 40 and I've always done well with women. Never take Game too seriously. That's why it's called the Game because this way you can separate your feelings and play from an objective standpoint. Always know what your exact goal is in the game and always break down your experiences in a private journal. Stay in shape. The leaner and more muscular the more receptive women will be but even then women still will play some games. If you don't have a 6 pack you are just an average Joe and women will treat you like that. Women are blind to possessions and achievements. They only go by what they see right in front of them. Coaches keep saying to chase money and your purpose but that is mainly for men that are biological failures, whose genes will not be passed on and will be weeded out of existence by mother nature. If you fail to attract and sleep with a woman you are sterile. Your only purpose is to make money to make other people money and you are considered a helper. You need to play the numbers game and master the art of pulling away slowly. If you do it too fast and ghost a girl she might become scored and vindictive. You need to learn to STFU never reveal to a woman your true source of income. Never let them know what you do or how much you make, appear humble. If you drive a Ferrari, come to the date on a bicycle and dress down. NO MORE DATES if she hasn't slept with you yet. Skip the date and build 15-20 mins of comfort thru video chat in the initial phone call. The first date should always end up back at your place and you must always try to bang the first date. If you don't at least come very close. After you sleep with a woman immediately take her out for a steak dinner. Most guys have it backwards they pay for dinners in order to get some ass, you must first aim for sex then take the interaction in the direction you want, was it a ONS, do you want a girlfriend or open relationship. There are no shortage of horny women that have high interest and will come over to your place the same night. Only deal with high interest women. Chase those women who are receptive to your charms. Always check a woman on everything, if she's late you correct her in a calm assertive tone. You are the boss she is the little employee. Get used to bossing women around. Guys are scared too do this and woman perceives this as weakness. Women want someone to manage her, boss her around and ultimately a man she can submit to.

  • @bohun28
    @bohun28 4 роки тому +91

    In New Zealand, family law is absurdly on women's side.
    And the percentage of fat, tattooed, blue hair colour ed hephalumps is just absurd.
    My tactic is to avoid. It's just not worth it. In my experience, the sex just isn't that great and it's not worth my time or effort.

    • @mr.w.146
      @mr.w.146 4 роки тому +6

      Sounds like here in Tennessee.

    • @28pbtkh23
      @28pbtkh23 4 роки тому +4

      Not in NZ as well? I thought it was only in Britain, or parts of the USA. It's all over the anglosphere!

    • @mr.w.146
      @mr.w.146 4 роки тому +6

      @@28pbtkh23 He in the states we call 'em 'buffarillas.'

    • @googlify406
      @googlify406 4 роки тому +5

      I agree. Sex is kinda boring and just simply not worth it.

    • @tomlindsay7861
      @tomlindsay7861 4 роки тому +8

      I’m a 19 year old student and I’ve also noticed that all the university employees seem to fit the stereotype of a “ overweight unattractive either short hair or gross looking feminist sort of woman” the campus there is no masculine presents at all. Just the woman I described and a few soy looking grown men.

  • @warrenpierce5542
    @warrenpierce5542 4 роки тому +63

    It hit me like a thunderbolt just the other day, the real husband and father of all modern women is the government. Even women with successful husbands have the heavy hand of the state to call down upon said man. When the state runs out of productive men to screw out of their resources the game is up.

    • @dappa311
      @dappa311 4 роки тому +6

      Yup no one is spared from the oppression of the government system, which they claim is in the best interest of children, couldn't be further from the truth.

    • @BOG0690
      @BOG0690 4 роки тому +6

      It's a pyramid scheme! Think about it......it only works if there's men with money....Once all those are gone, it can't work anymore

    • @foogentog
      @foogentog 3 роки тому +1

      The same people just move to the next country until the last one that they pillaged has recovered and then they pillage that one again. These families have been doing it for a couple thousand years at least.

    • @marcosreal11
      @marcosreal11 Рік тому

      Stefan Molyneux would agree with you.

  • @Texx_OG
    @Texx_OG 4 роки тому +4

    You always drop videos at the perfect time I need them, appreciate all you do, Rich.

  • @stevenlightfoot6479
    @stevenlightfoot6479 4 роки тому +16

    Great stuff. Accepting reality is the precursor to all success.

    • @dpstrial
      @dpstrial 4 роки тому

      That's the truth. Just had an argument with my leftist neighbour, who cannot distinguish fantasy from reality.

  • @imthebmf23
    @imthebmf23 4 роки тому +8

    "Truth will set you free"

  • @christianmcnally4323
    @christianmcnally4323 4 роки тому +13

    Not only that, a lot of guys' moms didn't love us the way they were supposed to either. So it's hard to realize we'll never get it

  • @idropagearbabye6822
    @idropagearbabye6822 4 роки тому +12

    At 56 I've been divorced 14 years an it's been the best years so far

  • @jenkins2162
    @jenkins2162 4 роки тому +12

    I put two of them through college. The first had my son. I fought for him in the initial divorce but lost had to pay over a third of my salary along with halving everything I paid for.. A year later I got custody and she was ordered to pay peanuts. I told the judge she could keep it and I meant it. I told her to pay for school lunches and some other afterschool activities, which is even lower than the peanuts. My boy has turned out to be an awesome person. He doesn't cause problems, is respectful and well respected, and he's a Sheppard among wolves. He's a big boy that takes up for those that can't. The irony is both begged to have me back. That was an easy no. Naturally I'm conflicted when giving him advice on marriage due my faith in Christ. I'm torn in that area.

    • @morganclare4704
      @morganclare4704 3 роки тому +1

      JESUS, as you know, is the TRUTH; as a fellow disciple of CHRIST, telling the truth is always the way to go! cheers

    • @anonnona6940
      @anonnona6940 3 роки тому

      Religion can be a way to control. For adultrating a book anytime during 2000 years that it has existed for can be pretty easy. Especially when Bible only provided commandments and not reasoning. Which is why I like Hinduism much more for it provides details on how the mechanics work. Just read the books. Understand the mechanics of the world and pick from the bible what you think is aligned with your self-interest.

    • @oneplus113T
      @oneplus113T 3 роки тому

      @@anonnona6940 I'm a Hindu and when I read Or see stuff like this I realize Krishna already said these things about Kaliyuga and how they are happening now 🤯

    • @SimpleMinded221
      @SimpleMinded221 2 роки тому

      Stick to Christ, you dont need that hindu stuff.

    • @mowtivatedmechanic1172
      @mowtivatedmechanic1172 2 роки тому

      I’ll help you out (I’m traditional Christian). No marriage, cohabitation or commingling finances. Just NO. I get you though but we have to stop the bleeding first.

  • @joeypaesano
    @joeypaesano 4 роки тому +9

    Valuable information. As always 🤙🏽

  • @theempoweredman7353
    @theempoweredman7353 4 роки тому +35

    "Incredibly wealthy and emotionally needy men are the holy grail of the predatory western parasite." Barbarossa.

  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander 4 роки тому +31

    "The use you bring to the relationship" Yeah that is why it is a RELATIONSHIP. It takes 2. I'm not going to date a woman that doesn't bring any value to the table, isn't it common knowledge that shes not going to date a man that doesn't either?

  • @robert6833
    @robert6833 4 роки тому +9

    This is spot on and the truth about female nature. It’s important to maintain frame and men need to do the same - only keep women around for as long they are useful and meet our needs. Date up and not down. Have boundaries. Do not get married. Know that most relationships are like jobs, they come and go so long as they serve a logical purpose. For most men, we need to have our balls drained and intimacy. It’s also nice to have women to do activities that we don’t do with men, which are mostly reproductive and biological. Do not lose focus on your goals. Understand that love is always conditional. Focus on growth. Keep a few plates. Be ready to walk. Learn the red flags and make lots of money. Accept responsibility and reality is what it is and adjust to female nature by staying true to your red pill masculinity.

  • @clearsailing7993
    @clearsailing7993 Рік тому +2

    Men are in love, women are in business!

  • @mrandersong1
    @mrandersong1 4 роки тому +6

    I've had success with woman but I've also been ignored and rejected many times. I realized that you don't need a woman to love yourself. Just love yourself and move forward and the right woman will come into your life.

  • @SanDiegoBiz
    @SanDiegoBiz 2 роки тому

    When I first started watching your videos I thought you were a dating coach. Now I see that you offer something much different. Keep up the good work man.

  • @WWIIKittyhawk
    @WWIIKittyhawk 4 роки тому +25

    Is it female nature though? Like how much is nature and how much is programming? We live in a very anti male society. What were woman like when society was more pro men? We’re they the same as today? Or different? These a questions we should be asking. I think it’s not helpful if we just blame nature. Society is playing a bigger part in enabling bad behaviour. Society needs to change is better than surrender.

    • @fponce3037
      @fponce3037 4 роки тому +5

      It is connected to a woman’s deepest need for security. Security is the primal need. The best means for ensuring security is financial stability.
      Take a look at any dating site and think critically about the criteria that women have for men they desire. There may be a variation in how their criteria is expressed. It is however consistent along one theme.
      It is all utilitarian in nature.
      Most common and ranked #1 is “ Economically Attractive”. Even if they earn a good income they look for someone to match or exceed what they earn. Other language used is expressed in statements like women won’t date “down” while men will. The female perspective on dating “down” is linked to the prospective suitors who don’t have the financial stability to keep them secure.
      Men don’t have that on their list of basic criteria for a partner/wife.
      On a personal note; my former wife was very direct in expressing that to me .
      A recent girlfriend left after I started to test her in this issue. Once I backed it from doing things for her, like fix things in her house, auto repairs etc........ she backed away completely. I learned that she did not value the man I am. Only what I could do for her.
      Start that informal research yourself .
      Have fun with the experiment through dating site profiles. Observe, take notes and see what your experience reveals....
      Best of luck

    • @WWIIKittyhawk
      @WWIIKittyhawk 4 роки тому +4

      Varón D. Valor you are right. So because woman earn now, the bar is a lot higher for men. In the old days, even a man who didn’t earn much could still support and attract a woman because woman didn’t earn like men. So in a sense today woman have become our direct competitors for financial income, so hence we are no longer attractive to them unless men earn way more than them and are no longer considered on there level as competition. What a sad world, considering we as two sexes were never supposed to complete with each other, but work together for survival.

    • @michaelangst6078
      @michaelangst6078 4 роки тому +1

      It's human nature actually. I would have blown my fucking noodles out if I was living pay check to pay check in my 30's an average looking man in todays world

  • @mdm5216
    @mdm5216 4 роки тому +17

    Accepting female nature and walking away. It's like training all
    your life to be an astronaut then they scrape the shuttle program. Now what. I
    think this is the toughest hurdle.

    • @MrHav1k
      @MrHav1k 4 роки тому +8

      Absolutely. I completely agree. Finding happiness without women is the toughest challenge. You've been conditioned to spend your whole life chasing and pleasing them. What do you do when all of that goes out the window?

    • @alpha1481
      @alpha1481 4 роки тому +3

      Absolutely anything you want even if that is doing nothing. You are relieved of the burden of performance to produce more than you singly need. You are free to do anything you want.

    • @mdm5216
      @mdm5216 4 роки тому +1

      @Endless NamelessFell "in love" with the "one" about 4 years ago. Nice body and a pleasure to be around. She wanted marriage I didn't. I've looked back fondly of the memories as we parted on good terms. So anytime I feel like I might have missed out, I remember that I have experienced it and I feel better. No 50 I'm just working towards retirement. I try to make do with my hobbies, video games and watching movies.

    • @TheGunelchik21
      @TheGunelchik21 4 роки тому

      You

  • @thez00t6
    @thez00t6 4 роки тому +26

    Just realized my favorite childhood Disney movie (Hercules) was essentially a glorification of promiscuous women and chaste men. I developed a good guy complex and I tend to go for promiscuous women and women who tend to be problematic. Hero complex much🙄

    • @lgunther8981
      @lgunther8981 3 роки тому +2

      That women are never going to be happy. Be a warrior instead; fight for yourself first.

  • @justahuman.210
    @justahuman.210 3 роки тому +1

    The truth will set you free.

  • @DonaldLLouie
    @DonaldLLouie 4 роки тому +5

    You are so right! I am separated and now divorcing my wife. My ex-wife got angry and attacked me with a chair. She then ACCUSED ME of Domestic Violence! Luckily I had videotape cameras and they recorded how violent she was, and the cops refused to arrest me!

  • @BeardAxeMcAxeBeard
    @BeardAxeMcAxeBeard 4 роки тому +1

    You're a good man Rich and a very valuable asset to men. Never stop uploading!

  • @rogelioe1471
    @rogelioe1471 4 роки тому +7

    Great video! It's not a bad thing, it's just the way the world works now. Embrace it and roll with it.... Or even take advantage of it.

  • @McNelisG
    @McNelisG 4 роки тому +1

    Wow you are the fricken man, new it immediately after hearing your stuff. Glad I found you my man. Thank you for your service

  • @keeroe2020
    @keeroe2020 4 роки тому +19

    As a divorce rapee', I observe that many men don't "get" this until they join my ranks.

  • @Man-rg8tb
    @Man-rg8tb Рік тому +1

    In a marriage men should take responsibility but who has the biggest responsibility should also have authority, today as a man in a marriage and divorce, you have the responsibility but the authority is given to the state and women.

  • @canarc1
    @canarc1 4 роки тому +5

    Having a deep understanding of the state and females and refusing to put yourself into a situation that could destroy you is not surrendering, it’s tactical.

  • @The_Kirk_Lazarus
    @The_Kirk_Lazarus 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks Rich for being a wellspring of inspiration and information.

  • @limozine8466
    @limozine8466 4 роки тому +14

    He is right. I believed all that bs about love & I found out the hard way. So for me the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
    Said this nice guy who finished last......

  • @drewhodge3820
    @drewhodge3820 2 роки тому +2

    Been single for about 9 years. Other than a few dates here and there.
    If a women wanted to move into my house she would be getting a rent book/tenancy agreement. You don't need to live in the same house to be in a relationship. The moment you move in together the sex drops off and the arguments start. They fall for the bloke you are when you first meet. Then the moment they get a foot in the door they try to change you. Once they achieve their goal of changing you, they don't want you any more be because your not the man they fell for.

  • @wildj9912
    @wildj9912 4 роки тому +26

    Between understanding female nature and the reality of the laws concerning interpersonal relationships is why I decided to opt out.
    For those men who are willing to take that chance listen to the man. Cover your backsides from every angle. Good luck, I hope it goes better for you than it did for me.

  • @johnmano1439
    @johnmano1439 Рік тому

    Although Canadian, I've been living in Europe for a long time, and the first time, I just realized how lucky I am... The laws of Canada and the US are so unfair towards men, it's a crying shame!... I know of men who really got screwed by the laws of their own country... What I didn't know was that after a certain time of living together, she gets to have half of what's yours!... I've been living with my girlfriend for 23 years as I've never wanted to get married... I refuse to go through what A LOT of men have gone through!... Thanks Rich, for another eye-opening video!
    I miss Toronto!❤

  • @twovthree
    @twovthree 4 роки тому +5

    "I've allowed my wounds to become my work..." That's beautiful, man!😪

  • @muzimnisi260
    @muzimnisi260 2 роки тому +2

    Men love idealisticaly,women love opportunistically. Men values love,women love value.

  • @Anonymous-md2qp
    @Anonymous-md2qp 4 роки тому +7

    I have no issues with female nature. I understand their behaviour and I accept it. The risk of losing my wealth and the legal issues is the part that scares me.

  • @tony.johnson666
    @tony.johnson666 3 роки тому

    I love the way you keep it real, facing reality of the way things truly are sets you free

  • @clintzuleger8918
    @clintzuleger8918 4 роки тому +5

    At 5:05. It is like when Donovan Sharpe talks about “The burden of performance “ being a good thing because it keeps men striving for more and better.

  • @grandpasswapmeet2631
    @grandpasswapmeet2631 4 роки тому +1

    What an awesome Video! Thanks for all the effort and time you spend helping men, we really appreciate it!

  • @johnwayneerb
    @johnwayneerb 4 роки тому +5

    I’m in my mid 30s and have never been married but I’ve always thought I’ve wanted a couple of kids. The challenge is that I’m a realist too and understand that there’s a high likelihood of me getting a divorce if I marry. I don’t have faith in the idea of marriage but believe children can be among the greatest gifts that life can bring. Even if those “gifts” come with a high price tag.

    • @maxximilianm3752
      @maxximilianm3752 4 роки тому

      When you meet the one and your gut tells u thats the one, go with it after of course u date her at least a year.

  • @phoenixrisin2269
    @phoenixrisin2269 4 роки тому +1

    Bro I see your burns man. Much respect for what you went through and how you’ve handled it. Very admirable!

  • @rodneykingston6420
    @rodneykingston6420 3 роки тому +9

    As a gay man, I can tell you he's stating what I have always found so repugnant in what I could see of heterosexual relationships, starting with my parents': that a man is expected to unconditionally love a woman for "who she is" (and no matter how fat and unpleasant she becomes) but he only deserves her love for what he can do for her. When a hetero man sets ANY boundaries in his relationship with a woman, even if he promises monogamy, that woman is going to be told by her girlfriends "Oh honey! He's using you!" - basically because he's not allowing (or is setting limits on) her to use him. I don't say this caused me to be gay, but it was something I perceived very clearly, even before acknowledging to myself that I was gay and it was one of many perceptions that helped make me very unconflicted about being gay.

    • @peripheralparadox4218
      @peripheralparadox4218 3 роки тому +2

      I wish I was gay. Understanding female nature is a huge turn off, and very problematic. There is no true loyalty. But they’re hot AF. Unfortunately you don’t get to choose your sexuality.

    • @seige8621
      @seige8621 2 роки тому

      This is how my last relationship ended. The friends. Those exact words. Its as if these women use the same brain

    • @michaeldost8155
      @michaeldost8155 2 роки тому

      I’d love to hear your perspective and experience when two men are together. I’m personally straight, but it would be interesting to hear how a relationship between two guys has played out for you and what the differences are.

    • @mowtivatedmechanic1172
      @mowtivatedmechanic1172 2 роки тому

      @@michaeldost8155 I’d like to hear that answer too

    • @mowtivatedmechanic1172
      @mowtivatedmechanic1172 2 роки тому

      @@peripheralparadox4218 I hear ya on that man.

  • @johneric3886
    @johneric3886 4 роки тому

    Good stuff entrepreneur in cars. Glad to see you take some time in the morning for yourself to enjoy the warm weather. All my best enjoy your summer.

  • @Nebelung13
    @Nebelung13 4 роки тому +5

    If the effort outweighs the fun with women...cya laters! Even in my limited experience if women start being squirrely, annoying or whatever is it that makes you perceive them as more of a negative then a positive in your life, just do yourself a solid and take your business elsewhere.
    Also for those that might have hangups with the word surrender. Surrender means to accept something that is self-evident, it's not about giving up.

  • @tommywilliams3321
    @tommywilliams3321 3 роки тому

    You are a real man of knowledge and wisdom thank God for you brother from another mother.

  • @makatkplt
    @makatkplt 4 роки тому +8

    50+ here, divorced after 16 yrs, PM on an international program.
    Say it with me; DATE OUTSIDE THE USA if you can. Women are so much more appreciative than American women and well aware of how they behave.
    Now, married (prenup’d) to a professional Brazilian woman.

    • @skatebordstephen
      @skatebordstephen 4 роки тому +1

      I've been living in Salvador, Brazil for the past 10 years and it's definitely much better here than the USA in this regard.

    • @HentaiSamaKun
      @HentaiSamaKun 4 роки тому +1

      Until you have the good idea to bring this woman in your own country...

    • @pbmc_
      @pbmc_ 3 роки тому +1

      I would agree, just don't bring them back to the US

  • @CSPandW
    @CSPandW 4 роки тому +2

    Been watching these videos for awhile thank you rich so much for this long running project. I don't agree with everything but you have helped me in so many ways. I am a contractor and nearly every day is filled with people trying to game me, take advantage. It is not uncommon where I give an inch they take a mile. I go home on those days with my head held down, angry at myself. Giving in too much can also cost my company overtime, result in loss of profit. So much can get destroyed by just not saying "no." No I will not do that task without getting paid, no i will not make something perfect looking for you. If someone thinks Im a jerk for walking out on principle I feel good afterwards, can hold my head high. When I give in, never. This rubric applies as well to relationships. Whatever short term benefits we may accrue from caving get wiped away in time. It's like you said one time Rich a lot of life is a big s**t test. A lot of being man doesnt even involve muscles, motorcycles, being badass in general. I dont even think theres anything wrong with being "nice." Often its being able to know whats right or wrong and having the courage to follow up on that.

    • @brutalieri
      @brutalieri 4 роки тому

      The problem with being nice is that people will take advantage of you. So stop being nice, or at least be nice to a select few.

    • @CSPandW
      @CSPandW 4 роки тому +1

      Zen, i think the whole "nice guys finish last" mantra misses the point. It's said to deflect responsibility for standing up for oneself. Think if you're in a meeting with a client some kind of business setting. Yes, maybe being friendly or nice might make the other side think you are more likely to be taken advantage of. Same with starting a new relationship. But if you can flip that switch and stand up for yourself at the end of the day you'll be fine.

  • @markusraymer7168
    @markusraymer7168 4 роки тому +22

    With the times we’re in now and seeing, taking calls from my buddies about their marriages...makes me really see marriage as a liability. Love is definitely 100% risky business today and it can ALL change on you in one day, even though you had the best intentions.

  • @kauffrau6764
    @kauffrau6764 Рік тому +1

    As I woman, I enjoy listening to your videos and learning. I am still stunned by the fact that a man might lose half of his assets just for living with a woman and have no marriage. I did not know nor suspect that. I don't know the laws here in the USA. I've never been married. If I were a man I would definitely consult a lawyer and secure my money.
    My parents separated and divorced when I went away to college. As my mother always worked, and I am an only child, I imagine the divorce agreement was simple; for my parents anyway.

  • @Raymond7779
    @Raymond7779 4 роки тому +6

    Instead of surrendering, think we should fight the good fight till the very end. I just don't like the sound of surrendering when we should letting women know we're not putting up with the games any longer.

  • @JayG666
    @JayG666 3 роки тому +1

    Dude . . . That sunburn though . . .

  • @DeviantDeveloper
    @DeviantDeveloper 4 роки тому +17

    "Should have your kids out of the way by 40"?
    Totally disagree. Spin plates, have fun for 20 years, build wealth / success, see the world, screew around a lot. Then have kids over 40.
    It's WAY easier to be free and have fun as a young man, you can also get a higher quality woman when older and richer.
    Not that there's only 1 way to do it but that's better IMHO.

    • @Solarexistence
      @Solarexistence 4 роки тому

      its even too risky to have children. Law needs to change first

    • @DeviantDeveloper
      @DeviantDeveloper 4 роки тому

      @@Solarexistence Sure but it's also too risky NOT to have children. Minimise risks as much as possible.

    • @badrobot114
      @badrobot114 4 роки тому +2

      @@DeviantDeveloper what's risky about not having children?

    • @lukehunnable
      @lukehunnable 4 роки тому

      Seeing the world AND building wealth is really not easy to do at all. You usually need to choose one - which creates completely states of being by the time youre 40.

    • @FairladyS130
      @FairladyS130 4 роки тому

      If the shit is going to hit the fan then get that over and done with early, the last thing you want later in life is drama and financial uncertainty.

  • @ElPalomo
    @ElPalomo 3 роки тому +2

    Richard, thank you for saying football instead of soccer. Real football fans like me appreciate this very much coming from someone in north america. You are an educated man.

  • @thrillfly384
    @thrillfly384 4 роки тому +7

    My cousin sister once told me that she wanted to find love.
    I said "they" make movies for that.