Khilafah needs a sincere group of muslims actively working for its establishment. And brother Daniel does support the Khilafah and that is a positive thing
Wallahi, as a woman, I cannot imagine doing any of the things I heard the brothers inform us is happening. May Allah SWT guide these sisters and protect those fathers being treated unjustly! 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻
@@mohammedF976 ermmmm... did you not watch the podcast mate? they where discussing the so called "God fearing women" making these allegations. this whole God fearing aspect is not enough, without rules to keep people in check. as we are all humans in the end of the day
@samadmiah6427 Respectfully brother, I disagree. I am a revert, and my parents had a very nasty divorce. I remember all of it, and I remember what it did to us children. I am a mother of three, and I will NEVER put my children through what I went through. Do not speak about what you have no knowledge of, and fear Allah SWT. Jazakallah khairan.
@@ummrahiem1686you are one of the good ones sister may Allah bless your marriage and children. Unfortunately the majority of women are not like yourself in their mindset.
The prophet Mohammed PBUH said: "I looked into the Fire and I saw that most of its people were women" and when he was asked why, he replied: “They were ungrateful to their husbands and for the favors and the good done to them”
@@DrThrax009Bhukari book 2 hadith 22 or 29, sorry i am looking up in an ap where its confusing. As with many hadiths various versions or similar hadiths have been quoted on matters. There is another one in Bhukari book 6 hadith 301 or 306.
“I was shown hell. I saw that most of its inhabitants were ungrateful women… The Prophet was asked: ‘Were they ungrateful to Allāh?’ He replied: ‘They were ungrateful to their husbands and for the favors and the good done to them. If you show benevolence to one of them and then she sees something in you not to her liking, she will say: ‘I have never seen any good in you.’”[2] Sahih Bukhari
@@Nikkah00funny enough years ago Islamaphobes used this hadith against us Muslims. But Alhamdulillah the world is slowly opening their eyes to the stupidity of feminism
@kayn6858 @samadmiah6427 Most you Muslim brothers still have it better then most of Most of us Christian men do, but this just goes to show that Islam doesn't offer the protections for Men in the west that some of us who are curious and are looking into Islam might be yearning for. The solution is making sure your Women is on the same ideological wavelength and understands that fathers and lack thereof is a one of the major problems in the degradation of Western society, so you have a potential wife who excepts the stats on fatherless children as the result *OF THE* fatherlessness and not as a result of poverty or any kind of other liberal BS, I would suggest you not marry a Women who isn't even interested in trying to preserve the family unit from the conservative perspective , sorry Islam isn't the solution however returning back to social conservatism and tradition is, Abrahamic religion is the tool to implement those socially conservative mores and standards that are objectively anecdotally empirically and sociologically better
@@Jake-xw5nqislam does in most muslim majority countries only the ones that want to lick the boots of the west I disagree with u their, bit one question brother " u stand woth Israel or u stand with Palestine?
Brother Daniel is really a breath of fresh air. He elevates every discussion he is invited to, brings great points, doesn't interrupt all the time like others, and is very respectful and humble. This brother is a gem.
Brother plz stop wasting your time with movies and do productive things. I've seen so many of your comments on muslim channels. Clearly you are a smart and intellectual man so please take my humble advice from a brother who also has many faults.
I’m of the opinion that soon Allah will rain hail on everyone and earthquakes will bring civilizations back to the Stone Age. This society is getting ridiculous.
I hope there will be more traditional men. Woman now have to deal with men who want the woman to work and help almost 50/50. Crazy. I. Our morrocan culture this would be outrages. But it now actually happens! Also many Muslim men have no 3hira they can only be "manly" in reality harsh on their woman if they want a second one. Rest they are wussies.
This is ABSOLUTELY VITAL in today’s misandrist world! I went through this injustice myself! Muslim women who supposedly have taqwa taking the secular court system to her advantage and disregarding the Qur’an and Sunnah! Hurting the father takes priority over their child’s best interests! It’s evil! Al’hamdulillah, I fought for my son and got my time with him. But it took years of court battles and $35,000+ JUST to get my equal rights to have a relationship with my son! Subscribed! Al’hamdulillah!
Wallahi im going through exactly this i havent seen my young kids for so many months and court has denied me access due to her false allegations made against me so many lies how do i cope when ive been with my kids everyday for years to suddenly not seeing them since divorce wallahi zulum is being done against me this is a great test from Allah i need to endure i get it but its complete evil being done against me its hard to cope why how can these muslim women be this evil i just dont understand
Beautiful discussion and a very important conversation that needs to be had..fathers going through this experience extreme pain and depression..women who do this will answer to their plotting and there'll be no respite. Keep that in mind
This has unfortunately happened to my uncle. And he is one of the best and most loving people I know. The women who do this are witches and I would have no mercy or compassion towards them
Sadly they didn't have the foresight. Their intentions were Dunya, and the trials of Dunya are what their progeny are getting. May Allah reward them for their efforts, and forgive them for their shortcomings.
Mashaallah brother Daniel is very knowledgeable & intelligent.. he knows so much about feminism and how it is affecting the legal system and therefore the family & marriage structure.. May Allah bless Daniel & Mohammed hijab and the other brother.. daeis and imams & scholars should talk about these topics more and educate Muslims about them.
We aren’t scared bro - Us brothers unfortunately, DO NOT have a brotherhood and we do not cooperate with each other. Whereas the feminist sisterhood is strong, due to the social conditioning of females
@@ak205and the court systems, “me-too” epidemic, gynocentricity, prejudice against Muslim men and Islam itself, and an all-out psychological war against men. Muslim fathers are at a HUGE disadvantage!
Assalamo alikom I'm a mother of 2 boys and I think the problem start before the divorce actually it start the day both men and women decided to get married and neither of them know what's their duty(responsibility) or right in Islam so that vacuum been field by feminism, so in my opinion we need to start introducing some kind of classes to any one getting married and mothers too need to fair Allah and do their duty towards their girls and boys too
Wa ‘alaykum As-Salam wa Rahmatullah. No, this is not the case. The sisters KNOW their duties and KNOW their rights. They just don’t perform and don’t care about the Deen when it comes to their emotions towards their husbands. Did you listen to the podcast??? They mentioned that some of these sisters are at the level of “aalima.” They have the knowledge! What they lack is taqwa and fear of Allah SWT! It’s absolutely disgusting!!! It’s hypocritical! Hypocrites are the WORST of all people in society!!!
This episode was the most informative and enlightening. The covering over of Truth is beyond monstrosity and cowardly, just so they can dismantle the family institutions. We are fighting with principalities of evil, the secular, liquid modernity, neo-liberal, hyper autonomous individuality institutions to ever exist.
You will never hear so-called modern Muslim leaders like Omar Suleiman, Nouman Ali Khan, etc talk about these issues. More concerned about their celebrity status and not offending the liberals smh. Brothers like Daniel Haqiqatjou and Mohammed Hijab are more sincere and don't water down Islam which I appreciate.
i was especially disappointed with mufti menk, from what i have seen they are more concerned in not offending anyone and trying to please everyone specially their female audience that speaking the truth even if its hard to swallow
This was a very informative discussion. Every minute was a fruitful point, no useless chattery or beating around the bush. May Allah reward you for all of your efforts immensely.
This is dajjal's strategies like Brother Daniel concluded. Now its more clear for me about the hadist where Prophet Muhammad saw said, dajjal will bring a river and fire. The river is actually fire and the fire is actually chill safe river. Its like living in US, UK, western and eastern develop countries, yes the quality of life looks the most sophisticated and progress but muslim/ mukmin who live there was struggle and may lost their Islam, iman and ihsan. Living in the country who practicing Islamic law like Somalia, Kashmir n Ghazzah is like live in fire. Its so hard cause of economic sanctions, genocide, abuse from those "River Dajjal Countries". But if you're patient, your Islam, Iman and Ihsan will preserved and you'll safe in the hereafter InshaaAllah.
I went through a lot of trauma as well with my divorce I couldn’t see my 3 daughters for almost 3 years which just shattered the bond I had with them and than when I was allowed to see them again I still don’t want to tell them it was all because their mum made up lies about me so in their head I just disappeared for no reason my ex accused me of being a t@rrorist and wanting to take the kids abroad to join a 4 letter terror group I was arrested and investigated under anti terror laws and even after extensive interrogation and investigation not a single shred of evidence was found to substantiate her false accusations I was still deemed to be a threat simply because I have a beard a Muslim name and unfortunately a criminal history that I was involved in years before my kids were born but because she is white and English they wanted to protect them from my “radical” religion I was only contacted again by my ex as she needed help with my eldest 2 daughters who were going through a lot of mental trauma in their heads that my eldest even attempted suicide 3 times these women don’t understand that the ones that suffer the most are the kids and by the time they get the message it’s too late for the kids 😢
I would say as a revert to Islam. I would be cautious when when marrying a born Muslim. I have never seen so much aggression from Muslim woman born into Islam. Most reverts I speak to are tortured mentally by Muslim Woman born into Islam. Revert sisters for revert brothers would be a better choice. The culture and rules in their culture they do not favour and choose the easy way out by marrying a revert brother. Most won't marry there own race due to the things that can an can't get away with. May Allah SWT bring justice to the situation. Ameen
you are right because us muslim men are usually raised with a tough mindset whilst the revert brothers were affected by liberalism most likely bfr islaam. Also we are raised differently as hpyiscal disciline without causing injury is not considered ab;;us;e(which is why we are raised more "tough"). we have also dealt with harshness (insulkts,do not have concepts of "fati shaming" and the likes, basically are more direct)from families growing up whereas reverts are usually respectful and considerate. I defnintely recommend revrt brothers and sisters marry each other because of cultural similarity!!
I suggest u bring in guests to talk about how they regret abusing their wives/husbands in family court that led to emotional sufferings of their children.
Sallam brothers, May Allah help you loads in your efforts. It is certainly depressing to hear real-life stories. Please keep making such like video, it definately helps.
Oh Allah before I could even start watching this I am reading the comments and crying so much for everyone cuz I am also going thru what I am reading and it's sad that we are the worst of the worst of this ummah and Inshallah may Allah help us all but brothers please do the right thing and be patient when your angry realize it's a test and clam down and go to court no matter what family's says to you to protect your rights as a father. I had to plea for custody for my children and my whole family is against me and fight with me Everytime I pick up my children . I been to jail 2 times last year once from not holding my anger back end the second time was from me protecting myself and my fiance who reverted back to Islam from being attacked but still I was arrested but please have patience Allah knows best because the second time I went to jail I swear to you by the Quran and Allah that my mind was not in the right place when I was going to leave but Allah showed me a reason why I was supposed to be there because a kid who knew my brother that passed away what's his friend in my bed was right next to his and he talked to me for a little bit and ran up to me and said he does not know why but his heart and soul is screaming out that he needs to take his shahada that day and at that time because he did not know if he was going to wake up the next day. Because I was telling him about Islam to calm myself down and not think about what I was going through because I was not in the right State of mind. What Allah showed me that day was all of this was in his plan so what you guys are going through it's because that's Allah's plan . Before I couldn't see my children for months at a time but now I have established where I see them every two weekends and have my nights and days with them and they can be with me. Angela gave me a better job because I was going from one job to another because of the situations I was going through at my house and I kept on trying to give my ex-wife a chance over and over again I even left my fiance so many times to try to give my ex-wife a chance all for the sake of my children who lives with my family. I got kicked out and thrown out many times they begged me to give them another chance and even came here to my house. I can tell you guys so much more but I'll tell you this all of this was all a plan be patient Allah's plan is the best plan. And be safe and take care of yourself for the sake of your children and be the man that you guys need to be. No matter how many difficulties you're going through. Do the right thing go to court and take action even if your family is against everything you do. As long as you're following the Sunnah.may Allah forgive us all and give them their peace in their minds these people who think the way they do and hurt us not understanding anything. Just attacking because of culture values by the way I'm an afghan Muslim who was born and raised in America. I can tell you guys so much but that's between me and Allah. Even till now I forgive those people and everyone. And I forgive them for the sake of Allah. Because they don't understand hellfire is not a joyride and it's not just something you can even handle for even a second. Oh Allah forgive this ignorant people that we have on this Earth and forgive me for my mistakes in my past and forgive everyone who's g suffering right now in this world . My life has been so crazy the last 2 years. I felt alone for a very long time but I realized you know allah put people in my life. And even gave me two stepchildren who I love . And wife who. All I asked for was respect and love and not to be belittled and talk down. Anyone who's close to Allah all I ask for is a fair judgement between us. Oh Allah forgive us😭😭😭😭🤲🤲🤲Ameen ,😭😭😭
Yusuf 12:28 فَلَمَّا رَءَا قَمِيصَهُۥ قُدَّ مِن دُبُرٍ قَالَ إِنَّهُۥ مِن كَيۡدِكُنَّۖ إِنَّ كَيۡدَكُنَّ عَظِيمٌ So when her husband saw his shirt torn from the back, he said, "Indeed, it is of the women's plan. Indeed, your plan is great.
Please make Dua for me and my 2 sons. This video comes at a time when I need it most but it doesn’t fully speak to me. It doesn’t speak to the Muslimah that this is happening too. I’m currently going through Court proceedings that are rooted in Parental Alienation. My son has been brainwashed completely by my ex husband and has accused me of horrible things. I don’t see my children unless he allows. I have been Without my children for the last 9 months. I provided for them without his support. I looked after them in every possible way. I was granted a Khulla and my life for the last year has been flipped upside down. Allah knows my truth and my full story. I have not lied or kept my children away from their father. He was abusive and I had to seek an order of protection. From the outside looking in I look like the trouble maker. From the Muslim perspective I should have been patient and never went through the court system. I’m alone here. I don’t live in my home country and no support from the threats on my life. Just imagine if I was your daughter or sister. He is bitter and is also suffering from mental health issues with narcissism being among them. My heart hurts beyond the words I can type. My emotional state is being tested. I want to tell my story. Who will listen? Who will believe when the shoe is on the other foot? He has done exactly was is described in the video. He said I have ties to extremism and so on. Parental alienation doesn’t happen to women so I’m not being believed. Parental alienation is happening so frequently because the divorce rate is so high. In the Muslim community the blame game starts with why did you initiate divorce. The court system has failed. What are the solutions for me? A Muslim woman going through severe Parental alienation in Canada. My children will be damaged for a very long time.
Great podcast. Perhaps touch upon the role that male family members of the woman play. You will usually see brothers of the woman support their sister against her husband.
Of course. Our whole family supported the wife of my uncle. So that includes his three brothers, his mother and father, etc. We told her we would disown him and protect her against him. He is extremist muslim and beats her.
My in laws were supporting my exes oppression against me in regards to access to my son. Thats to bad because they just have made themselves a target and don't even leave their house 😂😂
Weirdly enough I only know sisters who suffered for years with abusive and not providing husbands. Yet the sisters stayed and tried and when they finally had enough and divorced faced the fact that the fathers STILL don’t want to take responsibility for their kids to spend time with them and raise them. May Allah guide us all.
Why is that when issues that fathers face are brought up, there's always a tendacy to deflect and assume that he was perhaps abusive? Not saying that it doesn't happen, but It's not always the case, nor are the men always in the wrong. Women can abuse Men too, worst part is that the legal system aids and abets them due to the "men can't be abused and women can't be abused" mindset.
BRAVO Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I disown every Muslim who settles among the mushrikeen.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 2645; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
I first heard this issue in Conservative non-Muslim youtuber warning men danger of marriage. I thought our ummah was immune. Since popular speakers are talking about it. It seems widespread and severe.
Solution: normalise Islamic prenups in accordance with shariah, ie the nikah contract itself accounts for the roles, responsibilities, expectations, and who the mediators would be in case of disruptions etc
Pre-nups - guys, get prenuptial agreements done to protect your wealth and earnings. Make sure to begin recording and taking notes and evidence as soon as you hear threats of divorce or children being taken away or fabricated accusations levelled at you. That's usually the red line, she's already crossed it, so plan your exit by protecting yourself. Focus on the kids, spend time with them and keep a strong bond.
I'd say dont even get legaly married,live in a non cohabitation state and put your wealth in a trust,if they use the kids that on them the litle kids will join the statistics
@@H1GHD3FF The way to get around it is to figure out what is the reasons they get thrown out and make sure your prenup is cast iron and can’t be challenged. For example if a woman claim she was forced to sign it under duress, - make sure it was signed before months before the wedding date - Have in the prenup signatures of witnesses from both parties testifying the prenup and the individuals are of sound mind
@@rougesquadron8153 That's right. Muslim men need to find a way for women to agree to basic Islamic terms - especially his wealth, property or business where she cannot have any claim to.
And that's why most women are reserved to Juhannam. And those issues mentioned here are even a fraction for the rest of many things they will be condemned about.
Have a podcast on the conditions of unilateral Khula to be issued by the qazi. Right now, Sharia courts are issuing unilateral khula to keep the women happy without the permission of the husband
Yeah it's happening in the middle east a lot but tbh the husbands should just not care cant negotiate desire if my wife wanted a divorce because I sing bad id let her have it😂
The courts are a mess, but if a woman wants out she can, I don't know why you would be arguing that it's a problem, the bigger problem would be not allowing women to leave
Brother Daniel, May Allah grant you a long, healthy life and accept you. We need so many more of you. I was really confused about islamic rulling of dealing with the modern women as I hear not only from online sheikhs but also from offline hakkani alems about not shaming, and they even encourage lying by women. I was so confused as I believe Islam is for justice, but no justice is being done to today's men. They will get married with a women who are not sexually pure (untouched by male), wives are cheating, abusing husbands, divorcing and using children against husband, raising someone's child by the husband giving false idea that the child is his. Everything is going on. That brother is wrong. I am from the sub-continent.There are very few marriages where the husband and wife didn't know each other prior to marriage. Most marriages are affair marriages.
I love that brother Daniel is never afraid to mention khilafah. More men need to have his mentality, or else it'll never happen.
Khilafah needs a sincere group of muslims actively working for its establishment. And brother Daniel does support the Khilafah and that is a positive thing
😂😂
A Pakistani living in the UK (a christian country) while on welfare talking about a khalifah
i heard the news that qatar prince shaikab salwa escaped and had relationship with 7 foreigners. is this true
which khilafah? Yazid's khilafah?
Wallahi, as a woman, I cannot imagine doing any of the things I heard the brothers inform us is happening. May Allah SWT guide these sisters and protect those fathers being treated unjustly! 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻
yeah sure, when your emotions go up, and you feel spiteful, you won't be saying the same thing.
the issue is you women, have no accountability at all
@@samadmiah6427How would you know ? Are the god-fearing women and those who dont fear ALLAH the same now ?
@@mohammedF976 ermmmm... did you not watch the podcast mate?
they where discussing the so called "God fearing women" making these allegations.
this whole God fearing aspect is not enough, without rules to keep people in check. as we are all humans in the end of the day
@samadmiah6427 Respectfully brother, I disagree. I am a revert, and my parents had a very nasty divorce. I remember all of it, and I remember what it did to us children. I am a mother of three, and I will NEVER put my children through what I went through. Do not speak about what you have no knowledge of, and fear Allah SWT. Jazakallah khairan.
@@ummrahiem1686you are one of the good ones sister may Allah bless your marriage and children. Unfortunately the majority of women are not like yourself in their mindset.
The prophet Mohammed PBUH said: "I looked into the Fire and I saw that most of its people were women" and when he was asked why, he replied: “They were ungrateful to their husbands and for the favors and the good done to them”
please quote the hadith reference as well. Thanks
@@DrThrax009 this Hadith is Sahih and its in Albukhari and Muslim
Mohammed was such a horrible person :(
@@DrThrax009Bhukari book 2 hadith 22 or 29, sorry i am looking up in an ap where its confusing. As with many hadiths various versions or similar hadiths have been quoted on matters. There is another one in Bhukari book 6 hadith 301 or 306.
@@ik5441 thank you brother 🙏
First you get happy to see Brother Hijab....and then you find out that Brother Daniel is there as well....alhamdulillah
😂😂😂
Yes, men like these two are very needed in the ummah today.
yep alhamdulillah
I know right!?
And the third guy, I forgot his name
Brother daniel straight up telling the truth. I can tell he is very knowledgeable about this problem
He only knows about child marriage and slavery. That are the only things he promotes.
“I was shown hell. I saw that most of its inhabitants were ungrateful women… The Prophet was asked: ‘Were they ungrateful to Allāh?’ He replied: ‘They were ungrateful to their husbands and for the favors and the good done to them. If you show benevolence to one of them and then she sees something in you not to her liking, she will say: ‘I have never seen any good in you.’”[2] Sahih Bukhari
Bro whenever I heard this hadith, I just know that Islam is the one true religion in this world alhamdoulillah tho
@@Nikkah00 Islam is like the worst of all religions.
@@Nikkah00funny enough years ago Islamaphobes used this hadith against us Muslims. But Alhamdulillah the world is slowly opening their eyes to the stupidity of feminism
@@i.k.8868 You spelt Hinduism wrong
Not all hadiths are authentic even if it's sahih bukhari
It's disgusting how some women would weponize their children against their fathers. Very sad
True
@kayn6858 he has to make sure his not upsetting them lol
@kayn6858 @samadmiah6427 Most you Muslim brothers still have it better then most of Most of us Christian men do, but this just goes to show that Islam doesn't offer the protections for Men in the west that some of us who are curious and are looking into Islam might be yearning for. The solution is making sure your Women is on the same ideological wavelength and understands that fathers and lack thereof is a one of the major problems in the degradation of Western society, so you have a potential wife who excepts the stats on fatherless children as the result *OF THE* fatherlessness and not as a result of poverty or any kind of other liberal BS, I would suggest you not marry a Women who isn't even interested in trying to preserve the family unit from the conservative perspective , sorry Islam isn't the solution however returning back to social conservatism and tradition is, Abrahamic religion is the tool to implement those socially conservative mores and standards that are objectively anecdotally empirically and sociologically better
@@Jake-xw5nqislam does in most muslim majority countries only the ones that want to lick the boots of the west I disagree with u their, bit one question brother " u stand woth Israel or u stand with Palestine?
@kayn6858so that includes your mum
Brother Daniel is really a breath of fresh air. He elevates every discussion he is invited to, brings great points, doesn't interrupt all the time like others, and is very respectful and humble. This brother is a gem.
He is purely evil. He promotes child marriage and slavery.
Hijab and Haqiqatu...a dynamic duo!
Just keep your children indoors when they come to your town.
Brother plz stop wasting your time with movies and do productive things. I've seen so many of your comments on muslim channels. Clearly you are a smart and intellectual man so please take my humble advice from a brother who also has many faults.
Yes!
@@i.k.8868huh?
@@thegirl30 You do know he advocates for child marriage, right?
It’s getting scary for traditional men and children out here subhana’LLah
I’m of the opinion that soon Allah will rain hail on everyone and earthquakes will bring civilizations back to the Stone Age. This society is getting ridiculous.
Lol what traditional men. This whole issue wouldn't exit if men didn't fall short in the first place.
I hope there will be more traditional men. Woman now have to deal with men who want the woman to work and help almost 50/50.
Crazy. I. Our morrocan culture this would be outrages. But it now actually happens!
Also many Muslim men have no 3hira they can only be "manly" in reality harsh on their woman if they want a second one. Rest they are wussies.
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@@Nobody-q2j😂
This is ABSOLUTELY VITAL in today’s misandrist world! I went through this injustice myself! Muslim women who supposedly have taqwa taking the secular court system to her advantage and disregarding the Qur’an and Sunnah! Hurting the father takes priority over their child’s best interests! It’s evil! Al’hamdulillah, I fought for my son and got my time with him. But it took years of court battles and $35,000+ JUST to get my equal rights to have a relationship with my son! Subscribed! Al’hamdulillah!
This is basically kidnapping - lawyers are like pay up or you lose your kids- wow
You can possibly leave islam by doing so(i.e her actions(
@@taimurahmad yeah, it’s hypocrisy
The charisma and intelligence of Daniel! May Allah reward him jinatul firdaws.
āmeen.
You like him? He promotes child marriage and slavery.
Wallahi im going through exactly this i havent seen my young kids for so many months and court has denied me access due to her false allegations made against me so many lies how do i cope when ive been with my kids everyday for years to suddenly not seeing them since divorce wallahi zulum is being done against me this is a great test from Allah i need to endure i get it but its complete evil being done against me its hard to cope why how can these muslim women be this evil i just dont understand
honestly at that point just say fuk it and move on brother just make sure she never see another penny from you
May Allah make it easy for you and rectify your situation.
@@Ms.4ever33 he needs real advice
Leave America and go back home wherever that is and start a new family. It's too late for your current family.
Man this is unbelievable. I can't wrap my head around it.
Masha'Allah as a father living in amerikkka this was very beneficial and i can relate to the insincerity of ex wife's treacherous mentalities.
Probably you are an evil person.
Beautiful discussion and a very important conversation that needs to be had..fathers going through this experience extreme pain and depression..women who do this will answer to their plotting and there'll be no respite. Keep that in mind
The brother on the left: "My kids were taken away from me"
a few minutes later
Hijab: "Do you have kids?"
😆😆 Hijab forgot
🤣🤣🤣That was funny
i noticed that😂😂😂
You should never tell Hijab you have kids. He might want to marry them.
@@juxtapositionMS😅
This has unfortunately happened to my uncle. And he is one of the best and most loving people I know. The women who do this are witches and I would have no mercy or compassion towards them
He was probably an awful husband
@@naviifra2374 Probably a wife beater just like the rest of them.
@@naviifra2374 and you are most definitely an awful woman.
@@naviifra2374 Way to make assumptions here.
No mercy for women? That sounds like a muslim!
Those grandparents who left their villages and came here to jump into Dajjal's cool river must have realised it's actually the hot one.
Sadly they didn't have the foresight. Their intentions were Dunya, and the trials of Dunya are what their progeny are getting. May Allah reward them for their efforts, and forgive them for their shortcomings.
Can't wait for more of these discussions. May Allah reward the entire team and their guests. Much love
Mashaallah brother Daniel is very knowledgeable & intelligent.. he knows so much about feminism and how it is affecting the legal system and therefore the family & marriage structure.. May Allah bless Daniel & Mohammed hijab and the other brother.. daeis and imams & scholars should talk about these topics more and educate Muslims about them.
How is he intelligent. He promotes child marriage and slavery.
May Allah reward the brothers for speaking up about this matter when most men are too scared and weak to speak up to this madness that’s going on.
lol why would anyone be scared
@@heybudstfunow the majority of men are a bunch of weaklings nowadays 🤷🏾♂️
We aren’t scared bro -
Us brothers unfortunately, DO NOT have a brotherhood and we do not cooperate with each other.
Whereas the feminist sisterhood is strong, due to the social conditioning of females
@@ak205and the court systems, “me-too” epidemic, gynocentricity, prejudice against Muslim men and Islam itself, and an all-out psychological war against men. Muslim fathers are at a HUGE disadvantage!
@@Top_o_da_foodDChain stop playing victim brother
YES BROS… we need to stem the tide against feminism. It’s a pathological sickness. Great initiative, guys.
May Allah help us unmarried brothers
Assalamo alikom
I'm a mother of 2 boys and I think the problem start before the divorce actually it start the day both men and women decided to get married and neither of them know what's their duty(responsibility) or right in Islam so that vacuum been field by feminism, so in my opinion we need to start introducing some kind of classes to any one getting married and mothers too need to fair Allah and do their duty towards their girls and boys too
They know, they just don’t care! They’re not stupid, they just pick and choose what they want from the religion! 😂
Stop saying men and women don't do their duties, it's only women who don't perform their duties
Wa ‘alaykum As-Salam wa Rahmatullah. No, this is not the case. The sisters KNOW their duties and KNOW their rights. They just don’t perform and don’t care about the Deen when it comes to their emotions towards their husbands. Did you listen to the podcast??? They mentioned that some of these sisters are at the level of “aalima.” They have the knowledge! What they lack is taqwa and fear of Allah SWT! It’s absolutely disgusting!!! It’s hypocritical! Hypocrites are the WORST of all people in society!!!
These are the people I want to have as friends. May Allah give you energy to keep this tempo
You want to be friends with people that promote child marriage and slavery?
@@i.k.8868 can you stop crying and fuck off?
Allahumma barik so nice to see MH and DH together in-person
This episode was the most informative and enlightening. The covering over of Truth is beyond monstrosity and cowardly, just so they can dismantle the family institutions. We are fighting with principalities of evil, the secular, liquid modernity, neo-liberal, hyper autonomous individuality institutions to ever exist.
May Allah SWT bless my three sisters, they kept within the Islamic requirements. Proud of you 🎉🎉🎉
May Allah reward all brothers here.
I think I have to throw up. Why would he reward child predators and wife beaters?
@@i.k.8868wat does that have to do with the topic, do u think ur stupid comments r gonna make a change
A legendary collab
You will never hear so-called modern Muslim leaders like Omar Suleiman, Nouman Ali Khan, etc talk about these issues. More concerned about their celebrity status and not offending the liberals smh. Brothers like Daniel Haqiqatjou and Mohammed Hijab are more sincere and don't water down Islam which I appreciate.
Stopped watching those type of speakers. Mufti Menk is also part of the kahoot.
i was especially disappointed with mufti menk, from what i have seen they are more concerned in not offending anyone and trying to please everyone specially their female audience that speaking the truth even if its hard to swallow
One and only brother Daniel_lots of love from Pakistan❤
Daniel promotes child marriage and slavery. Why would you send him love? Oh you are from Pakistan. That explains it.
Alhamdulillah finally!
W Dr Asif 💯
Loser what you doing here 😂
This was a very informative discussion. Every minute was a fruitful point, no useless chattery or beating around the bush.
May Allah reward you for all of your efforts immensely.
I saw you brother just after oct 7 in birmingham
Pleasure to meet you all
May allah bless your good works ameen
Jazakallahu khair for this. This stuff needs to be addressed.
Mashaallah Allah reward my brother for your support and help the brothers and families on family situation..ameen jazakhallah khair
This is dajjal's strategies like Brother Daniel concluded. Now its more clear for me about the hadist where Prophet Muhammad saw said, dajjal will bring a river and fire. The river is actually fire and the fire is actually chill safe river. Its like living in US, UK, western and eastern develop countries, yes the quality of life looks the most sophisticated and progress but muslim/ mukmin who live there was struggle and may lost their Islam, iman and ihsan. Living in the country who practicing Islamic law like Somalia, Kashmir n Ghazzah is like live in fire. Its so hard cause of economic sanctions, genocide, abuse from those "River Dajjal Countries". But if you're patient, your Islam, Iman and Ihsan will preserved and you'll safe in the hereafter InshaaAllah.
May Allah help you brothers and the Muslim Ummah in the West in the journey of gaining justice in family courts. Ameen
Alhamdulillah ❤🎉
This should be added to the "bitter truth show" and be reacted by the Muslim women/alimas for a more productive discussion via a "podcast"
I went through a lot of trauma as well with my divorce I couldn’t see my 3 daughters for almost 3 years which just shattered the bond I had with them and than when I was allowed to see them again I still don’t want to tell them it was all because their mum made up lies about me so in their head I just disappeared for no reason my ex accused me of being a t@rrorist and wanting to take the kids abroad to join a 4 letter terror group I was arrested and investigated under anti terror laws and even after extensive interrogation and investigation not a single shred of evidence was found to substantiate her false accusations I was still deemed to be a threat simply because I have a beard a Muslim name and unfortunately a criminal history that I was involved in years before my kids were born but because she is white and English they wanted to protect them from my “radical” religion I was only contacted again by my ex as she needed help with my eldest 2 daughters who were going through a lot of mental trauma in their heads that my eldest even attempted suicide 3 times these women don’t understand that the ones that suffer the most are the kids and by the time they get the message it’s too late for the kids 😢
I would say as a revert to Islam. I would be cautious when when marrying a born Muslim. I have never seen so much aggression from Muslim woman born into Islam. Most reverts I speak to are tortured mentally by Muslim Woman born into Islam.
Revert sisters for revert brothers would be a better choice. The culture and rules in their culture they do not favour and choose the easy way out by marrying a revert brother.
Most won't marry there own race due to the things that can an can't get away with. May Allah SWT bring justice to the situation. Ameen
I totally feel your pain…
you are right because us muslim men are usually raised with a tough mindset whilst the revert brothers were affected by liberalism most likely bfr islaam. Also we are raised differently as hpyiscal disciline without causing injury is not considered ab;;us;e(which is why we are raised more "tough"). we have also dealt with harshness (insulkts,do not have concepts of "fati shaming" and the likes, basically are more direct)from families growing up whereas reverts are usually respectful and considerate. I defnintely recommend revrt brothers and sisters marry each other because of cultural similarity!!
@@taimurahmad man we are not effected by liberalism. We are grown up by a sane culture
ما شاء الله finally off the ground ❤🎉
“Misery loves company” - Haqiqatjou
May Allah make it easy for those muslim fathers who are suffering after divorce
Why are you being sexist?
I suggest u bring in guests to talk about how they regret abusing their wives/husbands in family court that led to emotional sufferings of their children.
The way Daniel connected the dots at 46:59 ! MashaAllah!
I will have ro rewatch this looks interesting. MASHALLAH
Sallam brothers,
May Allah help you loads in your efforts. It is certainly depressing to hear real-life stories.
Please keep making such like video, it definately helps.
Oh Allah before I could even start watching this I am reading the comments and crying so much for everyone cuz I am also going thru what I am reading and it's sad that we are the worst of the worst of this ummah and Inshallah may Allah help us all but brothers please do the right thing and be patient when your angry realize it's a test and clam down and go to court no matter what family's says to you to protect your rights as a father. I had to plea for custody for my children and my whole family is against me and fight with me Everytime I pick up my children . I been to jail 2 times last year once from not holding my anger back end the second time was from me protecting myself and my fiance who reverted back to Islam from being attacked but still I was arrested but please have patience Allah knows best because the second time I went to jail I swear to you by the Quran and Allah that my mind was not in the right place when I was going to leave but Allah showed me a reason why I was supposed to be there because a kid who knew my brother that passed away what's his friend in my bed was right next to his and he talked to me for a little bit and ran up to me and said he does not know why but his heart and soul is screaming out that he needs to take his shahada that day and at that time because he did not know if he was going to wake up the next day. Because I was telling him about Islam to calm myself down and not think about what I was going through because I was not in the right State of mind. What Allah showed me that day was all of this was in his plan so what you guys are going through it's because that's Allah's plan . Before I couldn't see my children for months at a time but now I have established where I see them every two weekends and have my nights and days with them and they can be with me. Angela gave me a better job because I was going from one job to another because of the situations I was going through at my house and I kept on trying to give my ex-wife a chance over and over again I even left my fiance so many times to try to give my ex-wife a chance all for the sake of my children who lives with my family. I got kicked out and thrown out many times they begged me to give them another chance and even came here to my house. I can tell you guys so much more but I'll tell you this all of this was all a plan be patient Allah's plan is the best plan. And be safe and take care of yourself for the sake of your children and be the man that you guys need to be. No matter how many difficulties you're going through. Do the right thing go to court and take action even if your family is against everything you do. As long as you're following the Sunnah.may Allah forgive us all and give them their peace in their minds these people who think the way they do and hurt us not understanding anything. Just attacking because of culture values by the way I'm an afghan Muslim who was born and raised in America. I can tell you guys so much but that's between me and Allah. Even till now I forgive those people and everyone. And I forgive them for the sake of Allah. Because they don't understand hellfire is not a joyride and it's not just something you can even handle for even a second. Oh Allah forgive this ignorant people that we have on this Earth and forgive me for my mistakes in my past and forgive everyone who's g suffering right now in this world . My life has been so crazy the last 2 years. I felt alone for a very long time but I realized you know allah put people in my life. And even gave me two stepchildren who I love . And wife who. All I asked for was respect and love and not to be belittled and talk down. Anyone who's close to Allah all I ask for is a fair judgement between us. Oh Allah forgive us😭😭😭😭🤲🤲🤲Ameen ,😭😭😭
Haven't seen my son and daughter for years 😢
May Allah subhannahu wa ta ala cleanse us of this disease, and protect our offspring ameen
Jazakumallah khair ikhwan
a very great discussion on an important topic machallah, thanks for hosting this show
Yusuf 12:28
فَلَمَّا رَءَا قَمِيصَهُۥ قُدَّ مِن دُبُرٍ قَالَ إِنَّهُۥ مِن كَيۡدِكُنَّۖ إِنَّ كَيۡدَكُنَّ عَظِيمٌ
So when her husband saw his shirt torn from the back, he said, "Indeed, it is of the women's plan. Indeed, your plan is great.
Please make Dua for me and my 2 sons.
This video comes at a time when I need it most but it doesn’t fully speak to me. It doesn’t speak to the Muslimah that this is happening too.
I’m currently going through Court proceedings that are rooted in Parental Alienation. My son has been brainwashed completely by my ex husband and has accused me of horrible things. I don’t see my children unless he allows. I have been Without my children for the last 9 months. I provided for them without his support. I looked after them in every possible way. I was granted a Khulla and my life for the last year has been flipped upside down. Allah knows my truth and my full story. I have not lied or kept my children away from their father. He was abusive and I had to seek an order of protection. From the outside looking in I look like the trouble maker. From the Muslim perspective I should have been patient and never went through the court system. I’m alone here. I don’t live in my home country and no support from the threats on my life. Just imagine if I was your daughter or sister. He is bitter and is also suffering from mental health issues with narcissism being among them. My heart hurts beyond the words I can type. My emotional state is being tested. I want to tell my story. Who will listen? Who will believe when the shoe is on the other foot? He has done exactly was is described in the video. He said I have ties to extremism and so on. Parental alienation doesn’t happen to women so I’m not being believed. Parental alienation is happening so frequently because the divorce rate is so high. In the Muslim community the blame game starts with why did you initiate divorce. The court system has failed. What are the solutions for me? A Muslim woman going through severe Parental alienation in Canada. My children will be damaged for a very long time.
SubhanAllah. May Allah make it easy for you. I am pretty sure there are orgs there in Canada that take up such cases
Ameen. JazakhaAllahu Khairan
What extremism he is accusing you of?
Great job
Excellent video and topic
Great podcast. Perhaps touch upon the role that male family members of the woman play. You will usually see brothers of the woman support their sister against her husband.
100% brothers and mainly father.
Of course. Our whole family supported the wife of my uncle. So that includes his three brothers, his mother and father, etc. We told her we would disown him and protect her against him. He is extremist muslim and beats her.
My in laws were supporting my exes oppression against me in regards to access to my son. Thats to bad because they just have made themselves a target and don't even leave their house 😂😂
@@TheFatMan I hope the police is reading this post. This guy is exactly why women of muslim men need to be protected.
@@TheFatMan I hope you never get to see your kids again.
You guys need to do more podcasts
So they can spread the hate?
One thing to keep in mind is these women think they're getting away but Allah is the best of judges and they will face reality on the Day of judgement
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Weirdly enough I only know sisters who suffered for years with abusive and not providing husbands. Yet the sisters stayed and tried and when they finally had enough and divorced faced the fact that the fathers STILL don’t want to take responsibility for their kids to spend time with them and raise them.
May Allah guide us all.
Liar
Why is that when issues that fathers face are brought up, there's always a tendacy to deflect and assume that he was perhaps abusive? Not saying that it doesn't happen, but It's not always the case, nor are the men always in the wrong. Women can abuse Men too, worst part is that the legal system aids and abets them due to the "men can't be abused and women can't be abused" mindset.
@@jonathanjones5554 Because of the fear of the truth coming out. Exactly how Israel plays around with Palestine.
@@juxtapositionMSbiggest lie is that men cant see their kids 😂
Wait. Did I just see. Hijab and Daniel? Lovely jubbly. This will be interesting.
BRAVO
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I disown every Muslim who settles among the mushrikeen.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 2645; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
Beautiful podcast, MashãAllāh.
One correction, family courts are based on words favoring the women and it's not based on evidence!
Thanks for the truth
Jazakum Allah khair
Great idea for a podcast to fix these issues hope u keep up .......we R with U
We want to know what happened at min 49:49 LOL.
Very eye opening conversation btw, JZK.
Same, particularly how he cracks his knuckles then says "it's very upsetting" cuts back with him smiling 😂
Is daniel doing a uk tour is there any dates so I can come and see him
MashAllah Allah bless you brothers fight for our family for our religion. We just want to live the way we do without this intervention
Excellent podcast! Jazakum Allahu khayran..
It's extremely sad to know this exists 😔
This service should be available in Australia, or is it?
PART 2 PLS WITH DANIEL HAQIQATJOU INSHA ALLAH ✨
I first heard this issue in Conservative non-Muslim youtuber warning men danger of marriage. I thought our ummah was immune. Since popular speakers are talking about it. It seems widespread and severe.
Barakallah feekum
Solution: normalise Islamic prenups in accordance with shariah, ie the nikah contract itself accounts for the roles, responsibilities, expectations, and who the mediators would be in case of disruptions etc
A cross-over we deserved!
JazakAllah'u khairan brothers
Very good video and great to have khalid alongside Daniel and Hijab
Amazing
Thank you for covering this abuse.
Pre-nups - guys, get prenuptial agreements done to protect your wealth and earnings. Make sure to begin recording and taking notes and evidence as soon as you hear threats of divorce or children being taken away or fabricated accusations levelled at you. That's usually the red line, she's already crossed it, so plan your exit by protecting yourself. Focus on the kids, spend time with them and keep a strong bond.
I'd say dont even get legaly married,live in a non cohabitation state and put your wealth in a trust,if they use the kids that on them the litle kids will join the statistics
Mostly all pre nups get thrown out of court
@@H1GHD3FF
The way to get around it is to figure out what is the reasons they get thrown out and make sure your prenup is cast iron and can’t be challenged.
For example if a woman claim she was forced to sign it under duress,
- make sure it was signed before months before the wedding date
- Have in the prenup signatures of witnesses from both parties testifying the prenup and the individuals are of sound mind
Peunups arent recognised in the UK
@@rougesquadron8153 That's right. Muslim men need to find a way for women to agree to basic Islamic terms - especially his wealth, property or business where she cannot have any claim to.
Good podcast ❤much needed
Excellent discussion
Brilliant, ما شاء الله 👍
This is great
I hope that there can be an organization like this in the USA as well soon. The muslim men are also dealing with this stuff here.
Anyone know where brother Daniel will be today in Birmingham?
it's a pre-recorded video from seven months ago. They delayed posting it due to Gaza crisis.
jzakum allah khira brothers it is very wonderful podcast
I don't ask God to go easy on the women in hellfire who do this to their kids.
And that's why most women are reserved to Juhannam. And those issues mentioned here are even a fraction for the rest of many things they will be condemned about.
I'm not divorced and my wife does this, prevent my son seeing me out his grandparents
it's the 5Pillars Studio
Brother Daniel actually glowing MaShaAllah
Insightful
Have a podcast on the conditions of unilateral Khula to be issued by the qazi.
Right now, Sharia courts are issuing unilateral khula to keep the women happy without the permission of the husband
Yeah it's happening in the middle east a lot but tbh the husbands should just not care cant negotiate desire if my wife wanted a divorce because I sing bad id let her have it😂
so if a women wishes for divorce, u need the husband to stop her from having it ? why be in relationship with someone forcefully ?
The courts are a mess, but if a woman wants out she can, I don't know why you would be arguing that it's a problem, the bigger problem would be not allowing women to leave
Wow. Cant believe ppl like that exist🤦♂️.
Brother Daniel, May Allah grant you a long, healthy life and accept you. We need so many more of you. I was really confused about islamic rulling of dealing with the modern women as I hear not only from online sheikhs but also from offline hakkani alems about not shaming, and they even encourage lying by women. I was so confused as I believe Islam is for justice, but no justice is being done to today's men. They will get married with a women who are not sexually pure (untouched by male), wives are cheating, abusing husbands, divorcing and using children against husband, raising someone's child by the husband giving false idea that the child is his. Everything is going on. That brother is wrong. I am from the sub-continent.There are very few marriages where the husband and wife didn't know each other prior to marriage. Most marriages are affair marriages.
very interessant content 👍