ENFJ’s are super perceptive and detest hypocrisy, lack of accountability, and non-empathetic people. We are also super loyal, so when that is not reciprocated, it stings.
Honestly, I feel so seen with this video. I have always had a plethora of haters in my life and it sucks; even good friends who ended up being so jealous of me. At times in the past, it has caused me to dim my light. But I realize it’s a personal problem, I do pray to attract more genuine and confident people in my life. People that are happy for me; and truly want to see me win. I really appreciate this video; thank you.
Refusal to improve yourself. ENFJ’s are all about working towards a better world, and a better world starts at home. People who blame others for their failings, lack accountability and continue toxic behaviour with no effort to improve, that is our biggest irritation. We can see your potential, and wasted potential is tragic.
Hi Tam! An ENFJ here. I found your channel last night because I was trying to find explanations to my behaviour, thoughts and personality. Your ENFJ video shed light on a lot of things I was trying to make sense of, and all of them are accurate! From my POV, something that I hate or dislike is someone’s ignorance on certain issues or their inability to be open minded. Also, I hate it when people apologise and don’t follow through with an action (repentance/showing remorse), because then I think the apology is pointless. Other than that, I love how you dive deep into each personalities and not only scratch the surface level of them. I will be watching all of your vids to understand myself and my friends more! 🥰 love from Australia.
Enfj are just followers and will do anything to be cool. Had one tell me that they’re were fake towards everyone and matched everyone’s energy. Even told me that they were extra nice to the smartest kid in class so that person would help them cheat. But when I brought this up online I just get told that they are using they’re resources at a appropriate manner.
Someone I met who I think must be ENFJ is the greatest. I am trying to put more work into improving my quality of life because I think it would really bother her to know how much I neglect myself. It is hard for me to convince myself that I am worth the effort. She is a good role model so I hope that helps me to keep trying until something gets better. Maybe I lack the optimism and humility to actually put myself together, but I want to believe that it is better to struggle than to give up.
what to do if enfj ignore, keep at distance and dont want tell the truth what's going on. it hurt me beacuse i care but seeing her cold look at me just... buy her sth nice? or let her just live her own life...
3 things that I don't like as an Enfj: Disrespect. Either to me, my friends, or to anyone.Tthere is no reason to use it in social situations it's simply unkind and unnecessary. Injustice due to ignorance. Somone will have a good idea but just because of who they are the concept isn't explored further. Acting in such a way so it looks like you care about what I have to say but change the subject quickly to how you feel. Unless you are Enfp because you probably just don't mean to so I suppose it's fine lol.
ENFJ’s are super perceptive and detest hypocrisy, lack of accountability, and non-empathetic people. We are also super loyal, so when that is not reciprocated, it stings.
I agree 💯 percent!
non-empathetic? WTF?? you are missing the important thing about ENFJ!!
@@JODxSENSEII had a enfj say they are fake towards everyone
Enfj hate disrespect, hardcore!
Honestly, I feel so seen with this video. I have always had a plethora of haters in my life and it sucks; even good friends who ended up being so jealous of me. At times in the past, it has caused me to dim my light. But I realize it’s a personal problem, I do pray to attract more genuine and confident people in my life. People that are happy for me; and truly want to see me win. I really appreciate this video; thank you.
Sometimes we can allow people to dim our light who aren’t even worthy of it. You are amazing!
Refusal to improve yourself. ENFJ’s are all about working towards a better world, and a better world starts at home. People who blame others for their failings, lack accountability and continue toxic behaviour with no effort to improve, that is our biggest irritation. We can see your potential, and wasted potential is tragic.
Hi Tam! An ENFJ here. I found your channel last night because I was trying to find explanations to my behaviour, thoughts and personality. Your ENFJ video shed light on a lot of things I was trying to make sense of, and all of them are accurate! From my POV, something that I hate or dislike is someone’s ignorance on certain issues or their inability to be open minded. Also, I hate it when people apologise and don’t follow through with an action (repentance/showing remorse), because then I think the apology is pointless. Other than that, I love how you dive deep into each personalities and not only scratch the surface level of them. I will be watching all of your vids to understand myself and my friends more! 🥰 love from Australia.
Hi Isabel! Wow 🤩 Australia 🇦🇺! So cool. Thanks 🙏 for watching my videos-I’m happy you’re enjoying them. 🙂
OMG I really needed this!! I had a rough day, this just gave me a heart to heart. Thanks for always being relevant and relatable. 🤗❤️
Hugs! Sorry you had a bad day 🙁. Hope today was better! Thanks 😊 so much.
Enfj are just followers and will do anything to be cool. Had one tell me that they’re were fake towards everyone and matched everyone’s energy. Even told me that they were extra nice to the smartest kid in class so that person would help them cheat. But when I brought this up online I just get told that they are using they’re resources at a appropriate manner.
Someone I met who I think must be ENFJ is the greatest. I am trying to put more work into improving my quality of life because I think it would really bother her to know how much I neglect myself. It is hard for me to convince myself that I am worth the effort. She is a good role model so I hope that helps me to keep trying until something gets better. Maybe I lack the optimism and humility to actually put myself together, but I want to believe that it is better to struggle than to give up.
This seems to be all about haters
Miss seeing you in your videos too quality content Tam!
Pretty clear I’m m hooked on ENTJ and always have been!
Aw hopefully someday I can be in person again. When time permits. ☺️
what to do if enfj ignore, keep at distance and dont want tell the truth what's going on. it hurt me beacuse i care but seeing her cold look at me just...
buy her sth nice? or let her just live her own life...
So sorry 😞. I think I’d take the clue even though I know it’s painful 😓. Give her space and see if she comes back around…..
Truth. 🙏🏼🌸🙏🏼
3 things that I don't like as an Enfj:
Disrespect. Either to me, my friends, or to anyone.Tthere is no reason to use it in social situations it's simply unkind and unnecessary.
Injustice due to ignorance. Somone will have a good idea but just because of who they are the concept isn't explored further.
Acting in such a way so it looks like you care about what I have to say but change the subject quickly to how you feel. Unless you are Enfp because you probably just don't mean to so I suppose it's fine lol.
These are soooooo Gooood!!!! I feel the same way.
Have you got these problems too??
👍💯❤️🤝