How To Be Less Nervous Around Women
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- Опубліковано 1 лип 2020
- In this video, Jeff from The Style O.G. gives a wide range of tips to help men be less nervous around women.
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You can't learn this in School 🤣😂
Dad won't sit you down either 🙂
OG got you.
My man !
Unfortunately, I remember actually best friend dad. Uncles & 1st cousin use to put me through in-field tests when were out with them.
Many these days are less in-person socialize, yet able to write pages on social media conversations.
FACTS!
Man true. My dad was a ladies' man, and a great guy, a great dad. But these are things me and him never talked about.
Learn new things, be interesting, don’t be intimidated, improve your dressing style and apply cologne, take action, don’t take rejections to heart, keep trying
I like it !
That suit and tie combo, spotless as usual!!! Salute OG
Salute Sarr !
I had to ditch the "bag her" mentality and pick up the "conversate with her" mentality.
There ya go !
Peace Darrell Doran, that’s right and exact. Converse not conversate big homie. Peace
@@TigerCraneLove Peace on that..preciate ya!
Converse with her, not conversate: it’s not a word.
@@sunshinesunflowerz1647 true
"I think you got a great shoulder on your head "
I swear imma act a fool and use this one of these fine days 🤣🤣
SALUTE, OG
Ha !
Bottom line fellas women are just people ! When talking to a woman no need for pretense or bravado just be yourself ! A little confidence and charisma will get you pretty far ! Keep the wisdom coming Jeff
🤜🏾🤛🏾🙌🏾
Will do Mark !
That last tip really helped to alleviate my nervousness. There's a young lady I've been interested in and I was mad nervous about her, just seeing would make my me tense up and break into a sweat. One day I got a opportunity to talk to her and I just went for it, had a topic on standby and the conversation was pretty cool, brief but it was cool. Now when I see her I'm nowhere near as nervous as I used to be.
Nice ! Way to take a risk !
This is on point. I shared this with my 19 year old son. Thanks for kicking the knowledge. It is good for him to hear it from someone other than his dad. Keep up the good work!
You got it Fredrick !
Great way to teach your boy! 👏👍
Solid list as usual! I’ve learned all of these but it’s a shame that it’s mostly come with age and experience. Sure wish I knew now what I didn’t know then but honestly, I didn’t have the experiences yet to establish some of these good guidelines! I’ll add that the importance of asking questions to converse with a woman helps you find if she’s interested or not. If she gives short answers that you can’t follow more conversation with you know it may not be what you were hoping for. Making sure you don’t ask questions that sound like an interrogation is also helpful. Style OG nailed it when he said converse with her like you would with your own friends!
Appreciate the input!
I love your channel because it’s BALANCED!! I appreciate the fact that you don’t lump ALL Black women into the same negative categories like some other UA-camrs. At the end of the day, we’re imperfect people, but striving to be the best that we can be. That’s why I like and subscribe to channels like yours. Now, with that being said, I’ll get to my point! This is a great topic, and it goes both ways! After 19 years of marriage, my divorce was final last year. After my divorce, I went out on a date with a guy I met through a friend. OMG, I was super nervous!! We had a nice time, and went out several more times. This guy was totally different from my ex-husband. He has his own place, his own car, picked me up for our outings, opened the car door for me, and acted like a real gentleman. After being in a rotten marriage for so many years, it just felt good to be in the presence of a man that treated me like I was worthwhile. But then, I realized I was doing just what you said we shouldn’t do, and that was putting this man on a pedestal. Sometimes he would make snide comments about me, and I would laugh it off as if it didn’t matter, but some of his comments would sting. I’m not perfect, but I’m a good woman with a kind heart, and I don’t make comments to people that could possibly hurt their feelings or offend them. The point I’m making is we should NOT put people on pedestals, we should be our authentic selves, and if the person you’re interested in doesn’t see the value in YOU, and treat you accordingly, you should move on. Life is too short to jump through hoops for unappreciative people.❤️
Appreciate the personal input !
Always on point O.G. just like that jacket and tie combo. So fresh and so clean. Salute, my dude!🤜🏾🤛🏾
Salute!
that suite and tie is killing it. I like the advise "if she not interested the you lost nothing. That the golden rule..
Thanks Eddie !
Very good topic. I seen the movie "she's the one" and not even know if she's even into me (overly investing in one lady). Took me a lot of rejection to find out a better way to do things. One of the best statements in this video was about improving yourself. I have always sought to improve me, so that I stay ready and don't have to get ready. Way to go with another fine advice and tips video Sir!
Salute Shawn !
Smooth Tie! and good info. Was having a convo about this a week ago with my 14 year old son. I covered just about everything you mentioned in this video. continue the great material brother! Helping the fellas to become gentleman.
Salute Dayshon!
Awesome dad moments🔥🔥🔥👑👑👑👑
Salute to you need more dads like you
Per the usual I thoroughly enjoyed your video. Good information always a pleasure watching you. Learn a new things. Happy new year stay blessed.
I've read books on this, but Jeff puts me at ease and makes it sink in, in ways that a book can't get across. Thanks OG.
Another great content! Thanks Jeff! This channel has been really helpful with building back my confidence and manhood ever since my rough break up. Keep it up! Much love! 👍🏽
Much love !
I came across your page by accident about 8 months ago, and I've watched your videos every day since then. Thank you so much for the tips you give Us Men
Great video thanks for the information King
Great job dropping this on point knowledge! Salute!!
Appreciate that!
This is so good!! I felt like this was a father son talk. Cant wait to have this talk with my son
Thanks!
I love this advice! It’s simple and straight forward. Not like all these other vids that just make it overly technical and complicated
Hope it helps !
I’m just getting back in the dating game. This video and the dozens I’ve been watching by The Style O.G. are helping me to rebuild my confidence, period. The advice about not putting women on a pedestal and being my best self, is the truth. It’s those areas I’m working on.
Happy to help!
I like the suit ad tie combo a lot, Jeff!
Thanks Talia !
What's up Jeff Donald from Cincinnati checking in once again you hit that right on the head as always great advice keep on bringing it and happy holidays to you and your family Salute
Thanks brother Jeff. I can sense both fashion and humility in you. Thank you.
No problem Paul !
Your channel has been a Godsend . I need to focus on being interested more than being interesting. I feel that has been my issue not being interested enough.
Great video! Little advice from what I have run into is don’t completely replace talking with texting. I was chatting with a woman through text for about a week. Then out of nowhere she called. I froze and didn’t answer. What was I afraid of? Who knows! Lol. Texting is great but talk and try to do it initially first. That way you can be ready and more comfortable!
I agree Jason!
Love that "get in and get out" point. Classic advice for meeting people at parties, bars and social gatherings. Nothing worse, more uncomfortable and terrible for your nerves than staying there too long and leaving your new friend, colleague or possible date bored, when you want them to be interested and asking for a little more.
Indeed Nick !
You’ve got such a very crucial ministry, you are saving lives
Salute !!
Whats up jeff Donald from Cincinnati just wanted to say that you are the truth and I'm taking notes as always keep up the great advice and Salute
Salute Donald!
Great topic Style O.G I struck out many times being so nervous great advice.
Thanks Justin !
Another One!!! Great Topic and content. Salute!
Salute Dwayne !
Love the advice and I think I might have to add this suit and tie combo to my wardrobe
Salute!
Great video thanks...Can you recommend dating sites or place to meet women in their late 40`s thanks !!!
This the one I needed!! Thanks Jeff!
No problem!
The main thing is talk to all women. Young, old, fat, skinny, Pretty and the pretty ugly ones too.... 😂🤣😂😂 the more you talk the more you learn.✌🏿
Salute, good video as usual. U got us prepared in the fashion tip, and mentally 💯 💪🏽👊🏽
Thanks!
Yea O.G. Great Advice, and You Look Great...Style! Thanks Bro.
No problem Victor !
Thanks for your advice Jeff, I'm a very shy person from being bullied in my younger years. Now 48 and getting divorce. Needless to say you've been many years since I dated someone,i getting out of a marriage of 18 years. I sure appreciate you sharing this info will be very beneficial for me.
YES Jeff , Your Man with Master plan i agree with you 100 percent on this. Keep up Big Bro
Will do !
@StyleO.G.
Bruh! You're like my life coach, fashion consultant, and digital Guardian Angel all in ONE!
SALUTE!
Salute Eddie !
Sound the bell School is in! SALUTE Jeff! Thank you for deprogramming years of Pedestal and Scarcity mentality. That I never knew I had , a for actually naming my dysfunction. Peace&blessings.
Blessings!
Really great pieces of advice, Jeff. We must get rid of the scarcity mentality. As for glossophobia (fear of public speaking), you are correct: if you are prepared, it's a lot easier. Salute, my man!
Salute!
Great topic... a wealth of wisdom as always. Like the statement "just take action", Love the suit 😍 the tie 👔 combo is 🔥 ❤💯
Thanks Jeannine!
Great Job Sir!!! Great video. Nice presentation as usual. Much respect HQOG!!!
Much respect Gail !
@@TheStyleOG You already know.😊
Hey Jeff, I have to say I like your channel more and more. You make some really good points. Keep up the good work. (nice Sport coat)
Thanks Steven !
Timeless knowledge from the OG thank you.
No problem!
Yo what's up Jeff Donald from Cincinnati checking in you are the truth keep coming with the great advice and SALUTE
Salute Donald!
I'm just 19 years old, learning from life, and your content has helped me a lot, OG! Thank you very much!
Glad to hear it Jeremy!
First thing I noticed was the background music was lower than usual and different then the others lol...Still love the video O.g.
#Salute
Salute Huey !
you know whats crazy why was the ad in my video about how to flirt! i loved the vid per usual! p.s. come close..... i sometimes come in to just watch your intro, im guilty but its so good!
Thanks a ton Allison !
OG, i love the calm gestures.
Thanks !
This list is amazing.... every single thing is true... you nailed it O.G...👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿👌🏿 shout out big Jeff. ⏫⏫⏫
Salute Dame !
Thanks for your tips
What up my bro Og. My main man Jeff bro you are sharp today my G. Give me that outfit bro, Great advice in today video . Keep it coming. Salute my friend,
Salute my friend !
Damn O.G., that tie and jacket combo is super clean! Great advice as always
Thanks Ryan !
Jeff, the only thing I’m putting on a pedestal is that amazing tie that you’re wearing. I *must* know the brand and style, bro.
Much respect to you O.G.
Much respect!
Knowing current events locally and around the world also helps the conversation and a lot of women find this interesting in men.
Truth !
Man you are speaking the truth.man you gonna get me that special lady great job
“Scarcity mentality” - exactly! Literally billions of women, don’t worry about any one of them. Dude this channel is awesome. Thank you-
Appreciate it!
Very nice video Jeff. Very informative and Timley advice my friend. Nice outfit.
Thanks Melvin !
Perfect timing for this video, young men can use this perfect advice before the 4th of July. And get a lady and not be nervous 😉. Salute O.G.
Salute Clifton!
Great video OG!!!
Thanks Kevin !
Great video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day
Thanks Michael!
You welcome keep up the good work
The OG looking sharp as hell. Salute
Salute Kiran !
The quality information in these videos can't be found anywhere else. And that keeps me returning to the channel, video after video.
Glad to hear it !
Great video G
Thanks Sergio !
I'm constantly nervous about women... and being an introvert kinda doesn't aid in that either... Great advice sir Jeff
Great advice as usual. PREACH
Thanks Charlie !
It took me a minute to realize that you try to reply to every comment. I can't subscribe twice but I can sure as heck like and comment!
Thanks my guy!
"Just take action" Right on the nail bro. A lot of dudes begin tripping because they can´t think of a "cool line" or something funny. Not everyone is a Richard Prior. Just be yourself, and you never know.
Tell em !
I’m 6’4” athletic, well travelled, started my own business, read to improve my knowledge and subsequently share it with others, love my family,
have an education in anatomy and physiology……and aged 51 years young have become single and available (divorced). My thoughts are even if we have reasonably good attributes and have loyalty, compassion, empathy, determination, emotional intelligence, physical fitness and resources, we can still get nervous regards finding a new partner. There’s always room for improvement, starting with myself.
"There's many more fish in the sea...."
That advice is spot on my man!
That's exactly what I tell my son. If one girl's not into you, move on to another one. Don't be afraid to say, "See- ya!" Find somebody that you get along with and you have things in common. That will make the conversation less nerve racking and more interesting. Never try to force it. Know when to walk away and bounce to the next one.
It's just like you said..... plenty of fish in the sea.
Appreciate the input Timothy !
@@TheStyleOG I really appreciate your channel. I think it's because you and I are around the same age,(class of '88)?
Your advice is very practical and you're also very down to earth.
Keep up the great work !
Straight up wisdom here. 👍
I try !
Great advice
Looking real dapper OG, you're 100% right do not put them on a pedestal, if she's interested in you she'll be coming after you,
Preach brother like i said before when is the book coming out i have to be first in line for it facts 💯 lol!!
Working on it !
One effective way to deal with nervousness, you need to embrace and accept the sensations. A good method is taking improv lessons, which teach you how to think fast on your feet. Sometimes, I use to practice this technique on an elevator, because everyone would be dead silent and would use the moment to put a spin out there to break the monotony.
Always remember opening a dialog is giving an invitation to a party. How many times people have thrown a party and not everybody show up? You accepted the fact some people chose something else over your event. The party still went off as planned and those attended enjoyed themselves. Never take it personal on the Decline, because someone else will Accept.
Appreciate the input Shane !
@@TheStyleOG All Day Brotha & about adding value in life not taking it away. Keep up the great work...bigger opportunities are coming your way!
That suit, tie, jacket combo looks smashing!
Thanks Larry!
I am not a fan of any form of window pane check for Business Suits, but I think that the one you're wearing to day creates a great balance between "Business Fashion" and modern style. Phil.
Thanks Phil !
Great info!
Thanks!
Salute!!!! Keep giving us that game!!!!
Salute Deon !
Great advice thanks .
No problem Clif !
Great video brotha salute !
Salute Brandon !
PUBLIC SPEAKING IS PROBABLY ONE OF THE BEST CLASSES I COULD HAVE EVER TAKEN WHEN I WAS IN COLLEGE. I'VE ALWAYS BEEN NERVOUS TALKING TO WOMEN, BUT I TREAT IT LIKE I DID WHEN I TOOK PUBLIC SPEAKING. WHEN IT WAS MY TURN, I JUST GOT UP, STOOD IN FRONT OF THE CLASS, AND GOT IT OVER WITH. I WAS NERVOUS EVERYTIME, BUT AFTER A WHILE, I JUST FOCUSED ON DOING IT AND GETTING IT OVER WITH. I USE TO BE AFRAID TO JUST ASK QUESTIONS IN CLASS BEFORE I TOOK THAT COURSE. I HANDLE APPROACHING WOMEN LIKE PUBLIC SPEAKING. SHE'S EITHER GOING TO BE INTERESTED OR NOT.
AN I STOP LETTING REJECTION AFFECT ME AFTER MY FIRST COUPLE OF SUCCESSES FROM APPROACHING WOMEN. FROM THAT, I JUST KNOW THAT THERE ARE WOMEN OUT HERE THAT ARE INTERESTED IN ME, MAKES ME A LITTLE MORE CONFIDENT THAN I USE TO BE!
I'M STILL AN INTROVERT, BUT I'M A LITTLE MORE OUTSPOKEN THESE DAYS!
At my school we have presentations to do in almost every class and I also took a speech class, had to give 5 speeches in a semester and I still hate speaking
I really enjoyed this topic, communicating has become a lost art. Being a little nervous is normal but you gave some great tips so as not to make women uncomfortable when being approached. For me, I don't like a guy who doesn't listen or brags about himself.
Appreciate the input as always Lauvon!
@@TheStyleOG You're welcome
Yo, I told a young lady straight up "I'm not smooth, I suck at small talk, but I'm interesting...how about you help me through this dating process and I'll keep you entertained". She hit me back with A-F options next lol. We're still talking, it was actually a good open and I think she agreed it was an interesting approach and we're still talking.
Nice suit...great advice...Have you ever done any looks with Perry Ellis??
I haven’t
Thank you.
No problem!
Preach Jeff!!!
Salute Melvin!
Absolutely go ahead and end it early...don't talk yourself right into the friend zone...show up and don't talk too much is my motto...
Indeed Duane !
Just Be carefree. Salute to you my Player
This was official, thats why I'm subscribed.
Salute!
Solid advice brother
Thanks James !
This man seems like such a good dude. Probably a great friend too.
Kind words indeed!
I used to get nervous but the reefer I puff kept me in motion.
Topics? I pull clues like Sherlock holmes. Statements, no questions unless Im reportin.
Leading a situation should always be the focus. Don't be passive.
Realizing you not perfect is key here! Just be yourself!!
Indeed Willie !
Jeff u cleaner than the board of health! Aka Lawyer Jeff 🤣 stay blessed Bruh
Appreciate you !
Be easy O.G.!!
Salute Tomas !