1. Nonverbal Communication In public 2. Outward displays of Intelligence (e.g. Reading books) 3. Wear Glasses (Not Sunglasses) 4. Handling stress/negative moments well 5. Wear a watch 6. Brag about her to family and friends 7. Bring her a cup of coffee 8. Acts of Being a good dad 9. Apologize when you are wrong 10. Give her space (don't be clingy) 11. In public, put your hand on the small of her back 12. Chip in on prep, cooking, and cleaning up of a meal 13. Share your food with your lady 14. Make it a habit of being present 15. Wear grey sweatpants
I agree with all 15. Being cared for does it for me. I went on a date to a amusement park and he pick me up, put me in the ride and made sure I was safely strapped in before he did it for himself. I fell in LOVE. I've never seen anyone do that except a parent.
I tried the coffee thing. I put on a nice watch as you recommended and brought her a morning coffee in bed. She was furious! She started screaming and yelling then chased me out of the house with a cast iron frying pan... Apparently this only works on women who know you.
😂😂 You’re supposed to set the coffee down on the nightstand, not in the bed where you spill it all over her. Pro tip: watch/ask how she makes her coffee so you can make it the same way
@@doejohnathon3487 You never wrong in front of a woman, if you are - you will lose respect forever - Yes maybe that's childish to act like that but that's the only thing that will keep you important in her eyes, real men or nice men, are left behind broken and used.
As a Senior Citizen & Widow after almost 30 years of marriage, I find your Channel Jeff on point in directing Men to be mature in several aspects of life. Women are also attracted to Men who are honestly grounded in their relationship with God.
Definitely on track with intelligence. Nothing is sexier than a man who can converse intelligently about many topics! Also taking time to continue pursuing hobbies it’s very attractive. Shows dedication, consistency, and gives a couple something to talk about. Great video!
Holding eye contact when holding a conversation, and putting his phone away(or face down). It's a subtle way of showing he is considerate and engaged. A man can go from "meh" 😒 to "I can't wait to see him again"😍 And share dessert!
I do the eye contact thing all the time, I have oddly light brown eyes for a pacific islander who can Easily pass for a black/brown guy with straight hair just because I have a heavy Brooklyn, NY accent, I know women love it so I be like ->👀👁️ 😆
Man, I'm 41 and now learning these things and checking up on your other videos. Thanks for the knowledge brother. It's changing my life for the better, one day at the time.
Wow! We are 43 Strong. You hit this Out of Park from the 1st example of the man being present in a room full of people while catching each others eyes with a subtle smile or wink as he walks through the room . Trust and believe he's definitely gonna get that call it a night kind of love❤. The whole look book is On Point . Thanks for the shout out Jeff to us ladies. Be Blessed
I can do all you said except share my food. If the girl likes what I'm eating, I will order it for her. When I see a meal I like, I'm mentally prepared to enjoy every bite of it. I can not divide my happiness, but I can help my woman experience the same thing by ordering her what I'm enjoying. No men enjoys sharing his food, so if you find one, stay with him coz he loves you a lot.
Hi Jeff! Those were all great. I’ve never given much thought to a man wearing a watch, very good point. I’d like to add to the list, being passionate about something. Whether it’s work, a hobby, cars, clothes, or food, have something that makes you excited, and share it with your lady. I love for a man to share his intimate knowledge about a subject, and to see the spark that it puts in his eyes.
Being a great father is something women have a hand at too. A father raises his kids, but many of these women are not great mothers and men have to help raise them as well.
Nothing is more appealing when a man can converse who's well rounded ,keeps a clean home,very considerate and especially who extremely neutering..being able to cook is just an added bonus. Great list bro ❤
Well done! One more... Let your lady know you value and respect her opinion. "That's a good thought", "I value your opinion", "I appreciate you saying that"
I agree with this list. I’d also add- Guys Who Are Nice To Animals. Guys In Suspenders (Think Christian Bale on American Psycho, Patrick Swayze on Ghost) Guys Who Are Good Dancers. Guys In White Tank Tops (Think David Boreanaz on Angel or Buffy) Guys Who Play An Instrument Or Sing. Guys Who Can Fix Things.
Great tips bruh! One other tip is being able to make a woman laugh. Laughter tends to allow women to be more of themselves without having their guards up all the time. It's been my golden rule and has worked 99.9% of the time.
I've been wearing glasses mostly my entire life. I've always gotten complimented by the ladies. It definitely gives off a certain look especially when I dress up.
Another one of the 43 here... ALL of these! 👍🏼. But the hand in the small of the back? Oh yeah!! ❤️. And of course, the gray sweatpants. Works EVERY time! Fantastic job, OG! ❤️🙂👍🏼
This topic and many of your topics are on point, a lot of the younger crowd will not understand the concept, and relationship rituals, many are not taught. they need to be tuning in to your channel. keep it up, i am always listening, still fine tuning my game, and I am a O.G. Kudos
From one of the 43 😉: You're definitely on the right track. 👍 About the sweatpants - they're soft to the touch, they slide beautifully over a man's physique, and they're easier to remove.
You hit it! I love them. I bought my man black ones this winter because he won't wear gray, but I made sure that they were super soft, long enough (b/c 6'4" means truly long legs) and of course have pockets.
Hey Jeff! That suit and those glasses 🥰. Yes you are on 🔥 I love a man that is smart and can take the lead! Yes when he shares his food puts his hand the small of your back definitely a turn on. Your content is always great! Stay safe!
The good dad thing is such a HUGE turn on for me. Men who genuinely love and enjoy their kids are so hot🔥. Cooking me a meal is a close second. The apology thing is also huge especially if it's genuine and accompanied with changed behavior. Great list per usual.
@Slim Sith it speaks to character. Most men who don't take care of their kids aren't good people in many other ways. Also, there are single fathers out there. 🤣 Attraction is unique for everyone no need to reduce it to judgement and name calling. Have a great week.
Great Job Jeff. I kmow that you talk to men but your videos also gives me as a lady a mirror to look into for self improvement and for my Boo. Thanks for all that you do. Be Blessed!!!
Ge, Jeff And to add to ur heavy hitter list is that the ladies will also find most comforting and loving that he begins and ends his days & nights safely with her. Be safe & stay healthy.☝
Definitely on point and entertaining Jeff. These Gems are a no brainer when in a relationship. Teach and preach. Tradition and old fashion romance will never go out of style. 👏🏽👍🏽👑👔🎊
I watch a lot of your videos and man oh man you really help expand my way of thinking. Iron sharpens iron and man sharpens man. I love being a sponge and soaking up all of this knowledge. Salute to you O.G.
OG, OG, OG...all I can do is smile, I'm blushing from your questions and answers... Wow! when you put on those glasses I was finished... Anyway who is the lucky woman that tells you our secrets?
I agree with all the points. Jeff one thing that is also a big turn on is having mature & intelligent social media behavior. I mean like not being so publicly & blatantly thirsty in the comments every time a woman posts a pic or a man posting very childish/immature things on his page. I’m currently not really on SM But when I used to be I remember seeing this quite often & it was like the nail in the coffin for any potential possibilities 🧐🧐🧐
I've made plenty of these mistakes in relationships. Especially the "be present" one. Good stuff brother I wasnt even gonna watch. Thought I knew it all lol. Style O.G does it again
I am very new to your channel and I give you a 10 out of 10. All of the topics were dead on especially guiding a women in the room with your hand. That is definitely my weakness. Keep up the good work. I’m learning a lot from your channel.
I have the same color and style of suit ! I wore a red- blue argyle pattern tie like yours with a white straight colour shirt and of course a white picket square !!!
1) I had to rewind when the Style OG put on those glasses 👓 lol. Seriously, once again he is spot on.....I won’t list any, because they all were great! I gotta make sure all men I know subscribe to this channel
Great video. I have learned these through trial and error on my journey to become the best me. One thing I always try to do is "be the sunlight in my woman's universe." Keep bringing these tight videos for the gentlemen Sir! Oh and that suit combo is proper!
I completely agree on the helping out on the cleaning and preparing. Strangely I am currently with a woman who doesn't want me anywhere near our kitchen when she's cooking. She has an existing system which she doesn't want me interfering or ruining.
Another great video Jeff! My wife loves when I have my hand on the small of her back. She feels protected. I think another turn on is when men show their faith in God in numerous ways including praying over a meal for example. It shows vulnerability and strength at the same time.
Everything you mentioned requires a man to be confident in himself. Being able to appear by her side in a crowded room and her knowing your scent is awesome.
You’re speaking true facts, Jeff! One huge turn on is a positive, optimistic guy. There’s this guy that likes me. He’s a cool dude, but a HUGE PESSIMIST! He complains or finds the negative in just about EVERYTHING! It’s hella annoying and is one of the things that keep me from giving him a chance. To see a man that can keep his cool and chooses the positive road is very attractive.
I enjoy your videos! I like how you do what you do. A nice suit, clean shoes, along with a pair of socks with an unexpected pattern and/or color is a turn on for some. Agreed! The “attach at the hip” thing is not cool. And, when you make a phone call, lead the exchange. Don’t expect the person you are calling to “carry” the call initiated by you. Good day, Ya’ll!
LOL! Seriously? This is the No1 thing to avoid as per all the dating coaches. A man has to have a purpose in his life and has to give his undivided attention to his activities, particularly his professional ones. The woman, even the woman of his life let alone any random girlfriend, has to be a compliment but not the focus. Giving a woman your undivided attention is one of the main factors of lost attraction. Women do not like men who give them full attention precisely because that signals weakness and a lower prospect for success. Women want you to do your thing, to be successful and them to cling along the way enjoying your success. Women are cheerleaders, men are footballers. A footballer won't give much attention to cheerleaders, he has his game to play.
Mannnn!!! When you put those glasses on!! Good God from Zion! You took your sexiness to a whole other level. Woo! I agree with the apology. Most men will buy flowers or other gifts to apologize instead actually verbally apologizing. Great tips HQOG! Great video as always. I think that it is absolutely charming that you will actually help your lady with prepping and cooking. Priceless
I’ve been trying to bring men into my salon to have their hands and feet tightened up. I’ve even run specials, but they just haven’t taken advantage of them. Oh, how they underestimate.
@@gymeni Do a video of a few men 2 or 3 for a Demo. It might be great if it was somebody who is popular as person, friend or family member. Ijs . That you're not completely out of option. Be Blessed
T J I’m one of the 43 ladies! As always you look sharp, especially in that blue blazer, shirt, and tie. Very handsome! In terms Of the tips, I agree 100%. I love men who are confident and who show authority. A man who reads, fixed something in my home, pumps my gas, and keeps a calm demeanor in the face of chaos, is a huge turn on.
Wear glasses if you really wear glasses or contacts not to look studious. "Ain't no future in yo frontin". That's a turn off. Yes, we love a man that wear a watch and we love men who are true watch connoisseurs even more. I've gifted wood, engraved watches to a couple of my male friends. Addition to bringing us coffee in the morning, the fact that you're up EARLY before us is a turn on in itself. Being raised by two kings, being a great father brings you to the top of the list as far as I'm concerned. Again, another GREAT video Jeff. Keep up the good work!
I love your channel! Always thorough research. Your presentations are thought provoking and mature and you set a standard with your attire. I as a woman, am never disappointed. As a retired Navy Chief.. Salute Sir!
Much like men who are mesmerized watching a woman apply her lipstick, I like to watch a man shave his face...very intimate and often leads to other things..
Nice teeth and good breath are a turn on. Straight, white teeth are sexy. Punctuality, attention to detail, and planners with great follow-through are attributes I find attractive in men. Finally, men who are intelligent, possess mechanical, or carpentry skills are keepers.
I feel into that old school sitting in the living while my girlfriend cooked. After a few times of dirty looks that I didn’t understand, she said you know you can come help prep dinner, I worked all day too. That hit home. As little as opening cans, microwaving something, getting items out of the refrigerator or basically just offering to help can go a long way. And she will notice you getting up from your show or off your phone to help!
I've used a lot of advice you give, so I know it's good. Especially about apologizing. Even if you are always right apologizing shows you can humble yourself and not be pompous. And like I always say, If you want the glory you got to be willing to take the blame.
Hey Jeff! I like your dating and relationship perspective. I have to say I really like the idea of making eyes with my love across a room. Especially since I am preoccupied trying to work a room, I'd be more inclined to slow down and concentrate on having a great time with my sweetheart.💕 I'm hoping to get to know my boyfriend's family a lot better. I'd really be flattered if he bragged on me at some upcoming events.💕 My baby brought my morning coffee on a day where I had a really busy to-do list and I just bragged to no end about his thoughtfulness. I just thought this gesture was so sweet. He scored major points especially since we were early in the dating part of the relationship. 💕 I can't wait to turn heads with my beau at some upcoming events as I am admittedly a bit of a showstopper. How wonderful I'd find the change of pace in having him to guide our movement through the venues. Ahhh!
Summary guy: 1. Can’t her eye from across the room at an event 2. Outward displays of intelligence. 3. Wear some regular glasses. 4. Take life’s ups and downs with stride. Don’t panic 5. Wear a watch. 6. Brag about her to your family and friends. 7. Bring her a cup of coffee in the morning. 8. Be a good dad. 9. Not having a problem apologizing when you’re wrong. 10. Give her some space. 11. Gently put your hand on the small of her back and direct her. 12. Chip in on the prepping, cooking, and cleaning up of meals. 13. Share your food with her. 14. Make a habit of being present. 15. They love us in grey sweatpants.
I have never commented on here but it’s been very informative and have given me some great ideas ( and thank you so much ! ) for the best gift ideas for a man out here today, oh yes my brother we ARE watching .
1. Nonverbal Communication In public
2. Outward displays of Intelligence (e.g. Reading books)
3. Wear Glasses (Not Sunglasses)
4. Handling stress/negative moments well
5. Wear a watch
6. Brag about her to family and friends
7. Bring her a cup of coffee
8. Acts of Being a good dad
9. Apologize when you are wrong
10. Give her space (don't be clingy)
11. In public, put your hand on the small of her back
12. Chip in on prep, cooking, and cleaning up of a meal
13. Share your food with your lady
14. Make it a habit of being present
15. Wear grey sweatpants
I agree with all 15. Being cared for does it for me. I went on a date to a amusement park and he pick me up, put me in the ride and made sure I was safely strapped in before he did it for himself. I fell in LOVE. I've never seen anyone do that except a parent.
Nice !!
AWESOME
I tried the coffee thing. I put on a nice watch as you recommended and brought her a morning coffee in bed. She was furious! She started screaming and yelling then chased me out of the house with a cast iron frying pan...
Apparently this only works on women who know you.
Hahaha
🤦🏻♂️😂😂😂
😂😂
Thanks for the laugh🤣
😂😂 You’re supposed to set the coffee down on the nightstand, not in the bed where you spill it all over her. Pro tip: watch/ask how she makes her coffee so you can make it the same way
As a married man, these are straight gems that my wife will definitely benefit from. Thanks, OG!
Never apologize to women, even if you did wrong.
@@moisterxxx
Use Your Pimp ✋Hand
When Needed.
Wait a minute when you fuck up you acknowledge it like a man u apologize and leave at her move get on ur hog or super sport and take off for while
@@doejohnathon3487
You never wrong in front of a woman, if you are - you will lose respect forever - Yes maybe that's childish to act like that but that's the only thing that will keep you important in her eyes, real men or nice men, are left behind broken and used.
@@moisterxxx What?
Jeff,
Also a ladies finds attractive when he is health conscious and shows that he is interested in hers as well.
Appreciate the input!
Bingo
Yes definitely
@61gisele Thank you for the word correction.
Definitely
As a Senior Citizen & Widow after almost 30 years of marriage, I find your Channel Jeff on point in directing Men to be mature in several aspects of life. Women are also attracted to Men who are honestly grounded in their relationship with God.
Appreciate you Beatrice!
Beatrice You seem to be Ageless IF You're a Senior Citizen.
Which god?
Scott Stevens, there's no need to choose which one as there is only one.
Definitely on track with intelligence. Nothing is sexier than a man who can converse intelligently about many topics! Also taking time to continue pursuing hobbies it’s very attractive. Shows dedication, consistency, and gives a couple something to talk about. Great video!
Appreciate the input Nicole !
how much does it help to try to look smart with glasses, but not be able to live up to the image in conversation?
@@louiscyfer6944 probably not much once that conversation starts 😂 but perception is reality!
@@mann8098 perception is not reality.
Excellent comment, sis.
Yes yes yes and yes. Also, when a man holds the woman’s hand when he takes her to the bedroom or just out in public.
Appreciate the input Lisa!
Holding eye contact when holding a conversation, and putting his phone away(or face down). It's a subtle way of showing he is considerate and engaged. A man can go from "meh" 😒 to "I can't wait to see him again"😍
And share dessert!
Appreciate the input Marie !
Sounds About Right
I agree with putting his phone away but definitely not face down.
I do the eye contact thing all the time, I have oddly light brown eyes for a pacific islander who can Easily pass for a black/brown guy with straight hair just because I have a heavy Brooklyn, NY accent, I know women love it so I be like ->👀👁️ 😆
@@johnnyblaze2257 Lol you have an advantage😄
Man, I'm 41 and now learning these things and checking up on your other videos. Thanks for the knowledge brother. It's changing my life for the better, one day at the time.
No problem!
Good information,Sir! The touching of the small of the back, sharing the food hit it and being present 🤩
Thanks TaNisha!
Wow! We are 43 Strong. You hit this Out of Park from the 1st example of the man being present in a room full of people while catching each others eyes with a subtle smile or wink as he walks through the room . Trust and believe he's definitely gonna get that call it a night kind of love❤. The whole look book is On Point . Thanks for the shout out Jeff to us ladies. Be Blessed
My answer is based on the man that is mine.
Be careful with the “absence.” Too much of it leads to “Out of sight, out of mind.”
Only with people who were never really into in the first place.
Agreed. This is from a woman.
Ha, ha, ha....or give her an inch and she is gone a mile.
Oh man, with 1.5x speed the vids are perfect now. Good info, man.
I listen on 2X
Definitely on point!! We as women love the attention of our men in every situation!!! So......Salute to you Jeff!
Salute!
All of these were on point and made me all warm and cheery, but I definitely can't stop smiling at the last one, got us all figured out lol!
This might be one of the most rock solid lists to date!
Appreciate that!
I can do all you said except share my food. If the girl likes what I'm eating, I will order it for her. When I see a meal I like, I'm mentally prepared to enjoy every bite of it. I can not divide my happiness, but I can help my woman experience the same thing by ordering her what I'm enjoying. No men enjoys sharing his food, so if you find one, stay with him coz he loves you a lot.
Hi Jeff! Those were all great. I’ve never given much thought to a man wearing a watch, very good point. I’d like to add to the list, being passionate about something. Whether it’s work, a hobby, cars, clothes, or food, have something that makes you excited, and share it with your lady. I love for a man to share his intimate knowledge about a subject, and to see the spark that it puts in his eyes.
Appreciate the input Rhonda !
I love Jesus,Mom, Bro SiS and Boxing
Omg you hit it on the nail... eye contact while distant, being a great father, helping with household chores (just the initiative) 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Appreciate the input Diamond!
Being a great father is something women have a hand at too. A father raises his kids, but many of these women are not great mothers and men have to help raise them as well.
,
Some women get used to this and take him for granted and the man doesn't feel appreciated.
@@sgtbrownty true!
Nothing is more appealing when a man can converse who's well rounded ,keeps a clean home,very considerate and especially who extremely neutering..being able to cook is just an added bonus. Great list bro ❤
Thanks Sis !
Yesssss
"Crazy" by The Product G&B
Well done! One more... Let your lady know you value and respect her opinion. "That's a good thought", "I value your opinion", "I appreciate you saying that"
Thanks!
Thanks Georgette2015
Such a turn on!!
I agree with this list. I’d also add- Guys Who Are Nice To Animals. Guys In Suspenders (Think Christian Bale on American Psycho, Patrick Swayze on Ghost) Guys Who Are Good Dancers. Guys In White Tank Tops (Think David Boreanaz on Angel or Buffy) Guys Who Play An Instrument Or Sing. Guys Who Can Fix Things.
Definitely the fixing things part...
This is a really sharp look thar playa. Saaaaalute !
Salute Curtis !
I bet you he is not wearing pants 🤣
@@Ainimeshorts 😂😂 the work from home uniform
Facts. @The Style O.G. that color suit with that shirt and tie is 🔥
@@Ainimeshorts lmao
Once again Jeff your subtle suggestions are making impactful waves for the men that are thriving to improve their character and content. Salute Sir!!
Salute Ronald!
Great tips bruh!
One other tip is being able to make a woman laugh. Laughter tends to allow women to be more of themselves without having their guards up all the time. It's been my golden rule and has worked 99.9% of the time.
Nailed all of them! And, the gray sweatpants thing is true and I never thought about it before.
My wife told me she feels protected, when I lay my arm over her at night when we're sleeping.
I like it !
Kool
Oh yeah! That's a great feeling..👊
I agree with your wife✔️
@@TheStyleOG i like your youtube channel but not in love with anybody i hate black women
The Blue Theme is KILLER Jeff...SALUTE!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Salute!
Just got a new member to the party man I love the info brother need more like you unk
Salute!
I've been wearing glasses mostly my entire life. I've always gotten complimented by the ladies. It definitely gives off a certain look especially when I dress up.
Yes Sir !
Keep it up. Sexiness in motion
Another one of the 43 here... ALL of these! 👍🏼. But the hand in the small of the back? Oh yeah!! ❤️. And of course, the gray sweatpants. Works EVERY time! Fantastic job, OG! ❤️🙂👍🏼
Thanks as always for the feedback!
Thanks, keep dropping knowledge brother
Will do !
This topic and many of your topics are on point, a lot of the younger crowd will not understand the concept, and relationship rituals, many are not taught. they need to be tuning in to your channel. keep it up, i am always listening, still fine tuning my game, and I am a O.G. Kudos
Salute Anthony !
From one of the 43 😉: You're definitely on the right track. 👍 About the sweatpants - they're soft to the touch, they slide beautifully over a man's physique, and they're easier to remove.
Appreciate the insight Marcia !
You hit it! I love them. I bought my man black ones this winter because he won't wear gray, but I made sure that they were super soft, long enough (b/c 6'4" means truly long legs) and of course have pockets.
OH OK.
Thanks for your insights Ms. Bently
Appreciate the 43's input, thanks for keeping it 💯 with the brothas 😎
Hey Jeff! That suit and those glasses 🥰. Yes you are on 🔥 I love a man that is smart and can take the lead! Yes when he shares his food puts his hand the small of your back definitely a turn on. Your content is always great! Stay safe!
Hey, Sis!👍🏽
Thanks as always Tineshia!
@@aprilt.3868 hey sis!
The good dad thing is such a HUGE turn on for me. Men who genuinely love and enjoy their kids are so hot🔥. Cooking me a meal is a close second.
The apology thing is also huge especially if it's genuine and accompanied with changed behavior.
Great list per usual.
Thanks Marie !
Definitely
@Slim Sith it speaks to character. Most men who don't take care of their kids aren't good people in many other ways. Also, there are single fathers out there. 🤣 Attraction is unique for everyone no need to reduce it to judgement and name calling. Have a great week.
Great Job Jeff. I kmow that you talk to men but your videos also gives me as a lady a mirror to look into for self improvement and for my Boo. Thanks for all that you do. Be Blessed!!!
Ge, Jeff
And to add to ur heavy hitter list is that the ladies will also find most comforting and loving that he begins and ends his days & nights safely with her.
Be safe & stay healthy.☝
I appreciate the fair and accurate perspective ❤
Definitely on point and entertaining Jeff. These Gems are a no brainer when in a relationship. Teach and preach. Tradition and old fashion romance will never go out of style. 👏🏽👍🏽👑👔🎊
Thanks Jae !
I watch a lot of your videos and man oh man you really help expand my way of thinking. Iron sharpens iron and man sharpens man. I love being a sponge and soaking up all of this knowledge. Salute to you O.G.
Glad to help!
The bragging on her in public is huge. It goes both ways too. I know men love it too 💜
Indeed Kelly !
Yesssss
The list is on point, but the suit and tie and pocket square is on fire 🔥, great look O.G. It looks classy.
Thanks Clifton !
Tie game on P.O.I.N.T!! My favorite tip was sapiosexual....nothing like intelligence! SALUTE!!
Salute Danna !
Yes Indeed
Great tips Jeff, looking sharp, that tie is amazing!!! Take care mi amigo
Thanks Alfonso !
OG, OG, OG...all I can do is smile, I'm blushing from your questions and answers... Wow! when you put on those glasses I was finished... Anyway who is the lucky woman that tells you our secrets?
Have a woman that spills all the beans ! Lol
As I always say, your content when it comes to the ladies is always on point. Must be experience😏. Well done
Thanks Jadore !
I agree with all the points. Jeff one thing that is also a big turn on is having mature & intelligent social media behavior. I mean like not being so publicly & blatantly thirsty in the comments every time a woman posts a pic or a man posting very childish/immature things on his page. I’m currently not really on SM But when I used to be I remember seeing this quite often & it was like the nail in the coffin for any potential possibilities 🧐🧐🧐
Appreciate the input Michelle !
Dropping gems O.G an apology always gets me hugs and kisses salute!
Salute Dave !
as a women I agree with everything said even the pants bit. I would add: men who love and respect their mothers; men with a 3 day beard.
Appreciate the input!
Great as always, Jeff. I am thinking you may be the right person to talk to Melli Monaco before somebody gets hurt! You are the man.
Number 16...Don’t execute any of these things unless it’s genuinely because you want to.
I've made plenty of these mistakes in relationships. Especially the
"be present" one. Good stuff brother I wasnt even gonna watch. Thought I knew it all lol. Style O.G does it again
My man !
What up my bro Og. You just keep putting out the powerful videos My G. So much great advice for free. Salute my friend.
Salute my friend !
I am very new to your channel and I give you a 10 out of 10. All of the topics were dead on especially guiding a women in the room with your hand. That is definitely my weakness. Keep up the good work. I’m learning a lot from your channel.
Salute from Detroit! Love the channel!
Salute Andrew!
I have the same color and style of suit ! I wore a red- blue argyle pattern tie like yours with a white straight colour shirt and of course a white picket square !!!
Sweet Donnie !
1) I had to rewind when the Style OG put on those glasses 👓 lol. Seriously, once again he is spot on.....I won’t list any, because they all were great! I gotta make sure all men I know subscribe to this channel
Appreciate the feedback!
EXACTLY 👍❤
Great video. I have learned these through trial and error on my journey to become the best me. One thing I always try to do is "be the sunlight in my woman's universe." Keep bringing these tight videos for the gentlemen Sir! Oh and that suit combo is proper!
Appreciate you Shawn !
Small of the back thing, definitely! Being present!!!
Let em know !
I appreciate you saying that, Bonny.. That helps.
As a woman “absolutely”!!! ❤️❤️
I love it
I completely agree on the helping out on the cleaning and preparing. Strangely I am currently with a woman who doesn't want me anywhere near our kitchen when she's cooking. She has an existing system which she doesn't want me interfering or ruining.
appreciate the input!
Another great video Jeff! My wife loves when I have my hand on the small of her back. She feels protected. I think another turn on is when men show their faith in God in numerous ways including praying over a meal for example. It shows vulnerability and strength at the same time.
Appreciate the input Joseph !
Never thought of prayer that way. Seeing it as two contrasting elements. Makes a lot of sense.
Interesting
Everything you mentioned requires a man to be confident in himself. Being able to appear by her side in a crowded room and her knowing your scent is awesome.
You’re speaking true facts, Jeff! One huge turn on is a positive, optimistic guy. There’s this guy that likes me. He’s a cool dude, but a HUGE PESSIMIST! He complains or finds the negative in just about EVERYTHING! It’s hella annoying and is one of the things that keep me from giving him a chance. To see a man that can keep his cool and chooses the positive road is very attractive.
appreciate the feedback!
This is so brilliant, thank you for helping me learn a few more important facts of life today...#Salute.
I enjoy your videos! I like how you do what you do. A nice suit, clean shoes, along with a pair of socks with an unexpected pattern and/or color is a turn on for some. Agreed! The “attach at the hip” thing is not cool. And, when you make a phone call, lead the exchange. Don’t expect the person you are calling to “carry” the call initiated by you. Good day, Ya’ll!
Appreciate the input Gwendolyn!
Hey, Sis! 👍🏽
Great video and nice fitting jacket. You are underrated sir. 500k subs are just around the corner. Keep up the excellent work!
I appreciate that!
Bottom line fellas when you're with your lady give her your undivided attention ! Great advice jeff !
Thanks Mark !
LOL! Seriously? This is the No1 thing to avoid as per all the dating coaches. A man has to have a purpose in his life and has to give his undivided attention to his activities, particularly his professional ones. The woman, even the woman of his life let alone any random girlfriend, has to be a compliment but not the focus. Giving a woman your undivided attention is one of the main factors of lost attraction. Women do not like men who give them full attention precisely because that signals weakness and a lower prospect for success. Women want you to do your thing, to be successful and them to cling along the way enjoying your success. Women are cheerleaders, men are footballers. A footballer won't give much attention to cheerleaders, he has his game to play.
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Your points couldn't be more spot on
Appreciate the feedback Crystal !
Oh wow. Tie game on fleek. 👍🏽
Thanks David !
Mannnn!!! When you put those glasses on!! Good God from Zion! You took your sexiness to a whole other level. Woo! I agree with the apology. Most men will buy flowers or other gifts to apologize instead actually verbally apologizing. Great tips HQOG! Great video as always. I think that it is absolutely charming that you will actually help your lady with prepping and cooking. Priceless
Hey, Sis! 👍🏽
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Appreciate the input as always Gail !
@@TheStyleOG you are welcome, as always. Keep up the great work.😊
A clean house is the "1st" turn on and a man who systematically cleans up with you to keep the house medically clean!!!!!!!!
Good one !
Yessssss Jefff we here watching you. Your videos are always 💯💯💯💯. We love it when you put your phone down and have a conversation with us.🎉🎉
Thanks Queen !
@@TheStyleOG I keep telling you your best color is blueeeee💙💙💙💙💙
Well manicured hands go very nicely with a sexy watch.
Tell em April !
Yesssss and also hands that Doesn't feel like course Sandpaper
One of the first things I notice on a man.
I’ve been trying to bring men into my salon to have their hands and feet tightened up. I’ve even run specials, but they just haven’t taken advantage of them. Oh, how they underestimate.
@@gymeni Do a video of a few men 2 or 3 for a Demo. It might be great if it was somebody who is popular as person, friend or family member. Ijs . That you're not completely out of option. Be Blessed
Can you start putting time stamp or the list of what's in the video in the description?
Nah, l think already work hard enough..
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I’m one of the 43 ladies! As always you look sharp, especially in that blue blazer, shirt, and tie. Very handsome!
In terms Of the tips, I agree 100%. I love men who are confident and who show authority. A man who reads, fixed something in my home, pumps my gas, and keeps a calm demeanor in the face of chaos, is a huge turn on.
Appreciate the input TJ!
Heyyy Jeff #44 here checking in!🤣🤣I love it!!
Salute 44 !!
Tell her this: I heard you’re good at algebra - Could you replace my X without asking Y?
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Tell her "If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put "U" and "I" together."
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Wear glasses if you really wear glasses or contacts not to look studious. "Ain't no future in yo frontin". That's a turn off. Yes, we love a man that wear a watch and we love men who are true watch connoisseurs even more. I've gifted wood, engraved watches to a couple of my male friends. Addition to bringing us coffee in the morning, the fact that you're up EARLY before us is a turn on in itself. Being raised by two kings, being a great father brings you to the top of the list as far as I'm concerned. Again, another GREAT video Jeff. Keep up the good work!
My deep voice .... enough said
I love your channel! Always thorough research. Your presentations are thought provoking and mature and you set a standard with your attire. I as a woman, am never disappointed. As a retired Navy Chief.. Salute Sir!
Salute Mimi!
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Great list don't forget Grilling and being a handy man around the house
That too !
Well I'm out...
As a woman , being a handy man @ home is definite a turn on !! ❤️❤️
Everything you said was all facts. 💯💯💯👌🏾. That suit is 🔥
Much like men who are mesmerized watching a woman apply her lipstick, I like to watch a man shave his face...very intimate and often leads to other things..
Great one Yolanda! Definitely should have been on the list
If you had enough additional suggestions would you consider doing a part 2 video? And maybe a video on little known ways men show interest in a woman?
@Yolonda Logan Facial hair grooming is near the top of my list, too!
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Great Video as always!!! Love the tie I'm telling you if you get enough ladies in here you can start a dating site!
Ha !
Ok I'm down
Nice teeth and good breath are a turn on. Straight, white teeth are sexy. Punctuality, attention to detail, and planners with great follow-through are attributes I find attractive in men. Finally, men who are intelligent, possess mechanical, or carpentry skills are keepers.
Thanks for the input Dawn !
I feel into that old school sitting in the living while my girlfriend cooked. After a few times of dirty looks that I didn’t understand, she said you know you can come help prep dinner, I worked all day too. That hit home. As little as opening cans, microwaving something, getting items out of the refrigerator or basically just offering to help can go a long way. And she will notice you getting up from your show or off your phone to help!
Indeed Jason !
I was in the middle of your beckett simonon joint when I got the call for this vid…
My man Mook ! What’s good ?
Yeah they are Nice shoes
OG like always great content. You are the Life OG!! My uncle and aunt have been together for 30+ years and share the same plate of food.
I love it !
I've used a lot of advice you give, so I know it's good. Especially about apologizing. Even if you are always right apologizing shows you can humble yourself and not be pompous. And like I always say, If you want the glory you got to be willing to take the blame.
Indeed !
Hey Jeff! I like your dating and relationship perspective. I have to say I really like the idea of making eyes with my love across a room. Especially since I am preoccupied trying to work a room, I'd be more inclined to slow down and concentrate on having a great time with my sweetheart.💕
I'm hoping to get to know my boyfriend's family a lot better. I'd really be flattered if he bragged on me at some upcoming events.💕
My baby brought my morning coffee on a day where I had a really busy to-do list and I just bragged to no end about his thoughtfulness. I just thought this gesture was so sweet. He scored major points especially since we were early in the dating part of the relationship. 💕
I can't wait to turn heads with my beau at some upcoming events as I am admittedly a bit of a showstopper. How wonderful I'd find the change of pace in having him to guide our movement through the venues. Ahhh!
Appreciate the input Shakira !
You nailed it!!!
Thanks Robyn !
This guy page is full of gyms already got a like and comment keep working
Not just yoga pants and leggings but the Sundress too LOL
Love the sundress !
Thank you for the compliments ❤
Jeff I love your background music as well. Keep Shining!!!
Summary guy:
1. Can’t her eye from across the room at an event
2. Outward displays of intelligence.
3. Wear some regular glasses.
4. Take life’s ups and downs with stride. Don’t panic
5. Wear a watch.
6. Brag about her to your family and friends.
7. Bring her a cup of coffee in the morning.
8. Be a good dad.
9. Not having a problem apologizing when you’re wrong.
10. Give her some space.
11. Gently put your hand on the small of her back and direct her.
12. Chip in on the prepping, cooking, and cleaning up of meals.
13. Share your food with her.
14. Make a habit of being present.
15. They love us in grey sweatpants.
Man! You are on-point on this topic, Style O.G.!
Thanks Kenneth!
Coffee ☕️ ❤️
Yup !
I have never commented on here but it’s been very informative and have given me some great ideas ( and thank you so much ! ) for the best gift ideas for a man out here today, oh yes my brother we ARE watching .
Appreciate you Christina !