WHY SUCCESS Comes From MASTERING Your DARK SIDE | Robert Greene & Lewis Howes

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  • @QuietlyMagnetic
    @QuietlyMagnetic 4 роки тому +2666

    “In your actions, don’t procrastinate. In your conversations, don’t confuse. In your thoughts, don’t wander. In your soul, don’t be passive or aggressive. In your life, don’t be all about business.” - Marcus Aurelius

    • @sammiller9540
      @sammiller9540 4 роки тому +36

      This is so true and relevant even more than ever today

    • @obiedashinobi1322
      @obiedashinobi1322 4 роки тому +19

      Preach

    • @strikingitrich7630
      @strikingitrich7630 4 роки тому +4

      nice

    • @Ocatoe369HS
      @Ocatoe369HS 4 роки тому +16

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    • @timothybrown585
      @timothybrown585 4 роки тому +51

      @@Ocatoe369HS To me, this just basically breaks down to: don't be afraid to be YOU! The original, authentic YOU, untainted and unjaded(red underline, so I assume I made that word up?) and unafraid.
      Procrastination comes from doubt of what you originally instinctively decided through the computing powers of your nervous system was the correct next move.
      Confusion, which can be contagious and often is, comes from illusions. There are myriad illusions which can be deceptions if we don't sift the true from the rest. Do you know what deceptions are?
      [It was rhetorical. If we knew deceptions, they wouldn't be correctly called deceptions would they?] So again, the supercomputer that is at your disposal and allows interpretation of this condition one finds oneself in is the only thing that can pick the correct path from the infinite paths one could take(for THAT ONE!)
      Wandering thoughts arise when we try to pontificate on matters that are none of our business as individual Navigators of this condition. We can only decide on an individual level. Past that, the waters muddy or bloody into chaos wilderness beyond our scope of ability to pathfind.
      Being soul -passive/-aggressive happens when we stray from our soul's intended seat, which is at the "center", so to speak, of one's being.
      And don't get me started on busyness. I try not to know it. I am turned away from it naturally. Mostly because it just sounds dull, boring, etc. Like a rigid system without much purpose in a constantly changing existence, haha.
      If I rambled without making much sense, I might have pontificated this whole reply up. If that is the case, ignore it as best you can and move on. I am not, not was I ever, a pontiff. I'm just Timothy and thought writing down these thoughts was the next right thing, so I went with it.... ♋✌️

  • @brodiebabin4747
    @brodiebabin4747 3 роки тому +512

    "Power is only given to those who willing to lower themselves to pick it up."
    -Ragnar Lothbrok

    • @brandonhamersma5294
      @brandonhamersma5294 3 роки тому +10

      What attracts the worst and corrupts the best?

    • @YOSOYAKBAL
      @YOSOYAKBAL 3 роки тому

      Ragnar!!!

    • @iamwhoiam7410
      @iamwhoiam7410 3 роки тому

      Love this

    • @mounelove4378
      @mounelove4378 2 роки тому

      Ragnar …

    • @suzanablaze3297
      @suzanablaze3297 2 роки тому +9

      the full quote “Power is dangerous. It corrupts the best and attracts the worst. Power is only given to those who are prepared to lower themselves to pick it up.” It is similar to a quote by Fyodor Dostoevsky "Power is given only to those who dare to lower themselves and pick it up. Only one thing matters, one thing; to be able to dare!"

  • @ArifinACI
    @ArifinACI 4 роки тому +895

    Insights:
    1. Confront your darkest fear & be comfortable with it.
    2. Actually fear of failure is not that much bad, it keeps you alert, focused & become grounded.
    3. Channel you horrible past, past failures & pain to something meaningful & significant & use that energy for which you are born to create.
    4. Use your strong emotions as a greatest source of motivation.
    5. The greatest regret is realizing not achieving your full potential. Wake up & do your work before it is too late.
    6. You are obsessed by yourself so much that you are not paying close attention to what others people are saying. To become an empathetic listener, go on to other people’s head & find their stories interesting rather than your own.
    7. You should never allow success go on to your head. Repetitive success makes you arrogant & overconfident. You may lose all of your achievements in a single blow next time. So, FAILURE is good.
    Robert Greene is one of the most powerful & influential philosopher & psychologist of modern times. Good to see he is recovering from his stroke. We are eagerly waiting for his next book, “The Law of Sublime”.

  • @sagebreezy
    @sagebreezy 3 роки тому +361

    His mind is beautiful, May God grant him health to live for decades.

    • @nogoogle6349
      @nogoogle6349 3 роки тому +4

      That's LAW 48

    • @nihilism6226
      @nihilism6226 3 роки тому +2

      Just Rose He already had a stroke, 10 years and he's gone into eternal nonexistence!!

    • @lukehood5546
      @lukehood5546 3 роки тому +5

      Why not several centuries

    • @GODSSON365247
      @GODSSON365247 3 роки тому

      @@lukehood5546 lol

    • @Germanicus_Daimetor
      @Germanicus_Daimetor 3 роки тому +6

      Amen!!! Amen!!! Robert goes beyond barriers!! His knowledge has blessed so many with the wisdom of the ages!

  • @belleshear5483
    @belleshear5483 4 роки тому +177

    He is so decent.. you'd think he'd be hard to deal with after reading his books, but decency with awareness shows mastery of one's self.

    • @otumisundiata1426
      @otumisundiata1426 3 роки тому

      He is dark by nature ..most of his kind are.. sick.. sadistic...to control his blood thirst😈 demonic behavior ..I wonder does he beat himself..or stay deep in the woods...far from hue-mans...you know man->kind..savAGES

    • @patricklim4314
      @patricklim4314 3 роки тому +14

      @@otumisundiata1426 what’s wrong with u or what are u on?

    • @l.w.paradis2108
      @l.w.paradis2108 3 роки тому +12

      @@patricklim4314 What a shame that when someone makes a nice, reflective comment, someone really crazed come along and posts this. Happens a lot.

    • @l.w.paradis2108
      @l.w.paradis2108 3 роки тому +2

      @C Rode Yeah, the OP was nice.
      Or was that confusing? Now that's really 😂. Er . . .

  • @keithshowell6688
    @keithshowell6688 3 роки тому +122

    Greene is as prolific an author as a James Patterson, Nora Roberts, or Stephen King. He is a "guru" but doesn't even realize it! Humility is priceless. Thanks Lewis for having his story of survival show us how he lives what he "preaches" and teaches.

  • @alexisidro
    @alexisidro 3 роки тому +62

    “Defeat and failure are the greatest things that can happen to you.” Damn 🔥

  • @kaushu42
    @kaushu42 3 роки тому +228

    I don't know if its only me, but I connected with almost everything Robert said. Inspired me to make changes in my life. Hope everyone who wants a change in their lives makes that change too. Peace to everyone out there.

    • @lindabishop8095
      @lindabishop8095 3 роки тому

      🕯Peace & Love to you also🌹

    • @AngelaNPerez-su9sg
      @AngelaNPerez-su9sg 3 роки тому +2

      You are right, I feel thesame way . Mr. Green has a brilliant mind. I hope God give him many more years for he to recuperate complete and keep helping the humanity with his great books. God bless him, his family and all of us. 🙏

    • @carsonhunt4642
      @carsonhunt4642 2 роки тому

      This interviewer was honestly terrible, quite apparent he did a quick research on Greene and didn’t even read the book. Oh u have 2 cats? Oh I have no idea what the first law is..
      Not much chemistry, I recommend checking out other interviews, ones he did with a guy named Barry are fantastic

    • @millymilly8097
      @millymilly8097 2 роки тому

      We all connected bc he speaks the TRUTH!

    • @TrietLyCuocSongGSH
      @TrietLyCuocSongGSH 10 місяців тому

      I really enjoy listening to your comments. It's truly amazing and you are truly the most inspiring person I have ever met.

  • @sidra5512
    @sidra5512 4 роки тому +314

    I also love that Lewis listens patiently as a student and that he does not interrupt Robert's thought process. I think that's one of the best qualities of a great interviewer and also Lewis has a very pleasant demeanor and has a smiley face so that's always a plus :)

    • @vedasultenfuss7473
      @vedasultenfuss7473 4 роки тому +10

      I agree. Lewis is a genuine guy and it shows!

    • @vixenxiiiv
      @vixenxiiiv 4 роки тому +3

      Yes I agree! Love that he’s patient!!

    • @panthershakti2911
      @panthershakti2911 3 роки тому +12

      a non-interrupting interviewer is a rare and wondrous thing.

    • @claudiofreitas910
      @claudiofreitas910 3 роки тому +5

      Besides he diligently takes notes. I admire a guy like that.

    • @rileysdimension7843
      @rileysdimension7843 3 роки тому +2

      @@panthershakti2911 yeah ,he has improved...in previous videos he would interrupt the people he's interviewing.This is certainly a massive improvement.

  • @O1Sigma
    @O1Sigma 3 роки тому +170

    I used to turn off this “forbidden” side of me because I thought it was so unrighteous but when I think about the times I had my greatest successes it was when I was feeling my darkest. At times I had to even create an enemy in my mind when I didn’t have one to pull this energy from. This is one of the best interviews I’ve ever watched.

    • @TaureanDreams
      @TaureanDreams 3 роки тому +14

      I agree! I do best in competition, but everything is not competition so I have to creat a mental one!

    • @fathimairfan7254
      @fathimairfan7254 Рік тому +4

      I felt guilty the way I felt now I embrace it

  • @MindNow
    @MindNow 4 роки тому +571

    *Your dark side is a PART of you. Don’t learn to avoid them or get rid of them, but learn to live ABOVE them. Let them teach and guide u from time to time* 🙏

    • @Grace8381
      @Grace8381 4 роки тому +14

      I would add, Learn to observe it 😊

    • @anastasiyahay6584
      @anastasiyahay6584 4 роки тому +1

      P

    • @obiedashinobi1322
      @obiedashinobi1322 4 роки тому +4

      Stay powerful

    • @obiedashinobi1322
      @obiedashinobi1322 4 роки тому

      @Augustine Twumasi Same

    • @JohnMonyjok
      @JohnMonyjok 3 роки тому +4

      I agree. One thing I know is that no matter what we know, we always do that which we are able to do. But learning is part of life, so let's keep learning and teaching others.

  • @Benji-if5iz
    @Benji-if5iz 3 роки тому +73

    14:20 Is so powerful because on July 2020 was the day I wanted to chase success instead of doing nothing with my life, and it's all because I became self aware of my surroundings. I gave up on blaming people, God, and things that were out of my control. Victim mentality is what stopped me from enjoying life and seeking success.

    • @sgm6603
      @sgm6603 2 роки тому

      That is huge. Thank you. I will try this.

    • @TrietLyCuocSongGSH
      @TrietLyCuocSongGSH 10 місяців тому

      I really enjoy listening to your comments. It's truly amazing and you are truly the most inspiring person I have ever met.

  • @gracegiles5462
    @gracegiles5462 4 роки тому +521

    Robert Greene is such a gift to humankind. His wife was there with him when he had his stroke, because his work is not done.

  • @Hosamo7
    @Hosamo7 3 роки тому +35

    " The best skill to have is to be able to get inside the minds of other people, if you develop that skill, nothing will ever stop you"
    This is going to be my motto for the next 12 months

    • @Curtis.Carpenter
      @Curtis.Carpenter 3 роки тому +1

      that is a great motto my friend, i hope you achieve all that your after. this year is sink or swim for us all. and i know were going to rech the otherside.

    • @jasonvoorhees1316
      @jasonvoorhees1316 3 роки тому

      Have you ever wanted someone else inside of your mind?

    • @Hosamo7
      @Hosamo7 3 роки тому +1

      @@jasonvoorhees1316
      If he is pressing the right buttons, sure I want. Now days, You rarely find people who listens carefully to what you are saying.

    • @TrietLyCuocSongGSH
      @TrietLyCuocSongGSH 10 місяців тому

      I really enjoy listening to your comments. It's truly amazing and you are truly the most inspiring person I have ever met.

  • @tonycrown8744
    @tonycrown8744 4 роки тому +326

    Robert Greene's books completely changed my life. I went from being completely down and out to having some real success in the music and wine industry... the advice in his books are no joke. Also this is an awesome podcast. Thank you!

    • @Karen-nq4ob
      @Karen-nq4ob 3 роки тому +13

      Me too Tony! It gave me my life back! (hug)

    • @kimbadull6448
      @kimbadull6448 3 роки тому +9

      Which ones would you recommend someone to start with? And does listening or reading better? I have a feeling this mans work could lead me out of my stuff too. I have been following Jordan Peterson, but Robert is talking to my desire to live in my empathy in order to be in alignment in my life. Have been having a hard time finding it consistently.

    • @kimbadull6448
      @kimbadull6448 3 роки тому +1

      💜

    • @mile3018
      @mile3018 3 роки тому +3

      Damn, it sounds like I need to dig into this guy's work.

    • @chanuppuluri8726
      @chanuppuluri8726 3 роки тому +8

      The advice in his books hurt my soul. :-/
      Good luck to the rest of you if his words are speaking to you.

  • @yaswanthreddy2623
    @yaswanthreddy2623 2 роки тому +85

    Timestamps for me to look after best lines.
    8:00 repetitions
    11:20
    21:10 failures
    27:00 - 30:55 repressing emotions
    31:00 - Robert Greene's favorite law pre-stroke from his book
    38:45 - Greene's favorite law post-stroke
    45:25 way of improving
    46:20 Greene's favorite law from laws of nature (darkside)

    • @mohanor2044
      @mohanor2044 2 роки тому +2

      This man's books are life changing about how to interact with people

    • @erinsaford8374
      @erinsaford8374 2 роки тому

    • @TrietLyCuocSongGSH
      @TrietLyCuocSongGSH 10 місяців тому +1

      I really enjoy listening to your comments. It's truly amazing and you are truly the most inspiring person I have ever met.

  • @sarah29880
    @sarah29880 4 роки тому +362

    Thus guy is speaking from his heart; he is raw and real. This talk is helping me through a lot right now. Thanks Lewis, I can’t wait to listen to his books.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  4 роки тому +17

      🙏❤️

    • @alanbregovic8889
      @alanbregovic8889 4 роки тому +11

      any of his books are great --- maybe laws of human nature would be best start---enjoy

    • @sarah29880
      @sarah29880 4 роки тому +4

      @@alanbregovic8889 thank ya, that is where I will start. 💕

    • @dani_lbrl8253
      @dani_lbrl8253 4 роки тому +1

      I feel you :)

    • @timothybrown585
      @timothybrown585 4 роки тому +7

      He sounds like someone who has learned these things from personal experience, which is I think why he sounds so genuine and can speak with authority on these matters.
      I don't know the guy and I don't know his past or anything like that but it's just the overall feeling I get from him. He has helped me through some things as well.
      I've only read his books before today. Seeing and hearing him speak is showing me his humanity that I have to say I questioned when I read 48 Laws of Power way back maybe 12 years ago.
      I think it was the forward or something like that, pre-chapter 1 I think, that said something like if you aren't looking to gain more power, you're lying to yourself. Power is the name of the game and all-important in the conscious journey we find ourselves in.
      Back then, my ego rejected this notion and I probably judged his worldview(never claimed sainthood, haha.) Over time I think I began to see what he was saying more, but tonight, I feel I understand with much greater clarity.
      ...But it might be my ego again... That guy's a real pain in my ass at times... If y'all see him around here anywhere, kindly let me know so I can chase him off. But don't be too harsh/judgey when informing me of his presence. He feeds on that shit too. Smh.
      One is these days, I will transcend that fragile, fickle, fair-weather f(r)iend.

  • @belindaoleary4000
    @belindaoleary4000 3 роки тому +70

    I've realised all my best teachers are men ..An awakened man is such a blessing to humanity .It doesn't seem to come naturally for men to seek truth and wisdom but when they do ..Wow !!! 🙏

    • @MmmMulholland
      @MmmMulholland 3 роки тому +11

      Mine too. However, I realised this can put a woman in her masculine which is not a good place to be.

    • @stevewoodson4635
      @stevewoodson4635 3 роки тому +2

      Genesis 1:26-28&2:22-25
      Psalm 45:9-14
      Revelation 12:1;2
      Second John 5

    • @iknowwhatsup2880
      @iknowwhatsup2880 3 роки тому

      Very perceptive.

    • @kevindinsmore2556
      @kevindinsmore2556 3 роки тому +1

      You obviously don't see the irony in your statement.

  • @denisegagner2887
    @denisegagner2887 4 роки тому +173

    I have a saying, I've used it for years ... "If this is the worst thing that happens today it will be a great day." It puts things into perspective.

    • @roula5656
      @roula5656 3 роки тому +3

      This is a great perspective, thank you

    • @Phoe8D
      @Phoe8D 3 роки тому

      True - except if it’s used to undermine feelings of stress because it could be worse! 😌

    • @lewisgivner1951
      @lewisgivner1951 3 роки тому

      Ok

  • @sonyaagibson
    @sonyaagibson 3 роки тому +51

    Robert Greene is a brilliant writer of our time. I love the laws of human nature!!!

  • @susampson278
    @susampson278 4 роки тому +1040

    46:24 Dark side starts

    • @Rawyalty220
      @Rawyalty220 3 роки тому +42

      Thanks

    • @NEWARK767
      @NEWARK767 3 роки тому +19

      👍🏼

    • @byronroberts2720
      @byronroberts2720 3 роки тому +134

      Its people like you I love and appreciate in this active life.

    • @breadbobsarmy
      @breadbobsarmy 3 роки тому +10

      Lol thank you so much... saw this right in time

    • @conor3000
      @conor3000 3 роки тому +9

      Thanks Su. Im here for the dark side

  • @CarcPazu
    @CarcPazu 3 роки тому +60

    I feel this interview has instantly changed my life. I've started reading his book The 48 Laws of Power after watching this and I haven't read a book in 30 years.

    • @taydavies9971
      @taydavies9971 3 роки тому

      How was it?

    • @MyrnaDeJesus
      @MyrnaDeJesus 3 роки тому +1

      Wow. That amazing! Glad to hear you experienced such an impetus of inspiration.

    • @Gulfraz.
      @Gulfraz. Рік тому

      🙌
      Hope you have been able to overcome some of those negativities in your life

  • @goldensunflower229
    @goldensunflower229 3 роки тому +37

    I’ve just finally faced my dark side. I know what I am, and now I’m learning how to channel it in a positive and constructive manner instead of leaning into it and wreaking havocs. Good luck to everyone on their journey.

  • @briansmobile1
    @briansmobile1 3 роки тому +288

    12:00 ! This is so deep that most people won't catch it the first time. We say "attitude is everything" great, we see it's valuable. More valuable than that is recognizing what shapes our attitude in real time. This is how you nip massive setbacks in the bud BEFORE they can beset us and those around us.

    • @oharryc
      @oharryc 3 роки тому +3

      This is how human think, my friend

    • @Rompelstaump
      @Rompelstaump 3 роки тому +14

      @@user-xk6hr7bc5v - Maybe rewatch this video, but this time focus on the words only. If you really focus on the message then you'll realize that your anger is a personal choice.
      You manifest your reality. You chose to watch this video, but then you allowed yourself to write it off before you had the chance to truly understand what this man is saying.
      He is a famous writer of many successful books. I feel like every person has at least one thing that I can learn to enrich my own life. I just feel bad for lazy people who make excuses that allow themselves to be unhappy. We have only fear holding us back. Don't give into the lazy impulse to judge ideas before you take the time to put in the work to understand the finer details.

    • @eduardomartinez5045
      @eduardomartinez5045 3 роки тому

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    • @alexklug1856
      @alexklug1856 3 роки тому +4

      @@user-xk6hr7bc5v You make a good point. I'd consider myself in the majority of stupid humans with a college degree. However, I don't "truly" know you, so I'll take your word for it. To be fair, I'd be angry too if I was so sure everyone around me was a moron. It'd leave no one to even try and converse with. I'd pry just end up at home busy in the comment section of UA-cam, typing into the abyss.

    • @hellolori1
      @hellolori1 3 роки тому

      @@alexklug1856 !!!

  • @thescream1868
    @thescream1868 4 роки тому +15

    Robert Greene changed my life....I managed to put my life in a different direction thanks to the courage that slowly bottled up from exposing my self to this man's body of work....thank you Mr. Greene, you do not know how much I truly thank you for allowing me to understand my failures and why they happened. Thanks for allowing me to muster the bravery to follow my dreams. Long life to you.

    • @thescream1868
      @thescream1868 3 роки тому

      @@NathalieLazo thanks for the reply, altthough i must admit that reading the comment some months later id does read a bit overly dramatic...lol....but i still mean it!

  • @soficharmed
    @soficharmed 3 роки тому +74

    And as Yoda said to his dark side
    “You are a part of me but control over me you have not”

  • @rx6857
    @rx6857 4 роки тому +70

    I find Robert so relatable! He’s a realist.

    • @obiedashinobi1322
      @obiedashinobi1322 4 роки тому +2

      Real Spill

    • @Medietos
      @Medietos 3 роки тому

      Is he not something of a human-ethic and materialist, with the thought of us being animals,non-spiritual outlook? Someone who doesn't include spirit and the human being as its own kind (not a just a higher species of animal). Denying the human individual I and spirit is a black around his foot.

  • @boebrownly3124
    @boebrownly3124 3 роки тому +1

    I'm a Massive stroke survivor its been 12 yrs now! To God be the glory 🙏 🙌!! Im determined 🙏 to relearn everything on the opposite side of my brain!!! You keep pushing and do the best you can!!!

  • @YuchanLeo
    @YuchanLeo 4 роки тому +28

    I love Robert Greene. He changed my perspectives. And changing my life. I should be depressed after losing so many things this year, I’m finding peace and positivity cause I’ve met him 🙏🏼

  • @_mark_787
    @_mark_787 3 роки тому +21

    In architecture school, we used “sublime” for a design experience that’s beyond beautiful and perfectly simple.

  • @mikekaranja63
    @mikekaranja63 4 роки тому +24

    Breaks my heart to know that he was crying and in so much pain. Robert is a genuinely great guy and I am glad he found the strength to push on!

    • @crabkebab94
      @crabkebab94 4 роки тому +1

      Who's gonna carry the boats

    • @mikekaranja63
      @mikekaranja63 4 роки тому +1

      @@crabkebab94 and the logs!!!

  • @KingLoDaTruth
    @KingLoDaTruth 2 роки тому +4

    Law 16. Use absence to create respect and honor. Favorite Law

  • @vaidatwal6254
    @vaidatwal6254 4 роки тому +101

    Most influential author in my opinion after Friedrich Nietzsche, may god bless him with long life and we can get some more master piece of books.

    • @hypnotechno
      @hypnotechno 3 роки тому

      Amen

    • @iamk5686
      @iamk5686 3 роки тому

      He would be reincarnation I feel like if that were real

    • @ajaayshharrma03
      @ajaayshharrma03 3 роки тому

      Facts.

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 3 роки тому +4

      @@_.-c well, they teach us how to deal with our more primitive parts. Attraction between man and woman is dependent on this. Soul alone cannot induce sexual attraction. So indeed, he is right but also says that we need to be careful and evaluate carefully. So I can’t see where he should be “sick”

  • @ChanellaNisbett
    @ChanellaNisbett 3 роки тому +8

    Hearing him talk about his stroke and say that he's grateful to at least say that he celebrated the 2nd anniversary of his stroke rather than the 2nd anniversary of his death is so inspiring. A nice reminder to not take your situation, no matter how terrible it may seem to you, for granted.

  • @Detox_and_healing
    @Detox_and_healing 4 роки тому +33

    LOVE YOU!!! I had was assaulted in FEB and had a severe brain injury which ended my Muy Thai & athletic life !! I had the same attitude as you & healing great!~!!!

    • @kimbadull6448
      @kimbadull6448 3 роки тому

      💗💜✊

    • @Numantino312
      @Numantino312 3 роки тому

      hope you are making progress in your recovery and getting your skills/strength back
      for some mental food towards recovering, look up "Scott Cranmer, accident recovery" on here
      he's a pro bmxer who faceplanted something awful at a commercial shoot. he chronicles his recovery over period of two years. mt vs bmx are entirely different sports, but rebuilding smashed body from either is much the same

    • @mile3018
      @mile3018 3 роки тому

      They told DDP he wouldn't do half the stuff he willed himself back to. Here's to your health & recovery!

  • @JoeyBVerdida
    @JoeyBVerdida 3 роки тому +26

    "Failure taught me this. And success didn't teach me anything." ~ Robert Greene @00:19:45

    • @ShakeGee719
      @ShakeGee719 3 місяці тому

      I need to acknowledge this in everything that presents itself, more than I have.

  • @VanessaV1111
    @VanessaV1111 4 роки тому +346

    Just when I didnt think this channel could get any better, Robert Greene and a new book. I cant wait for the Law of Sublime. 🙏🕊🙏

  • @Blueskies1180
    @Blueskies1180 3 роки тому +73

    I wish I wish I wish....these thought leaders would do talks at High Schools, so many teens would do better in dealing with life if they heard this. I love love love love love Robert Greene, and his mentee Ryan Holiday...great writers! Thanks Lewis Howes, for all you do. Lots of love...❤️

    • @ashawango7881
      @ashawango7881 3 роки тому +2

      V true

    • @gwynethjones7323
      @gwynethjones7323 2 роки тому

      $ to support this good idea.

    • @kathygaskins7132
      @kathygaskins7132 2 роки тому

      Yessss, agreed. I just learned there's a young lady in her 20s writing a life guide book for navigating the 20s age range in today's times. I'm in my 50s but I'm def going to purchase when it arrives.

  • @millymilly8097
    @millymilly8097 4 роки тому +11

    Thank you for making the interview with the genius Robert Greene! He is so humble, well articulated encyclopedia... I’ve read all of his books and he has changed my life forever

  • @wisdomexcel3860
    @wisdomexcel3860 3 роки тому +9

    Robert Green has definitely been 1 of the most inspirational honest soul I've seen thus far.. and large credits to Lewis Howes for always asking precise questions that puts the interviewee on the spot of confession to give listeners the information that we are longing for!

  • @mandybuehler9471
    @mandybuehler9471 3 роки тому +34

    "This is the time not to sit and feel sorry for yourself now is the time to read books, increase your mind by watching videos."
    Me: Blinks real pretty at the screen so he can tell that's what I'm doing by watching this rn!

  • @fauxz3782
    @fauxz3782 3 роки тому +14

    Definitely my favorite author. I do wonder what his genuine personality is like. He is so aware of human nature and these laws, he could he putting a mask on whenever he does interviews. He is so genuine at the same time, he doesn't understand that he will go down in history as one of the greatest authors

    • @susampson278
      @susampson278 3 роки тому +2

      Greene himself would agree that personality is a mask. What mask you put on in any situation depends on your understanding of the situation, and how vulnerable you want to be in that situ.

  • @RajaRickin
    @RajaRickin 3 роки тому +6

    Society needs you Robert , you are valued and you will recover

  • @noahrorabaugh7085
    @noahrorabaugh7085 3 роки тому +2

    Go Robert Greene! I did not know he had a stroke..as he says transmuting negative to positive, it is profoundly powerful to see him in this state of simultaneous peace and determination following such a colossal and truly terrifying event. It works folks. A true inspiration to me, in writing and in speech, I am jealous of Lewis getting to sit down and have this REAL ASS CONVERSATION with him. Go Robert Greene!!

  • @jsabra89
    @jsabra89 3 роки тому +12

    Robert Greene is a master because he managed to combine story telling with purpose driven writing to achieve a goal or teach a lesson. He is a true genius.

    • @TrietLyCuocSongGSH
      @TrietLyCuocSongGSH 10 місяців тому

      I really enjoy listening to your comments. It's truly amazing and you are truly the most inspiring person I have ever met.

  • @Forgiveness55
    @Forgiveness55 3 роки тому +1

    Lewis.. Your a class act bro. Its your show/channel and you still show the ascended teacher great respect by taking notes. You listen more than you talk and thats just another reason your successful. Im takin notes from you Sir. Oh Roosevelt's battle with polio is the opitomy of " its not what happens to you, but rather how you react to what happens to you". He will be remembered in 200 years and yet he suffered great physical and emotional pain while toiling through this mortal plain.

  • @tanmay1123
    @tanmay1123 4 роки тому +154

    He is the greatest writer of this Century. Mark my words people

    • @biocykle
      @biocykle 4 роки тому +3

      so far

    • @tayshaedithroman8071
      @tayshaedithroman8071 3 роки тому +4

      Yes, He is!!!

    • @Medietos
      @Medietos 3 роки тому +1

      You don't know all there are maybe.He is good within the ordinary world or how to say it.

    • @dianamanning-squire4193
      @dianamanning-squire4193 3 роки тому +4

      “All the world’s a stage, and each must play his part” = a contemplation on each ones 7 stages of life, as mooted by Shakespeare.
      You may measure yourself against each stage - and I find it an empowering privilege to continue to do so - however, be mindful that COMPARATIVE JUDGEMENT is a deep well. Be grateful and happy that this writer mirrors what it is that your curious MIND wants to hear at this point in your journey 👍🙏👏.

    • @MattGarcyaDC
      @MattGarcyaDC 3 роки тому +1

      Honestly

  • @dembashow
    @dembashow 2 роки тому +1

    Robert is such a legend, by listen to him and observing the hard trauma he is been through you realize that your less tough traumas are overcomable.
    Lowis is such a humble and natural human being. He is really easy to talk to and you can see that.

  • @nickcortes686
    @nickcortes686 3 роки тому +5

    We must protect Robert at all costs,
    he is a National treasure, I’ve never in my life been more excited I am for a book than Sublime

  • @sourcingsrs
    @sourcingsrs 7 місяців тому +1

    Robert Green thanks! You are such an inspiration. Looking forward to sublime

  • @vasalexander5784
    @vasalexander5784 4 роки тому +6

    I lost weight with covid i was running every day.
    Robert Greene the best.
    Hopefully more interviews with Robert Greene will follow.

  • @komalk3796
    @komalk3796 3 роки тому +6

    He seems so real, candid and authentic. He is genuinely interested in getting to know the other person (in this case Lewis), so real!

  • @valeryvandersar-whatismy-y1538
    @valeryvandersar-whatismy-y1538 4 роки тому +39

    Your outcome in life is often created by your altitude. Learn to have an altitude of gratitude at all times

    • @collection6062
      @collection6062 3 роки тому +4

      what about your lattitude?

    • @quantumpotential7639
      @quantumpotential7639 3 роки тому +3

      Attitude determines ALTITUDE.

    • @I_know_it_I_sew_it_I_grow_it
      @I_know_it_I_sew_it_I_grow_it 3 роки тому +5

      I'm always really grateful when I'm high!😂

    • @l.w.paradis2108
      @l.w.paradis2108 3 роки тому

      Don't have any one attitude at all times. Unless you are a mullosk.

    • @accradata
      @accradata 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly brother. I find I'm most gracious at around 6,000 feet above sea level and thus usually the most positive outcome would be produced.

  • @ChroniclesOfEnlightenment
    @ChroniclesOfEnlightenment 3 роки тому +121

    “You underestimate the power of the dark side” - Vader

    • @oharryc
      @oharryc 3 роки тому +5

      Actually very true. Darth Vader was man destroyed by his emotions turned “dark side”. The fact that he was “good turned evil” only proves how we all automatically see success as emotionless.

  • @LoveMoneySecretsTV
    @LoveMoneySecretsTV 3 роки тому +3

    I Love that when Robert says "Obstacles are the path forward, nothing is going to stop you" at 15:07 That's a great distinction.

  • @Germanicus_Daimetor
    @Germanicus_Daimetor 3 роки тому +1

    Robert Greene has been an educator and an inspiration to millions! I want to thank the man personally! All of his books changed my life! I can say this with no bull shit Robert I love you!
    I don’t know you but I love you as a brother and a mentor! Good bless you and you’re a great man!

  • @marketingpessoal-aartedoco8948
    @marketingpessoal-aartedoco8948 3 роки тому +6

    RG is the epitome of charisma. He makes you feel like you´ve known him personally for years. Lewis Howes on his hand is a a great interviewers should be like: someone who makes you so confortable taking about yourself that you feel like complimenting him whilst being interviwed just like RG did in this video. Great work! Great work!

    • @stevewoodson4635
      @stevewoodson4635 3 роки тому

      Book of Judges, Joshua, exodus
      Deuteronomy, Mark, Acts, Ruth
      Daniel, Psalms, Galatians
      Ephesians first Corinthians
      First chronicles, james and Leviticus

  • @allsop91
    @allsop91 3 роки тому +30

    If Robert thinks he will be forgotten in 200 years he is VASTLY underestimating the power of his work. He is, without question, able to stand with the likes Miyamoto Musashi, Machiavelli, Sun Tzu etc.

    • @jimkeller3868
      @jimkeller3868 2 роки тому

      He is interesting and smart. But not nearly the caliber of the the men you mentioned in terms of influence and historical standing. The question is, will he be studied in academic settngs in 200 years, or 50 for that matter.

    • @interesting2491
      @interesting2491 Рік тому

      Let’s be honest, Logan Paul and social media influencers like him will be remembered for more time in this clown world.

  • @dreamthealchemist
    @dreamthealchemist 3 роки тому +11

    I love his point at 24:00 - I have always naturally been a future oriented person, to where I almost have difficulty living in the present. LOL. But I am always all about my goals and the next thing, always looking forward.

  • @emekaabuah6029
    @emekaabuah6029 3 роки тому +68

    I'm almost forty and I still have dreams I haven't achieved yet.

  • @kurtzxcvb3481
    @kurtzxcvb3481 4 роки тому +329

    Unforgiveness is the poison that you drink in hopes that others will die

    • @obiedashinobi1322
      @obiedashinobi1322 4 роки тому +6

      Well put

    • @timothybrown585
      @timothybrown585 4 роки тому +2

      That's real now! The kind of quote that makes perfect, transcendent sense now. Then my forgetters kick in, whatever chemical cocktail that is in my bwain, and before I know it, I'm unforgiving (and unforgivable...)
      As MJK says, I MUST keep Re Mind Ing My Self of THIS!

    • @mas7937
      @mas7937 4 роки тому +1

      Said Nelson Mandela.

    • @NeinFeline
      @NeinFeline 3 роки тому +7

      Well, is death really a curse though? I believe people don't really understand how kind they are being wishing death on others... But, in turn, a malign intent is still negative energy 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @mas7937
      @mas7937 3 роки тому +1

      Nelson Mandela.

  • @juneelle370
    @juneelle370 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you both for this interview... I was going through a terrible time a little while back... a family betrayal that ruined my finances, credit and lost most of my belongings... that was both nice things lost and also priceless sentimental... and left in a situation that was precarious and dangerous... that book opened my eyes because all of a sudden The enormity of this situation...reading that book... I saw my family... so much abuse and dysfunction... Id been shamed for ever being protective of myself or calling out abusive behavior... I slowly became more and more unwise... more and more controlled ...main weapons were spiritual abuse... turn other cheek... forgive with no end....no boundaries allowed... and it opened my eyes big time. I hadn’t even allowed myself to see danger as that was shamed... anger was shamed, even confidence shamed, aspirations ALL shamed... So I basically read the book and was like, ok-there are dangerous and dysfunctional people all over the place but I didn’t delve deeper because obviously I don’t agree with being all manipulative like the 48 laws which was like a guidebook to what I experienced in my family... it was just good to know to be able to process my life.
    So 3 years later, I’m glad I watched this ... I’m still processing but what I’m getting from this now is there is dark energy within love (sparkling darkness) and light energy within love (sparkling light) and then there’s EVIL--evil light and evil dark and I don’t ever want to go there. BUT sparkling darkness.... it’s what I’ve been missing !!! It’s what I was shamed out of!!! It’s dense, deep, mysterious, powerful energy!! It’s beautiful!!! I was first deceived by Christianity but then that same stuff was in New Age! If people are cruel, you attracted it? Lies! You just have to be able to SEE correctly and to do that you have to be GROUNDED!!! I had on rose-colored glasses thinking being “good” would protect me... and it’s simply not ENOUGH! Christianity, New Age is like fairy tale delusions of if you’re good and loving enough you can turn any monster into a prince! My GOD, the only thing I can say I’m impressed about is that I held on to false ideas, trying to be good, even as I was dragged down a dirt road with rocks! 😂 that’s how dedicated I was to “love”. Now I see so many of my impulses to protect and direct MY SELF WAS the voice of LOVE and I overrode it because of the wrongful moralities I was taught... trying to be “good”... Creator includes each of US... we’re to be protected and respected TOO! And people sick with ego see all this love love love love and transparency transparency transparency transparency as a TARGET!!! Dark sparkling energy is the sacred I !! The I that is connected to Creator and through THAT connected to ALL. When I was very young, I was very wise... beatings, withholding food, being called bad/demon possessed... before 5 and below I had extreme clarity... I KNEW they were evil... then it was just layer upon layer of trauma and false shame and the desire to please... the carrot of if you are GOOD, you will be loved!!! Good meant-no boundaries, endless abuse and always forgiving, no boundaries, being controlled--but had no idea I was being controlled because Id say to myself... I’m strong, I’ll be “loving” I can take it... a never ending martyr... cutting off pieces of myself for others... I’m astonished and grateful I’m alive. The sparkling darkness is deep, dense, powerful, wise... the light is the JOY and the sweet kisses of life every day! But the light can be a LIE too-light can be BLINDING. Anyway, that’s what I’m taking from this... I literally felt that part of myself return last night... I recognized it clearly... a missing and essential part.... and the darkness in me is true and beautiful and sparkling. Within love, that’s how are darkness is with all of us. Our soul is our original good... cleansing our spirits with the power and connection in our souls. Hope this makes sense to someone. This interview just changed my life. I’d thought of the sparkling light and sparkling darkness thing a long time ago (because I don’t like how light and dark is used for good and evil because it is the foundation of racism. Metaphors are powerful.)... but I also knew, I didn’t have that sparkling darkness... I’ve been lost without it... so un-grounded and lost... people as idols (I see now-people who spoke as FALSE PROXY FOR GOD) that I made sacrifices to to prove I was good to try to get love-because that’s how I taught it works! Both in Christianity and New Age!!! Pure of heart but full of IGNORANCE and like he said-it these delusions you don’t even learn the right LESSONS!!! I got worse and worse trying to be MORE AND MORE loving and giving... just offering my neck to be sucked of my BLOOD, my LIFE FORCE! it was a part of me that was shamed and so denied... reclaiming this power... a huge and important part of my spirit and wisdom and feeling has returned... emotion and wisdom in motion ❤️ It IS an experiential event! It’s natural to all of us! I feel grounded and powerful in a way I haven’t felt since 5 and under. Now is just the beginning❤️Thank you, Mr. Howe and Mr. Greene. I wish you both so much of exactly what your soul and spirit needs!!!!

  • @Briae
    @Briae 4 роки тому +75

    Such an ICON. Hands down one of the best philosophers of our time

  • @JamilJarvis
    @JamilJarvis 3 роки тому +3

    One thing I loved about this interview & Robert captures this idea in the laws of human nature when he's talking about having a mask you show the world. Robert was sharing his fear of failure, despite all his success. NO one is immune to this feeling no matter what people have accomplished. but despite this feeling, he overcomes it by becoming a relentless student of his fear & understanding it. So powerful that through his books, he does this over & over & over again by going headfirst in it by going balls deep on the WHY. This interview was intense holy shit. Amazing work Lewis

  • @sidra5512
    @sidra5512 4 роки тому +48

    one of the best interviews ever!. I had goosebumps several times. I could listen to Robert Green nonstop. He's a knowledge bomb

  • @cenobitecyborgkratch9669
    @cenobitecyborgkratch9669 3 роки тому +6

    My mentor had a stroke! I've lived off his knowledge and I am saddened to hear this right now! Get well Sir Greene!

  • @vaidatwal6254
    @vaidatwal6254 4 роки тому +24

    Authors are of two categories
    1st who write for themselves
    (name- fame -money etc)
    2nd who actually write for making readers life significantly better by inspiring and enlightening idea.
    Robert greene belongs to second.
    Thanks for posting this vedio.🙏

  • @MrMahir99
    @MrMahir99 3 роки тому +4

    Robert Greene has absolutely no chance to get forgotten in 200 years.

  • @00calimon
    @00calimon 3 роки тому +3

    I was hooked at the beginning of this conversation with Greene revealing his struggle with his stroke recovery - just so forthright and candid - you don't see that very often.

  • @Mara_143
    @Mara_143 4 місяці тому +1

    Such a helpful and powerful conversation and interview. I watch every Robert Greene interview.❤

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  4 місяці тому +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

    • @Mara_143
      @Mara_143 4 місяці тому +1

      @@lewishowes ❤️💯

  • @brain0nfire
    @brain0nfire 3 роки тому +16

    People that repress emotions often don't have other options. They sacrifice themselves for the present to function.

  • @EvelynGarcia-wf1mr
    @EvelynGarcia-wf1mr 3 роки тому +2

    Im 21 years old studying psychology and im happy to say I’ve learned so much from Robert, thank you for this! Feed the mind which leads to wisdom and knowledge for later generations! Make it worth it because 200 years from now we would be nothing but a lost memory God forbid, may we make every moment worth it even the dark ones. Be resilient!

  • @ReggiD
    @ReggiD 4 роки тому +12

    His gracious, positive dealing with his stroke is a proof Robert really internalised and practises what he writes about in his books. An extraordinarily integer writer.

  • @eddieramirez5161
    @eddieramirez5161 3 роки тому +1

    Probably the BEST VIDEO or INTERVIEW on the internet today!! So amazing and he covers covid, relationships, the past, and how to overcome it all. Thank you Lewis Howes for interviewing Robert Greene. So Incredible! I needed to hear this.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  3 роки тому +1

      This made me so happy to see! Thanks for watching Eddie! Glad you enjoyed it. 🙏

  • @canceraxe1447
    @canceraxe1447 4 роки тому +36

    There is no such thing as success or failure. Those are your ideas. You’re alive means you’re successful. ❤️

    • @monkeebizz5997
      @monkeebizz5997 3 роки тому +1

      You betcha pal its like that song everyone's a winner because they are, until the game is over through time and or unforeseen occurrence which befall every one but stupidity or foolishness and ignorance ,lack of proper education are dangerous .I do not wish but pray for your future blessings to be abundant !

  • @brian_atc
    @brian_atc 3 роки тому +3

    I feel extraordinarily inspired when I listen to people like this. It's an awesome thing to hear reasonable, intelligent, decency in deep thoughts of life.

  • @danrosario2888
    @danrosario2888 3 роки тому +16

    Breaks my heart to he had a stroke. His literature saved my life as a teen.

  • @indiansummer7674
    @indiansummer7674 3 роки тому

    Robert Greene is so present, attentive, humble and intelligent.

  • @CoachDoug714
    @CoachDoug714 3 роки тому +14

    "Defeat and failure is the best thing that could ever happen to you."
    "Do you think- say that again?"
    I love how that key point almost got glossed over, but he went back and asked for a follow-up about it. Great catch.

  • @macraeolinger
    @macraeolinger 2 роки тому +1

    RG is the BEST! What a great model, writer, mentor.

  • @itumelenglikhama285
    @itumelenglikhama285 2 роки тому +3

    I enjoyed every single minute of watching this. I tend to put myself in this bubble of perfection because it's really hard for me to accept that I have flaws. Now I know better than to run away from my dark side. I shall face it head on! Thank you for your enlightenment Mr. Green.

  • @emeraldknight84
    @emeraldknight84 2 роки тому +1

    Robert's Narration and Lewis's enthusiam, the way he listens with ultimate curiousity is a sight to cherish.... much love 💕

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

    • @dillondoty1346
      @dillondoty1346 2 роки тому

      @@lewishowes it’s cool you address every comment. Not just the ones with 1000 likes.

  • @Ggg496
    @Ggg496 3 роки тому +6

    Lewis B12 cures what he has . If you could please tell him. He’s absolutely precious.

  • @jetw9522
    @jetw9522 3 роки тому +1

    I don't get how could there be 1.2k dislike for this video. Robert Greene is a man of wisdom. I feel grateful that I got the opportunity to read his books, and benefited a great deal from it. The wisdom within his books can save people from many years of struggling and suffering. I only wish I had read his books when I was 18, so I might be able to avoid all those bumpy and torturous roads.

    • @faneeee3716
      @faneeee3716 2 роки тому

      Denying power is a form a power play itself.

  • @demo3456
    @demo3456 3 роки тому +4

    Hearing this man preserver through a damned stroke pretty much put me in tears at how I've lived my life. Tbis dude is a beast amazing

    • @saefufanwar5341
      @saefufanwar5341 3 роки тому

      In Quran verses there some part said ' hai descendents of Adam ...Satan (your darkside ) is really really enemy of you....

  • @queenshibadarling
    @queenshibadarling 2 роки тому +1

    Wow! So inspiring to hear you launched your first episode with one listener @LewisHowes!

  • @ianmiguelrivera5148
    @ianmiguelrivera5148 4 роки тому +6

    i love how he adore cleopatra, she is the very first that comes in his mind, he even answer without finishing the question. :D

  • @danielnorman531
    @danielnorman531 3 роки тому +1

    Robert Greene changed my life so much i will forever be grateful.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  3 роки тому

      Beautiful! Appreciate you for sharing this!

  • @anizak8151
    @anizak8151 4 роки тому +6

    In a perfect world where there are angels definitely.We live in the world of egos.One of the best lessons I have got from his interview.undoubtedly Robert Greene is the most amazing human alive

  • @koklol2837
    @koklol2837 3 роки тому

    My favorite author, because he writes about real things, about reality of how the world and people operate and how to master one’s self. Actionable, useful life advice, so refreshing. I have to give him the biggest compliment I can give someone, Robert is extremely self-aware, humble and has an amazing attitude of always looking at himself first when there is a problem in some sphere of his life. Amazing and extremely admirable. Hope he lives a long and healthy life, because I want to meet him and have dinner with the man. Has my outmost respect.

  • @MaybackMusicGroup1
    @MaybackMusicGroup1 3 роки тому +7

    We are blessed to have Robert greene in our Generation
    The legend is going down in history. Long live KING 👑

  • @reneeacosta4420
    @reneeacosta4420 3 роки тому

    Lewis man... No interviewer has asked as many of my questions as you.... And has such a vast, diverse selection of people that I would want to hear from.
    I just gotta say that it is so satisfying to have someone ask all the questions I was thinking, or better yet the questions I didn't think of but still want to know.
    -Hat's off to you and all the work that "The School of Greatness" team puts in to having successful interviews. It is greatly appreciated and the work is not in vain.

    • @lewishowes
      @lewishowes  3 роки тому

      Thanks Renee! Your kind words are very much appreciated! 😊

  • @KiKi-te9yd
    @KiKi-te9yd 3 роки тому +13

    I have been feeling totally hopeless about life after a major injury and losing my sport, plus a relationship breakdown.... this is a really fabulous interview.

    • @airdnaxela420
      @airdnaxela420 3 роки тому +5

      Stay consistent.... transformation is consistent. Your rise is consistent. A fall is but a rise closer to the true self. Your winning is silent 🔕✨

  • @MyrnaDeJesus
    @MyrnaDeJesus 3 роки тому +1

    Acknowledging our dark side, we each have it, is crucial to our being able to connect with our wisdom.

  • @negvey
    @negvey 3 роки тому +14

    I am going through some shit right now and too see Robert say these things, just gives me so much hope!!!!

    • @tracesprite6078
      @tracesprite6078 3 роки тому +1

      I hope you will come into a safer, happier place soon.

  • @YugiohMaster1987
    @YugiohMaster1987 2 роки тому +2

    I LITERALLY was just talking to my bro a couple of days ago and told him that "When I was my darkest, allowed the darker side of me to be one with myself...I was successful, 'happy' if you could call it that...but when I changed, begged to change, cared far more about others than myself and put everyone before myself...I became far far less successful, unhappy to the point I honestly don't know or remember what happiness was....humans take my kindness as weaknesses, view me as submissive because I bite my tongue and hold my hand and my wrath....but...I know my darkside has been demanding to be one with me again"
    I never feared failure, but I had always feared success, because then it means I would truly be alone and can trust no one....
    And as of recent...I've finally dealt and embraced that fear...and have an overwhelming calmness and unearthly feeling of great things coming and happening.
    And then this shows up in my TY feed, smh.

  • @mdsaheemakhtar1022
    @mdsaheemakhtar1022 3 роки тому +24

    oh man! he speaks so authentically deep from his heart.

  • @DitaNoire
    @DitaNoire 3 роки тому +2

    This is amazing. I never thought that the way I talk to people can lead to magnifying their insecurities. Never thought like that!!!!!

  • @m3g4h
    @m3g4h 4 роки тому +17

    give Robert a glass of water!!

  • @eleanor7242
    @eleanor7242 2 роки тому

    Robert you are so amazing human being ! You will live forever , via your books . Failure teaches us !