I remember blaming myself for everything early on. Over time, when she has a clearer view of the break up, she'll be able to look at things in a more balanced way. Time really does help in that regard.
People complain you don't tell them what's wrong and when you do, you get accused of starting fights. Sometimes it's hard to hear what is bothering your partner without taking it personal.
So true. My GF, now ex, would ask me what I was thinking and what I was feeling. But when I would answer her about my feelings and concerns about our relationship, she would just blow them off. “You really shouldn’t be feeling that way”.
I learned my wanting to talk about things, being terribly confused at the sudden detachment, he interpreted as fighting. He has no concept of self examination. At least when he spoke to me. Hopefully he can review his behavior and not continue to blame me. I did react terribly to the suddenness of the break off, but it wasn't what started it. He told me he cared about me like I cared about him. He told me he trusted me. He was the one who came on so strong. I was happy to go along with it. A week later, he said he felt suffocated by me. I was too intense for him. I have learned so much about my anxious attachment style, which was triggered by his break off. I also believe he is avoidant. Soooo, no communication anymore. But he said he was terribly hurt when I unfriended him. So he blocked me when I tried telling him why his radio silence lead me to unfriend him. He only sees his hurt. Not mine. I apologized for not realizing I hurt him as I interpreted his radio silence as not wanting me in his life. So then he unblocked me. But he never talks to me. I've gone into NC. Meanwhile he can still see my posts, never talks to me and STILL refuses to give me back my clothes. Weird.
Thank you for posting this and your reply to my email last month. This relationship sounds quite similar to my previous situation. He is deeply insecure, self-hating, unstable and refused to respond or communicate to my attempts, though we did not live together. My ex to a T the last few weeks we were together, just detached, angry, childishly protesting, and feeding me BS and excuses. You said he has attachment issues, and you are absolutely right. I no longer am angry at myself, nor him. I'm just over him and will continue to refuse his attempts for "friendship," continue NC/radio silence, and focus on myself. Thank you, Margaret and Victoria for the work you do.
Bingo!! so close to home with some changes 😢 instead it was all he wanted talk about was the imaginary men i would cheat on him with and who i slept with beside him .. it so emotionally draining
Would the thank you to the complement over social media open up to further potential action? And nipping it at the butt would be a wrong action on his part? Is it ok to question? Is that being insecure?
Craig and Margaret, I love you both so much ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for being the support I need through my breakup when my friends are over-talked and my therapist is busy
Wonder if the guy is depressed, one of my exes couldve written this after I went from honeymoon phase into depression from some life events. I had no energy for emotions beyond "please don't be depressed today." She stuck by as long as she could and I appreciate it, wish it was a few months longer when I came out of it. But the world doesn't stop spinnin cause I'm sad.
I know of a relationship except who can help you bring your broken relationship within 48hrs he is from Texas and he help me and my lover get back after many years of separation
We had 5 year relationship on and off. She had broken up with me twice in the past. I did the no contact she came back usually after 2-3 months time. This time My ex broke up with me in feb. I went no contact after some begging. She sAved my watsapp number in April and started posting stories sad memes on relationships to get my attention and reach her out. I did not but only thing that i did was i was watching her stories. She had her birthday on may 27 i did not wish her. She blocked me the day after. Also she removed our mutual friends from watsapp as well. Its been a month now i am still blocked. What do you think about the situation? I am still blocked its been 45 days approx since.
@@jamesparihar7440 It depends on how you feel about it. Thoughts become reality. Watch Dylan James channel on UA-cam to manifest anything you want. I have checked a few coaches, Dylan is best so far. I highly recommend you to try self confidence meditations on his channel. Your whole perspective about this relationship will change.
In my relationship I had some behaviors of a beta male and I think that those behaviors make my ex lost attraction for me. Can you do a video to help us identifying those behaviors and how to fight them?
@@CoachCraigKenneth I didn't see them yet but I Will see all of them. Thank you for answer me and for all the help you and your team are giving to all the people that is going through a hard time. All of you are amazing and a inspiration.
I remember blaming myself for everything early on. Over time, when she has a clearer view of the break up, she'll be able to look at things in a more balanced way. Time really does help in that regard.
I wish you two do a topic how to trust again after trust is broken🙏🏻 I pray for her healing🙏🏻 you two make an amzing team💯💙
People complain you don't tell them what's wrong and when you do, you get accused of starting fights. Sometimes it's hard to hear what is bothering your partner without taking it personal.
So true. My GF, now ex, would ask me what I was thinking and what I was feeling. But when I would answer her about my feelings and concerns about our relationship, she would just blow them off. “You really shouldn’t be feeling that way”.
I learned my wanting to talk about things, being terribly confused at the sudden detachment, he interpreted as fighting. He has no concept of self examination. At least when he spoke to me. Hopefully he can review his behavior and not continue to blame me. I did react terribly to the suddenness of the break off, but it wasn't what started it. He told me he cared about me like I cared about him. He told me he trusted me. He was the one who came on so strong. I was happy to go along with it. A week later, he said he felt suffocated by me. I was too intense for him. I have learned so much about my anxious attachment style, which was triggered by his break off. I also believe he is avoidant. Soooo, no communication anymore. But he said he was terribly hurt when I unfriended him. So he blocked me when I tried telling him why his radio silence lead me to unfriend him. He only sees his hurt. Not mine. I apologized for not realizing I hurt him as I interpreted his radio silence as not wanting me in his life. So then he unblocked me. But he never talks to me. I've gone into NC. Meanwhile he can still see my posts, never talks to me and STILL refuses to give me back my clothes. Weird.
Same
Thank you for posting this and your reply to my email last month. This relationship sounds quite similar to my previous situation. He is deeply insecure, self-hating, unstable and refused to respond or communicate to my attempts, though we did not live together. My ex to a T the last few weeks we were together, just detached, angry, childishly protesting, and feeding me BS and excuses. You said he has attachment issues, and you are absolutely right. I no longer am angry at myself, nor him. I'm just over him and will continue to refuse his attempts for "friendship," continue NC/radio silence, and focus on myself. Thank you, Margaret and Victoria for the work you do.
Sounds like we dated the same guy! Ugh.
I feel bad for the girl, that guy is very selfish to say the least.
Starting another binge watch now! Freaking love this channel
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Thank you coach Craig and Margaret . I needed to hear this today ❤️
craig kenneth is a straight G
It’s true
Sounds like he's gaslighting her. Covert narcissist.
Bingo!! so close to home with some changes 😢 instead it was all he wanted talk about was the imaginary men i would cheat on him with and who i slept with beside him .. it so emotionally draining
Would the thank you to the complement over social media open up to further potential action? And nipping it at the butt would be a wrong action on his part? Is it ok to question? Is that being insecure?
Craig and Margaret, I love you both so much ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for being the support I need through my breakup when my friends are over-talked and my therapist is busy
I know of a man who can bring back your ex| within 2days without delay💝🌹🌹
He heIped me few days ago he does a perfect work, I'm assuring you, you gonna testify 🙏🙏🙏
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Wonder if the guy is depressed, one of my exes couldve written this after I went from honeymoon phase into depression from some life events. I had no energy for emotions beyond "please don't be depressed today." She stuck by as long as she could and I appreciate it, wish it was a few months longer when I came out of it. But the world doesn't stop spinnin cause I'm sad.
I know of a relationship except who can help you bring your broken relationship within 48hrs he is from Texas and he help me and my lover get back after many years of separation
Text him would explain how it works +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..!!!!!!!!
He is indeed problem a problem solve
❤️🕊….Thank you for this video!!!
We had 5 year relationship on and off. She had broken up with me twice in the past. I did the no contact she came back usually after 2-3 months time. This time My ex broke up with me in feb. I went no contact after some begging. She sAved my watsapp number in April and started posting stories sad memes on relationships to get my attention and reach her out. I did not but only thing that i did was i was watching her stories. She had her birthday on may 27 i did not wish her. She blocked me the day after. Also she removed our mutual friends from watsapp as well. Its been a month now i am still blocked. What do you think about the situation? I am still blocked its been 45 days approx since.
It’s ok. You did well. Don’t worry she will unblock you soon. Stay strong.
@@aroojaziz what are my chances of her texting back?
@@jamesparihar7440 It depends on how you feel about it. Thoughts become reality. Watch Dylan James channel on UA-cam to manifest anything you want. I have checked a few coaches, Dylan is best so far. I highly recommend you to try self confidence meditations on his channel. Your whole perspective about this relationship will change.
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Did your ex ever reach out to you???
He. Did. Not. Know. Her. Middle. Name. 🥴. 🙅🏻♀️. 🤦🏻♀️. That’s like basic things he should know. I’m annoyed on her behalf.
In my relationship I had some behaviors of a beta male and I think that those behaviors make my ex lost attraction for me. Can you do a video to help us identifying those behaviors and how to fight them?
I have hundreds
@@CoachCraigKenneth I didn't see them yet but I Will see all of them. Thank you for answer me and for all the help you and your team are giving to all the people that is going through a hard time. All of you are amazing and a inspiration.
@@CoachCraigKenneth hey craig is tried sending you a email but its not coming up
Sorry. I don't have time to read emails without a coaching. If you want my help personally, just sign up on my website!
I get that’s no big deal saying “thank you” but why say anything at all tho, just ignore right?
My thought exactly. Is it bad or insecure to question?