Needy, Desperate, Low Value Behavior
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- Опубліковано 13 вер 2022
- Insecure behavior will almost always turn a partner or potential partner off. Sometimes breakups are difficult to accept and we may try to get our ex's attention in unconventional ways. In this video, we talk about how certain behaviors and ways of approaching a breakup can be negatively perceived by an ex partner.
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This guy is sooo intense. I would be running. It’s all too much
Leave her alone!! This is predatory. I’m a little disappointed that Craig and Victoria didn’t call this out.
This guy in his 40s really needs to get a grip...and look at his behaviour after such a short period of time. This girl in her 20s needs to continue exploring life. X
I like to come back to this video for a laugh everytime i feel like my situation is bad
After listening to what you just read, the guy's in a lot of pain and is delusional...he's seeing things that aren't there because he wants them to be.
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Love you guys! Hope you guys are doing well 🥺 ❤ Praying for your hearts to heal as you help others heal. Thank you so much for introducing us to Margaret. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I hope I did the right thing. My ex reached out for my Birthday and I responded then nothing. Her Birthday was this week and I didn't reach out since I'm still in no contact
You definitely did the right thing. You're in no contact. Keep up the good work
No ! You never ignore your ex ! If she reached out to you , you answer politely and keep on the conversation until it dies then you go back in no contact. If it’s her birthday you don’t reach out
@@DanielDiaz-mk1hs He did respond. Then he heard nothing from her after that. He did the right thing on both occasions
Oh I misread sorry
You did the right thing! Keep it up!
This is so cringy. Firstly wanted to use your material for his videos as if it’s his?? You guys are so professional! My mouth kept dropping after all his opinions of what’s going on with her!
I love how they are not judgmental bc this video is really something... lol.
This guy has Limerance and is obsessed with
RIP Margaret
He thinks she's playing 4D chess, but the reality is, she doesn't care that much. Friend, if you are that much older, you have to demonstrate way more maturity than her. 20 year age gap and 2 months, you have to accept that this is 99,99% chance going to be short term. Just enjoy the experience while it lasts and let it go because she's going to likely marry and want kids with a guy her age. The fact you're coming unhinged and overthinking this, is a major turn off to her and probably not the picture of an older guy she thought dating you would be like. Research sunk cost fallacy because that's what you're falling into at this point.
Guy sounds like an idiot to me. Wanting to marry someone already that fast is a red flag. I would run for the hills and not look back. He sounds like a narcissist to me. She already said no, to getting married and he should take a clue and slow down or she should move on from that crazy behavior too.
Haha
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Hi Coach Craig, I was wondering if you could do a video about how even though someone was broken up with, that they may realize they are not to talk to their ex about the relationship, or talk to them at all. Thanks to the growth and development from learning from your channel and seeing my own therapist, I realize though I do love my ex, I am not ready to speak to her. I am overall emotionally stable enough to realize if my ex returns now for any reason, I do not really wish to speak to her because I am still affected over how it all went down. This is the kind of context I mean.
Anyways, thank you and again, I am sorry for your loss.
Planning a wedding after 2 months of long distance TikTok relationship? 😳 If this is not a giant red flag, I don't know what is. Buddy, you will find your girl. If this marriage lasted 3 months, I'd be surprised.
I think he meant he is stubborn or intractable, not complacent.
My inner voice says "run away" from this dude. Js
Wow this guy (in the letter) sounds so creepy and delusional. I hope he gets help.
Him posting those videos is really, really cringe. Idk why he thinks that’s a good idea cause that would creep most normal people out let’s be honest
He i beleave done one thing right iv been with a avoident broke up 6 times i begged and got her back this time im goingz around the wold in 4 months if she will not see me im moving on she knows im coming .you cant put your life on hold or move on with out cutting your ex out of it .
Why my ex after reaching out to me seems to be suddenly less interested to chat with me?
I really think it’s time we called these “relationships” that involve women in their early 20s with middle aged men for what they are - predatory. These are not healthy relationships. Men in their 40s should be leaving these young women the fuck alone. It makes me sick.
Yeah but He said "shes feeing the seperation anxiety" tho
By ignoring him and not replying to his constant houding begging and pleading"
Predatory is a strong word. Young women are attracted to older men. Older men are attracted younger women. Deal with it.
Bit the bullet and signed up for a Skype call with Craig this Friday, nervous as hell. Came home yesterday to my ex in my neighbor's yard checking their water meter. He didn't look up. I took the hint from his body language not to say hi, it was the same energy he had when he was about to get angry or cold. I just talked to the neighborhood cats and got my mail. I knew some day we'd see each other but I didn't think he'd act like he didn't know me. Hope the Skype call helps because I've done all I know to do and it only seems to be getting worse.
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How are you now?
@@JohnSmith-ns6dp Good days and bad days. A family friend is in the middle of a divorce so we gripe about our situations and encourage each other. I introduced him to this channel so he'll ask questions about stuff he hasn't watched yet. Having to share what I've learned helps put it in a different perspective. I still miss my ex a lot. I still feel like screaming because my best friend is gone. But my line to my friend going through a divorce is "we're gonna get through this, one day at a time." I'm five months NC and it's still one day at a time but I'm getting through it.
Im searching for s video. The email and story you read was a women eho had seperation anxiety. She got mad her boyfriend ot husband when he stayed out an hour later then normal. She panicked got mad. Started a fight eith him.
This has been my behaviour aldo. Fear of loosing the relationship so i self sabotaged anyway. Pushing them away. Its do crazy how the brain works. Thank you for all tour videos. Id live to find the other video im looking for. I know you have do many. Msybe you was in thr cideo by yourself
This all matters within healthy relationships only right?
Classic tale of exactly wat not to do
"She seens to be feeling the seperation anxiety"
Does she tho
Would it be ok to keep contact with their family if I had a great relationship with them? I don’t mean reaching out to their family to ask about how my ex is doing but just to see how their family is doing?
No, definitely not and your ex will hear about that and see you as hovering or manipulating. Please stop that if you’re already doing it
@@andrewyork1738 I second this.
I am of the view of pick one person and love them. Dont be an animal have some dignity. If they dont love you back be a man and stay by your decision ans stay single
This guy is hypnotized!!!
22:50 or she's not interested, self-absorbed fool.
Right? I’m pretty disappointed this wasn’t called out as a predatory person. Even entertaining the idea that this could be a healthy relationship is wrong. There’s no way this woman is interested in him.
@Maximilian 🙄 up yours, Spam Max.
I would like to share my successful story about applying no contact rule. I got my ex back. How do I do it, who do I write to?
On my website homepage there is an email. It’s under the workbooks section of the home page
I’m sorry but this guy is clueless…