When The Narcissist Loses CONTROL Over You

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  • Опубліковано 27 гру 2024

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  • @OlimpiaGrecoTomisi
    @OlimpiaGrecoTomisi 3 дні тому +48

    Recently, I had a challenging split. The breakup of my five-year relationship a few months ago has been quite difficult. I still harbor a deep affection for my ex-boyfriend, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. My attempts to win him back have been unsuccessful, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anybody else. It may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and can't stop thinking about him.

    • @Nancy2551-g6i
      @Nancy2551-g6i 3 дні тому

      I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without him, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring him back into my life if you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference.

    • @OlimpiaGrecoTomisi
      @OlimpiaGrecoTomisi 3 дні тому

      How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?

    • @Nancy2551-g6i
      @Nancy2551-g6i 3 дні тому

      His name is Father Obah Eze and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.

    • @Nancy2551-g6i
      @Nancy2551-g6i 3 дні тому

      He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.

    • @OlimpiaGrecoTomisi
      @OlimpiaGrecoTomisi 3 дні тому

      I just sought him up online thanks to your helpful information. remarkable
      I just checked Father Obah Eze online, and he's really genuine. Thank you again ❤

  • @Thedisgardedoptimist
    @Thedisgardedoptimist 3 дні тому +11

    Uh huh, no no no no no...
    Don't ever think you won an argument or your opinion was taken on....
    10 times out of 10 you will be punished afterwards and you won't be ready for it....

  • @Ballpython77
    @Ballpython77 3 дні тому +14

    15 years with my ex spouse. She went to the point made false allegations to police. Kicked me put of the house with a restraining order, Went to jail. Became homeless all this in 2024... all that because I asked for a divorce and exposed her after discovering years of betrayals, frauds and cheating. All this as punishments.

    • @ronanmulligan8807
      @ronanmulligan8807 3 дні тому +5

      Love that you’re here to comment on this.
      Stay strong.
      Same happened to me
      Wow wee still in shock
      A friend of mine said the other day
      “Not many people in the world can say that 2025 will be better than 2024, but you can”
      That’s correct for us both- and probably everyone reading this

    • @barbarabuttler7647
      @barbarabuttler7647 3 дні тому

      ​@@ronanmulligan8807Let's thrive in 25!

    • @barbarabuttler7647
      @barbarabuttler7647 3 дні тому

      ​@@ronanmulligan8807Let's thrive in 25!

    • @jimscott-w1v
      @jimscott-w1v 3 дні тому

      join the club got me arrested restraining order I was drunk and high. She looked for a fight cause loads of problems two weeks later having people around my house asking her something that she known moved in with him love bomb them and like I never existed I never knew what narcissism was. I don’t even think she knows what she isand doesn’t want anything to do with me restraining order should be coming off soon even even bumped into the guy that I know that she’s going out with and he sent me a message how much he loves her. Oh, you might think it’s fast, but I love her and I’ll look after your boy and her and protect her sick.

    • @brianb1767
      @brianb1767 3 дні тому +1

      Thank God, it was his way of removing the narcissists' demonic hold on you. Count your blessings and find your faith. That is what I've done after 24 years of abuse and trauma bonded to the demonic narcissist. I've been on a spiritual journey since. May you find peace and solice after all is done. Healing is now my friend!!! Keep your head up, and spirits high!!! Stay strong 💪 😇👍 good luck, and may 2025 be a better year!!! 🙏

  • @dcikaruga
    @dcikaruga 3 дні тому +12

    You can win the argument, perfectly even, and they'll still resort to denial, insults, humiliation and even turning others against you - I just don't get that, they just can't admit anything, accept a mistake and try to learn from it but they'd rather destroy you instead and hold onto all that hate and anger. It's like they just can't face those inner-demon's, and would rather burn the whole house down instead, as if that will solve all their problems.

  • @MHLivestreams
    @MHLivestreams 3 дні тому +12

    Happy Christmas, Annie. ❤️ Love and peace, let's all do our best to make this Christmas a truly narc free zone, using nearly any means necessary!

  • @InHonourOfChester
    @InHonourOfChester 3 дні тому +4

    On point! Isolating me from my friends and family! Whenever I told him I am gg out with friends or family, he will show that he is not happy.

  • @peterknyk1942
    @peterknyk1942 3 дні тому +11

    Without the constant approval and validation they may have gotten for their own selfish reasons they run to the next available “situation” to satisfy their needs. This kind of behavior is usually frantic and totally out of control….crazy, too! And INEVITABLE! 😎

    • @vickitoker6582
      @vickitoker6582 3 дні тому +5

      You are absolutely correct !!!...just happened to me today word 4 word as u stated. Wishing you a Merry Christmas 😇

    • @peterknyk1942
      @peterknyk1942 3 дні тому +2

      @ doesn’t it seem, sometimes, that they use a common playbook and behave so similarly? From comments like yours and others there certainly seems to be similar behavior patterns. Merry Christmas to you, too!
      🕊🌟🕊

  • @Logan24855
    @Logan24855 3 дні тому +6

    This is YOUR BEST VIDEO EVER

  • @Anthony-e1t
    @Anthony-e1t 3 дні тому +4

    Again spot on, thanks for another great video, love you.

  • @RWaters75
    @RWaters75 3 дні тому +6

    Merry Christmas 🎅 🎄 ❤️ ☃️

  • @InHonourOfChester
    @InHonourOfChester 3 дні тому +3

    Exactly! I refuse to allow him to control me, rage happens. Omg! All that you said is exactly what my ex narc bf said.

  • @InHonourOfChester
    @InHonourOfChester 3 дні тому +3

    Controlling my everything move too.
    Merry Christmas Anoushka! ❤

  • @sanjavadla7909
    @sanjavadla7909 3 дні тому +5

    Happy Christmas to you ❤🥂

  • @barbaragodfrey1402
    @barbaragodfrey1402 3 дні тому +3

    Thanks so much. Merry Christmas 🎄

  • @dimples2290
    @dimples2290 3 дні тому +2

    I love your videos because everything you tell us is so true, thank you and Merry Christmas!!

  • @MikiLund
    @MikiLund 3 дні тому +3

    Merry Christmas 🎄🎁

  • @NarcissistHex-nf9eq
    @NarcissistHex-nf9eq 3 дні тому

    Thanks so much. Merry Christmas! As a self aware, diagnosed narcissist this is spot on.

  • @honestpainter
    @honestpainter 3 дні тому +2

    As soon as I see these traits in people I meet. Individuals whom I don’t really know that well ..
    I run

  • @bryanwhitehouse4141
    @bryanwhitehouse4141 3 дні тому +3

    I hope that you have a great Xmas and a wonderful new year my friend. From, Bryan.

  • @BasseyAsuquo-n2y
    @BasseyAsuquo-n2y 3 дні тому

    Wow, quite educational. Thank you 🙏

  • @cynthiasalerno7802
    @cynthiasalerno7802 2 дні тому

    Thank you for all you have taught me. Merry Christmas, Anoushka

  • @steenkristensen6351
    @steenkristensen6351 3 дні тому

    Thanks Anouska 🙂

  • @biggsy1953
    @biggsy1953 2 дні тому +1

    Is good to block a narcissist?

  • @Intimidator7Time
    @Intimidator7Time 3 дні тому

    Best talk

  • @rosswardrop465
    @rosswardrop465 3 дні тому +2

    Your videos has helped me a lot.I have had put up with couple of narcissists trying use me and rip me off.I have learnt to not let them bring me down.

  • @ludeboukema4111
    @ludeboukema4111 3 дні тому +1

    Good morning 👍👍

  • @jfnero9730
    @jfnero9730 3 дні тому +3

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @nightdrive2646
    @nightdrive2646 2 дні тому

    My narcissist has tried to argue, and realizes that I am not going to argue, so the narcissist has gone no contact and has started up the smear campaign again, but no-one is buying it. What is next from the narcissist?

    • @rde4017
      @rde4017 День тому

      You abandon them and watch them fall apart.

    • @kryssis69
      @kryssis69 День тому

      The hoover… go no contact … don’t let them get a message through and absolutely do not reply if they sneak one through a cash app or fake account.

  • @AnnaMishel
    @AnnaMishel 3 дні тому +6

    They crave control because they’re narcissists. Not because of anything that happened in their childhood.

    • @rde4017
      @rde4017 День тому +1

      Their childhood created their narcissism.

    • @kryssis69
      @kryssis69 День тому +2

      Are you new to narcissism channels?? 🤦🏼‍♂️

  • @cherylstell3344
    @cherylstell3344 3 дні тому

    If you had a child with a disability, and you were cleaning the kitchen, and while you were cleaning the kitchen that child was screaming and banging on things. Would you be upset? Maybe the 1st time. But, you would eventually know that the child simply has a condition that you CANNOT control. Yes? You would continue to love the child and clean, understanding that the child is seperate then you. Yes? Well, that’s what you have to do with anyone. They ARE separate then you. And their actions and thoughts are too. If you keep thinking it’s all about YOU. You are stuck. Unstuck yourself. You are born free. Do not cage yourself by thinking that y’all are connected. You’re not. ❤🙏

  • @jimjackson5836
    @jimjackson5836 3 дні тому +1

    How do you stay no contact when you have a child?? Yeah she out of the blue flips out and starts texting me things that I'm talking about her to him because she's mad when he doesn't want to go with her!! It really gets my anxiety going even thinking about having to see her anymore!! Help!!!

    • @jimscott-w1v
      @jimscott-w1v 3 дні тому +1

      I don’t know at the minute, mate. She has a restraining order so my mum has to pick her up him up my child. She’s **** sick in the head mate moved onto somebody else with Ben weeks after a 10 year relationship and she’s pure evil.

    • @kryssis69
      @kryssis69 День тому +1

      Restraining order and third party app’s for co-parenting preventing direct contact. There are many out there. And if you are allowing texting, you are a fool. Block them on everything except e-mail that you will only check on certain days.

  • @arianasha
    @arianasha 2 дні тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @crystalclimenhage9980
    @crystalclimenhage9980 2 дні тому

    Jesse Meester from 90 day is a narcissist his new relationship seem to be working