VLOG: Thoughts on the Divorce Being FINAL, Some Emotional Moments, A Party to Celebrate + Time w Fam
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- Опубліковано 13 чер 2024
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0:00 Here's What's Up
2:32 Max Being the Best, Nose Update, Walk + Organize :-)
4:03 YUM LUNCH!
6:36 An Emotional Moment - Divorce Feelings
8:48 Let's Get Cute + THE DIVORCE PARTY
10:32 A Little Bummed, Nose is Healing + JJ is in Town!
13:08 HANGING W JJ AND MARK :-) (Some Thrifting!)
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16:37 Chats w JJ and Mark - Apartment Hunting in Austin!
19:43 Let's Try to Repair my Couch?
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PS here is the song from my church! If you don’t have Apple Music search “How Do I Thank You” by Mosaic MSC 🤍 Happy Easter, I love y’all. music.apple.com/us/album/how-do-i-thank-you/1611637563?i=1611637699
I recall when my breakup happened, someone telling me how when the divorce was final I would want to celebrate. I thought she was nuts. She said "you likely think I'm nuts but you will see." she smiled knowing the future happiness that lay in store for me. I did not do a party but I did celebrate in my own way. The dysfunctional painful relationship was over. The stress of that over. There was no longer someone sucking the life out of me. I could relax and feed my sole and it was wonder. It was done. All over and I was free to live my life again. Celebrate is the right word for sure.
Personal self care and spiritual growth were the best things that cane from my divorce. Sending you light and love Michel on this Easter weekend. 💛
Your sister looks exactly like your mom. Yall are all so beautiful!
Same voice too!!
Michel you are doing amazing with your life situation. I got separated in 2013 and my divorce…which was my ex’s idea…was final in 2015. As people told me, a divorce is much like a death and when you are actually going through a divorce you need to mourn and give yourself time to grieve. You are so strong and inspiring! Much love to you.
Your sister is like a super hero doing all that. I don't know how she isn't losing it with stress.
God knew what he was doing Michel. He knows what your heart needs and sometimes he has to take us through things like a divorce to get to that HE always had planned. He prepared you for a time such as this. Let's call this period "Janse's back back back back again" lol a great song.
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH
Michels videos literally make my day and my week!! i could watch them forever, thank you for taking us on your life journey!! sending love 💗
Michel, thank you so much for being so vulnerable with us and sharing something so difficult. Thank you also for sharing the lyrics and song with us. What you shared was such a great reminder that God’s plans are bigger than ours and that we can trust Him to bring us through any difficult situation. 💜💜💜
It brings me so much joy when I see your videos popping up on my UA-cam feed! 💛
Seeing your videos always brings a smile to my face!! You have such a wonderful vibe!! Some day I hope I can hug you and congratulate you in person; you’ve faced so so much and you should truly be proud of yourself and celebratory of all you’ve faced. Keep being the amazing person you are! Lots of love! God bless.
Can't wait to see your solo adventure! I go out by myself a lot and I always love seeing solo adventures, it makes me happy seeing others embracing the joy of being alone and independent 💗
Thank you Michel for sharing that beautiful song! It sums up exactly how I feel surrounding my break up a little over a year ago, and getting through losing my baby son. The Lord has been my rock and my saviour through it all, and so having a song that can put that into words is so healing.
Happy Easter, Michel! Hope you're having a great time on your trip!!
fixing the couch: get a basic iron on patch and put it under the fraying fabric of the couch with the sticky part facing the fabric. use some parchment paper between the iron and the couch to not get any sticky residue on the iron. iron the patch on. this should reinforce the edge which is fraying and you should be able to use the invisible stitch without a problem :) i hope this works
important detail: put the patch UNDER the fabric, not on top. or it won‘t be invisible
Oh this is brilliant!!!! Thank you!!!
@@MichelJanse Honestly, I'm afraid that won't work. The fabric is thick enough that the heat won't penetrate to the adhesive on the patch, and if it's synthetic, it might even melt! I'd do something similar, but maybe tuck a piece of gray fabric under and then sandwich some fabric glue in there, no heat needed.
Was just going to comment this! If you are concerned about the couch fabric itself melting, you can cover with a cotton towel while ironing. The heat will penetrate through the towel and couch fabric to the patch. Good luck 💖
@@tmmc5 That would help with the fibers melting, but I haven't had good luck with iron on patches unless I apply HIGH heat directly to the back of the patch or fabric on the other side. Even then, they don't hold well. Maybe others have had better luck.
You videos are such a inspiration. Happy almost Easter to you & Max!!!🐣🐾
Girl, have the best time on your vacay!!! Also God always has the best plans for us, even when we don’t understand. Can’t wait to see clips from your vacay!!
Thanks for fulfilling you calling and blessing all of us! I’m sure God is very very proud of how faithful you are to not hold back and use your life to heal other ppl as you are being healed. What a privilege it is for us 🌺☺️
I had a divorce party and it was fabulous! ;) There is something about getting the actual notification that it's all done that helps with closure and for me, it was as if I opened a window and all this bright fresh air came pouring in. 🥰 SO many blessings are coming. I'm convinced this was God's way of knocking you off the wrong path and placing you on the right one. Trust. 🧡 Also, my vote is to wear the skirt higher and have it taken in...SO cute!! A couch cover maybe? The only way to stitch that together is to pull the fabric over until you have the unfrayed part and stitch that to the seamed part...but no guarantee it won't fray further, especially if Max continues to do the same thing in that spot. Could you maybe use iron on fabric to run down the stitched seams in a slightly different color to contrast....might look that up on UA-cam though, not sure how durable that would be with Max. 💁♀
You are so mature. I know God is caring for you in very personal ways as you close this chapter of your life. Beauty will come from the ashes and I can see it’s already occurring!
Yeah I’m so happy for your vlog. I get so excited when you post. Thank you
Happy Easter 🐣 Beautiful
Lots of love to you, Michel! So happy to see you getting happier and so excited for you that your sister and future brother-in-law are looking to move near you! If you ever want to take a trip north of Austin, downtown Georgetown is so cute! ❤️
For the couch you have to tie off the parts that are fraying so they can’t continue to unravel, you may also be able to find a patch of similar fabric and place it under the seam to sew into.
God’s timing… I feel like this is coming at a time that’s perfect with spring. It’s like you’re getting your wings 🦋🌷. We go through so many different seasons in life… and I think your heart and soul are just so beautiful and sweet. I pray you are so blessed 💖. I pray your heart is full. I pray you feel love all around you and that you are comforted at all times and you notice it in quiet times when you need it the most. Thank you for sharing these videos and moments w us 💜🌸. Happy Easter 💖
God already knew what was going to happen to you & he was already going to take care of you He will NEVER leave you ! Have a Happy & Blessed Easter !
You got yourself through Michel! You and the people around you who love you! Give yourself the credit for being resilient!
so glad to be here! and so glad you got to visit boston, my hometown!
sending love
Happy Easter 🐣 God has risen! New beginnings x
I teared up with you. May God bless you with joy.
I am loving your new fashion style since moving to Austin! You look gorgeous, and so confident, your happiness radiates through you 🤍🤍
This made me smile so big, thank you Ele!🥰
Great vlog. Just love watching you continue to grow and get stronger. Love you girl!!!!
Loved your video today. God knows exactly the time and day when your divorce will happen. Take a breath and enjoy your time away. You have grown so much in the last year and inspire many. Thanks for the recommendation on the Tovala . I bought one today and got a great deal. So excited to try it out, be safe on your travels, ❤️
Hang in there girl, it will come Thur !!! Sending good vibes your way!!
LOVE THIS ALL SO MUCH FOR YOU! 💜
OMG, love the adult coloring book you got. And glad to see your nose is healing well, cute skirt, and wishing you and your family a very Happy Easter weekend, much love from Canada!
I love the skirt on you, Michel. ❤❤❤ I continue praying for you🙏🙏🙏 You are such a BLESSING & INSPIRATION. GOD IS WITH YOU...HE WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU NOR FORSAKE YOU. LOVE & BLESSINGS ❣❣❣ Happy Easter to you & your family❤❤❤
Hi Michel. I hope you get your finalized papers soon. It will be so nice to move on from this stressful time and into new experiences and a less stress.
Great video! I had heard of divorce parties before, but I could not understand it until now. I have learned so much from your divorce experience. I think you sharing this journey has increased my compassion for others. Congratulations on your growth and bright future ahead. Have a fun and safe trip!!!!
Thank you for this very kind comment🤍🤍🤍
@@MichelJanse you're welcome. Happy Easter!
OMG your sister and her finace are so cute and fun! And so comfortable on camera! You should have them on more often! Seriously your family is just something else ✨⭐️💫⚡️☄️
I can say you're the most strong woman I found in my life. I'm really proud of you. I'm 18. But I think I'm matured now seeing all the life experience. Lysm 💖
That skirt is so beautiful on you, it's an upgrade that's been waiting for you to find!
Thank you for this vlog and your smile, it made me happy!
Everything happens for a reason I feel. Enjoy your time in Boston. And i hope you love Maine as much as i do. It’s my happy place. Love you beautiful.
Reading those lyrics… I am in tears and have head to toe chills. This is how I am feeling at this moment. God’s timing is ALWAYS PERFECT!!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✝️💕💕💕💕
And God is good all the time and thanks for sharing song - beautiful and love seeing how God works in different circumstances
Hi, i am with you since last week. I just want to tell you ! Give yourself some grace. You are soooo strong! This one time you don’t have to be.
Good morning Michel happy Sunday morning and I just wanted to say that your vlogs makes me feel happy and I loved your channel and happy Easter to you and your loved ones
Great great video, Michel!!✨ just living life.
Happy Easter!🐇✝️🌸
Amen
Being a Christian women myself who went through a divorce after 26 years of marriage I do not know how anyone can face such a huge upheaval or anything really without Gods love and faithfulness never have I felt so lead and sustained
I am so thankful to my wonderful saviour and Heavenly Father
Most beautiful girl. Just loved this video and you sharing that song. I cried proper tears with you in this Video. God is so good and im just so happy that you are growing closer to God in this season. May God bless you🌸
Happy Easter Michel.
For the couch, stick an iron on patch iron side up towards the frayed end, and hold it against the frayed frantic with a hot pad underneath while ironing it on. Then try try the invisible stitch a couple more times again.
Thats lovley you got time to spend with your sister😊 ( wow she very busy with study 😱)
So pleased the infection clearing from your nose ,hope not as painful.
Hope you have a Wonderful Easter weekend. & A fantastic trip to Boston .
Take care 🥰
I believe it’s by Mosaic MSC and it’s called How Do I Thank You😊It’s a beautiful song💖Christ has you where you need to be for his glory & he will see you all the way through! Much love 😘💋
I have really loved Happiness by Taylor Swift when working through forgiveness and grief of a loss. "There'll be happiness after me
But there was happiness because of me"
Looooove the sentiment on the cover of the coloring book🤣💕
Ty for the beautiful song! ❤😍
What a fabulous video!! It's so nice seeing you with your sister!! Lol I have to say that you & your sister sound so much like your mom!!! If I were to close my eyes I wouldn't know which one of you were talking!! I'm praying that you get that email RIGHT NOW so you can fully let go , relax & enjoy your life with no further heart break 💔 or drama for you. May you & sweet Max have a blessed Easter ✝️. Prayers & Wishes Lisa Hampton 😃
Great video and I cannot believe the next blog you will be in Boston!!!! I am 30 minuets away from the city. I cannot wait to see where you end up and your thoughts of the city. Hope you get to take in Haymarket Square/Faneuil Hall. See you in Boston. Hopefully by then your divorce papers will all be complete and it will be official. Thanks for being so honest, transparent and vulnerable with all your feelings through this season of your life. ❤️
Listening to How Do I Thank You right now. Whoa….. tears are streaming. We have different lives, but yes, I feel it!!!! Beautiful ❤️
I haven’t watched you in a couple months (work overload) and my, have you grown!!!! So so proud!!! I KNEW you would!!!! Next vlog is in Boston, where I live! Can’t wait to see you having fun in All my spots!!!! And then in Maine, my getaway!!! ✈️🚌🛳
For the couch, there is something called fray check that basically glued the frays together! However, if max likes to lick or bite the couch, I would maybe double check on that just cause I wouldn’t want him to get sick! But the fray check is a super easy and cheap fix for fraying and it’s what I use on my clothes whenever I have sewed!
Girl you made me cry when you read those lyrics. Proud of you. I have no idea what it feels like to go through a divorce but the last few months for me have been brutal, so thank you for sharing that song. Thank you for your vulnerability Michel 💛
I love that that is your great grandmother's belt. The skirt is something new for going forward because the one from that bad time of your life doesn't fit you anymore, and the belt is a piece of your history and the solid women you're made of so I think symbolically, they are perfect and very fitting together. ❤
I love your videos so much Michel
I'm so excited for you!! Yes a reclaim my name party is in order!! That song sounds amazing and so fitting in your situation! God is awesome and will never leave us or forsake us. It was great meeting your sister and Future BIL. For the couch I'd say maybe some black either iron on patches or sew a black seam down the middle sort a decorative in the couch.
You inspire me so much 💖💖
Me too, Michel is the best🙌
I love how you showed the front of the coloring book you got at your divorce party🤣,that was epic and in eternal UA-cam history.❤️you are awesome.
Another awesome video!! Thank you!!
There's clear sewing glue you can get to reinforce the where it's tearing. It'll change the texture a bit obviously, but if it's only that one line and he always scratches the same place, that might not matter to you. And it'll be more durable while you decide what to do
little late to this vlog but regarding the couch. Since the hole is large enough you could think about placing a patch of matching colored fabric underneath the tear and then sewing the frayed fabric to that. I've done this. It will probably extend the life of your couch for a bit but lose woven fabric with pets is hard to maintain. Velvet withstands better with pets that like to scratch. The other option is getting a cover for the couch since it sounds like you don't love the color anyways. Not sure if you could get a custom one or not or have a handy friend who could make one. Most couches are basically boxes of fabric. I hope this helps. Thanks for sharing your journey. .
You are where you are meant to be. God has a plan for you and he wants you to be loved the way he loves you! ❤️ Enjoy these moments!
I purchased a Tovala because you made it sound so good. I got it for $49! That is a steal.
For your couch you could try liquid stitch fix, glue down the frayed strands. Of course, you could also buy a slipcover.
An “invisible stitch” might work on the couch! It’s a super easy stitch to learn
I finally got a Tovala thanks to your absolute praise of them. Psst… I used your link! 😀
For the couch, there's iron on glue that you could put under the tear and heat up to slow the fraying
Congrats!
Love this song 🙏🏻🙌🏼🙏🏻
I cried to that poem 😢 and I have many similar feelings right now in my life/marriage so thanks
I would try putting some fray check (sold in sewing stores) on the fraying part and then putting some interfacing or patch under it, then try sewing it up. That will stabilize the part that is coming apart.
The best celebration is knowing that God has bigger and better times planned for your future.
No parties are necessary
It was a journey that you learned from just like all journeys should be.
God wants us to be present in all changes but not to boast. Smile big sweet girl. Your going to enjoy each day moving forward walking on Gods path for you.
Michel... seeing you happy makes me happy :)
I loved the white skirt with the puff ball (ha) things.
Michel, I have watched you off and on for a while. I have gotten to be a regular viewer now. I look forward to your vlogs and experience through life. You are strong and such a positive force. We are similar in age and I often feel like we're hanging out while you're vlogging! Much love
Hi, I hope you are doing well. That skirt looks awesome on you and I like it with the belt and without. You can always look for a cover for your couch that you like the look of better and flaw will be covered. Much love from Minnesota 💖💖💖
Oh my gosh!!! You look just like your gorgeous mama, and your sister is your father's twin! :)
Michel there is probably a one year warranty on your couch so contact the company and let them know that the fabric has failed. We did this with our sectional that had fabric issues and got a new sectional with different fabric.
Fixing the couch: undo your stitching, get a long/small piece of cloth, similar gray color to your couch. Place cloth under and stitch it again getting the new fabric and the couch fabric. Make sure you double the thread on the needle to reinforce the whole section fraying. I hope this will work out for you.
Boston is so much fun and so much history. The little side streets had hidden coffee and book shops. So check it out.
Love the song you read.
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Holy cow!!! Your sister looks exactly like your mom! So much so that I don’t normally comment on posts but felt compelled to on this. I hope that’s ok to say. While I’m here I have to say I am enjoying watching your new season…your new journey. I’ve made major solo moves a few times, one to Los Angeles as well, and I am a traveler by nature so it’s fun to watch you going through the excitement of firsts. That was always my favorite part. Finding new places, navigating new areas and territories. I was sad to see you forced into this season, my heart broke for you, but watching you own your journey and thrive in this new environment speaks volumes to you as a person, but also Gods plan for you in this time. I am a true believer in the fact that we are in God’s will even though we don’t always know, or understand at the time, what that is. I find it is usually always revealed in time, but either way have faith in knowing that you are in the place you’re suppose to be, in the time you are suppose to be there, to have those experiences and learn those lessons that will shape the next phase of your life. Everything always happens for a reason. 😊😁
What was the song? I didn’t see it linked and rly wanted to give it a listen. So happy your getting through this season michel! So much good is on the horizon
I live in Maine. It's a beautiful state. When you go you will love it. Jacqueline looks so much like your mum in today's video.
Love you. ❤️
You might want to try diluting fabric glue maybe. I would call an upholsterer to see if they have any suggestions.
Glad you're nose is feeling better & life is good.
Hey....I too went through a divorce...it took him four years...!!!🥺 To sign ...very painful...
It certainly makes you much stronger.. ..I am sure everything is fine and just making it's way through the system to you..x
Thanks or sharing... happy days are ahead...x you are stronger than you know...Braver than you believe..and more beautiful than you imagine...and forever loved ... with support from your friends and family..xx 💐
You look AMAZING
I’m so looking forward to finalization. It doesn’t mean anything now but I’m ready to be completely free of all of it.