Amazing, just amazing! It just makes sense!I have been trying to work on the idea "fear is the source of all suffering" - to help me understand anxiety, then after a while got stuck. But now I have the source of the fear: separation! Now I get it! It is going to help me so much to deal with my own anxiety and will guide me also as a mom. Thank you!!!!
Thank you. So we'll said, I thought that too, Fear is the source of all suffering! But never had the guts to admit it to myself. Mind, for fear & anxiety, flower essences are very helpful. Bach remedies have a number of flowers for fear but in the US, there's the Desert essences also.
I think Gordon explains this stuff better I think. Gabor goes into the fundamentals of anxiety rooting in the first childhood years. But Gordon explains it with whole childhood. I think Gabor will increase insights into the effects of anxiety in later years, addiction and unwellness etc.
I was thinking to myself why I didn’t know this earlier, but then I realise I now know. And I will be part of my children’s lives and I will never separate from them.
My son at 12 has been alarmed about his health. He told me, "every time the doctor says I´m fine. The anxiety just finds a new place to be scared of something" - a new area of the body. It ´s easier when it becomes concrete. I would love to find a way that the deep feelings beneath the anxiety could be felt and processed.
Fantastic!!!! I understand all the signs I’ve been missing that my teen son puts out but I only see them the way I was trained to deal with them. Explains my issues😆
I started to have severe anxiety at 15 when I strayed drinking coffee ☕ regularly for exams. Caffeine causes a lot of anxiety. Remember you are what you eat.
We live in stressful times. We are busier than ever. This high stress started for gen X. (The great gen had it extremely hard of course). Now younger millennials and gen Z are facing more stress of not being paid a livable wage, never owning a home, rents are through the roof and seeing man-made climate crises in real-time in many places around the world. Not to mention we have more food disparity. More than ever we are bombarded with more chemicals in water, air, food and soil. All these issues children and will suffer the brunt of as well as being pushed back into the class system, on a much larger scale than in the days of Lords. We instead fill the coffers of global corporations who still make money off us after we are dead but our families can't afford our funerals. I work with children and the one thing I see them lacking is downtime. Time to decompress and process. From morning to night it is "go, go, go". There is no room to learn about themselves, how they learn, how they feel, go for a walk or have a nap. From morning to night childhood is regulated and programmed.
I love Gordon's lectures (: . I've often heard that things like anxiety, panic attacks & OCD can be symptoms of certain diseases, parasite infections or gut flora problems etc. I thought both this theory and Gordon's could be correct but now I'm not sure.
Gordon's is right. I had anxiety for years, then found family of origin therapy which helped remove my perceptual blindness and realise that I had experienced separation during childhood, due to family dysfunction. When I had this realisation and "felt" the pain of this and "felt" my unmet needs such as, "I really needed you to love/care/support me" etc my anxiety disappeared after 20 years. The anxiety was just a brain defence that was trying to distract me from looking at the pain in my bucket, when I had the courage to look and feel the pain, I no longer needed the anxiety to protect/distract me from it.
Gut health is a major influencer of mental health. It would make sense that gut health could predispose a person to mental angst and frustration emotionally.
What this man is saying isn't new, but maybe the way he's saying it is. All parents to be should have access to this information, then there's just no excuses left!
THANKS for opening our eyes to the alarm sysytem,it makes sense in many ways because when the alarm system is affected it affect our behaviour
Amazing, just amazing! It just makes sense!I have been trying to work on the idea "fear is the source of all suffering" - to help me understand anxiety, then after a while got stuck. But now I have the source of the fear: separation! Now I get it! It is going to help me so much to deal with my own anxiety and will guide me also as a mom. Thank you!!!!
Thank you. So we'll said, I thought that too, Fear is the source of all suffering! But never had the guts to admit it to myself.
Mind, for fear & anxiety, flower essences are very helpful. Bach remedies have a number of flowers for fear but in the US, there's the Desert essences also.
One of the best videos on the subject
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Have you watched any of Dr Gabor Mate's talks?
I think Gordon explains this stuff better I think. Gabor goes into the fundamentals of anxiety rooting in the first childhood years. But Gordon explains it with whole childhood. I think Gabor will increase insights into the effects of anxiety in later years, addiction and unwellness etc.
Fantastic. Thank you so much Dr Gordon.
Attachment....aah yes, I believe he is on point with this talk. Bloody brilliant!
Incredibly true 😘at the of 45 finally understand.my.roots of anxiety everything fits but still don't know how to deal with it
Oooo..Doamne!!! Cat de util! Cat de bine spus!
Thank you, The Univers for Gordon Neufeld!🙏🙏🙏🙏
I was thinking to myself why I didn’t know this earlier, but then I realise I now know. And I will be part of my children’s lives and I will never separate from them.
I hear parents shouting at their kids in the taxi and it gets me in the guts , they`ve no idea the mental damage they could be doing to them
My son at 12 has been alarmed about his health. He told me, "every time the doctor says I´m fine. The anxiety just finds a new place to be scared of something" - a new area of the body. It ´s easier when it becomes concrete. I would love to find a way that the deep feelings beneath the anxiety could be felt and processed.
Fantastic!!!! I understand all the signs I’ve been missing that my teen son puts out but I only see them the way I was trained to deal with them. Explains my issues😆
What a powerful speech
Wow. Thank you.
Brilliant
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Boy do I ever see myself in Gordon's words. I've heard many of his videos, but this one helps me to see myself. Thanks Gordon, and the Center :)
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I started to have severe anxiety at 15 when I strayed drinking coffee ☕ regularly for exams. Caffeine causes a lot of anxiety. Remember you are what you eat.
Um.. That's not the same kind by far...
@@lh485 yes you're right. But it affects you.
PS..it's not the root of it, but it makes a difference.
We live in stressful times. We are busier than ever. This high stress started for gen X. (The great gen had it extremely hard of course). Now younger millennials and gen Z are facing more stress of not being paid a livable wage, never owning a home, rents are through the roof and seeing man-made climate crises in real-time in many places around the world. Not to mention we have more food disparity. More than ever we are bombarded with more chemicals in water, air, food and soil. All these issues children and will suffer the brunt of as well as being pushed back into the class system, on a much larger scale than in the days of Lords. We instead fill the coffers of global corporations who still make money off us after we are dead but our families can't afford our funerals.
I work with children and the one thing I see them lacking is downtime. Time to decompress and process. From morning to night it is "go, go, go". There is no room to learn about themselves, how they learn, how they feel, go for a walk or have a nap. From morning to night childhood is regulated and programmed.
He is amazing :+)
Gordan is actually Father Christmas, thinks we don’t know, but we do. We know.
+Birdworks lol
😂🎉❤🎉😂
I love Gordon's lectures (: . I've often heard that things like anxiety, panic attacks & OCD can be symptoms of certain diseases, parasite infections or gut flora problems etc. I thought both this theory and Gordon's could be correct but now I'm not sure.
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Gordon's is right. I had anxiety for years, then found family of origin therapy which helped remove my perceptual blindness and realise that I had experienced separation during childhood, due to family dysfunction. When I had this realisation and "felt" the pain of this and "felt" my unmet needs such as, "I really needed you to love/care/support me" etc my anxiety disappeared after 20 years. The anxiety was just a brain defence that was trying to distract me from looking at the pain in my bucket, when I had the courage to look and feel the pain, I no longer needed the anxiety to protect/distract me from it.
Gut health is a major influencer of mental health. It would make sense that gut health could predispose a person to mental angst and frustration emotionally.
i have anxiety neurosis !!
What this man is saying isn't new, but maybe the way he's saying it is. All parents to be should have access to this information, then there's just no excuses left!