Thank you for sharing this, as someone who never plans to transition, seeing this makes me feel comforted knowing that sometimes transitioning isn’t all it’s cracked up to be
You are very brave and strong to address this in this open environment. I hope your mom is on your side and you always have someone to share your feelings of hope and fear. Good luck to you always.
There shouldn't be shaming whatever people end up doing gender transition-wise. Normalize the idea that people can get it wrong or otherwise need to detransition sometimes and it doesn't necessarily have to be the end of the world. Trans people can have a lot of fear around detransition because of what it represents to them. But detransitioners can also just be regular people who made an oopsie, or maybe agender or nonbinary people sometimes. Whatever the case, everyone deserves respect and kindness. Thanks for sharing your story.
Hi Daisy! Long time fan here. I discovered you back when you and Milo Stewart ("all white people are racist") made a video together and you shared your controversial views. I am gay, and back then, you meant so much to me, being a double minority like me - LGBT among straight people, but holding minority views among a vastly liberal minority. You may always be Ollie in my mind as the Sears tower is still Sears in mine 😂 I find the trans movement very worrying: they claim to go against gender roles, but in reality, the most extreme in this group only enforce them, by telling masculine girls they have to be boys and feminine boys (me) they have to be girls. You have fans 😁 But, I understand if life does not give you time for youtube.
Thats fine. That's why transistions happen in steps, so you can change your mind before it's too late. Like, we accept a woman can be actually a man and a man can actually be a womean, it works the same after you transition. So, good for you.
Glad you listen to doubts while still mid process. It is your freedom what you choose. It isnt what People think. Its what YOU do and what you feel. YOU matter. Other people's assignment is to support you and to accept you no matter what.
Of a WOMAN. Or a girl. Depending on how old she is. I’m glad you’re here, listening to the other side of the debate, but you are in a REALLY precarious position with your daughter. And you “affirming” her is only going to make it worse, and further entrench this fake “identity” in her! (With side effects of SEVERE medical harm, likely a decreased life span, and further dissociation and denial.) See the British Cass review. It straight-up states that social “transitioning” is NOT a neutral act, and will indeed further solidify it! And also..? You should read Irreversible Damage by Abigail Shrier! As should any parent in your position! I get being TERRIFIED to lose your kid, because a lot of kids that have been indoctrinated into this belief system do indeed cut ties with all people in their lives who do not “affirm”! (Much like with other cults. Gender ideology is a CULT, hands down.) However, I know I personally could not have lived with myself, had I had a kid who fell prey to this, and then I went along with it, knowing what I know now. (I used to be a fully indoctrinated believer, too, once upon a time.) And I absolutely could not have referred to my daughter as “male”, in any way! At the very least..? There is no one reason to do so when she is not even AROUND! Like in internet comments! I feel so bad for you, because by doing this, and using their language, you are SEVERELY gaslighting yourself, and undermining your own grasp on REALITY! And your overall personal INTEGRITY! Which is an INCREDIBLY valuable thing! And I know personally..? I did not realize how much this awful cult had actually taken from me, and warped / stolen my reality, critical thinking capacity and moral compass, until I woke up from it! And came to see EXACTLY what they had done to me, and how! Which, that..? Is a big part of the reason why I refuse to compromise, and I won’t use ANY of their language, or go along with any of their LIES! Because my reality and integrity is PRECIOUS to me, and I refuse to give them even one single piece of it, for the sake of misplaced “kindness”. And you..? Have even MORE to lose! You have your DAUGHTER being indoctrinated and manipulated from this cult, to the point that she has ALREADY dissociated! And you need to know what’s really going on, here, so that you can act accordingly! I also highly recommend the writings of cult expert Steven Hassan. He is a former Moonie turned cult expert, who also gives people advice on how they can try to deprogram people from cults! Best to ya, and I’m going to stop rambling now. And remember: even if your daughter has already harmed herself irreversibly, she can still wake up! And also, speaking as a nurse, here..? The sooner she STOPS taking testosterone, the better! Some of the effects are going to be irreversible, but just like long-time smokers can still overall improve their health prognosis and increase their lifespan if they stop smoking..? She can also VASTLY improve her future health status if she stops shooting herself up with male doses of the wrong sex hormones! Okay, I’ll go away now. ;)
When you initially went to a clinical professional & got diagnosed as transgender, did the professional ever try to look deeper into why you were experiencing gender dysphoria and consider any other possibilities other than you being transgender? Did they ever discuss other ways to first try to alleviate dysphoria before considering transition?
They could have told her; if she feels like being a man, go get a job and support her live in husband full-time. That's a way she could have felt like a man.
@@Dmchadra Why do you feel its bad for everyone? Surely its helped at least some people? (not saying this in angry or bad faith way, just feel perhaps everyone is too all encompassing)
Any time I speak about the harm of young people being told its ok to be trans, and even encourage them I talk about people like you who it harms, but I'm told that it dont happen, or that only a few people have de-trans. Its like. Those people will harm others just because it would of been good for them if they got to do it when they where young. I say this as someone who was confused about my gender when I was young, and feel like I would of taken things to far if I was that age now. Wasn't till I was about 24 that I grew out of that state of mind. So when I hear people say "It only happens to some people" I feel like I would of been one of those people.
But what about all the trans people who were saved as a result of being told it was okay? Should we just not let people transition because there could be a few detransitioners, aka putting the feelings of the few detrans people over the well-being of the actual trans people, whom there are way more of?
Thank you for sharing this, as someone who never plans to transition, seeing this makes me feel comforted knowing that sometimes transitioning isn’t all it’s cracked up to be
I’m always keeping you in my prayers, Daisy. I’m thankful for your strength in sharing your experiences with authenticity 🙏.
Hello Daisy! I hope you and your family have been happy and well. It's good to see you posted. ♥
Thank you so much for sharing all that you do.
Thank you for sharing, and all the best to you and your family!
You are very brave and strong to address this in this open environment. I hope your mom is on your side and you always have someone to share your feelings of hope and fear. Good luck to you always.
I was scared that you flip flopped with the thumbnail until I read the title. Hope you and your family are doing well👍👍.
Prayers you and your husband & baby are doing wonderful. Sending love and strength.
There shouldn't be shaming whatever people end up doing gender transition-wise. Normalize the idea that people can get it wrong or otherwise need to detransition sometimes and it doesn't necessarily have to be the end of the world.
Trans people can have a lot of fear around detransition because of what it represents to them. But detransitioners can also just be regular people who made an oopsie, or maybe agender or nonbinary people sometimes. Whatever the case, everyone deserves respect and kindness. Thanks for sharing your story.
💯.
Congrats on learning how to time travel!! 🥸
i appreciate your testimony and your fierce exploration of the truth.
Welcome home. wishing you all the best, always, in everything you do
How does it feel for you now almost being a full 5 years on the other side of the experience?
@@RachelDee feels like it went by very fast.
@ ❤️
You could rekindle this channel.. you know
2020 is so... 4 years ago :)
This ain't an update. How are youu? Hope you and yours are good 😊
Hi Daisy! Long time fan here. I discovered you back when you and Milo Stewart ("all white people are racist") made a video together and you shared your controversial views. I am gay, and back then, you meant so much to me, being a double minority like me - LGBT among straight people, but holding minority views among a vastly liberal minority. You may always be Ollie in my mind as the Sears tower is still Sears in mine 😂 I find the trans movement very worrying: they claim to go against gender roles, but in reality, the most extreme in this group only enforce them, by telling masculine girls they have to be boys and feminine boys (me) they have to be girls. You have fans 😁 But, I understand if life does not give you time for youtube.
Thats fine. That's why transistions happen in steps, so you can change your mind before it's too late. Like, we accept a woman can be actually a man and a man can actually be a womean, it works the same after you transition. So, good for you.
Glad you listen to doubts while still mid process. It is your freedom what you choose. It isnt what People think. Its what YOU do and what you feel. YOU matter. Other people's assignment is to support you and to accept you no matter what.
everyone touches the wall when they see a sign, wet paint to see if its wet. you found out what you needed to . i wish you well
You're very pretty! Beautiful eyes!
As a parent of a trans male, you have my utmost respect. 🙏🏼💗
Of a WOMAN. Or a girl. Depending on how old she is. I’m glad you’re here, listening to the other side of the debate, but you are in a REALLY precarious position with your daughter. And you “affirming” her is only going to make it worse, and further entrench this fake “identity” in her! (With side effects of SEVERE medical harm, likely a decreased life span, and further dissociation and denial.) See the British Cass review. It straight-up states that social “transitioning” is NOT a neutral act, and will indeed further solidify it! And also..? You should read Irreversible Damage by Abigail Shrier! As should any parent in your position!
I get being TERRIFIED to lose your kid, because a lot of kids that have been indoctrinated into this belief system do indeed cut ties with all people in their lives who do not “affirm”! (Much like with other cults. Gender ideology is a CULT, hands down.) However, I know I personally could not have lived with myself, had I had a kid who fell prey to this, and then I went along with it, knowing what I know now. (I used to be a fully indoctrinated believer, too, once upon a time.) And I absolutely could not have referred to my daughter as “male”, in any way! At the very least..? There is no one reason to do so when she is not even AROUND! Like in internet comments! I feel so bad for you, because by doing this, and using their language, you are SEVERELY gaslighting yourself, and undermining your own grasp on REALITY! And your overall personal INTEGRITY! Which is an INCREDIBLY valuable thing! And I know personally..? I did not realize how much this awful cult had actually taken from me, and warped / stolen my reality, critical thinking capacity and moral compass, until I woke up from it! And came to see EXACTLY what they had done to me, and how! Which, that..? Is a big part of the reason why I refuse to compromise, and I won’t use ANY of their language, or go along with any of their LIES! Because my reality and integrity is PRECIOUS to me, and I refuse to give them even one single piece of it, for the sake of misplaced “kindness”. And you..? Have even MORE to lose! You have your DAUGHTER being indoctrinated and manipulated from this cult, to the point that she has ALREADY dissociated! And you need to know what’s really going on, here, so that you can act accordingly! I also highly recommend the writings of cult expert Steven Hassan. He is a former Moonie turned cult expert, who also gives people advice on how they can try to deprogram people from cults!
Best to ya, and I’m going to stop rambling now. And remember: even if your daughter has already harmed herself irreversibly, she can still wake up! And also, speaking as a nurse, here..? The sooner she STOPS taking testosterone, the better! Some of the effects are going to be irreversible, but just like long-time smokers can still overall improve their health prognosis and increase their lifespan if they stop smoking..? She can also VASTLY improve her future health status if she stops shooting herself up with male doses of the wrong sex hormones! Okay, I’ll go away now. ;)
@@InterstellarDreams Or maybe he'll just be a happy trans guy for his whole life? Not that it's any of our business
How are you?? Hope you’re good!! 💗
When you initially went to a clinical professional & got diagnosed as transgender, did the professional ever try to look deeper into why you were experiencing gender dysphoria and consider any other possibilities other than you being transgender? Did they ever discuss other ways to first try to alleviate dysphoria before considering transition?
They could have told her; if she feels like being a man, go get a job and support her live in husband full-time. That's a way she could have felt like a man.
I already got that haircut like 3 times in my life, that doesn't mean you're a man.
What’s your perspective now on trans movements and trans rights? Do you feel distanced from it?
@@simon3259 I think it’s bad for everyone.
@@Dmchadra Why do you feel its bad for everyone? Surely its helped at least some people? (not saying this in angry or bad faith way, just feel perhaps everyone is too all encompassing)
@@MrGogos345 Because she is now a Catholic she believes everyone should live according to what her religion teaches. Sad.
@@Dmchadrayou are ignorant.
@@Dmchadratrans healthcare saves lives
Hiii I’ve been listening to your story and I was wondering if you have experience with gender euphoria? As either gender.
This whole story sounds ridiculous. I can't believe doctors (including mental health doctors) are doing that to young people. It's just sad. 😢
Not all doctors but there are enough to give then a bad name.
It's a lucrative industry and while some may genuinely believe they are doing good, others are just getting rich off it.
@@xikrx5951 Well said. ♥️
I watched your channel when you and I both identified as trans then you detransitioned and I felt kind of threatened then I detransitioned lol
Imagine how many young women have avoided tragedy by learning the value of motherhood on this channel.
Any time I speak about the harm of young people being told its ok to be trans, and even encourage them I talk about people like you who it harms, but I'm told that it dont happen, or that only a few people have de-trans. Its like. Those people will harm others just because it would of been good for them if they got to do it when they where young.
I say this as someone who was confused about my gender when I was young, and feel like I would of taken things to far if I was that age now. Wasn't till I was about 24 that I grew out of that state of mind. So when I hear people say "It only happens to some people" I feel like I would of been one of those people.
But what about all the trans people who were saved as a result of being told it was okay? Should we just not let people transition because there could be a few detransitioners, aka putting the feelings of the few detrans people over the well-being of the actual trans people, whom there are way more of?
Phew, I thought I was turning gay
What??? A teenage girl jumped on the bandwagon of a social contagion unwisely? Shocking!
Good luck Daisy/Dais/Oliver (Delete where applicable). I identify as moron, but that's my problem. Once again, Good luck going forward.