The end game for them is the fact that there is no more supply & they’re left alone in their own thoughts for once in their life & they can’t escape those thoughts & face the truth that is in front of them. They end up alone in the end .
Scared animal that is cornered - hates and attack everything that moves. Spiteful eyes, envy everything that others achieve. Hard to keep fake emotions friendly, below the surface the volcano of rage is boiling... It is scary, they never smile and the forced grimace of a smile at posing for picture. BRRRR... You can get PTSD just looking them on the picture with others that smile naturally... My impression of seeing my ex after 20 years on the recent picture. 😵💫😯🥴🤢🤮 No contact for life!!!
When watching the intro to this video I just cant help but think of how I wish my ex wasnt a narcissist, not even for my sake but for hers. I wish she wasnt so broken and me loving her did not change a thing, she only hated me more and now I have a lot more to heal and recover from but when I do, I wont look back in anger. Its been heaven and hell but mostly hell with her.
Leave asap !!! I left last year I was with him 8.5 years I did not know till after I left him he was a covert narcissist! I left cause he was a cheater , liar and abusive alcoholic!
My mother in her 80’s, made her traditional Christmas cookies. As I was leaving she told me the cookies for me were on the Floor of the porch. She couldn’t even hand me the cookies. It was her normal way, of trying to get a reaction from me. I always feel sad , that she wouldn’t even hand me the cookies. Very passive aggressive.
I got into a nasty argument with a friend who is a narcissist. It was so horrendous that when I pointed out her abhorrent behavior, she had to retreat into having an errand to run all of a sudden. I am second guessing if this is worth continuing because she has only gotten worse over the years. She has become indifferent to being downright nasty and cruel.
Yes I lived with a super narcissist who exhibits all the symptoms of narcissism. When they are young they will show very severe narcissistic actions infrequently. However as they grow old they become more confident as they lose control of their emotions and exhibit all the narcissistic evil frequently. Finally the narcissistic personality will completely take over when they are old as in about 58 years old.
I’m currently observing this with soon to be ex-husband and witnessed my dad constantly seeking validation from others. It was really sad to observe. Still tried to be grandiose till the end.
Every person I've spoken to with a narcissistic parent who was terminally ill, said they were most abusive while they were caring for their parent. It's difficult enough to go through something like that, can't imagine acting that way to someone who actually cares.
As much damage as they do, I still wish they could heal. Wish they could just stop and say “hey maybe I am enough, and maybe I had enough of hurting others” ehhh
Ive had an off n on relationship with a woman for 20 yrs! Yes thats not a typo. We are on right now. She is still a beauty in my eyes but is in reality an aging woman. She still thinks and acts like she is Cleopatra!Its kind of sad. I do care for her but its become very obvious that she will never change. Am I using her? Yes but for years she's used me and has treated me just awfully. I often think of the phrase "you won the battle but lost the war." Her options are severely limited. Why else would she pick me, an old man, as a target when before she could and did have dozens of men. Her future looks very bleak.
The old narcissist that was in my life was so covert I had no idea until the mask slipped due to alcoholism. I like to think his younger self wasn’t psychopathic. I would like to believe the alcohol killed his brain cells but in reality I saw him go from a reasonable person to a demon. I was his only narcissistic supply, as he has 0 friends. That’s what I don’t understand: he’s definitely a narcissist, but also schizoid, so where does he get his supply from? Pornography and video games?
After they lose or discard the supply they’ve been with they will immediately go fishing for a new supply. Their main targets are widows which are quite plentiful in the senior aged population. They will snag someone by love bombing, rushing them into a hasty marriage and voila! - new supply and they get to start all over again with the unknowing new victim. Online sites for senior singles are plentiful and they know right where to go and have all the necessary tactics for success.
My ex female narcissist's blamed me for looking older. She drank too much, smoked and spent every weekend at the beach getting sun and she still blamed me. She was a beautiful woman when we met and after only 4 years she really started showing her age. her anger only increased and she not only made my life hell but also her own. The last six month we were together she drank more and more and started showing her true nature and after begging for her to stop I finally realized there was nothing I could do for her. I did love her but I had to find the strength to start loving myself.
My stbx overt narc mother in law literally made her husband kill himself. He got autoimmune disease, I thought it’s the treatment that he couldn’t tolerate, but now I know it’s caused by narc abuse. Poor him! He’s a very nice man.
they live a self inflicted, very hard life. one of the other content creators summed it up well. if anyone lives a living hell, its a narc. i totally agree.
My mother seemed like an eternal adolescent, irresponsible and addicted to dramas while she wasn't enjoying fleeting pleasures. In old age, ill, discarded by my narcissistic sister and ignored by her psychopathic husband, she looks like Cinderella's stepmother. I help her for compassion and ethic, she tries to destroy me. Zero contact, they don't seem faces just supplies. Don't be loyal to predators, it doesn't matter if they gave you life, they will take it away and smile.
i just left a 73 year old Vulnerable Narc with the persona of the 'quiet buddha'. Took me 11 months to figure him out. And when I did.. oops i did the cardinal sin .. against Me.. by calling him out. The lies, the stealing, the emotional affairs with care aids, and the hoovering /always looking for fresh supply in the hallways of our apartment buidings.. We lived apart ( thankfully. He fell apart , starting cutting up neighbours flowers in our communal gardens. it worked.. everyone rescued him and he the eternal victim had Everyone that I had a good relationship with could not even look my way. It's now 3 months later.. I have survived.. He has not come out of his place.. His social anxiety is cemented.. Yet he still has his care aid that is hooked. Yes it's an emotional affair. My ist and last Narc. I have survived and I am working on getting to thriving,, it helps that I know this will be also my getting back at him.. Yet.. also I am staying with... seeing him as the 5 year old boyl... and having a distant compassion.. as I can't live in resentment. One resentment is a thousand resentment.. I am an empathic cptsd myself.. I own it. Sadly Mr H.. cannot do so.
Narcissist do get worse with age. That's been my experience too. They no longer care to hide their evil actions and let you see who they truly are.
@ 1:05. That's exactly what my 97 year old narc mom said! She said "I LIKE getting old because I can get away with anything"..........
Lord have mercy
As they age, their LIES, finally catch up w their them and there is no place to hide
Book of lies, karma catching up
One can only hope ... given the catastrophic damage they do to a family and the poor soul they tried to destroy.
Amen 🙏 justice will be served sooner or later
Been married 41 years to one you are right on always remember they need you and you don't need them
The end game for them is the fact that there is no more supply & they’re left alone in their own thoughts for once in their life & they can’t escape those thoughts & face the truth that is in front of them. They end up alone in the end .
Very sad! Watched it.
I sincerely hope so!!!
Good, end game is they afraid of death
GOOD!! Ya love to see it!!
They become MORE VIOLENT TOO👍(my experienced way back 2014)
Scared animal that is cornered - hates and attack everything that moves. Spiteful eyes, envy everything that others achieve.
Hard to keep fake emotions friendly, below the surface the volcano of rage is boiling...
It is scary, they never smile and the forced grimace of a smile at posing for picture. BRRRR...
You can get PTSD just looking them on the picture with others that smile naturally...
My impression of seeing my ex after 20 years on the recent picture. 😵💫😯🥴🤢🤮
No contact for life!!!
These demons always rot away and die alone
Agreed
Wish he'd hurry up then.
no
@Frankie Morgan
😂😂😂
Like Emmit Tills accuser, nobody cares when they drop dead.
When watching the intro to this video I just cant help but think of how I wish my ex wasnt a narcissist, not even for my sake but for hers. I wish she wasnt so broken and me loving her did not change a thing, she only hated me more and now I have a lot more to heal and recover from but when I do, I wont look back in anger. Its been heaven and hell but mostly hell with her.
Avoid getting entangled with a narcissist. They are nothing but pure evil, destruction, though they are really good actors.😂
Dam it only gets worse I got to get away while I can
Leave asap !!! I left last year I was with him 8.5 years I did not know till after I left him he was a covert narcissist! I left cause he was a cheater , liar and abusive alcoholic!
That makes two of us! Good luck….we’ll need!✨🍀✨
@@Glitter504 I’m happy for you!
My mother in her 80’s, made her traditional Christmas cookies. As I was leaving she told me the cookies for me were on the Floor of the porch. She couldn’t even hand me the cookies. It was her normal way, of trying to get a reaction from me. I always feel sad , that she wouldn’t even hand me the cookies. Very passive aggressive.
OMG 😂😂😂 are you serious? I apologize 💜
Wow!
I wouldn't have touched her damn stupid cookies!
I’m so sorry - I feel your pain !
My discard came when he was 68 years old. To new supply...now he's 70, I wonder how that's working for him. We were together 23 years.
I got into a nasty argument with a friend who is a narcissist. It was so horrendous that when I pointed out her abhorrent behavior, she had to retreat into having an errand to run all of a sudden. I am second guessing if this is worth continuing because she has only gotten worse over the years. She has become indifferent to being downright nasty and cruel.
Yes I lived with a super narcissist who exhibits all the symptoms of narcissism.
When they are young they will show very severe narcissistic actions infrequently. However as they grow old they become more confident as they lose control of their emotions and exhibit all the narcissistic evil frequently. Finally the narcissistic personality will completely take over when they are old as in about 58 years old.
Thank you, you're so right about everything. It's so very true. Both of my parents are Narcissists so is my grandmother. I got C-Ptsd from the abuse.
everyone degrades with age....anyone with a Dis-ease will worsen... unfortunately.
I’m currently observing this with soon to be ex-husband and witnessed my dad constantly seeking validation from others. It was really sad to observe. Still tried to be grandiose till the end.
they will self destruct
@Looney Linn
I pray that you are correct!
Idk how much longer I can take it… this video is correct… it’s getting worse…
@@christycomer373 been there christy and all she did now that i left her is destroying my reputation
I can't wait for that day ...
Every person I've spoken to with a narcissistic parent who was terminally ill, said they were most abusive while they were caring for their parent. It's difficult enough to go through something like that, can't imagine acting that way to someone who actually cares.
As much damage as they do, I still wish they could heal. Wish they could just stop and say “hey maybe I am enough, and maybe I had enough of hurting others” ehhh
They don't want to
And maybe appreciate the people that might be left or maybe think of attempting to make amends….i wish
Ive had an off n on relationship with a woman for 20 yrs! Yes thats not a typo. We are on right now. She is still a beauty in my eyes but is in reality an aging woman. She still thinks and acts like she is Cleopatra!Its kind of sad. I do care for her but its become very obvious that she will never change. Am I using her? Yes but for years she's used me and has treated me just awfully. I often think of the phrase "you won the battle but lost the war." Her options are severely limited. Why else would she pick me, an old man, as a target when before she could and did have dozens of men. Her future looks very bleak.
Yep
This is Totally my mother!!! EVIL to the core!
BLESSINGS for you & this channel of info!!!
The old narcissist that was in my life was so covert I had no idea until the mask slipped due to alcoholism. I like to think his younger self wasn’t psychopathic. I would like to believe the alcohol killed his brain cells but in reality I saw him go from a reasonable person to a demon. I was his only narcissistic supply, as he has 0 friends. That’s what I don’t understand: he’s definitely a narcissist, but also schizoid, so where does he get his supply from? Pornography and video games?
I know a guy who is 45 and already exhibiting these traits
Will share this everywhere to anyone who will be open to learning.
-This is most informative. Thank you.
This is so so true. Hes always in debt, always buying things he can't afford, his dad got worse and developed dementia. Hes going the same way,
After they lose or discard the supply they’ve been with they will immediately go fishing for a new supply. Their main targets are widows which are quite plentiful in the senior aged population. They will snag someone by love bombing, rushing them into a hasty marriage and voila! - new supply and they get to start all over again with the unknowing new victim. Online sites for senior singles are plentiful and they know right where to go and have all the necessary tactics for success.
My ex female narcissist's blamed me for looking older. She drank too much, smoked and spent every weekend at the beach getting sun and she still blamed me. She was a beautiful woman when we met and after only 4 years she really started showing her age. her anger only increased and she not only made my life hell but also her own. The last six month we were together she drank more and more and started showing her true nature and after begging for her to stop I finally realized there was nothing I could do for her. I did love her but I had to find the strength to start loving myself.
100% true, I have one at home.
Drama queen, spent 13 yrs with her, becoming difficult with the passage of time. It's not my spouse..
My stbx overt narc mother in law literally made her husband kill himself. He got autoimmune disease, I thought it’s the treatment that he couldn’t tolerate, but now I know it’s caused by narc abuse. Poor him! He’s a very nice man.
Very True
they live a self inflicted, very hard life. one of the other content creators summed it up well. if anyone lives a living hell, its a narc. i totally agree.
When you have so many narcs from one family who live under one roof that family has problems, they must be all infested will the same illness,
My mother seemed like an eternal adolescent, irresponsible and addicted to dramas while she wasn't enjoying fleeting pleasures. In old age, ill, discarded by my narcissistic sister and ignored by her psychopathic husband, she looks like Cinderella's stepmother. I help her for compassion and ethic, she tries to destroy me. Zero contact, they don't seem faces just supplies.
Don't be loyal to predators, it doesn't matter if they gave you life, they will take it away and smile.
Waiting for momster to bite the dust! No contact 1 year half
How very true.
They do the catch Syndrome
Just to enjoy and see you
Squirm and emotionally hurt.
They have an obsession to witness hurt.
Best news I heard all day 😃
No hope for my ex then unless he repents
They don't repent, that's just for show to get what they want.
26 years, dude ain't change
So what is the solutiioon? This is not helpful at all
i just left a 73 year old Vulnerable Narc with the persona of the 'quiet buddha'. Took me 11 months to figure him out. And when I did.. oops i did the cardinal sin .. against Me.. by calling him out. The lies, the stealing, the emotional affairs with care aids, and the hoovering /always looking for fresh supply in the hallways of our apartment buidings.. We lived apart ( thankfully. He fell apart , starting cutting up neighbours flowers in our communal gardens. it worked.. everyone rescued him and he the eternal victim had Everyone that I had a good relationship with could not even look my way. It's now 3 months later.. I have survived.. He has not come out of his place.. His social anxiety is cemented.. Yet he still has his care aid that is hooked. Yes it's an emotional affair. My ist and last Narc. I have survived and I am working on getting to thriving,, it helps that I know this will be also my getting back at him.. Yet.. also I am staying with... seeing him as the 5 year old boyl... and having a distant compassion.. as I can't live in resentment. One resentment is a thousand resentment.. I am an empathic cptsd myself.. I own it. Sadly Mr H.. cannot do so.