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*ASMR* Therapy Night Session for Sleep: Dealing with a Breakup 💔 (ASMR Roleplay)
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- Опубліковано 24 січ 2021
- "The point is not to win the argument, but to find a solution..."
This is my first episode of Therapy Night by Mr. Night Vibes. In this ASMR video, I will roleplay consoling and advising one of my clients as they recently go through a breakup. Love hurtssss... Also, if you fall asleep, come back to it, finish it, and let me know what you think haha...
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My boyfriend broke up with me Friday night. Completely blind sided me. Just a week ago he was talking about engagement rings and how he wished we were married. Over 2 years of my life wasted. He filled my mind with tales of happiness and promising me he'd never leave me. But not even 24 hours after he ripped my heart out of my chest, he acted like nothing happened and like I didn't even exist. How can he be okay? How can he hear me crying and just turn his back on me? How cruel can he be? I'm done. He knew I've walked through this dark path before and he promised me he was different. He promised me he wasn't like my first ex. But no, they are both the same. I'm so done.
Oh baby I'm so so sorry he did that, I hope you're able to heal yourself and I hope you see your worth, it'll take time to heal and honestly? Maybe it'll happen again, it's part of life, try to think of it at an experience and a learning opportunity, but eventually I hope you find your life long partner, you deserve it and more, remember you are loved and cared for and your worth isn't determined by others
Same thing here 😢
Im going through a break up of the exact same matter. Talking about knowing I was the one he’d marry just last week to being so cold, cruel, and blindsiding me with a break up. Leaving me over something so dumb (without ever even having a conversation about it) no one can even understand it or try to help me understand it. All I know is the pain sucks because we loved hard, but we deserve to be heard, respected, safe in our relationships which we weren’t. We gotta try not to let these men who aren’t what we made them up to be have control over our energy and worth. Shit sucks….but I gotta keep remembering better days are ahead and the ones we are meant to be with are waiting for us too.
SAMEEEEEEE OMG
Literally what you described and are going through is literally happening to me. How can they be so calm and okay with losing us? My ex literally brought up co-signing a car and getting joint savings accounts. He had given me a promise ring on our anniversary earlier that year. Promising me and my mom he’d never leave me. 3+ years for me. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Idk how to deal with being thrown away. It hurts so much. I hope you’re doing well ❤️🩹
i feel so sick. i’ve been trying so hard to be brave and just move on. but it hurts. i have that feeling where i just want my mom. i feel so alone.
I’m feeling that rn too. I j wanna cry in someone’s arms rn.
Sometimes love isn’t enough. Mental health is very important and if someone doesn’t love themselves self they can’t love another.
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years because I found out he was cheating on me and man it hurts so much😭 but if he cheats on you shame on him, if you take him back shame on you... stay strong ladies and gentlemen♡♡
Oh wow, so many comments from so many heart broken people. It makes me feel so much less alone with my sadness, to see my thoughts and feelings expressed by others. I hope you all are healing and feeling better x
I really need this . I’ve been having sleepless nights because of a breakup.
Same
Same I told her to have a gn but let’s all be honest who’s gonna sleep
Me too I can barely sleep
@@leonaswift3834 it’s going to take time to heal. Unfortunately, me that same guy got together and it went down hill again. I’m telling you this so you won’t ever have to go through it again.
@@Shu_Unknown unfortunately I’ve been through the same thing, breaking up and getting back together. It just delays the healing process, I’m determined to stay strong with it this time and choose myself
Just adding my tales to the bunch, I’m sure this will get lost in the comments. Sorry for the length in advance.
She was the love of my life. Everything was so wonderful, life became so much more beautiful with her, even with my hardships and difficult days. I loved her with all my beings. She filled my head with thoughts and promises of our beautiful future together. But she started to become more and more distant just out of the blues, became increasingly irritated with me with just about anything that I said or did. I fell into depression while trying to keep the relationship together while she was continuing to become more distant each day. Eventually, when I needed her the most, she told me she didn’t love me anymore and just left. No explanations, nothing. Now I’m left with 3+ months worth of self neglect, crippling depression, and a fucked up perception of love. I know I may sound dramatic to some but, it hurts a lot man. I’m so tired.
I know exactly how you feel bro. Currently going through what I know will be a breakup due to my idiocy and foolishness. Just know your emotions are valid and you deserve love.
I broke up with him 5 days ago. I left him because he was toxic, but that’s because he was never properly loved his entire life. When I left I didn’t feel anything, but now the pain got me. I love him but I do realise this person is not for me, and I have to go through grief to let him go. It hurts so bad I feel like I’m bleeding
I need this rn literally can’t even show that u care after a break up cuz they call it guilt tripping thanks for this bro I needed this hope life’s treating you well
Relatable, this guy in my history class started talking to me and he seemed really nice and chill and then a few weeks later he asks me out. We end up getting together and for two weeks I've felt amazing, I gave him all the love and affection he could ask for until he had to leave to New York for a choir trip (It was something his club had to do) on the last day he gave me his coat and I've held onto it as much as possible. When he came back I surprised him with a love letter and a Beatles Vinyl record. Our last date was me going with him for a haircut but we did stop at random stores for fun. Since we had the same class for 4th period, he got pulled out to make up credits since he graduates this year. He then texted me saying "I'll be busy for the rest of the semester" I told him not to worry and that I'm here for him. The facetime calls stop, texting stops, dates also stop. We also don't spend time together on weekends, he would flake out on dates, ditch me to go with his friends, especially his choir friends. He would tell me to occupy my time more because he has a life and people in it. I then asked him on text if he still loved me and he got mad at me for asking that, he said I was overthinking and it's such a turn off. I noticed that trip to New York really changed him. During mid May, my friends and I confront him for ditching us and he tries gaslighting the absolute sh!t out if us but we don't let it slide, he doesn't even apologize. He and I also talked on text, I gave him two options. "We can try and work on ourselves and change for the better" or "We go our separate ways and you give me my guitar that I gave you on our first date" so he picked option one and said he needs the whole summer to be on his own to recollect his thoughts. I agreed with him because I wanted us to work out. The next day at school I open my friends group chat and it's a screenshot of people confirming that he's been cheating on me for the past two weeks. This didn't make me cry, this made me angry. So once I got my guitar back I send him the longest text, cussing him out, telling him he'll never find someone better than me and I don't want him in my life again. To end this story! On the last day of school my sister and I went to Chick Fil A for lunch and when we got back to the car I ended up seeing the guy who I just broke up with and the person he cheated on me with, my sister looks at me and says "Wanna drive by and flip them off?" And I without hesitation said hell yeah! So we drive pass them, curse at them and flip them off. The look on their faces was incredibly hysterical- My ex bf's jaw was dropping to the ground and the person he was with looked scared. Life is so interesting
Fell asleep, came back to it, finishing it... love this vibe
That means a whole lot, thank you!
vent btw: i don’t wanna blame her friend for us breaking up it’s kinda her fault, it was fine during august and all but like tuesday her friend made a lie about me saying “yucky” to her friend. i asked people on the bus and they said i didn’t say yucky at all. but just like that it’s over all the things we talked about and the memories are just gone now. and she’s not going to believe me because her and her friend knew each other longer than me but she blocked me on everything and found someone knew. i’m not mad i’m just really lost tbh and a little upset too but it’s whatever. also i hope everyone is doing okay in the comments
Currently going through one and when she moved out the room didn’t feel the same , it felt like I was in an empty hole, it still feels like it, 1 year of our relationship I appreciated all the good and bad times, I just wanted to love her and care for her, but I blame myself because I felt like I could’ve been a better man and as a man I cry hard knowing she’s not laying next to me, I hope anybody reading this and is going through a break up, may you heal fully, and may I also heal because this is the worst pain I have ever felt.
I haven’t broken up with my boyfriend yet, but we’re having problems right now that are making me question our relationship. It really sucks to be in this position. It feels like a break up just from how much it hurts and just thinking about how this could possibly implode on us and ruin everything. He was my greatest relationship in a while and it’s going downhill with all the little things that keep adding up…
I don’t want to leave him. We planned a future together… but I can’t take the inconsistency in communication.
Gf left me 5 days ago. We started the relationship in-person, but after like a month it turned into long distance bc I’m away for college. I would go back home for 2 months every 4 months, so I thought it seemed reasonable, as did she. Barely a month and a half in, she said she was feeling disconnected from the relationship. I suggested we watch movies or shows, cook “together”, etc. We tried that and some other stuff and she tried her hardest to get over the disconnect, but she just couldn’t. Another month and a half later, she broke up with me for that same reason. She said she still loves me, but she just can’t deal with the distance. The relationship lasted so little and yet it’s absolutely broken me. I liked her for months before I told her and she shot me down. I was heartbroken. 3 months later SHE confesses her feelings for me. At this point, I’m less than 2 months away from moving away from home for college (which she knew) so we talked about it and she agreed to try. The relationship was amazing. She knew me so well and understood everything I was going through. I tried my hardest to be the best boyfriend I could for her but apparently that wasn’t enough for her to not break up with me. I know I was a good bf bc she even told me during the breakup that it wasn’t anything that I did that caused the breakup. That’s good and I’m glad I was a good bf, but I feel like all that means is that, no matter how good I am, I can’t be with her. I just feel so broken inside and I don’t know what the hell I’m supposed to do without her. I had so much planned to do with her when I got back home, but now I can’t do any of those. I was dying to go back, now I’m anxious to do so. Feels less like “my home city” and more like “the city my ex, the person who I love but can’t be with, is”
I'm glad I found this. My heart is going through a lot
My boyfriend of a year and a half just left me for another girl. I really needed this, thank you so much
Thank you for helping me sleep last night after many restless nights :(
Your whispering is nice too
I got dumped and I feel empty so this helped me sleep
she was my everything man
My girl broke up with me yesterday and its the most painful thing ive ever experienced she is my everything and it hurts so much knowing that it was all my fault i really love her im scared to lose her forever 💔
Honestly, Thanks bro. I just don't know how much I can go through without her
Don't ever remember when the break up happened. Was at the bar with my buddy and was almost at the end of the night so I was drunk. And in she came with another dude. Been drunk since then, and havnt slept either. That was 2 nights ago and im tryna get some sleep on the 3rd.
I hope that you’re feeling even a little bit better today
@@laurencasey1459 I'm feeling better. not exactly great though
I haven’t been through a break up but I’m going through a heart break and these videos been helping a lot ❤️
I was scared of him so I broke up today morning and I feel so damn bad. So I thank you for this Video
I don’t want him back! He literally destroyed my whole live! But he was so cute 😔
@@sarasnape2647 i am so sorry that other person tried to promote someone else stay strong
@@edgarrr4521 thanks ☺️
This video provided sleep that i indeed needed. Thanks man! Really loved this❤
She was the one. She was the only one. Never loved before her, I’ll never love after. Even if I did find someone better in any way, I don’t want them. They’ll never be her. I’m never getting back what I once had and I’m not settling for some cheap replacement. I’d rather be alone than find someone new.
My girlfriend of 3 months broke up with me ik 3 months is not a lot and there are people who where dating for 1+ years but it still hurts I really did love her I really wanted us to work out but she lost feelings but she said that she still wants to be friends but I still love her and idk if I can handle just being a friend
My girlfriend broke up with me about a week and a half ago, I keep tricking myself into thinking I'm over it, but I know I'm not. I still can't even look her in the eyes. Completely blind sided me.
Update, it's been 3 months. I'm in a much better headspace now
@@LightLockglad you are🫶🏽
he told me he loved me. reassured me that he wasn’t loosing feelings. broke up with me yesterday, told me that he thought he liked me but just didn’t feel the connection, he was faking it for our whole relationship.
9:46 bro we don’t have to agree now bro she had me fall in love with her and she dated me for a week and brakes up with me over text I don’t think that’s agreeing or disagreeing bro
Same, Im back in the lonely white boy club on tiktok
I'm in love with your voice ❤️
Wonderful video
Love this video! I’m a day one better not forget😉♾
I wanna tell my story too, I don't think it's as big as all of these but I'd still like to tell. Sometimes around last month (may ish) at the end of the month, my ex texted me at 3am saying how he has gotten back into some bad shit and had almost overdosed. He texted me how much he loves me and how sorry he was that he did that. When I woke up I was extremely worried about him and I texted him immediately and asking if he was okay. He told me he was and that he had gone to the hospital and they told him that he was lucky to have survived. For the next couple of days (3 or so) he wasn't very talkative, and understandably so because of what had happened to him. I was still very anxious and scared that something would happen to him and so I'd text him a lot, and I'd apologize for it. He told me how it was okay because he appreciated that I was concerned for him. But after a few hours, at around 9pm he texted me saying "I'm sorry I can't do this anymore" and blocked me everywhere with no other reason. I begged my friend who was his friend too to talk to him and ask him what I did wrong. The next morning she texted me saying how she asked him but he kind of dodged the question, but she convinced him enough to talk to me. It took him around a week for him to unblock me. I texted him telling him how I wasn't mad or anything at him and how I was just worried and hopping he was ok and that I would like to talk and possibly fix this. Another two ish weeks passed by and he texted me saying he was ready to talk and said he could talk that day (Saturday) and I told him to let me know. But he never got back to me. And so my other friend told me that I should give him one last day, and I'd he didn't say anything, I should break it off. And so I told him, I told him I'd give him one day to talk to me, because I had already been waiting so long. And he never said anything..and so I broke it off officially..and here we are, almost the end of June, and even as I've been trying to move on from him, here I am once more, crying my eyes out over him, and trying to calm myself down with this video.
💔💔💔 hope ur doing and feeling a lot better now dear 💗
thank you 😍
Needed this, thank you so much holmes♡
Idk if you still make videos but thanks for this one going through a lot mentally getting out of a 5 yr relationship with a girl i wanted to marry shits hurting.
It hurts even more when you weren't even dating. Just living for the hope of it all):
Woke up to a break up text about wanting to just spend time with her friends instead of having the relationship.
I just broke my own heart by hoping someday I would be back with my ex (I thought we were really good, we talked everyday) until I saw he uploaded a profile picture with another girl (she did the same...) and he hasn't talked since 3 days ago... so... he ghosted me and I feel so so so dumb, why did I hope to be together again if it was me who asked for space/time in the first place (I was overworked and depressed and he wouldn't help...)? I honestly don't know how to feel...
How come a man whom you've been with for almost 6 years moved on with someone else within a few months? And saying that he found whom his soul loves?
What about me? Was I that easy to forget?
thank you for this
Thanks for this honestly I really needed it, my boyfriend broke up with me today and I’m devastated he promised me he would marry me but his friends brain washed him and he listened to them and left me💔
I had to break up with him , all of the narcissistic traits and all the i cant do these but he can and as a autistic person you can see how stresser and upset i have been being told i cant go to a friends house yet .. tonight he has gone to his mates rn its 6 am he isnt back and lied about being there for " a couple of hours " no reassurance on what hes doing and when no message all night. I am upset but im ready for a change . This is the hardest bit though especially since i was supposed to see him tomorrow.🙂 amen to a quick heal and growth!.
Me and my girlfriend broke up 3 days ago. People say teenage love isn’t a real thing but It sure did hurt like it. Love hurts but it just makes us stronger in the end right?
thank u
You have great potential
Thanks for the support bless you
It's been a year and a half since we broke up and here i am.
my boyfriend broke up with me 3 hours ago mutually because we are both severely depressed and because we cant see each other a lot atm so we broke up but at 1:25 am im currently sitting on ft both muted so we can sleep. we cant sleep without each other otp but bro this shit frl hurts sm
He started to refuse to communicate with me and then ended it with no clear answer except we both need to get better,he refused to talk,work things out or anything and ended up becoming distant he didn’t want to talk and didn’t want to fix anything I ended up blaming myself more than anything and then I slowly realize there was a lot he could’ve done differently a lot of things I wish he didn’t do and a lot that I wish he would’ve met me in the middle and communicated with me on. because in the end I can’t force him to communicate with me or to want to fix our relationship so he ended up not speaking to me and then leaving me and I was set in a state of shock and wondering how he could be so cruel and just leave without any issue I found out a lot of things that he did during our relationship such as instead of speaking to me about our problems, speaking to other people about our problems and now I’m on a healing journey, I hope to get better but I hope he does to. This healing Journey is hard because it’s somebody that I care about and always will. getting up and leaving without any necessary reason , Instead just a big clump of refusal of communication and confusion but like I said I just need to heal and hope for the best and focus on myself. Your video really helped me and put me in a position to speak how I feel and feel comfortable being alone after a long time. Thank you❤ have a good night your out here doing gods work, and we all love you, take care man 💙💙💙
Nobody will see this but I'm tired I've lost everything the person I loved for 6 years and friends for 10+ years have all gone away and others get more distant I lost my reason to live and I think tonight might be my last night so for the ones who do read this I hope ur doing okay, never let anyone take ur happiness, DO NOT TRY TO IMPRESS ANYONE OR FIT INTO ANYONE STANDERS
Ps: I love you guys so much and you all are PERFECT ❤️
Me and my boyfriend broke up because he said I changed a lot and I have because my depression has gotten better and I'm not the same person. It hurts because he talked about our future and he said he loved me.
Time for a come back my boy
I just broke up with my ex gf today in the afternoon and I don’t really know how to feel, I feel and think we have something special because we promised each other to respect the other until we’re good to have a healthy relationship, and I can understand her but I’m afraid that she don’t respect me or the promises that we made to each other, and that’s all, thank you person who’s reading this, have a great day
My now ex boyfriend left me 2 days ago out of nowhere we hadn’t long gotten back together he did it and flipped on me like I was nothing to him, when I left him I put so much thought into it he put 1 hour into it. He was cheating on me as soon as we got back together ik he doesn’t deserve me but I can’t help but want to go back but I hope o don’t let myself do that
he just broke up with me
on valentines day
im truly heartbroken
I'm on a break with my girl and she keeps saying she loves me but she's hanging around her ex so I needed this ngl
U know she was everything to me I messed up but it wasn’t through cheating it was through some info that was private and I need help for both us and decided to show her best friend which later exposed me and I didn’t mean to expose her or hurt her I just needed advise and she needed break up the most and I let her go but I try to extend my heart and hands for her showing that care for her I wish things will have change and this one hurts the most cause we started like friends back in middle school and started dating 10th grade and it was fine but then she started acting weird and I was there always offered my hand always told her I was here. After the break up I just had a quick talk with her apologizing and thanking her for everything and she decide to tell her friends which got my family involved yes I messed up but it was never for bad intentions and I tried to communicate with her but it didn’t work out I hope nothing but the best for her but she is still on my mind
I still toke the blame and tried to not paint her a bad image. Ik I was a bad guy in that situation. I understand it. I think she gave some trust issues I never told her any of my problems cause she will ignore me and so I stop and was treated like an option and she would defend her friends more then me when later I would be in the right and they would be in wrong still tho I pray for success in life as she deserves it
@@Maxgarci51 you are a sweet soul. I hope you are feeling better. Even if not... Just know that you deserve better for sure.
just got heartbroken by this girl that doesn’t even kno who I am 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Thank you 💔
Wish we had communication more often but he ghosted shi has me down
Idk how these people be breaking up with Mfs daily this my first time breaking up with someone and shi hurting you hurt because the other person is hurt dawg I feel like straight shit for leaving her
I’ve had 2 girlfriends when I was in both elementary and middle school but sadly I didn’t lose my virginity with either of them. It didn’t really matter because we were minors at the time so we were too young for sex anyway. I’m a 25 year old autistic sexless lonely virgin and my hopes of losing my virginity certainly isn’t up at all. I already know that I’m gonna be alone “forever.” I never had my first kiss and I don’t have any kids. I’ve been single as a Pringle for a HEFTY 12 1/2 years and I really don’t mind it. At the Time of my breakups, my down to earth 🌎 folks consoled me while I was feeling so down and sad 😔. The cause of my 2 breakups was due to personal various reasons.
My gf just broke up with me bc she said it was “awkward”
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