In the words of Aerosmith: “Life’s a journey, not a destination.” This video is such a good reminder to give yourself the grace and kindness you give others, and realize that we are all flawed, but worthy of love and connection. I like how you put the onus on the viewer to have courage, take control of their words and actions, and ultimately, their life.
I really needed this. My girlfriend of over a year just broke up with me a week ago, and I've been having a really hard time coming to terms with the fact that she's no longer with me. Thank you for this.
Brother don’t even get me started. Love is something that everyone desires, and watching the one thing you love being taken away from you is hard. I miss her so much every day it kills me just writing this because I wish she could see it. I hope you’re doing better six months later dawg I feel your pain in a lot of ways but it doesn’t mean you’re a bad person
@@ajmonkeybrain9543its a crazy thing seeing the person you love so much exit your life. We all deserve to love somebody and be loved by somebody, hope you are doing better man. Got broken up with a couple days ago, worst part is I can’t speed up time, and time is the only thing that will help.
been over a month since she left and im still coming back to this video. my dad passed when i was a kid and this video is just so healing and nice. sending love 🫶🏻
There are two concepts that really resonated with me throughout this video - 1) You have agency. You are at the helm of your own life. You are not at the mercy of other people’s whims and desires. Such a powerful concept and something we often forget in the midst of suffering. 2) There’s going to be a grieving process after a breakup and it’s ok to grieve , to cry, to miss that person. It’s ok to let the tears flow and welcome all feelings. Yet many times we experience guilt or feel inadequate, we want to rush through the stages. But all we need to do is allow that grief to be present. Thank you for yet another meaningful conversation about dealing with loss and breakup. It applies to couples as well as longtime friendships. It has given me food for thought tonight, especially the part about being 100% responsible. Thank you 🙏 Jeremiah. Much appreciated and needed. ❤
Your therapy videos are so calming. So much of this could be applied to any relationship really. We need to get out of the victim mindset and know that we have control over much more than we realize.
This video is a really helpful eye opener. I don’t think I’ve heard the phrase sunk-cost fallacy but it’s an interesting perspective when you talked about how hard it is to want to let go of that dark place because we’ve invested in so much time into it. It’s as if we associate our identity with that and losing that feels like we lose part of ourselves. The fear of vulnerability, protecting the inner child is so common. And victimhood is inevitable to anyone because we are susceptible to it. It’s just a fact. It’s easy to point blame. What I very much appreciated was the mental exercise of taking responsibility, accountability of oneself and the investment in a relationship. Because what’s the point. No one invests in it for you. It’s not one sided and that’s where communication needs to be very very strong! I also liked the careful response of not always siding with the client. Because that’s not reality or a way to help and improve someone when you’re helping them fill their ego. Really appreciated the Sheldon Kopp quote too! Great video! ☺️
i very much needed and need this right now especially from my favorite asmrtist. i am hurting so badly. we live together and shes been gone for two weeks now. im trying to remember “the best way i can say i love you, is to give her time, space, and independence to heal” even though its very very hard to not break down to her over text. im trying.
Withholding stuff really does become all consuming this is so on point. Had I been more open instead of ashamed it wouldn't have built up a resentment within me, and as much as I love them this was the one thing that would affect us in different ways. It's really true that if you aren't honest and fully open with that person then it just won't work.
I never really leave UA-cam comments as much I watch a lot of UA-cam but I feel i to need to thank you for making this. I found your channel through your blackjack videos which are great and I use them to fall asleep often. This video I found more intentionally as I was searching for asmr videos that could help me process the breakup I’m currently going through. I always find it easier to relate to male voice anyway but when I saw you had made a video covering this topic I was extremely eager to watch and I have to say this impressively exceeded my expectations. I won’t go through specifics of what parts of what you said resonated with me most prominantly but I will say I feel more mentally and emotionally grounded after watching. And that’s no small statement because it’s very hard to find sources of positive influence in that respect. Most of social media isn’t healthy or constructive to that regard and it’s a challenge enough to distance myself from things that will negatively impact my healing journey, let alone find something that will help. So thank you. Whether you see this comment, whether you reply to it, whether you dont, you have still had a directly positive influence on my current state of mind and I wanted you to appreciate the importance of your content and presence for that. Have a great day man ❤️
My girlfriend recently broke up with me and I've been struggling to sleep or quieten down my mind. Thank you for this video, it might just be ASMR but it has helped me immensely.
just got back from the bar with friends and im alone. i came back to this video because you get me and i feel genuine comfort through your other videos too. i really been doing my best the last month and doing the true WORK to be better, until tonight. i absolutely broke down in a pool of tears on the floor like a pathetic baby kicking and screaming. it hurt/hurts so bad. i called me mom because i was so in need of someone. i wish she were who were comforting me but the biggest thing that’s helped me is telling myself: “I want to go back. but i cannot and that is OKAY.” also: not “i cant do anything about it.” but “i cant do anything about it!!!” thank you for being here. now i just need another hangover video.
I've been literally crying for hours about how bad my boyfriend has treated me recently, but I'm too scared of breaking up with him yet. And then this video popped up. Thank you so much, I needed this! 💖
Same here, I just got out of a 3 year relationship after being cheated on and lied to and some days feel so dark but just know there’s so much love and light out there! Loving the wrong person that much can only mean we love the right person that much more❤️
Damn we were so lonely that we started crying and all we could do was to search "ASMR for after a breakup" how desperate we are.... How desperate I am.
I don’t know what to do, i’m not exactly sad, but I remember him constantly, almost every second of every day, he was not only my boyfriend, but my best friend for at least 6 years. Thank you for this video, it helped me calm down at least for a night.
My gf left me about a week ago, last 4 days ago on Thursday would've been 11 months, I loved her with all my heart and it hurts so much, i miss her a lot.
I just left a 4 year abusive relationship with the mother of my child. I’m so beyond broken, and she is being nothing but difficult and saying how I’m leaving my family, I miss my daughter more than anything but I cannot continue to allow myself to be treated like garbage… and through all of this I still miss my partner… we went through a lot together and I can’t even fathom starting over now. I’m so nervous for the next few months, with custody and other things, especially because where she wanted to move is nowhere near any of my family or friends. Ughh I feel so alone here and all I want is to hold my daughter and tell her I love her 💔💔💔
probably gonna need this, broke up a few weeks ago after he beat my ass a couple of times, cheated on me with an underaged girl and totally destroyed my self-esteem. thank you
Never realized how much I would enjoy a male asmr lol. I've done female previously but listening to a man do it provides a sense of safety and protection that I've always wanted as a child but I grt to feel it now haha 😊
Explain then why guys , yes i said guys specifically, tell you they want to communicate…then when you do, they dont wanna talk about it? Edit: i say guys bc im only interested ing guys so i dont have that issue with girls
Today my girlfriend of 8 years and I broke up. I feel like crap. I miss her so much. We decided to keep being friends, buy it's not gonna be the same. 8 years is a really long time. I was in my early 20s. I'm 30 now. I don't know if I want someone else. And I don't know if I want her back or if I'm resentful at her. I just...feel empty.
My ex started dating the ex she told me not to worry about and I knew I should’ve. Sucks she is dating and I’m still hung up. I wanna move on but it’s hard.
Nah, your stalking me, my girlfriend broke up with me at 8 am this morning, which I knew was coming and tbh didn't care, but the fact this came out during this is wikd
You look like an older version of my ex, so I’ll just listen without watching cause it makes me think of him, but what are the chances of me looking up “asmr for breakup” and finding this video? Thank you for your work, btw!
Hi Jeremiah, i was so rude with my talk last months.. Sorry about that i know i'm did that because i can't be part of your life.. I feel selfishness cause i want all your attention only to me. And i feel safe when i think in older men. Yes you can think i'm return to you Jeremiah cause No one accepted my truth. Please wish the health days for my Biological father because he's very depressed. Jeremiah, have daddy issues is a problem and need solution but until know nothing workout with me. Now I'm ready to To hear the truth. But scared if i solve it i will be different person. I feel it's a way to be in safe zone and be a victim because (my childhood effects on me). I always be attracted to men with age gap and Irresponsible. Then the problem happens and broke up. I feel i'm stuck in a maze, Today I experienced the effect of the parents' relationship with us. I'm thankful for all your work, sorry i'm talking a lot and thanks.
In the words of Aerosmith: “Life’s a journey, not a destination.” This video is such a good reminder to give yourself the grace and kindness you give others, and realize that we are all flawed, but worthy of love and connection. I like how you put the onus on the viewer to have courage, take control of their words and actions, and ultimately, their life.
I really needed this. My girlfriend of over a year just broke up with me a week ago, and I've been having a really hard time coming to terms with the fact that she's no longer with me. Thank you for this.
Brother don’t even get me started. Love is something that everyone desires, and watching the one thing you love being taken away from you is hard. I miss her so much every day it kills me just writing this because I wish she could see it. I hope you’re doing better six months later dawg I feel your pain in a lot of ways but it doesn’t mean you’re a bad person
@@ajmonkeybrain9543 how have you been doing? She broke up with me just barely a week before
She broke up with me exactly a week ago. I feel it guys
@@k9ily724I hope you’re doing better man. Shit sucks
@@ajmonkeybrain9543its a crazy thing seeing the person you love so much exit your life. We all deserve to love somebody and be loved by somebody, hope you are doing better man. Got broken up with a couple days ago, worst part is I can’t speed up time, and time is the only thing that will help.
been over a month since she left and im still coming back to this video. my dad passed when i was a kid and this video is just so healing and nice. sending love 🫶🏻
Mines almost been 2 weeks maybeb3 nn jus hate her idk I wish y’all all the best tho n the best revenge is double your money n focus on yourself
There are two concepts that really resonated with me throughout this video - 1) You have agency. You are at the helm of your own life. You are not at the mercy of other people’s whims and desires. Such a powerful concept and something we often forget in the midst of suffering.
2) There’s going to be a grieving process after a breakup and it’s ok to grieve , to cry, to miss that person. It’s ok to let the tears flow and welcome all feelings. Yet many times we experience guilt or feel inadequate, we want to rush through the stages. But all we need to do is allow that grief to be present. Thank you for yet another meaningful conversation about dealing with loss and breakup. It applies to couples as well as longtime friendships. It has given me food for thought tonight, especially the part about being 100% responsible. Thank you 🙏 Jeremiah. Much appreciated and needed. ❤
Your therapy videos are so calming. So much of this could be applied to any relationship really. We need to get out of the victim mindset and know that we have control over much more than we realize.
This video is a really helpful eye opener. I don’t think I’ve heard the phrase sunk-cost fallacy but it’s an interesting perspective when you talked about how hard it is to want to let go of that dark place because we’ve invested in so much time into it. It’s as if we associate our identity with that and losing that feels like we lose part of ourselves. The fear of vulnerability, protecting the inner child is so common. And victimhood is inevitable to anyone because we are susceptible to it. It’s just a fact. It’s easy to point blame. What I very much appreciated was the mental exercise of taking responsibility, accountability of oneself and the investment in a relationship. Because what’s the point. No one invests in it for you. It’s not one sided and that’s where communication needs to be very very strong! I also liked the careful response of not always siding with the client. Because that’s not reality or a way to help and improve someone when you’re helping them fill their ego. Really appreciated the Sheldon Kopp quote too! Great video! ☺️
You are the most underappreciated asmrtist out there, keep up the amazing work!!!
i very much needed and need this right now especially from my favorite asmrtist. i am hurting so badly. we live together and shes been gone for two weeks now. im trying to remember “the best way i can say i love you, is to give her time, space, and independence to heal” even though its very very hard to not break down to her over text. im trying.
This is genuinley good therapy even if your in a relationship
One of the wisest UA-camrs! With an amazing voice. Incredible, keep up the good work
Withholding stuff really does become all consuming this is so on point. Had I been more open instead of ashamed it wouldn't have built up a resentment within me, and as much as I love them this was the one thing that would affect us in different ways. It's really true that if you aren't honest and fully open with that person then it just won't work.
I never really leave UA-cam comments as much I watch a lot of UA-cam but I feel i to need to thank you for making this. I found your channel through your blackjack videos which are great and I use them to fall asleep often. This video I found more intentionally as I was searching for asmr videos that could help me process the breakup I’m currently going through. I always find it easier to relate to male voice anyway but when I saw you had made a video covering this topic I was extremely eager to watch and I have to say this impressively exceeded my expectations. I won’t go through specifics of what parts of what you said resonated with me most prominantly but I will say I feel more mentally and emotionally grounded after watching. And that’s no small statement because it’s very hard to find sources of positive influence in that respect. Most of social media isn’t healthy or constructive to that regard and it’s a challenge enough to distance myself from things that will negatively impact my healing journey, let alone find something that will help. So thank you. Whether you see this comment, whether you reply to it, whether you dont, you have still had a directly positive influence on my current state of mind and I wanted you to appreciate the importance of your content and presence for that. Have a great day man ❤️
My girlfriend recently broke up with me and I've been struggling to sleep or quieten down my mind. Thank you for this video, it might just be ASMR but it has helped me immensely.
just got back from the bar with friends and im alone. i came back to this video because you get me and i feel genuine comfort through your other videos too. i really been doing my best the last month and doing the true WORK to be better, until tonight. i absolutely broke down in a pool of tears on the floor like a pathetic baby kicking and screaming. it hurt/hurts so bad. i called me mom because i was so in need of someone. i wish she were who were comforting me but the biggest thing that’s helped me is telling myself: “I want to go back. but i cannot and that is OKAY.” also: not “i cant do anything about it.” but “i cant do anything about it!!!” thank you for being here. now i just need another hangover video.
yet again, another amazing video. keep up the great work Jeremiah. love your videos so much, you’re the best! 💖
thank you, I just got out of a year and a half relationship and he left me for another girl so I really needed to hear this. Great video, keep it up!
I've been literally crying for hours about how bad my boyfriend has treated me recently, but I'm too scared of breaking up with him yet. And then this video popped up. Thank you so much, I needed this! 💖
I just got out of a 4 year relationship and it’s the hardest thing ever. I don’t feel worthy of love and I don’t feel like I belong here anymore
Same here, I just got out of a 3 year relationship after being cheated on and lied to and some days feel so dark but just know there’s so much love and light out there! Loving the wrong person that much can only mean we love the right person that much more❤️
Damn we were so lonely that we started crying and all we could do was to search "ASMR for after a breakup" how desperate we are.... How desperate I am.
me too blud
Another great video Jeremiah!
I also learned a lot.
And self-reflection and self love is difficult..
I don’t know what to do, i’m not exactly sad, but I remember him constantly, almost every second of every day, he was not only my boyfriend, but my best friend for at least 6 years. Thank you for this video, it helped me calm down at least for a night.
Wow. This video was deep. Will watch it again later. Lots of great info. 👍
My gf left me about a week ago, last 4 days ago on Thursday would've been 11 months, I loved her with all my heart and it hurts so much, i miss her a lot.
thank you for this video! it helped me so much to calm down ❤
Just the thing that i need. My boyfriend broke up with me so this helped me sooooo much❤❤
I just left a 4 year abusive relationship with the mother of my child. I’m so beyond broken, and she is being nothing but difficult and saying how I’m leaving my family, I miss my daughter more than anything but I cannot continue to allow myself to be treated like garbage… and through all of this I still miss my partner… we went through a lot together and I can’t even fathom starting over now. I’m so nervous for the next few months, with custody and other things, especially because where she wanted to move is nowhere near any of my family or friends. Ughh I feel so alone here and all I want is to hold my daughter and tell her I love her 💔💔💔
I didn’t need this lol, I just love your videos. I am with the most beautiful and caring person in the world and I couldn’t complain. Love this
my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about a week ago. he just started dating one of my friends. i needed this video
this really helped thank you
probably gonna need this, broke up a few weeks ago after he beat my ass a couple of times, cheated on me with an underaged girl and totally destroyed my self-esteem. thank you
Never realized how much I would enjoy a male asmr lol. I've done female previously but listening to a man do it provides a sense of safety and protection that I've always wanted as a child but I grt to feel it now haha 😊
wow this channel are amazing 😍
god bless you my friend
I really needed this… I’m pregnant and my baby father laid hands on me and is in jail… I miss him so much and I can’t stop thinking about it.
Needed to survive tonight. Thanks.
Why did I get a wine ad before this video 😭
Could you please do therapy for ab*se? Your videos help me very much, keep it up🫶
God it’s like he knows 😭
Explain then why guys , yes i said guys specifically, tell you they want to communicate…then when you do, they dont wanna talk about it?
Edit: i say guys bc im only interested ing guys so i dont have that issue with girls
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There are plenty of Helmuts in the sea… er, salon 😄
Today my girlfriend of 8 years and I broke up. I feel like crap. I miss her so much. We decided to keep being friends, buy it's not gonna be the same. 8 years is a really long time. I was in my early 20s. I'm 30 now. I don't know if I want someone else. And I don't know if I want her back or if I'm resentful at her. I just...feel empty.
Que bom eu ter falado com o senhor foi magnífico ter ouvido a sua voz e realizado todos meus desejos atravéz, vou compartilhar.
My ex started dating the ex she told me not to worry about and I knew I should’ve. Sucks she is dating and I’m still hung up. I wanna move on but it’s hard.
Nah, your stalking me, my girlfriend broke up with me at 8 am this morning, which I knew was coming and tbh didn't care, but the fact this came out during this is wikd
my girlfriend of nine months didn't even take a day to replace me. I'm not sure if it's worth it anymore
Yeah im not “over” some of the men i knew, but i “moved on” so to speak. Probably in a unhealthy way most definitely
You look like an older version of my ex, so I’ll just listen without watching cause it makes me think of him, but what are the chances of me looking up “asmr for breakup” and finding this video? Thank you for your work, btw!
i just texted my ex and asked if she wants to talk. she got a new bf
Free therapy too? Goodness man, I only met you an hour ago. Looks like yinz all are stuck with me now, sorry folks.
Were you and Megan embarrassed to tell the secrets you were withholding from each other
You can read it in their memoir. 😂
@@Knotty_byy_natureif he decides to write one… I know it’s none of my business but I can’t imagine the secrets they withheld from one another♥️
🧔🧔🧔✏️✏️✏️📃📃📃💔💔💔
Every thing seemed great but they all drop me after 2 months.
Hi Jeremiah, i was so rude with my talk last months.. Sorry about that i know i'm did that because i can't be part of your life.. I feel selfishness cause i want all your attention only to me. And i feel safe when i think in older men. Yes you can think i'm return to you Jeremiah cause No one accepted my truth. Please wish the health days for my Biological father because he's very depressed.
Jeremiah, have daddy issues is a problem and need solution but until know nothing workout with me. Now I'm ready to To hear the truth. But scared if i solve it i will be different person. I feel it's a way to be in safe zone and be a victim because (my childhood effects on me). I always be attracted to men with age gap and Irresponsible. Then the problem happens and broke up.
I feel i'm stuck in a maze, Today I experienced the effect of the parents' relationship with us. I'm thankful for all your work, sorry i'm talking a lot and thanks.