Who Raised You?! 🤨 How Do You Know Somebody Wasn't Raised Right?
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The people who eat and don't clean up after themselves in the break room always angers me
I've got anger issues because of that. One time I tried to tell my nephew please wash your dishes and his mother my cousin went off that I'm picking on her son.🤦🏾♂️
I was just about to say this 📌
@@maseti67 I know who wouldn't be eating anything the next time I had visitors lol. I not a fan of people who don't clear their plates off before putting it in the sink either. There's nothing more rewarding than picking up chicken bones out of the sink before washing someone else's plate.
I like that Envy in his 40's and said he's still not allowed to curse in front of his parents. No he doesn't have to have permission. He just has to much respect to do so. I'm 43 and I've still never cursed in front of my parents and won't. You never out grow respect.
Same here
@bonita1922 you were raised right. 👏 honestly I don't get a person that thinks when I turn a certain age I don't have to show respect anymore. 😒
I'm 40 and I still don't curse in front of my parents.
@ericgary9316 you was raised right,and haven't lost your manners
My grandma on one side was Ethiopian and my brother and I learned swear words in her language from a cousin and she overheard us and baby! That was the worst day of my life. I never seen her angry before and it was a shock. We didn’t understand half of what she said but the message got through.
Cursing at your parents is one way you can tell especially in adulthood.
Hell yeah I just turned 33 ive said things out of anger and my parents understood my frustration then.. "accidents" but cursing at them just gone and send me to the morgue fam
@@deejones9833 yep, that’s how it goes.
Agreed
I was born in 1977 and I still don’t do this 🤷🏾♂️
@@frankjohnson5682 me either, I was born in 98, and I would never do that. I get that you sometimes might have differences which make you wanna curse them out but you don’t actually do it.
A clear tell if someone isn't raised right is if they litter.
Yo, I promise you there is a perfect correlation between people that litter and people that think others need to clean up after them in life.
Think on it. I bet you find it true too.
Word yo! If I even think about littering (which I don’t) I hear my dead mom’s voice say “girl, you know better than that”. 😂
I think it matters where/ the environment your raised not necessarily how. Example. I was born and raised in NY and I littered like crazy because it’s normal out there. Trash on every side walk cuz everyone litter. When I moved out of NY people would be looking at me crazy 😂😂 and my friend would be like why you do that there’s a trash can right there. Point is I thought it was a normal thing and I didn’t know until I stepped outside NY, it wasn’t. I’ve always been a person with manners and respect. I was raised right but I also used to litter without a thought.
@stevenchilders272 knows he's littered at least a couple times. Everybody does, don't lie.
@@dask472 nah, I can see it with like Mexico or Ghana or Greece or something where virtually nowhere in the country has city garbage service. But if there are trash cans you use trash cans even when no one else does.
People who are condescending for no reason. Also, people who don’t speak when you say good morning or hello.
The caller made a good point. When people leave a restaurant(fast food or sit down) & dont even attempt to arrange or throw their trash out
When I go to someone house and it’s messy. I can’t do it
I had respect for All of the older adults when I was young because that's the way I was raised
I still do now... I still say sir or mam .
Kids are having kids these days. It’s hard to show respect when grandma is 37 and acting like a teenager
I’m 59yrs old I still do.
I was raised wrong!! It took me a very long time to figure out I was the problem. I lost everything I ever loved cuz of lieing!
Unfortunately you end up paying for the mistakes of the ones who were meant to teach you and help you to successfully navigate the world. After betraying and setting you up for failure, they still expect you to respect and honour them
Manners is everything in my book
In short yes, totally agree
Are… Manners are everything.🙄
Word.
@@Ray-px5ov to the answer to your question “MANNERS” like I said
@@lonnaaugust3962 Your grammar is atrocious though.
Some kids were raised right but were not punished when they did wrong which made the kids think it's ok to do bad things.
That's an oxymoron 😂 if your weren't raised with discipline how were you raised right?
@@TheBasher-_- No you can teach a child right from wrong but at the same time not punish them when they do wrong. Teaching and punishing are 2 different things!!!
@@TheBasher-_- Some parents do half of the job. They teach don't steal, don't be mean etc. But they want too much to be the child's friend rather than be a parent. Some parents are too nice and think punishment is the same thing as abuse.
Some parents are funny meaning if you try to correct their child they will get mad at you. When kids go to school they have to be corrected when they are wrong. That's why people are in jail and dead in the graveyard now because the parents didn't correct and discipline the child!!!
Yup
Nor speaking to people when you coming in is a big one 💯
That shit is so stupid to me.
I got a pass when I was a kid cause I was extremely shy lol so anyone who knew me knew that it wasn’t a rude thing. But the older I got of course I grew out of it.
What if that person is shy or anxious? Or I guess black people don't have those.
@brentthompson1607 You can have all that I do, but to us that's disrespectful.. when you're allowed into someone's place you speak to the heads of the house hold then aunts and uncles it goes down the line 😂
You can raise your kids right and they still act out of pocket.
The way people talk to elders and manners let's me know if they were raised right
The treatment of waiters/waitresses, cashiers, and other roles where people are there to service you (NOT SERVE) and you treat them like gum under the bottom of your shoe says more about you than them any day. Some of the things that people are saying here are 100% accurate but we also have to keep in mind that there are some people who are neurodivergent (ADHD, autistic, Asperger, etc.) and looking at them will not always indicate that, so you may be thinking that they’re being rude, when in actuality they are not, so we have to keep that in mind that judging a book by its cover maybe an indication that you weren’t raised right…lol 😂
Not having the ability to read or understand nuisance in situations is a BIG sign someone wasn't raised correctly 👀
I just can't!😂😂😂😂😭😭
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Getting shaded by a dude with a Super saiyan 5 vegeta pfp is crazy
@@IllMatic97 it's actually super Saiyan 100 I picked that pfp like 13 years ago
@@IllMatic97 I 10 years old when I made that pfp and I could also read better than Jess can read
Most people aren't raised right. But that doesn't mean people can't learn along the way and try to improve themselves. To be raised right, at least most of the time, you need two parents in the house. You need parenting from a mother and father and they have to be on the same page about it.
My dad was around but everyone has a different perspective on life so you need a village to be raised right not just dad and mom my grandparents gave me the real game I took what everyone gave me
@@deejones9833 That's true, it does take a village but a mother and father are usually the most important.
@@badmanskill1112They are the foundation of the family
My mom was a single parent but my brother and I had a village. Grandparents, Aunts, Neighbors. Dad was around but not involved. My kids had both parents and we were on the same page.
@naemack1441 Not necessarily my grandparents gave me more values and morals than my parents that's why I say it takes a village my mom was a scammer before scammers was a word everyone uses now (she did her time) lol my parents thought materialistic stuff covered everything grandparents are also a foundation they know more about life that's just my opinion tho
Manners Was Everything ❤️
How they basically treat people. If you meet someone and they come off negative or the way they talk about certain things that just don’t make sense. It’s a lot of variable factors that you can tell when they’re not raised right. When I get a negative vibe from someone, I stay the hell away from them. Sometimes I later find out I made the right decision because I’ll find out later they were put in jail for some type of crimes or done much worse.
No cleaning chemicals in the house. Like no bleach, no lysol, no 409. Just nothing. Thats why yo toilette is dirty
Someone who does not know you at all and seeing you in the street starts asking a question without saying hi before
"🗣🎶I think your back getting big" Is crazy 😂😂😂
No compassion? Mom failed them.
No stoic discipline? Dad failed them.
Coward? Block failed them.
Bully? OGs failed them.
6:11 my mother and grandmother wouldn’t even enter a door unless I opened it.
Would literally stand there looking lost 😂
Walking in and not speaking was a NO GO in my parents home!!!! Same for my house.
Being raised right means being an asset to yourself, your family, your community, your people and humanity.
It means taking the time to calculate the effects of your actions on yourself and others.
Years ago, I discovered the science of the ego, the id and the super ego (aka the soul) in the field of psychology.
That study made me realize that despite my parents beautiful emphasis on worshipping Jesus and faith, i was not practicing the principles of spirituality.
I discovered the importance of overcoming the self-centeredness of the ego and the base-naturedness of the id.
That led to me distancing myself from a lot of people and a lot of people distancing themselves from me.
Jess wit that Mess😂
Being raised “right” is subjective. I may not like the way someone was raised based on his or her manners, but it is different and I don’t have to accept or be around the person. I call my mom by her first name and call people by their first name outside of my family no matter who she is is but I say please and thank you and you’re welcome and ma’am and sir so it’s subjective
Exactly you cannot paint people or judge thier parents with one broad stroke
You can raise a child as perfectly as you can, and they can grow up to be disrespectful, or a slob and etc. I got two brothers on my mom's side, we all adults now. Im the oldest (29,25,22), the youngest a straight slob, don't even feel comfortable using the bathroom after him. The middle one stay cussing around our mama like she one of the homies or sumn. I try to check them about it but they don't listen. Some people just grow up and have moralities of their own no matter how they were raised
Lack of discipline and responsibilities
Mama Lawann, Grandma and grandpa.❤ Mama Lawann wasn’t even my momma but she loved me unconditionally like I was hers ❤
People interrupting people in conversations without saying excuse me or beg your pardon.
Age doesn't mean you instantly deserve respect though.
COMING FROM A PART TIME SINGLE MOTHER HOUSEHOLD, FOSTER CARE AND HOMELESS SHELTER I THOUGHT EVERYONE IN SCHOOL WAS POOR LIKE ME UNFORTUNATELY I LEARNED LATER ON THAT SOME IF NOT MOST OF THESE KIDS WERE COMING FROM 50K TO OVER 100K HOUSEHOLD INCOMES...DESIGNER CLOTHES AND CARS ETC. THEY HAD, PLUS THE SEX, DRUGS, PARTIES, GANGS OR CREWS AND SKIPPING SCHOOL THE POPULAR LIFE/FAST LIFE WAS WHAT MY SCHOOL MATES WERE ATTRACTED TO... NOWADAYS THEY ARE DOA BECAUSE OF THE CHOICES THEY MADE BEING SPOILED BY THEIR PARENTS...WHEN THEY GOT IN TROUBLE THEY RAN TO MOMMY AND DADDY😂 TRUE BE TOLD MOMMY AND DADDY AINT ALWAYS GONE BE THERE🤔🧐🤨🗣💯🤝🏿
I LEARNED FROM OTHERS MISTAKES THEY MADE IN LIFE SO IT RAISED ME TO BE INDEPENDENT🏚🚔📚🎓🙏🏿🖤💰✊🏿🎧📖
I'm so proud of your story! I know it wasn't easy coming out of Foster Care 🎯💯.😢GOD BLESS YOU!😇🙏😇🙏
Charlamagne know he didn’t check his record out 😂
Plugging your music on a segment like this 😂 go head young man
I don't determine if someone raised their children right because not everyone raises their children the same. Just because they did it differently does not make them wrong. This question is biased because "you" are judging parenting based on "your" values. At the end of the day, it may simply be important to teach people how to treat you and leave it there. But this is just my opinion. Not seeking agreement or disagreement. Blessings. 💛🙏🏽
Wen u have baby without foundation wedlock
Top comment but they’re never pinning this 😅
Marriage is a financial contract. Having a baby is in our nature as humans but marriage isn’t.
Honestly some things you can’t blame the parents for. These children feed off each other and somewhere in the mix there’s a knucklehead who influences everyone to do something against the norm of what parents taught them.
Bring back the days of villages raising the children.
You're right. Sometimes it's the outside influences that impact the kids'behavior. Especially if they're pretending to be something they're not.
@@rosesarikaya5633 💯
When someone holds the door for you & you don't thank them
Grand Rising!!! Ppl need to do their research. It's a positive saying
Yawn or cough in public without covering their mouth....who raised you?
"Raised Right" is relative.
They get their news from the breakfast club
Pretty much
My mom lives in a senior citizen complex. Everytime I go through with some food, I always buy extra for an old gentleman I always see by himself. I don't even know his name, but my mom told me he always asks about me when he sees her, and he rarely talks to anybody. . . . Which feels good to know.
Love the 3 shot set up
This was a good segment!
When you hold the door open for someone and they don’t say thank you. I know they’re not obligated to say anything since they didn’t ask you to leave the door open but a quick thank you doesn’t hurt. lol
7:45 he literally said when they talk ghetto and can’t have an intelligent conversation, and Charla gone say that’s not true not all ghetto people are unintelligent.. that’s not who we talking about sir! 😂
i know someone wasn’t raised right when….they’re constantly eating on the mic while doing their segment on the breakfast club 🤭….no shade 🤷🏽♂️
Karens in the workplace, attacking other employees. Regularly.
A few things: 1) being extremely selfish 2) disrespecting old people, 3) staying ignorant about things and don't care about voting; 4) cussing people out like a fool in public when it wasn'tnecessary,and 4) people who throw trash out of the window of a car, on the street, etc.
When people can never be discreet about their grievances and they always have to dress you down/cuss you out in public. it's like they always have something to prove.
Great topic
Envy said, “ACKNOWLEDGE ME!” 😂😂😂😂
I hold doors, take care of service folks, use sir & ma’am. I will say hello upon entering a room until things are fake & it service no purpose other than to make folks feel comfy so they can get back to popping sh*t.
Saying Thank You!!!!
I agree 100%
I have manners like no other to the point people laugh at me at times! I’ve never heard manners will take you where money won’t! I’m so using that!! This is one of the best topics discussed ❤
TK Kirkland gave TBC the idea to talk about this topic.
Can sense when someone isn’t a nice person
I dont always speak to people and its because of two things. 1...i get social anxiety and me being quiet means im trying to regulate my emotions, etc and 2....out of respect for people ill otherwise cuss out 😂.
Teach you kids the magic words of manners as toddlers, thank you. pleases, excuse me, may I, good morning it's the simple things❣️
I teach my son the same why I was taught. Show respect to everyone. Give them the opportunity to lose your respect by tgeir actions.
Charlemagne is crazy ( I'm not a biscuit) 🤣😂💀
The way they take and manners
Talk ghetto that’s definitely Jess 🤣🤣🤣
Good 😊beautiful people!
Sometimes you can’t blame the parents…
Right, people are going to do what they want
Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you
We do know some kids are born without the option of being raised by actual parents and being raised in foster care. Some kids living with parents who do the worst things to them possible. We can't think everyone is afforded the same opportunities of life to be great
10:08 💯💯💯
We are watching these People for Respect....LOL
I totally agree like manners is everything i need to know and cursing in front of older people mainly older women and yes and not saying "thank you" has always been a pet peeve for me and also not speaking when being introduced to someone and when its kids when they disrespect adults so🤷🏿♂️
TK Kirkland created that. Now he will go on Vlad to address this 😂
I don't think it's about improper raring. Some folks are simply disrespectful and have no morals or consideration for others. I don't think parents should get credit for their adult children choosing not to carry on the teachings they learned at home.
We respect our elders, we didn't talk back, we had manners. These kids nowadays 😬🤦🏽♀️
When you been outside or out the house all day and you run and open the refrigerator without washing your hands. Especially going in the ice
My boss nd upper management told me I was not raised right… said I was “too nice”, always came to work, never late, never called in never missed a day! And gave my boss niece a ride to work too , but I was not raised right… now you know I put in a 2weeks notice after that…smh
Different cultures have different codes of ethics
A man that take you out, and he walks IN and OUT of doors Infront of you. Also, a Man that walks on the SIDE Walk on the inside, while the woman on the outside on the date.
Lastly, chunking food and trash out the window like it's normal to do.
Individuals who leads the bathroom without washing their hands. SMH.’
Goodmorning!!!!!!
How you treat a server or custodial staff member.
That just happened to me today! Im standin there as a girl no less waiting holding the door for the guy behind me he doesn't say anything!🤔
You just cussed on the radio 😁
@2:00 Calling parents by their first name is very Yt. All my Yt friend do this, and I find it shocking every time!
Love ypu Jess !
💅 ✂️
These are all opinions and not facts.
Pretty much
I’m 40 and still won’t cuss in front of my father! My brother does and it’s annoying to me, but he was not raised right
"go get a pedicure like a real man" 💅💅💅
When you let someone pass in traffic and they don’t waive
Its a trip that as kids most of us were taught not to talk back to our parent(s) then in our later years we almost forced to respond to them when we really rather not deal with the stress thats comes with the territory 😂🤷🏾♂️
Yes ma'am 12:51
Well.....
iThink cursing in front of or cursing at your parents.
I don't even take my rude friends to my favorite spots! Unt unnn....they not gone ruin the relationships I worked to build!
jess hit comedic gold when she told them folk to stop biting they finger nails and get a sandwich
16 and pregnant
When I enter any room I was raised to speak and greet to everyone. I’m grown and I’ll never cuss around, smoke da za around my parents or cuss at my parents I anit dumb😂💯. I hold the door for my elders and let them go first before me🤷🏾♂️. And most importantly I got my ass whooped something a lot of these new kids never received and need