Why You Must Surrender to Modern Women's Nature
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I'm 53, divorced 5 years, married 17 years before that. I'm an educated professional with my own business and well off. Have been dating women in their 20s and 30s exclusively. The caller's question is extremely valid and insightful for someone sounding younger. The end game is unknown. That's the best I can describe it at this point. Mostly because today's w0men are all over the place, flaky, immature and plain unreliable. Which makes you think you would never want to end up with any of them anyways. Build yourself a solid financial future so your old age isn't jeopardized and play until you either can't or you drop.
I agree Alex 👍🏼
Exactly right ! Im almost identical except Im 57, divorced 18 years, married for 14, own business and have a few bucks. Oldest woman I have dated since my divorce is 37 and Im short and not that great looking but I can make a woman laugh during dinner so that helps to compensate. I have loved all my relationships probably because I knew they were not going to end up in marriage and I was always honest and upfront about it. Also had the snip 20 years ago so that helped keep me out of trouble. Your advice is exactly how I live my life and what I would advise too, build a solid financial future, enjoy your maturity and play until you cant or you drop or you just dont want to bother anymore. Exactly right!! And for the younger men out there, you just cant know the end game, My wife left me when I was 39 for her boss, we had 3 kids, a beautiful home, a summer home, I loved her, loved been married and loved been married to her, she had a job she loved and we had a live in nanny to help her who had a nanny car in the drive way........and it was not enough. So she left me for her boss, married him, had 2 kids very quickly and the marriage imploded after just 3 years. They spent the next 10 years in court fighting. Tried hard to get me back and I mean hard. Jesus the sheer delusion and entitlement. Honestly, she was a great wife, a great mom and a great person but at 38 she just became an different woman and would have sold her soul to be with this man for whatever reason.... within 6 weeks of been married it was over, they just detested each other and god knows I mean detest!! Looking back? It was just amazing to have a front row seat of it all unfold and collapse. I could write a book.
The sooner you realize that you are responsible for your own happiness and that you don't necessarily need a woman to make u happy the better.
Amen...and by not spending your life providing for one of them, you guarantee a comfortable retirement for yourself.
@@private-privaterough story but you sound in good shape. The reason is of course because he was her boss. That’s it. The saying is women can’t serve 2 masters. It’s built in to them to have attraction for a boss presuming he’s not a complete pig. Bug or feature of their hardware, either way it’s just how women are.
The more options you have the less bullshit you have to deal with.
Mans life is brutality
It's crazy. Both of my grandfather's died in thier early 80s. Both were taken care of my respective grandmother's. Women these days will bail on you at the drop of a hat and make themselves victims.
Agree
Yep, they'll clean out your bank account and stick you in a low-cost nursing home at their first chance. I've seen this multiple times.
One hundy..... flaky as f$#%
Yes .. But now I know she's not going to stay so I don't chase or play her game.. I play with Them until They get mean . Lol.. And They always get mean..
Next .. get to ride..
It's all about her needs all the time
And take your peace and assets with them lmao
Dude doesn't wanna end up *lonely* , it's a valid concern imo.
Not really, it's a terrible mindset imo
Finding a loyal and respectful woman today with low baggage is like finding a needle in a haystack. Chase excellence instead! 🤐💪
Agree
Or a needle in a stack of needles outside a safe injection site
Easier said than done
I feel for the caller, but he seems to still believe in the delusion of female loyalty. Unfortunately, there’s just no guarantee. It’s perfectly okay to come to the conclusion that ultimately everyone dies alone. Even if you have a partner, one will pass before the other. Seek to reproduce, but do not depend on female companionship because they’ll leave you and then blame you EVEN ON YOUR DEATHBED. I’ve personally seen this happen. Life is a journey. Find & develop your purpose. Build your network. However, you MUST learn to enjoy your own company.
Thanks for the input 👍🏼
That’s why you always multi date. These men are always on the back foot
Very wise words
It's the reality of the world. I can relate to the caller. When growing up my parents and all four uncles I had remained married to their wives until death. In my earlier years I believed my life would follow the same course and was fully blue pill conditioned. But reality can't be denied. Nine of my seventeen cousins have divorced, two are on their 4th marriages.
I'll tell you right now those hollywood romcoms did more damage than crack cocaine. 99% of men out here basing their whole existence and legacy on a happy ever after with a modern woman smh.
Here's my rules for successful relationships. Date the woman who wants you not the woman you want. Don't ever go out of your way to please a woman. She won't respect you. That doesn't mean you shouldn't be nice. The idea is for her to work to please you. She will do this right from the start if she really likes you. Don't ever simp for her. She will lose respect for you. Don't give her anything of value without making sure she has earned it. Don't get emotional when she comes with the sh*t testing. Brush it aside. You're a man, be stoic. Women love this stuff but they won't admit it.
Good points 👍🏼
as an older guy I can say this is very sound advice
It’s good at first but over the course of a long-term marriage it gets old and eventually she’ll tune out and then be prone to eventually leaving.
@@Marwadear512 So, what if she leaves? You're a man, be stoic.
Yes I've had good relationships with women.. Do to letting them pick me.. they don't stay long anyhow these days m.
Surrender is not an option.
Surrender to reality is a good option 🤔
I don't know who manages his channel and the clips channels but I would claim a better word for the title would be acceptance, we need to accept their nature, not surrender to it. There is no surrender
@@drip369why men must accept the modern women’s nature? 🤔
@@Son-of-Krypton because we really don't have a way to change things and fix things, we do have the option to train women who do follow our lead to be the women we need but we still have to accept their nature. There is no surrender
@@Son-of-KryptonYou can’t change them. Unless society came together as a whole to shame their bad behavior. It’s like beating your head against a wall.
As a 51 year old man who is back spinning plates. I'm digging your advice. Thank you.
Great!! Enjoy
I agree with Rich…lots of clarity here 🤔
Spinning plates 💬🤔
Excellent. Need more guys keeping these witches busy and out of the way.
When 50 yr olds are 'spinning plates' you know the dating market isn't getting unfuxked any time soon...
Guys keep complaining about women, but are increasing demand at the same time... If nobody is willing to leave the sexual/dating market and settle down, then expect women to keep doing what they are doing...
Today, as a Gen Z guy for example, you not only have to compete with your peers, but with millennial guys as well, a lot of whom are still single, then you apparently have to compete with 50 year old dudes whose wives didn't 'follow my frame' so now they just got into retirement and have plenty of time to drive around women in their pick up trucks. You have to compete with celebrities in these chicks DMs on social media and generally the whole global sexual marketplace because everyone is connected globally today...
All these guys are trying to get with 18-30 yr old women btw. Maybe the older dudes will accept the 30-40 yr olds too, but a lot of them have been through so much shit that they just end up for recreational use mostly.
So basically, what i am saying is, it's over. Yeah, you can spend time 'working on myself dude', but unless you're willing to accept a trainwreck and potential massive risk/liability, it doesn't matter at least when it comes to serious relationships and family. Getting your dick wet by some skank for 15 min will get old very quick...
But yeah, i guess there really is no other choice but to hunker down and 'work on myself bro'. When investments outside of that seldom yield anything worthwhile, that's basically really all you can do... So this advice will already be obvious to most guys by default...
I'm just talking more with the bigger picture in mind... Which is what the caller himself was wondering as well... Are we going anywhere, is there like a bigger end goal to how relationships function today in the West?
And the answer is 'no'. Women simply have too many government safety nets and too many male bidders for them to 'follow my frame bro'... Not to mention laws that incentivizes them to defame men in exchange for their resources...
You absolutely need to have your shit together, know what you're doing and find a moldable young woman to even have a prayer...
You can advise the average guy to strive for that, but the reality is that that type of combination is only reserved for like 1% of guys out there.
Most dudes will just end up like 'i am spinning plates in my 50s bro'... Not even that. Most dudes simply won't have the energy, testosterone, will power to even do that. They'll just end up play video games in their apartment.
That's the end game for most men, since the caller asked... But hey, if you were born 100 years ago you'd be forced to marry and take care of a woman that doesn't really love you and then you'd die in a war... So i guess you got a better deal?
Most dating advice is aimed for 20-30 year olds, maybe early 40's. For men over 50 there really is no great dating advice. What I've learned the hard way is that you have to figure out what and who you want in your life and stick to that. If she doesn't like that, then move on.
Fair comment! Part of the problem is, as a generalisation, our species is technically advanced, but socially primitive, such that 90% of us are dysfunctional because the parent who spends most time with us ( guess which gender She is? ) is authoritarian. Being born democratic & sociable, by about 2 years old, most kids will stand up for themselves, BUT unwilling to make any REAL effort/knowing no better, the mother goes into over control- toxic parenting & abuses the kid, but then blames them by using the tired old label of "the terrible 2s" to shift the blame & the kid ends up filled with repressed anger for most of their lives (& what I see of femiNAZIS is this anger is misdirected onto ALL men [ & "social" media keeps them @ a distance & makes it easy to spread their misinformation! ] ), as these angry women lack the guts to tackle their parent(s ) This level of "neurosis" ( for that's what we're talking about ) is what contaminates one generation after another, & has been so for countless millennia! The next social crisis that follows on from that is some abused kids shut down emotionally & seek power to protect themselves. In time they adopt the mindset of money=power & in this hierarchical NON democracy, they climb the social ladder to get ever more power to protect themselves. But as these hierarchies are pyramid shaped, it only takes a small minority to obtain control over 'all' their society l. The next stage is, as JOHN TAYLOR GATTO says in his books the school system is deliberately rigged to have us "dumbed down" as THE last thing corrupt politicians want is an intelligent population that will challenge the status quo where they benefit @ our expense. So, from my 30 years research on the 'net, this seems to apply to most countries! - While I appreciate these coaches on the 'net, they are also "dumbed down" so don't understand that they are only dealing with symptoms-effects NOT the ORIGINAL CAUSE ! For that, read the books of THE child psychologist ALICE MILLER ! She has passed on & fortunately for us GABOR MATE follow on. He's a little different in that he covers more of the consequences of trauma than MILLER did, but hell, just be grateful to her for being THE first to break NEW ground & leaving us her dozen books for posterity. - If your skint, there's lots of Gabor Mate on U TUBE, just don't forget the chronological order is TOXIC PARENTING = ABUSE , leads to TRAUMA & it's consequences, not only screwing up the next generation but probably FATAL DISEASE! As in, medico-psychology is now just beginning to pick up on "diseases of [dysfunctional] civilisation". - There's a LOT more detail to it than just this, but it'll get you pointed in THE RIGHT direction! - HTH?
I tell every woman I see, as long as she understands my boundaries and does not try to change me, and especially does not change who she is, I will continue to see her. If/when she tries to test me, she just ended the relationship. I do not give second chances, I just remove her from my life. Any man who accepts/tolerates bad behavior deserves what he gets.
By then your in survival mode. Your considering stability in retirement. Guard your assets to the fullest. A FWB situation becomes more common during this final stage of life. If you want to re marry I suggest find a foreigner and retire in her country to hedge your financial obligations.
The caller wants to say this: "Can a man over 60 be happy as a single man living alone?"
68 here, divorced for 29 years..... Its GREAT, doing what I want, when I want, whenever I want......
73 here, and I concur....freedom is everything
60 and loving it. Take care of your body!
No problems... No women no cry
I'm 73 and living the dream. I don't see how marriage would make my life better.
Men needs to stop valuing themselves based on getting women. You can still be a man in your kingdom even if you don't get women. Stop devaluing yourself as a man. Keep leveling up in life.
I understand what your saying but it is a metric for men & women.
The problem with not caring is that we live in a world where men are shamed and not respected in most aspects for not getting woman.
@@domar8195Gotta stop being swayed by the world man, you have to stand on your own morals and principles.
The guy talking is coming from a scarilcity mindset (in terms of women). Once you've had your fair share of women you innately know, stay on your purpose and women will come to you (or give signs to come to them). Once you get the green light you excercise that pussy wetting vernacular.
biggest asset of a man is his brain. not women
@@domar8195
Who cares what the world thinks. Don't live for the world. You'll be unhappy even if you succeed.
Men these days have four options:
1) Find the unicorn of a good woman, who's feminine, kind, humble, nurturing, takes accountability, gives her man peace, takes away stress, and reciprocates in the relationship without complaint
2) Be a complete jerk with garbage women and treat them as disposable
3) Be a simp servant for a garbage woman and let her crush you
4) Go your own way and not bother with women
I don't tolerate BS from women or men. Very soon after a woman comes into my life she quickly leaves because she discovers I don't tolerate her BS, and I don't allow her to control me, and that I don't simp for her. Sometimes they leave in a rage because they discover i have boundaries. Never mind, plenty of simps out there to step in.
For better or worse, cancer got me ten years ago in my late 30's, and the treatments (and age?) more or less knocked out my libido almost entirely. Mixed blessing, for sure, but going my own way has been so easy since then. I still watch this stuff because I find it entertaining watching (and remembering) how worked up men get over how to make things work with a partner.
@@Mansell5Senna8 Tried 1 for 24 years, only met one unicorn but who was also a far-left social justice warrior, so probably not one after all. But she was the only one I met out of scores before and since who was sincere and didn't play games. So I've gone to 4.
Being tall, handsome, fit, well dressed, well groomed, well travelled, gregarious, well socialised, rich and successful doesn't magic decent women out of thin air. It just exposes you to more and more users and game players than before, so those men also go to option 4 over time. I guess the richer such a guy is, the more likely he'll keep a blonde Barbie he picked up at a bar around for a few months (at great expense to him) to drain his nuts until she turns into a liability, then replace her for another one he picked up somewhere else. Rinse and repeat.
I was always a #2- now later in life I’m a #4- even though I still get approached. SINGLE STILL 😊
@@Mansell5Senna8 I knew a few women in the 90s who were 1, but they were ships who passed in the night. So my choice was to either put up with garbage personalities or not bother with them. I chose 4).
@@eugenemichael2362 If I lived in a big city where I could be anonymous, I'd be #2, but as I live in a small town, that's a really bad idea. A lot of people know me here, or know people who do. So when I get approached by women, I don't do anything with them because of the consequences.
I'm nearly 60 and the last 10 years has been a learning curve to say the least. As Rich says, women don't need Men these days and it's a hard reality that hurts when you meet a girl you really like. Equality has given women far more options. It's not good when you a decent honest guy wanting someone to settle down with again. I've dated a few stunners, yet they are always on the lookout for something better so have dumped me when you have a little misunderstanding. Today's women simply have it far too good and it's a recipe for disaster for what this guy calls the End Game. The end game is simply not there any longer, unless you are minted and can leave this woman something when you die.
Good points 👍🏼
Am 62, very happily divorced ( a bad and costly one ) at 43. Got back on my feet financially after a hard 5 years and have had plenty of women since my divorce and all very attractive younger women ( usually 10 - 15 years ). I am often told I don't look my age, am in good shape ( gym ) and pay attention to dressing and grooming. There are hundreds of available women out there and I never go chasing them as I have lots of other interests. I now own my property with a good job, investments etc. and will NEVER , EVER let any woman dictate to me again as my ex wife constantly did. I have everything I need and most things I want and am very content. The woman I am with now ( over a year ) is 8 years younger and gorgeous, hot, loves sex and is good company. I treat her well but she knows I wont tolerate any shit from her. If I had to I would walk from her should she give me enough of a reason and I would not lose one nights sleep. Its called having your own self respect and standards. Most men are afraid to be on their own. I have always embraced it since I divorced. It gives me power to choose and never have to run after anyone and its one of the best feelings you could ever have. I only wish I learned it aged 25.
So true man
"They only bring sex.. and all this chaos." Truer words couldn't be spoken Son of Krypton.
I can understand how frustrated he is. Men have to deal with 100x more effort less ideal women
Death is the end game.
Nah not if you have Jesus.
😅
Bingo!
Moral of the story: Not everyone’s endgame is the same. Path your destiny.
Moral: Be prepared to part with half your wealth to get married
In my opinion, your fear of loneliness in one's 60s is a self-imposed limitation behind the curtains. Instead of constantly searching for companionship, countless sexual encounters, and understand the complexities of women behaviour, specially nowadays, I took control of my personal and emotional growth several years ago and stopped looking for the "perfect woman". This mindset shift has allowed me to feel great being alone and to have fulfilling relationships with loved ones, including my ex-wives. While finding a compatible partner is a possibility, it is not my priority. I am confident in my ability to lead a fulfilling life regardless of my relationship status.
Yes i have recently came to that conclusion about 6 months ago. Better to spend time working on yourself and with close friends/family. I am 46 and wasted so much of my life chasing skirt when they simply don't deserve it.
I would say travel outside the US as an end game. To find that companionship
Some of us men want a real long term real connection with one woman. It isn’t something to be shamed or discouraged. Focusing solely on the self and and viewing women as disposable, may work with the low quality modern women of today, but ultimately for some it is unfulfilling in the end. It’s unfortunate but true. Women can’t change their behavior but at the same time men can’t truly change their fundamental behaviors and desired. I think men ultimately want a real connection with a woman of quality that lasts and women are basically solipsistic narcissists.
Yes, BUT… you must first vet her, because believe me she is ALWAYS vetting you. You must dedicate yourself to always working on and improving yourself and not needing a mother but a wife (and understanding the difference). There are plenty of consummate bachelors out there who absolutely refuse to pay a dowry for an unworthy woman. If you are diligent and don’t compromise, you might find that special woman you are looking for.
@@reddune6185 that’s why I said woman of quality…. Which is like finding a needle in a haystack these days and it isn’t worth digging through the haystack to find the needle in my opinion
I agree. I'd love to meet a woman I could take to events with me so I could let her loose and go and strike up friendships with the wives of other men and that way broaden my network at twice the speed. That's how it works. Only the last woman I met I felt I could do this with was well over 20 years ago. Nearlg all the others have been those I'd want to keep hidden in case they embarrass me. I mean, my ancestors took for granted they'd meet and marry a loyal wife they could stay with for decades and only separate at death.
Most of us want long term with the right one. I think you’re missing the point. Today, the woman that will bring you love and peace instead of drama and immaturity is extremely rare. I was married tor most of my 20s then single and playing for 14 years then married for a decade basically before becoming single again. Dating today is far worse than any other time in my life. That experience is not unique to me.
@@jamesg1974a I understand the point. My point is keeping an avoidant attitude and spinning plates doesn’t sound like it will bring the desired result if what most are looking for is a real connection. Don’t entertain trash if treasure is what you’re looking for. I was married 15 yrs and had another 7 yr relationship as well and modern dating and people are a disaster I agree. But let’s not contribute to the problem I guess is my point
In a marriage the competition anxiety goes away and the fear of loss goes away. These are VERY powerful instinctual motivators that a woman has to be on her best behavior. Why would you want to remove instinctual motivators from her mind like this? Young women invision themselves being a really nice mate for their entire life but in the reality of the fullnes of time they often change their mind with in 7 years and then they blame the guy saying "he brought out the worst in me".
Women have come and gone in my life some have stayed for a short while some long term. I've told myself perhaps this will work or not. Women have been upset because I don't chase after them after they broke up with me. Few days later THEY text me asking to come over to their place. I don't care if a relationship lasts or not. I've always cared about my health, future goals and living my life.
This is called baggage in his video
Picasso was 92 married to Jacquelyn 22 . He never simp out...Do what you want !!
I think there is a concern that he may end up alone. Just remember the being alone is NOT the same as being lonely. Build a life that makes you happy. You can simp and kneel as much as youre asked and still have your girl leave. At the end of the day, at the end of your life, make sure you are happy. Dont trust your happieness to anyone else
The richer/ more independent women are guaranteed to divorce 100% in wealthy societies
Alimony is a boon for women in this age and accepted by males who are helpless
I want one. After they leave
@@jamisonbernhardt3310 be prepared to part with half your wealth
End game is to make her wealthy through divorce and alimony
Thats the end game
Correct! I'm the Alpha to Beta that got rolled after 21 years of marriage. If only I had been aware of the Red Pill in the mid 90's.
End game is divorce and everything you ever worked for transferring to your Wamyn. Oh and your ultimate demise (once your financial usefulness has finished) is the bonus cherry on the cake. Many women resemble Black Widow spiders these days; my ex certainly did. 🥷
bibgo!
Im 58 and stil dating women my daughters age and i am not rich. My advice to men is to realise that theres no woman out there whos gonna be as loyal as you want them to be, just accept that life is what it is and have no expectations. I think since I stopped giving a fu*k what women think or want they seem to flock around me now. Happiness is a journey not a destination. Stop being too concerned about the future it isnt here yet. we are all gonna drop dead one day so enjoy your journey.
I don't give a f--k what they think. They spot this attitude in me and I've little problem attracting women, especially younger ones. I spend more time and energy in getting them out of my life than I do attracting them. But all of them, with only two exceptions, expect me to be controlled by her, to have no boundaries, and to give, give, give. When they discover they won't control me, that I have boundaries and that I expect them to reciprocate, they're off, sometimes in an explosive temper. Then I often watch them get with simp servants. The two exceptions are women who treat me very well. One's a few years older, the other younger one is married. All the single women I and my bachelor friends behave as I describe. If you want a woman in your life here in the UK, you have to allow her to control you right from the start, or pretend to her that she is, but that means you still surrender everything to her.
You are right. If you think that giving your all to one woman will in any way guarantee that you won't be chucked in the nursing home, and die alone, think again. Think about those guys.
Wow got my dose of modern women this morning, had a weekly team meeting at a global consulting firm I contract to and one of the women did a 'wellbeing' presentation which was basically a feminist presentation on how bad women have it. Then showed a feminist book as recommended reading, wow.. toxic feminism in professional workplaces..? wow, just wow... glad I'm not her husband!! Bet he has fun conversations! And shit tested constantly...
Try work as a male hr consultant in a huge HR departement with 95% women, it's a living nightmare, walking on egg shells and taking a lot of yelling and micro aggressions on a daily basis, if a man would mirror their behavior they would lose their job and reputation instantly.
Yeah it's disgusting, there's ton of colored hair, tattooed feminists that work at my daughters school as well.. Hopefully they don't try to pass on their feminist perspective to my daughters... it's so prevalent it's bad...
Watched the red pill doco on UA-cam by a feminist who actually ended up seeing the truth, worth watching....
I'm seriously considering other options as it went unchallenged as if gender discrimination was OK for women, but clearly not ok for men
I thought it showed weak beta mindset leadership to NOT call that bad behaviour out...
The double standard was disgusting imo
@@DVulhow do I find that documentary?
Rich, thats the most beautiful answer i've ever heard regarding this type of questions.,,very satisfying to hear you answering that question like that..with wisdom and experience
Rich always gives me a clarity on nature of things…..this pep talk helps a lot. 👍🏼
Some advice for guys out there please listen to what rich is saying or other coaches such as Rollo! I unfortunately learnt all the material, believed I was an alpha until I actually applied myself in the dating realm and ended up hurt because I ignored my intuition and information learnt. It’s one thing to know the knowledge but it’s a whole other game actually applying it to your character and not falling victim to betatisation. A quote i read on another video which I can’t remember who it’s by but credit to them, was - “not every women will but any woman can”
"And old men with broken teeth stranded without love
Do I understand your question, then, is it hopeless and forlorn?
Come in, she said
I'll give ya shelter from the storm"
Bob Dylan
This is one of the best videos of you RIch. Amazing!!
Statistics say a long term relationship wont last, happily. So a wise person will structure their life in such a way that when a longterm relationship ends they will emerge intact in terms of self-esteem, finances, emotionally, spiritually, physically, and professionally
Once again Rich. Great great material . More and more guys need to hear this stuff. Keep up the good work
Thanks for your guidance Rich. 💪🏼🙏🏼
was that you in the vid? and whats your ethnic background if it was you...
@@jinkazama2555yes it was me and I’m mixed.
i see. I swear i heard some indian american in that accent of yours, lol. But hey, please dont be so soft with women, you know how they can be. What kind of end game are YOU looking for? coz u mentioned an end game. What do you want?@@Son-of-Krypton
@@jinkazama2555I’m not soft just needed clarity on my thought process….and I got some great advice from Rich and other folks… but I am also getting a lot of trolling and character assassination from these keyboard warriors sitting in their mom’s basements. 🙄
well i hope your not soft then like you say. @@Son-of-Krypton
End game. Do not owe for anything, all homes and property paid for, bank enough for no worries. I'm speaking as retired man. Chasing tail will not run your life, you will.
Fantastic video i had to subscribe 👍👍👍 very good advice.
This was a really good listen, thanks.
Kings build your kingdom
If you want it bad enough you will find a way, if you don't you will find an excuse
Only weak men attempt things they already know they can achieve
Force yourself to suffer the discipline of today, so you never suffer the regrets of tomorrow.
Rich, appreciate the gems brother. Our brother in this clip seems still blue pill with making a woman the prize/end game. As you’ve stated time and time again, she is to be a compliment not the focus. Build and best version of yourself. I believe he’s still glued to a sense of “oneetis” and that a woman will complete you. Entirely unfair to anyone to make them responsible for your happiness to begin with but she’s a compliment to said life. Overall great clip to help our brother through his mental battle finding his purpose.
I think this guy is so invested in women that he cares about them too much, thanks Rich for your point of view, so much on point precisely what I need to hear.
Deal with women like a recovering alcoholic deals with booze.
Meaning: don't deal with them at all until you are certain the addiction is gone.
The difference between the two addictions is that straight men are all born with one of them. So as a man you need to treat the addiction first. But the good news is for most men all it takes is time. Eventually you will spend most of your time in a state akin to post nut clarity. Once you've ditched the addiction you can really start to live.
Well put
Just stop looking at them as sex objects and have a real conection with a women, if you're not able to have a deep conversation with any women when you 'make love' with her just with a deep eye contact, then maybe try it with a less attrative one. Trust me, it's gonna cure yourself from that predatory physical only attraction that you have regarding to 'sexy only' women.
The end game? I'm in my early sixties. I put 10k miles on bicycles a year. Nothing has stopped working and I still have a thick full head of hair...
A buddy of mine offered to help install some new tires on my pickup truck in preparation for a long cross country trip. I usually mount/balance my own tires. The buddy works as a tech at a local dealership. We were going to utilize the lift and changing machines of the dealership.
During the tire-changing effort, my buddy turns to me and goes, "So why? What's the end-game with your DIY efforts?"
My buddy knows I have the resources to pay someone else to do such menial tasks. And yet, I still do the automotive and real estate renovation efforts myself.
"The end-game?" I respond... "The end-game is to keep beating the system... The end-game is to giggle in my head every single time I screw the tax man out of his grubby greedy demoralizing share!"
If you just float along with the current of the system, that current will keep you moving at the same time it uses you up. Oh, Father Time uses us all up. But, with a bit of self-discipline, one can direct the how, when, and where your candlewax gets consumed.
So, is your life under your control or mostly manipulated by external forces of women and working for the state plantation?
i am indian man..trust me arab islamic world women currently are the best women out there to get married n settle down
That's because they didn't have to go through years of fighting for even the right to vote. Can you believe it, a time in America where women were deemed to dumb to vote?
Less than 5% of them are long term relationship quality nowadays, we must accept that fact. You absolutely cannot force a low quality person (vv) into a relationship.
100k+ lady said she's good not getting married. She said a 40k lady can certainly use a man.
We need the Unplugged Alpha’s Guide to Beard growth, cut, style and maintenance bcuz your beard game is fire sir
You need to use oil to deal with the itchiness to get it out to the necessary length to style it. Take a picture of his beard and take it to a barber. Not GreatCuts lol. Then you MUST use BALM. Balm keeps the hairs down so it doesn’t frizz out and make you look Amish. You also need a beard brush to brush the balm in.
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If suffering wasn't supposed to be one of Life's teachers , why do so many people today seem to be running towards same? There's a message for men somewhere in those moments of post Nut Clarity that also remind You of that stress free time period right after a break-up. Misinterpreting or forgetting those rare moments in life can lead to a world of Confusion. Sobriety used to suggest those moments in life when You weren't Obsessing over one particular thing. The distinct differences between Loneliness and Boredom is something every Man needs to sort out alone in his spare time. If not a women will try and do it for Him.
A lot of Rich's advice is beyond red pill. Having a life of your own is great advice single or not, boy or girl
My grandfather got paralyzed 10 years ago and till now my grandmother and we his family are taking care of him how can you deal this kind of situation without family
They'll have to take you out in the woods and deal with it there
Love the content to use a car reference it always feels like she wants a mini van but you’re a convertible. She’s trying to mould you into what she wants and you lose everything that she found attractive in the process
This guy's questions were actually very valid. Rich's answers were also very concise and rational. Dope video.
11:45
Oh so very true.
“Crazy in bed, crazy in the head”. ! Another great video Rich. Thanks from U.K. 🖖
The problem as the guest has mentioned is we have to reconcile: have women changed or were they always like this? Everytime someone says one, then the an another says the opposite.
They weren't like this in the 90s. Only a small number were and you could easily weed them out. You had good confidence of going out and finding a decent woman to date or have an affair with. The rot started here in the UK in the late 90s with the girl power movement and ladette culture. After that, the vast majority turned into solipsistic narcissists who played games. Instead of being a small minority, they became a large majority.
I always look through comments to find a "good" woman who honestly disagrees with Rich and can come with an argument and offer solution and I can't find any. Oh well... The silence from women is deafening. Sorry to say but not so surprising of course.
Phenomenal point!!!!
Even the hoes are quiet...
@@TheBandFLEDGELING LOL! :D Gotta make that cash flowing :D Bad for business otherwise :D
Bro same here lol. I always check. But truth always wins. They can never argue against rich or anything lol
@@KD400_ Rich has really made himself unassailable. His book should be mandatory reading for everybody. Lying is one of the bitches tactics.
It's the same on all other channels that discuss female nature. You get one or two who agree with Rich and with us, but a few more who disagree and screech like demented witches.
So amazing. I actually met a guy about ten years ago. He actually said word for word the same exact things you said on this show. I kid you not word for word. Still single at 53 never married and made out a list of the perfect woman
If you had all 44 out of 45 he was looking for he would say good bye. With a note that said, you had all but one. So good bye. The best part is, he sounded 100 percent just the same as this UA-cam upload. I kid you not, your cloned and and it's so amazing. Two of the same guy on the planet . I'll have to tell that to the 23 other women I've talked to. They would want to know what baggage is. From a guy's point of view. Gosh, the same exact words . I'm shocked . Cloned
Title of this video is on point 🎯
Great topic Rich! Woman are not the same as the old days of the 80s and 90s they are a different beast and effected by toxic feminism and online drop kick influencers to one degree or another which results in a drama filled life that ain't worth it.....ie. juice ain't worth the squeeze!
and poor parenting
The best 60-80 looks like, having a submissive wife that has been with you since your prime (30-50), Having successful kids, Having grandchildren, Having a successful business, Having Respect of your family and your peers.
Life is about balance, Leonardo’s & Hugh Hefner’s of the world don’t Represent BALANCE.
Don’t challenge Centuries old traditions.
BE BALANCED!
Good advice 👍🏼
It's not up to you and balance can get pretty boring. At 60-80, I want to take my boat out with my dog or ride my motorcycle as often as possible not fall asleep in my rocking chair next to a wife that doesn't like me anywhere but by her side.
Dude is trying to adapt to Western Women. He isn't wrong. We are. I feel for this guy.
He’s def grappling between two worlds. The world of old where the focus was around the family and family values and building a strong lasting unit to pass on the family name as tradition. When grandfathers/mothers celebrated birthdays, they were surrounded by multiple generations descended from them. The world of new is centered around the individual and self as priority one with very little focus and support for the family and communal ties. I’ve seen both and it’s a harsh reality to awaken to.
Messi is a traditional Catholic and him and his wife take their faith seriously that is the difference
Well said Rich. That is so right on target. A man has to roll and rock like a man.
Not all women are like that. There are some women who just want to find love and start a family and live a chill life. Find that type of woman. Stop screwing or dating or giving any attention to the new type of women. Go back to traditional lifestyle.
Everything is traditional until it's time to get divorced...
this is the mos dangerous mindset of all, traditional women do not exist anymore, and precisely to get a good woman you have to deal with many low value ones, your advice Is 100% blue pill sir, a train wreck recipe 🤦♂️🤦🏿♂️😝
What are you talking about when you say ‘traditional’?
You mean like go hunt for food and bring it back to our homestead and roast it over a fire? That’s what people did 10,000 years ago. That was traditional for their time.
Nothing is ‘traditional’ this day and age, unless by ‘traditional’ you are referencing the fact that everyone now has a car, smartphone and social media accounts during every waking second of their day.
Nothing is ‘traditional’ anymore and it literally makes me want to vomit when I hear people say that word, realizing they’re clueless about the modern world.
🤦🏻♂️
@_BobaFett_ stop being dumb and use your pea brain. Traditional marriage roles. Wife stays home and takes care of the children and keeps the house tiddy while the man sticks to his traditional role and protects his family, and provides them with a quality life worth living.
She’s never yours. It’s just your turn.
2:54 What do you want in the long term? Set the structure/system now to bring that future into being.
Not all women are self centered. But those who aren't are a rare find. I know a few married rare finds. They usually marry early
Unfortunately most modern women don't want to be with a man. And then once they hit the wall then suddenly they they want a man. Most r not traditional at all. I have no idea how we fix this
Don’t believe everything you see. Most are miserable in marriage Like 96% miserable but stuck 🎉
@chooselogic9800 I'm experienced enough to know that, and will never marry again. However, my siblings seem to have better than average marriages. We grew up in a conservative family, and they were virgins when they married
We need more advise for married men with kids in awful relationships
The endgame should be of course beware you can find a woman to train her to be the way that she should have been before she started giving it up to everybody, especially if you meet her hypergamous checklist, it shouldn't be that hard to train her to be the woman that you need so that she doesn't behave like the rest of those destined-to-be-single
they can all change with the flip of a coin...... There is NO fix..
You can't change people unfortunately. It doesn't work like that. You can be a good influence on them, but they are who they are. Trying to change a partner is something that women attempt a lot, but it doesn't really work. Better to find someone who either doesn't need changing, or who is working on changing themselves (and is well on their way to it). I speak from 13 years of marriage experience here.
It’s all about finding the one and as rich says you have to dig through the dirt to find the gold. This guy on the phone is so on the back foot. Turn it around and put them on the back foot and get some game!
@@ricksmith4736so multi date and empower yourself
This. There isnt a woman in the US who doesnt have some deprogramming to be done. But you need to find one that is malleable and undo some of the fallacies shes been taught. I am doing that right now. When I met her she was a virgin at 25yo. We've been together 8 months and she has shown she can be taught, guided, led etc.
Key note: doing this will require you to be masculine and sure of yourself. It will also require you to be a wordsmith at times and to be able to convey these ideas in a way she can hear. There is plenty of data to support traditional values, seek that out and use it to change peoples minds.
Edit: as @mdhazeldine and @robertbillington2224 noted above most women you cannot change. But there are younger women who can be deprogrammed. It's pretty easy to test early on with an open discussion.
great vid
Very good advice for older men.
Rich calls his modern woman Becky, all I can think of is Plies Becky. A great song for all of the rp brothers... Imagine Rich and Plies on a livestream that would be wild.
The end game is you move to SE Asia, get with a sweet woman 20-30 years younger, have a kid at 60 and retire lol...
and never return.
Feminism has taken root in India and about just as bad. India is about 30-40 years behind the US so take what you will from that. Unfortunately it’s tough to fly away from this virus.
this dude on the call definitely reads cosmo lmfao wtf 🤣
What’s cosmo ?
I’ll tell you the end game, regardless of how old you are, prepare for eternity. Because we ALL are going to spend it somewhere. Men, women, young, or old. Period. The end game is how you treat others, what you do for others, and a relationship with. That is and always has been the end game.
Best comment.
RE: 10:20 - Or simply don't waste time on those women. Search for a good woman, even if you never find one, never settle for less.
Interesting take 🤔
The secret is that there IS no end game. We’re all gonna die anyway. Nothing is guaranteed. End game? What does that even mean?
Haha, they must foresee that they’re going to live to be 500 million years old or something, talking about their ‘End Game’, as though it’s going to be a miraculous and adventurous ending?
Bruv, YOUR ‘END GAME’ IS DEATH 💀
Acceptance is the vibe. Once you accept Richs advice, it makes perfect sense, not just with women.
Excellent advice, especially for middle aged men.
Dude I just learned about the women on strike in Iceland. Female employees didn’t work, even the stay at home moms refused to cook and take care of the kids!
what nonsense, wered u hear this?
@@jinkazama2555GRRR! Why did I have to Google for you? 😤😤😅😅
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1975_Icelandic_women's_strike?wprov=sfti1
Clearly he is under pressure from his parents to get married. Dude you are a 42 yrs, make your decision. You know how women think and operate already.
I’m not under any pressure….
I know what marriage can do to a man in these times…..I have seen men in their 60s and 70s get destroyed in court.
I rather not entertain marriage but a solid LTR 🤔
I know, right? He's already had a kid so there should be absolutely zero concern for getting a wife lol. He's blessed and doesn't even have to cohabitate with his plates or LTRs
@@Son-of-Kryptonit's all good brother. I'm exactly your age. Luckily I am still married. This is our year 15. It's risky and low reward. If you choose to get married, my advice is to travel to find her in countries that still respect men's authority and don't bring her here.
Modern women in The West are no longer worth it.
Minimise all financial exposure.
If you find a woman who enjoys your company, great.
-Never expect it to last
-All of them are dating other men
-She will leave you to upgrade 100%
--Even Tom Brady was left for a bigger better monkey branch.
-Instant there is any disagreement she is gone.
Work on your business, career, job, finances, hobbies. Save for retirement, however you envision that to be.
Plan on having your end of life healthcare set up to be run by a younger relative WHO YOU CAN TRUST, or plan on going to a nation that has solid values.
USA doesn't have values and LTC is $15k a month.
Surrender? NEVER!!!
So basically youre saying as long as you are getting what you want, be happy. That having no solid bonding of mutuality results, be happy. Having been married 3 times, i can tell you its very rewarding to spend a deep commitment in the end with a true love, sharing children and grandchildren. And sure we are not young anymore after 30 years but our depth of love being old is definitely preferable to being uncommitted or only committed so far.
Just enjoy your money, have multiple s**ex partners, don’t get married, travel, have fun and enjoy life.
Facts 👍🏼
Absolutely right.
Evil.
Have you waxed your head? Im considering it when and if i do go bald.
If you do go bald, it's a good idea to keep the dome as fuzz free as possible. Looking at my noggin, I doubt I ever will. It grows very thick and fast, but it's receding on my forehead. Age eh.
Gosh, with all that baggage, no wonder they are iffy. Traumatized
Just stay away from these modern women. Nothing good will come from them. Save your money, invest it and take care of yourself. No one else will.
The caller is most probably fishing in a wrong pond.😅
The end game should be kids. If you can get them in a different country or if you are divorced and have them, it’s best to focus on them. Focusing on a woman never made sense, even back in the good ole days. Nowadays women are for short term fun only, solve the child problem and use that for your long term relationship satisfaction.
I like the foreign import component of your comment....
@@TheBandFLEDGELING i definitely do not recommend importing the kids or the kids mom until the kids are ready for university and you think they will have more opportunities here rather than their home country. Otherwise I would strictly keep everyone there
@@dr.d3011 no talk of single moms..... single ladies from outside US
@@TheBandFLEDGELING the only reason to deal with a single mom outside the US/Can is if you are the dad of that kid, ie you made her a single mom. But again, keep her and the kids there. While you stay/work here (I guess you can go there if you have a remote job). The whole point is to avoid brutal common law (ie any place that was ever under the rule of Britain)
The end game is in the future - the uncertainty makes one anxious. Thinking of the past makes one sad. Live in the now. Enjoy your life now. What is the end game?
My money don't drizzle drizzle - it folds!
So cool 👍
Unfortunately....many of us men want genuine love with a living breathing female person. Women pursue a fantasy, until they die or cant anymore.
Im 70. Im secure. I enjoy the company of much younger women. I don't spend much. Im not looking for anything but the date.
"Why You Must Surrender to Modern Women's Nature?", NOPE, Been single for 14 years now & never been happier. Don't have to worry about false accusations, family courts, building a house, nagging or spending money on a Woman. And YOU should become MGTOW too!
to late to save reject this paragraph
The guest asks a mouthful, he's mentally very impatient.. fidgety. You gotta curate your own life, you gotta seek out a quality gal it takes some time. If you can travel that opens up options.
Must not*
Stay single!