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This simple phrase is wildly accurate. It doesn’t mean things will work out. But, avoiding chaos and the trouble others bring into your life. Be strong, polite, and avoid the chaos of others.
Life is freaking boring if nothing happens other than routine, and once you live in routine for years any little problem will derail your whole life, so be ready
I am going to a wedding where my brother-in-law will attend. He has disrespected me for years until I refused to go if he attended. I am making an exception knowing full well the odds are high he will do or say something I won’t like. I have already prepared myself to avoid him as much as possible saying very little as a response and not allow anything to cause my to lose my cool.
Having been a cop, there have been many times where trusting my instincts have saved my life, quite literally. I have an ex girlfriend who told me I should trust that intuition at work, but it was wrong to do so in our personal lives. I had just confided in her that it felt like she was involved with someone else. Of course, she denied it. Shortly after that, I caught her in bed with him and ended “us” on the spot. NEVER ignore your gut instincts! The flow of energy cannot lie.😮
I’m sorry to hear you experienced that man. I’m guessing it wasn’t your first rodeo. Currently going through my first rodeo and it’s partly because I didn’t follow my gut.
@@Jason-kv7cm - It wasn’t my first rodeo. Take the time to learn all you can from the experience, without rushing into another relationship. The pain will leave you once it’s done teaching you. Focus on building yourself, on point with your path and purpose. The people that belong with you will come and stay. Matthew Hussey says to treat relationships like you just had a rental car. It wasn’t yours. You’ve returned that car to the rental agency and there’s no need to ever be concerned about it again. I wish you the best!
Your intution gets sharpened when you spend quality time alone in silence. In a world of constant phonetic activity, getting away from that will help to enhance that "small still voice"..
Your intuitive sixth sense gives you a lot of tingling clues when something is off…whether it’s with women, in business, with family or friends….listen to it because it will save you from ton of bad things happening. 🤔
I have this thing of disliking some people at first sight. As a non-religious person, I thought that was odd and baseless so, as an emerging entrepreneur, I tamed that gut feeling and started to allow such people into my life and my business until I got fcked in the worst way over and over by the said people. Looking back, I realize there is a reason for my distaste and I am currently never going to let such people in my vicinity ever again. Trust your guts and keep that conscience alive
Exact same example just last month: I asked her to cut communication with an ex she had been friends since long, if she wants to have an LTR with me. She accepted, and I didn’t see anythimg for 7 months. Then a whatsapp message in her phone from the guy just by accident. It turns out she had been chatting with him behind my back, even invited the guy for a dinner at her home twice. Despite she cut off the guy right away, it was too late. I showed her the door.
Men cannot understand her ability to pretend to love you. In reality, she wants your resources. Her ability to do this is real. She also knows she needs your baby to get those resources. She has the family judge backing her.
That little voice, intuition , is always very, very important . We should never ignore this. Personally, I call that: I have a sixth sense in my head .
Intuition is a tough concept for most people. Basically, if you're feeling unsettled about a situation, with those quiet nagging doubts, PAY ATTENTION TO THAT. If you're feeling like you need to do deeper digging before taking a business or personal relationship to the next level, PAY ATTENTION TO THAT. Good Intuition isn't about a feeling that falls out of the sky and tells you to suddenly move across the country to invest in something you know nothing about. A charming salesman or a smooth operating woman knows how to evoke that in you. Intuition is about knowing when something is off, and paying attention to that.
Yep! I am highly intuitive but was training (mostly by the women in my life since childhood) not to trust it and ended up getting involved with business and a romantic relationship that have destroyed me. I have retrained myself to be able to listen and trust my intuition and I have regaining my power, frame and personal goals.
This is ironic, because it was my own mother who taught me to trust my instincts and gut, from a very early age. My father just reinforced this over my teenage years, every time I made a bonehead decision that was in stark contrast to my gut instincts - he'd walk me back logically through my thinking, and my bad decisions were staring me right in the face! I've been listening to it ever since.
I want them to eat but not at my table! I love that analogy reminds me of Tupac Shakur’s phrase "Just because you lost me as a friend, doesn't mean you gained me as an enemy. I'm bigger than that, I still wanna see you eat, just not at my table." By Tupac Shakur
had literally gut issues because of my ex, pancreatitis is hell. only stayed because of kids. now no ex feel great. our creator works for the better of us listening is the learning curve.
I take part in ventures. I personally won’t ever do a deal with an overweight person. If he/she doesn’t value the most important asset in life (health), why would I risk my money with them. I’m usually right about when a new company will hit a major speed bump financially, and it starts by judging the people first
Im getting close to firing my wife of a year and a half. I drew the line in the sand at the beginning of this year that i will not suffer a intamacyless marriage and will not have intamacy used against me in any way.
it's tough but you have to cut her out. Sorry about getting married hope you made a good pre-nup. Or that you have less money/assets than her(lol highly unlikely)
Just this past week, I asked two women out who my gut told me no. I asked based on the recommendation of others and I was proven correct. This is my life lesson to always listen to my gut.
Excellent clip! Never question your intuition, and always work hard to further develop its degree of fineness. Regardless of your age, or what you having going for you or against you, never enter into an exclusive relationship with a woman that has children.
Well said Rich! I’ve applied this concept since my last relationship ended in Dec. 2017. I am single by choice because my goals and what I still want to accomplish in life has not been Fulfilled yet! The state of women in today's society is so chaotic and toxic that it would actually interrupt achieving those goals I’ve set for my self and still need to accomplish.
The most important thing you need to determine before getting into any relationship - personal or work - is the key aspects of the other person's character. How do you determine this? Ask them about their past relationships and listen carefully for any patterns of behaviour or rationalisations. And then make your decision based on your intuition.
In 6 years of business ownership and 2 divorces I can guarantee that I wish I had not suppressed that feeling! Now I fire fast and do not live with women! Ty for all help Rich!
Mr. Cooper: Lovelovelove your videos. I learn something from each one. This one, though, hooked right into my heart. Hearing about the adversities you overcame is just the inspiration I need to overcome mine. No kidding; this is exactly what I needed to hear because of my current relationship and entrepreneurial obstacles. I am energized. Thank you !
I have mixed feelings about intuition. Some people mistake fear for intuition, there’s been a lot of times I’ve taken risks when it comes to my career and location or big purchases that paid off. But I agree with this when it comes to dealing with employees or women.
Intuition can be confused with fear and cause people to not take action, but couldn't you say that intuition served you well when you took those risks? Why did you do them if you think everything was telling you not to? I'm sure if you dug deeper you might find that your intuition was telling you to do them despite being afraid. I've avoided a few mistakes in starting businesses that in hindsight were terrible ideas and to others it may look fear driven but I believe it was intuition.
@@PriusTurbo Nah cause my “intuition” was screaming no to me. It’s human nature not to rock the boat and stay the same. I have to remind myself every time I get too comfortable that my body is going to reject change. I had a job that was super easy, making around 60k and my “intuition” was screaming at me to stay there because it’s more long term stable than anything. - I put in my 2 weeks, felt nasty, started new job, felt nasty too. Almost 2 years later making over 90k base (over 100k if you count bonuses) and I’m super happy I didn’t listen to my “intuition” I can give a relationship example too. My current gf is divorced, she also has a tattoo of some initials on her wrist (that she says she’s going to remove). Everything else is good, very attractive etc but those red flags were eating at me. - I decided to give her a chance anyway, and it’s legit like dating a wife. She helps out with everything, offers to pay for everything (I don’t make her), and I’ve never been with someone who is so genuinely attracted to me to where it takes no effort to get her 💦 Maybe I’ll lose my job soon and find out she’s a crazy mf. If that happens I’ll say my intuition was right. But if it doesn’t, then it was wrong!
These lessons are tough to learn. If you have an amazing business idea, do it yourself, keep total control, you don’t need a business partner, it will inevitably turn to shit if other people have any jurisdiction.
@@improvisedsurvival5967 yea…SINGLE mums, who pushed on, struggled hard and did their best after they were left by the pathetic, loser biological-Dads of their shared kids.💀💀💀 Instead of shaming the S. mums…Much much more shame needs to land on the absentee dads.
@@Killersushiofficial the mothers are the ones alienating the dads. You think men don’t talk to wash other and know this is what’s going on. Single moms are rubbish please
I fully endorse this message. With me it’s kind of a precarious situation because I’m at a point where I simply don’t trust anyone from certain countries and cultures which are different from the UK or any Western country. Only reason being that I’ve had some unfortunate encounters with such folk. Almost ended losing money and my life because of it. I express this to people and I instantly get labeled ‘racist’ or whatever but for me I’m just trying to learn from past experiences and look out for myself here. Any advice for that?
Every right to feel how you feel. But having a one size fits all attitude to people from non westerm countries seems a bit simple minded. Your opinion should be maleable, not set in stone. Its fine if your a bit wary at first, but if you just totally stay clear of such people or have a permenant opinion regardless of how that individual behaves then you are indeed racist. Everyone is an individual with different upbringing.... just because youve had a bad exp, shouldnt mean that if someone demonstrates good character - you dismiss that first hand exp of the individual because you think you know something aboit people who you believe are related to him. There are many british people that are trash, if i met them before meeting a good british person should i now be dismissive of the good because i had some bad experience? Thats simple minded racism not intelligence. Its perfectly fine to be wary at a glance but you need to factor in new information of that particular individual then update your firat impression as you see fit.
@@NewZoneFocus Your right. On reflection maybe I am being overly harsh about it. The biggest issue I find is that what is said and done in public is usually tolerated in their culture. It seems like they don’t understand that it’s completely unacceptable in a different cultural context. I’m sure there’s a way to tell them to knock it off without being a complete dick about it but I haven’t really figured it out yet.
The last time I ignored my intuition about a woman I ended up with a temporary restraining order after I got tired of the disrespect and her physical abuse towards me and raised my voice.
There's two things that you can do with an anchor: 1) You can bring it back onto the boat, in order to move forward Or, 2) You can cut it fucking loose You decide what to do with the anchors in your life.
I had a gf that got in touch with an ex on her FB, friended him, liked his posts and they even worked at the same place; this after she tells me the story about how he was abusive and it was toxic relationship. I confronted her and she immediately unfriended him but didn't block him. That should have been the end of our relationship but I kept on with her. The rest of the relationship lasted a yr and was nothing but me being sussy of her being unfaithful. The moment I discovered that I should have ended it and I didn't causing me so much more unnecessary drama, sleepless night, stress etc. In the end I dumped her cause she kept on having inappropriate encounters with other men.
We all take a little bit of something from people rich , if we lived long enough we would get better at problem solving, I wish I had listened to my intuition a lot more , I do now ✌️
Intuition is the propensity of women and logic is the propensity of men. As Rich says, don't eschew intuition but use it more. At the end, the statement that the woman was pre-warned is correct. And often they will say that's bullying and threatening. If they say that but then later agree, you have to watch for them later on going back and saying you bullied and threatened. At that point at the very latest, I think you must use your intuition.
I don’t hang out with chicks from the past. Once I’m done with them we aren’t friends anymore. Like you said sometimes I don’t hate them just not working for me. They can eat just not at my table .
It is a good thing to step back, and try to look at your situation from the outside, and look at the totality of the situation. In my opinion, men can be awful at taking good advice. If you have a good circle of friends, you can ask them their opinion, or you can be cool about taking it into consideration, if they offer you good advice that comes from a good place. You don’t have to take their advice, but you should take it into consideration.
The problem with women is when you like the girl your more likely to tolerate shit you shouldn’t. It’s like they cast a spell on you. You have to understand she’s not the one it’s just your turn and there will be others.
Thanks for your honesty. Hope others can learn from your stories, instead of being cocky and thinking they are above this happening to them. It can save them a world of hurt, if they do. You'd love my story, of face-planting in life after pushing past the warning alarms, because I thought I had to do the 'manly' thing (what society dictated as 'stepping up').
Had a few young ladies hitting on me at the gym today... Just told them no. I ended up having an absolutey full-filling day chasing excellence. Not worried about knocking anyone up feels great. Its best to say no to everyone until they prove they are worth it. No one is worth it till they prove it. Everything less is just horseplay to nowhere land. I'd rather be heading toward my bright future than getting derailed by some unknown delusion.
My mansion has many rooms and i put individuals that disrespect me in thise rooms and shut the door. I only look though peep hole when they want something or show up in my life.
Well Richard Cooper is basically a beta who got burned and turned bitter, he doesn't seem to genuinely understand women or game, you might be safer following this guy's blueprint, but you won't be happy either
@csnapx The answer is clearly Jesus. Women who are spiritually whole, and understand traditional family values, usually cherish their men and are alot less toxic.
Besides your gut, pay attention to when your eye twitches, toe tingles & ear rings when you get around a person, place or thing. Our bodies know before we do & sometimes we learn when it’s too late.
I think some of your advice is questionable but I think this advice is probably what every man needs to hear on repeat daily. Maybe print out the whole lecture on a t shirt, that'd be bomb
Think a big reason people ignore the red flags is because we tend to think the signs will subside and a lot times and those are actually the reasons things go south.
Rich, Are you able to do a podcast around the rules of firing staff without getting sued for unfair dismissal and end up paying a hefty compensation package to the ex employee. Or is firing like divorce? Getting rid of unwanted baggage may cost you.
If you are the employer ….There are almost an unlimited number of ways to release an employee - including those with contracts. You just have to be focused and deliberate, use the services of a good employment attorney (NOT HR) and build the case. When I’ve had to do this, I’ve used outside council to protect privilege - you can’t do that with internal HR. You have to build a case - and move quickly once the case is in place. Not something you want to be expert in - I’d rather build than cut - but sometimes I’m you have to make the cuts.
Hahaha, the wrong woman is not worth chasing. But the biggest mistake you can make as a guy, is NOT chasing a good woman… A REAL MAN should still chase the RIGHT WOMAN.💯 Cos since truly good women are a rarity, you WILL LOSE big time, if you follow bad advice of these fake influencers and not chase a really good woman, just to let her slip away into the arms of a better Man! Men, be wise…don’t blindly follow false gurus! You are not the prize guys. GREAT WOMEN ARE the prize. Remember that!♥️GODSPEED
There's a reason You can never "Individually" tame Intuition. In part because it's maturation practically demands being matched with the essence of Wisdom that is also "Hopefully" considered contained in others. There's a reason why Wisdom and Mysteries always seem to clash as if eternal enemies. It's all about the nature of the seed within in any Type of Fruit that multiplies or shrivels on the Vine. Seedless fruit produces what? The very presentation of Nature is brimming over with Prime and Primal examples. Relating to them (in terms of agreement) is where intuition begins to Serve You or NOT. Especially when the assist of Instincts beckons to inform You of the Nature of "Value" in any "Thing". Undefined People in general truly are symbols of a yet to be defined "Stasis". More specifically when they're Given more "Credit" than all other THINGS in the Grandiose Presentation of the "Nature of Things". Trying to Make "Sense' of it All is where the fatigue of Personal desires become a distraction. Especially under the Terms of a type of Pro-creation that also works "For You".
Rich makes a lot of good points and for the most part he is right but I just get the sense he has led and lives a sad life almost depressed. Maybe he should put some more energy into how to have fun in relationships as opposed to the dangers of them.
There is a lot on the line for a high net worth individual when getting involved with women. Blindly having fun in a relationship with someone that may screw you over is a bad idea as soon as it starts getting serious. Have some flings if you want but Ignore his advice at your own peril.
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Every time I ignored my instincts, I paid a terrible price in so many ways.
I avoided my instincts the other and paid the consequences, I agree 100%
Seriously
Happens to me all the time!!
Me too
You and me brother
This simple phrase is wildly accurate. It doesn’t mean things will work out. But, avoiding chaos and the trouble others bring into your life. Be strong, polite, and avoid the chaos of others.
Life is freaking boring if nothing happens other than routine, and once you live in routine for years any little problem will derail your whole life, so be ready
Well said. Thank you Brother.
@@cheapsoot1981 you're welcome
@@SnoopyReadsthats why females jump on the cc
I am going to a wedding where my brother-in-law will attend. He has disrespected me for years until I refused to go if he attended. I am making an exception knowing full well the odds are high he will do or say something I won’t like. I have already prepared myself to avoid him as much as possible saying very little as a response and not allow anything to cause my to lose my cool.
Having been a cop, there have been many times where trusting my instincts have saved my life, quite literally. I have an ex girlfriend who told me I should trust that intuition at work, but it was wrong to do so in our personal lives. I had just confided in her that it felt like she was involved with someone else. Of course, she denied it. Shortly after that, I caught her in bed with him and ended “us” on the spot. NEVER ignore your gut instincts! The flow of energy cannot lie.😮
I’m sorry to hear you experienced that man. I’m guessing it wasn’t your first rodeo. Currently going through my first rodeo and it’s partly because I didn’t follow my gut.
@@Jason-kv7cm - It wasn’t my first rodeo. Take the time to learn all you can from the experience, without rushing into another relationship. The pain will leave you once it’s done teaching you.
Focus on building yourself, on point with your path and purpose. The people that belong with you will come and stay.
Matthew Hussey says to treat relationships like you just had a rental car. It wasn’t yours. You’ve returned that car to the rental agency and there’s no need to ever be concerned about it again. I wish you the best!
@@appexcellence2919this only exasperates their need to manipulate. They double down
@daveh9803 “the pain will leave you once it’s done teaching you”
Wow, that’s such a good way to look at it. Thank you 💯
How did you catch her in bed?
Your intution gets sharpened when you spend quality time alone in silence. In a world of constant phonetic activity, getting away from that will help to enhance that "small still voice"..
Very true
intuition is the 'sixth sense' that napoleon hill talks about in "Think and grow rich". usually, men do not develop it until their mid to late 40s.
I'm 25 years old and everytime I ignore my intuition I got burned for it... But now never will I ignore it again.
My gut feeling is a lifetime 90% right
Your intuitive sixth sense gives you a lot of tingling clues when something is off…whether it’s with women, in business, with family or friends….listen to it because it will save you from ton of bad things happening. 🤔
I have this thing of disliking some people at first sight. As a non-religious person, I thought that was odd and baseless so, as an emerging entrepreneur, I tamed that gut feeling and started to allow such people into my life and my business until I got fcked in the worst way over and over by the said people. Looking back, I realize there is a reason for my distaste and I am currently never going to let such people in my vicinity ever again.
Trust your guts and keep that conscience alive
Yes, always trust your beer gut guy!💀
This is definitely one of the most applicable concepts for your entire life
Exact same example just last month: I asked her to cut communication with an ex she had been friends since long, if she wants to have an LTR with me. She accepted, and I didn’t see anythimg for 7 months. Then a whatsapp message in her phone from the guy just by accident. It turns out she had been chatting with him behind my back, even invited the guy for a dinner at her home twice. Despite she cut off the guy right away, it was too late. I showed her the door.
@ageofprogressive2248🎯🎯🎯
Men cannot understand her ability to pretend to love you. In reality, she wants your resources. Her ability to do this is real. She also knows she needs your baby to get those resources. She has the family judge backing her.
They are Master Manipulators.
Experts! - it’s the one thing that they are incredibly good at.
That's right, keep it simple. Every time I don't listen to my intuition, I regret it.
That little voice, intuition , is always very, very important . We should never ignore this. Personally, I call that: I have a sixth sense in my head .
Intuition is a tough concept for most people.
Basically, if you're feeling unsettled about a situation, with those quiet nagging doubts, PAY ATTENTION TO THAT.
If you're feeling like you need to do deeper digging before taking a business or personal relationship to the next level, PAY ATTENTION TO THAT.
Good Intuition isn't about a feeling that falls out of the sky and tells you to suddenly move across the country to invest in something you know nothing about. A charming salesman or a smooth operating woman knows how to evoke that in you.
Intuition is about knowing when something is off, and paying attention to that.
Yep! I am highly intuitive but was training (mostly by the women in my life since childhood) not to trust it and ended up getting involved with business and a romantic relationship that have destroyed me. I have retrained myself to be able to listen and trust my intuition and I have regaining my power, frame and personal goals.
This is ironic, because it was my own mother who taught me to trust my instincts and gut, from a very early age.
My father just reinforced this over my teenage years, every time I made a bonehead decision that was in stark contrast to my gut instincts - he'd walk me back logically through my thinking, and my bad decisions were staring me right in the face!
I've been listening to it ever since.
This is probably your most genuine video with the most practical advice
I want them to eat but not at my table! I love that analogy reminds me of Tupac Shakur’s phrase
"Just because you lost me as a friend, doesn't mean you gained me as an enemy. I'm bigger than that, I still wanna see you eat, just not at my table." By Tupac Shakur
I cut ties with the anchors but Im having trouble finding any sails to be friends with. Im going to make it happen though, appreciate your advice RC.
had literally gut issues because of my ex, pancreatitis is hell. only stayed because of kids. now no ex feel great. our creator works for the better of us listening is the learning curve.
The disrespect of constant tardiness is infuriating. This was a major reason why I walked from my fiancee.
I take part in ventures. I personally won’t ever do a deal with an overweight person. If he/she doesn’t value the most important asset in life (health), why would I risk my money with them. I’m usually right about when a new company will hit a major speed bump financially, and it starts by judging the people first
They tend to be greedy. My brother detests overweight men with beards, says they are always trouble.
Every single time I didn't listen to my intuition it bit me in the ass.
Im getting close to firing my wife of a year and a half. I drew the line in the sand at the beginning of this year that i will not suffer a intamacyless marriage and will not have intamacy used against me in any way.
it's tough but you have to cut her out. Sorry about getting married hope you made a good pre-nup. Or that you have less money/assets than her(lol highly unlikely)
She has effectively dissolved the marriage by her lack of action. Move methodically and swiftly.
Better sooner than later. Longer you wait, the more she takes when it's final.
Is annulment even an option?
A marriage without intimacy is already over, you just need to make it official & remove her manipulation from your life.
@@pinnacle171728 months for me no intimacy
Just this past week, I asked two women out who my gut told me no. I asked based on the recommendation of others and I was proven correct.
This is my life lesson to always listen to my gut.
When I wouldn’t listen to my gut, I would end up getting punched in it.
Dang bro, I love this analogy. This is a T shirt phrase for sure.
@@jers7590 💯
Excellent clip!
Never question your intuition, and always work hard to further develop its degree of fineness.
Regardless of your age, or what you having going for you or against you, never enter into an exclusive relationship with a woman that has children.
Well said Rich! I’ve applied this concept since my last relationship ended in Dec. 2017. I am single by choice because my goals and what I still want to accomplish in life has not been Fulfilled yet!
The state of women in today's society is so chaotic and toxic that it would actually interrupt achieving those goals I’ve set for my self and still need to accomplish.
Good comment. Women/partners will distract you to the point that life has passed by without achievement
same for men! until i have a pick from more alphas as in more get un beta i am focusing on myself as a feminine woman.
The most important thing you need to determine before getting into any relationship - personal or work - is the key aspects of the other person's character. How do you determine this? Ask them about their past relationships and listen carefully for any patterns of behaviour or rationalisations. And then make your decision based on your intuition.
I've always thought of intuition, as an emotional manifestation of the logical portion of the mind.....God, I'm smart....
Don’t be prideful best to make decisions humbly
Soul vs Mind/ego battle.
Inner voice is calm and quiet. Your mind and ego are loud.
In 6 years of business ownership and 2 divorces I can guarantee that I wish I had not suppressed that feeling! Now I fire fast and do not live with women! Ty for all help Rich!
Mr. Cooper:
Lovelovelove your videos.
I learn something from each one.
This one, though, hooked right into my heart.
Hearing about the adversities you overcame is just the inspiration I need to overcome mine.
No kidding; this is exactly what I needed to hear because of my current relationship and entrepreneurial obstacles.
I am energized.
Thank you !
You nailed it. Very similar to my experience. I let the pain drag for 4 years though. Live, learn, adjust and improve.
I have mixed feelings about intuition. Some people mistake fear for intuition, there’s been a lot of times I’ve taken risks when it comes to my career and location or big purchases that paid off. But I agree with this when it comes to dealing with employees or women.
Intuition can be confused with fear and cause people to not take action, but couldn't you say that intuition served you well when you took those risks? Why did you do them if you think everything was telling you not to? I'm sure if you dug deeper you might find that your intuition was telling you to do them despite being afraid. I've avoided a few mistakes in starting businesses that in hindsight were terrible ideas and to others it may look fear driven but I believe it was intuition.
@@PriusTurbo Nah cause my “intuition” was screaming no to me. It’s human nature not to rock the boat and stay the same. I have to remind myself every time I get too comfortable that my body is going to reject change. I had a job that was super easy, making around 60k and my “intuition” was screaming at me to stay there because it’s more long term stable than anything. - I put in my 2 weeks, felt nasty, started new job, felt nasty too. Almost 2 years later making over 90k base (over 100k if you count bonuses) and I’m super happy I didn’t listen to my “intuition”
I can give a relationship example too. My current gf is divorced, she also has a tattoo of some initials on her wrist (that she says she’s going to remove). Everything else is good, very attractive etc but those red flags were eating at me. - I decided to give her a chance anyway, and it’s legit like dating a wife. She helps out with everything, offers to pay for everything (I don’t make her), and I’ve never been with someone who is so genuinely attracted to me to where it takes no effort to get her 💦
Maybe I’ll lose my job soon and find out she’s a crazy mf. If that happens I’ll say my intuition was right. But if it doesn’t, then it was wrong!
These lessons are tough to learn.
If you have an amazing business idea, do it yourself, keep total control, you don’t need a business partner, it will inevitably turn to shit if other people have any jurisdiction.
Rich is the SHIT!!! Guy has saved me SO MANY times. Many blessings brother 🙏🏾🙏🏾
The truth is brutal but needs to be taken for what it is. Just a lot of weak males raised by single moms
@@improvisedsurvival5967 yea…SINGLE mums, who pushed on, struggled hard and did their best after they were left by the pathetic, loser biological-Dads of their shared kids.💀💀💀
Instead of shaming the S. mums…Much much more shame needs to land on the absentee dads.
@@Killersushiofficial the mothers are the ones alienating the dads. You think men don’t talk to wash other and know this is what’s going on. Single moms are rubbish please
I fully endorse this message. With me it’s kind of a precarious situation because I’m at a point where I simply don’t trust anyone from certain countries and cultures which are different from the UK or any Western country. Only reason being that I’ve had some unfortunate encounters with such folk. Almost ended losing money and my life because of it. I express this to people and I instantly get labeled ‘racist’ or whatever but for me I’m just trying to learn from past experiences and look out for myself here. Any advice for that?
Every right to feel how you feel. But having a one size fits all attitude to people from non westerm countries seems a bit simple minded. Your opinion should be maleable, not set in stone. Its fine if your a bit wary at first, but if you just totally stay clear of such people or have a permenant opinion regardless of how that individual behaves then you are indeed racist. Everyone is an individual with different upbringing.... just because youve had a bad exp, shouldnt mean that if someone demonstrates good character - you dismiss that first hand exp of the individual because you think you know something aboit people who you believe are related to him. There are many british people that are trash, if i met them before meeting a good british person should i now be dismissive of the good because i had some bad experience? Thats simple minded racism not intelligence. Its perfectly fine to be wary at a glance but you need to factor in new information of that particular individual then update your firat impression as you see fit.
@@NewZoneFocus Your right. On reflection maybe I am being overly harsh about it. The biggest issue I find is that what is said and done in public is usually tolerated in their culture. It seems like they don’t understand that it’s completely unacceptable in a different cultural context. I’m sure there’s a way to tell them to knock it off without being a complete dick about it but I haven’t really figured it out yet.
Maybe there's a correlation between being a gullible mark and being an ignorant racist?
@@coldsnap999 Excuse me?
@johnbrezinski348 Thanks for the kind words. It won’t just save my life but friends and family too.
Yo Rich, thanks a lot for sharing your knowledge and wisdom to us mere mortals. Shout out from the Philippines
Well said again Rich. Great advice. Don’t invite chaos in your life.
100% on point!
The last time I ignored my intuition about a woman I ended up with a temporary restraining order after I got tired of the disrespect and her physical abuse towards me and raised my voice.
Marry in haste, repent at leisure. "A man does good business when he rids himself of a turd
A lot of value and great wisdom on that small section from the audiobook .
thank you for sharing this! I will be starting to record voice notes on my phone.
There's two things that you can do with an anchor:
1) You can bring it back onto the boat, in order to move forward
Or,
2) You can cut it fucking loose
You decide what to do with the anchors in your life.
I’ve changed my life listening to Rich thank you Sir.
I had a gf that got in touch with an ex on her FB, friended him, liked his posts and they even worked at the same place; this after she tells me the story about how he was abusive and it was toxic relationship. I confronted her and she immediately unfriended him but didn't block him. That should have been the end of our relationship but I kept on with her. The rest of the relationship lasted a yr and was nothing but me being sussy of her being unfaithful. The moment I discovered that I should have ended it and I didn't causing me so much more unnecessary drama, sleepless night, stress etc. In the end I dumped her cause she kept on having inappropriate encounters with other men.
The thing is a lot won’t tell you and do it behind your back
Thanks Rich, these are all great reminders, so simple but accurate. Love your content, keep it up!
Rich this clip..goes on my downloads ...GREAT LESSON !!!
We all take a little bit of something from people rich , if we lived long enough we would get better at problem solving, I wish I had listened to my intuition a lot more , I do now ✌️
Thanks!
Bruh this shit hits close to home smh 🤦🏾♂️
Hire slow, fire quick. That is on point. I have to get the book.
Intuition is the propensity of women and logic is the propensity of men. As Rich says, don't eschew intuition but use it more.
At the end, the statement that the woman was pre-warned is correct. And often they will say that's bullying and threatening. If they say that but then later agree, you have to watch for them later on going back and saying you bullied and threatened. At that point at the very latest, I think you must use your intuition.
That voice is VERY REAL!! Haha! Experienced this yesterday and listened to it!!
I don’t hang out with chicks from the past. Once I’m done with them we aren’t friends anymore. Like you said sometimes I don’t hate them just not working for me. They can eat just not at my table .
Hello Rich is the 2nd version different from the 1st one. Going to read the book .
Hire slowly and Fire fast
Absolute Pearl of wisdom there
Love the content 👊🏼
It is a good thing to step back, and try to look at your situation from the outside, and look at the totality of the situation. In my opinion, men can be awful at taking good advice. If you have a good circle of friends, you can ask them their opinion, or you can be cool about taking it into consideration, if they offer you good advice that comes from a good place. You don’t have to take their advice, but you should take it into consideration.
The problem with women is when you like the girl your more likely to tolerate shit you shouldn’t. It’s like they cast a spell on you. You have to understand she’s not the one it’s just your turn and there will be others.
@@improvisedsurvival5967 and you weren’t even their first choice. 😄
Thanks for your honesty. Hope others can learn from your stories, instead of being cocky and thinking they are above this happening to them. It can save them a world of hurt, if they do. You'd love my story, of face-planting in life after pushing past the warning alarms, because I thought I had to do the 'manly' thing (what society dictated as 'stepping up').
Ive never even considered living any other way.
Thanks for sharing this
Dated a single mom of 2, about a month in asked me would I adopt her youngest child if we made it long term, I was outta there by month 3 🏃🏾♂️💨
I agree with his opinion on this. And it is not easy to do. But with after a few bad situations you get thick skin.
Had a few young ladies hitting on me at the gym today... Just told them no. I ended up having an absolutey full-filling day chasing excellence. Not worried about knocking anyone up feels great.
Its best to say no to everyone until they prove they are worth it. No one is worth it till they prove it. Everything less is just horseplay to nowhere land.
I'd rather be heading toward my bright future than getting derailed by some unknown delusion.
Man
Thank you so much for this feedback❤
How do we differentiate between intuition and anxiety/a trauma response ?
AKA sunk cost fallacy
My mansion has many rooms and i put individuals that disrespect me in thise rooms and shut the door. I only look though peep hole when they want something or show up in my life.
Go with your gut before you get in a rut.
Ignoring my instincts has cost me big time in the past. I'm learning to hire slowly but fire quickly.
Men avoid Chaos too much. It's not safe to be too passive as a man
Well Richard Cooper is basically a beta who got burned and turned bitter, he doesn't seem to genuinely understand women or game, you might be safer following this guy's blueprint, but you won't be happy either
@csnapx The answer is clearly Jesus. Women who are spiritually whole, and understand traditional family values, usually cherish their men and are alot less toxic.
Besides your gut, pay attention to when your eye twitches, toe tingles & ear rings when you get around a person, place or thing. Our bodies know before we do & sometimes we learn when it’s too late.
I think some of your advice is questionable but I think this advice is probably what every man needs to hear on repeat daily. Maybe print out the whole lecture on a t shirt, that'd be bomb
Great information, I will get book, thanks!
Some of my biggest mistakes went against my intuition. Listen to it my brothers
If we would invite intuition into more areas of our lives, life would become a lot easier...
Think a big reason people ignore the red flags is because we tend to think the signs will subside and a lot times and those are actually the reasons things go south.
Rich,
Are you able to do a podcast around the rules of firing staff without getting sued for unfair dismissal and end up paying a hefty compensation package to the ex employee.
Or is firing like divorce? Getting rid of unwanted baggage may cost you.
If you are the employer ….There are almost an unlimited number of ways to release an employee - including those with contracts. You just have to be focused and deliberate, use the services of a good employment attorney (NOT HR) and build the case. When I’ve had to do this, I’ve used outside council to protect privilege - you can’t do that with internal HR. You have to build a case - and move quickly once the case is in place. Not something you want to be expert in - I’d rather build than cut - but sometimes I’m you have to make the cuts.
Hahaha, the wrong woman is not worth chasing.
But the biggest mistake you can make as a guy, is NOT chasing a good woman…
A REAL MAN should still chase the RIGHT WOMAN.💯
Cos since truly good women are a rarity, you WILL LOSE big time, if you follow bad advice of these fake influencers and not chase a really good woman, just to let her slip away into the arms of a better Man!
Men, be wise…don’t blindly follow false gurus!
You are not the prize guys.
GREAT WOMEN ARE the prize.
Remember that!♥️GODSPEED
Excellent advice
Helpful. Useful. Thanks
Great advice Rich.
Thanks man!
great info. thanks for the videos.
So helpful! Thank you!
Hire slow…
But
Fire Fast!
Thinking with the wrong head…yup! Guilty as charged!
Reducing it to simplify: You don't ever want to veel like that again..
There's a reason You can never "Individually" tame Intuition. In part because it's maturation practically demands being matched with the essence of Wisdom that is also "Hopefully" considered contained in others. There's a reason why Wisdom and Mysteries always seem to clash as if eternal enemies. It's all about the nature of the seed within in any Type of Fruit that multiplies or shrivels on the Vine. Seedless fruit produces what? The very presentation of Nature is brimming over with Prime and Primal examples. Relating to them (in terms of agreement) is where intuition begins to Serve You or NOT. Especially when the assist of Instincts beckons to inform You of the Nature of "Value" in any "Thing". Undefined People in general truly are symbols of a yet to be defined "Stasis". More specifically when they're Given more "Credit" than all other THINGS in the Grandiose Presentation of the "Nature of Things". Trying to Make "Sense' of it All is where the fatigue of Personal desires become a distraction. Especially under the Terms of a type of Pro-creation that also works "For You".
If this is an ad for the book it's working😂
Great advice!
Great book 👍
So true
Intuition. Great
Remember folks, Richard cooper did the complete opposite of what he is preaching for 45 years. Thanks internet daddy ❤
Rich makes a lot of good points and for the most part he is right but I just get the sense he has led and lives a sad life almost depressed. Maybe he should put some more energy into how to have fun in relationships as opposed to the dangers of them.
He's been cut deep.. you can tell. But atleast hes helping men avoid the same fate
@@anthonynelson1187 That’s true
There is a lot on the line for a high net worth individual when getting involved with women. Blindly having fun in a relationship with someone that may screw you over is a bad idea as soon as it starts getting serious. Have some flings if you want but Ignore his advice at your own peril.
You’re spot on…he is only monetising his channel with the flawed and hypocritical nonsense he spews!
Sad underneath it all.
@@anthonynelson1187nah, you guys just have to treat good woman better and choose who to spend your life with wisely. Godspeed!✌🏻
what if you arent in a position to fire them......