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I heard a woman yelping with joy once saying "I'm getting married, I'm getting married" she didn't say to whom. They don't care who they marry they just want "their day" that's it.
I had a high school sweetheart that I was infatuated with, and after I came back from the Marines a few years later we started dating. I had started a new career with a large corporation and was making really good money. We talked about having a life together and were shopping for houses. But I had to work long hours and she wanted to party. She ended up cheating on me with a loser that had plenty of time to party. That was the end of house shopping and I didn’t see her for a number of years. Eventually I ran into her again, except this time she had 3 kids to 3 different men. All of a sudden she realized how much she had always loved me lol. Needless to say, NOPE!
As a broke, balding loser who he desperate and willing to please I would also like to take this opportunity to express the fact that I too have always loved you Mike. Please take me house shopping.
Do men want anything differently? Said another way: when Rich proposes spinning plates, letting the cream rise to the top, and the need for continued managing of behavior, isn’t that approach equally depersonalizing?
@@randys967 it is, but in exercise with the way modern women behave nowadays it is the best rational available along with going mgtow, and let us be a 100% honest here : men view and pesonnify women in only 2 different ways : as an object of desire (any woman you find attractive) or not as an object of desire (family members of course and what i like to call the little sister / older sister effect if you entertain 0 sexual desire towards a woman you know in your life). Even when a woman is highly competent in 1 domain of work we will always tend to seek for cooperation towards our own gender, Men and women are different, we view friendship differently as much as we view each others and how we interpret our own behaviors aswell, so in a sense the way we view depersonnification and the importance we give it is different aswell from our perspective as men compared to women, if they cared as much as hurting us they wouldn't do all the nasty shit they do everyday, which means we as men should rationally care about way less.
This was a very good interaction because the guy, Michael, is pretty evolved and knows what he wants (and doesn't want), and the response to him is excellent. The best concept, "if she insists on marriage, it's not you she wants, it's "a husband", you dont want this kind of woman in your life....". Another great truth bomb is "most women are frankly not marriage material". Love it! These is vital for men to keep in mind.
I read in a book on dating that 25% of women marry men they don't love. I thought, "That many women can't be that stupid." So I asked 9 women, including my sister and few women at work, what they thought of the author's opinion. All 9 thought the 25% figure was low. OUCH!
I think its low too. Women 30-40 years ago had a BIT of fun in high school and early 20s, then started looking for a husband. More and more are now settling in their 30s for a sperm donor and provider.
I'm was in the same situation as him. I told her I'll pay for the wedding but I don't want daddy government in our marriage. In the end she got the wedding without me marry her and I'm so thankful i never did the paperwork. To see a women change to be more demanding, complain more, be ungrateful, and run to her parents house when we have a big argument. THANK GOD! NOW I can walk away or she can leave me without me being tied together and suffering being a hostage of hers.
Why pay for her wedding day? I'm not paying for my next wedding day again. She can pay, i'll show up. My contribution will be what my family and friends donate as gifts.
The only concern I would have is after a set amount of years, she could bring a lawsuit claiming the same rights as a married woman if she chooses to end the relationship. Who do you think the court will side with? I hope you got a “relationship” agreement prior to the ceremony? In the US, it really doesn’t matter what a man does because she holds all the leverage in the eyes of the police, legal system, the courts and in the view of society in general.
Rich is 100% correct Had same happen to me multiple times from exes years dtl....calling me while either married or having a BF.....many other dudes I knew had same thing happen to them They can't be alone I learned pretty young..... Every single chick I knew who was hellbent on marriage got divorced at some point
They use the government as their overlord and protector to get resources from the man but also lock him down where she has the upper hand in the relationship.
I have two children with my girlfriend. She is perfect looking in every way from head to toe and a perfect mother/lover in every way. But I always tell her if you need a ring, hit the door. I don’t need to get married. If a woman is with me and wants to get married, she can go pick some loser that will be dumb enough to commit to something as unpredictable and wild as a human being.
She can't go and date a loser cuz the loser is her. Giving her womb to a man who won't marry her. Hope she doesn't end up a single mom making crying tick tock videos. She would only have herself to blame.
Most women nowadays look at marriage the same way an average joe looks at a career. An average joe gets a job, puts in hard work, then is rewarded by their boss with a promotion with better pay. The boss expects the employee to work even harder now that the pay has increased, but the average joe thinks they have "made it" and simply coasts along. The boss is then dissapointed. The average women finds a man, puts in great bedroom effort, then is rewarded by a man with an engagement ring. The man thinks the bedroom activity will get even better, or at least continue, now that they are engaged or married, but the woman will think she's "made it" and doesn't make a decent effort. The man is then dissapointed. Hence why you have ruthless bosses who cut staff and players who only pump and dump women. They are more willing to satisfy when they are chasing the big dollar.
My experience has been that when you tell a woman that is into you that you never want to get married again she immediately thinks “Oh, he just got hurt. I need to convince him otherwise.” The NEVER listen to you or you cogent reason why marriage is a shitty deal for men. They don’t care what you want. She will try and try and try to convince you that what she wants is what you really want. In her mind, she is the only thing that exists. She is AMAZING, you just haven’t realized that yet.
As a woman, I think that if children are going to be involved I would want to be married. If he doesn't trust me in marriage, he shouldn't trust me to raise his children. Simple wedding nothing fancy. Ring, just a band. But I can't imagine giving your womb to a man who doesn't want to Marry you. I would rather marry a construction worker than be a forever girlfriend to a rich man. In fact a man who is willing to marry you is way more special now because of the popular outlook on marriage now n days ( understandably).
Her family and friends pressure her to leave - the sisterhood - even if your her best option and she will most likely die alone… they keep each other single
marriage is a contract of cash and prizes for women. That's why the want it with chad (ideally), and that's why they want it with disrespected provider. Either way.......cash and prizes.
You have to also think of it like this: who benefits more from the marriage from the evolutionary viewpoint, the man or the woman. Is she marrying you because her children are going to be whiter, taller, lighter haired, fighter eye colored, etc.. then of course she will stick with you even if you don't marry her.
You can still do everything and just NOT go to city hall and get the marriage license. You can still buy a ring, do a photoshoot etc etc. But be careful because in some states they consider that to be married also.
Depending on the country that might count as a legal wedding, be careful. Some attorney might later frame this in combination with cohabitation as such.
A marriage between a high value man and a high value woman will probably last as they raise a high value family together. Being who they are will enable them to fly above the shit storm and they will not be sucked into divorce court or a miserable union. Any woman who wants children is going to want/demand marriage, even in 2023. There is nothing devious or sick about this desire for a commitment when children are involved. Good marriages may be far and few between, but they exist, if for no reason other than to stimulate coveting.
@@troylouis8270 Most women focused upon in this sphere are "low value," defined as "women to be avoided at all costs." But I see your point. When I use the term "high value," I'm not just thinking about her physical beauty, which will fade, but who she is as a person in addition to the way she looks.
Everyone knows what the term means whether it's applied to women, men, or anything else, including Walmart. The term just makes some people uncomfortable.@@trpweb
He's not being very forthcoming. It should not take you a year dating a woman in her 30s to find out where she is heading. Sooner than later you are going to get the "oops I'm pregnant" surprise. The women that have no desire to get married and/or have kids don't usually hide that in my experience.
@@lovewhitey4462 Agreed, but in my experience most women dating in their 30s have an agenda. They are either professional women looking for friends with benefits to focus on their career or starting a family. I usually knew their outlook on life before putting my D in them. For them to be surprised that I'm against marriage and don't want kids.....the guy messed up somewhere in my opinion. I think he's being deliberately evasive to get access to her and sex for longer. Personally I hate surprises and was pretty transparent in my outlook while dating. Its like when I was dating my wife. Different criteria when looking for a life partner and mother to your kids versus having a good time. Wild, unpredictable and an amazing lay works when your having fun. I don't want a woman who can f*ck and suck like a porn star 24/7 because she's banged 50 guys raising my daughter.....but maybe that's just me.
The young virtuous woman who stays in a relationship (in which she is monogamous but they guy is not, or even in the case you are both just with each other) just because of who he is, and knowing that he does not want to ever get married, is simply put, waisting her precious time, beauty and youth on him. Women know that they will not be young and have that youthful beauty forever, and because they are on a time clock, they instinctively know they are waisting their time with these so call "never marry alphas", and thus all women they date will ultimately leave them. Replacing women is not as easy as these "gurus" like Rich paint it to be as all men have a harder time getting a new woman, than a young woman has at replacing a man. Even if you are able to replace your current woman in a reasonable time, your new relationship will ultimately end for the same reason; you won't marry her, so she moves on. This is completely reasonable for any woman to do and completely understandable. And living in this cycle of never finding the one that will agree to stay with you indefinitely because of who you are even if you think that alone should be enough, is not going to make you happy. You will never find happiness this way. Women want and deserve more than that. And if another man can offer her what you won't, than that's the end of the love story for you. If you find a woman that checks most of your boxes, and you don't want to lose her to another man, then you can propose with a prenap which will offer you some protections. Don't condemn yourself to a life of loneliness and solitude unnecessarily. There are plenty of women out there who are okay with signing a mutually fair prenap.
Prenups can get thrown out in divorce court. They don't offer much protection, only the illusion of protection. If prenups were adhered to, this wouldn't be an issue but unfortunately it is up to the judge whether to honor some or any of a given prenup.
@@michaelhunsinger8351 only prenups that are found to be abusive or unfair for either party are thrown out of court. There are certainly guidelines for what the courts consider to be a legal and fair prenup. If you adhere to those standards where is no reason for the court to throw it out unless you purposely do something unacceptable, stupid or crazy during the divorce to fuck the other party over in any way shape or form, then the courts may grant special requests outside the prenup as punishment for indecent/uncivilized behavior. Read the laws! You gotta know them to play the game in your favor.
Walk meet then walk away "can you bring me some boxed wine and smokes oh and I have 19 kids but you better have a job and be good looking" ....NO THANKS
If anybody has seen the first Harold & Kumar movie where they go to White Castle, think about what the woman said at the barn or whatever you want to call it to be UA-cam approved, when the one girl was asked about love and she said no, I'm a hoar, and for some reason these women that give it away for free think they are going to find love and a husband in a bunch of other things like Rich said they are not qualified for
Your point at minute 4:51 so good. I totally did that! I liked someone a lot and he didnt want to have kids or married and I wanted to keep getting to know him without that.
A blue pill guy recently told me that my refusal to get married is stupid because... ... I'll never be able to get married. Yeah, that was his reason. Joke's on me!
I blame him for allowing the relationship to continue without making it clear, early, that marriage is NOT an option. To let things go a year, and then have that conversation is setting her up for disappointment. A woman after 30 wants marriage.
USA Female here. The more I watch this channel, the better I feel about myself not getting married. (I didn't want children, so there was no rush to marriage.) I was feeling like I was missing out. Not any more!
Read the captions of wedding photos posted by women. For example, my female cousin's photo with her husband said this: "I love my purple hair, my black dress and my handsome husband." Notice how her husband was put last! It didn't even make it in front of her horrible hair and dress.
Most women on these dating apps are Chad leftovers or hot messes. They want Chad and if they have to settle for less they put on the pressure for you to bend to her will. With Chad she would play by different rules.
If she is TRULY about marriage, meaning a solid family foundation, that can be done without the government being involved. If she insists on state sanctioned marriaged... she wants marriage but for a different reason
Yes, Michael is right but Rich is also right. If a man is secure enough in his being, women will throw marriage (i mean wedding) out the window. My parents are an example of this.
It's amazing that people want to bring the government into their life by getting married. I knew as a kid that marriage was incredibly overrated. It's very rare to find a happily married couple. People always give me a weird look when I say I'd never want to get married. Most are the judgmental religious shaming types of course. I don't understand why any guy would want to get married these days. Especially if they have any money at all.
Your talking about a imprinted woman she will always come back. She will be your second choice gladly. I’ve seen this. Women keep going back to same guy who could care less about her.
He should be up front about what he wants right from the start and not waste anybody’s time. If I he does that he might find a woman who doesn’t want to marry either.
This gentleman his accent sounds like some eastern European perhaps/ probably not even western Euro. I wonder if he is high value in his culture/ perhaps even a "chad"....or having some of the 'sixes'. In the top 5 to 10%- ile of all men in his environment/ or the dating relationship climate over there.
Good video, but.... Don't talk about hypnotism, or hypnotism as bull shit, when you clearly don't know anything about the subject. Thanks again for showing what you don't know.
Lol? If she even cared and loved you for real she wouldn't care about marriage or children. She would just want to be with you. Women today know damn well what marriage entails financially.
My mom tells me all the time I should "get married" The suggestion is ludicrous on many levels. I don't have time for dating. I work and I parent What she really means is "you need more money" Well. I have more money, time, and rest when I don't have a man in my house. They like big trucks and expensive toys. And they expect to be catered to. I will devote my time to my child and more personal wealth accumulation I'm old anyway. Men are not the big prize they have been promoted to be
Rich, not every woman is an opportunistic taker. Just because your wife divorced you doesn’t mean they’re all like that. If you were as alpha as you say you are, you would have kept your family unit together.
90% of all divorces are initiated by college educated women. By your logic all of these women never chose alphas or a husband that could not keep the family unit together? 😂🤡
Shame, Insults, Guilt, and The Need To Be Right…. Let’s flip that around. The fact that “Not All Women Are Like That”, means that a LOT of women are. I had personal experience 20 years ago with a woman who used the possibility of sex to manipulate money out of me. When I figured it out and let her know that there would be no more money coming from me? To help with the “emergencies” she seemed to keep having? She quickly ended things: “I just can’t be myself around you.” Yeah, right. Men need to be warned about women like this. I only lost a couple thousand and my dignity. Lesson learned. Some men marry women like this and they take it all…
@@kellygreenii Even if she does not necessarily manipulate she is still a liability to a man. He needs to court, pay for dates, provide protection, and offer up losses if she decides to divorce.
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I heard a woman yelping with joy once saying "I'm getting married, I'm getting married" she didn't say to whom. They don't care who they marry they just want "their day" that's it.
Yep. For validation after her bad decisions.
I had a high school sweetheart that I was infatuated with, and after I came back from the Marines a few years later we started dating. I had started a new career with a large corporation and was making really good money. We talked about having a life together and were shopping for houses. But I had to work long hours and she wanted to party. She ended up cheating on me with a loser that had plenty of time to party. That was the end of house shopping and I didn’t see her for a number of years. Eventually I ran into her again, except this time she had 3 kids to 3 different men. All of a sudden she realized how much she had always loved me lol. Needless to say, NOPE!
My goodness. That's not a Disney Movie at all. 😂 Good for you standing your ground tho.
What sucks it usually always the prettiest women that do this stuff
Why were house shopping with a woman you weren't married to?
@@Ja50nkAt she wasn’t somebody I just met. I had known her (or thought I did) since Kindergarten. Just about 2 decades
As a broke, balding loser who he desperate and willing to please I would also like to take this opportunity to express the fact that I too have always loved you Mike. Please take me house shopping.
“She doesn’t want you. She wants a husband.” That sure put the last few years of my marriage in perspective
And...You don't want her, you only want someone who you can get regular sex from.
She wants a "provider" that'll let her do whatever she wants.
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It’s a hard pill to swallow when you discover it ain’t you-she wants what you represent.
Hardest pill, but the best one to make peace with, because you make peace with ultimate loneliness
Do men want anything differently?
Said another way: when Rich proposes spinning plates, letting the cream rise to the top, and the need for continued managing of behavior, isn’t that approach equally depersonalizing?
@@randys967 it is, but in exercise with the way modern women behave nowadays it is the best rational available along with going mgtow, and let us be a 100% honest here : men view and pesonnify women in only 2 different ways : as an object of desire (any woman you find attractive) or not as an object of desire (family members of course and what i like to call the little sister / older sister effect if you entertain 0 sexual desire towards a woman you know in your life). Even when a woman is highly competent in 1 domain of work we will always tend to seek for cooperation towards our own gender, Men and women are different, we view friendship differently as much as we view each others and how we interpret our own behaviors aswell, so in a sense the way we view depersonnification and the importance we give it is different aswell from our perspective as men compared to women, if they cared as much as hurting us they wouldn't do all the nasty shit they do everyday, which means we as men should rationally care about way less.
But same the other way. I like what a blonde blue eyed gal from a good family represents, i can get to know her for her, but thats always there
I thought when you live with someone for a couple years by law is the same like you are married together
This was a very good interaction because the guy, Michael, is pretty evolved and knows what he wants (and doesn't want), and the response to him is excellent. The best concept, "if she insists on marriage, it's not you she wants, it's "a husband", you dont want this kind of woman in your life....". Another great truth bomb is "most women are frankly not marriage material". Love it! These is vital for men to keep in mind.
I read in a book on dating that 25% of women marry men they don't love. I thought, "That many women can't be that stupid." So I asked 9 women, including my sister and few women at work, what they thought of the author's opinion. All 9 thought the 25% figure was low. OUCH!
I think its low too. Women 30-40 years ago had a BIT of fun in high school and early 20s, then started looking for a husband. More and more are now settling in their 30s for a sperm donor and provider.
They are not stupid, the men they love don't want them. So they settle for someone who can pay the bills.
@@trpweb Exactly what a woman at work said.
Was that book the Doc Love system?
Women rarely marry the man that excites them, they marry who they settle with.
I'm was in the same situation as him. I told her I'll pay for the wedding but I don't want daddy government in our marriage. In the end she got the wedding without me marry her and I'm so thankful i never did the paperwork. To see a women change to be more demanding, complain more, be ungrateful, and run to her parents house when we have a big argument. THANK GOD! NOW I can walk away or she can leave me without me being tied together and suffering being a hostage of hers.
Brilliant the only persons who benefit are the Attorney’s ✍🏻💔🔥⚠️
Why pay for her wedding day? I'm not paying for my next wedding day again. She can pay, i'll show up. My contribution will be what my family and friends donate as gifts.
. In the end she got the wedding without me marry her and I'm so thankful i never did the paperwork. ? What do you mean ?
The only concern I would have is after a set amount of years, she could bring a lawsuit claiming the same rights as a married woman if she chooses to end the relationship. Who do you think the court will side with? I hope you got a “relationship” agreement prior to the ceremony? In the US, it really doesn’t matter what a man does because she holds all the leverage in the eyes of the police, legal system, the courts and in the view of society in general.
Rich is 100% correct
Had same happen to me multiple times from exes years dtl....calling me while either married or having a BF.....many other dudes I knew had same thing happen to them
They can't be alone I learned pretty young.....
Every single chick I knew who was hellbent on marriage got divorced at some point
I'm a videographer. Filming weddings I hardly deal with the groom as he is chilled out. Its the bride becoming bridezilla that's the problem
They use the government as their overlord and protector to get resources from the man but also lock him down where she has the upper hand in the relationship.
Overlord, big daddy, protector, soo true
I have two children with my girlfriend. She is perfect looking in every way from head to toe and a perfect mother/lover in every way. But I always tell her if you need a ring, hit the door. I don’t need to get married. If a woman is with me and wants to get married, she can go pick some loser that will be dumb enough to commit to something as unpredictable and wild as a human being.
She can't go and date a loser cuz the loser is her. Giving her womb to a man who won't marry her. Hope she doesn't end up a single mom making crying tick tock videos. She would only have herself to blame.
You’re right. My woman was adamant about marrying Me but was 100% more interested in being with me than having nothing.
Rich is soo right here in all he says, love it , stellar outlook on life
Most women nowadays look at marriage the same way an average joe looks at a career.
An average joe gets a job, puts in hard work, then is rewarded by their boss with a promotion with better pay. The boss expects the employee to work even harder now that the pay has increased, but the average joe thinks they have "made it" and simply coasts along. The boss is then dissapointed.
The average women finds a man, puts in great bedroom effort, then is rewarded by a man with an engagement ring. The man thinks the bedroom activity will get even better, or at least continue, now that they are engaged or married, but the woman will think she's "made it" and doesn't make a decent effort. The man is then dissapointed.
Hence why you have ruthless bosses who cut staff and players who only pump and dump women. They are more willing to satisfy when they are chasing the big dollar.
My experience has been that when you tell a woman that is into you that you never want to get married again she immediately thinks “Oh, he just got hurt. I need to convince him otherwise.” The NEVER listen to you or you cogent reason why marriage is a shitty deal for men. They don’t care what you want. She will try and try and try to convince you that what she wants is what you really want. In her mind, she is the only thing that exists. She is AMAZING, you just haven’t realized that yet.
Any guy who suspects she is trying to convince him needs to get out fast before she stages an oops pregnancy.
@@gracerules2008 I have NEVER met a woman for whom marriage isn’t the ultimate goal. It’s a security thing for them.
As a woman, I think that if children are going to be involved I would want to be married. If he doesn't trust me in marriage, he shouldn't trust me to raise his children. Simple wedding nothing fancy. Ring, just a band. But I can't imagine giving your womb to a man who doesn't want to Marry you. I would rather marry a construction worker than be a forever girlfriend to a rich man. In fact a man who is willing to marry you is way more special now because of the popular outlook on marriage now n days ( understandably).
Men might be the leaders of the household but children are usually a reflection of their mothers. Beware.
If you have no interest in having kids, never ever get married.
What about men who want to continue their lineage ? 🤔
@@Son-of-Krypton Hire a surrogate and do it in vitro.
Ah yes, please have lots more kids to become wage slave indentured servants to the government
Good point. Marriage just doesn't make sense in 2023.
@@Son-of-Krypton I personally don't care about lineages
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Me 2 😉✍🏻😂
Like John Mayor says, “Me, or the thought of me?”
Her family and friends pressure her to leave - the sisterhood - even if your her best option and she will most likely die alone… they keep each other single
Do not worry. He still has his hands to masturbate to the best of his ability.
The Cat Club is always open.
@@GUITARTIME2024 membership is uncapped!
Cooper is 100% correct on this!
I even proposed to a gal, then reversed and a year later she still there
marriage is a contract of cash and prizes for women. That's why the want it with chad (ideally), and that's why they want it with disrespected provider. Either way.......cash and prizes.
You have to also think of it like this: who benefits more from the marriage from the evolutionary viewpoint, the man or the woman. Is she marrying you because her children are going to be whiter, taller, lighter haired, fighter eye colored, etc.. then of course she will stick with you even if you don't marry her.
You can still do everything and just NOT go to city hall and get the marriage license. You can still buy a ring, do a photoshoot etc etc. But be careful because in some states they consider that to be married also.
Can’t you reverse it? He doesn’t want you - he wants a hole?
Depending on the country that might count as a legal wedding, be careful. Some attorney might later frame this in combination with cohabitation as such.
One of your best videos on why you should watch her actions vs her words
A marriage between a high value man and a high value woman will probably last as they raise a high value family together. Being who they are will enable them to fly above the shit storm and they will not be sucked into divorce court or a miserable union. Any woman who wants children is going to want/demand marriage, even in 2023. There is nothing devious or sick about this desire for a commitment when children are involved. Good marriages may be far and few between, but they exist, if for no reason other than to stimulate coveting.
Even without kids - most religions with those who practice - would only support marriage for couples. You can sign a prenup if worried.
“High Value” gets tossed around too much in this sphere, makes people sound like something you can buy at Walmart
@@troylouis8270 Most women focused upon in this sphere are "low value," defined as "women to be avoided at all costs." But I see your point. When I use the term "high value," I'm not just thinking about her physical beauty, which will fade, but who she is as a person in addition to the way she looks.
@@roberthagedorn290Try to give an explanation or a system to determine if a woman is high value. Let's see, what the criteria is.
Everyone knows what the term means whether it's applied to women, men, or anything else, including Walmart. The term just makes some people uncomfortable.@@trpweb
I really enjoy these conversations on this channel!
He's not being very forthcoming. It should not take you a year dating a woman in her 30s to find out where she is heading. Sooner than later you are going to get the "oops I'm pregnant" surprise. The women that have no desire to get married and/or have kids don't usually hide that in my experience.
You need to be with someone through all 4 seasons to get a baseline to how you handle storms Its no guarantee but it’s better safe than sorry ⚠️🔥
@@lovewhitey4462 Agreed, but in my experience most women dating in their 30s have an agenda. They are either professional women looking for friends with benefits to focus on their career or starting a family. I usually knew their outlook on life before putting my D in them. For them to be surprised that I'm against marriage and don't want kids.....the guy messed up somewhere in my opinion. I think he's being deliberately evasive to get access to her and sex for longer. Personally I hate surprises and was pretty transparent in my outlook while dating.
Its like when I was dating my wife. Different criteria when looking for a life partner and mother to your kids versus having a good time. Wild, unpredictable and an amazing lay works when your having fun. I don't want a woman who can f*ck and suck like a porn star 24/7 because she's banged 50 guys raising my daughter.....but maybe that's just me.
The young virtuous woman who stays in a relationship (in which she is monogamous but they guy is not, or even in the case you are both just with each other) just because of who he is, and knowing that he does not want to ever get married, is simply put, waisting her precious time, beauty and youth on him. Women know that they will not be young and have that youthful beauty forever, and because they are on a time clock, they instinctively know they are waisting their time with these so call "never marry alphas", and thus all women they date will ultimately leave them. Replacing women is not as easy as these "gurus" like Rich paint it to be as all men have a harder time getting a new woman, than a young woman has at replacing a man. Even if you are able to replace your current woman in a reasonable time, your new relationship will ultimately end for the same reason; you won't marry her, so she moves on. This is completely reasonable for any woman to do and completely understandable. And living in this cycle of never finding the one that will agree to stay with you indefinitely because of who you are even if you think that alone should be enough, is not going to make you happy. You will never find happiness this way. Women want and deserve more than that. And if another man can offer her what you won't, than that's the end of the love story for you. If you find a woman that checks most of your boxes, and you don't want to lose her to another man, then you can propose with a prenap which will offer you some protections. Don't condemn yourself to a life of loneliness and solitude unnecessarily. There are plenty of women out there who are okay with signing a mutually fair prenap.
Prenups can get thrown out in divorce court. They don't offer much protection, only the illusion of protection. If prenups were adhered to, this wouldn't be an issue but unfortunately it is up to the judge whether to honor some or any of a given prenup.
@@michaelhunsinger8351 only prenups that are found to be abusive or unfair for either party are thrown out of court. There are certainly guidelines for what the courts consider to be a legal and fair prenup. If you adhere to those standards where is no reason for the court to throw it out unless you purposely do something unacceptable, stupid or crazy during the divorce to fuck the other party over in any way shape or form, then the courts may grant special requests outside the prenup as punishment for indecent/uncivilized behavior. Read the laws! You gotta know them to play the game in your favor.
My man is speaking straight facts!!!
Walk meet then walk away "can you bring me some boxed wine and smokes oh and I have 19 kids but you better have a job and be good looking" ....NO THANKS
If anybody has seen the first Harold & Kumar movie where they go to White Castle, think about what the woman said at the barn or whatever you want to call it to be UA-cam approved, when the one girl was asked about love and she said no, I'm a hoar, and for some reason these women that give it away for free think they are going to find love and a husband in a bunch of other things like Rich said they are not qualified for
The whorehouse scene was in the 2nd harold and kumar: escape from guantanamo bay...more hilarious than the first IMO.
Your point at minute 4:51 so good. I totally did that! I liked someone a lot and he didnt want to have kids or married and I wanted to keep getting to know him without that.
A blue pill guy recently told me that my refusal to get married is stupid because...
... I'll never be able to get married.
Yeah, that was his reason. Joke's on me!
I blame him for allowing the relationship to continue without making it clear, early, that marriage is NOT an option. To let things go a year, and then have that conversation is setting her up for disappointment. A woman after 30 wants marriage.
Any woman wants marriage
USA Female here. The more I watch this channel, the better I feel about myself not getting married. (I didn't want children, so there was no rush to marriage.) I was feeling like I was missing out. Not any more!
Same here .😂
Good clip! I won't ever get married in the US. Overseas is one thing but out here nope.
"Overseas" meaning what? In Germany, men are destroyed in divorces.
Read the captions of wedding photos posted by women. For example, my female cousin's photo with her husband said this: "I love my purple hair, my black dress and my handsome husband."
Notice how her husband was put last! It didn't even make it in front of her horrible hair and dress.
Most women on these dating apps are Chad leftovers or hot messes. They want Chad and if they have to settle for less they put on the pressure for you to bend to her will. With Chad she would play by different rules.
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If she is TRULY about marriage, meaning a solid family foundation, that can be done without the government being involved. If she insists on state sanctioned marriaged... she wants marriage but for a different reason
No LTR is a compliment to your life
Nope....its a risk and liability he takes on to have children.
Agreed ⚠️⚠️⚠️
Can’t disagree
Yes, Michael is right but Rich is also right. If a man is secure enough in his being, women will throw marriage (i mean wedding) out the window. My parents are an example of this.
It's amazing that people want to bring the government into their life by getting married. I knew as a kid that marriage was incredibly overrated. It's very rare to find a happily married couple. People always give me a weird look when I say I'd never want to get married. Most are the judgmental religious shaming types of course. I don't understand why any guy would want to get married these days. Especially if they have any money at all.
No hymen, no diamond!!
He's getting a case of oneitis, he needs to spin more plates in my humble opinion.
I've had a gf tell me she was just looking to get married cause she's always wanted to say "this is my husband".
Chase excellence, not women with high egos and notch counts. 🤡🤜
Women typically want the wedding day and the gifts and attention it brings. Marriage is work.
Don’t get married ‼️
Your talking about a imprinted woman she will always come back. She will be your second choice gladly. I’ve seen this. Women keep going back to same guy who could care less about her.
If Bill gates and Jeff bezos couldn’t make women happy .. forgot the average joe blow 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
if she still stays with you, after you clearly stated that you don't want marriage, are you the one wasting her time? or its her problem?
He should be up front about what he wants right from the start and not waste anybody’s time. If I he does that he might find a woman who doesn’t want to marry either.
This gentleman his accent sounds like some eastern European perhaps/ probably not even western Euro. I wonder if he is high value in his culture/ perhaps even a "chad"....or having some of the 'sixes'. In the top 5 to 10%- ile of all men in his environment/ or the dating relationship climate over there.
Well Rich is right. Time is one of the most important resources and this guy just does not get it.
Can you enterview a guy who is happily married?
Good video, but.... Don't talk about hypnotism, or hypnotism as bull shit, when you clearly don't know anything about the subject. Thanks again for showing what you don't know.
What the fuck is the point of long-term relationships? What's the reward?
He also must be aware of his "ethnic tax" at divorce he'll face in America or the West...
This fellow sounds indian..as You know there is a whole other level to marriage in that culture...
Sounds middle eastern to me, but also true.
He sounds Serbian / Macedonian
He sounded African to me.
@@zuhairreza 🎯
What if you want kids though as a man how do you go about having kids whats the best way ??
Not YOU ofc, she wants chad, but she won’t get him
What got her at the beginning, will keep her in the end
“Bitch you’re married”! Rick is a fool! 😂
Weddings are a celebration of virginity.
Marriage is NOT parties, gifts, and trips. What an effing joke!
Name one female drafted to War since the female vote.
Lol? If she even cared and loved you for real she wouldn't care about marriage or children. She would just want to be with you. Women today know damn well what marriage entails financially.
I don’t think you’ve been dating a lot lately.
Every girl I meet is wanting kids and a ring.
My mom tells me all the time I should "get married"
The suggestion is ludicrous on many levels. I don't have time for dating. I work and I parent
What she really means is "you need more money"
Well. I have more money, time, and rest when I don't have a man in my house. They like big trucks and expensive toys. And they expect to be catered to.
I will devote my time to my child and more personal wealth accumulation
I'm old anyway. Men are not the big prize they have been promoted to be
Women don't want the responsibility of a marriage only the fantasy of the day
If she’s virtuous with good character she has to get married - it’s a sin not to, a big deal. Did you forget about God who created us?
All these soundbites… could probably fill a mediocre book. Oh wait…
Rich tells the ugly truth
A high value man may keep a woman for a while but once they get “baby / marriage fever” it’s only a matter of time..
Rich, not every woman is an opportunistic taker. Just because your wife divorced you doesn’t mean they’re all like that. If you were as alpha as you say you are, you would have kept your family unit together.
Read his book, he talks about what led him to his beliefs now.
Generally they are. Because there are exceptions it does not negate hard fast rules.
90% of all divorces are initiated by college educated women.
By your logic all of these women never chose alphas or a husband that could not keep the family unit together?
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Shame, Insults, Guilt, and The Need To Be Right….
Let’s flip that around. The fact that “Not All Women Are Like That”, means that a LOT of women are.
I had personal experience 20 years ago with a woman who used the possibility of sex to manipulate money out of me. When I figured it out and let her know that there would be no more money coming from me? To help with the “emergencies” she seemed to keep having? She quickly ended things: “I just can’t be myself around you.”
Yeah, right.
Men need to be warned about women like this. I only lost a couple thousand and my dignity. Lesson learned. Some men marry women like this and they take it all…
@@kellygreenii Even if she does not necessarily manipulate she is still a liability to a man. He needs to court, pay for dates, provide protection, and offer up losses if she decides to divorce.
Catch and release, brothers.
Is he beta?
Rich, you talk too much
Isn't that the point?? How is he supposed to teach us if he's not talking? Wtf. It's also his show LOL
@@JohnSkyLey he never listens, and talks down to his callers. He always thinks he’s better than ppl
First
I'm 57 years old, and I never was happy until I swore off women at 50.
They calling you after all those years not because you're a stud is because you got a couple of dollars.😅
They don't want a husband, they want your resources!
That is precisely what they want.
He doesn't have to worry about leaving a relationship because someday he'll just get deported 😂
Of all people, this caller should be begging to get married. He sounds like he's been living in America (illegally) for just a couple of weeks.
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