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I pissed off a hottie. Didn't wanna deal with her so ignored her. She came crawlin back apologizin. I'll put up with her til she flips her shit again, but so far so good.
Top 30 RP quotes 1. Alpha bangs, beta bucks 2. She’s not yours, its just your turn 3. She doesn’t love you; she loves what you can provide 4. Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally 5. If she cheats, she belongs to the streets 6. Men care about a woman’s past, women care about a man’s future 7. If you couldn’t have her in her prime, don’t accept her in her decline 8. Women are born with value; men must create theirs 9. Men age like wine, women age like milk 10. Why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free? 11. Marriage is an insurance policy to protect women from the depreciating value 12. It is foolish to sign a contract that rewards the person who breaks it 13. Single mom’s aren’t looking for love, they are looking for help 14. Single mom’s are for recreational use only 15. Marrying a single mom is like paying full price for a used car 16. The Wall takes no prisoners 17. There is no such thing as love, only leverage 18. Men lead, women follow 19. A woman cannot serve two masters 20. You will lose money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money 21. Women wait in the finish line and bang the winners 22. A King can marry a peasant. A queen won’t look a peasant’s way 23. Treat her like a queen and she will treat you like a peasant 24. Who ever cares the least in the relationship, has all the power 25. Women need attention like a plant needs sunlight 26. Women would rather share a high value Man than be saddled with a faithful loser 27. Make up is war paint 28. Whatever she says her body count is, multiply it by 3 29. Men are romantics pretending to be realists, women are realists pretending to be romantics 30. Women are sex objects to men & men are success objects to women
did he say that? not doubting it, just curious. I read that Einstein had an arrangement with his wife, she had to turn a blind eye to his numerous affairs with students. Einstein was very chad.
I absolutely agree, that a a woman that dumps you has no respect, admiration, or desire for you. I’ve been there, and I took her back, married her, she cheated on me for 10 years. I either had no clue or believed her “higher than thou” lies. We divorced. It took me 3 years to recover, until I found the red pill.
I’m currently in the process of ignoring a woman who is trying to ’win’ me back. My life no longer has a reverse gear. “That’s not going to happen.” is apparently not computing. It’s sad to watch.
@@hyedefinition1080 I grew up going to church and learned from Jesus how I should forgive one another. The only problem is when I keep giving chances to people who are clearly abusing me. What wasn’t taught me as a child was having good boundaries and self respect. Had to learn that lesson the hard way unfortunately. But God brought me through it.
Driving a fast fast car is a not the simple choice. People drive a fast car to show certain thinks and to create an image of themselves, which means they do give a fuck
Dont forget to ask yourself a very tough question. Why are you doing all those things? If youre doing them to get attention of a woman, then youre lying to yourself when you say "im doing this for me". Something i struggle with
Lol. Me too. Sometimes not having social media accounts does make you stand out. But unfortunately, many surface level women or people in general, will think "oh he got nothing going for himself, that's why he doesn't have IG" or whatever
@@smilodon92 I totally get why it can work for some men. Personally, I’m just not the type of guy who feels the need, nor desires to display my life across a social media platform. Not my style. I’ve nothing to prove to anyone, besides I don’t want everybody knowing my business. An interesting story for you… met a girl online, she asked if I had it, said I didn’t. Wouldn’t shut up about why didn’t I have an account. I mocked her. Got her on a video call instead. A few weeks later she ended up driving over 2 hours to visit me at my place at the first time of meeting her. You don’t need game if she likes what she sees enough and you can string more than a few words together. I was almost 48 & she was 31, if that matters.
@@VoiceOfThe This, I've never had to try much with women. Comes down to personality from my experience. Not 6 foot either and still never had trouble with that. I honestly think the whole 6 foot thing is some kinda blackpilling operation to further put a divide between the sexes. Women have gotten much worse since I was younger with social media and current "liberation" culture. Harder to find a decent women to wife up, but rather being focused on that crap, men these days should be more into making their lives good. Never settle for less, only take the best and keep kicking ass. WE GON RULE THE WORLD BROS!
If a woman is building you up in her mind via social media, sure as ship(t) when you slip up and get lazy while you're together (and she consequently doesn't have to work to figure out your mysterious side), she'll be back on that game with someone else. Genuine burning desire is displayed by constant interest, not fleeting interest that social media panders to. Easiest way to weed out low quality = no social media.
Tom Cruise is not boring but he cannot stay married. I think women get bored with their man no matter who he is. It might take years, but they still want different.
Bloody hell man, just came back from my 9 hour shift and was thinking to skip my training today, fuck that I will go to Train right now, it's all about excellence!!
I dunno if I agree with the basic premise women chase you simply because u chase excellence. They'll never SEE your excellence OR even see YOU if u r dating online. That being said, chase excellence for yourself sure. I know a bunch of millionaires that can't even get women to reply online and forget meeting hot younger women in person. Maybe where Rich lives, not here in LA
Disagree completely with the insta social proof. Everyone is desperate to get likes on various social platforms. Unless it's your business account, get off media and live in the moment. Women have always acted very favorably when they can't find me on these platforms like 99% of the losers they meet. It's rare to meet people who don't fall into the social media trap.
*Health:* enough sleep, balanced diet, exercise daily. *Wealth:* maximize your earnings, save, and invest. *Wellbeing:* relax, pursue passions. Enjoy your own company and that of good friends. That's my top 9. Women are no. 10.
Elimination pricessed carbs, same with; salt, fats. Eat fermenteret foods, easy to make as garnish to resterende beneficial biome. Stop stressing out, kortisol incr visceral fat to. All disease stems from the Gut. Human cells in the whole body is vastly outnumbered. Feed the beneficial community bacteria, yo become the govenor.
I'm so grateful my younger self got into these communities at the age I did. Only had to get f'd over by my first girlfriend to learn a LOT of lessons from men like yourself Rich rather than needing several years of personal trial and error. To all my brothas reading this stuff really does work all the mantras of ' sacrificing comfort and focusing on yourself' make dating so much easier later on🤝
I agree with the premise of your comment. However, if you need to date women, always put on the red pill glasses and watch red flags. Women are after a man's resources. Proceed with caution.
Men that get “caught in their feelings” will almost always get played...Women don't respect men that act & feel like women...if she knows that you can walk away at any time she will not try that BS...but unfortunately most men are weak when it comes to women 💯
THIS! So much better getting to know people in the real world. Easier to gage attraction and you get an idea of what you be getting off the get go. Online dating is shid and too much work. Easier to deal with women in person, seeing each others personalities first hand and stuff. Easier to build a bond too than over text on a screen. Technology has been a blessing and massive curse for society.
Your dedication to your purpose is paramount and optimising your SMV will yield more options. A man with options and standards has no need for validation or approval from females.
@@ZaccheusMukahiwa I am not certain it will change that much. What the pandemic taught me is that most people are stupid and will blindly follow the mainstream narrative.
@@dpstrial You’re right, there will always be those who are not ready or even want to be unplugged from society’s social constructs. However the red pill is saving lives at a growing rate, change is happening. The same way you and I searched for answers and found them, so will other men.
@@ZaccheusMukahiwa I would like more young men to be red-pilled before the event, so to speak, not after the train wreck. It's a slow process, but the Internet is definitely helping.
I agree about getting women to do "simple tasks" for you early to see if she's worthy of your time. In the past, I've only found out on birthdays that she expects to be queen for a day on hers but on your birthday, it's "it's just another day". Every man should put a woman through a lite "shit test" early so you can save yourself a lot of headaches later.
Rich can you make a video on how to be that “red pilled gentleman”. I know it’s easy for lots of guys to misinterpret your advice and just become assholes which neither benefits them or their life.
Not giving a shit was the key that unlocked permanent happiness for me. That and realizing that other people cannot make me happy; happiness comes from within oneself.
There’s a point that I think flies over all men’s heads because we extremely rarely ever see this. A real woman will do something for you and enjoy watching you being happy from whatever that is. My wife will make me something to eat that she’s excited about making and will wait to see my enjoyment from it. IF you find a woman that receives pleasure from making you happy, that’s a good indication of a keeper. Not the end all be all but if you ever get the opportunity to have a woman like that, it will amaze you.
Best insight to a loving woman ever. Now with grown sons and their family's I still get no greater joy than the opportunities I have to give my time, meals, and Gramma time. Create a secure environment for a woman to make herself vulnerable enough to share what she has to offer and it's a win win.
I lost my house, land, savings.... everything in family court. I cannot change the past for me but I can help young men. Signing the state contract is just dangerous and their is no benefit to the man. It eliminates sex , not guarantee it. Look out for yourself and tell any women that wants marriage that you will when she hits 75 years old. You want to know if she plans on leaving or staying.
Marriage only guarantees government control on your assets. don’t get married, you’re just giving away your control to the government. love & romance is over rated. Not sure why people focus so much on trying to be so valuable to someone else.
"A man then, must stand erect. Not be held erect by others" Marcus aurelius, stoic philosopher and Roman Emperor. Think of this quote everytime you crave validation from others.
I dunno all I see is marriages and relationships failing like crazy either ur poor mid class or rich nothing is working. Money and status brings women cool but it doesn't last because it's artificial. It's a big mess lol
Better to find a woman that doesn't work and has the same ideologies like the many. Look at them, they rather say yes to their boss than to their husband.
Life is cruel and unfair to most men. If your young and handsome or wealthy and high status you'll attract lots of women. If your ugly, too old or poor you wont.
I disagree with you on Instagram being public ;some people are just more private and some of us have stalkers or crazy ex-wives and we don’t wanna share certain aspects of our life with toxic people
Be aware what ppl think always about you but do not own it as truth or internalize it! When your own ideas and opinions of yourself become louder and more defined then the ppl around you your well on the path of self mastery.
I came to this channel bcuz i saw things in my relationship that had me questioning things, a new relationship at the time, just to realize that my woman is great. Ya there have been a couple red flags but after talking the issues out we are good. There were things she had questions on also. Talking about things that are uncomfortable sometimes and seeing things from each others eyes and understanding their outlook is huge My woman cooks, cleans, makes an honest living. She isn’t afraid to get her hands dirty, farm girl, and when i was down and out for a short time she was right there to lift me up. Ya she has flaws and so dont i. We have a lot of things in common, important things, but also have different passions. But are relationship isn’t perfect and everyday we have worked together to make it better. The most important thing i find is that we both hold one belief. We dont need each other to survive in this world but we want to be in each others lives and be there for each other. Ya i still watch these videos to show support Be true to ur self and the rest hopefully falls in line.
Facts, been with my girl 12 years, married for 4. She’s feminine, great body, works hard, pays her way, cooks and cleans, even mows the lawn lol. We’ve built a good life together. No she’s not perfect or a unicorn. RP content has made me realize she’s pretty damn uncommon though. Also made me realize all of my mistakes in retrospect. Moving forward with this knowledge is 🔑
Great comment man. Out of interest, did your woman have daddy issues? I find so many women have at least some. Ideally they have a good relationship with father who was there for them. But sadly, a lot of men were not there for their children. I think this is starting to shift now, and fathers are becoming better. But men are to blame here. There have been a lot of bad male role models in recent decades.
Having a higher view of yourself is called self confidence. You need to work on that self confidence before ever getting involved with another woman. Focus on improving yourself and learning to have that self confidence that Rich talks about. Giving zero effs and using the effs you do give sparingly.
Men. dont live by illusions that women truly love you. better to let them go early than later. dont ignore the red flags and if your the only one initating then your just a pass by to her. she needs to match your vibes.
“Women fall in love when they do things for us not the other way around” omg this is gold! So simple le lega y and yet compelling! Always have to keep that in mind. That’s y u want to start asking women from early days of dating to do things for you to see how compliant she is and how likes she (or capable in general) to fall in love with u
Yep.....took an Ex back. Bad idea. Bought her a ring, fiddled around trying to wife her up. Thankfully she ended it not really wanting to be married. Now 13 years later she's 45 with a 14 year old, still living with her parents, and her boyfriend that she hates.
Women want way too much! I’m giving myself a pass. I don’t have to do a thing to get or maintain a woman’s attention. Ladies, you have to approach me and WILL! I’ll be waiting and won’t have to wait long. Boom!
I have given up on women. And because I dont care they never say hi because men need to do all the work. Im bored and done with games and chasing women.
it's the man's job to do all the work, what ever that work is. the man that complains that he has to do all the work has got some bitch in him. to expect, and even trust a woman to do it is ridiculous.
Last I looked it is 14.5% if men in the United States are 6ft tall or taller, and roughly 9% of all men in the North American continent, which puts the average height between 5 ft 8 and 5 ft 9
Even if she caters to you, you need to be careful. She can do all the nice things for you and it still can be fake just to take your money because they all have an agenda for their own self.
I completely get all this stuff. The part I can never wrap my head around is how to make money. I'm 6'5'' and good looking, when I actively go to the gym I look great. I get looks from women when I'm out in public. No game at all, divorcing after 16 years right now so I can acknowledge and learn about that. But the money part escapes me. I barely pursued a career but that's not even really the best method. Having your own business and side income is the ticket. Got nothing on that....
@@RK-db4oq You can make a lot of money in the trades but they are not interesting careers to women when you first start dating and you talk about what kind of work you do. Women want to be able to brag to their friends about who they landed. "He's a plumber (owner or not)." doesn't inspire the jealousy they desire from their friends.
@@RK-db4oq I'm not trying to impress them. I'm saying that's what will happen to most people. I have no interest in that type myself either. But I would like to make the money to afford the international travel I enjoy so much.
Rich as always excellent content.... Keep up the good work. I've learned a lot from your channel and navigating The dangerous Waters of dating and women that are not mentally stable......
She dumped me, stayed in contact. Told me I was her love of her life. She said she has no more respect for me. That she knew I was trying to get other girls but they wouldn't want me. I still tried to get her back but now realise it made everything worse
In my 50's now and after a 30 year marriage... TOO much headache to be in a relationship... I tend to concentrate on other things. I might reconsider in 30 or 40 years. lol
I think the best thing that hits the nail on the head for all of these things is having a UA-cam account. Think about it, these you tubers travel, meet other famous youtubers, they have a decent instagram following and they choose photos that depict an epic life. So perhaps that is the way to hit multiple areas effectively.
No offense, but he overestimated his SMV. He's living in half of a duplex, he's 4" shorter than the magical 6' mark, and doesn't sound very muscular for a 32-year-old man at just a 150 pounds. That's not a 7. He's not above average.
The golden ratio is truly mind blowing how it can literally apply to everything in life even your physique.. 1.62 shoulder to waist.. wow i will remember that always as my weight fluctuates alot
My lovely bride would involuntarily bring me a subway sandwich to my Campus IT job where I worked as a System Administrator…Before we even dated..she seemed out from my receptionist when in my evening shift would my dinner time would be..instead of going to hang out with her sorority sisters, she would eat with me..good times Bros..17 years of marriage and 3 amazing kids.. I never dreamt of an American wife..i grew up in India, a culture where everyone hated masculinity..my mom did not appreciate me being in the Boxing team but it won me a Fullbright scholarship.
I was in a very similar situation to this guy. Despite me doing everything to try and "prove" myself, she still walked all over me. The key is to definitely pursue purpose and chase excellence. I'm not even worried about not having chics right now. I'm striving to get to a place Rich talks about. You must become happy with yourself before you can expect a chic to see your value.
For his height and weight he is missing 25lbs of muscle 💪 plain and simple with night and day results. Case closed. Also stop being emotional and self invest the key being self invest. Anyone see what happens to a stock when a company reinvests in itself??? Stock prices go UP!
He may have to give up the stand-up comic stuff and switch to a higher-income field. The stand-up routine may work as a side hobby, because so few ever hit it big, and even if they do, very few spend time at the top. It's an attention-grabber, but do something to build wealth.
I think he's not asking for a solution to the problem. He's asking how to solve the problem of sentimentalism and emotional change. It seems incredibly callous to just ignore people.
Patience No doubt he has a few chicks sniffing around now. Its crazy how you will go through a dry spell and get down. Later you will get some intetest and then be feeling good, then you will coincidently find other women interested. It never rains, it pours.
If men were the prize, they wouldn't have to pay for sex. We want men to invest in us so you are doing a good job of influencing men to stay single. Men pursue, chase, and invest, not the other way around. 😼Keep hoping that women do things for you and you get no sex or relationship.
Thank you Rich, it never occured to me to make a woman invest in me. I always was the one who invested 100% on a relationship and lost every time, and women walked away with a smile on their faces. But not anymore. Blessings.
This gentleman that wrote in should focus on his daughter and focus on himself. A woman that compliments those 2 priorities will find him. Zero “Fs” should be given for pursuit of something that hasn’t presented itself and shown value to those priorities.
Social media is a complete and utter waste of time unless you're making money with it(business)...Almost any woman you find on Instagram is just going to be rotation material, not for ltr.
I reinvented myself in June of 2020. Career wise no because I love what I do! That’ I think is critical for any man to succeed in life in my opinion. I moved to a Very Rural county in Southern Nevada from the Northern Socialist State of California that’s 100 square miles larger than the State of Massachusetts and only 6K people live there. I bought the tallest house in this little valley that you can see It up to 4 miles away. I’m not saying this to brag but I think Men if they are not happy in their lives just simply need to “CHANGE IT UP A BIT” whether you’re single or in a relationship or just dating. It’s done wonders for my mental health esp. at 3600 feet And only 2500 amazing folks in this Valley as compared to living in the SF East bay(Martinez) the last 10 years and having to deal with awful Political and Social behaviors that are associated with that State. Good subject Rich!
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Disabling comments on your videos is weak Rich. What are you scared of?
Hello Sir, what about the Hight? What if one has good career, savings, additional income but not tall e.g 5 feet 5 inch tall?
Don't ever worry about "winning a woman back"... have some self respect.
I pissed off a hottie. Didn't wanna deal with her so ignored her. She came crawlin back apologizin. I'll put up with her til she flips her shit again, but so far so good.
Exactly my brother!
Always remember when she left you, she had no respect for you.
@@h2oboi531 Exactly, so many smart man here!
Oh I have falled for that trap in my younger days. Not good
Hit the gym
Follow your purpose
Make money
Stop simping
Don't put women on pedestal
Say less.
This 100%.
F agree here!
Eat food
As simple as that
Top 30 RP quotes
1. Alpha bangs, beta bucks
2. She’s not yours, its just your turn
3. She doesn’t love you; she loves what you can provide
4. Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally
5. If she cheats, she belongs to the streets
6. Men care about a woman’s past, women care about a man’s future
7. If you couldn’t have her in her prime, don’t accept her in her decline
8. Women are born with value; men must create theirs
9. Men age like wine, women age like milk
10. Why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free?
11. Marriage is an insurance policy to protect women from the depreciating value
12. It is foolish to sign a contract that rewards the person who breaks it
13. Single mom’s aren’t looking for love, they are looking for help
14. Single mom’s are for recreational use only
15. Marrying a single mom is like paying full price for a used car
16. The Wall takes no prisoners
17. There is no such thing as love, only leverage
18. Men lead, women follow
19. A woman cannot serve two masters
20. You will lose money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money
21. Women wait in the finish line and bang the winners
22. A King can marry a peasant. A queen won’t look a peasant’s way
23. Treat her like a queen and she will treat you like a peasant
24. Who ever cares the least in the relationship, has all the power
25. Women need attention like a plant needs sunlight
26. Women would rather share a high value Man than be saddled with a faithful loser
27. Make up is war paint
28. Whatever she says her body count is, multiply it by 3
29. Men are romantics pretending to be realists, women are realists pretending to be romantics
30. Women are sex objects to men & men are success objects to women
Can't wrap my head around #29
Nailed it!
@@stub4488 It is because men love idealistically and women love opportunistically. Evolutionary biology at its finest.
@@briansorensen5969 Thanks!
31. Women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas
“If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.”
-Albert Einstein
Albert was a low key player actually
Einstein understood that real power is internal and not external.
@@selfiekroos1777 lmao. yeah he was a trumpet and piano player.
Only a super player would marry his cousin 🤣
did he say that? not doubting it, just curious. I read that Einstein had an arrangement with his wife, she had to turn a blind eye to his numerous affairs with students. Einstein was very chad.
I absolutely agree, that a a woman that dumps you has no respect, admiration, or desire for you.
I’ve been there, and I took her back, married her, she cheated on me for 10 years. I either had no clue or believed her “higher than thou” lies. We divorced. It took me 3 years to recover, until I found the red pill.
RUN, FOREST!
She cheated on you for 10 years! How is that even possible lol.
@@mmaslav6176 not funny.
Hey bro, what matters is that you found the right path. Keeo going!
Glad you made it brother.
I’m still stuck in paralyzed mode.
I’m currently in the process of ignoring a woman who is trying to ’win’ me back. My life no longer has a reverse gear. “That’s not going to happen.” is apparently not computing. It’s sad to watch.
Good point. Only way she can have you back is if she can reverse time and undo her mistakes lol
@@hyedefinition1080 I grew up going to church and learned from Jesus how I should forgive one another. The only problem is when I keep giving chances to people who are clearly abusing me. What wasn’t taught me as a child was having good boundaries and self respect. Had to learn that lesson the hard way unfortunately. But God brought me through it.
You should ignore her because you got better things to do, not because you want to ignore her.
@@drewchorlton342 forgiving someone doesn't mean you're bound to them. Forgive them, but move on.
Tell her straight my man. Only get one time around that we all know of. Its a solid to you both.
Lift. Eat good food. Make good cash. Drive a cool fast car. Don’t give a fuck what people think of you. Live a peaceful & interesting life. Simple as.
Driving a fast fast car is a not the simple choice. People drive a fast car to show certain thinks and to create an image of themselves, which means they do give a fuck
Dont forget to ask yourself a very tough question. Why are you doing all those things? If youre doing them to get attention of a woman, then youre lying to yourself when you say "im doing this for me". Something i struggle with
Preach it
Fuck the fast car.
As a man, if you can experience owning a supercar, experience it.
I’m finding NOT having Instagram is making me stand out. Girls become very curious when you say you’re not on it.
Lol. Me too.
Sometimes not having social media accounts does make you stand out.
But unfortunately, many surface level women or people in general, will think "oh he got nothing going for himself, that's why he doesn't have IG" or whatever
@@smilodon92
I totally get why it can work for some men.
Personally, I’m just not the type of guy who feels the need, nor desires to display my life across a social media platform. Not my style. I’ve nothing to prove to anyone, besides I don’t want everybody knowing my business.
An interesting story for you… met a girl online, she asked if I had it, said I didn’t. Wouldn’t shut up about why didn’t I have an account. I mocked her. Got her on a video call instead. A few weeks later she ended up driving over 2 hours to visit me at my place at the first time of meeting her. You don’t need game if she likes what she sees enough and you can string more than a few words together.
I was almost 48 & she was 31, if that matters.
I don’t have an IG and I don’t want a guy that’s into social media either.
@@VoiceOfThe This, I've never had to try much with women. Comes down to personality from my experience. Not 6 foot either and still never had trouble with that. I honestly think the whole 6 foot thing is some kinda blackpilling operation to further put a divide between the sexes. Women have gotten much worse since I was younger with social media and current "liberation" culture. Harder to find a decent women to wife up, but rather being focused on that crap, men these days should be more into making their lives good. Never settle for less, only take the best and keep kicking ass. WE GON RULE THE WORLD BROS!
If a woman is building you up in her mind via social media, sure as ship(t) when you slip up and get lazy while you're together (and she consequently doesn't have to work to figure out your mysterious side), she'll be back on that game with someone else. Genuine burning desire is displayed by constant interest, not fleeting interest that social media panders to.
Easiest way to weed out low quality = no social media.
Tom Cruise is not boring but he cannot stay married. I think women get bored with their man no matter who he is. It might take years, but they still want different.
Tom Cruise might not be a good example. Hes known to be a raging lunatic.
The more you chase women…
The more women take you for granted…
So Chase your passion and excellence…
Women will chase you 😎
Bloody hell man, just came back from my 9 hour shift and was thinking to skip my training today, fuck that I will go to Train right now, it's all about excellence!!
This is so oddly true.
I dunno if I agree with the basic premise women chase you simply because u chase excellence. They'll never SEE your excellence OR even see YOU if u r dating online. That being said, chase excellence for yourself sure. I know a bunch of millionaires that can't even get women to reply online and forget meeting hot younger women in person. Maybe where Rich lives, not here in LA
And if she does not chase you. You have the money for a garden tool. Take away sex and women are not much use to a man in a relationship.
Don't chase women let woman chase you what a neat sentence bruh 💯.
Disagree completely with the insta social proof. Everyone is desperate to get likes on various social platforms. Unless it's your business account, get off media and live in the moment. Women have always acted very favorably when they can't find me on these platforms like 99% of the losers they meet. It's rare to meet people who don't fall into the social media trap.
Facts.
Well said buddy. Social media can really be a total waste of time. All ego and images of past moments. Live in the real world!
From personal experience, the moment you stop looking they start seeing.
I have empirical evidence to support this phenomenon as well.
Correctamondo.
I second everything that's being said here, focus on yourself and stop giving a F about women, and for some reason it will rain
*Health:* enough sleep, balanced diet, exercise daily.
*Wealth:* maximize your earnings, save, and invest.
*Wellbeing:* relax, pursue passions. Enjoy your own company and that of good friends.
That's my top 9. Women are no. 10.
Elimination pricessed carbs, same with; salt, fats. Eat fermenteret foods, easy to make as garnish to resterende beneficial biome. Stop stressing out, kortisol incr visceral fat to. All disease stems from the Gut. Human cells in the whole body is vastly outnumbered. Feed the beneficial community bacteria, yo become the govenor.
I'm so grateful my younger self got into these communities at the age I did. Only had to get f'd over by my first girlfriend to learn a LOT of lessons from men like yourself Rich rather than needing several years of personal trial and error. To all my brothas reading this stuff really does work all the mantras of ' sacrificing comfort and focusing on yourself' make dating so much easier later on🤝
I agree with the premise of your comment. However, if you need to date women, always put on the red pill glasses and watch red flags. Women are after a man's resources. Proceed with caution.
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I'm 25, just got off a 4-year relationship and now I'm here. I think I'm a little late but better now than 10 years later.
@@jackquentin1950 100% agree better now than later. Plenty of guys get in only after a divorce with kids and everything so we're the lucky ones bro!
How’d you get fucked over?
Rich has entered his Steve Jobs phase, I dig it
Must be cold up in Canada 🤣
Fucking right lol
at least hes no wearing the "wife beater" tank tops anymore...
Just hope he sees a doctor if he gets cancer.
He Innovated the R-PHONE 😂.
Men that get “caught in their feelings” will almost always get played...Women don't respect men that act & feel like women...if she knows that you can walk away at any time she will not try that BS...but unfortunately most men are weak when it comes to women 💯
Take JD for example. And Will Smith as well. Both fall in love and see what happen to them.
@@padrinozerocool Exactly
This channel is by far one of the best channels for male development!
If your real world self doesn’t match your online self, then it doesn’t matter. Meet women in the real world where it matters.
THIS! So much better getting to know people in the real world. Easier to gage attraction and you get an idea of what you be getting off the get go. Online dating is shid and too much work. Easier to deal with women in person, seeing each others personalities first hand and stuff. Easier to build a bond too than over text on a screen. Technology has been a blessing and massive curse for society.
@@DBUP-l8h Yes! I've concluded that the worst of the worst seem to float around the virtual dating pool.
Funny how this guy hasn’t made a video about Kevin samuels yet.
Your dedication to your purpose is paramount and optimising your SMV will yield more options. A man with options and standards has no need for validation or approval from females.
Unfortunately, most men define themselves by having a woman on their arm.
@@dpstrial That’s a sad truth but I believe as more men become red pill aware this will change
@@ZaccheusMukahiwa I am not certain it will change that much. What the pandemic taught me is that most people are stupid and will blindly follow the mainstream narrative.
@@dpstrial You’re right, there will always be those who are not ready or even want to be unplugged from society’s social constructs. However the red pill is saving lives at a growing rate, change is happening. The same way you and I searched for answers and found them, so will other men.
@@ZaccheusMukahiwa I would like more young men to be red-pilled before the event, so to speak, not after the train wreck. It's a slow process, but the Internet is definitely helping.
I agree about getting women to do "simple tasks" for you early to see if she's worthy of your time. In the past, I've only found out on birthdays that she expects to be queen for a day on hers but on your birthday, it's "it's just another day".
Every man should put a woman through a lite "shit test" early so you can save yourself a lot of headaches later.
Rich can you make a video on how to be that “red pilled gentleman”. I know it’s easy for lots of guys to misinterpret your advice and just become assholes which neither benefits them or their life.
Not giving a shit was the key that unlocked permanent happiness for me. That and realizing that other people cannot make me happy; happiness comes from within oneself.
I agree.
Have your sh it together, and do not give a f uck is a great life
Rich is spot on, as usual.
Social proof is smart too.
There’s a point that I think flies over all men’s heads because we extremely rarely ever see this. A real woman will do something for you and enjoy watching you being happy from whatever that is. My wife will make me something to eat that she’s excited about making and will wait to see my enjoyment from it.
IF you find a woman that receives pleasure from making you happy, that’s a good indication of a keeper. Not the end all be all but if you ever get the opportunity to have a woman like that, it will amaze you.
Best insight to a loving woman ever. Now with grown sons and their family's I still get no greater joy than the opportunities I have to give my time, meals, and Gramma time. Create a secure environment for a woman to make herself vulnerable enough to share what she has to offer and it's a win win.
I lost my house, land, savings.... everything in family court. I cannot change the past for me but I can help young men. Signing the state contract is just dangerous and their is no benefit to the man. It eliminates sex , not guarantee it. Look out for yourself and tell any women that wants marriage that you will when she hits 75 years old. You want to know if she plans on leaving or staying.
Marriage only guarantees government control on your assets. don’t get married, you’re just giving away your control to the government. love & romance is over rated. Not sure why people focus so much on trying to be so valuable to someone else.
"A man then, must stand erect. Not be held erect by others" Marcus aurelius, stoic philosopher and Roman Emperor.
Think of this quote everytime you crave validation from others.
The only time you are trying to win her back is when you don't have options and don't hold a high opinion of yourself
Loved this
Ignore her and stay on your purpose it’s really that simple. Keep these woman guessing your next move guys!
I dunno all I see is marriages and relationships failing like crazy either ur poor mid class or rich nothing is working. Money and status brings women cool but it doesn't last because it's artificial. It's a big mess lol
Better to find a woman that doesn't work and has the same ideologies like the many. Look at them, they rather say yes to their boss than to their husband.
Life is cruel and unfair to most men. If your young and handsome or wealthy and high status you'll attract lots of women. If your ugly, too old or poor you wont.
Emitting msculine energy without looking as if ij the hunt for a woman sure helps
And turn down sex a few times.
Drives em' nuts that you can't be led around be your wrong head.
I disagree with you on Instagram being public ;some people are just more private and some of us have stalkers or crazy ex-wives and we don’t wanna share certain aspects of our life with toxic people
True, that's why I put my account on private
Chase Excellence NOT Women. Do things that you love to do. If your having fun the rest will fall into place.
Be aware what ppl think always about you but do not own it as truth or internalize it!
When your own ideas and opinions of yourself become louder and more defined then the ppl around you your well on the path of self mastery.
I came to this channel bcuz i saw things in my relationship that had me questioning things, a new relationship at the time, just to realize that my woman is great. Ya there have been a couple red flags but after talking the issues out we are good. There were things she had questions on also. Talking about things that are uncomfortable sometimes and seeing things from each others eyes and understanding their outlook is huge
My woman cooks, cleans, makes an honest living. She isn’t afraid to get her hands dirty, farm girl, and when i was down and out for a short time she was right there to lift me up. Ya she has flaws and so dont i. We have a lot of things in common, important things, but also have different passions. But are relationship isn’t perfect and everyday we have worked together to make it better.
The most important thing i find is that we both hold one belief. We dont need each other to survive in this world but we want to be in each others lives and be there for each other.
Ya i still watch these videos to show support
Be true to ur self and the rest hopefully falls in line.
Facts, been with my girl 12 years, married for 4. She’s feminine, great body, works hard, pays her way, cooks and cleans, even mows the lawn lol. We’ve built a good life together. No she’s not perfect or a unicorn. RP content has made me realize she’s pretty damn uncommon though. Also made me realize all of my mistakes in retrospect. Moving forward with this knowledge is 🔑
Blahhhh you add nothing of value .. your a w0m3n
Great comment man. Out of interest, did your woman have daddy issues? I find so many women have at least some. Ideally they have a good relationship with father who was there for them. But sadly, a lot of men were not there for their children. I think this is starting to shift now, and fathers are becoming better. But men are to blame here. There have been a lot of bad male role models in recent decades.
Having a higher view of yourself is called self confidence. You need to work on that self confidence before ever getting involved with another woman. Focus on improving yourself and learning to have that self confidence that Rich talks about. Giving zero effs and using the effs you do give sparingly.
Thr problem is him. He values the girl higher than himself hence over investing.
Men. dont live by illusions that women truly love you. better to let them go early than later. dont ignore the red flags and if your the only one initating then your just a pass by to her. she needs to match your vibes.
“Women fall in love when they do things for us not the other way around” omg this is gold! So simple le lega y and yet compelling! Always have to keep that in mind. That’s y u want to start asking women from early days of dating to do things for you to see how compliant she is and how likes she (or capable in general) to fall in love with u
Exactly. Don't chase. Attract.
The fact that this guy wrote a long ass email book about it means he is not a high value man.
Does Rich even get girls? Doubt it
Yep.....took an Ex back. Bad idea. Bought her a ring, fiddled around trying to wife her up. Thankfully she ended it not really wanting to be married. Now 13 years later she's 45 with a 14 year old, still living with her parents, and her boyfriend that she hates.
Sounds like a wonderful life she has lel. You didn't lose out on much.
Damn I didn’t know Steve Jobs grew his beard out and got on the carnivore diet. Props to u Steve
Women want way too much! I’m giving myself a pass. I don’t have to do a thing to get or maintain a woman’s attention. Ladies, you have to approach me and WILL! I’ll be waiting and won’t have to wait long. Boom!
I have given up on women. And because I dont care they never say hi because men need to do all the work. Im bored and done with games and chasing women.
it's the man's job to do all the work, what ever that work is. the man that complains that he has to do all the work has got some bitch in him. to expect, and even trust a woman to do it is ridiculous.
Winning a woman back is like tunneling back into shawshank.
😂 Great 🎬 🎇
Either double your income or "remain broke" Says Rich Cooper
Treat em mean keep em keen, fact. As soon as your nice the "I don't know if I like him" comment comes out. Be a bit stand offish.
Last I looked it is 14.5% if men in the United States are 6ft tall or taller, and roughly 9% of all men in the North American continent, which puts the average height between 5 ft 8 and 5 ft 9
They want the 666, she devils haha
@@hyedefinition1080 double lol 666666
6.3 feet ✔ 6 figure salary ✔ 6 inch fun ✔
Where are all the girls 😄
@@rebel8211 put a picture on your profile and drop your address here haha then just wait a day or two 🙃🙃
Just focus on being a better version of you’re self, The rest will come
Even if she caters to you, you need to be careful. She can do all the nice things for you and it still can be fake just to take your money because they all have an agenda for their own self.
It’s working Rich 😅 They crave my attention and seek it. I give 0 attention and they validation seek
Never expect to be on the receiving end when being married, NEVER!
Bro got that Turtle Neck out of his 1985 closet.
This way your best video I’ve encountered. 💪🏼
This man needs more action. Wall of text email wants therapy
I told someone on some redpill comment section that I make girls bring me pizza and beer for d, they didn’t believe me. 🤣
I completely get all this stuff. The part I can never wrap my head around is how to make money. I'm 6'5'' and good looking, when I actively go to the gym I look great. I get looks from women when I'm out in public. No game at all, divorcing after 16 years right now so I can acknowledge and learn about that. But the money part escapes me. I barely pursued a career but that's not even really the best method. Having your own business and side income is the ticket. Got nothing on that....
Become a plumber or finish carpenter, and eventually own your own business>
@@RK-db4oq You can make a lot of money in the trades but they are not interesting careers to women when you first start dating and you talk about what kind of work you do. Women want to be able to brag to their friends about who they landed. "He's a plumber (owner or not)." doesn't inspire the jealousy they desire from their friends.
@@Lessk69 You are trying to impress the wrong kind of woman. Just stop--there is never any long term joy in it.
@@RK-db4oq I'm not trying to impress them. I'm saying that's what will happen to most people. I have no interest in that type myself either. But I would like to make the money to afford the international travel I enjoy so much.
Rich as always excellent content.... Keep up the good work. I've learned a lot from your channel and navigating The dangerous Waters of dating and women that are not mentally stable......
She dumped me, stayed in contact. Told me I was her love of her life. She said she has no more respect for me. That she knew I was trying to get other girls but they wouldn't want me.
I still tried to get her back but now realise it made everything worse
In my 50's now and after a 30 year marriage... TOO much headache to be in a relationship... I tend to concentrate on other things. I might reconsider in 30 or 40 years. lol
After 50, you find more interest in hobbies ie, craft beer, cycling or motorcycle, bbq and grilling etc.
I dont want to be watched while enjoying my mcflurries, but you do you brother!
I think the best thing that hits the nail on the head for all of these things is having a UA-cam account. Think about it, these you tubers travel, meet other famous youtubers, they have a decent instagram following and they choose photos that depict an epic life. So perhaps that is the way to hit multiple areas effectively.
But if none of this works, if you become the best version of yourself and women don’t even notice you?
As soon as he said that changes could be seen in his instagram I knew dude had serious validation issues.
13:00 summary
1. RP aware
2. Look good 1.6 golden ratio
3. Top earner
4. Status
5. Game
6. Frame
6. Dont be boring
Get yourself some smaller sized men and make some photos from below your eye height, to look like a giant.
No offense, but he overestimated his SMV. He's living in half of a duplex, he's 4" shorter than the magical 6' mark, and doesn't sound very muscular for a 32-year-old man at just a 150 pounds. That's not a 7. He's not above average.
The golden ratio is truly mind blowing how it can literally apply to everything in life even your physique.. 1.62 shoulder to waist.. wow i will remember that always as my weight fluctuates alot
I'm a big fan but that turtle neck 🤣
Guys a Nice Guy, textbook. No Mr. Nice Guy- Dr. Robert Glover
Why is it so hard for men to stop caring what women think or do. You still want to play with fire, scarecrow....not anymore.
Rich ,I bought your book, seen your videos, now any advice for a 70YO trying to connect with women my age? How about a video
It'd be interesting to hear your ex wife's side of the story
He says I need to become a top 10% earner. I guess I'm screwed lol
My lovely bride would involuntarily bring me a subway sandwich to my Campus IT job where I worked as a System Administrator…Before we even dated..she seemed out from my receptionist when in my evening shift would my dinner time would be..instead of going to hang out with her sorority sisters, she would eat with me..good times Bros..17 years of marriage and 3 amazing kids..
I never dreamt of an American wife..i grew up in India, a culture where everyone hated masculinity..my mom did not appreciate me being in the Boxing team but it won me a Fullbright scholarship.
Better to own a Dog 🐕
I was in a very similar situation to this guy. Despite me doing everything to try and "prove" myself, she still walked all over me. The key is to definitely pursue purpose and chase excellence. I'm not even worried about not having chics right now. I'm striving to get to a place Rich talks about. You must become happy with yourself before you can expect a chic to see your value.
For his height and weight he is missing 25lbs of muscle 💪 plain and simple with night and day results. Case closed. Also stop being emotional and self invest the key being self invest. Anyone see what happens to a stock when a company reinvests in itself??? Stock prices go UP!
I wear thrift store used designer clothes , Calvin Klein underwear etc... it makes me feel ' wealthy & successful '.
SMV? mine's probably about 2. doubt I can do very much about it. red pill doesn't work for sub 5s
He may have to give up the stand-up comic stuff and switch to a higher-income field. The stand-up routine may work as a side hobby, because so few ever hit it big, and even if they do, very few spend time at the top. It's an attention-grabber, but do something to build wealth.
I think he's not asking for a solution to the problem. He's asking how to solve the problem of sentimentalism and emotional change. It seems incredibly callous to just ignore people.
What is he missing, hight. I’m sorry but woman don’t want a 5’8” 135lbs king.
Patience
No doubt he has a few chicks sniffing around now.
Its crazy how you will go through a dry spell and get down. Later you will get some intetest and then be feeling good, then you will coincidently find other women interested.
It never rains, it pours.
Don’t worry Rich, I’m sure the McLaren makes up for you lacklustre instagram account lol
If men were the prize, they wouldn't have to pay for sex. We want men to invest in us so you are doing a good job of influencing men to stay single. Men pursue, chase, and invest, not the other way around. 😼Keep hoping that women do things for you and you get no sex or relationship.
Thank you Rich, it never occured to me to make a woman invest in me. I always was the one who invested 100% on a relationship and lost every time, and women walked away with a smile on their faces. But not anymore. Blessings.
I am sorry but this time I don’t agree. Instagram is lame. I don’t use it and I wouldn’t date women seriously if they have one.
The Mystery Method 😂😂😂. You will get no chicks with that manual.
This gentleman that wrote in should focus on his daughter and focus on himself. A woman that compliments those 2 priorities will find him. Zero “Fs” should be given for pursuit of something that hasn’t presented itself and shown value to those priorities.
Social media is a complete and utter waste of time unless you're making money with it(business)...Almost any woman you find on Instagram is just going to be rotation material, not for ltr.
Why should a female have a burning genuine desire to become a complement? ...
I love your content brother. I wish I would've found you sooner.
I had a girl argue that I was really only 6 feet and not 6'1 ..... so dumb. (I get measured every year for a fitness test).
Q: inbound Marketing, which author, pls?🤔
surely, striving to be interesting is actually being concerned what people think?
I reinvented myself in June of 2020. Career wise no because I love what I do! That’ I think is critical for any man to succeed in life in my opinion.
I moved to a Very Rural county in Southern Nevada from the Northern Socialist State of California that’s 100 square miles larger than the State of Massachusetts and only 6K people live there. I bought the tallest house in this little valley that you can see It up to 4 miles away. I’m not saying this to brag but I think Men if they are not happy in their lives just simply need to “CHANGE IT UP A BIT” whether you’re single or in a relationship or just dating.
It’s done wonders for my mental health esp. at 3600 feet And only 2500 amazing folks in this Valley as compared to living in the SF East bay(Martinez) the last 10 years and having to deal with awful Political and Social behaviors that are associated with that State.
Good subject Rich!
Sounds like a dream, Brother. I cannot wait to experience similar things in my life once my hard work has paid off!