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To all young guys out there (I was born in 1957). The fear of being alone pales into insignificance when compared to the hell of an unhappy relationship or marriage. Divorce is a terrible and horrible experience for anyone. The, drama free, peace and quiet that comes from being alone is priceless. Don't underestimate being on your own.
Yeah man, can’t say enough about how right you are. Chasing it always leads to bad outcomes.
Loneliness can make you ill and even kill you but as you say being involved in a toxic relationship can kill you faster. You are correct in all points, we should take our time to find someone, in case that is theaim else some people can leave alone perfectly fine.
I discovered this after my second marriage. I’m so much happier and productive with my life than dealing with someone else’s emotions and insecurities. On top of that, when they get comfortable, they balloon up.
I couldn't agree more.Through the miracle of sites like Facebook, you can see into your future. The one from years ago that you " knew " was the one for life, you find that she would have been a nightmare. On all levels. It was a fantasy for all those years. Wish to hell I would have known this. I could have saved many wasted years of my life. Move on...
I chased the marriage, I experienced the divorce. Even when I dedicated myself to keep the marriage intact, its like my ex just wanted the marriage to dissolve. No truer words spoken, so much better to be alone than live in chaos.
the guy runs a business and will inherit his dad's business, is fit, blonde with green eyes and young and STILL struggles in the dating market. it's insane in the US man
Yep. And it's only gonna get worse.
nobody want to talk about this but there is a desirable women shortage in North America. It has been this way for 20-30 years since the increase of meth use, lesbianism, ease of divorce and feminism. Either you can find a women you desire or you can't. And if you can't its better to stay single than to be with sloppy seconds or thirds. Guys in Russia have the pick of the litter as most sexually active guys die in wars or of alcoholism so most russian guys have a few girlfriends at the same time and they are all hot.
Dude needs to lose the stache
This guy is short, thin, and losing his hair. I would rank him about a 3. He has no personality and he is already 27 years old and asking God advice. He should have been asking for advice when he was 20 years old. I am guessing he's not that bright.
Shudup black pill
My mother always told me looks wont cook the dinner 😂
Smart mom :)
Ur mum didn’t realise men can cook their own meals
If that’s all ur bringing then next thx
@@bigtreecombatacademy2927 I mean looks fade so if that's all she has than it not alot neither
@@colc8535 go get another one...whos stopping...enjoy atleast 3 hot women in your life.. and cooking is not a gender game
🤣🤣🤣🤣 they'll get your thing hard though
I got fatfished twice, I ended it immediately like a savage both times. No regrets.
Fatfish, 😂😂
Good on you
@oftengone thanks g.
Tell the story man. Sounds interesting
Damn bro I would like to see what you said or how you did it and what happened after
I don't blame this kid for dating her, worst case scenario he learned a lesson and dodged a bullet on why NOT to date this type of woman. The more we try the more experience we gain and fine-tune our craft.
He just wanted easy sex, should of just kept her just for that
Disciplined men should never date undisciplined women. In fact, he shouldnt even socialise with undisciplined anyone.
It’s a numbers game for men, trial error but the point is not too make too much of an error. Need more brotherhood and mentorship in this world for men. He needs to develop an abundance mindset.
Great sir
@@silentwitness536so thats why became a loser from a matrialastist and enginner to a loser fat guy i should get myself back man
99% of men love street queens anyway.
Hear me out.
I have 2 sisters, Ana, one with all the atributes of a modern street queen: hot, promiscuous, arrogant, dumb.
Elizabeth: quite average looking. Humble, hard working, respectful.
Every single time a new guy came knocking the door, it was always for Ana. And Ana was ripping them money off.
Men are not the innocent victims of bad women.
They are victims of their own choices.
Good luck
It’s our primitive monkey brains taking over. Deep down a lot of guys know these girls are playing or using you but you’re wired to think you’ll have a better shot at her putting out faster because reproduction is our first priority, building a family is second. Part of chasing excellence is trying to rise above your shallow instincts and think logically.
Men like hot women who put out
Arrogant women are the worst.
I would choose Elizabeth every time
yep the guys today are pathetic they were hood rats when I was growing up in the 80s/90s we used to pump n dump these broads but never worshipped them and they knew their place too .they knew they'd never be good enough to be dateable take home to your mom material
Ana is for fun Elizabeth is for long term / marriage.
It's okay to be single. Don't go out with people because you don't 'have options '. That's a recipe for disaster and its mean. That's why people are hurting each other because when 'your type ' shows up you'll end up breaking someone else's heart.
Facts
You make a great point, but many of us men have a high sex drive. Most times you have to settle just to do some f*cking.
100% correct!@@hiphopmusic2470
Imagine being rejected, played or not appreciated by a mediocre woman? That hurts! And that's why you should always go for the hottest women only. It hurts less and at least your self-respect remains. And if this works out, you can pat yourself on the shoulder and others envy you.
They will all be mediocre as they age and gain weight. Remember that. That 8 at 21 will be a 4 at 41. The goal for any man should be having them compete for you
"Go for the hottest woman only"
I 'll remember that.😊
You ain't fucking lying.
I'm not saying date ugly chicks, but dating really hot chicks isn't exactly all it's cracked up to be as well. For starters, they have huge egos and expect a lot. They need to be entertained at any and all waking moment. They usually have a group of weird guys obsessed with her, who are stuck in the friend zone. Every single guy you pass by including friends and family will want to get in her pants the moment you're not around. And if she's bored with you they might accept one of their offers. The same can be true with a plain Jane too, but not on the same scale.
@@fringestream990 Totally agree! If you want her then so does every other guy. Been there done that.
"You misled me with your photography" 😂
Such a calm response when you get catfished
Be careful the way it’s headed you could end up in jail saying this soon.
It's better you spend time on your own doing what you want. Women waste your time. Get off online dating, its a wasteland.
Facts
' left her in the dust, started to have fun'
Same. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
online dating is the future
@@chuckiegravesfield3170 you can do both really but I prefer in real life. Sitting behind a computer and phone screen can only get u so far .
He is an average dude.
Any woman with any sense of self respect would have turned around on the bike ride when he rudely left her in the dust. For real.
This dude is a big liar. He doesn't own a business or shit.
I already feel sorry for the imaginary girl.
He seems autistic tbh
Riding away at 50mph on his bike 😂
Right? This does not add up
"Never settle for average women" ? In itself, there is nothing wrong with this.
But guys, don't start doing what a lot of modern women are doing : overestimating your value.
Be honest with yourself and work on the things you know you need to in order to get the women you want.
I hate to say it but men are severely overestimating their value. The market will determine your value. If a chubby woman is all that you can get then that's what your market value is.
That's why I settled for an average woman. I'm 33 looked in the mirror I thought I'm an average man 5'8 155 and a factory worker. I'm ab average guy a 6 out of 10 and settled for a 5 woman
@@AfriqueNY Nobody asked, cat lady. Poor some more boxed wine and be quiet. Men are talking.
@@AfriqueNYNo...women are overestimating their value! Have you ever heard of the term "49er?" These are women who are "4s" but act they're a "9." 😆 The problem is we live in a world of dating apps & social media. A below-average looking woman, a middle-aged over-the-hill woman or an overweight/obese woman can go on these apps & she will be bombarded by dozens - even hundreds - of desperate, thirsty, horny guys willing to say or do anything to get with her (who would have thought. Lol). As a consequence, these women's egos get inflated & they suddenly thing they're a "Stacy." Back in my day, pre-internet, this never happened. Women of that caliber would never get the kind of attention that they get today on these apps. Dating apps & social media has severely hampered the dating world & created unbelievable sexual inflation! 😬
No doubt there are guys who overestimate their value. But I've yet to hear an obese broke guy demand a woman who looks like a supermodel that should be willing to buy him a sports car.
I compete in bodybuilding shows. And will only date gym girls that are fit. Otherwise they get too jealous and complain about me eating right and going to the gym. It just causes sooo many problems if i date a girl that doesnt enjoy fitness
my real life friend's wife let's call her curvy. She constantly thinks he is cheating on her. The man legit has no time to cheat cause all he does is work.
I am not a bodybuilder but I too only date people who are also into exercise, fitness, eating right, etc.
@@polishpimp4233guess what my guy: she accuses him of cheating because she is projecting. She is cheating.
If you invite a girl to go bike riding, you don't 'race' off and leave her. Bike alone if you want to go fast.
Yeah I agree.
A date is not a training session.
yep im a much stronger cyclist than my wife and kids but if its a family ride or just my wife and i i ride to enjoy the company and time together- if i want to hammer i go by myself or other men to be competitive. I think this guy liked getting some loving but was realing there were other issues with the girl that showed she wasnt the one - i dont expect a female to be as physically fit as i am as those masculine females dont appeal to me
He jus wanted to be a douche and show how better he thinks he is than her. He’s a boy and plays little kid games.
@stephen5147, you are a decent human being!!
This dude is as stupid as fuck. He says he dated her because he was alone.. He has taken advantage of the girl and has grown tired of her.
He'll be fine, just needs a little tweaking. Btw- Boulder is loaded with chicks, but avoid the vegan liberal granolas.
EX Californians.........................................
Too mnay liberal loons in CO -
She sounds like my ex wife. They never loose weight or become more healthy.They get worse. At least not while they have you.
The only time they get in shape is if they're about to cheat or leave.
😬
@@BWater-yq3jxafter the divorce/split
My wife has a Bachelors degree. I don't. I'm the bread winner by miles! She still thinks she's more educated than I am...its just pride. I self educate everyday.
She self educates herself everyday as well. She is still more educated than you.
@@AB-jl1un "A formal education will make you a living--Self education will make you a fortune. "
@@3joewj “self educate” lmao
@Iwatchdisneyvideos you either get it or you don't but I can tell you if you're not self educating...you aren't doing very well. You know that ...I'm sure.
@@3joewj do you not encourage your wife to self educate? and what does self education mean to you exactly?
we gotta build this guys confidence!
He is already good
Has nothing to do with his 'confidence'. he comes across as calm and collected. What you expect him to do, chnage is personality and become a frigging clown?
This is HIS personality, so why the heck should he go out of his way to try and chnage that?
He’s young and inexperienced you can tell. He also doesn’t seem to know who he is and what he’s looking for in life or in women. But he’s got time and needs to focus by upping is game and experience. Good example for the ge younger guys on what others their age are struggling through.
"I dated a couple a chicks". If you go into dating with a super casual, disrespectful attitude, that is the result you will likely end up with.
What on earth are you talking about?
It says a lot about him. It means he's for the streets
What part of this was disrespectful? I believe dating with a super casual attitude is probably a smart way to approach it. He’s young, and knowing most won’t work out of a logical conclusion. I think you read into the word choice a bit
@@MadMax-cg6ghhuh? Men can’t work the streets lol.
It means hes into dating chicks and not seeking for relationship with a woman. Men want responsibility (and profits amthat come with it) boys just want to play. Same with trivial thing like pibic hair. Men dont care about it if woman has it or shave it. Boys do.
Good advice for the kid, he’s on the verge of becoming a successful entrepreneur, I wish him luck
I got Fatfished one time. The chick had put pictures on her dating profile from back when she was a cheerleader in college. When I went to pick her up, she answered the door, but I thought she was just the much larger sister or something because she looked similar, but just a MUCH larger version. So I asked for her, and she was like, “That’s me”. I was puzzled of course, so I asked again, thinking she had misunderstood me lol. Unfortunately, it was her. If I wasn’t starving already and looking forward to dinner I would’ve just walked away. Thankfully, nobody I knew saw me out in public with her. I’m usually a pretty slow eater, but I was eating quickly that night. Had to get finished so I could drop her off asap lol
Why didn't you point out her deception?
And if she responds that it doesnt matter, than you ask her why does she have photos at all uploaded if her look doesnt matter?
Why pick photos thst dont represent her?
Why not upload photos of a swimsuit model if she's going to try photos of her cheerleading days?
I bet you also paid for her meal? If this happens again have some self respect and shame her for catfishing you and walk away …
I bet she still finished before you 😂😂 Wouldn’t have been me bro 😂
fatfished lol. had a plenty of fish date yrs back, asked her what sz jeans she wore, she said sz 5. reality turned out to be more like a sz 15, thighs as thick as my waist. she also forgot to mention the missing teeth. LOL
Yep, did you pay for her dinner?
Women want a 6 figure guy, but don't even know who makes 6 figures . It's crazy that they don't look more at tradesmen
They don’t really care about that man
Trust me I get tonnes of women and have no money
They want alpha males the rest is just consolation prizes
Can't spend a job title. Provide a needed service or product and the cash will flow in.
Women dont desire money they just settle if youre rich so they can use you
They’ve been programmed by sex in the City and the Kartrashians.
Women tend to look for status too. I have been thinking about that. Rich said it in the video, women often choose attorneys over plumbers, even if the plumber would provide a much better lifestyle. Part of the reason seems genetic/anthropological, women have always compared how they're doing with mates among themselves. Winning a man with the highest status carries a lot of importance and it's fascinating to study, although very frustrating in the dating market
That kid needs 2-3 years of self focus.
If he manages to stay away from committing to a bad woman, he'll be just fine.
I told a woman once that she misled me with her photos. She went flipping psycho on me! To the point of harassing me on the phone.
Yes, when that Jekyl and hyde thing gets exposed that's when you find out what they're REALLY like.
Your comment's the reason men need to ghost. I've said absolutely nothing & walked out immediately when women scammed me like this on 1st dates.
@ministryoftruth8588 true
The fear of being alone is the no. 1 enemy. It is not easy to get rid of that.
Couldn't agree more, brother!
Amen brother!!!
Nothing wrong with being alone. Being lonely is the no.1 enemy.
You have to be best friends with yourself. If you can be comfortable being by yourself you will be happy. Being alone is the best way to clear your head and thoughts.
The fear of being alone is a terrible thing. But there's a difference between being lonely and being on your own. Don't underestimate the, drama free, peace and quiet that comes from being on your own.
You wanna choose women that are choosing you. It's that simple.
Yup!!! A pimp even said that!
Get off stupid dating apps all messed up women are on dating apps.
💯
what if she is not attractive?
Thing is they aren't choosing me
This guy is lucky, in a way. I was .. *really* wanting to be in a relationship about a decade ago. Put blinders on for multiple red flags. It ended with me getting a full stay-away restraining order on her.. THAT made me realize *it is* better be alone / lonely, than in a horrible relationship / situation.
a man who’s average looking and making 55k is not going to get a hot college girl. sorry. they’re dating the cute frat boys with business degrees. he needs to look for blue collar women, which is easier and more available to him
i would date a man like this if he had long hair and non-outdoorsy personality
Those blue collar wmn you speak of are just as demanding as the hot college girls. Unless you are talking washed up 40 year olds who bulls*tted in their youth and now trying to hedge their bets and throw hail mary's.
The guy is making 6 figures: 80 last year if he didn’t write of car and gas and all that, plus 30% this year
@@vincentspitzer5930 if he's only taking home 55k a year it doesn't matter ALOT of college guys and frat boys are going to start out making that or more and have that alpha Chad energy that the college girls want
Plus they already live the college kid or wannabe upperclassmen lifestyle so a blue collar guy is just not even on their radar
I used to think that chubby girls are easy to get. However I realized they give you as much headache as the hot girls. So why not just get the hot girls in the first place?
I was the same as you. I’d say the chubby ones are even worse due to insecurity.
You can only get hot girls if you're a hot guy.
Bingo! I'm an older guy but love going out dancing and all. I could settle for a so-so woman, which I've done for the last one year, but I have just as many good lookers pursue me, or enjoy being pursued by me when I go out, so I've decided just that - go after the lookers. My gf as of late is just confrontational, with adult-ish kids, overweight, does not want to work out or ride bike or anything. I've had enough. Going back to my old ways...I was happier.
@@jerrys.1910 do it brother.
They are All the same.
This is an extremely common probkem in the West. I have friends in UK, EU, Canada & Australia. Its like a never ending story. Guys are treated like crap and as a CASH COW while they reserve the right to do exactly what they want yet they make demands on the men they date without applying it to themselves!
Man is honest. No BS. Love it.
"Fat fished" Lmao!
He should just go to those local pubs around the colleges there, smell and look fresh, have confidence and flirt with the most attractive woman, to him, that he sees in there. He’ll get rejected most of the time like all men but that’s a part of the game. You just gotta keep going because it’s a numbers game.
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Are there attractive women in college nowadays? They all look fat, tatted, and pierced to me.
I did that for 10 years rejected by them for 10 years and in the end decided to settle for an average fat girl who chose me that I didn't have to chase. Some days I feel I shouldn't have settled and other times I feel good to be away from the modern toxic dating game
@@colc8535why do you think you were rejected?
Colleges are hot beds of false accusations nowadays in America.🤣
For all you loners, I truly feel for you. I was a loner for 10 years. Stay patient and keep trying!
What changed? How you change it?
@@szn1580 So for example, if there is a girl you really really want, more than anybody else in the world, and she talks to you, just stay patient. It took me 10 years to finally hook up with the girl of my dreams. And I know patience is really hard to have. But at the same time, nobody is as special as you make them out to be once you get to know them. So if you don’t wanna wait around for somebody like I did, then don’t! I actually gave up on this girl completely, and she came back to me 2 years later. #TrustTheProcess
@@cerberuscombatmma what’s your body count? How do you overcome rejection and social anxiety?
@@szn1580 Body count is 2. I choose my women very carefully! Your woman should have no issue doing things for you and making your life easier. If you’re in a relationship and you are the only one giving, then it’s best to break it off.
I’ve been rejected plenty of times like every other guy has. Best way to deal with it is to realize that someone who rejects you doesn’t deserve you anyways. And social anxiety is very hard to deal with, but the number one way I’ve utilized is to join activities or classes. Join a Male/Female soccer team. Take MMA Classes. Stream online. Join other streams and socialize. Ask girls to be your friend BEFORE dating them.
Your soulmate is usually your best friend but opposite gender. 👍✅👍✅
I embrace the loner life and loneliness after a bad marriage and single for a decade plus years. I'm in no hurry any more for relationships! peace & quiet comes from within not from Anyone externally!!
I've been to Boulder Colorado. It's a very wealthy town, I would imagine the girls there are into money. I noticed a lot of fit people there, everyone mountain bikes and skis in the mountains. Definitely a nose up in the air atmosphere though.
A liberal shithole city in a liberal shithole State, made that way from the California transplants the last few decades......
Seems like every town in America is “nose up in the air”.
Rich is so likeable when he actually respects the guest.
good observation, to learn
Do these women realize without these types of guys they will have no air conditioning, heating, plumbing, electricity and so much more? Guys that have useful, much-needed skills that can pay more than some junior lawyer trying to chase an ambulance. You can't spend a job title. My 1st job out of college was in publishing it sounded great. But the pay was much less than people would think. I had a 22-year-old neighbor who made over 125K per year with his junk removal business.
He didn't waste 4 years in college. It opened my eyes. I proceeded to build my own business that was needed in the community.
They always tell me they are very active. I took one up a small hill and she has to stop as she could barely breathe! They tell you what you want to hear at the start of the relationship just to get you hooked.
He seems a good lad. If he stays focused and keeps improving he'll peak late. It happened to me.
Rich, you are a good man for giving this man business advice as a bonus when he called about relationship advice.
You should be paying yourself more, isn't good advice without knowing about the finances of the biz lol
Good advice but man...women don't want to go for hikes up mountains or go for serious 20 mile rides where you are pushing it. I have known plenty of runner girls in my 20's and none would want to do that with a guy they are dating. They can't hang on a pace you would be riding anyway.
You need to understand the difference between guy stuff and things you do with a female you like. I ran a marathon in my 20's with a male friend who I trained with off and on. I went on long bike rides here and there with guy friends I had. I wouldn't do that with a female I was dating. You take girl on dates...
Going to the beach and/or boating / swimming is something females like that's active. Ice skating. Hikes with pretty scenery, overlooking a lake where you take it easy for her. If in Colorado...Skiing. Stuff like that. You won't get a workout but she will. If you want a workout, don't take her.
For real. I hate to say it but the kid seems to be expecting a little too much for where he's at.
Like you have your own small business cool and you're trying to inherit dad's business fine
You're active but you're not in shape fine
But if your real complaint Abt this girl is she was pushy and put a little weight on them was like hey I'll work on it then you get pissy with her bc she can't keep up it's like dude ....cmon
Get rid of the stache. That will help with the college girls. Lol
No college girl would even look at him.
Lol@@deanaivie3005
Those little pencil thin staches always make you look like a teenage boy growing his first facial hair. Either shave it all off like you said or grow a real full on beard, no in-between.
Pube stache
No doubt
Average women are not bad but they should try . It's not that hard. Exercise daily and do hair and makeup. And your good
Average or slightly above looking women tend to have to develop a personality, whereas 8+s are thoughtless, narcissistic bimbos. Give me that 5 who is sweet and feminine and grateful any day.
As an older guy, my experience is that average and somewhat below average women are always the most demanding. It's never the 8's or 9's. It's the 5's and 6's that want the world handed to them. I think it's because the higher women are just naturally given things but the lower ones aren't so they feel they have to make demands. And the majority of the time, they don't get them.
I'm an older dude, but dated anywhere from a plane 6 towards nine. The middle tier girl is going to want to be treated like a nine was what I always noticed. They want someone to finally think they are a big deal. Really hot girls I was with never seems that thirsty for validation. Just my experience
Don’t chase women, chase excellence 🤡🤜
Don’t chase excellence, you’ll attract gold diggers!🤡
Chase virtue…but, only if you are man enough to be virtuous too.
Everyone else is a blind follower of falsehoods…low in self worth & low in internal value.
Virtues dont pay rent.
Wow, this video came up in my recommended with eerily coincidental timing for me as I'm going through much of the same as of late. Loved it
Yeah having standards as a guy is important. I didn’t shift to that until my 30s, but it makes a change in how you feel about yourself too: not just settling for an ‘average’ girl, not taking any shit from girls etc makes you realise you’re worth more. Flabby chicks that don’t take care of themselves and celebrate it are pretty disgusting. Avoid these low quality women.
I've always felt that if she can't even take care of herself, what is she going to do for me?
Him being not college educated gunning for college attendees is likely not going to bode well. Salary is too low and long-term outlook for partnership is meh
Yea these college girls want college guys who have white collar jobs. Trades def pay the bills but they also don't have that "white collar swagger"
"why don't you date those girls" cooper says. That sentence reminds me of all the times my family and friends say things like " you should date a younger girl", and my response is always "do you think if I could get a young (25yo, 35yo, etc) to date me I wouldn't" You don't always get to choose the sort of women you can date. Often you take what you can get. I remember the last girl I dated who I left, while thinking I can do better. That was 10 years ago, and so far I haven't. Sure, I'm better off single than with someone I don't really want or is not good for me, but what I'm saying is that it's wise to remember that we can't always pick and choose. And eventually the last girl you date really is the last girl you date, but you only see that in hindsight.
Spot on....... Men make offers and women pick the offer she likes. In order to get offers sent your way you have to be top percentile.
@@AfriqueNY That's not totally true. You don't have to be top percentile to get a girl, but you can't just approach every girl you like. Some girls will be unavailable to us, no matter what we do. That's just life. It just means the girls we ask out won't be as pretty, or as young, or as thin, or as funny as we would like. I'm not a pretty man, and I get rejected a lot, but every now and then I do meet a girl who will date me. She's just not my dream girl and I have to accept that she never will be.
I hear you. I left my last girl 5 yrs ago because I knew I could do better. After a lot of rejection had my first date in 5 yrs last week. She was attractive but found out she is 36.
She had low interest in me but still showed up for the date dressed sexy which I appreciate.
Good thing she isn’t interested in me because I don’t want to date anyone in their 30’s with that much baggage.
But like you said we have to wait patiently and take what is offered to us and we decide if we want it or not.
@@jamesmeezy3114how old are you?
@@lynnlakotich6331
43
Great vid brother rich thanks for helping these young men
I agree, this guy has a lot of potential. Down the road, he will be making good money, which any woman would appreciate. He only lacks confidence. Reminds me of how I was.
Yes, his lack of confidence is palpable. I can imagine him putting up with all kinds of BS from girlfriends out of a fear of losing them. He could start by just approaching women, on a regular basis, without trying to make them his girlfriend. Just make conversation without trying to get her number. If she's not really interested, you can just walk away without the humiliating rejection. Despite the perception, out there, some women are decent. I found this a great confidence booster. Furthermore, stop trying to gain her approval and concentrate on determining whether this is someone you might want to spend time with and don't worry about what she thinks of you. The more you do it the easier it becomes.
He is young
Hes on the right path, my first advice would be the haircut and facial hair needs tightening up.
looksmaxxing confidence and ge should do better and be more selective
The difference between men and women ia pretty clear in this video. Where women would call each other "Queens" and lie non-stop about how great they are men just flatly provide constructive feedback for self-improvement. Strange that one gender has effectively accomplished more than the other given these traits.
Earning vs 'deserving'.
Earning = achievement.
'Deserving' = entitlement.
I ordered your book to today. I look forward to reading it.
Great advice Rich!
old man, 47 year old, it's good to see so many sensible young people like this guy. They seem more rational than my generation
I'm 46 and I'm not an old man. HAHA! Not yet!
We didn't have this level of internet access at his age. Vastly different generation. They are very fortunate.
I’m 47 Australian that makes me 82 in North American years.
Why is this young man concerned with a women? Just get rich and marry a 20 year old Asian one day, simple.
48 here. I concur, we were largely raised with a script that's totally inappropriate for today
@@ct00001 I used to know a lot of people in your age bracket and to me your gen has always been like a role model when I was growing up...nowadays younger guys (even in the Mediterrenean area) seems to be aethereal, whereas girls are acting out... I have already witnessed this societal aspect in my long stay in the UK...it has caught in the ROW. I'm really embarassed by the aggressiveness of certain 'ladies', and lack of decency especially when it comes to clothing. O.C I'm now considered an old fashion person. It's just ridicolous what's going and I feel completely unplugged from those BS.
This dude is an Unplugged Beta.
He needs to hunk up!
He also needs to be more realistic with his expectations.
If he's only taking home 55-70k a year he's not special enough to be this picky.
Especially when the girl in question was like hey I'm willing to get a bike and try to be more fort then he gets pissy with her bc she can't keep up and gets her feelings hurt that he's leaving her in the dust
Really enjoyed this installment. Thanks Rich
I am a 41 year old firefighter. I have some experience on this and I'm sure some will agree. Average or below average girls seem to be more obsessed with validation. Those girls cannot wait for attention on a night out and will go home with anyone. Found out my Ex wife (age 36) had alot of bodies at university (30 plus and proud of it. When I found out it really made me feel sick. She left me and our son who is 9 years old (turns out she was a narcissist). My new partner is 35 years old, so much more attractive and is the sweetest timid little mouse. She has been very selective in the past and nearly 2 years into the relationship we are expecting a baby boy. she has always and still does take so much care of me and puts me first with everything. Hopefully it lasts but let's not take life too seriously. Take care guys.
Hanging in there brother. Work on your looks, money and game. You are still young and you can do it by your early thirties.
He has no looks so he has a serious problem. Stop giving this guy hope.
@@deanaivie3005 he has to excel with money and game to compensate for his looks. He definitely can still improve his looks by a mile.
Deanne you are being mean. He is not a terrible-looking guy. Is he a 10 ? No. But he is not terrible-looking.
@deanaivie3005 black pill doomer detected. Kick rocks
Techs in commercial hvac in the Denver area , 45.00 hr, work truck high demand. If your going to do trade work hvac is a good way to go🖖
I hope this guy grows into himself. He is in a good position yet doesn't know it. When he realises it and his confidence grows, the women will flock to him. Sincere self confidence, can't be beaten imo.
But he is a very honest and a positive guy. All the best dude.
"....chicks.." 😂🤣
The girl hurt her ankle while hiking 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Not shocking
@@randomman69420Z exactly. Gigachads get hurt. It happens
I’m super fit and I roll my ankle all the time while hiking. Hurts like hell 😂
lol
You’ll get there man. It’s a numbers game. Keep at it, get some professional photos for the apps. You’re young, you keep getting better.
I got a big woman . Prob 300 pounds on the hook and I got warmth in the winter and shade in the summer . Perfect .😂
Good looking young guy building a business. He shouldnt have any issues finding someone new/aligned to him. Honestly, I dont mind his moustache. But he may look more approachable without it too. I say good luck to him!
First of all son, don't call 'em "chicks" -- this isn't 1982. Second, be the type of person THEY would want to be around, and trust me you'll have the type of woman YOU want.
"She rolled her ankle" is the most replayed part of the video 😂😂😂
George you are a 27 y/o tradesman, you should be damn proud of that! My son Matt is 31, he and I are both in trades just like you and your dad. 💪
_"eh just gets worse"_ - Words of wisdom...Words. of....Wisdom.
Even if you don't have a degree, take the initiative to educate yourself on topics that may interest you. That will make you soo attractive. Even men with degrees would also prefer a woman with a degree or a reader if he's interested in knowledge. That's the fact even if people here on YT pretend it's not the case. In reality, its the case. It's also about the minds connecting. Money is not everything and superficial stuff will only get you so far. I also encourage people to deal with any underlying issues that may impact on your confidence because it can also show/manifest. Then, go get the Uni girls!
Good advice for the young brother Rich, well done!
Love the videos straight to the point!
I never heard of a man saying he is settling for an certain girl because he fears of being alone
big mistake will end getting divorced and lose his business too.
Well it’s out there and even I struggle with it
I remember I got together with an ex that was obsessed with me. I thought the same thing, I broke up with her because she was a little over weight, but I thought " if I get her to exercise and lose weight then I can for sure make her the 'perfect wife' ".
I remember I haven't seen her in 4 years. So when I saw her again I noticed and remembered she had this really bad double chin. I remember when I was with her I was very overweight , I was at least 220 with a big beergut. When I saw her again I went down to 180 . And she still looked the same.
Okay so I thought let's whip her into shape how hard can it be?
It was very difficult almost impossible. She had no physical capabilities at all. She can't even run up stairs. She can't do the most basic exercises. It's like she never exercised in her life, never played a sport, never ran , never consistently did a workout program,have done any exercise besides walking. And even then, she still lacks the discipline to lose weight. Saying that it's really difficult for her to lose weight. Which is something overweight women often say. I was never like a drill Sargeant to her about working out. All I would do is try to get her to take up the habit. And she wasn't really interested, I never gave her an ultimátum or did anything abusive, I just observed her. I would say to her " let's work out" and she would say " I don't feel like it". Thats all I needed to know to make my final decision.
This is why you have to get with women that work out or are no stranger to intense training sessions.
My ex needed to do a modified version or less intense version of a jumping jack, that's how out of it she was. And not just that her attitude towards working just so mind-boggling for me.
Eventually I lost all interest in her.
Yeah guys stay away from the overweight chics. Or I would say also women in shape that never worked out. Those women will gain weight and get fat and never come back to their prime.
Get with athletic women.
Fascinating Vid. I'm 43, have traveled the world for work, have a good job, and have never been married. I will not support someone, period. Enjoy your lives, Men! Resist the pressure. Cheers
For three years I was traveling and lived in 10 countries for more than a month each. Canguu Bali was awesome! The good life there for $2000 a month. But my final decision was Medellin Colombia. I love the culture, weather, history, people, food, energy, dating, and affordability. My budget is about double the ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️good life- 4000 per month. You can live in parts of Columbia for under 1000 a month but I have a five star lifestyle here in Medellín I prefer the proximity in time zone to the US and I return every few months to visit and catch up with friends and family. Cheers from 🇨🇴💃🏾🕺🏾!
This is downright sobering! A good looking, blonde, green eyed, 5'11" fit guy with a decent income & owns his own business is struggling with women? 😲 I'm a short (5'6"), natural bodybuilder with a decent income, ride & home - and I can't get an attractive GF if my life depended on it! 😆 But to see this "Chadlite" struggling is beyond belief. The sexual inflation is out of control in the U.S.! 😬
Waaay out of control
He is not a Chadlite stop the cap
@@dans1454 WTF? *Above-average looking,* blond hair, green eyes, *5'11"* *190 lbs & super fit?* --- that's a "Chadlite." I'd give almost anything to be above-average looking & 5'11." Try being a sub-5 turbo manlet when attractive girls see me approaching they run! 😆
He very clearly has self confidence issues. If he fixes that he should be able to clean up
@@nomad6086 he’s not above average looking. Stop the cap. Maybe he’s average for one of these small towns where everyone is inbreeding, but there’s a reason he’s having 0 success with women and can only get a fatty.
if it's not a hell yes, it's a no. that's it. simple. listen to your intuition and don't be afraid of saying good bye to mediocre relationships.
That mustache dude🤣🤣
I partially disagree with the 22-23 year old comment. I have seen women become far better looking in their late 20s to mid 30s.
I agree. My wife is 35 and she is more attractive than she was in her 20s
As long as they make an effort to preserve what they’ve got I agree. Late 20’s can be a sweet spot, they know what suits them, and they don’t rest on their laurels like many can at 21.
That’s an exception, not the general rule.
i agree with this comment.
@@RubyJay_ cause you're a bird innit
Telling this guy to go date, college girls or 18-year-olds is a big mistake. Yes, I understand that younger girls are hotter but they're also completely insane and going on a bunch of different dates and spinning plates with 18-year-olds is not going to end well
It's the only way.
@@ModelJames13 he's right.. 18-22 depending on their ethnicity/religion they're extremely insane to varying degrees.
@@lks11That's the problem, they're all insane. But if the choice is between 18-22 insane + no baggage vs 23-? insane + baggage I'll take the younger less baggage choice. Crazy hot is better than just plain crazy. 😎
@@ModelJames13 My brother ya'll need to learn another language it's way less baggage for man with money and street smarts there are other countries bro,literally dress lower-middle class of your country of destination you'll get a Wife easily(to weed out gold diggers). I got mines from Mexico; Mexican-Americans are delusional as all American women are. You're putting up with 1/4-1- 1/10th of the headache by going overseas or down south. You'll get values - 2nd wave feminism at worst, traditionalism, nationalism, reverance for a good man, family emphasis
But they’re all crazy in the end you want to kill them all in the end so you should at least always want to jump on. I stayed in my last relationship for a whole extra year because she was hot. I’m very shallow.
What do you say to guys who are going bald in their early-mid 20s?
Shave it/own the baldness? Rogaine/Finasteride (sexual dysfunction issues)? Go to Turkey for a hair transplant?
Guys. I’m 61 never married no kids. Been with the same gal 24 yrs. Happy as hell. Hard to get but worth it. Don’t
Give into the pressure
I’m very familiar with the area this guy lives in as I lived in that area for a number of years. CU Boulder is loaded with rich liberal elite chickies whose social media posts regularly include things like “If you voted for Trump don’t bother messaging me.” No kidding. My son’s first full-time job was working at CU. He has model good looks, is in excellent physical shape, is a third degree black belt, and teaches women’s self-defense. But he said it was difficult to get the women on campus to even talk or interact at all. They are there to find a husband with money and they can sniff it out like a hound dog. So finding suitable women in that area is a real challenge for most guys under the best of circumstances. For conservative or right leaning guys college campuses which are more and more liberal, are a dry desert of relationship possibilities. Fortunately in this area there are a number of smaller towns like Longmont, Lafayette, and Louisville where the dating market is more fertile. Stay out of Boulder.
The whole Front Range is a metrosexual shithole these days. I got out of the state altogether.
He looks like a young soldier. Try some kind of uniform...should signal that he's 'dangerous/badass' to the ladies if he wears things right. Add some ' bad boy edge' to your look bro. Everything else seems to be in order. -- He's got 1 or 2 Ryan Gosling features so mimic that dude's look from his dress code ((some of his suits, leather jackets, popped collars - movies where he plays a badass character etc all that kind of shit))
I love George he’s just straight transparent. Good luck George.
5'6 and 150lbs is fat for a girl bruh.
It’s really not dude. That’s healthy
@@reybarrera9345 nope
@@reybarrera9345No because she will put on more and more weight as she gets older.
Bro - 150lbs. That's a lot for a girl who is 5'6"@@reybarrera9345
Depends on her build.
I am no feminist, but this disgusts me beyond belief.
Me to brother
Why?
I dated a woman for 2 weeks and she time how her family was evil so they didn’t like her. Red flag #1. Another day we went out and she wanted me to drive to a spot but it was really late and I tried but couldn’t find it. So I suggested a dining spot and she agreed but later complained that I was passive-aggressive. Red Flag #2. Then I helped her with a big legal issue one special day early afternoon and she later complained that same day how I spent too much time on fixing her issue and not on her that day and complained all through dinner at a fancy restaurant I treated her to. Red Flag #3. I was with her 2 weeks and texted her later that night to say goodbye in a very blunt manner.
CU Boulder has 31k students and North Denver metro is a 15 minute drive. Plenty of opportunities mah dude. Good luck.
maybe its me being overly sensitive, but I just feel so bad ducking out on these girls because they're usually so sweet and worthwhile. They just don't happen to revv my engine all the way.
He's got the life part down (owning his business, income, ect). He just needs to present himself different when not working (Get a grey and blue blazer/jacket, some nice jeans, some nice collared shirts / solid color t's, a decent watch, a nice haircut) and he'll pull most women.
Haha and Chelsea boots.
Indeed; I agree, he's a diamond in the rough. Needs to walk with confidence and have self realization of quality. When talking to women he needs to look them straight in the eye and smile often....and appear interested in them through interacting and asking about their lives.
I’m 47 Just got out of 10 year relationship. With a 53 yr old woman divorced twice 3 kids from 2 different husband . It was the best thing to happen to me . I learned a lot of what to look for in a woman. Don’t ignore the red flags get out when they start to pop up
Stay the course. If you're just looking for a warm body so that you won't be alone then you'll only get leftovers. Men are desiged to be alone, companionship is a bonus. Develop your brand and build your kingdom. If you build it, they will come!
I wonder how much this guy has really put himself out there. He said he met her online. Most guys only do online dating because its scary to talk to girls in real life. So they sit behind the phone screen swiping and shooting off the same copy and pasted message to hundreds of girls.
Has he really tried? Has he approached every attractive girl he sees throughout the day and says hello? At Starbucks, at the store, around town, at the local pub?
Most guys never get to that point, and they never really see their true potential. Instead, they will sit for hours swiping on the dating apps.
This is the best advice. Most guys have bad pictures and there’s too much competition online. The best things guys can do is find a hobby that brings them into contact with lots of people (men and women). Be as social and sincere as you can. Don’t just go looking for pussy. Try to make friends, go out with those friends you make, go to the parties they host.
Keep working on yourself brother. Continue to invest yourself, you’ll get the best return.