Asking My Husband JUICY Questions Girls Are Afraid To Ask
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So… do you guys think that God doesn’t love women who have kids before they’re married? Genuinely asking
There’s a lot of harsh comments below, but I think you both did very well with this video. Thanks for sharing.
I think before a man gets married, he needs to understand that a woman's body is going to change during pregnancy and after. Loose skin and stretch marks are completely normal and expected. Also, many changes come with breastfeeding. If he's expecting the honeymoon body to last forever, he's going to be very disappointed. I've heard many stories of men throwing fits because they thought a woman's body would just snap back in every way within 6 weeks, and they had no idea that breasts can leak. It's hard for some men to accept that a woman's body isn't just designed for sex, but also pregnancy and motherhood. Some men resent that, especially Christian men who waited until marriage for sex and their wives got pregnant either on the honeymoon or very early in the marriage.
An aduld man throwin a fit? Oh my goodness! They shouldn't be married when they behave like little naughty boys. 😅
And sorry, but when they expect a body not to change after a PREGNANCY they are simply stupid and have no idea of anything. Every kid that's over 5 years knows that. 😅 And in case they don't know: their bodies change as well. 😅
And not to forget that the man's body will also change. Wrinkles and saving skin for every human being on this planet. There are no exceptions!
Many men nowadays are immature. I'm not saying that Paul is but his answer on this question irked me.
@@jesusiskingofkings3960 this comment was horrible but also true sometimes
I have the desire to get married but this is one of my biggest fears and deeply grieves me to read and I don't know how to find a man who is truly respectful of me as a human being an not just wanting a woman to have sex with. I've met a lot of those and it's just miserably disheartening to me...
(Any advice for me would be much appreciated)
The whole postpartum conversation was really offensive and off. (Married 9yrs, 3 kids). Women’s bodies don’t just bounce back and they are not supposed too. It can take a year plus for things to get to “normal”. Not what they were before, just things normally out. Having unrealistic expectations of your wife’s body is unfair and can cause extra stress on new moms.
And in response to my husband gaining a lot of weight - the 1st thing I’d check in on is his mental and physical health before I worry about his appearance.
The response about weight surprised me. I have four children and I need to lose 15-20 lbs to be back to pre-pregnancy weight. My husband has never ever made any comments about my body and has encouraged me on how beautiful I am. I struggle to lose the last few pounds due to breastfeeding and taking care of yourself gets put on the back burner when you’re sacrificing (very much willingly) to your children. Sometimes it’s easier to make/eat something quick. Hormones stay out of whack with breastfeeding. Love you guys but that’s a lot of pressure to put women after having a baby.
I agree with this. Also, speaking as someone who has had 3 children, I lost the baby weight very quickly and my body “bounced back” easily after my first pregnancy (and even second). After having my third child it was alot more difficult and my body hasn’t gone back to what it previously looked like. I’m still healthy and not overweight, but very different from my younger mom body days. Wider hips. Thicker thighs. 3x c-section mom belly. Motherhood and age can change a woman’s body overtime.
Agreed. I was a little taken back by his comment. 4 pregnancies later, I am definitely not the same woman my husband married physically. The weight doesn't just fall off everytime, or for every woman. Its not always easy to just "take care of yourself" after having a baby, especially if you have multiple children. Us as mothers put ourselves on the back burner. I suffered with ppd very badly, and was so down on myself, especially physically. My husband has NEVER once made me feel bad about my weight. I'm not overweight, but my body has changed A LOT in 15 years! (As it should).. Anytime I compare myself to who I was when dating, he will quickly tell me, you are no longer a teenager, you are a woman with a womanly body who has carried and birthed my children, and you are beautiful, no matter the size.
Yes!!! 3rd baby is definitely different then the first!!
I agree! People ( not just women) get wrinkles and sagging skin even without ever being pregnant! So if you love someone it shouldn't be because you like their 20s body shape, weight and fat percentage. Bodies are ever-changing until we die.
As an unmarried male, I will say I personally don't mind a bit of extra weight within reason. However, health is important. Being overweight is a strong precursor for cardiovascular issues, independent of your diet.
So I do believe it is important to maintain your body weight post partum, as it also challenges self control. As Paul said, "I can't lose the weight, then shoves an oreo in he mouth". That's my view
Wow, what they said about weight made me sick to my stomach. As someone who's struggled with food and weight my whole life, if my fiance made comments like that, I could easily fall back into my ED tendencies. Praise God that I've found someone who loves me no matter what weight I am.
I think it's personal preference. If that's something that doesn't matter to your fiance then that's great bc you'll both be on the same page but I don't think there's anything wrong woth telling your partner that they should take care more care of themselves. Obviously it's different when you are sick; there should be more grace. I think there are ways to say it and I think I'd appreciate my husband trying to help me get me to a place where I feel better about myself physically.
I agree...
Always appreciate the open honesty! As a tender postpartum women who was perhaps not blessed with Morgan’s tiny frame I just add that weight can be a very real struggle. I had a traumatic C-section and have a very colicky baby. So yes, I’m about 30 lbs overweight and am struggling to build better eating habits. My husband tells me constantly that he STILL thinks I’m the most beautiful women in the world to him. We are both striving to build a healthier life style as we transition to life with a baby. That being said, of course you should put effort into your appearance. But husbands, love your wives without regard to appearance. We’re all going to get old and wrinkled. And having a baby changes some women’s body’s more than others.
Eek, “without regard for her appearance”? Men are visual so I wouldn’t go that far. Obviously we all get old but letting ourselves go is often a choice.
@@WaldenSpawn If I have to dress up and look my best 24/7 to keep my husband, I don't want him. I love my sweatpants and not having the pressure to wear makeup or dress up when I'm at home. I know I'm beautiful regardless and a real man will too.
Morgan I am genuinely so sorry for you. I wish you the best.
Maybe I’m the only woman who sees this video as kinda dangerous? And I mean absolutely no disrespect to Paul or Morgan and I could just be overthinking this, but I’m going to share my thoughts. Marriage is sacred and private and to have Paul answering sexual questions from other women who are viewers who watch y’all… you are giving them a visual.. especially the women who would ask such questions. Paul’s preferences are for you Morgan, this could get messy and misunderstood. Like ladies GO ASK YOUR HUSBAND. Not married? Then wait and figure it out with your one flesh.. your husband. No I’m not a prude or a Karen I just think lust and fantasy are right here for the desiring woman or young girl to imagine. Idk just thought I would share. 😅
While I think it's important for Christians to discuss these things in appropriate fashion, P&M tend to overshare details that really don't... need to be public. Like I'm fine with them discussing most of these things generally, but when they share specifics about their bedroom life it's just WAAAAAY TOO MUCH INFORMATION no one else needed to know. Educate about these things in a tasteful general way, it's really awkward to abruptly dump their personal sexual relationship details when it's not needed to understand the topic.
he said you’ve done a good job?? lol. she’s three months post partum. her body is still healing. give her a break.
I’m sorry, peeing in a pool vs. peeing in the shower? Tooooootally different.
In a pool: Other people’s bodies are submerged in the water WITH your pee.
In the shower: The pee immediately washes down the drain, with the soap…and no one else has to marinade in it. 😆
Bro should only be peeing in the toilet 🤣🤣
Haha, still, some have no shame😆
I agree with you, totally different 😂😂😂
This is 100% true
Hi! ❤ I have followed you all for a long time and I love love your content so much. I did want to comment and say I was a bit surprised about Paul’s answer concerning postpartum weight loss. Even if a woman is doing all the right things and eating correctly, etc., they may still have trouble losing the weight. It’s a lot of pressure to put on a woman. Especially after having multiple children, it can just take longer to get back to the weight you want to be at. There’s so much that is involved in weight loss after pregnancy. (Hormones, eating, etc.) I just was sort of disappointed in your answer and just wanted to share my thoughts. Thanks for your honesty and raw videos, though. Your content is always so good and needed in this world 😄❤️
He said he appreciates her postpartum body and is amazed she birthed his son and that stretch marks and loose skin is beautiful but if it’s been almost a year since she gave birth and she’s “chowing down” as Paul says and stops taking care of her body it can be a problem and as he said the same goes with the husband, it can also be a sign of depression or an even bigger issue if “either party” as Paul puts it is binge eating, stops exercising, ect. I totally agree with him
In my family women always have been doing very well dropping of the pregnancy weight, well in case we even put on more than 10 lbs 😅. but this is in NO WAY to be expected by the husbands. You had a baby!! There is A MILLION things to think about rather then thinking about loosing weight! Oh my goodness, it makes me mad even thinking about it, that he would even dare looking down on me and expecting me to go to the gym. And that probably hours after I gave birth. 😅
I'm a Christian man. Is that the only takeaway y'all have? Seriously... Paul gave his opinion and he didn't even emphasise on the weight gain. He didn't ridicule Morgan or any woman for that matter. He loves his wife, clearly, so he's able to speak to her in a respectful and honest way. He still loves her and all the more especially after she bore his child; nothing changes. Geez man. It's not about "being fat." Paul is clearly coming from a place where health is important. Gaining weight is equal to being unhealthy. That's his point. Ya'll wanna be unhealthy? Fine. If I gained weight for being stressed or whatever reason, I would hope my wife will tell me to watch my weight and what I eat. It comes from a place of love, not condemnation or "body-shaming."
And FYI, I find their videos extremely insightful and helpful. Im glad Christians are talking about this. I'm 27. I grew up with parents and pastors who made this whole sex topic to be a taboo. So guess what? I learned it from friends school and went to the wrong path for years and learned about sex through the lens of porn and lust. Any better? Heck no. You can't stop Christians from being "triggered" into falling in sin after watching this video. Seriously? If anything, videos as such clarify doubts. It's like blaming McDonalds for you gaining weight. You are accountable for yourself. Don't be a snowflakes. Don't add to what isn't said by Paul or Morgan. They're good folk and are doing their best to shed light to areas where many pastors and parents failed to shed light in.
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Talk to us after you have a baby.
If you can’t be attracted to your spouse because of weight gain, I would say you need to check your heart. There are so many people who struggle their whole lives with their weight. To me that’s just being extremely shallow.
There’s a difference between being chubby and being significantly overweight. Most people are not attracted to an excessive amount of weight. Doesn’t mean they aren’t attracted to the person, they just aren’t attracted to the specific change. That’s not something you can force someone to be attracted to. And everyone should try and remain around their healthy body weight. Of course there are road blocks and health issues but I’m speaking generally here.
THANK YOU!
Do you think there will be people with obese bodies when they receive their glorified bodies at the resurrection?
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Nahhhh. More like your spouse needs to try to lose weight lol
A body is not stagnant. It will change throughout your life, depending on life choices and circumstances, and it does not ask permission to gain or lose weight. I don't think anyone INTENTIONALLY lets themselves go, it is usually the result of underlying issues. If you love someone, you're gonna love more than just the physical manifestation of their body.
Paul, your post-partum answer was really juvenile and terribly sad. Morgan did great, how? She stayed in shape. Please clarify. I am not condemning you..............
I was so terrified to be over weight after baby 1 and 2 I restricted my calories so much to the point I often almost passed out and had to stop nursing my babies. I’ve had six kids. And I now love my body. I weigh much more then I ever thought I’d be ok with but I one of the most health conscious people I know. That doesn’t equal skinny. A lot of thin people are very unhealthy. Weight or bmi is not always a marker for health.
I am by no means obese I’m just not 120 lbs(my high school weight) I’m an adult and a mother and my body has changed and it is beautiful
I don't understand why men or women want their partners to completely to be hairless below. It creeps me out. It is like being being attracted to a child.
That's a pretty big leap in logic don't you think?
@@morgianasartre6709 how is that a big leap? Nothing reminds me of prepubescence more than no hair. It's just kind of creepy to me.
I completely agree!! It’s push from Hollywood to make women look prepubescent. It’s also just from pornography. When Paul said he grew up thinking women had no hair and men did, he probably got those ideas from pornography or Hollywood, surely not nature lol
@@Mysticblue1212 Might not be your cup of tea, but basically accusing people of paedophilia for such a simple preference is unfair and a reach.
Thanks for this discussion guys! For the post pardom comment, I would like to just add some things because I get it can be challenging on the man but I also want to add how challenging it may be for a woman who was maybe formerly fit and now has a post pardom body, especailly since a lot of modern mothers don't have the luxury of immediately undergoing schedules to 'bounce back'. I say this since in many older traditions, women would literally be given specific diets and schedules for months designed to enrich them with vitamins, rebalance their hormones, and help their organs shift back into place (even specific massages to help their uterus shrink back). A popular practice you guys might have heard of is the ancient Chinese 'Sitting the Month ' practice, which has kinda been revived and there's youtubers who have vlogged trying this practice after giving birth and reviewed it. Because we live in an age where most of us women don't have the luxury to partake in these schedules, it's important to acknowledge that it's normal for a lot of ppl to not bounce back - it really is largely genetics, because most of it comes down to just your organs and hormones, so I think support from the husband is so important, and just knowing that with staying healthy and caring for your baby your body will shift back. It might not always look the same, but health is the most important thing- so as long as she's healthy, you can choose if you want to take steps further like some women who choose to fix saggy skin surgically. I do rlly like Pauls comment about having grace for the wife who's just delivered her baby, and looking at things like stretch marks as a memory of the amazing thing her body brought into your lives. I think that's so important, esp when you have unchangeable things like scarrs and stretch marks.
Regarding the weight issue, I think it has do with lack of self care, at least that's how I took it. But I will mention that not every woman has the kind of support that you give your wife Paul, (or my husband gives me). When you're at home over your head in laundry, your kid is screaming no at everything, and you have a. critical husband, that's tough. Such a comment could really be making it worse for other women watching this video who are wallowing in self-hatred because they got the bag of Oreos out last night after the family had a meltdown and their husband came home criticising them.
I adore the fact that my man isn’t typical in many ways. It reminds me how every marriage dynamic is different and I’m so thankful for mine! One thing men love is when you speak highly of them, especially to others, or praise something small. Not in a pitying way but a truly appreciative, eyes sparkling kind of way. At fellowship last week, we were talking about marriage and honoring one another and my husband just looked at me, tearing up. Saying, “you just… honor me.” What a gift we have the opportunity to give in marriage. It should be so taboo to cut one another down, intentionally hurt or disrespect one another. He who hates his wife hates himself. Marriage is beautiful!
The best time to communicate about sex is right after. Tell ech other exactly what they did that you liked. It's almost more intimate then the act of sex. Talking about it right after. You two should try it some time. My husband and I have been married almost 11 years now. Our sex life has gotten better as the years go by. It was terrible at first. But communication is KEY. Plus you connect on an even deeper level.
Appreciate the comment :)
Okay, Paul... so educate me. I'm a survivor of human trafficking and so are A LOT of people. Not really much choice there when people vote against legislation to help people like us. So when we get pregnant, many children, and you think abortion is evil... so say we go through with it. But that's still not the "right way" because abused children aren't married... what is the right way, Paul?
Or do you just hate the things you've never experienced and don't understand? Stop shaming people for their lack of choice.
I would love a part 2
Why does Paul rock back and forth? Is it a comfort thing? He reminds me of an Orthodox Jew in prayer 😆.
Also, Paul will you please let Morgan know that I really enjoy her laugh. My nick-name in high school was giggles lol. I laugh, A LOT. Always have, always will. People always ask or say something about it. But I can't help it. It's just how I am.
I'm sorry so many people bother Morgan about it! It brings joy to see her smile and laugh. Plus she has an absolute gorgeous smile! Don't ever let the haters get ya down. 🥰🥰 (I just remember her saying something about it in a previous video. How she laughs all the time.)
Aww I’ll let her know!❤️
The weight thing is tough because I do think, as Christians, it is wrong to let ourselves go. It is taboo in modern day America (and even possibly the church) to discuss that topic, so I appreciate it that this channel does talk about it. At the same time, it is tough to know how much emphasis to put on it. When I was in the best shape of my life, exercise/diet was a very major (if not my main) focus of mine. I find that to be the case with a lot of people who stay in good shape - it seems like it has to take so much of their focus/time/energy. So, I think we need to make an effort, but also keep in mind that there may be seasons of life where our focus has to be elsewhere and this issue needs to take lower priority.
Appreciate the comment, Becky :)
As someone born and raised in Milwaukee, FEAR THE DEER! 🦌🏀
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Wow! I am so different than men nowadays....... I do not like a totally "bare woman"......UNLESS that is what she likes. And since when even at your age Paul did guys think that woman had no hair there....?
Rest in peace, Modest is Hottest 🙏🙏🙏
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My favourite UA-camrs everrrr! Love you guys...I'm probably outside your demographic, old married woman of 46!!! But I adore your content and your zest for the Lord and Truth xxxx
God bless you guys xx
PS. I agree with Paul. As a woman I asked questions from the first date and certainly asked very important ones very quickly. Don't leave the big questions too late...ask them with a clear mind.
Also....date only when you're ready to marry....before that, there's no point.
Regarding dresses.... My husband, to this day thinks modest dresses look beautiful.... He always thinks dresses are ladylike so I do think many men find modest dress attractive xx
Aww thanks for the comment Sam❤️
Since when is 46 old?!!!!
Talking about bodies..you guys are really young and will have to get used to wrinkles and sagging skin when you get older and that is true for BOTH genders!...Bodies change throughout the entire lifespan of an individual.
Awesome video. You guys are awesome.
Keep up the great content
Thank you!
I liked the last question. Very few things mean more to me than when she recognizes the work I do to support our family.
Paul looks like Ash Ketchum with that hat on 😂 (that’s a compliment)
Great vid!
Haha I’ll take it😁
You two are too cute God bless ❤️
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I guess dating is so different in the last decade or more. I would NEVER go on so many first dates and especially I would and have not gone on dates where I did not really know the person.
Y'all always have the best content! Keep it up!
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Thank you both for showing visual representation of what a toxic marriage is. Your discussion on body weight is utterly disgusting and disrespectful on so many levels.
Get over it. 99% of men don't want women to get fat immediately after they're married to them. Hornonal/pregnancy changes are different from giving up and just getting fat due to negligence/laziness.
Pilgrim dresses… I just lost it 😂😂😂 had to rewind to check that’s what you said
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I have stretch marks and loose skin after my twin pregnancy but I exercise most days including my tummy and I only eat take out once a week and cook myself healthy meals having a cup of tea with An oreo or two or a bit of ice cream she evenings while we wayha movie together and I think that's OK so I get where your coming from :)
To be honest with you sometimes after seeing your videos I feel like I should stay virgin and never marry because it seems hard and uncomfortable and as a woman it's a lot of pressure maybe it's better to be single!
Morgan! You are so so gorgeous! 😮❤
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“Would you say 500?” 😂😂
Not sure why Paul's response to the post partum body question was directed so drastically toward weight gain. Most women noticed the lack of answer regarding the scar. That was intentional and he clearly doesnt like it
Proverbs 12:17
He that speaketh truth sheweth forth righteousness: but a false witness deceit.
Great video! I actually agree with your weight comments! As a spouse you have a duty to be as healthy as you can! The only area of disagreement is when Paul said “ 9 months postpartum” as if that was the marker for when a mama should be getting back into shape. Most mamas can’t lose the weight until she stops nursing, which for some can be 2+ years! I don’t think we should put a timeline on weight loss especially for mamas who are doing so much, as long as she is stewarding her body well to the glory of God, I say she’s doing well.
Appreciate you weighing in, Cassidy :)
Morgan, can you please sing again? Like Christian songs this time? Please. Your voicce was very very inspiring. I played it while studying. Goodness. You're something. Record again. Let Paul play music. Become like the Crosbys!
I loved this video! Paul keeps surprising me, and he asked if we women might be surprised just as I am typing this! Ha!
Yeah no can't do period sex thankfully my husband agrees to haha each to there own
Wow.. I feel like as a man, when asked these questions, its better to go around it than being direct. Now look what you've done!
I am overweight
I am breastfeeding my 8 month old and my 2 year old, and i don’t have a support system where I can go to the gym. I’d love to though. I have 40lbs I need to loose and I am not ashamed, but I am still striving to do better
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I kind of take what these to say with a pinch of salt, they’re both very young naive and very immature. We’ll see how they think and feel when they’re both in their 40s.
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An enlightening discussion as always! This is very personal to me, and something I do find EXTREMELY offensive/irritating, but NEVER did it made ANY sense how the amount of weight one's partner/spouse gains, it'd make her "less beautiful". It's deplorable, to be honest. That kind of mentality being a thing.
Once, when my... "brother" from the same mother, unfortunately, asked me if my big sister, his wife, looked "like she gained some weight", I swear Paul & Morgan, were it not for her being there I would've lost it and snapped at him. It was so childish, and WHY he didn't bother to just TELL me she was pregnant, I'll never know... Ugh! Haven't spoken to him since, nor will I EVER. Mind you, the issues between us are rooted far deeper than that.
I believe that these topics are best for married people! I had to turn it off as a non-married person (previously married, so i know all about married stuff, lol). My mind does not need to go there. :) I'd assume anyone trying to stay pure doesn't need to listen to this conversation. Maybe you made a disclaimer I didn't hear, but I'm putting it out there for all ya singles or widows, etc.
Bible Gateway Matthew 7 :: NIV. "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?
Fasting repairs damaged tissue even in bones and even rebuilds brain cells. Stem cells grow and those rebuild anything in the body that needs rebuilding. Fasting lowers insulin resistance and changed the metabolism. Can reverse diabetes (too many case studies to count). It takes stress off the gall bladder and restores the digestive system. It becomes easier with practice, especially if increased time spans at a reasonable pace. At 12 hours (last meal at 7pm, next meal at 7am) you're already generating human growth hormone. Stretch it to 18 hours to get your body unclogging plaque and healing damaged proteins. Bodies have adapted to starvation way longer than eating as often as we do in this day/age. Look up "what happens to the body during fasting" and explore from there. It's free surgery. Jesus wants us to heal!
I have to speak up about the weight thing after reading all the comments about it. I was not even remotely offended by Paul's answer. Even though I'm about about 10-15 lbs heavier than I would like to be. I started a new job that's very sedentary. That's the why. There could be many reasons why this happens to women. But I don't choose to stay this way and let it just get worse. I'm paying attention to what I eat, making sure I get up and move more, and making a point to workout regularly to get back to my ideal weight. My husband hasn't said a word about it. I think the point they are trying to make (correct me if I'm wrong) is that there is a difference between baby weight, illness, new job, stress, etc and just letting yourself go because your husband is locked in. Not caring and just being a slob is unattractive to many people. If there is a reason, that's one thing and can be worked on together in healthy, constructive ways. Not caring at all and not making healthy choices and letting yourself balloon into someone unrecognizable is not showing that you care for yourself or your spouse. There is also a difference between 10-20 lbs of baby weight and 70-100 or more. I think it was a fair and reasonable statement from both of them.
I hope you actually learn to love yourself one day, for the sake of your kids’ self esteem.
@@jesusiskingofkings3960 What a weird judgement for a supposed Christian to make….
I only love my wife because she doesn't eat the Oreos!
do Paul and Morgan have a kid?😢
Yes they do. Baby Luca 😍
@@joleenfernandes8490 he's a cutie xx
Guys, you're both hot. You're hot Christians. You're Slaters.
But why does he seem SO entitled. Also, he talks a lot without saying much, especially when he knows we won't like his opinion on some of these questions. I genuinely hope somebody has the ability to say "I don't agree with you and now we are going to talk about it" to him, because if not....jeez
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He gave soooooo many disclaimers about the weight issue and y’all are STILL complaining. He AND Morgan even said it goes BOTH WAYS…Us women are SO sensitive and one-sided now days. Such a double standard. 🙄
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You guys are nothing if not juicy.
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Luv her. Jury's out on him.
You lost me at period sex. Bible says not to do it.
Paul's comment about women's bodies was super weird and frankly, disgusting.
I feel fine about my comment. I think it was reasonable.
Are you purposely disregarding his comments about a spouse having Grace? It seemed like he wasn’t speaking from a purely attraction mindset, but one that is also concerned with health.
A lot of you women need to have thicker skin. I’m so sorry if this comes off wrong. It may be hard to get rid of you extra weight post pregnancy, but please don’t demonize a man for wanting his wife to be in shape.
We can understand that things change and might not go back to the same 100%, but we shouldn’t use this as a cope to be complacent and unhealthy.
Attraction is important. A spouse should want to be healthy for their partner, and the other should be encouraging to the other in their weight loss journey!
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I think it depends what your values are. If its health then fine,, because you'd know what a healthy body post pardom and its recovery look like, and that this healthy body isn't always going to go back to normal - hence doctors calling the concept of 'bouncing back' a myth because it's literally your hormones and organs slowly going back into their original place after nine months of moving around. But saying that after she has carried and delivered a baby she should bounce back, and you reasoning is attractiveness sounds uneducated and insensitive. Because bigger doesn't mean unhealthy, esp in the case of post pardom.
@@catherinesmith5793 Disagree. You can call me uneducated, but I think you’re just saying that because I disagree with you. There are plenty of women that agree with me.
@@kamarwashington it's not about how many people agree with you, that's a bandwagon fallacy. Truth isn't about numbers, it's about facts. I would've appreciated if you had read my comment because I don't see how you can disagree with anything I said unless you just want to be 'right'.
@@catherinesmith5793 Most of your comment is just reiterating what I said, and the second half is just a cope. I was referring to a woman becoming complacent post birth and as a result becoming unhealthy. I think I pretty clearly stated that things aren’t always going to be how they were. It just seems like you don’t like what I’m saying.
Also bigger in most cases means unhealthy. Even during pregnancy many women overeat because “they’re eating for two” which results in them being heavier than they should be after birth (it’s unhealthy).
Also don’t talk to me about fallacies. You literally appealed to authority to make your point.