7 minutes of Paul and Morgan being problematic

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  • @firewalkwifme
    @firewalkwifme Рік тому +161

    Alright you can finish vacuuming 🙄🙄💅💅

    • @DeconstructingDeeJayGee
      @DeconstructingDeeJayGee  Рік тому +43

      He's so gracious!! She can finish cleaning up after him before she moves on to other tasks for him

  • @ryanoneal8480
    @ryanoneal8480 Рік тому +118

    "what happens if you find out after marriage that you arent sexually attracted to uour partner?"
    morgan : makes knowing face
    😂😂💀💀💀💀

    • @mrs.h4604
      @mrs.h4604 Рік тому +27

      😂 Morgan's thoughts are right there on her face. Girl, we didn't need Paul to confirm that he is a 2 pump chump.

    • @ryanoneal8480
      @ryanoneal8480 Рік тому +25

      @@mrs.h4604 hell, with the way they are raised he may not see anything wrong w/ finishing fast and first. you think he's ever been taught to value the female orgasm?

    • @mrs.h4604
      @mrs.h4604 Рік тому

      @@ryanoneal8480 i am certain paul does not believe in (or at least does not care about) the female orgasm.

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 8 місяців тому +4

      @@ryanoneal8480He’s too selfish

    • @psychicrenegade
      @psychicrenegade Місяць тому

      She also implied that her being married to a clueless (but horny) virgin, with no knowledge or experience (much less expertise,) could be God's way of punishing her for having premarital sex! 😂

  • @penne4107
    @penne4107 Рік тому +96

    He only said he doesn’t find ADHD as spiritual because he has ADHD😭

  • @thecluest
    @thecluest 9 місяців тому +64

    it always scares me when christians say “your body belongs to your partner when your married”. That’s actually terrifying to me.

    • @bmiller7419
      @bmiller7419 7 місяців тому +11

      When he said that, I felt sick to my stomach. It makes it sound like he’s referring to her as an object to be used… like some sort of adult toy.

    • @TheGoodWin777
      @TheGoodWin777 7 місяців тому +1

      Christians aren’t the only ones who say things like that so chill

    • @carina-nonbinary
      @carina-nonbinary 4 місяці тому +3

      ​@@TheGoodWin777 that doesn't make the statement any better dafuq

  • @Bright_Broccoli
    @Bright_Broccoli Рік тому +88

    These people are depressing.

  • @SomewhereInTheMaidenverse
    @SomewhereInTheMaidenverse 8 місяців тому +53

    Morgan always looks and sounds stoned. Paul is a narcissist who only cares about himself.

    • @MissSchnickfitzel
      @MissSchnickfitzel 8 місяців тому +10

      She probably sounds like that because she might be exhausted and depressed

    • @lunamothfitzpatrick7571
      @lunamothfitzpatrick7571 6 днів тому

      @@SomewhereInTheMaidenverse years ago I noticed Morgan would always say, “I used to think this, but then Paul told me that and now I agree with him.” Maybe she’s trying somewhat to turn herself off as not to provoke him.

  • @lifewithamy8528
    @lifewithamy8528 Рік тому +145

    I love how his example of her being too busy for sex is her vacuuming. God forbid she was doing something for herself instead.

    • @JoseEduardo1594-
      @JoseEduardo1594- Рік тому +7

      Lmfao 😂

    • @helloworld7818
      @helloworld7818 11 місяців тому +4

      She looks happy so whatever. The guy is hot enough, she's beautiful, it looks like they're happy... If she's happy being submissive then it's her own business

    • @lifewithamy8528
      @lifewithamy8528 11 місяців тому +17

      @@helloworld7818 it’s called being brainwashed. I was brainwashed into that cult when I was a young adult too and I took my power back.

    • @DeconstructingDeeJayGee
      @DeconstructingDeeJayGee  11 місяців тому +11

      If she wants to choose that, great, but she speaks prescriptively to others that they must choose the same as her lest they incur God's wrath. She's using her choice to deny others a choice by using religion to manipulate. That's not what someone who's happy about their life does.

    • @lifewithamy8528
      @lifewithamy8528 11 місяців тому

      @@DeconstructingDeeJayGee well looks like you drank the koolaid too. Religion is a cult used to manipulate women.

  • @charliecamelia3601
    @charliecamelia3601 Рік тому +80

    no one:
    Paul: Oh erm, excuse me kind lady, *twiddles fingers* but I would like to remind you that your body LITERALLY belongs to me now! *tips fedora*
    Piss off, Incellimus Prime.

  • @goduxunike
    @goduxunike Рік тому +92

    I hate the fact that they brought a kid into this loveless and toxic marriage. She needs to get away from this dude, be by herself and surrounded by healthy people for years and rediacover herself. Does she even know how a healthy relationship looks and feels like. That poor kid

    • @dualscreengrant
      @dualscreengrant Рік тому

      Conservative Christians think that their kids will turn out to be clones of their parents in their social, political and religious views. I was in a chatroom with someone who described reproducing as "Creating children of God." I said "What if one of your kids becomes an atheist?" and they said they'd kick them out, and wouldn't allow atheists in their house. It's similar if one of their kids is gay. They won't allow it and probably will force their kids to live on their own.

    • @cali115
      @cali115 4 місяці тому +2

      Two kids now.

  • @annac6986
    @annac6986 Рік тому +87

    My godless, heathen marriage is SO much more healthy, happy, and fulfilling than these two 'pure', bible belieivng people.
    I can't imagine fighting with my spouse as much as they do. I can't imagine my husband even wanting to have sex if I was not into it or in the mood, what fun is that?! My husband is my best friend, I genuinely enjoy his company. We have disagreements or may get frustrated from time to time, but we have open communication and everything is resolved quickly and amicably. We are partners in everything. Marriage is never hard, life is hard and we are there to support one another through it.
    Just so bizarre that they feel qualified to give any sort of advice when they are both obviously unhappy in their marriage and lives. I think the only joy they get from life is through judging others, literally feeling 'holier than thou'. What a sad existence for this short life we are given.

    • @MissSchnickfitzel
      @MissSchnickfitzel 8 місяців тому +1

      My bf and i bicker (not that rare, we are both autistic lol) and have arguments sometimes but yea we dont rly have any standing issues.
      Im a heathen too and he grew up christian but denounces christianity now. Christians seem so sad. His super strict christian parents have daily screaming matches since he was a baby

    • @mtdouthit1291
      @mtdouthit1291 7 місяців тому

      Omg yesssss thissss

  • @heathermarie3672
    @heathermarie3672 Рік тому +73

    Because nothing gets anyone hornier than vacuuming. 😂😂

  • @JuniperGal-ek2pu
    @JuniperGal-ek2pu 4 місяці тому +9

    As a Christian, this is wrong on so many levels. 💀

  • @derbaeckerhatnichtauf
    @derbaeckerhatnichtauf 10 місяців тому +49

    0:46 "Do not deprive your spouse of sex"
    This guy has openly admitted in so many different ways that he is pressuring and guilt tripping his wife to have sex with him, also called: raping his wife.

  • @erinjean2695
    @erinjean2695 10 місяців тому +20

    Someone should have done them a favor and objected to these two being married. Ugh.

    • @DeconstructingDeeJayGee
      @DeconstructingDeeJayGee  10 місяців тому +9

      Sadly Morgan's mom convinced her to go through with it after a disastrous first date where she didn't want to give him a second chance

    • @OzmaOfOzz
      @OzmaOfOzz 6 місяців тому +4

      She even vomited on the altar, but no, that's not a sign your body is rejecting the whole idea... I'm sad for her but also enraged by her

  • @Gorlcaptain
    @Gorlcaptain 5 місяців тому +7

    “Your body is not your own anymore!” Uh WWAHT

  • @bruhmoment2578
    @bruhmoment2578 10 місяців тому +33

    That poor child, that’s gonna be a terrifying childhood growing up. Bullying might be prevalent

  • @cb034
    @cb034 Рік тому +32

    These guys are exhausting

  • @stuff1784
    @stuff1784 8 місяців тому +10

    These two remind me of my religious parents. They are doing the subtle undercut jabs at each other. My dad is SUCH a narcissist and my mom is EXTREMELY depressed and never has any energy.
    People tell me I all the time how lucky I was to have married parents who were Christian and stable!!
    Except they acted exactly like this.

    • @jjmcwill1881
      @jjmcwill1881 6 місяців тому

      You were lucky you spoiled brat.

  • @jsmit9484
    @jsmit9484 2 місяці тому +2

    It's like 2 children read a vacuum cleaner manual and used it to govern their whole relationship.
    Disturbing

    • @coletrickle1775
      @coletrickle1775 Місяць тому +1

      Pretty solid summation of theist relationships

  • @mrs.h4604
    @mrs.h4604 Рік тому +42

    Did these knuckleheads say they wouldn't come to their son's wedding if he was gay? How sad!!

  • @GH-fb9dh
    @GH-fb9dh 11 місяців тому +38

    “Do not deprive your spouse sex, your body is not your own anymore” omg that’s… marital rape

  • @mileso1042
    @mileso1042 3 місяці тому +3

    i’d rather be alone for the rest of my then be in a relationship like this 🤢

  • @targaghjj
    @targaghjj Рік тому +24

    AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! OK, I'm better now. AHHHHHHHH--

  • @JulietteVeronica1201
    @JulietteVeronica1201 4 місяці тому +6

    “Your body is not your own anymore.” EXCUSE ME?? Your body NEVER belongs to anyone else.

  • @createwithme5458
    @createwithme5458 8 місяців тому +5

    So at 4 mins that doesn’t apply to her husband demanding sex whenever he feels like it?? I feel genuinely bad for these people this is really sad

  • @lunamothfitzpatrick7571
    @lunamothfitzpatrick7571 28 днів тому +3

    I was married to someone who thought that because I was his wife he was entitled to have sex with me whenever he felt like, and if I didn’t want to I was in the wrong. My body “wasn’t “my own anymore” was what I was told essentially. This led to sexual abuse and conceiving a baby through r**e. Paul saying these things really is promoting “r**e culture”, and he’s basically admitting to sexually abusing his wife. Even if he doesn’t force himself on her, using those kind of emotionally abusive tactics is also a form of sexual abuse. He’s also promoting this kind of thing to young people. Unforgivable.

    • @DeconstructingDeeJayGee
      @DeconstructingDeeJayGee  28 днів тому +1

      I'm so sorry you had to go through that. None of us deserved that. Not even Morgan deserves that. It's really gross to see people who stand up for that kind of lack of bodily autonomy (as is seen in other parts of my comments section)

    • @lunamothfitzpatrick7571
      @lunamothfitzpatrick7571 28 днів тому +1

      @@DeconstructingDeeJayGee unfortunately I’m not surprised to hear that. A lot of Paul and Morgan’s comment sections are full of this kind of thing. Really sad how they keep promoting this kind of thing, therefore contributing to others being sexually assaulted. Thank you for your sympathy and for this video that will hopefully open people’s eyes to how abusive their content is.

  • @carina-nonbinary
    @carina-nonbinary 4 місяці тому +2

    I still can't believe Morgan covered "till it happens to you" by lady gaga before getting together with paul and now that dude is like openly admitting to raping her. She knows better :') run girl run

  • @yoyocswpg
    @yoyocswpg Місяць тому +1

    I actually feel sorry to hear Morgan says it is God punishing her. I mean every joke is half meant.

  • @donna3465
    @donna3465 3 місяці тому +2

    “Your body is not your own anymore.” WHAT??!?

    • @donna3465
      @donna3465 3 місяці тому +1

      I 1000% believe that God created sex to be amazing for two people who are in love.

    • @coletrickle1775
      @coletrickle1775 Місяць тому

      @@donna3465 You should be able to demonstrate a god exists before you believe it does stuff. Just saying. Also, if it's the christian god you mean, then you couldn't be more in disagreement with your nonsense holy book. Good talk though.

  • @aliciaramos614
    @aliciaramos614 Рік тому +25

    But you realize your husband is actually gay (homosexual) right?

    • @Julie86Mac
      @Julie86Mac Рік тому +10

      finally someone says it!!

  • @elllie
    @elllie 10 місяців тому +11

    Is She drunk or high on something?

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 8 місяців тому +3

      That’s what I’m wondering. She always slurs her words and takes big breaths.

    • @carina-nonbinary
      @carina-nonbinary 4 місяці тому +3

      Maybe really depressed. At least at my lowest lows i also act like that

  • @madybright6136
    @madybright6136 Рік тому +12

    Morgan scares me 🤨

  • @hwhack
    @hwhack 7 місяців тому +7

    "Your body is not your own anymore." Holy shit. That guy is a christian control freak. He's definitely killed people.

  • @RavenThe4thMusician
    @RavenThe4thMusician Рік тому +8

    Paul gives Dennis from its always sunny

  • @brendasmith7345
    @brendasmith7345 Рік тому +13

    It’s a cult. 💯!

  • @TheHighTowerMinistry
    @TheHighTowerMinistry 17 днів тому

    These people have a very mean spirit, i wouldnt want to be close to them

  • @mildrose898
    @mildrose898 8 місяців тому +7

    They are not for each other. God would also agree about that.

  • @scarycarry2507
    @scarycarry2507 7 місяців тому +2

    These people creep me out.

  • @angryunicornproductions2633
    @angryunicornproductions2633 8 місяців тому +2

    Glad there shit takes r archived so they cant be ignored

  • @joeyl669
    @joeyl669 Місяць тому

    Only watching rated G movies 😂😂💀 sounds so miserable 😅

  • @kstephane1444
    @kstephane1444 Рік тому +6

    What is she talking about sex with their in her arms? Its grooming

  • @kiraflash4596
    @kiraflash4596 8 місяців тому +2

    Is she high?

  • @johnnysins8921
    @johnnysins8921 Місяць тому

    I think they are just expressing their own views which they have the right to do so. people in the comment section are just bitter and jealous

    • @DeconstructingDeeJayGee
      @DeconstructingDeeJayGee  Місяць тому

      Oh they certainly can say and do what they wanna do. What channels like mine do is point out the problematic nature. Having no bodily autonomy is not cute and it's not something to emulate (despite what evangelical culture does to prop itself up legally and politically). This line of thinking is dangerous and leads to abuse and assault.

  • @quantaviousjenkins7667
    @quantaviousjenkins7667 Рік тому +8

    I must have missed the problematic part from this whole video.

    • @gtbrannog95
      @gtbrannog95 Рік тому +41

      Spotted the fundie

    • @quantaviousjenkins7667
      @quantaviousjenkins7667 Рік тому +2

      @@gtbrannog95 I'm a Christian, but not a fundamentalist

    • @DeconstructingDeeJayGee
      @DeconstructingDeeJayGee  Рік тому +14

      Can you define how your version of Christianity differs?

    • @quantaviousjenkins7667
      @quantaviousjenkins7667 Рік тому

      @@DeconstructingDeeJayGee different theological system. How do you define fundamentalists exactly?

    • @DeconstructingDeeJayGee
      @DeconstructingDeeJayGee  Рік тому +18

      Biblical Inerrancy, infallibility, sufficiency, etc. Interpreting the Bible literally, following protestant orthodoxy (wifely submission, etc). Now there's going to be variety between Baptists, Pentecostals, charismatics, reformed, etc. But most will agree on the aforementioned points to a degree.